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- 0:01Hello and welcome to the show. Today we're going to be looking
- 0:04at the best practices for sales coaching and development.
- 0:08And by that I don't mean what sales coaches or business
- 0:13development consultants should be doing to improve their
- 0:15businesses. I mean, for those of you who are
- 0:18currently listening to this podcast, you know, you have a
- 0:19problem with your business, you want to improve your performance
- 0:23in your business or performance, you know, personally how you run
- 0:26your sales, you know, things like that.
- 0:28What are the best practices that you should be considering?
- 0:31And yeah, so that's it. Today's not for the sales coach.
- 0:35Today is for the person who is the recipient of sales coaching
- 0:40or some sort of personal development, personal
- 0:43improvement plan or whatever it is that you have going on in
- 0:46your business or you have going on at work.
- 0:49That's for those of you who are employees where you sell on
- 0:52behalf of someone else's business.
- 0:55By the way, this whole thing of you're an employee, so you're
- 0:58selling on behalf of someone else's business.
- 1:01I know it sounds somehow, but I think the right way to look at
- 1:05it is even though you're selling on behalf of somebody else's
- 1:07Business Today, you should be doing your best to improve
- 1:12yourself and get as many learnable skills as you can
- 1:16right now. Because eventually one day,
- 1:18you're going to be in charge of your own ship because very few
- 1:21people, at least in the Nigerian context, very few people remain
- 1:24carrier salespeople for the rest of their lives.
- 1:27So ultimately, you're going to move on to your own thing.
- 1:29So if you're going to be stuck where you are right now because
- 1:34you don't want your gut to be a millionaire on your own back, or
- 1:37you don't want your Madam to be sending her children to foreign
- 1:40schools abroad because you think it's sales driving or something.
- 1:45Like she's using the results of all your labour to better her
- 1:48life and her children's lives, then you're going to be stuck
- 1:51where you are for a very long time.
- 1:52So the right attitude to have is to try and see how you can
- 1:54improve performance at your current station today, wherever
- 1:58you are. So that eventually when you move
- 2:00on, because you're not going to be with Olga or Madame forever.
- 2:03So eventually when you move on, you change jobs, you start your
- 2:05own business, whatever you would have on the back of that, you
- 2:09would have come away with lots of transferable skills that will
- 2:14make you lethal and deadly to your competition when you start
- 2:17your own thing. So OK, so let's do the usual.
- 2:22Let's head straight into definitions so that, you know,
- 2:24we're all on the same page. So we know that we're talking
- 2:26about the same thing. Of course, for those of you
- 2:29listening for a while, you know that the definitions I give here
- 2:32are not academically precise or technically precise.
- 2:35I'm just using a rough and ready definition so that we can
- 2:38remember and understand what it is that we are trying to do over
- 2:42here. So for the purpose of today's
- 2:45podcast or anytime in the future, if you hear me say
- 2:47coaching, regardless of what the Oxford Advanced Learners
- 2:50Dictionary says coaching is or regardless of whatever it is
- 2:54that your business professor. And that's for those of you who
- 2:56are still undergraduate school, maybe you're doing biz admin or
- 3:01something, you know, like UNILAC doing biz admin or Uniben doing
- 3:05biz admin, you know, So regardless of of what your Prof
- 3:07says today, when I say coaching, what I mean is, OK, when I say
- 3:16coaching, we are interested in performance or interested in
- 3:19execution or what to do next to get the desired outcome.
- 3:23So that is the difference between, for those of you who
- 3:25watch sports, for instance, that's the difference between
- 3:28the coach and the what's it called?
- 3:30Is it technical director or be technical assistant or
- 3:32something? You know, in football, is it TA,
- 3:35is it technical or something? And then there's a coach.
- 3:38So everybody else is worried about all kinds of things, but
- 3:40the coach's primary occupation, that'd be primary preoccupation,
- 3:44is they're interested in performance, they're interested
- 3:47in execution. What we do, we do here, What do
- 3:50we do here? What do we forge here?
- 3:51What do we move to the left or to the right so that we can get
- 3:54the desired outcome? So coaching is all about
- 3:57execution. Training, on the other hand, is
- 4:01mostly about information transfer and, you know, improved
- 4:04understanding. So people call you in or when
- 4:06they call me in for training, that's the whole goal.
- 4:08I'm trying to get people to understand better.
- 4:10I'm trying to transfer information from my noggin to
- 4:13your own head. So that's the idea.
- 4:15So I hope you guys are seeing the difference now.
- 4:17So training, information transfer well then coaching is
- 4:21all about execution. How do we perform better so we
- 4:23can score the goal? Then consulting on the other
- 4:26hand is when, well there's information transfer, but
- 4:29consulting is more about insights into the problem so
- 4:32that they can inform your strategy about where to move
- 4:35next. So in my own opinion, that's the
- 4:38subtle difference between the three.
- 4:40Some, most people can't tell them apart, but there's a
- 4:42difference. Coaching is interested in
- 4:44execution, How are we going to score the goal?
- 4:47Training is about information transfer, improved
- 4:49understanding. And then consulting is all about
- 4:51insights so that they can inform the strategy now we're going to
- 4:57use moving forward. Then why should we be quibbling
- 5:03over these things? Coaching, training, consulting.
- 5:05What's the difference? The reason why I should be
- 5:07quibbling overhead is so that, excuse me, so that in your
- 5:11businesses you have a clear idea of what you need or what you
- 5:15should be aiming for. So do you think your staff just
- 5:18need to know a bunch of more stuff than call a trainer?
- 5:21If you think your staff already knows or you've been telling
- 5:25them and you've been training them on your own, but they are
- 5:29not taking the next steps towards the desired outcome,
- 5:33perhaps you need to calling a coach.
- 5:36But then if it's that you and your business partner don't have
- 5:39a good overview about, you know, all the different moving parts
- 5:43of the business and how everything fits together, how
- 5:45that should inform your strategy, then perhaps you
- 5:47should call IT consultant. So that's the reason why we
- 5:49quibble about these things, coaching, training, consulting,
- 5:52because the emphasis is not really the specialty.
- 5:55It's not about the qualifications of the person,
- 5:57excuse me, the qualifications of the person who's running the
- 6:00whole thing. It's about what do you need?
- 6:05Yeah, let me just leave it that way, then.
- 6:09Let's see. OK, so which one do you need as
- 6:12a business owner? Honestly, you need all of them.
- 6:15We all need all of them. We all need coaching.
- 6:17We all need training. We all need consulting.
- 6:19But we need them at varying stages, different stages during
- 6:24the different, you know, evolutions or whatever of our
- 6:29business journey. So we all need them, but we need
- 6:31them at different stages at different times, you know, as we
- 6:33grow up, as we become big boys and big girls in running our
- 6:36businesses. So now one of the best
- 6:38practices, best practices, sorry, forgive me, one of the
- 6:42best practices that you guys ought to be considering.
- 6:44That's for those of you who are thinking there's a problem with
- 6:47my business or there's a goal. I want to hear there's something
- 6:49I'm supposed to do. I'm not quite sure where.
- 6:51I'm not quite sure how. What are the best practices that
- 6:53you're supposed to use to guide you along on the journey?
- 6:57Truth of the matter is this is something that we can keep
- 6:59talking about from today till tomorrow.
- 7:00So I'll just pick a couple. I'll try my best to be helpful.
- 7:04So when I start with everybody and some people think I'm
- 7:08cannibalizing myself, but actually I am not.
- 7:11Because like I say, if you give me your money, I'll take it and
- 7:14I hope you solve the problem. But the truth of the matter is
- 7:17there's lots of free or affordable stuff that is out
- 7:21there in the world today that can inform your personal
- 7:23information. Diet.
- 7:25I heard someone call you the personal information on that.
- 7:27I'm like, yeah, that makes a lot of sense because some of us, you
- 7:30know, getting old, Potbelly, blah, blah, blah.
- 7:32So we're not worried about exercise and diet, you know, so
- 7:37that what you put in your body. So you might as well take that
- 7:40level of dedication and focus to what you put inside your mind as
- 7:44well. So personal information on that.
- 7:46I mean, that sums it up pretty much.
- 7:48And there's lots of free stuff or affordable stuff if you want
- 7:51to pay. So there's blogs for those of
- 7:54you who still read online. There's podcasts for those of
- 7:58you who prefer to put headphones on.
- 8:00There's webinars for those of you who like those sorts of
- 8:03things. There's LinkedIn audio sessions,
- 8:07There's Instagram, Instagram, something live, I can't remember
- 8:11what it's called. There's Twitter, Twitter Spaces
- 8:16and all these kinds of avenues where people are getting
- 8:20together on a daily, on a weekly, you know, whatever to
- 8:23discuss sales problems, personal growth problems, business
- 8:28development issues, personal development issues, goal
- 8:32achievement, quota attainment, whatever it is that the problem
- 8:35is. So there's free stuff.
- 8:36So in my own opinion, I say start with free.
- 8:40Now, this is the reason why I'm not cannibalizing myself because
- 8:43when people start with free and they do some research, they get
- 8:48informed about the different flavours of stuff that are out
- 8:51there. So it's not as if I'm saying I
- 8:53don't like your money. But truth of matter is by the
- 8:55time you go and do your research on yourself and then you come
- 8:58and you meet me, we can now have a very productive conversation
- 9:01because at least you have a sense of one or two things.
- 9:04So I'm not dealing with a total jam bite.
- 9:06So it actually is in my own to my own advantage that you guys
- 9:10run around, do a bunch of stuff. In fact, pay for stuff from
- 9:13other people first. Go and see what's out there
- 9:16before you. Now come and meet me.
- 9:17When you meet me, we're going to have a very, very constructive
- 9:20conversation and you're not going to be totally virgin about
- 9:24these things anymore. And then you and me can have a
- 9:26fruitful relationship. So start with word 3.
- 9:32Discover the different flavours of what is out there.
- 9:34You're going to get a little bit more informed so that when
- 9:37you're ready to pay, you can be more confident about what you're
- 9:42paying for and why. And then another reason why I
- 9:45say start with free is because too many people let money to
- 9:48become an obstacle. Just start with whatever it is
- 9:50you have. There's a story I told on the
- 9:52podcast about where I was speaking at this event on how to
- 9:57use artificial intelligence to boost your career and then to
- 9:59boost your business. And after that, there was a
- 10:01business competition. And there was a lady there who
- 10:04was a wedding planner. And part of the reasons why she
- 10:08entered into the competition was because she needed a couple 100
- 10:11grand, you know, to buy a new phone because she thought that
- 10:14the phone is going to help her improve her business.
- 10:16Now, as a former wedding and event person, I could have told
- 10:21her a couple of things, but I know how it works.
- 10:23So I just kept quiet. She was convinced that she
- 10:26needed a few 100 grand, I can't remember how much, like 300 or
- 10:29400 grand to buy this Samsung something, something or the
- 10:32iPhone something, something. And then somebody on the panel
- 10:36asked her, OK, can we see what phone you use right now?
- 10:38And then she pulled it out. And lo and behold, it is the
- 10:41very same phone that I'm using right now, the Xiaomi 13 C
- 10:45sorry, no, the Xiaomi 12 C that's one that we got for
- 10:48wifey. So we got 13 C for me and 12 C
- 10:51for wifey. And you know, someone pointed
- 10:57out that, you know, young lady, the problem is not the phone
- 11:02like this phone is adequate. Perhaps there are other things
- 11:06that you need to explore, but the lady wasn't getting the
- 11:08message and she still things that she needed the 300 or the
- 11:12400 grands to buy the Samsung blah blah blah or the iPhone
- 11:15something something I can't remember what it was.
- 11:19So some people let money be an obstacle.
- 11:21So because she was waiting for the 300K or the 400K to do that,
- 11:24she was not taking any action now.
- 11:27But I am all for do start with what you can right now.
- 11:32When the money comes, you will upgrade or you will do whatever.
- 11:35So if shows my personal person and well, actually I was tired
- 11:42because it was a long day, which was my personal person and I had
- 11:44the energy, I'd have called her aside and said, look, young
- 11:46lady, let me give you the lowdown.
- 11:48I used to be in this business before and because we consider
- 11:51ourselves to be artists, we let too many things wheels down.
- 11:53What the truth of the matter is, you take your JAOMI 12 C and
- 11:57then you focus on maybe go on YouTube and learn how to like
- 12:01things better. If you can like things better or
- 12:03if you can use a better background, you'll find that
- 12:05your 12 C is adequate for now to give you some decent stuff.
- 12:09Then when you have that 300K, you can now go and get that
- 12:12Samsung blah, blah, blah blah blah, instead of right now your
- 12:14Instagram page remaining blank until you get that money that
- 12:19you need to move forward. So when it comes to personal
- 12:23development, business growth, those sorts of things, I'll tell
- 12:26people, start with free. Don't let money be an obstacle.
- 12:29Start with the free stuff and continue to run it like that
- 12:31when you now have some extra change, 75K here, 200 K here,
- 12:35300 K here. You know, whatever you can now
- 12:38start trying to see who is out there, who has a paid, what are
- 12:42the paid platforms? Are the paid mentorship paid?
- 12:44Whatever you can start with free.
- 12:47So that's practice number one. Start with free and think about
- 12:52it as your personal information diet.
- 12:54You know, something you eat in the morning, in the afternoon or
- 12:56in the evening to keep the mind, right?
- 12:58So you know your favorite Blogger, I don't know, maybe
- 13:01read the blog first thing in the morning before you start work or
- 13:05read the blog last thing at night before you go to bed.
- 13:08Your favorite podcasters, listen to them.
- 13:12Most podcasters podcast once a week.
- 13:15So it's not too much. It's not too much work.
- 13:18Then for those of you who listen to my podcast, you guys like to
- 13:20binge anyway. So I guess it's not a problem to
- 13:22show up once a week and then just binge on a couple of
- 13:25episodes. So think of it as personal
- 13:27information that that tip number, what tip is that?
- 13:31Is that number one? I'll be #2 Anyway, let's move
- 13:34on. So the next thing is, I would
- 13:36say, and it's a very personal thing, avoid people who tout
- 13:40tricks and hacks and special regiments.
- 13:43Avoid those people at all costs. So anybody who says use these
- 13:48three special lines to turn off your gross, your business growth
- 13:51in 2025, as in just ignore all those people.
- 13:54This is the silver bullet. This is the special trick.
- 13:56Save these 3 words to get people to pay you.
- 13:58So like, just ignore all those people.
- 14:01Leave them. You want to get heartbroken.
- 14:05It's not because these tricks don't work.
- 14:07The tricks actually do work. But The thing is, because the
- 14:10people are preoccupied with giving you the silver bullet,
- 14:13they don't teach you the overriding system.
- 14:16So when you try this trick and you run into problems, you don't
- 14:19know how to do reverse and to do U-turn and to solve the problem
- 14:22because all you did was you learned 1 trick, one hack out of
- 14:28a general out of a general context.
- 14:32It's like other people who say who make those video sell this
- 14:35pen. And then in the video they teach
- 14:38you how to use the whatever to sell this pen.
- 14:41So OK, let's say like there's one for instance, where the guy
- 14:44and I was really, really impressive, although kind of
- 14:46cheeky, was like, send me this pen.
- 14:48And then the person took the pen and then put it in his pocket
- 14:51and then kept silent. So the idea was to use what's it
- 14:57called? Can't remember what it's called,
- 15:03Forgive me, I can't remember the name of the tactic.
- 15:04But basically when people are expecting you to do one thing,
- 15:07if you do something else, it's a very interesting way of getting
- 15:10their attention, getting them curious and then getting them
- 15:12bought into the process. So that was what the the fellow
- 15:18did guy pattern interrupt, that's what it's called.
- 15:22So he was trying to use a pattern interrupt to teach you
- 15:24how to sell your products or services very well.
- 15:27Now the problem is this. If you try pattern interrupt,
- 15:29but then the person doesn't react the way that you expected
- 15:32them to react, what are you going to do?
- 15:33Now you're lost. You don't know what the next
- 15:36step is. So pattern interrupts, they
- 15:39work. But if somebody's telling you
- 15:41that pattern interrupts is what is going to index your business
- 15:44in 2025, avoid that person. You're better off looking for
- 15:47someone who is process driven and who has a framework.
- 15:50The person will teach you everything.
- 15:52The best one will start from saying, OK, look, this is the
- 15:53thing, pattern interrupts, but pattern interrupts only work in
- 15:56this context. This context is part of a larger
- 15:59process. The larger process, the goal is
- 16:01that we're heading here and to do that, it only works on these
- 16:04kinds of people. And then you should be only
- 16:07doing it in this context, in that context.
- 16:08So I mean, can you see what I'm trying to say here?
- 16:11Somebody who comes and picks one thing as the alpha and the
- 16:13Omega, and this is going to double your business.
- 16:15This is with 10 extra growth, this will whatever, whatever.
- 16:18And 2025 it's it's, it's it's just absolutely, you will get
- 16:23heartbroken. That one is for sure.
- 16:26So look for people who are process driven and who have
- 16:29frameworks. So if somebody comes and says
- 16:32maybe the performance interrupts special selling framework
- 16:36something, something. And it's a series of courses
- 16:39that are going to be delivered over 10 lectures of 45 minutes
- 16:43each. OK, that kind of person.
- 16:44Yeah, I still would not recommend that guy because he's
- 16:47only teaching one thing as the kernel for truth that will get
- 16:51you to where you need to be. But still it's that kind of
- 16:55thing is better because there's some kind of system or process
- 16:58around it. So I avoid all these special
- 17:01tricks to whatever in 2025 hacks to something, something,
- 17:04something and special regiment to 10 extra growth.
- 17:07It's the same thing that people have learnt in the health and
- 17:09Wellness space. When somebody says do these
- 17:12three magic whatever to get your to get fit ABS in 2025, you
- 17:20know, people have realized that, OK, well, yeah, you can do this
- 17:22thing and get fit ABS, but it should be part of a whole,
- 17:27should be part of a whole system.
- 17:29What other muscle groups are you working?
- 17:31What is the goal? Are you an athlete or are you
- 17:33trying to avoid personal injury around routine stuff?
- 17:41Let's see what else. You know, there's not just all
- 17:43about the 6 packs. So people in health and Wellness
- 17:45space have realized that. So all these things where 'cause
- 17:48you still see those Instagram videos, you know, do this.
- 17:51I mean, like some targeted women, you know, do these three
- 17:54special exercises to increase your buttock size in 2025.
- 17:58So I mean, yes, increase your buttock size, but increasing but
- 18:04size out of the larger context of personal health and and
- 18:08personal goals at the end of the day just means nothing.
- 18:12So look for people who are process driven and who have
- 18:14frameworks. Then do your best.
- 18:18Call into the organization, call the guy, call the babe, call
- 18:21whoever. Have a discovery call with the
- 18:22person you're trying to figure out who this person is, how they
- 18:25can help, what would be required of you to get things going.
- 18:29Don't just that's by the time you have money.
- 18:30Don't just call up the first person and then give them money.
- 18:33Call, discuss with people and if there are some people who will
- 18:37not talk with you unless you drop money, for me, it's it's
- 18:42not a good sign. I understand that that's how
- 18:44some people choose to run their businesses, but for me, it's not
- 18:46a good, it's not a good sign at all.
- 18:49Of course, everybody's trying to run away from giving free
- 18:52consultation because everybody loves free or most people are
- 18:55free. So if you're giving free
- 18:56consulting, then that's all you will do.
- 18:58You just spend your day talking to people for free.
- 19:00But there are some people who will say that, OK, fantastic
- 19:03show, no problem. But before we have a
- 19:04conversation, transferred 20K to my account and then we'll have a
- 19:06conversation. I don't think that's I don't
- 19:10think that's a good way to go about it.
- 19:12You should only be looking at people who are willing to have
- 19:14some sort of conversation so you can suss them out.
- 19:18Then let's see what else? OK, pencil and paper.
- 19:22My favorite recommendation for 2024, always have a pencil and
- 19:26paper handy. You should be making notes on
- 19:28paper. You should be making notes on
- 19:30your phone. When you're listening, you're
- 19:32watching, you're Youtubing your whatever ring.
- 19:36And the reason why is because it's been a while since I heard
- 19:39the statistics, but I think somebody said this is like 80%
- 19:42or something that if you go for a training session, you're going
- 19:45to forget 80% of the things that you learned in the last week.
- 19:48Well, something like that anyway.
- 19:49So don't, don't quote me on that, but check Google, check
- 19:53Wikipedia. The thing is called the memory
- 19:56retention curve. So if you check the memory
- 19:58retention curve, you get all the accurate stats.
- 20:00And it's quite frightening about the number of things that you're
- 20:04going to forget in, you know, one day in three days, in seven
- 20:07days, in one month, that kind of thing.
- 20:09It's quite scary. So we solved the problem.
- 20:13Not by taking psychotropics, is it?
- 20:16I mean psycho, is it psychotropics?
- 20:18I can't remember. There some stuff that boys are
- 20:20taking these days and it's mostly boys.
- 20:21I don't know why boys are fascinated with these things.
- 20:24You know, you take this special pill and this pill is supposed
- 20:26to improve your IQ, improve your memory, improve your this,
- 20:28improve your that. So, you know, young men running
- 20:31around nowadays, they want to be super computers.
- 20:35So the solution is not all those psycho enhancement,
- 20:38psychotropic, whatever the solution is, simple pen and
- 20:40paper or your phone, write the thing down that you like to
- 20:43execute. So back to this whole thing of
- 20:45pattern interrupt. Let's say you bought into this
- 20:47whole pattern interrupt thing to improve your sales.
- 20:50So if you want to try the pattern interrupt tip that the
- 20:54person was talking about, you know, write it on sheet of
- 20:56paper, pattern interrupt, you write the particular tactics,
- 20:59you write how you're going to apply it to your business and
- 21:01then you just continue. And then tomorrow when you wake
- 21:04up, you open your notebook. You see, they're like, oh, OK,
- 21:06today when I go out and I'm looking for customers and what,
- 21:09you try a pattern interrupt and this is how I will try it.
- 21:12So that's how you get around the problem.
- 21:13So pen and paper, it still works.
- 21:16Make a note on your phone, you know, depending on who it is
- 21:19that you are. Then there's a let me see.
- 21:23Aha, yeah. Now this one, this was from my
- 21:25own personal experience. So don't say this is not going
- 21:29to work for me. That's the wrong way to look at
- 21:31it. Rather, you should ask yourself
- 21:33a question. How can this work for me?
- 21:37Let me repeat, don't say this won't work for me, even if it's
- 21:41obvious from the beginning that it's not going to work, but
- 21:45rather ask how can this work for me?
- 21:50This how can it work for me part is also very, very easy nowadays
- 21:53that we have AI, we have ChatGPT, whatever.
- 21:56So you can even use AI to brainstorm how this, excuse me,
- 22:00how this particular principle or how this particular tactic will
- 22:03apply to your business or apply to your context before you give
- 22:05up on the idea. So don't just hear pattern
- 22:07interrupt and say pattern interrupt won't work for me.
- 22:10It's only for white boys or it's only for people in the UK and
- 22:13America. But rather ask yourself, how can
- 22:15the pattern, how can the pattern interrupt work for me in my
- 22:18business? And then you can now use ChatGPT
- 22:22you say? Dear ChatGPT, I'm a wedding
- 22:24photographer in Abuja, Nigeria trying to improve my sales.
- 22:28I watched the video, it said you can use a pattern interrupting
- 22:30blah blah blah blah blah. I don't see how that applies to
- 22:33wedding photography. Give me 3 ideas about how we can
- 22:35use pattern interrupt to sell more in wedding photography.
- 22:39Question mark, hit send. ChatGPT will give you a couple
- 22:43of things. If you look at 5, three don't
- 22:45make sense. Ignore if two of them look like
- 22:47they make sense. Pencil and paper write it down
- 22:50tomorrow when in front of a customer, try and see what
- 22:53works. The reason why I'm saying this
- 22:56is this won't work for me. This won't work for me.
- 22:58This won't work for me. It's going to keep you in the
- 23:00darkness for a very, very, very long time.
- 23:02And I'm speaking from personal experience because in the
- 23:06agricultural business, I, of course, my brother and I, we
- 23:10used to sell. Then when my brother and I were
- 23:12doing this photography and videography thing, you know, we
- 23:15all had selling responsibility, but primarily selling was my own
- 23:19responsibility. So for years my brother had been
- 23:23sending me stuff. And believe me, I spent years
- 23:25ignoring Brian Tracy and I spent years ignoring Tom Hopkins
- 23:30because as far as I was concerned, Brian Tracy, white
- 23:33boy American, does not apply to Nigeria.
- 23:36Brian Tracy talking about financial space.
- 23:39But I'm an artist. I'm a creative.
- 23:41I'm an artist. I'm a, you know, those of us who
- 23:44are born with creative talent, you, you know how we feel about
- 23:48ourselves now. We feel like we're the greatest
- 23:50thing since sliced bread, you know, because we draw, we paint,
- 23:53we dance, we sing, we act. And, you know, so we just, we,
- 23:58there's a way we feel ourselves. Yeah.
- 24:01And so that's what I used to say, like this won't work for
- 24:03me. These are white guys, not
- 24:05Nigerian. Brian Tracy Financial Space Tom
- 24:08Hopkins Real Estate. What we are doing is we are
- 24:11trying to sell charcoal abroad. We're trying to sell sesame
- 24:15sesame seed abroad. We're trying to sell wedding
- 24:18photography. What does wedding photography?
- 24:20What does video, What does sesame seed have to do with
- 24:24insurance products and real estate?
- 24:26And so I spent years ignoring those guys because I assumed
- 24:32that these things do not relate to my field.
- 24:34But unfortunately for me, I was keeping myself in the dark and I
- 24:37was keeping myself away from the truth.
- 24:39They do apply now, which is why I keep saying on the podcast
- 24:43about using a multidisciplinary approach to building your
- 24:46businesses. The stuff that the architect is
- 24:49going to say about business growth that if you listen to it,
- 24:52will help you in improving your pharmacy business.
- 24:55There's stuff that the pharmacist is going to say about
- 24:58increasing your sales as a pharmacy shop.
- 25:01That if you take it and apply it as a fashion designer, it can
- 25:04also improve your business. Because sales principles,
- 25:07business development principles are universal.
- 25:10They apply to different kinds of context.
- 25:12The only thing that changes is how are we going to apply it to
- 25:15this context? Which one are we going to apply
- 25:20first? What are we going to prioritize?
- 25:22You know, The thing is all the principles apply, but the
- 25:27application is just what is different.
- 25:29Like let's go to Tom Hopkin things, Tom Hopkin real estate.
- 25:33Tom Hopkins for him is a big thing about sales resistance and
- 25:37then sales acceptance. The idea is this, in the
- 25:41beginning, everybody's going to be uptight.
- 25:43Everybody want to keep something to their chest because nobody
- 25:45wants to be hustled. So they will keep quiet.
- 25:48They won't tell you anything. That's sales resistance, but
- 25:51other people relax and they're comfortable with you.
- 25:52They'll open up and then they'll start talking to you like a
- 25:55normal human being and then that's why you're going to be
- 25:57able to advance the sale. So like in the real estate
- 26:01space, nobody's going to come and tell you that yeah, my
- 26:03budget is 40 M The average Nigerian is going to be thinking
- 26:06if I tell this guy I have 40 M to buy a house, he is going to
- 26:09make sure that he extracts up to 40 M and beyond.
- 26:14So the every person will just keep quiet and will not tell you
- 26:17about his budget or his or his or her financial goals and
- 26:20investing goals and things like that.
- 26:22That is sales resistance. So for Tom Hopkins, we overcome
- 26:26sales resistance by establishing trust and then try to figure out
- 26:31their needs. So if you establish some trust,
- 26:33some credibility, and you do some needs analysis, people
- 26:36relax a bit. And you know, that's when you
- 26:38start hearing things like, well, I may have upwards of 30 M in My
- 26:41Portfolio and I'm targeting something that can give me
- 26:43returns of maybe 3% annual. So you can see that in this
- 26:47case, the person still didn't open up his mind.
- 26:49He didn't open up his mind and say I have 40 M, but he now say
- 26:52I have upwards of 30 M and this is what I'm targeting at.
- 26:55You guys can now have a fruitful conversation.
- 26:57So you'll see that those dynamics, establishing trust,
- 27:01figuring out a need, trying to see how you can help the person
- 27:04and then you hurry to close the sale.
- 27:06It applies in wedding photography.
- 27:08And because I was looking at the fact that, look, these are white
- 27:11boys talking about different industries, it kept me from the
- 27:14truth for a very long time. So let's avoid this will work
- 27:17for me. It's going to keep you in the
- 27:19dark for too long Here. The thing you'll be confused,
- 27:23you'll scratch your head, but then you're not asked.
- 27:25How can this work for me? If you sit down for 5 minutes
- 27:27and you don't figure out how this thing can work, Pick up
- 27:30Gemini, pick up ChatGPT, pick up.
- 27:35Is it purpose cutie? I'll be.
- 27:37So anyway, there's so many of these tools, Whatever it is that
- 27:40you fancy, pick it up, write out the prompts and then see some
- 27:44things will be rubbish, some things will make sense.
- 27:46The one that makes sense, try it, see how it works for you,
- 27:49then let's see what else. OK, it's almost 30 minutes, so
- 27:54let me wrap up half clear goals. What problems are you trying to
- 27:57solve? That's you know, what target,
- 27:59what targets are you trying to reach?
- 28:00That's you must always have that at the back of your mind.
- 28:03So it also, it also helps you know, to determine where it is
- 28:06you're moving and how. So if you think that, OK, what
- 28:08you have is a branding problem and you're trying to see how you
- 28:11can increase brand awareness in 2025 or whatever, you can see
- 28:16that if you are approaching material with that clear goal,
- 28:18it will inform the things you're listening to, the people you're
- 28:20subscribing to, the things they're writing down to try and
- 28:23execute. I mean, you see, it's not just
- 28:25the same thing as you wake up every day and you're just
- 28:28listening to business content in general.
- 28:32Have a clear goal or get a sense of what's the problem I'm trying
- 28:34to resolve or where am I trying to, where's the promised land
- 28:38that I'm moving to? So that will determine where you
- 28:40look on the map. Then as you're doing that, you
- 28:44should have a focus on skill development.
- 28:46You should be trying to figure out, OK, what skill do I need to
- 28:48take me to the next step? What skill do I need to move me
- 28:50to the promised land? And yeah, so that's the
- 28:53attitude. Have a clear sense, where am I
- 28:55heading? What's the problem I'm trying to
- 28:57overcome? What skills are going to help me
- 29:01move to that next step. So like I said, there are lots
- 29:04of things to consider because we can keep on talking about these
- 29:07things over and over and over and over and over again.
- 29:10And it's possible that you might find somebody else in a blog or
- 29:12in a podcast who will have a list of 10 things.
- 29:14And the list of 10 things will be different from the number of
- 29:17things that we have discussed. I'm here today, so we can't name
- 29:21them all. I hope that this has been a
- 29:23helpful few. And that is all for today,
- 29:26pretty much. So remember to connect with me
- 29:28on LinkedIn. My name is Tavishima Ayede, the
- 29:32host of the show. You can confirm the spelling of
- 29:34my name from the link where you're listening to this
- 29:36episode. So just highlight, copy, paste
- 29:39and LinkedIn. My handsome face will come up,
- 29:41then connect with me on WhatsApp.
- 29:45The phone number is 08064662140. So yeah, country code is +234
- 29:53for those of you who are not measuring.
- 29:55So thank you very much for your time and attention.
- 29:57I'll catch you guys at the next episode.
- 30:01And yeah, that's it for today.