How to Handle Conflict | Julia Minson
Why do disagreements spiral into conflict — even when both people think they’re being reasonable?
AJ and Johnny sit down with psychologist Julia to break down the biggest mistake we make in conflict: assuming we understand the other person. From “naive realism” to the limits of perspective-taking, this episode reveals why most arguments become two people trying to correct each other instead of actually listening.
You’ll learn a more effective approach: using language to show real understanding, ask better questions, and stay engaged — even when you strongly disagree.
Chapters
00:00 – Why we…
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