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Episode 597: Never Give THIS To Your Ex · The Art of Love With Lucia

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  Hi. This is Lucia with the art of
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  love. I'm a dating and relationship.
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  Experts specializing in helping you get your ex back or to get
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  over your ex this week. I am riled up, I am on fire
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  because of something happened to not one, but two of my clients
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  who were in no contact and then they came to contact with their
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  ex and the X did something and now they are back in no contact.
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  They did not get their ex back. So what happened?
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  We'll stay tuned and I will tell you But first, I want to welcome
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  back my beautiful. No contact Army.
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  I am almost at 100 thousand followers on YouTube.
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  Thanks to you guys. Like, obviously could not have
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  done it without you guys, and so, I'm going to be giving away
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  some free sessions and the wait to get a free session is to be
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  subscribed. And once I hit 100,000, then I
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  will let you know exactly what you need to do.
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  And in the meantime, if you two would like to join the
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  no-contact Army, all you have to do.
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  Is hit the Subscribe button and the bell notification and you're
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  in, enter read our Emmanuel, go to no contact secrets.com where
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  you can read 2p chapters before purchasing the book, okay?
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  So what happened, that has me all fired up.
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  So one of my clients who had been in no contact for about 45
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  days, He heard from his ex, she called from a blocked number.
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  And unfortunately, he answered, and he was on the phone with her
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  for two hours. Are they back together?
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  No. Is he back in?
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  No contact? Yes.
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  What about my other client? He had been in no contact for a
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  long time. He ran into his ex they talked
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  for hours and hours and hours. Are they back together?
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  No. Is he back in?
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  No contact. Yes.
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  What was the big mistake here? What happened?
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  They both gave their exes way. Way.
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  Way too much time there's person broke up with you threw you
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  away. Like trash basically said, I
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  don't need you to be happy. You don't add value to my life,
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  I don't need you. You I can do better.
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  And then they contact you or you run into them and you give them
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  all this time. So now they don't have to have
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  any more anxiety. They don't have to worry if you
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  want them back because you proved by giving them so much
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  time that you are still very much interested in them no
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  matter how much no contact you did.
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  And the first client, she called my block number because he had
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  been doing the right thing he had And ignoring the
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  breadcrumbs, like I told them when she texted him and she
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  thought that if she calls from her regular number, he probably
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  was not going to answer, which he wasn't going to answer.
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  So she tricked him. She played him and he fell for
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  it and he said, he responded because he had a family member
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  that always calls from a blocked number.
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  So I tell told them, well, then you need to tell their family
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  member to unblock their number. If your no contact, you cannot
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  be answering calls from numbers. You don't know, or numbers that
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  are blocked because it just might be Extra going to catch
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  you off guard, you're going to do the wrong thing and you're
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  going to mess up all the no-contact that you did.
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  So if you are a no contact, take your ex's name.
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  First of all, out of your phone so you don't by mistake text
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  them. Then if you have the settings on
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  your phone set it so that you only accept calls from numbers
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  that are in your contact, and you do also do not accept calls
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  from unknown or block numbers. All those calls go directly to
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  To voicemail and that way there's no way your ex can sneak
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  in there and fool you and if by some chance they do you do not
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  stay on the phone for two hours. Now I understand that when
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  you're in no contact and you do have contact with your ex and
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  they're being friendly and they want to talk and talk and talk
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  that I'm asking the impossible to ask you to pull yourself away
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  after a short amount of time, but this is exactly what you
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  need to do. It's like you're in the desert,
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  you're thirsty. And there finally is a jug of
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  water. And I'm telling you.
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  No, no, no, no, no, don't don't do it.
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  Don't drink the whole jug. Of water.
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  Just take a little sip and stop. Otherwise, if you drink the
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  whole jug of water then you may never get that jug of water
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  again but if you discipline yourself and take just a little
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  sip then you may have that jug of water for the rest of your
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  life. So keep that in mind if you hear
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  from your ex if you run into your ex do not, Give them a ton
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  of time because you're telling them that you are still very
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  much interested. I want you to get your ex back
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  just as much as you want to get your ex back for different
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  reasons. Obviously you know why you want
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  to get your ex back? I want you to get your ex back
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  because I'm very competitive. I want another notch on my belt.
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  I want us to win you and me, I want us to win because it is a
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  competition. So who's going to win?
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  Is it going to be you? And I, and you're going to get
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  Back. Or is it going to be your ex and
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  they're not coming back. I don't like to lose so you have
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  to follow what I say to a tee and not Veer off into the
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  bushes, my clients who have gotten their exes back, did
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  everything I told him to do, and didn't do what I told them not
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  to do and the ones who didn't get their ex back, are the ones
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  who at some point veered off, wet Rogue did their own thing.
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  And, oh, what happened? They didn't get their ex back,
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  surprise, surprise. And I have a video if you
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  haven't already heard it. I believe it's called how to get
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  your ex back step by step instructions of the guy.
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  And he wanted to keep contacting as X and going to see her
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  etcetera etcetera, and I had to veto this so many times.
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  I kept saying, nope! Nope, you can't do that.
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  You can't do that. No, you can't know.
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  You can't know you can't. And finally, he got his ex back.
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  And another girl who got her, well, actually she decided she
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  didn't want him after all, but the video is called.
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  I got my ex boyfriend back. And she too didn't want to do
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  what I told her to do, but she had Faith, she listened.
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  She did everything. I told her to do, he came back,
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  but she changed her mind. So every day you have to be
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  prepared that you may hear from your ex or may run into him, 90%
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  of people will hear back from their ex.
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  I don't want you to be surprised and not know what you do.
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  Your body is going to go into shock when you hear from them
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  because you've been dreaming about this moment for so long.
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  You might break into a cold sweat.
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  You may start shaking, you may go blank.
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  So every morning when you wake up, say to yourself, I may run
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  into my ex today, I may hear from them.
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  I'm going to be prepared know what you got to do.
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  Listen to my videos, if you do talk with them, do not give them
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  hours and hours of your time. Okay?
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  So now I'm going to hear from you.
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  I want you to pledge downstairs in the comments down stairs that
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  you are not going to give your ex hours and hours of your time.
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  Time that is not going to get them back.
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  Okay. So put that in the comments
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  downstairs and in the meantime if you would like my help to get
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  your ex back, you can contact me at the art of love dotnet we
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  will send you the rates if you don't receive them.
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  Then be sure to check all your Spam folders and if they're not
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  in there, then contact us again because we do respond to every
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  single email. And if you found this video
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  helpful, please like, subscribe, and share if you're listening to
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  this as a podcast, please rate and review.
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  And finally, remember, Love inspires and Powers up lives and
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  enlightens.