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Summer Break: Still Comfy? Now and Then · To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

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  Speaker 1: Hey, tolerators, it is officially our summer break for twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty five, and I just wanted to let you know
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  Speaker 1: that the episode you're about to hear is either Patreon
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  Speaker 1: exclusive content I'm making public an episode I thought it
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  Speaker 1: would be fun to revisit from past years, or a
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  Speaker 1: Still Comfy movie review with Julia Washington. I hope you
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  Speaker 1: have a great summer with lots of great memories. I
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  Speaker 1: hope you keep smiling instead of tolerating. And I will
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  Speaker 1: see you in the fall with all new episodes of
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  Speaker 1: To All the Men I've tolerated before. Okay, I think
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  Speaker 1: we're live, that's what like. It didn't do the countdown
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  Speaker 1: like it did it on your channel? Did do a
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  Speaker 1: countdown for you? No? Did you have a countdown? No?
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  Speaker 1: I did not. But I believe that we're live. I
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  Speaker 1: sure hope. So it's sure scheduled in the corner. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it says end broadcast in mind and live in my corner.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, let's see who's to say hi everyone.
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  Speaker 1: This is an uncomfortable intro with Still Comfy. It's his life.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh the metaverse behind the scene. I'm feeling it, keeping
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  Speaker 1: my head right here. So no, one knows that I
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  Speaker 1: just create lighting. Hi everyone, this is Still Comfy with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts Nat and Jewels. Today we'll be talking about
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  Speaker 1: the nineteen ninety five Class movie now and then we
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  Speaker 1: don't have a theme song yet on Still Comfy, So
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  Speaker 1: instead I will just ask Jules, what's your favorite song
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  Speaker 1: from the iconic soundtrack? You know, when they're riding their bike. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the Other City Shelby huh m, not three Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: I love a song that has like folk. I just
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  Speaker 1: did the banging, which is yeah, like literally, I love
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  Speaker 1: a song on it that also has sound effects. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's interactive. Mario's here. That's a good reminder if you
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  Speaker 1: were in the audience. We can see that people are watching,
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  Speaker 1: but we don't really see who you are unless you
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  Speaker 1: tell us hello. So please tell us hello in the comments,
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  Speaker 1: tell us hi Mario, and tell them hello. I don't know. No,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't look like I can, but I can on
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  Speaker 1: the screen. Mario. I'm just telling him.
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  Speaker 2: I said I finished a simple favor the book, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm halfway through the movie.
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  Speaker 1: He's not gonna like what I have to say. Just
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  Speaker 1: know that I like a simple favor, Mario. So if
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  Speaker 1: we need to talk about it afterwards.
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  Speaker 2: We can't, Nat if I record yourself doing reactions to
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  Speaker 2: my episode of a simple favor one hundred person. Well,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I know, I have no chill. I just
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  Speaker 2: finded keeping my notes on my phone would be a
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  Speaker 2: good thing. But are they I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I have mine. But this is You're You're the lead
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  Speaker 1: this time, so I'm here for you, all right. So
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  Speaker 1: last week, we know, two weeks ago we did Jewel,
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  Speaker 1: we did Elvis. On to pop culture makes me jealous.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna intermingle our show names all the time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just blend them. Should I introduce myself? Go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: introduce yourself, My friends, Julia Washington, host of Pop Pop
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  Speaker 1: Pop Pop Pop, host of Pop Culture makes me jealous.
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  Speaker 1: Where we analyze pop culture through the lines of race
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  Speaker 1: or gender, and sometimes both. Natalie is the friend who
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  Speaker 1: tolerates me the most. She's willing to let me be
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  Speaker 1: her co host. She was willingly, She was willingly co
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  Speaker 1: creators on this show Still Comfy. Yeah, and our first
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  Speaker 1: still Comfy show on YouTube was on Elvis. And what
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  Speaker 1: this movie and Elvis have in common is songs in
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  Speaker 1: this movie are also my comfort soundtrack just like Elvis.
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  Speaker 2: It's a soundtrack, great soundtrack. A lot of black people
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  Speaker 2: on this soundtrack. For having no black people.
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  Speaker 1: In the morte, no black people in this movie, this
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  Speaker 1: movie be so white. I so there's dialogue when the
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  Speaker 1: songs are playing. Did I stop myself from singing to
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  Speaker 1: then listen to the dialogue because I was like, no,
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  Speaker 1: I know what these girls are talking about. I want
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  Speaker 1: to sing. Turns out after all these I still have
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  Speaker 1: this movie movie memorized, right, And I'm not a huge rewatcher.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that this one is one that every
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  Speaker 1: time it was on TV, I was like, and here's
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  Speaker 1: my afternoon because and I listened to the soundtrack like
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  Speaker 1: every day as a kid. It was one of the
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  Speaker 1: first like CDs that I owned. I love that. Do
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  Speaker 1: you remember when everyone lost their ish because it went
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  Speaker 1: on Netflix? Yes? I was one of them. Is it still?
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  Speaker 1: Because I had to pay for it through cable? So
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  Speaker 1: I watched it on that thing that you told me
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  Speaker 1: I would have to watch ads for and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: that would probably be good for my ADHD if I
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  Speaker 1: had an ad in between key parts of the movie,
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  Speaker 1: the meo nope pollutant. I'm gonna stop naming people, and
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  Speaker 1: ain't nobody sponsoring us.
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  Speaker 2: I literally just typed in Netflix and instead of now
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  Speaker 2: and then to see where it's streaming.
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  Speaker 1: You know, my favorite song from the soundtrack is heard
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  Speaker 1: of Our Band of Gold. Now that you're gone, that's
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  Speaker 1: all that's left is a band of Gold. I think
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  Speaker 1: it really set me up to distrust men. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I kind of regret not picking that one. But here's why.
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  Speaker 1: I think the Not three Times is.
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  Speaker 2: My favorite because it's their transition going from one city
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  Speaker 2: to the next, and they're free riding their bikes, super
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  Speaker 2: care free. You know, all of the horrors of the nineties,
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  Speaker 2: of all the little girls going missing at this point
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  Speaker 2: don't exist because it's nineteen seventy, even though they didn't
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  Speaker 2: be sure that Charles Manson was still on the loose
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  Speaker 2: at this point.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I would have survived the seventies. No,
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  Speaker 1: I would member right away Tragic Fear. Oh it's on TV, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: that's where I watched it. We have two viavers now
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  Speaker 1: say hello, so we know who you are because you
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  Speaker 1: can't see you were so happy here. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: joining us. This is still company. We're talking about our
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  Speaker 1: favorite well, one of my favorite movies. It's also one
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  Speaker 1: of jules favorite movies. Now and Then, Oh I promised
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  Speaker 1: Mario a Pretty Little Liar's connection. Oh yeah, I saw that,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, Yes, the woman who wrote Now
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  Speaker 1: and Then also wrote and produced Pretty Little Liars. I
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  Speaker 1: immediately clocked her name when I went to look and
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  Speaker 1: see where I could watch it. Oh my gosh, that's wild.
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  Speaker 1: That is wild because Pretty Little Liars completely opposite vibe.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, so, is this an endorsement for
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  Speaker 2: me to watch Pretty Little Liars? Because I realized the
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  Speaker 2: nineties had so many femme forward, female led movies yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that were strong and super like. Hey were people to
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  Speaker 2: stop treating us like trash? That I feel like that's
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  Speaker 2: a huge part of why I am who I am today.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm still really Pretty Little Liars. I'm still reeling
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  Speaker 1: that you haven't watched Pretty Little Liars. No do I
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  Speaker 1: look like the type of person who watches trash. I
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  Speaker 1: watch every show on free Form, whether or not it's good. No,
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  Speaker 1: Pretty was that always a free form show. It was
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  Speaker 1: on ABC Family and then it was on transition from
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  Speaker 1: ABC Family two three FORMA. I'm shopped by that. I
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  Speaker 1: can't believe it. Hey, you know, I think they.
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  Speaker 2: I think after they did The Secret Life of the
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  Speaker 2: American Teenager or whatever, I watched it such trash.
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  Speaker 1: I watched a couple of episodes. I think that's where
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  Speaker 1: I was like, and I'm good for a while, and
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  Speaker 1: then Freeform brought like really good stuff like Grown Ish
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  Speaker 1: and the Bold Type. Who else was on it? Sorry
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  Speaker 1: for that big pop in your ears, friends, Mario ps
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  Speaker 1: L or p l L stand here, you can be
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  Speaker 1: We'll allow it. Well, but back to this, I can't
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  Speaker 1: believe that. No, only pretty Little Liars is what broke
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  Speaker 1: ABC Family because those pretty little liars started getting naked
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  Speaker 1: and then they were like, we have to change the
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  Speaker 1: name of this channel. Is it Isn't it a book series?
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  Speaker 1: It is a book series? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I
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  Speaker 1: have a bunch of little dots on my arms. Should
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  Speaker 1: be worried, I don't know. I'm never worried I have.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't wash makeup off of my wrist, so how'd
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  Speaker 1: that get there? I don't know. I'm worried about it later,
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  Speaker 1: truly living off of chocolate, so that that's probably why.
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  Speaker 1: So there's also okay, so there's a big mystery surrounding
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  Speaker 1: me and now and then, and it has to do
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  Speaker 1: with one of my nineties crushes, Thora Birch. Nineties heart
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  Speaker 1: throb Devin Sawa is in this movie. He was my
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  Speaker 1: nineties crush. Thora Birch is my crush in all things,
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  Speaker 1: And I was, all I want to know is where
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  Speaker 1: she is? Where's Thora birt Could someone please like check
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  Speaker 1: in on Thora Birch for me? You're not still acting
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  Speaker 1: she is, but it's in nothing that I've seen. Don't
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  Speaker 1: go ahead. It's not like I'm watching Gray's Anatomy and
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden there's my nineties heart throb Thora Birch,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, there she is. It's trainy, it's teeny.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Mario, do you have a crush on
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  Speaker 1: Christina Ricci because I find her fascinating. Are you watching
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  Speaker 1: Yellow Jackets? Anyone who is watching Yellow Jackets please comment it? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Mario's seen Yellow Jackets. He's actually Matt He was actually like,
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe you haven't watched it, Julia. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: that's a legit conversation we've had.
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  Speaker 2: Well, but now that it's nominated, now that it has
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  Speaker 2: so many Emmy nominations.
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  Speaker 1: I need to sit down and like the time to
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  Speaker 1: watch it. Everyone needs to comment if they've watched Yellow Jackets,
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  Speaker 1: because I need friends to talk to about Yellow Jackets
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  Speaker 1: because none. My mom made me download Showtime. I still
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  Speaker 1: have it because what if I missed when season two
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  Speaker 1: came out here, they'll probably come out in twenty twenty three,
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  Speaker 1: so who knows? Okay now? And then thora Birch is
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  Speaker 1: your crush? She is? I just love her. Oh, I
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  Speaker 1: do love Casper, but Devin Casper. Yeah, same year. Did
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  Speaker 1: you see the weird Devin Sala movie where him and
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  Speaker 1: his brother His brother might have been a Laurence brother,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't think that's right. They go to a mountain.
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  Speaker 1: They go to a mountain that's filled with Kodiak bears
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  Speaker 1: and they're gonna do like, isn't it like the gold
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  Speaker 1: something or other Golden Rush? Hold on, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: It's got you guys, stop asking me to look at
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  Speaker 1: stuff when we're supposed to be talking about something specific.
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  Speaker 1: Wild America. Yeah, no, one, It's one of those movies
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  Speaker 1: that I'm convinced I made up because when I go
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  Speaker 1: do you remember when Devin Sawa went to go visit
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  Speaker 1: Kodiak bears in their natural habitat. People are like, what, no,
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  Speaker 1: Jonathan Taylor Thomas is in it. Yeah, that's the other
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  Speaker 1: famous person. It's not a Lawrence brother. It might be
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  Speaker 1: the oldest Lawrence brother. But in now and then, there
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  Speaker 1: was a common thread that I found with all of
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  Speaker 1: the adult actresses. So I'm watching the adults because I
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  Speaker 1: love that now and then like bounces between the childhood
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  Speaker 1: and the adults, and I'm looking and I'm like, all right,
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  Speaker 1: is Debbie Moore still cool? Or is she still a
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  Speaker 1: joke because she made a mistake and married Ashton Kutcher.
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  Speaker 1: And then I keep watching and in present day, in
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  Speaker 1: present day, is she still cool because she was made
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  Speaker 1: a joke by Ashton Kutcher? And then I'm still watching,
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  Speaker 1: And then we get Rosie O'Donnell, and I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: miss when Rosie O'Donnell was cool and we could count
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  Speaker 1: on Rosie o'donnald like being the queen of kindness and
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  Speaker 1: not being a joke, just literally being joyful. But then
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  Speaker 1: we turned her into a joke.
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  Speaker 2: The nineties were kind of a magical time if you
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  Speaker 2: think about it, Like we were still and I don't
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  Speaker 2: know if it's because we were kids, so we were
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  Speaker 2: naive to a lot of the things that were actually
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  Speaker 2: kind of horrific happening.
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  Speaker 1: But like Rosie was the queen of kindness to memore
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  Speaker 1: was still cool. She was hot and beautiful and like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, all these great like I said, all these
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  Speaker 1: great movies that came out for kids like us, all
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  Speaker 1: these great all of these great movies. And then to
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  Speaker 1: round it out, Melanie Griffin is in this movie and
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  Speaker 1: we know that we're not kind about her face anymore.
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  Speaker 1: It makes me upset. We're not. People are like, oh
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  Speaker 1: she got surded me.
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  Speaker 2: Well, she probably got surgery because the media, meaning all
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  Speaker 2: the people probably bullied her.
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  Speaker 1: About how she looked and aging. We're not pro aging
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  Speaker 1: in this culture. We're not aging. So the only one
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  Speaker 1: who made it out of not eventually becoming a joke
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  Speaker 1: to their own career and fan base is Rita Wilson,
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  Speaker 1: who's going to go against Rita Wilson. Why she did
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  Speaker 1: give us chat? She gave us what her son chet
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  Speaker 1: have you never seen? No, I only look into that
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  Speaker 1: cute that other one Colin Colin Hanks. That's not her son,
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  Speaker 1: that's her step son.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, well, I mean, I'm sure she would call him
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  Speaker 2: her you only wanted to care about.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you have to watch the z Way interview.
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  Speaker 1: It's on Choe Time with Chet Hanks.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like, I don't want to write it for you,
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  Speaker 2: but live but livetime voice memoi.
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  Speaker 1: I will you know I will? Yeah. Yeah. Gold Digger
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  Speaker 1: Escape to Bear Mountain.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the one I was thinking of because Wild
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  Speaker 2: America released the same weekend as some like big blockbuster movie.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's probably why I'm the only one Wild America. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: He just posted about it not that long ago, because
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  Speaker 2: the anniversary of its release was recently.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he posted the poster. I loved the roso'
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  Speaker 1: donald show. I loved when she would like fling coucheballs
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  Speaker 1: at him. Yeah, Rosi o'donnald knew we all had undiagnosed ah.
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  Speaker 1: And I love that she had like an audience member
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  Speaker 1: do the intro.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was really sweet, Like that was very inclusive.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. When the Rose o'donald show went off the air,
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  Speaker 1: I was forced to watch Mari Okay, and now look
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  Speaker 1: at me. I deserve compensation.
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  Speaker 2: I told me all he married Connie Chung like that's
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: such a random Like she's actually I don't know if
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: she still is, but she was a prestigious broadcast journalist.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Basically what happened is that she came out and
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: then people got homophobic and then like I haven't seen
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  Speaker 1: Rosie o'donald since she didn't the comeback. She's she's she's working. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she's done a lot of stuff. Where is she?
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  Speaker 2: She she was she was on Smelf Smelf also on Showtime,
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  Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna I'm just gonna pack your.
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  Speaker 1: Showtime, make it worth it. Okay, this is the first
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  Speaker 1: time in my adult life that I've caught that the
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  Speaker 1: neighborhood is called Gaslight addition. Yeah, I was like, how
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  Speaker 1: have I never caught that before? Because if you think
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  Speaker 1: about it, like their whole upbringing is like gaslight Nation, right,
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  Speaker 1: because like you know, now, I'm not gonna remember any
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  Speaker 1: of their names, and I had all of their names
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  Speaker 1: down pat, but Demi Moore's little girl person Sam, her
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  Speaker 1: dad is a liar and leaves. Yeah. Yeah. Christine Laurichi
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  Speaker 1: is trying to make us all forget that she has breast,
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  Speaker 1: which when I was watching it again, it was like
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe I was convinced that those were big
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  Speaker 1: breasts for a twelve year old. I know. I blame
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  Speaker 1: this movie and the over sexualization of children. Yeah, there
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  Speaker 1: were other may Oh Christina Richie's dad lie to her
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  Speaker 1: about how her mom died, which again he did it
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: because her mom died horrifically. Yeah. I was gonna say,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that's a normal thing that adults do
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to death, when it comes to children,
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  Speaker 1: because we as adults don't know how to process death.
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  Speaker 1: And then Brendan Fraser had to let them know that
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: America was gaslighting them about the war. Yeah, and his
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  Speaker 1: was so cute. He was like a walk on. They
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  Speaker 1: don't even credit him in that movie. Oh that's interesting.
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  Speaker 1: He was like famous by that point. What are they
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  Speaker 1: gonna call him? Like the grifter? I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: he knew Demi Moore and they were hanging out and
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  Speaker 1: she was like, we need an extra today. They could
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  Speaker 1: have called him the vet. They could.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, And when I was watching the movie,
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  Speaker 2: I thought things that you can't really do anymore, talk
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  Speaker 2: to strangers like that, take a cigarette, offer cigarettes to
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  Speaker 2: twelve year olds?
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  Speaker 1: Was Brendan Fraser creepy in this movie.
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  Speaker 2: See you know, and if it happened, if it were
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  Speaker 2: to happen in a movie today, right, we'd all be upset.
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  Speaker 2: We'd all be upset, but now nostalgically because they were twelve.
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  Speaker 2: I was eleven when this film came out, So there's
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  Speaker 2: an element of like, oh, I want and you know,
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  Speaker 2: the mid nineties there was still a little bit of
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  Speaker 2: false sense of security about letting your children run the
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  Speaker 2: neighborhood without worrying about him this.
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  Speaker 1: My parents would have been thrilled if I rode my
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  Speaker 1: bike to the next town. Wh's the thing though, as
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  Speaker 1: we know, and as we've talked about before, I was
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  Speaker 1: a wildly unsupervised child. Your mom had a handle on it.
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  Speaker 1: It's fine. For as many rules as my parents believed
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  Speaker 1: that they had did, where were they to like check
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  Speaker 1: in to see if I was doing any of that
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  Speaker 1: wildly unsupervised? She had a handle on it. And it's fine.
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  Speaker 1: My mom had a handle on it. So we had
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  Speaker 1: a bike trail that ran from my neighborhood. It like
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  Speaker 1: had a entrance on the park that sat in the
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: center of my neighborhood in Indiana. Right in Indiana, where
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: this film is also set, where this film takes place,
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  Speaker 1: and when my sister and I were like in the
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  Speaker 1: fifth grade, like fifth and fourth grade, we would ride
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  Speaker 1: our bikes all the way downtown and just be gone.
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  Speaker 1: This is before cell phones, this is before you could
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: track your kids, and it's like, where are your kids downtown?
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know, and we would just be gone with
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: all of our like jerk ass friends. We didn't have
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: a trail. But the way the neighborhood was laid out,
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: excuse me, it was really easy to get into other neighborhoods,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: so it was very easy to end up on the
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: other side of town. For sure, Downtown was a little
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: bit harder to try and get to, but that's because
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: the layout of the city I live. But yeah, parents
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: were definitely like, you're not allowed to leave the neighborhood,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: and so we challenged what that meant define neighborhood because
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: if it's.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: If this is all the same school district, then it's
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: still the neighborhood, you know, fifteen blocks over.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: It's fine, it's fine, it's fine. I'm assuming that's page Lily, Lily,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: that's confusing. Do you have an alter ego? Watch me
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: just b rate the people that show up to our
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: show to support I'm like, wait, did Ellen always undershow
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: be kind to one another? She was cruel, toll al
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: every guest but Ellen's me. Oh, it's page hype page,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: that's page, that's not her name. Page was my professional. Well,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: we are okay with that. We are okay with that.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: We're okay with whatever. You want to talk to, your
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: call yourself.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: You know what's funny. I've also wrote down Roberta's obsession
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: with her boobs.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Yes, because here's I thought that Roberta's obsession with her boobs.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: If this movie was remain like they're doing a league
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: of their own, Yeah, wouldn't you believe that adult Roberta
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: would end up in the queer community.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: So I actually thought when grown up Brita Wilson, grown
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: up Chrissy said, and.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: With Roberta's alternative lifestyle, I thought she was going to
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: refer to her having a female partner, and then she
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: said living with her partner in sin And that was like,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: because everything, it's not a nineties alternative of That was
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: not a nineties alternative lifestyle. I understood at eleven years
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: old in nineteen ninety five, that alternative lifestyle meant that
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: you were living with a same sex partner. Pages with me,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Paige crows up, Roberto would have ended up in the
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: queer community. Yeah, that's why she was so weird about
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: her boobs.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: And there's no there's not enough kissing because when she
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: kissed Devin Sawah, she go.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: That was great, and she was like, what it was okay?
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, excuse me. If I had kissed
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: Devin Sawah, I would not have said it was okay.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: So one hundred percent Roberta is not a fan. Yeah,
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: and we needed to give her that space, and we needed.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: To give her that space, and we needed to give
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Rosie o'donald that space in nineteen ninety five. Let these
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: people live their truth. Yes, do you know what? I
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: wasn't as uncomfy about as I thought I would be
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: uncomfy about. And I still found it very huh well,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: nothing good. I'm always un about that, but I actually
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: still found it really endearing that Teeny was the hot one,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: and I wrote down I cannot wait to be grown
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: up Teeny going to my high school reunion being like,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: what up hose? I'm famous?
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: I so you know, when Melanie Griffith is like REBERTA,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: how big are your boobs now?
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: And she's like, how big are yours? And she's like
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: thirty sixteen worth every penny. I repeated that line so
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: often and like reenacted that scene so often, and now
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I really wish I didn't. I have bigger than that,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: and I'm not happy about it. The one for me
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: is the acceptance speech that she's just practicing. But she's like,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: why yes, Joel, You're right. It was a big blackbuster. Yeah,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: that's who I am. I do love Thora Birch, like
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: we should we should do ghost World one day. That's
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: a great film, ghost World, and it could be uncomfy, yeah,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: because they make Thora bird be with that weirdo.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I mean the summer before the summer when
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: it came out on O two. Yeah, spring. I don't
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: whatever the point is. In my senior year, we watched
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: it all the time, all the time.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I watched it again if it was on TV, I
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: was like, oh ghost World again. I don't even know
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: if my parents ever knew that I watched it because
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: I'm seven ish years younger than you. Right, Oh my god, no,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: not that many? Why who am I thinking of then
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: you're thirty three, right, Yeah, I'm so bad at man.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: We were born in the same decade. Thank god. I
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: am so bad at math. That's why I got your
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: poll wrong. Oh I love that. I was trying to
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: do the math and I'm like, I'm this many. Yeah, no,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I you were five years waiting. Yeah you're four.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Because four, but it's closer to five because your birthday's
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: in December and my birthday in March. Yeah, so we
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: spend more time being five years apart than we do
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: being four.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you've walked me through that before. I'm
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: just dumb. It's okay. I have this weird.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: Obsession with ages because I look at whenever, like people
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: from one hundred years ago, when I look at their
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: death dates, and so then I calculate, okay, so how
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: much time?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: How much more time does that potentially mean? I have?
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: This person was born in eighteen eighty and they died
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: in nineteen twenty five.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Helpful guy, Like, I do that shit all the time
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: in my head.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: It's not healthy. No, we're there, it's gonna be okay.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: So I can't wait to be like rolling up to
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: my little Indiana town with my already big boobs and
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: just being like, hello everyone, it's me that you never
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: thought you'd see me again. Because I've built a global empire.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: We have like I think, like two more years until
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: my I graduated in two thousand and seven, so you
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: have five years. We got five years to make that happen. Yeah,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: we can make that happen. I think I could tell
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: my high school anything they wanted't know. I wish I
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: could my reunion Saturday, my twenty year try telling them anything.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Who's gonna fight you? Let's do a romea Michelle's actually
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Carly's gonna be my date. Yes, please wear the Romaia
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Michelle's dresses and then do the dance. I gotta figure
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: out time to go shopping for an outfit because I've
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: packed my schedule this week like a dumb dumb because
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: of my sadness of my child being out of town.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: So I really and like I had like sat with
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: myself with it. I was like, Okay, remember they sexualize
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: a very young thora birch, which means that you also
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: sexualized a very young thora birch because you were in
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: love with her, so like be ready for that. But
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: I felt like it was still like a very twelve
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: year old's viewpoint of sexy, Like when they're doing the
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Cosmo magazine and she's like, I'm a sex spot. Thank god.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I was like I was kind of that kid. Or
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: when she fills the balloons with uh fudding, because it's
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: more natural. This is more natural. She's a scientist, she
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: did trials. She weird, it was wiggily. Those guys gave
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: me the idea when they threw those bulloons at us,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: threw those She's a scientist. She's a sexy scientist. Oh
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: my gosh, yup, see because they gave us the idea
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: for that. No, I please please know that I've been
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: carrying around these nonga nungas since I was twelve. I
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: never had to stop. I didn't bind like Roberta, but
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: I also didn't know what to do. I believe I
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: just walked around like this. I will tell.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: You like, no, I mean sorry for shade on my mom.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: I probably should have been put in a broad.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: At eight years old, probably, and I didn't get one
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: until oh my god, my cousin got married in nineteen
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: ninety eight. I was fourteen. Do you remember which is
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: which was too? I was probably already a bea cup
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: at that point. Do you remember the first time you
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: were traumatized about your own breasts? Oh? I was at
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: the doctor.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, and he lifted up my shirt all the way
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: to listen to my heartbeat. And my mother was sitting
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: right there and didn't say anything after that. Sall, I
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent wore a big.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Ass shirt to the doctor.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: Lo and behold, turns out that's not how they listened
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: to your fucking heartbeat at all. And like it was
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: so like that memory is seared into my head. If
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: I think about it too hard, it makes me very uncomfortable.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: And it's that coupled with not wearing a bra until
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: I was probably thirteen or fourteen years It had to
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: have been fourteen, because we were in Montana looking at
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: bra I think maybe we were in Montana maybe when
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: we came back.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: The bottom line.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: The point is is this is why, like I have
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: friends who will wear these beautiful lacey bras, but there's
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: just like a thin layer of lace, and that makes
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: me very uncomfortable because that means that you could still
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: see if I'm cold, or potentially see through it even
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: through my shirt.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: So I need a nice thick layer of material between
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: my shirt and my boob. So we'll get their page
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: about the trauma finding stretch marks for the first time,
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: I honestly wish I knew. I wish I had clocked it.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: But the first time that I was traumatized about my
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: own breast is. We used to have a friend who,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: because of some family situations, spent a lot of Monday
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: nights at our house and we would watch De Grassy, which,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: if you're ready to get comfy about De Grassy, you
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: just let me know. You just let me know with Drake,
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Right with Drake, Drake makes me uncomfy. He mixed. Okay,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: well we don't need to claim them. But team also
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: grooming Millie Bobby Brown, So if anyone would like to
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: direct her this way so I could like have an
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: honest heart to heart with her, please. I was having
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: a conversation with somebody about persuasion and how I was
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: disappointed with Dakota Johnson.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: There's your Melanie Griffith connection portrayal because her British accent,
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: and so someone's like, who what other young twenty something
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: actress could do it? Millie Bobby Brown, And I was like, Babe,
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: that child is the same age as my child.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: She'd just been sexualized. Yeah, she just got Kim Kwiggs
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: and they make her post weirdly in magazines. Yeah, where
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: was I going? Oh? So he would come over. He
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: would spend the night on Mondays and my mom would
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: get him ready for school on Tuesdays. It was like
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: a thing. It happened every week. Whatever. I came down
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: wearing roughly shorts for pj's. It was a Winnie the
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: Pooh PJ set and then it had like a tank
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: top with it, like it was a pajama set. Yeah,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: And I thought I was doing the responsible thing because
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I matched my tops to my bottoms and I usually
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: don't do that. That's what you do. That's why the
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: set exists. Met Like I went the extra mile because
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: we had company and I matched my tops to my bottoms.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: I have a story for you about pajamas offline that
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: I can't share publicly.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Wonderful. And I thought that like I had completed the assignment. Well,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I had freed the nunga nungas because they had been
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: trapped all day. I mean, it's the best feeling in
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: the world. And I walked downstairs and my mom grabbed
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: my arm and yanked me and I went white, put
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: them back, and she went, he's over. It's Monday night,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: and I went, I mean, this was a kid that
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I had like grown up with from the time that
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: I was in fourth grade until whatever year this is ye,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I mean, he's like my sister and
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: I were too lazy to walk our asses all the
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: way to our house after the summer school that my
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: mom forced us to be in so she didn't have
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: to look at us, And so we would stop at
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: his house watch Labyrinth and Logan's Run, and then be
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: in his school all day. Sometimes we had swimsuits, sometimes
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: we jumped in in our t shirts. Like he had
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: seen me in every iteration of myself. But that day
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: my mom clocked how big my boobs were and she went, Eh,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: he can't be looking. He can't see you like that. Yeah,
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: And then it was like, and that's for when your
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: uncles come over, when you're staying the night with your
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: cousins at your aunt's house, any of it. I also remember,
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: have you ever been told by an uncle that they
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: won't hug you anymore? No, All of my family lives
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: long distance, so we didn't grow up with the uncles.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: We only grew up with aunties. So my uncles also
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: live long distance, but we you know, visited. Yeah. I
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: went in for the hug with my dad's brother and
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: he literally like ghosted away from me. And I'm like,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: and he went, uncles don't hug. Now every uncle on
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: my mom's goddamn side of the family. Like you could
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: like literally be lifted off the ground with the veracity
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: that people want to hug over on that side of
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: that family. Yeah, that's interesting. I just saw my uncle
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: a month ago and he hugged me. Nope, it's a
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: uncles don't hug. And it was because I was a
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: teenager and I had tits, I know it. Huh. So
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I get where Roberta is coming from, Like you get
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: your tits in and she's in a house full of
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: boys who rough house. You know, there's no there's no
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: other influence other than this sort of like I mean,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: we see them fucking fighting in front of her, rolling
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: around on the ground in front of her door. The
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: fact that she had as good of a bra on
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: as she did for the seventies. Yeah, with the dad
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: buying for her shocked and aunt probably had to come
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: into day and you know that tape her when she
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: took it off because it was on her back. Yeah,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Christina Ricci, we weren't thinking. Oh no. And I will
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: say that I think this movie did sort of help
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: me understand that I could tape my boobs if I
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: wanted to. Yeah, but I don't want to. It seems
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: very painful, and like.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm so glad that they make the high
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: intensity on sports spras now right due.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: To the casual groping of the late nineties early two thousands,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: when I had the luxury of going to middle school.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: In high school, my boobs and I had kind of
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: like a detached relationship where men would grope me in
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: the lunchline and I'd go, that's fine because they're just
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: like right there, what are they not. They're not just
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: gonna like bump their entire hand into it, cup it
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: a little. So that makes you uncomfortable because that also
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: happens to me, and I have a large posterior. Yeah. Yeah,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: casual grouping of the nineties early two thousand's, okay, go
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: for it. Oh, I know, you said, I said, yeah. Uh. Also,
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: because I have no concept of time, and you know this. Yeah,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: I thought Bonnie Hunt and Christina Ricci were the same age.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: So when Bonnie Hunt showed up as thora Birch's mom,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's right. I thought Christie's mom
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: as Chrissie's mom. Yeah, which I love that scene. A
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: garden like you have to you have to have a
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: hose to water a small hosts will work too. Yeah.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: And then Chrissy goes with her with your trash mouth friends.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: I love that line. You. No, I didn't think i'd
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: have to have this talk with you, but because your
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: friends are trash mouths. Huh oh yeah. The side hug.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: M hm. Back to the hug thing.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Mario's comment, we the church I went to, which will
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: not be named, we called it the church's name side hug.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: And then people that I knew in adulthood from that
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: church who left religion that we still refer to it.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: Shall we give each other a blah blah blah side hug?
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, anyway, yeah, the watering can, the watering can.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: And then when they're later at that hangout spot or whatever,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: and Chrissy's like, no, I don't want to get pregnant,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: and I don't want to get pregnant. I'm like Chrissy
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: at pregnant. The fact that Chrissy is the first one
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: to get pregnant blows my mind, and probably the only
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: one to get pregnant. And really, you know that child
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: is twenty. You don't know how this child is because
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: you don't have no concept of time. Yeah, but the
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: if it was October of twenty twenty, excuse me, October
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: of nineteen ninety five. Yeah, this child will be twenty
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: seven this year. Wow, how does that feel? I didn't
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: need that number, so I don't have a life, So
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: this is what I do. But I love that scene
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: because it takes me back to how my mother chose
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: to tell me about sex. And it was through a
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: giant pile of Liveral Spencer romance novels, and she said
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: something along the lines of your grandmother and I love
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: this author. So it was like a generational tradition or something.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: And they're soft, like I remember her saying them, something
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: like this sex is soft and kind or something, so
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: like here you go, oh my god, this is what
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: sex should be. I I learned about it in freshman
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: health class. I had an idea because of pop culture,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: but no one sat me down and had a conversation
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: until we had health my freshman year. I'm sure I
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: also eventually had a health class. God knows. So I
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: grew up in Indiana. Yeah, so I a health class
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: versus Indiana. So I think the only way to get
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: true birth control talk in Indiana was if you took
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: the child development class where they like gave you the
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: robot baby. Oh interesting, Yeah, because making me take care
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: of a baby for the weekend is going to be
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: birth control. No, but then she would at least go
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: into like condoms and other forms of contraceptions. But in
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: regular health class, Hell no, I didn't get out of
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: banana and was like, this is how I did. Right,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: we had I had the health teacher that everyone was
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: like this health like all the students were like this
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: health teacher is good because she'll answer every question, she'll
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: tell you the truth. Da da da.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: And then when she ran for city council in the
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: city where she lived, like the conservatives lost their shit.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: She don't she shouldn't be all this stuff, And I
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: was like, I don't have to see anything wrong with her.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: She was a great health teacher. Like I didn't yeah,
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: Like I didn't have sex in high school, so she
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: did a good job.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: I also didn't have sex in high school. I think
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: it's because of my perm. To be honest, I think
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: it's because I was unattractive in high school. I mean,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: let's be honest. But my friend was at the county
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Fair today and she was like clocking a lot of
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: men that we went to high school with, and I
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: was like, tell them they could have had their chance,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: and now I'm hot and famous, so their loss. We
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: had to take care of a bag of flower You
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: no robot baby, it was a literal robot baby. And
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: maybe not live on the internet. I will tell you
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: about the racism that I went through because of the
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: race of the baby that I got that morning. Yeah,
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: the just an Indiana be racist. So yeah, so sex
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: said was done through sex novels. And my friend Stephanie,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: who's at the county Fair right now, maybe with her kids,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: she used to go. She's like, no, wonder you think
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: men should be like nice to you and put in
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: effort and like give you an orgasm every time. That's
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: how your mom told you to that sex would be.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: It would be in a field and flowery flowers and
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: you would have been brought in from the to the
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: wild wild West to teach a room full of students,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: and the guy that fixed the fiery stove would light
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: a fire in your pants. No, you know, I feel
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: like it's what should happen? What should happen? Yeah? I
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: do feel like there was something to it, like, yeah,
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: I still didn't have men who were nice to me
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: while we were having suck.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: So can we talk about Sam's mom dating for a second. Yes,
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: for small the cameos in this movie are great.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: All the cameos are great. Do you want to know
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: my note for Sam's mom and the divorce? Yeah? I
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: wrote down and as you know, like Sam, I too
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: have a hot mom who loves to do hot mom shit.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: My mom loves hot girl shit to the point where
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: like she tried to be mad at me when I
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: told her that her new puppy was going to ruin
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: her hot girl shit and her hot girl summer, and
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: she's like, what is hot girl shit? I was like,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: it's literally the way that you live your life. And
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: she's like, was it even mean? Though? Like what is that? Me?
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I goes hot girl shit? You do hot girl shit
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: because we hot girls. I go me going to silent disco.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Hot girl shit, you like picking up dog shit because
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: you took your dog to the coffee place, not hot
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: girl shit. Like those are how girls shit girl shit
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: at all? No I one, I was like, Okay, Samantha,
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: we get you're upset. You're twelve. This is a big deal.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: It's the seventies. Nobody understands, you know, divorced at this point, right,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: But as an adult watching it, knowing what we know
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: about the seventies, I love. I love that I'm in
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: charge of the CNNA and roll today, and I love
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: that on your episode you use them to make fun
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: of me, and on my episode, I'm also using them
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: to make fun of me. I've made fun of you
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: once because you didn't watch Pretty Little Liars, and I
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: find that ridiculous story. Please don't be my friend. But
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: as an adult who solo parrot, it was like this
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: moment of like, she has to be in a relationship
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: to survive. It's the seventies, so she can't get a
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: bank account without a husband. She can't. She literally can't
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: do anything but be domesticated, especially in a neighborhood called
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: the gas Light addition, especially in a city like it's
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: in a state like Indiana, like she has to be
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: attached and it so had to put her go go
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: boots on, and she had a go go go find
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: herself another man.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: In Hyaria, which I don't know if that was a
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: good choice. But the point is is that, you know,
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: there's this there's.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: This this thing that movies do when they are period
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: pieces like Now and Then, is where there's such criticism
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: through the child's eyes about this next step mom is making,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: but there's no context for like the actual reason. So
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: in a way, while it's obviously the movies through twelve
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: year old eyes, but we never get a resolution or
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: we never get any sort of explanation later that sort
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: of like shows that Sam maybe later understood like because
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: she wasn't aware of like the disparities that existed for
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: women because she's a child, you know, So there's so
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: it's sort of kind of re perpetuating the fact that
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: her mom is just a hoe trying to be a hoe.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: When she put on her go go boots and she
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: was like hot girl summer, Hot girl summer, because Nancy
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: Sinatra said, so they were all having hot girl summer.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Those girls rode their bikes and met a grifter and
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: stole boys under plants. Yeah, Brendan Fraser was hot. Okay,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say it is. There's no present tense.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: There not everyone ages, Okay, it's genes. Well, and I
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: know that Brendan Fraser was bullied by Hollywood, so that
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: might have gone into it. Yeah, I mean him on
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: TikTok cry because the fan was nice to him. Would
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: be nice to him because I just love personality. Oh,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: that's a bad color for me. Favorite Brendan Fraser movie
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: and Sino Man. Oh, mine is George of the Jungle
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: and we could do it on this show. Have you
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: please tell me you've seen in Sino Man. I don't
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: think I've seen in Cino man. I've seen all of
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: the Mummy movies. And that is my sexuality. Natalie. The
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: minute my kid was old enough, I sat him down
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: and was like, you need to see this movie? What?
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: And I wasn't embarrassed. I'm good, I'm glad. Oh I'm
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: gonna say it live on air, so both of us
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: clock it. I do think that we should take the
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: single mom episode that we were going to do on
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: my show and make a two parter on your show,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: and we talk about single moms and childless women and media. Yeah.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I actually think that's a great idea. I've got a
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: lot of smart Yeah, very smart. We make a good team.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: I'm a genius. My high school reunion, it's gonna be
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: so jealous. Damn it. How can I make my high
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: school reunion jealous? I got four days? You know? Yeah?
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: Let me ask the audience in a pool. Can you
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: do a pool? I've been doing them in the scrollers
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: to try and get comments. I am I should What
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: should I wear? It's supposed to be ninety degrees? Will
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: the laches be there? Little esther which Jeremy Runner went
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: to my high school. I mean.
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: He graduated like ten years before I did. And so
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: did Timothy Oliphant. He he went to my high school,
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: but again also graduated.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: I have a thing for Timothy.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: I was just spotted in Modesto because his folks still
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: live here, so he was in town visiting. He went
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: to his twenty year high school reunion, a giant thing.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: And it's all because of dead Wood. It's all because
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: of their reunion. That's embarrassing. You spelled reunion room And
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: thank god there was a red line. You've already put
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: it on the scroller. You know. Live's hard. Also, so
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: I'm watching Sam and Sam's mom go through a divorce
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: and immediately want to start doing hot girl shit. And
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: I was like, you know, the movie takes place in
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: the seventies. I was keeping the movie takes place in
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: the seventies. I was alive in the nineties. We weren't
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: that much better in Indiana about divorce really, mm hmm.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I remember I remember there being like appointed comment about
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: my friend whose parents were divorced and they rented their
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: house in our neighborhood. They did not own the house
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: in our neighborhood. I remember appointed.
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: That's still a thing, I think, being a rent like,
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: but now everyone's a renter because millennials, younger millennials and
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: gen Z can't afford.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: To buy, right. So I was thinking about it and
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: I was like, you know, what, are we even today
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: better about divorce in the more Midwestern states? I go,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: because everyone wanted to turn on John Mulaney when he
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: got divorced, like we're so weird about divorce. I'm gonna
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: start congratulating people on their divorce. When you told me.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: I feel like when someone tells me that they're getting
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: a divorce, I gauge it first, like are we happy?
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: And if they say yes, and I say congratulations, I'm
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: proud of you for finally getting out.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna say something along the lines.
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: Also, I'm probably the friend who already told you that
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: you probably should have gotten a divorce, because I'm very
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: vocal about whether or not I think that a relationship
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: is bad for somebody.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Right, I'm probably going to tell you something along the
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: lines I'm so happy that you're getting yourself out of
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: a situation that clearly wasn't the right one. Yeah. Yeah.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: And also if and when before you get married and
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: you need to know whether or not it's gonna last,
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: just call me, because I've accurately predicted all of the
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: divorces to the year so far in adulthood.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Another not that I'm proud. I'm not bragging another tie
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: into our one Tree Hill shows that we do on Tuesday.
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: Girls with dead moms always want to be toying with death. Yeah, Roberta,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: what did she do?
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: She jumped off out of the tree and dove into
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: a shallow body of water.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: And then she just pretended to be dead man floating.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't think I understood how morbid
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: that was until later in life.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: And good I'm Chrissie for immediately calling her on it,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: because everyone was kind of tiptoeing around the fact that, like,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: Roberta does weird shit because her mom's dead, And then
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Chrissie was like, hey, people actually care about you. Can
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: you not pretend to be dead? Yeah?
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, from the jump, the movie does a really good
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: job at letting you know that Chrissy and Roberta are
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: the pair that stays in are like solid friendship and
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: probably would have you know what I mean, like yeah,
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: and that Teeny and Sam were the two who felt
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: boxed in when We're gonna leave, Like it was clear
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: from even before we saw Teeny do her you know,
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: acceptance speech in speech.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you recall recent movies that are as honest
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: about like Girlhood as this movie is. I feel like
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: this is very true to Girlhood. It's a very innocent
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: look frozen for you now that you're oh, that's left
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: band of Gold, I don't know, I'm fampa. Well, it's
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: like I said earlier, like the nineties were kind of
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: a magical time because is you have a plot, you
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: stick with the plot throughout the whole movie. There's no
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: super duper like we're going this way and then coming
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: back like it's it's a commitment to the plot. And
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: then the nineties were so fem forward to degree that
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, there's no way any I mean there
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: is because people of my generation are shitty, but people
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: who were obsessed with pop culture, like, we didn't come
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: out unscathed from the Hey, maybe we should have equity
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: because I'm valuable, bitch. Like that's the overwhelming message from
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: a lot of these films from the nineties that were
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: geared towards female audiences. And it's also the young and
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: old gun animal. And it's also there was an idea
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: throughout all nineties fem forward movies that at the end
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: of the day, it was going to be your girlfriends
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: that got you through. Who cares if you kissed Devin Sawa, right.
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: Which I love when she said, please don't tell anybody,
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: because not because she she's embarrassed, because she doesn't want anybody.
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: To know, right, because that's embarrassing to be kissing. Nineties
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: heart throbbed Devin Sawah and get married now, so that
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: would be inappropriate. There's there's very little times that I
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: watch television or movies and I go there it is.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: That is how you depict these middle ages. Before you're
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: a teenager and before you're in after you're like a
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: child child, and never have I am or as one
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: of them. I think that that show does a brilliant
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: job of making sure that there are steaks, but they're
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: not stakes that like a thirteen year old would never have,
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: right Degrassi all over the place.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you know it's interesting too when I think
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: about because I was eleven, so this was I was
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: clearly the audience for this movie, and I clearly related
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: to it, the riding the bikes and just being free
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: in the neighborhood. And then when I was thinking about
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: it a little but deeper too, like this is truly
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: a coming of age narrative. A lot of times we
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: think of coming of age is like, oh, you know,
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: you're going from ten years to adulthood. But really what
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: coming of age is is when you have a transition
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: in life, when something in your life is changing and
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: you are changing and growing from that. But it's been
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: co opted to be the stories about like I'm graduating
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: high school and what the fuck next kind of show
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: and now and then really does encapsulate as you're saying
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: that transition of hey, where, cause you can kind of
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: tell that after this summer, the four girls are still close,
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: but they're kind of these two are going this way
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: and these two are going this way.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm glad that you brought that
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: point because when Demi Moore does that last monologue about
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: that summer kind of being the summer that fractured them,
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: I go, I must have never paid attention to that
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: line before, because I'm like, no, this is the summer
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: where you all kind of figured it out, Like you
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: figured out that you're all for really fucking different. But
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of love there, and like Sam and
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: Teeney figured out that the old guy on the bike
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: wasn't scary. How innocent though when that old man it
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: almost made me cry when that old man goes, why
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: are you afraid of me? And Julia walks in with
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: Chris Evans. That's how she makes everyone jealous. Yes, send
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: him the DM what are you doing? He might have
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: a free weekend. Sometimes celebrities do that just for the bit.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: He's hyper focused on finding a wife, he told us all,
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: and I don't that's on him shout of marriage. So
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: it's not gonna be a great that's on him. He
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: told us that. And now we be bold.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: Send you should send him a d hot enough for
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: the celebrities to respond to and dms.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I'm learned. I'm learning that, which is real irritating him.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I hot enough. I don't understand. Huh, I have celebrities
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: respond to me? Have you Bennett from the batcherette, the
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: most white privileged one of them? All? Okay, like not
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: to not to like scale it to know. I do
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: love that for you, though I will remain jealousy so
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: lame for Tom Hillmilson to commit to taking me back
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: to my correct timeline. And he's busy trying to have
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: a baby. I told him he could bring that baby
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: what that baby doesn't need? I think that I don't
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: want Tom Hiddleston for his dick. I want him to
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: take me to a timeline that I have rights. You
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: can get a credit card without a man, I can't.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: It's not nineteen seventy nine, but I really thought you
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: could get a home loan without a ham I could
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I have one. I really thought that, Like when Demi
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's a really cold and callous way
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: to some some up that summer, and I'm like, and
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: I get it. It's Demi Moore. She's chained smoking, she
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: don't want to be there. You know. I didn't see
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: it as cold and callous. I thought I saw it
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: as an awareness that that summer changed them so much
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: that like, even though they made this pact and we'll
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: show up for each other, they still understand that like
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: they're growing apart, which is actually kind of beautiful because
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: how many times do you grow apart from people and
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: it hurts but you don't recognize that you're growing apart
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: and you're fighting to keep it together and it ends
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: up being more pain and sorrow and hurt than it
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: needs to be. And it's very clear that they're all
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: still a part of each other's lives in the way
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: that they can show up right right.
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: I think, Cause if I was a big, old fucking celebrity,
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: like yeah, Melanie grit well that you know what, I
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: probably still text Abby and Stacy every day like I
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: do my two best friends from hig school.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Literally, Stepany told me while she was at the county
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: fair today that I will be so lucky when I'm
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: famous because she will still let me know about all
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: of the shit that's going on in our shitty county.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: I'll be all like, I mean, I'll put you on
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: payroll for that, because I would love to know. This
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: is why I need to move, because I'm the friend
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: who's texting all of the people who left. Yeah, oh
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: my god.
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: Here's But what's so funny though, Carly's sister is coming
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: with us because she and I graduated the same year.
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: She was texting me, She's like, I've convinced this.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: Person to go, and this person to go, and this
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: person to go. And so backstory, I make fun of Stay.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: I tease Stacy because she doesn't remember anybody we went
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: to high school with. So then when Becka's telling me
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: about all these people who are going to be there,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I literally know who none of those people are.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: And these people are here.
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: I was proud of myself for keeping everyone in the
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: loop about the gossip, and now I'm like, I don't
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: know who these people are gonna be great.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: Maybe she might make professionally done. What's the old man's
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: name is? It crazy Pete. Yeah, crazy Pete. When Crazy
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Pete just asks them in a rainstorm after he's fucking
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: saved Sam and whose bracelet was that? Was that Teeni's
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: or was it Sam's? It was Teeny's necklace that she
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: broke into bracelets for the two of them, for the
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: two of them, and she's like, no, Teeny, let that bracelet,
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: don't And like that to me was like, oh my god,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: that's such a huge thing for teenage, for tween, which
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: wasn't a word in ninety five girls to do was
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: to like share your beloved something with your friend. Like
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: that's a huge gesture. Yeah. And so when Crazy Pete
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: saves them and he just like looks off into the
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: rainstorm and he goes, why are you afraid of me?
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: And like that's a very honest moment. Yeah, then I
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: don't think we get very much anymore around from our eccentrics.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: And then Teeny also has like a very appropriate, like
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: twelve year old response to that, and she goes, you know,
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: you only come out at night and it's kind of scary,
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: and I'm like and then empathy grew and if you
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: were on our Live last night with One Tree Hill
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: on Instagram, you would know that I've decided that empathy
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: is actually the solution. Yeah, maybe he murdered his wife
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: and kid. I don't know. I think I don't think.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: I don't think he did. I think he lives having
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: been a drunk at the bar.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he lives with that guilt. Survivor's guilt's
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: already hard. But then survivor's guilt coupled with you probably
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: wore a drunken husband who couldn't already provide for your family.
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then now this like an ultimate I forgot
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: how much I actually loved the crazy Pet storyline. Well,
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: for one thing, I wore my let's have a seance
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: shirt yesterday because I thought we would be doing now
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: and then, and I was like, I love seances where
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: they had multiple siances. They had multiple seances, And I
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: was like, how am I both teeny and Sam? You know?
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: For wait, does that that can't make me Roberta and
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: Chrissy because I'm not at all, But I will say,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: considering how many times they had a seiance and the
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: fact that I grew up in a conservative Christian home,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that I'm surprised my parents
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: let me watch this. They probably didn't understand what was happening.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: They probably didn't know. We didn't know because my dad's
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: friend owned a video rental place when we were kids,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: so everyone went to Blockbuster. I mean we did too,
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: but we also went to this independently owned one. Yeah,
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: there was no actual like spirit board. There were just
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: candles in a circle, and your parents made me thought
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: that they were preiny to Marilyn Monroe. We don't have
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: that many candles in the Christian Church unless you're Catholic.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: I am catl Okay, I'm telling you non Catholic churches
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: don't have candles them. Well, who knew? Apparently I did.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: Do you know What's another? Like just really quaint detail
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: I picked up And I don't know why it makes
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: me feel so warm inside, but I think it's because
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: this is the person I am. Do you want to
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: guess at what scene it is? Okay, when they are
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: painting the garage and they're all in like and they're barefoot,
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: oversized plaid shirts and barefoot, and it was the fact
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: that they were barefoot and they were dancing, And I
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: have been barefoot as an adult, painting and dancing with
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: when I was the drama club coach and one day
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: he found Whoopsie paint at home depot and he was like,
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: we gotta paint the sets and the stage floor and
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: the walls with this Whoopsae paint. And I remember cleaning
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: up badly from dinner because I don't clean, and then
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: going to the school at night and he put on
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: who does the funk Shure Brother? Chuck it out? Now?
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, She's All That? Yeah? Who's that band? I
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I ever knew, because I listened
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 2: to it on the She's All That soundtrack.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: See, he didn't put the band on the mix that
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: he made me, and that's why I don't know their
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: name anymore. Fat Boy Slim, it's fat boy. Yeah. He
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: loved that band and he had all of their songs,
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: and that's what we did. Like I would have more
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: songs than that one. I would have the roller and
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: I would just be like rocking out. I'd be like
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: the Funk Shore Brother check it out now, the Funk
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: Show Brother. Because I did not know the She's All
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: That dance. Maybe I'll learn it if we decide to
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: do it on So still comfy She's all that, yeah,
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: let's learn how to do the dance. I used to
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: know how to do the dance. I used to know
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: how to do the Napoleon Dynamite dance, which reminds me
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: my former pal from my former dance studio told me
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: that classes are signing up now, so I get to be,
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: you know, the nearly forty year old signing up to
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: relive her youth. I'm not embarrassed by it. She's like,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: are you going to take jazz? I was like, I
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: really think I want to take tap because stomping around
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: sounds really fun because I took tap as a kid,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: so it's like it's in.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: It's once you learn how to do it. When you
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: learn how to do it as a kid, it doesn't
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: go away right. Your body still will do those things.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: It's just took her year of tap and then Peg
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: and hot Mom made me quit. Why because it gave
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: them a headache. Because again, empathy is the solution. My
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: grandma Peg used to walk me through I was her
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: shopping buddy. Oh because she knew that I because she
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: knew I had that fat kids never die attitude, and
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't ask her to stop. So my mom and
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: Peg had taken me shopping that day. I was exhausted,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: and I bitched about going to rehearsal, and then my
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: mom with, that's what you're done. I don't know if
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: I had bitched before a lot or whatever, or maybe
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: once again, no one thought I was talented. But every
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: once in a while, because it was a tap ballet class,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: and I had to have been in kindergarten because we
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: were still living where my mom's side of the family lives,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: and every once in a while I'll look at my
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: mom and I'll be like, hey, maybe instead of putting
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: me in weight watchers when I was a teenager, you
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: could have fostered my love for ballet, and I could
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: have gotten skinny that way, you know me, in way
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: that they make dancers get skinny. Cardio is really good,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: Like it's a great way to do cardio. I've told
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: you this.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: I'm working on videos where like I create a Spotify
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: list and then we just kind of like do these
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: fun little dance routines, hoping to launch by fall. But
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: it's a really great way for you to just sort
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: of get stuff out. And I loved tap until I
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: had a really shitty teacher. The last song I did
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: a tap recital too was we had the footloose song.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: Please every time that song comes off. We hated this
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: instructor so hard.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: We knew the routine, we still stood up on stage
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: like we did it because we hated her and didn't
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: want her to keep teaching. Wow. The last song that
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: I tapped to was les Poisons from The Little Mermaid.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: Oh I love that. Mm hmmmm. We were like little chefs.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: My very first dance was to care Bears. We had
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: to recital with it was we were care bears. We
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: had to recital at the County Fair, and I was
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: the sleepy care bear, which trip was totally appropriate. Can
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: we still have my costume? Can we go back to
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: hank Azaria? Though? Because this is actually my feminist point
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: about this. Hank Azaria and men who tried to date
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: women with young children, and they tried to do that
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: through the young children. Immediate red flag. Yeah, don't tell
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: my kids you're taking them on a trip. Yeah, that's
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: a thing that makes me super uncomfortable. The other thing
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: that makes me uncomfortable is how it has there. He
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: commented that it's their first date. Oh the girls. Yeah,
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: He's like, don't children first date And I was like, no,
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: I think it was his first date with mom. And
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: I thought, God, the seventies, what a time to be
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: a single mom, What a time to be alive. Where
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: she's like, maybe this guy will sign up for a
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: credit card with me. But yeah, you're right, like it
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: is a little bit of a red flag. And two
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know it just you know if I watch
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: me every time, it's a plot point in a movie. Yeah.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: I have to tell you when I date what I
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: do online dating. If they put their kids in their
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: profile pictures, I swipe no, because now I know what
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: your children look like. I could be a crazy psycho bitch.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: I could not be it doesn't you know? You you
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: need to find out. But it's one of those things
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: where I'm just like to have some You're allowed to
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: have privacy until you get comfortable with somebody. It actually
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: made me really uncomfortable during Girl Meets World that Sean
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: Hunter had a really solid relationship with Maya and then
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: decided to date her mom. I was like, you can't
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: date moms through their kids. Creep This just it.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: I used to have this thing where Jackson went where
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: the I know it's it's fine where I used to
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 2: have this thing where.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: Like I'm living alone now empty empty nesters stuff whatever.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: My kid comes home from college. This is the problem
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: with doing show with your friends. The level of privacy
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: that you try to achieve goes away. It basically Clay
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: becomes a FaceTime call. Yeah, pretty much.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: And you know, my kid comes home and he's like, oh,
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: I brought home this professor because he didn't have anywhere
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: to go for Thanksgiving and we always do it, and
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: we always do.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: A big thing for Thanksgiving. And I don't want to
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: finish that story because we all know that I want
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: to live in a buttoned up Okay, So you know
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: how Sam's grandma comes, No, they go to see Clors Leachman.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: I have a moment for Cloris Leachman because God, she's
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: so genious. When they go over to her house and
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: they want to know about Crazy Pete and the murders,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: and Cloris Leachman is like, oh, no, some things we
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: just don't need to talk about. And I was like,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: how is Cloris Leachman the exact opposites of my grandmother
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: and my great aunts? Because my grandmother and my great
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: aunts would have been like sit down, and then they
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: would have had a rehearsed re enactment of those murders
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: and all of the new like my so I had
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: a great uncle who died young tragically, and my grandma
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: peg and my favorite great aunt. They would like my
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: mom likens it to a Greek choir, the way that
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: they tell when they had to go to Washington, d C.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: Because he was passing away. And it's a terrible story,
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: but it is kind of comical how they tell it
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: because like they tell it, well, they're giving their Oscar speech. Yeah,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: they've probably had forty years to relive it, and so yeah, well,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: and they were so young, like they were I don't
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: think that they were twenty two. They were so young.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: It was like so like it was like there now
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: and then summer that was their like oh wow, life
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: changing moment right where they had to their husbands were
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: already at the hospital in DC and they had to
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: get from Illinois to d C on their own and
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: it was probably like I don't know, it was before
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: women could have credit cards, like and they just had
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: it like they had to get on a train, they
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: had to drive to the train, they had to figure
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: it all out. There was no Google. Yeah, and it
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: was to go to this tragic thing, the paper maps
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: that you had, Like yeah, and it was and it
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: was too and I I mean, my grandma and my grandaunt,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: who I love dearly were best friends for a lot
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: of reasons, but I'm sure that that's one of the
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: reasons that cemented it. Yeah, there's things that we talked
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: about all the time. Trumpa bonding, right, So when Chloris
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Leachman was like, no, no, no, I don't want to
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: talk about the murders, I was like, what is this.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: This is not how Croatians behave. Croatians go, oh, do
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: you want the tea? Oh good, I made tea? Sit down,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: and then they go it was dark and stormy night.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: Your grandfather and I were watching Letterman and we knew
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: that Pete had a drinking problem, but no one told them,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: but we know. And then like you're sitting there and
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: you're twelve and you're overhearing things that you shouldn't And
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: then your grandmother is like, it was bloody. The splatters
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: on the wall, I could paint them now. That would
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: have been my family.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know if my family would have
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: my You know what would have happened.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: My Auntie would have been like, I'll tell you when
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: your mother leaves the room. Oh yeah, that's how my
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: aunt showed me Grease. That's how my aunt gave me
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: nail polish when my mother wasn't around. But then, because
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm the oldest grandkid. Yeah, but then when
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: my uncle turned around and my uncle and I are
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: only twelve years apart, and showed her Boy's water Boy
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: at a very young age, she lost it mad, and
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, what are you mad about? I was like,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: you do took me to every PG thirteen movie that
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: the schmos wouldn't let me see. Yeah, my aunt did
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: the same thing. I saw The Good Son probably before.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't have. I should have. That's probably really what
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: one of the things that actually probably screwed with my psyche.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: Aside from all of the psychological thrillers from the sixties
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: that my parents made us watch during family film night,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: Grease was the first musical that I watched on film.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: It was the first musical soundtrack that I owned. And
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: it's because it's my favorite aunt's favorite musical. That's so funny,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: like admitting who my favorite family members are on the internet, Like,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: sometimes my family get petty, but I don't.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: Know how many people actually helped you in your time
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: of need during this air ace but debacle.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: You know what, My family likes to rewrite history, so
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: they'll all take credit for whatever I'm talking about. They'll
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: be like, she's talking about me. It's me. I seem
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: to recall none of them showed up to help you.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: I don't think my aunt actually Like I stopped talking
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: to people during the heat waves, so I don't think
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: my aunt actually knows.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, the news just reported it's like
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: record breaking tempts all over the country right.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: Now, all over the country. But the shout out to
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: all of the aunts letting kids get away with shit
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: right now. I wish I could be that Auntie. I
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: thought you were that Auntie. I mean, yeah to my
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: best friend's kid. Yeah. But you know she's not gonna
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: have like other people in her life who are going
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: to get it when she talks about Auntie Julia, you
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like, I can text my cousin
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: right now be like, remember how your mom did blah
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Yeah, she'll know it's amazing what I
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: remember from well, no, but I.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: Mean like like my cousins and my siblings and I
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: can like swap stories like my my niece and air quotes.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: Isn't going to be able to like share she can
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: share those stories, but no one's gonna It's just that's it,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: Like no one's gonna have live in that memory with
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: her in the same way.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: So my favorite memories from my aunt's old house is
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: when she had she had a basement and all the
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: kids were thrown into the basement and my parents, my
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: parents and my aunts and uncles and the adults would
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: be like telling the like really horrific family stories and
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: like really getting like rowdy, rowdy, rowdy, rowdy us kids
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: because we're all these assholes kids, so we know how
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: to tell a story. We're all in a story in
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: a circle telling their more most horrific moments. Do you remember, though,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: do you remember when your mom and then we're reenacting it? Yes,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: I love the best time, the best time. I'm gonna
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: do a quick skim of my notes to say if
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: there's anything else, oh now, and then its anti capitalism, yes,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: because they all pulled their money together and didn't care
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: who put in more or who got that money or whatever,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: and they all got a tree house at the end
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: of it, and then they all shared that tree house,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: and Rita Wilson wouldn't even take it out of her
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: tree because she's like, I can't we all own it? Yep,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: and Christy got star craving mad.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: Anytime they had that spend that money on anything but
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: the treehouse.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: It was for the treehouse. Now, what's her name? Is
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: she the woman from Reality Bites? The weird waitress? Is that?
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: How that is? I love Reality Bites. I don't know
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: if I've actually finished it, and I love her. I
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: literally just rewatched it the other day, so because you
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: were rewatching it, I was like, shit, is there another season?
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: I'm convinced that I finished it, and then I like
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: never went to check, So there it is. I love this.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: She pops up in weird movies. She's also in Rome
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: and Michelle's Reality Bites, the movie with Ben Stiller and
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: Wainona Writer and Jeannie Gruffalo. Well, I'm talking about I'm
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: talking about a show on Hulu where it's her raising
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: her kids. And I don't think that these people are
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: the same people. No, you're thinking you're thinking of better
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: it's a single mom show Better Days, Yeah, with uh Paula. Yeah. Fuck?
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: What's her name Adlin? Pamela Adlin, because she's a voice actress.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: Better Days. Is that what it's called. I don't know.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: It's a it's a show that slaps.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: I have it on my here's the funny part, you guys.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: I've watched every single season except the new season, because
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 2: the new season is the final season and I'm not
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: ready for it to be over. Yeah, because her kids
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 2: are super and she wasn't always Pamela Adlin. Because I
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: just rewatched, rewatch Better Things.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: Better Things, I got it. And my final point for
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: tonight is this movie should have been about Chrissy and
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: Robert Roberta falling in love. And I'm just gonna leave
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: it there. I do kind of love that the kid
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: who's like hello dear with their kids nose Ye ends
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: up being Chrissy's husband, Like, I love that, and it's
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: so subtle, like it's not blatant about it. He just
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: walks into the room, he's like, hello dear, and you're
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: just like, you married that kid. I'm proud of you, Chrissy,
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: But I don't know if I'm proud of my people
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: who married the nosepickers that we know from our youth,
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: because you know how I feel about mediocre men. Well,
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, you know, every boy picks their nose, Natalie.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: If they tell you they don't, they're lying, Like, I
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: don't know, it should have been it should have been
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: about Roberta and Chrissy.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: You know, if they do decide to reboot it, I
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: think that that could potentially be the storyline.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it'd be nice to see.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: I literally can't recall one single black person in this film.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: Yes, I would also make sure that there were people
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: of color. Yeah. Yeah, and not just like the homeless
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: guy that's from the war. Yeah, like crazy Pet and
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: the Vet cannot be the black they can't be the
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: people of color. You need to make one of those
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: little girls one of the black people. Yeah, because and
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: she can't be renting her house like she has to
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: own her house, like they all own their house. Like
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: it can't be some tragic ass situation, right right. She
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: can't be the one with the dead mom. She can't
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: be the one with the dead be dad. She has
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: to be Chrissy. It has to be Chrissy.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: Because you know, I realized that while I accepted white
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: narratives in the nineties, I am finding myself very frustrated
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: with shows that could easily not have not be centered
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 2: around white characters, but who run with a diverse group
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 2: of people because the show is still centered around white
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 2: noess when the male, when the main character is white,
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 2: and then you have.
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: The quirky ethnic friends, Like I thought we'd grown past that. Yeah, No,
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: it makes me sad mm hmm looking at you Maggie
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: on Hulu. Oh, I haven't watched it yet.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 2: It's cute, but again she it's centered around this white girl. Yeah,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 2: and you know, all the characters around her are not
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: white and all they're all quirky.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: I truly do miss the B plots and movies where
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: we learn the most about the eccentric person in town.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: Like I miss that being the B plot, you know.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 2: And I said it, and I said it earlier, and
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 2: I'll restate it again. There's something very there's something I
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: wish they would bring back. Being committed to the one storyline. Yeah,
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: and then you have maybe this sub the line B Yeah,
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: and just sticking with.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: That, I miss us. Actually I'm not funded still well
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: because it was such a simple fucking movie. I miss
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: us getting to be invested in the town and the
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: community that your show is set. And I'm looking at you,
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: Virgin River. I didn't know that fucking Virgin River had
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: a dojo until this goddamn season because I don't know
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: anything about the town Virgin River. Why it's not real? Okay? Also, well,
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: we want to stars Hollow, but I could probably draw
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: a map of stars. They did a really good job
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: with creating stars Hollow as a character in them in
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: the show. Absolutely, and I miss that. I miss like
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: knowing that crazy p is the eccentric guy who was
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: not a victim of a murder. Oh shit, come on,
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: I'm I can't think of any more songs. Okay, Oh,
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: I just thought one ticket to ride, Ticket to Ride too.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 2: But you're right about Virgin River, because how many times
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 2: did we both go, wait, this is the city's.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: On a river? Where the hell did they Where the
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: hell did they get a dojo? Why are they surrounded
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: by a lake? When do you think it's appropriate for
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: us to just get to bitch openly about season four
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: in all of Virgin River. Well, it's been out a
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: full week starting tomorrow. Okay, So when do you think
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: it's polite to give out spoilers and start re enacting
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: Melon Jack fights? I mean after tomorrow, I feel like
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: it's very game. Do you want to be Mel or
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: do you want to be Jack? Do you want to
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: get you a really good mel? I believe so, And
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: then I will just look at you, oh my I
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: and be like, I'm sorry, did you think that that
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: was a problem? And then you can just tell me
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: I didn't say it was a problem. I just say
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: said it was something that I noticed, because I can't
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: make you feel bad, And then my hands can come
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: up here and I'll be like, so, is this something
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: I'm fixing for our relationship or not? That show they're getting, well,
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: did I tell you?
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: I read an article somewhere that so they're getting a
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 2: whole new show runner for season five?
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: Yes, So hopefully it's better. Maybe someone will commit to
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: getting us through these first five months of Virgin Room,
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: because in the timeline I'm convinced it's only been five months. Well,
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: because I mean, think about it, Charmaine was probably already
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: like eight weeks when she found out she was pregnant, right,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: Twins don't ever make it to full term. There's not
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: enough room. M M. So yeah, it's probably been five
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: to six months, which leads me to the fuck are
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: you doing four seasons falling in love? And also four
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: seasons first of all? And the fuck are you doing
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: falling in love? After six months? My sister is convinced
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: that this show will never leave the first year and
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: that Charmaine will always be pregnant because they don't actually
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: want to deal with having to deal with babies in plots.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: I just can't, Like, I told you they don't want
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: to deal with babies.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: I told you this over well they don't, I mean, yeah,
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 2: they I told you this the other day when we
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 2: were watching it together, I said I missed the days
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 2: when television seasons would end. And as we aged four months,
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: so did the show right, because then it's September now,
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 2: so we can all assume we're all in sixth grade
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: now as opposed to this shit that picks up and
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: Younger did the same thing. Younger had seven seasons, and
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: when you watch it straight through, you're like, okay, yeah,
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 2: this is maybe a year and a half in Younger land.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 2: But when you spend seven seasons and you think why
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 2: the fuck is Liza so mad and like scared about
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 2: getting married to Charles.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: I'll marry Charles and seven years.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, And then you remember, oh, technically in younger land,
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: it's only been like a year since her divorce.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: I was with Eliza though, she don't have to get
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: married just to like again a bait, a mediocre man's ego.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: Listen, Yes, when you've been a person who's already spent
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: time in a marriage with a trash partner, yeah, totally
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 2: get it. I have been a single adult female my
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: entire adult life, with a few stints with having boyfriends.
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: I would love someone to come in and take care
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 2: of half the bills.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a picture just to post on another group.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: Let me make sure that that says. And now for
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: the moral of the show. Okay, oh no, did you
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 1: take it? I'm still posting. I'm not gonna get it
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: exactly right. And that's what's irritating. Should I just take
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: a video for those video? Yeah? Now I'm timing it
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: because I have a Facebook group that's really gonna love that.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, we weren't even talking about Virgin River.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: It's just the moral of every show that I do. OMG,
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: it's a trash show that wastes our time. Yeah, and
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: you know what, I deserve compensation? Yeah, you know, I
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: just don't. I.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 2: You know, we've had this conversation, why the fuck can't
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 2: I get a job? No, I've like, my samples aren't bad.
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: I thought I can't be virgin. I had a play debut,
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 2: a one act play debut in twenty nineteen. I cannot
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 2: tell you how many people who went to that play
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 2: and then texted me. Was like, there was like five
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 2: other one acts and they were like, yours was the
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 2: best one.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: So why can't I get a fucking job? Natalie? I
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: don't know. Should I just start putting it on my blog?
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: Should I just start put on my blog? You should
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: start putting you on your blog? Fuck? Do you know
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 1: that Virgin River is based on books? Like people read
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: these the series of books?
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: I did know Virgin Rivers based on books. And so
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 2: here's my thing. Because Humboldt County is several hours north
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: from here. It's like a coastal ish county in California.
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 1: So when they talk about.
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 2: How quickly they all run into Sacramento, I'm just like,
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 2: have y'all never done that drive?
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: It's a bad drive. I don't think this person understands.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 2: And then the other part of it, too, is like, oh,
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 2: we're driving through and we're gonna we're gonna stop in Portland.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 2: Do you understand how far Portland is from fucking Humboldt to.
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: A bad drive? Like?
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 2: Is it seven hours or is it six? From where
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: I am in California, which is ninety miles south of
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 2: Sacramento to the border of Oregon is a six hour drive?
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 1: No, it's a trash show, waste our time. I want
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 1: compensation as a twelve hour drive if I drive straight
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: through and don't stop. I'm reading to start abandoning doing
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 1: tiktoks that are actually based on my podcast episodes, and
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: I'm literally just gonna do bits where I say this
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: is what I deserve compensation for I do. Steven Moffatt
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: looking at you, Yeah, you owe me compensation twice for
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: Doctor Who and Time Traveler's Wifeler's Wife, which got fucking
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: fucking canceled. You couldn't even swindle them into season two.
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: And yet somehow we're getting season two of Just Like
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: and Just Like that make it make sense, you know,
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 1: and again you and I both read the book.
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we could have done a really good adaptation.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: See see where was the where was the book during
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 2: our lives about the show?
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: Natalie? It was on that book shuffle? Yeah, yeah, that
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: was it was. So it's like, again, it's one of
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: those things.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 2: And Mintie Kayling actually pointed out on her Instagram maybe
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: or her Twitter years ago. She commented, She's like, I
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: don't understand asking for writing samples of original works because
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: when she was coming up, or maybe it was in
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: one of her books, because when she was coming up,
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: they wanted you to write a specscript of whatever show
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: it was you were trying to be on. And to me,
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 2: that makes more sense because then you're actually demonstrating you
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 2: understand the characters and what the dialogue is that they
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 2: would say and who they are, but.
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 1: Not so easy for them to steal your ideas for free. Well,
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 1: and so steal the fucking spec script I wrote, not
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 1: the TV show I hope is gonna win me an Emmy.
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: You know, here's it for our final question? Okay now
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: and then still comfy. Yeah, And I really just didn't.
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, man, I feel bad, but I'm still
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 1: comfy with it. Why do you feel bad? I don't know,
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: because there's no black people in it, but the soundtrack
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 1: is so good, and the soundtrack is really good. But
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: you know what it was? What really like why I
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: think where the guilt comes from, because so much of
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 1: the nineties of what I was allowed to watch was
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 1: very white and same with like the world I was
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: living in, so like, even though we were a.
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 2: Mixed race family like there, it was still a heavily
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 2: a heavy white influence in my life. And so there's
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 2: a lot of stuff I'm learning in adulthood, especially about
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 2: the eighties and nineties black culture, where I'm just like, man,
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 2: we missed out on that as a family, And what
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 2: how much more confident in my racial identity would I
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 2: have been had I not been the outlier all the
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 2: time right and not constantly forced to live in a
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 2: predominantly white world. And I think that's where that came from,
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 2: because I saw myself in these girls. I wanted to
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 2: be these girls.
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 1: I shit you not.
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: I used to ride my bike around the neighborhood with
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 2: my feet up on the handlebars like that.
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: I emulated them so much. It was a great movie
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 1: that movie fucking slaps. I love. Also, the reason I
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: picked the picture that I did for the socials is
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 1: because I love when you have kids and adults playing
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 1: the same character and they take a really cute group
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: picture like that. It's a bit that gets me every time. Yeah,
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: and I think they did a really good job at
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 1: casting the younger and the older. Oh. I was gonna
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: tell you the girl that plays Chrissy Yi. I was
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 1: because I was looking. I was like, what has she
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: been up too lately? Nothing she did? Yeah, she kind
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 1: of had it. It's from the way it reads online.
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 1: It sounded like she kind of had a hard time well,
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: you know, and like, does she have a great aunt
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: that wants to morbidly tell us that story? Twenty six?
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: She was twenty six? Oh god, yeah, And that made
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 1: me sad. And then I thought, God, I don't know
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: what happened to Sam, little Sam. Oh, because Christina became
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: Christina Ricci And what is Gammy Hoffmanda? What isn't she doing?
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: She was on Girls, She's in I watch that shitty
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 1: show Girls.
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 2: Like okay, Well I watched it because I wanted to
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 2: live in New York and I am embarrassed by the
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 2: fact that I watched it because it's fair Dams makes
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 2: me mad. Yeah, I think that she's an interesting person.
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 2: She has done a ton of stuff lately. She was
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 2: in Transparent, which ended in twenty nineteen.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 1: She was Transparent. I didn't watch Transparent. Okay, all right, Well,
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: but she came up again for me in Girls because
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: I did watch Girls in I think after it was
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 1: all done in twenty eighteen, and I thought, oh, good
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 1: for you.
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 2: But she's you know, she's consistently works like every couple
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 2: of years.
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 1: Just like I've never recognized her adult face. You know
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: what it is.
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 2: It's because her adult face looks so different from her
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 2: childhood face. Like her brow is very strong and prominent,
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 2: which I don't know if you get that from her
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 2: when she's a kid, if that makes sense.
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, this is bringing up Sunce memories. And I ask
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  Speaker 1: you a question offline. We have a private chat. We
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  Speaker 1: do have a private chat, but I feel like you
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  Speaker 1: should just tell me offline. Yep, all right. I am
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  Speaker 1: also still comfy. I'm still comfy. Even though they made
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  Speaker 1: teeny a sex symbol. I loved it. I thought that
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 1: that was like, that is the exact way that I
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: two felt sexy at thirteen years old, Like, it's all
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: just talk. Yeah, it's all me doing fake up, makeup
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  Speaker 1: scenarios in my head, like bad makeup, bad makeup. Didn't
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: I tell you?
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I voice, I would do this right.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, ask me why I'm five minutes into
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 2: this movie and I'm emotional.
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: I'm emotional. I love this movie. You know what, at
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: one point we will have to confront the comfort movie
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 1: that still makes me comfy even though it's uncomfy. But
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: you're just gonna have to stay tuned. Jules, introduce yourself first,
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 1: and then I'll do plugs okay, as a reminder to
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: all of our friends watching on YouTube and potentially listening
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: to the replay at some point in time. Julia Washington,
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  Speaker 1: host of pop Culture makes Me Jealous, where we analyze
• 1:33:44
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• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: sometimes both. I am the creator, producer, and host of
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 1: that show. And it's pretty good. You can find it
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: wherever you find your podcasts. We also have merch available.
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: I am wearing our Hate Friends T shirt. I'm showing
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• 1:34:05
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• 1:34:09
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• 1:34:11
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• 1:34:18
  Speaker 1: Loved talking about movies and television and pop culture on
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• 1:34:25
  Speaker 1: and musings about being a solo parent and why it
• 1:34:28
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• 1:34:33
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  Speaker 1: I've tolerated before, your Midwest Hollywood hot host of two
• 1:34:41
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• 1:34:46
  Speaker 1: This Thursday is how the hell am I supposed to date?
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 1: Could anyone tell me? And last Thursday was The Men
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  Speaker 1: that Wendy Cooper tolerated during her career. In two weeks
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  Speaker 1: we will be on the pop Culture makes makes me jealous?
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  Speaker 1: It should be us at this point. I don't know
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: why are you confusing me? Pop culture makes me jealous
• 1:35:08
  Speaker 1: for still Comfy Mama Mia featuring Paige from For Folk's Sake.
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  Speaker 1: We're very excited. We're very excited. Another guys, another movie
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 1: that I will get to seeing the intro for It's
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 1: abba everybody. Are we just picking movies that have soundtracks
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: that I have memorized? I don't know, maybe I don't know.
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: We have a Patreon. I'm designing merge. If we get
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: twenty five members on the Patreon, I will make you
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: cards with stickers and be your pen pal. Everyone. I'm
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: wildly like overwhelmed and loved to just keep heaping it on. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: all right, this has been still comfy, and you will
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 1: have to stay tuned until oh every Tuesday night on Instagram,
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 1: we do want tree Hill right now, We're doing one
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 1: tree Hill. Right now, We're doing one Tree Hill. We
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: do the TV shows on Instagram, we do the movies
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: on YouTube. It's called uh sharing the wealth. Yes, because
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 1: we're just too delightful to We're toful and therefore you
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: should join us next Tuesday to figure out how many
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 1: times Jules is going to ask me if Dan Scott
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: becomes a good person, answered minds, inquiring minds, I just answer.
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: I know I've told you.
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 2: No, I'm holding out, hope. I'm just holding out hope.
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just it's he it's just a
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 2: lot I will share with our friends listening that after
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 2: we're done with One Tree Hill, we will read it.
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 2: We will visit the new adaptation of A League of
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 2: their Own, which will be on it.
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: You have Amazon Prime, right Amazon Prime? Yeah? Yeah, okay,
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: just checking because that's what it's going to be on.
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 1: I would have gotten a log in what I will
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 1: tell you, Okay. I think Chris Evans texted Jules No, no, no.
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 1: Mario should have been working on that this last hour.
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 1: So everyone, honestly, there's no shortage of us on the internet.
• 1:37:21
  Speaker 1: We will answer your dms, we will answer your shorty
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 1: replies and your comments. And we're planning a live show
• 1:37:29
  Speaker 1: with Mario. And we are planning on a live show
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 1: with Mario. Yeah, details pending because we haven't worked it
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 1: out yet.
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 2: No, but we are putting it out there. You can
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 2: look for that at some point when we have the details.
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 1: So I don't know what to say at the end
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 1: of this show, because when we do One Tree Hill,
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 1: I go see you on see you next week on
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: the River Court. So I'm just gonna say, grab a
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 1: mug of your favorite hot drink and you stay comfy
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: out there. Should I be on the morning news, we
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: should work on our closing sign on. I think that
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 1: was wonderful. I think there should just be a montage
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 1: of how I close these shows. Someone make me a
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: fan montage someone who's musically talented, because none of my
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 1: music friends are responding to me.
• 1:38:21
  Speaker 2: You would love to contribute to our show by making
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 2: a theme song for Still Comfy.
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 1: I've got someone I can ask. We will not say no,
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: so it's not just me going like, hey, this is
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: the intro music for this show. I don't want to
• 1:38:36
  Speaker 1: be one day comfort people. You might get to hear
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 1: the moment where I had to swallow the fact that
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not a good singer, because I had that shame
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: moment one time where you really think you're good, but
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 1: I wasn't. We all think we're good, And I'm gonna
• 1:38:59
  Speaker 1: leave you on that cliphangers, good night,