Your Avoidant Wife Had an Affair (Here’s Why)
For an anxious guy, nothing is more confusing than discovering that your avoidant, seemingly asexual wife was having an affair.
No touching.
No sex.
Years of rejection.
And yet… she was sleeping with someone else.
I break down a real message from a man in a long-term dead bedroom who discovered his dismissive-avoidant wife had been cheating for years. We dig into anxious vs. avoidant attachment, why this dynamic is so common, and why the affair usually has nothing to do with you lacking masculinity, confidence, or sexual value.
If you’ve ever wondered:
“How could she want sex with him but not…
The skinny
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