Love Is Not One Thing And Here Is Why | S5 E132

Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast · Jun 18, 2026 · 23m · transcript

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Love is not a single feeling you either have or you do not. It is a set of patterns, and once you can name them, you can stop guessing at what is happening in your relationships and start choosing what to build.

We walk through eight types of love using the classic Greek terms: pragma (mature commitment), eros (passion and desire), philia (deep friendship), philautia (self-love), storge (family bond), ludus (playful early-stage energy), agape (giving without expecting anything back), and mania (obsessive love that can spiral into jealousy and codependency). I also introduce a…