If your partner’s phone had absolutely no WhatsApp history, would you see it as a red flag or am I reaching?

Anele and the Club on 947 · Oct 12, 2026 · 16m · transcript

We received a voice note from Minenhle, who has a question about her boyfriend’s WhatsApp habits. She says he has absolutely no messages in his chat history because he constantly clears everything, and he also has his messages set to disappear after 24 hours.

Now, there’s a difference between someone who likes keeping their phone clean and someone who might be deliberately making sure there’s no evidence of their conversations.

Is this just a man who values his privacy, or is he going out of his way to hide something? And if your partner’s WhatsApp is always spotless…