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- 0:35SPEAKER_00: Today, I want to talk to the woman who knows she's ready to break her patterns, but feels stuck because she doesn't know what her next step actually is.
- 0:53SPEAKER_00: And I think this is where a lot of women get stuck.
- 0:58SPEAKER_00: It's not that you don't have awareness anymore.
- 1:02SPEAKER_00: It's not that you haven't done the work.
- 1:06SPEAKER_01: It's that now you're in this weird space where you can see everything clearly, but you don't feel clear on where to go next.
- 1:21SPEAKER_01: And that place can make you question yourself.
- 1:29SPEAKER_01: Am I ready?
- 1:32SPEAKER_01: Am I good enough?
- 1:35SPEAKER_01: Am I faking this?
- 1:39SPEAKER_01: Should I be further along?
- 1:43SPEAKER_00: That's where imposter syndrome shows up.
- 1:46SPEAKER_00: Not at the beginning, but right after awareness.
- 1:51SPEAKER_00: Here's what I've learned.
- 1:52SPEAKER_00: That confusion doesn't mean that you are lost.
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: It means that you've outgrown the way that you used to move.
- 2:02SPEAKER_00: You evolve, you it's like you shed and you change.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: But you're not starting over, you're transforming into a new way of learning and leading yourself.
- 2:19SPEAKER_00: So here's a simple thing.
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: You can ask yourself in the moment of doubt, what would I do next if I trusted myself?
- 2:31SPEAKER_00: Ten percent more, not one hundred percent, not perfect clarity, just ten percent more trust.
- 2:41SPEAKER_01: And then do that one thing.
- 2:48SPEAKER_00: Because rebuilding your life isn't about having zero fear, it's about learning how to move while you're still uncertain.
- 2:57SPEAKER_00: That's how you break the old patterns, not by waiting until you feel ready, but by learning to trust yourself in motion.
- 3:10SPEAKER_00: So if you're in that space right now, I just want you to know that you're not you're not falling behind, you're in the middle of being and reigniting that person that you haven't fully met yet.
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: And that part, it is uncomfortable, but it's not wrong.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: Anyway, I'll talk to you in the next one for now.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: This is get it got it, girl.
- 3:46SPEAKER_00: I hope this gives you some clarity.