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Why Do I Want a Relationship but Also Want to Be Single? | Relationship Anxiety

Why do you want a relationship when you're single, but miss being single once you're in one? In Episode 57 of In The Messy, Jan explores relationship anxiety, anxious attachment, fear of commitment, and the push-pull between wanting love and wanting freedom.

Learn how to distinguish anxiety from genuine relationship concerns, clarify your needs and values, and use a weighted pros and cons list to make thoughtful decisions without needing perfect certainty.

Whether you're single, dating, or questioning your current relationship, discover how to understand your conflicting feelings and choose a…

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