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Day 2: Regulating Before Relating
In this episode, Jan walks you through Day 2 of the Secure Self Workbook, focusing on a powerful shift: regulation before communication. If you struggle with anxious attachment, your reactions aren’t just emotional—they’re physiological.
Learn how your nervous system responds to perceived rejection, understand your window of tolerance, and recognize signs of hyperarousal and shutdown. Jan guides you through simple grounding exercises and reflection prompts to help you pause, regulate, and respond from a more secure place.
This episode is a practical step toward building emotional stability…
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