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Episode 74: Offended? Check your boundaries

Bitterness isn’t just emotional noise—it’s a message.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the idea that offense is trying to tell you something. That lingering frustration or replayed conversation? It’s not just about what they did—it’s often about a boundary you haven’t named yet.

When you learn to dig for the data, offense becomes a clue—not a character flaw.

Ask yourself:

What emotion am I actually feeling right now?

What boundary of mine may have been crossed?

Did I override my internal “no” to avoid discomfort or please someone?

What does this tell me about what I value… or how we’re…

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