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You Didn’t Fail; Your Expectations Were Shaped And Shattered

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Hope can be a lifeline—and a trap. We dive into the psychology of emotional deception, exploring why it’s so hard to let go even when the truth is obvious. Kim Lee, child and adolescent psychotherapist, unpacks the difference between expectations we create ourselves and expectations that are planted by someone who promises connection and then withdraws. If you’ve ever asked, “Why didn’t I leave sooner?” or “Why do I still miss them?” this conversation offers clarity without blame.

We break down the biology of attachment to explain the pull you feel. Attachment isn’t a thought…

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