Latest / Love Your Gut / Ep. 97: Why Eating Healthy Hasn't Fixed Your Bloating and Constipation
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- 0:03Dr. Heather Finley: Welcome to the Love Your Gut Podcast.
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- 0:06Dr. Heather Finley: Heather Finley, registered dietitian and gut health specialist.
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- 0:55If eating healthy, fixed bloating and constipation, my clients would be the least symptomatic people I know, but honestly, they're usually the healthiest eaters in the room and they still feel awful.
- 1:08So what if eating healthy isn't the reason that you don't feel better, but the reason that you feel worse?
- 1:16If you've ever thought I eat so well, why is my gut still a mess?
- 1:20Then this episode is gonna explain exactly why.
- 1:24And by the way, I'm not saying that you shouldn't eat healthy.
- 1:27So if you're starting the year thinking, I'm eating so healthy, why do I feel worse?
- 1:32I promise you are not alone.
- 1:33This is one of the most common things that we hear, especially at the beginning of the year when people have started new diets or new habits or whatever it might be.
- 1:43You're probably eating whole foods.
- 1:45You're cooking at home, you're choosing clean ingredients, you're avoiding junk food, you're taking all these supplements and on paper it looks like you're doing everything right and yet the bloating is still there.
- 1:57The constipation is still there.
- 1:59Your gut feels super unpredictable.
- 2:02These are the clients who tell me, I'm scared to eat out.
- 2:05My pants don't fit by 5:00 PM I feel like my gut controls my life and I've been there too.
- 2:11I understand how hard it is to feel like you're doing everything right and yet.
- 2:17Nothing is actually going right.
- 2:19So here's the part that I want you to hear very clearly.
- 2:22Most of our clients are the healthiest eaters who we work with, and they're also the most frustrated, not because they're doing something wrong, but because eating healthy alone isn't the same thing as having a body that can actually handle healthy food.
- 2:38There's this idea every January of new me, new year, new me.
- 2:43Eat cleaner, be more disciplined, try harder.
- 2:46And that mindset works when you're generally healthy, but it doesn't work when your gut is already struggling.
- 2:52If you're dealing with chronic bloating, constipation, food reactions, acid reflux, diarrhea, or just symptoms that keep coming back, trying to be more quote unquote perfect with food usually makes things worse because the issue is not your effort.
- 3:08I already know that you are a high achieving disciplined person.
- 3:14The issue is what I'm gonna talk about today, so let's dive in.
- 3:20The first place that we have to start is minerals.
- 3:24This is the piece that almost no one talks about, and it's why we often use this as a first step.
- 3:30There is a reason that we offer mineral testing as a standalone option and our practice and not many other things as a standalone option.
- 3:39Gut testing is incredibly helpful, don't get me wrong.
- 3:43But if there's one thing, the minimum thing that you can do for your health this year, it is test your minerals.
- 3:49This is the minimum foundation.
- 3:51Everything is built on minerals are not optional.
- 3:54They are the raw materials that your body uses to function.
- 3:58Your body needs minerals to make digestive enzymes and without them.
- 4:03You can eat the best food in the world and still not break it down properly.
- 4:08Minerals are required for muscle contraction, so if you're constipated, if things are moving too quickly, this includes the muscles that move food through your digestive tract.
- 4:18If.
- 4:18If those muscles can't contract, motility will slow down.
- 4:22Constipation and bloating will become almost inevitable.
- 4:26Minerals also help your body buffer stress, and they support how your nervous system responds to pressure, lack of sleep, emotional load, and busy schedules.
- 4:36They also help regulate nerve signaling so that your system can shift at a fight or flight and into digestion and repair.
- 4:44That's one thing that we hear from our clients a lot is, I'm snapping at my kids less.
- 4:50I'm not feeling as overwhelmed.
- 4:52Is that just a fluke or is that actually something?
- 4:56And it is something you need minerals like potassium.
- 4:59Magnesium, et cetera, to actually help shift your body from nervous system state to nervous system state.
- 5:06So here's the really simple version.
- 5:08No minerals means no enzymes.
- 5:11No minerals means slow gut motility, and no minerals means that stress feels louder in your gut and in your body.
- 5:19So if your mineral reserves are low or just out of balance, it's harder for your body to handle Stress and stress can show up for you possibly as gut symptoms that might look like more bloating on busy days or constipation when you're traveling or digestion Just.
- 5:37Totally falling apart if even a small part of your routine changes.
- 5:42This is why someone can be doing quote unquote everything, right?
- 5:46But.
- 5:47A bad night of sleep or a busy week or just life with kids totally throws off their digestion pretty much immediately.
- 5:55This is also especially relevant if you're a busy mom.
- 5:58We work with lots of busy moms.
- 6:00I just got off office hours with our clients and one of our clients was there.
- 6:03She's a very busy mom of three.
- 6:05She has twins, she's nursing, just lots of stress, sleep deprivation, and a lot of GI symptoms.
- 6:14And a big piece is that.
- 6:16We got her mineral test back.
- 6:17She's so depleted, so stress is gonna feel even worse when you're really depleted.
- 6:23It's harder to get more restful sleep.
- 6:26You feel wired and tired, and so all the years restricting food if that's been you or just cycling through gut protocols.
- 6:34That depletes minerals.
- 6:35And when minerals are low, the body loses its ability to adapt.
- 6:39At that point, know, amount of willpower or trying harder really makes a difference.
- 6:46Your system simply does not have the raw materials that it needs to function.
- 6:51So like I said, this is the minimum.
- 6:54Once mineral support is in place, the next place we can look is digestion, because the truth is that healthy food asks more of your digestive system, not less so fiber, protein, fat.
- 7:09They don't just magically turn into nutrients because they're good for you, right?
- 7:13We know that we should eat fiber.
- 7:15We know that we should eat protein.
- 7:16We know that we should eat fat, all the things, but they require being broken down.
- 7:21Stomach acid, digestive enzymes, bile coordination of muscles, and so everything has to fire at the right time in the right order.
- 7:30At the right strength.
- 7:31And when your digestion is working well, healthy food will feel really good, but when your digestion is weak, even the cleanest, most nutrient dense foods can make you feel worse.
- 7:43We actually had a client, I'll never forget this.
- 7:45She came to us and she's like, why do I feel better eating a cheeseburger and fries than salads and smoothies?
- 7:52Like I, I want to be able to enjoy a cheeseburger, but I also wanna be able to enjoy a salad.
- 7:58This was not because like her body just needed more cheeseburgers.
- 8:03It was because her digestive system was overwhelmed.
- 8:06It didn't have the tools it needed to break down a raw salad or really fibrous foods.
- 8:13Those salads and smoothies were high in fiber.
- 8:16They required more stomach acid, more enzymes, and more just.
- 8:20Overall digestive effort.
- 8:22The cheeseburger and fries were a little simpler.
- 8:24They had less fiber.
- 8:25They placed less demand on her already stressed digestive system.
- 8:30Yes, fat from a cheeseburger or fried foods does require bile and lipase and all the things, but that was not her issue for her.
- 8:40The meals moved through the stomach more efficiently instead of sitting there and fermenting and creating pressure and bloating.
- 8:47So she felt less uncomfortable, less distended, less reactive, even though the food looked quote unquote worse on paper, I.
- 8:55This is why, how food feels in your body will matter more than how healthy it looks online.
- 9:03Your digestion matters so much, and when digestion is weak, healthy food can feel like pouring gravel into your digestive tract.
- 9:11It's just not gonna move.
- 9:13It needs a shovel to help move it through your digestive tract.
- 9:17A helpful way that you can think about this is trying to drive.
- 9:21A pill in a car with a weak engine.
- 9:23The problem isn't getting there.
- 9:26It's how you're getting there.
- 9:27The engine just does not have the power yet, and if you keep loading more weight into that car, Allah, fiber and harder to break down foods without fixing the engine, everything is gonna slow down.
- 9:41So once you understand digestion.
- 9:45Stress starts to make a little bit more sense too.
- 9:48And once you actually fix digestion, then maybe you're even less stressed about your digestive system.
- 9:55Not in the just relaxed way that people are told, but minerals and digestion, proper digestion are key to a healthy stress response as well, because stress also.
- 10:09Is involved with both of those things.
- 10:11Stress physically turns digestion off.
- 10:15When your body is in a stress state, stomach acid will drop.
- 10:18Digestive secretions will slow.
- 10:20Motility will slow.
- 10:22Food will sit longer than it should.
- 10:24That creates more pressure.
- 10:26More fermentation, more bloating.
- 10:28Stress can also shift the balance of gut bacteria, which is so interesting.
- 10:33You can literally change the ratios of bacteria because of stress, which makes digestion feel even more unpredictable.
- 10:42And that is why you might be able to tolerate something on one day and have completely different reactions the next day.
- 10:48So I want you to ask yourself a few honest questions.
- 10:52Do you feel pressure to eat perfectly?
- 10:55Quote unquote?
- 10:55Do you get anxious about eating out or eating foods that you didn't prepare yourself for?
- 11:01Do your symptoms get worse on busy days, even when your food choices don't change If you're answering yes.
- 11:08To any of those questions, I think it's important to understand that sometimes it's not the food, it's the state that you're eating in.
- 11:16If you are rushing through meals, eating while stressed, feeling guilt or anxiety around food, or just constantly bracing yourself for symptoms, your nervous system will never.
- 11:27Fully shift into digestion, and when digestion is turned down, even safe foods can feel like a problem.
- 11:35This is why you can't just focus on what you eat to fix your digestive symptoms.
- 11:41It's just one small piece of the puzzle.
- 11:44Of course, food affects your digestion, but it's not the whole piece.
- 11:48You have to address minerals.
- 11:50You have to address digestion, stress, the, these are the things that really keep people stuck.
- 11:57Is just focusing on food.
- 11:59You have to focus on the capacity of the entire system.
- 12:03Once all of that is addressed, or once you've taken a look at all of those things, the next piece that often gets misunderstood is gut bacteria.
- 12:13I was on a podcast actually earlier today and she asked me, how has the.
- 12:18Conversation around gut health changed in the last even year, and I told her that I really think that finally we've shifted the conversation around gut health away from just probiotics and more into this more comprehensive approach of actually looking at the whole system prebiotics, fiber.
- 12:43Stress, minerals, all the things, which is really great because just taking probiotics is also not the way to fix your gut health.
- 12:53Although they can play a role, gut bacteria balance like a parking lot and your gut bacteria.
- 12:59You want to have lots of beneficial bacteria in this parking lot.
- 13:03You don't wanna have an empty parking lot.
- 13:06That means you're lacking bacteria.
- 13:07You wanna have good patrons in the parking lot of the store, right?
- 13:12You also don't wanna have an empty parking lot that allows for riffraff and parking lot parties to show up.
- 13:21Because what can happen is your gut bacteria do play a role in how food will feel in your body because your bacteria actually help you break down fiber, especially the types of fiber that your own enzymes can't fully digest.
- 13:36Your gut bacteria also help you produce beneficial compounds like short chain fatty acids.
- 13:41These help support inflammation, gut lining, health, immune function, help with brain health, et cetera.
- 13:48And so when these things are balanced or when your parking lot is full of good bacteria, they help reduce gas and bloating rather than create it.
- 13:56So when that balance is off, that experience totally changes.
- 14:02If your microbiome is imbalanced, the foods that are considered, quote unquote good for you or healthier for you, quote unquote, they may actually cause more symptoms like I was sharing at the beginning of this episode.
- 14:14Not because you shouldn't eat those foods, but because the system that's supposed to process them is not.
- 14:20Functioning optimally.
- 14:22So I wanna be very clear.
- 14:24This is not like don't eat vegetables, don't eat fiber.
- 14:27By now, you should know that vegetables are good for you.
- 14:30You should not avoid them forever just because they make your stomach hurt.
- 14:34The goal is never long-term avoidance.
- 14:36The goal is fixing the reason that they hurt in the first place.
- 14:40Some vegetables naturally will cause gas.
- 14:43That's completely normal.
- 14:44If you eat a whole plate of broccoli, I would expect that you might be a little gassy or Brussels sprouts a little gas after certain higher fiber.
- 14:51Foods is not a problem.
- 14:53The problem is when the gas is persistent and painful or accompanied by bloating, that will not go away.
- 15:00Pressure that will not go away.
- 15:02Changes in bowel movements that last for days, this is where timing and readiness really matter.
- 15:10I'm very pro fiber.
- 15:12This is something we really work on with our clients, but there is a definitely a time and a place for it.
- 15:18If you are in the early stages of your gut journey, adding fiber too quickly to a gut that isn't ready for it can feel like a lot and can make you go backwards, which is where the order matters.
- 15:31And the order in which I'm presenting this information on the podcast is generally the order that you would want to go.
- 15:39And everybody's gonna be a little bit different, but this is generally the order that you would follow.
- 15:44So we don't wanna add fiber too quickly, even if it's technically a quote unquote good food.
- 15:49We wanna support minerals, digestion, stress, see how the microbiome responds.
- 15:55It's also why adding fiber blindly or just aggressively can backfire.
- 16:01In our program.
- 16:02In the VIP option, we do regular food and symptom reviews.
- 16:06For this reason so that clients aren't guessing, we help them figure out when to add back fiber, when to back off the right kinds of fiber, because different types of fiber will do different things.
- 16:18For example, one of the fibers that we love to use is sono fiber, because there's research showing that it decreases methane producers or gas producers in the body.
- 16:28So knowing when would be the time to add something like that in how to increase it in a way that actually builds tolerance instead of triggering symptoms.
- 16:37And sometimes you might have a slight increase in symptoms.
- 16:40So knowing what would be expected and then what is actually too much.
- 16:44So the goal is to eat more variety.
- 16:46Build the capacity to tolerate more foods with the ultimate goal of 30 plants a week, which I have other episodes where I talk more about that, but fruits, vegetables, nuts, seeds, beans, legumes, herbs, spices, all that fits into that bucket.
- 17:0130 plants a week is really what we're going for.
- 17:05There's one more layer that I wanna talk about, and this is the piece that often explains why someone is doing everything right and not making progress.
- 17:14And that is infections, because infections in the gut can quietly block digestion.
- 17:20It's not always this dramatic thing.
- 17:23It's not always like constant pain or obvious.
- 17:26Sometimes it's just symptoms that never fully resolve, no matter how clean the diet is.
- 17:31For example, h pylori, this is the most common infection in the world.
- 17:35It's very a common bacterial infection.
- 17:38This lowers stomach acid and impacts mineral absorption, iron absorption.
- 17:43Someone could be eating plenty of foods or even taking iron supplements and still have low ferritin because absorption is compromised.
- 17:52Or they could be doing all the right things to improve their stomach acid, but if they have a persistent h pylori infection, then all of digestion is not working together and they're having symptoms with healthier foods that they need stomach acid to break down.
- 18:09Parasites are another example.
- 18:11Something like Giardia can damage the lining of the gut and actually can even create temporary or even longstanding lactose intolerance.
- 18:20Suddenly, maybe dairy feels like a problem, not because you're now dairy intolerant.
- 18:26It's because your digestion has been disrupted.
- 18:28Once you take care of the Giardia.
- 18:31Typically your ability to digest dairy or lactose resolves.
- 18:36There's other bacterial infections that can interfere with nutrient absorption and impact mineral depletion as well.
- 18:44So when minerals are already low, remember that was the first thing that we talked about.
- 18:49This creates a cycle.
- 18:50Suggestion will weaken stress tolerance drops and symptoms become harder to calm because it's just this vicious cycle.
- 18:57So.
- 18:59At a very basic level, any kind of infection in the gut, h pylori, bacteria, giardia, whatever, they interfere and compete with nutrient absorption and create inflammation.
- 19:13And when those things are present, digestion cannot function optimally.
- 19:17This is why you can eat perfectly and still struggle with something.
- 19:23That's actively interfering with your digestion and inter until that interference is identified and addressed, food changes alone are not going to create the relief that you're looking for.
- 19:34So I hope that this is helpful to think about why.
- 19:38Okay.
- 19:38There definitely could be some missing pieces here.
- 19:40I've tried all the things.
- 19:41I've tried, lo fodmap, I've tried Whole 30.
- 19:43I've tried this probiotic, I've tried that probiotic, but perhaps there's stuff going on under the surface that I actually need to address.
- 19:52So when you take a step back and look at all this together, it does start to make sense why so many people feel stuck.
- 19:58Because doing everything right doesn't automatically lead to feeling well.
- 20:04Clean eating or Whole Foods and supplements can not move the needle if the foundations aren't there.
- 20:13We don't want to guess or piece things together over time because that leads to burnout.
- 20:19And normal labs don't always reflect how your gut is actually functioning day to day either.
- 20:25This is why so many people, I believe, feel really frustrated and confused because they've put in effort, they've made changes, they've tried to be consistent, and they're wondering why they're not getting results.
- 20:37Not because they're not disciplined, because they're missing foundations.
- 20:41Like I've talked about today and missing the foundations in the right order.
- 20:46Addressing these things in the right order leads to digestion that works really well together, and a body that has the capacity to respond to the inputs.
- 20:58Once those foundations are in place, food no longer feels like the problem.
- 21:02Symptoms are more predictable.
- 21:04Progress finally starts to stick.
- 21:07And at this point.
- 21:08You don't need more discipline.
- 21:09You need a different strategy, right?
- 21:12So what actually moves the needle?
- 21:14It's not just throwing spaghetti at the wall.
- 21:16It's not adding another supplement.
- 21:18It's not eating even cleaner.
- 21:21Progress comes from supporting your body in the right order, and that means supporting digestion so that food can be broken down, restoring motility, so that things can move the way that they're supposed to.
- 21:34Rebuilding mineral reserves so the body has the materials.
- 21:37It needs to function.
- 21:39Regulating stress, so digestion can stay turned on, and then testing instead of guessing, so you're no longer throwing things at the wall and hoping that it sticks.
- 21:48So doing things in the right order, getting data, and that's when those pieces really fall into place.
- 21:54Food stops feeling scary, like the enemy symptoms are predictable, and it stops feeling like you're walking uphill both ways in the snow, if you've.
- 22:04Already tried eating healthy.
- 22:06This isn't about eating healthier.
- 22:10You need to understand why your body is struggling and how to actually support it.
- 22:15So if you feel like this episode is describing you, that is your sign to work with our team one-on-one.
- 22:21This is the same framework that we use with clients who have tried everything else in the Got Together program.
- 22:27We take this exact approach, we're gonna look at.
- 22:30All the pieces, your minerals, digestion, motility, stress, gut function, and guide you through the process step by step so you're not guessing or doing it alone.
- 22:39Most people that work with us didn't just wake up one day feeling confident about getting support.
- 22:44They were just tired of staying stuck and doing the same thing over and over again.
- 22:48And maybe that's you too, so you can apply to work with us.
- 22:52Through the link in the show notes, if you've been listening nodding thinking, this sounds like me, I would trust that instinct.
- 22:58Getting support is often the missing piece that allows everything in your digestion to start working.
- 23:03So let me know if you have questions.
- 23:05You're always welcome to reach out to me on my dms on Instagram, and I'll see you next week on the next episode of the Love Your Gut podcast.