S4E6 - How Do I Stop Power Struggles With My Preteen?

Play Therapy Parenting: Real Parenting Questions Answered by a Child Therapist · Jul 7, 2026 · 15m · transcript

In this episode, I answer a question from a mom who feels like she's constantly butting heads with her ten-year-old daughter. We talk about why the preteen years often bring a strong desire for independence, how to balance growing autonomy with healthy boundaries, and why behaviors like arguing, disrespect, and constantly saying, "You're not the boss of me," are often signs of a child trying to figure out who they are rather than simply being defiant.

I also share practical ways to strengthen your relationship during this important stage of development, including how encouragement builds…