Latest / Closing Sales in Nigeria - Sales For The Nigerian Business Person: The Sales and Marketing Blueprint / Creating Customers Who Can't Stop Talking About You
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- 0:01Hello and welcome. My name is Tavishima Ayede.
- 0:04I solve sales and marketing challenges and I'm making
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- 0:39on the podcasts. So one moment, let me have a
- 0:42look at the list. OK?
- 0:46Yeah, so today on the podcast, we're going to look at how we
- 0:48can use Bliss to transform customers into brand
- 0:53ambassadors. So let me repeat, we're going to
- 0:55look at how we can use Bliss to transform total customers into
- 1:00brand ambassadors. So how are we going to do this?
- 1:04Number one, obviously, is we have to give them Bliss with our
- 1:07customer service. Customer service has to be on
- 1:10point and they need Bliss. Absolute pleasure, absolute
- 1:13satisfaction #2 we're going to ask them for referrals.
- 1:17And then #3 we have to look for a way lobby or look for ways to
- 1:22nurture and empower these people who have become our ambassadors.
- 1:27So that essentially is what we're going to look at today.
- 1:30So I'm going to use Bliss to transform customers into brand
- 1:33ambassadors. What is even a brand ambassador?
- 1:38OK, well, we'll get into all those definitions.
- 1:41But the three-step formula that we're going to use is #1 give
- 1:44them Bliss if we're going to use Bliss to transform them into
- 1:47brand ambassadors. So number one is give them bliss
- 1:50#2 As for referrals #3 nurture and empower the ambassadors.
- 1:58So let's do some definitions. Now.
- 2:01Let's define Bliss for the purpose of the podcast.
- 2:05When we say Bliss, we just mean exceeding customer expectations.
- 2:08Because of course, Bliss can mean any number of things,
- 2:12especially since, you know, those of us listening to the
- 2:15podcast right now, including me, we're very young people.
- 2:17So when we hear Bliss, we think about something.
- 2:20But that's all we're thinking about today.
- 2:22We're talking about customer expectations because this is a
- 2:25business podcast. So every time I say bliss in
- 2:29this particular episode, that's what I mean.
- 2:31I mean exceeding customer expectations.
- 2:34If customers wanted A and you find a way to give them a plus a
- 2:38little bit of extra, that is a blissful experience.
- 2:43So if you're going to exceed the customer expectation in the 1st
- 2:49place and leave them feeling blissful, you have to know the
- 2:55expectations in the 1st place. You have to know because the
- 3:00problem is that lots of you who are trying to build wonderful
- 3:03business and you want to give your customers bliss.
- 3:06You want to exceed the expectations.
- 3:09But The thing is, you are running on assumptions.
- 3:11You are assuming that you know what it is that they need.
- 3:15We have to ask them in the first place because it's not as if
- 3:21most of us are selling ice cream because, you know, if it's ice
- 3:24cream, you know, now it's straightforward.
- 3:25Now walk up to the stand. What do you want?
- 3:28I want vanilla, I want pistachio, I want caramel.
- 3:31I want these, these, these. And then put a dash of Brandy on
- 3:33it, you know, But as ice cream is relatively straightforward.
- 3:38So since we're not selling ice cream now we need to find, we
- 3:42need to figure out a way to know what the expectations are in the
- 3:441st place. And that's why on the podcast I
- 3:47keep talking about need analysis.
- 3:50If you listen to other sales trainers, sales coaches,
- 3:53business development consultants, they will talk
- 3:55about qualification and discovery.
- 3:59In the early part of the podcast, I used to use that term
- 4:01a lot, but I've stopped using it because, you know, it's
- 4:03technical language and you know, there's no point using big words
- 4:07that will confuse people. So that's why now I just say
- 4:09need analysis. So to exceed customer
- 4:14expectations, we need to know what they need in the 1st place
- 4:17or what they are expecting in the first place.
- 4:19You know, we can do that is if we engage them in conversation.
- 4:22We do need analysis. We do qualification and
- 4:24discovery. Qualification and discovery just
- 4:27means you're asking questions about the person and you're
- 4:30asking questions about the problem because we're trying to
- 4:35figure out who are they? This person that I'm talking to,
- 4:38who are they? We need to figure that out.
- 4:41What do they want? We need to figure that out.
- 4:44How do they want it? We need to figure that out.
- 4:47Do I even have the skills to satisfy their need?
- 4:51As for asking them all these questions, in our mind, we have
- 4:53to be doing that mathematics as well.
- 4:55Because if somebody says they want a + B + C, but in your
- 5:00heart of hearts, you know you cannot deliver a + B + C, then
- 5:03come on, while you go and put your head in that kind of
- 5:06scenario, you're bound to lose. So that's also a part of the
- 5:11question, the equation, do I have the skills or do I have the
- 5:14materials or do I have the setup or do I have the team or do I
- 5:18have the whatever to be able to deliver what they want before we
- 5:22even talk about going beyond. So This is why I need analysis
- 5:26is essential. Have a conversation with the
- 5:30person. Most people come and meet you
- 5:31and say how much Yeah, you will get to the money conversation.
- 5:34But First off, you need to figure out a few things.
- 5:36Who is this person? Where are they coming from?
- 5:38Who sent them? What do they want?
- 5:39How do they want it? Can I do I have the skills to
- 5:42deliver? Do I have the material to
- 5:43deliver? Do I have the team to deliver?
- 5:46Do I have the time to deliver? Not to talk of even going beyond
- 5:52very, very important need analysis.
- 5:54Now, let's use a case study And Chinedu, if you're listening to
- 5:58this episode, This is why I said this is an episode that you
- 6:01might find relevant because Chinedu, less than 20 years old,
- 6:06is about to break into business and he's a graphic designer.
- 6:10So I figured since he's the last person that I chatted with, I
- 6:14think this morning anyway, he was last person.
- 6:16The last message I responded to this morning, I figured let me
- 6:19just use let me just use this guy as the case study for today.
- 6:23So that's our case study, the example that we're going to use
- 6:27to flesh out every single idea we're talking about here.
- 6:30We're going to be using the example of a graphic designer
- 6:33because I spoke to Chinedu this morning.
- 6:35He's a graphic designer. He's about to break into
- 6:37business. So Chinedu, pay attention.
- 6:42Yeah, that first job that you did, you did it for free, you
- 6:44know, is good. You'll get testimonial, hopeful.
- 6:46Hopefully we'll get some referrals, you know, from this.
- 6:50But eventually when you start having targeted conversations
- 6:55where you're trying to get somebody to become a client,
- 6:58this is some of the groundwork, this is some of the foundation
- 7:02that you're going to be laying. So China do pay attention and
- 7:04anybody who is in China do situation pay attention.
- 7:07Even though I'm using graphics design, it applies whether
- 7:10you're a lawyer, whether you're a tailor, whether you're an
- 7:13engineer, whether you're an architect, or whether you're an
- 7:16app designer, a website design. The process is the same.
- 7:20Just take the principles that we're going to lay out here and
- 7:24then apply it to your situation. And then it goes beyond people
- 7:30who are just new on starting off in business.
- 7:32If you are already an established player in your
- 7:36business, so let's say you've been in the graphics design game
- 7:38and you've been doing this for like, you know, three to five
- 7:41years. Still there will be some
- 7:43principles here that can help you.
- 7:46So now back to so I said, well, when do you need analysis now
- 7:52from the point of view of somebody who is a graphics
- 7:55designer? Now this is the usual Niger
- 7:58attitude and you guys, I mean you guys know now this is how we
- 8:02run things in Niger. Somebody will pick up the phone
- 8:06or somebody will slide into your DM and the person will say, OK,
- 8:09graphic designer or a design banner for me.
- 8:11How much? That's why they will ask you.
- 8:14Then the graphic designer will now respond, it is 350K and then
- 8:18the person will keep quiet or the graphic designer will
- 8:21respond is this your WhatsApp number or?
- 8:24Yeah, let me send you my price list.
- 8:25They will now send you send the customer price list.
- 8:28They will now keep quiet. Now this is the idea that most
- 8:32people have in the usual Niger attitude.
- 8:34The idea is that, OK, a customer has reached out to me, let me
- 8:38just give them all the information they need and then
- 8:41you know if they want to go get back to me.
- 8:44This is the problem with the usual Niger approach.
- 8:49Somebody reaches out to you and they say Bros design banner for
- 8:54me. How much you know?
- 8:55Tell them 350K. You didn't say anything again.
- 8:59Or you said let me send you price list.
- 9:00You didn't say anything again. The problem is #1 most likely
- 9:05you are being price shopped. What that means is what that
- 9:09means is whoever reached out to you has reached out to two or
- 9:11three other people. Once you just reply 350K, the
- 9:15person will write it down. Chinna do 350K, the next person
- 9:18might say 750K Cami. They will not write it down cami
- 9:23750K and then Abdul Kadir might say 150K, they'll write it down
- 9:29150K. What will not happen is they
- 9:33will ignore Cami who is 750K. They are really loving Abdul
- 9:39Kadir because it's 150K, but they also try and see if they
- 9:44can get Chinedu to calm down from 250K to get closer to, you
- 9:49know, around that kind of 150, maybe 200.
- 9:55You're being pretty shocked. That's the problem with usual
- 9:58Nigeria approach. Then another problem in usual
- 10:00Nigeria approach is when you just tell somebody 350K, you
- 10:03don't say anything or you send them price list, you don't say
- 10:06anything. They'll say, oh thank you very
- 10:07much, let me get back to you. And of course, when they say,
- 10:11let me get back to you, what next is ghost mode now?
- 10:15Because when they say let me get back to you, what are you going
- 10:17to do after a while? What are you going to do?
- 10:20You say, boss, I just they greet you or something.
- 10:23Now I was very unprofessional so to say let me get back to you.
- 10:28Then there's some people don't just say, OK, thank you.
- 10:30I don't want anything again. You tell them the price is 350.
- 10:35They'll say, OK, thank you, don't respond again.
- 10:37And then you you're hanging. You're not wondering, OK, what
- 10:40am I supposed to do? What does OK, thank you mean?
- 10:43Does it mean I'm interested? Am I supposed to follow up with
- 10:47this person? I really don't know what I'm
- 10:49supposed to do. And then some people, OK, this
- 10:55one is a bit more encouraging. You say, alright, it costs 350
- 10:58or you send them price lists. Some of my reply back and say,
- 11:01OK, I'm interested in option B, but was your last price.
- 11:06This is also a bad situation because now you're negotiating
- 11:08with someone about price, but you're negotiating on the back
- 11:11foot. And then there's some people who
- 11:13say, OK, OK, thank you very much for the information.
- 11:16Let me discuss with my wife, let me just got my business partner,
- 11:19let me blah, blah, blah. Let me pray about it.
- 11:21I'll get back to you. Let me think about it, I'll get
- 11:23back to you. Either of these options, they're
- 11:26all good. And this is what happens if you
- 11:28take the usual Nigerian attitude of somebody reaches out to you
- 11:32and they say how much you just give them a price straight or
- 11:35you send them price list. Usually it doesn't work too
- 11:40well. Now, this is what you should do.
- 11:44Remember I said that we have to be proactive here.
- 11:47Sorry. Yes, well, we have to be
- 11:49proactive. Yes, we have to do need
- 11:51analysis. Because remember, the whole
- 11:53point of today's podcast is we're trying to give them
- 11:55blissful service. So by the time we wow them with
- 11:59blissful service, they'll be so overwhelmed.
- 12:03Now you know what, They'll come back and buy from us again and
- 12:05they will start spreading the gospel about as they'll say
- 12:07what, you know what, I did business with this guy Chinidu.
- 12:11And Chinidu is the bomb. Like he's the ultimate.
- 12:13He's the very best call. My guy Chinidu, he will take
- 12:17care of you. That's what we're trying to do.
- 12:21And of course, we're not going to achieve that.
- 12:23If somebody says how much? We now say 3:50.
- 12:26So we have to be proactive and besides, this sets you apart
- 12:30because trust me, only professionals do this.
- 12:34Then you have to set the agenda. Only professionals do this.
- 12:39Another small benefit for the Nigerian market is you know how
- 12:43in Niger, you know people can look down on some certain
- 12:46classes of people, you know, because you're a graphic
- 12:48designer. Do you think, you know, you
- 12:51don't have plan for your life or maybe you didn't have money to
- 12:57go to university or something? There's a widow just be looking
- 12:59down on you, you understand? So there's some professionals
- 13:02that when we set the agenda, it helps us to achieve equal status
- 13:06with the customer. So, this one is absolutely
- 13:09necessary for Nigerian markets. We have to be proactive and we
- 13:13have to set the agenda. We are professionals.
- 13:17They should regard us as such even if they have more money
- 13:21than us. We are equal in status as human
- 13:25beings and they will respect us as such.
- 13:29They will regard us as such. So we will set the agenda for
- 13:33the conversation. Please pay attention.
- 13:37All right then, apart from being proactive and setting the
- 13:40agenda, we have to engage them in conversation in an open-ended
- 13:44manner. We have to get them talking
- 13:45freebie. The reason why we have to get
- 13:47them talking free is because we will get all the information
- 13:50that we need so that we can give an accurate price.
- 13:53The main reason why I'm not a fan of somebody reach out to you
- 13:56say how much and I'll say 350 is why are you saying 350?
- 13:59Like you don't even know. You say 350 personal.
- 14:02So OK, no problem. Give me your account number.
- 14:04Do send 350. By the time we start doing this
- 14:06job, you now realize that man, I should have quoted 750 because
- 14:11of the level of work that I have to do to get this thing done.
- 14:14It happens a lot. I've been in that situation
- 14:17before. Someone just reached out to how
- 14:19much you just give them a price. They pay you without calling and
- 14:22you're like, oh, thank God you're happy.
- 14:25You know, you go on and spend a bunch of stuff.
- 14:28Maybe you pay tight, you eat your armour, you know, then by
- 14:32the time you start the work, you're like, oh, my owner price
- 14:36myself here. This is the reason why we need
- 14:38to get people talking freely. All right?
- 14:42It is not just so that we can figure out what they need so
- 14:45we'll know how wow them. This also, so we know shoot
- 14:47ourselves in the foot. We need to make sure that we
- 14:50have given an accurate price. We need to get information from
- 14:53them then is also from excuse me, engaging them in open-ended
- 14:59conversation that we're going to be able to determine the level
- 15:03of customer experience and the level of service that we need to
- 15:06provide based on what the person says.
- 15:12You know, there's some customers that are very simple like me.
- 15:15I'm a very simple guy, you know, No, too much for Verity.
- 15:21OK, I want this. Give me this.
- 15:22You know, if you throw some extra on top, you know, for me
- 15:24it's like, wow, impressive. But then there's some people
- 15:27that are like, you know, you better go above and beyond, you
- 15:33better. Like there's some people that
- 15:34need extra pampering and you know, or what not.
- 15:39So it's from asking me questions, engaging with me in
- 15:46an open-ended manner, you'll now be able to oh, OK, this guy is a
- 15:49kind of, you know, it's kind of like this kind of like that.
- 15:51OK, if we do it like this, we'll have the guy then by the time
- 15:55you're talking to somebody who is a diva, whether male or
- 15:57female, you know, OK. And this one is a diva.
- 16:00So if we want to exceed customer expectations, we have to do like
- 16:03this. We have to do like that.
- 16:05So this part very, very important.
- 16:07Now, now that I've told you what to do, let's use some examples
- 16:12about lines of conversation that we can use.
- 16:17Oh, by the way, you don't have to use all the examples that I'm
- 16:21giving here. Because usually when I go into
- 16:25this exercise, somebody will say, if I start asking my
- 16:28customer, all these questions will be like I'm interrogating
- 16:31them or they will get bored or they will just do that.
- 16:34And, you know, look, I understand when I give these
- 16:37examples. I'm just trying to give as many
- 16:39examples as possible. I am not saying that when you
- 16:41sit down with a customer, you ask them 15 questions.
- 16:44That's not what I'm saying. All right, So you hear a couple
- 16:54of examples that are good here. You know, if I say 20 things,
- 16:57you know, look at the 20 and think of the four or five that
- 16:59you can or the two or three that you can start a conversation
- 17:02with. It's OK, It's good.
- 17:05I am not saying use every single idea that I have here.
- 17:08I throw out as many ideas as possible just because I'm trying
- 17:10to be exhaustive. I want people to as many people
- 17:14as possible to hear something that will click with them like
- 17:16OK, let me try this one out. OK, so don't try at all 10/15/20
- 17:21or however many I provide. So all these examples, either
- 17:26one will be a good one, but this is just a good place to start
- 17:30because the way conversations happen is you say one thing, the
- 17:33person says something, you follow up with another thing.
- 17:35So this just start. So somebody reaches out to you,
- 17:40it's nice to figure out the timelines.
- 17:43Ask them questions about their timelines, whether they have
- 17:46another project at hand or whether they're just curious.
- 17:52There's something I used to ask because it happens as a wedding
- 17:55photographer happens. There's some babes who reach out
- 17:56and ask you how much nobody has proposed.
- 17:59They're just curious. They just want to know.
- 18:02So I asked. I said, oh, congratulations.
- 18:06When did you get proposed to? So.
- 18:08Well, I actually, I have a boyfriend, but he hasn't
- 18:10proposed yet. So.
- 18:11OK, So you're just curious. Yeah, I'm just curious.
- 18:14The kind of conversation I'll have with that kind of babe is
- 18:17different from somebody who says how much my wedding is in six
- 18:23weeks and and this is, you know, my wedding since six weeks in
- 18:29about how much. I mean, that's that's a
- 18:31different conversation. So timelines, we used to be
- 18:33asking people questions about timelines.
- 18:35Since you're a graphic designer, you need to know was the project
- 18:38on hand? When do they need it by?
- 18:40I'll be there just making an inquiry.
- 18:43Then another thing that people don't ask, find a way.
- 18:46We have to ask whether they have worked with another XYZ before.
- 18:50Have you worked with another graphics designer before?
- 18:53You need to find out what was the experience, was it good or
- 18:56bad? How come you're not using him
- 18:58anymore? I know some of you will be
- 19:02wondering how can I rub that into a conversation?
- 19:05OK, can be tricky, but that time zone must be done.
- 19:09The example that I gave was the lady that I was talking about
- 19:13the mummy's burial, and we started talking figures and
- 19:19honestly, the figures were unrealistic, but I know that
- 19:24Pop, their popsy passed a while ago.
- 19:26So I just asked, OK, the guy that covered the popsy's burial,
- 19:30then how come he didn't call him now?
- 19:31Like what's up? I just like, oh, actually it's
- 19:34true. And his work was not that bad.
- 19:37I said, yeah, sure, call him up now.
- 19:38I'll be, is there a problem there?
- 19:43We have to ask these questions because first of all, we don't
- 19:49want to be dealing with people who are novices because novices
- 19:53have unrealistic expectations. When I say novice, I mean
- 19:56somebody who has never done the business before.
- 19:58So if you design websites or you do graphic design and somebody
- 20:01calls you, they've never worked with a graphic designer before,
- 20:04that's a hard conversation because they don't know what's
- 20:06good, they don't know what's bad.
- 20:07But somebody who has worked with two or three graphic designers
- 20:10before and here you can have a profitable, a good conversation
- 20:13there because they've been educated small, so they know
- 20:15what's realistic and what's not realistic.
- 20:18And then also the whole thing of trying to find out what's good,
- 20:21what's bad about their previous experiences because it now gives
- 20:25you a sense of what to do or what not to do.
- 20:29And believe me, that saved me quite a bit as a wedding
- 20:33photographer, You know, I'm listening and paying attention.
- 20:36They say, oh, during my sister's wedding, this guy did this.
- 20:40In my mind, I just mark it down my head, OK, They don't like
- 20:43this kind of thing. So, you know, don't do that
- 20:47something as simple as shoes. The guy was so messy, he didn't
- 20:51even bother removing his shoes before he came into Mumsy's
- 20:54house. So I knew that on that day and
- 20:58for me, I wear palms, so it's not even a problem.
- 21:00I knew that once I said the house, I just removed my palms
- 21:03and I put it outside the door and then I walked in.
- 21:06But you won't know these things unless you ask.
- 21:10Now when that bride is talking to other people, they can say,
- 21:12oh, Tavi Shimai is well behaved. Like when he came was very neat.
- 21:15He left his shoes outside the door.
- 21:19So you need to ask how they work with another graphics designer
- 21:23before. What was the experience like,
- 21:25good or bad? How come you're not working with
- 21:26this person anymore? You also need to ask questions
- 21:29around who else is going to decide on this banner design or
- 21:33on this, whatever. The reason why we ask is because
- 21:36we're trying to figure out how. We're trying to figure out the
- 21:38decision making unit. That's what people call it in
- 21:41the, I think like in construction space.
- 21:44Yeah, construction, they call it decision making unit.
- 21:47What people that are involved in making the decision, you need to
- 21:49know so that you can pull all these people into the process
- 21:53early. Also because these people are
- 21:57going to be significant when it comes to, you know, at the end
- 22:01of the day, when you want to wow people's expectations, you know,
- 22:04it's all the key people that were involved in making the
- 22:08decision. Those are the people that you
- 22:10need to get their feedback on, on whether this was a good deal
- 22:16for them or not. So you need to know because you
- 22:22might be trying to wow one person, but there are two other
- 22:25people in the background who are important in making a decision.
- 22:29But you didn't know, You didn't court them.
- 22:31You didn't try to wow them. And so at the end of the day,
- 22:34one person says this was a wow experience, but the other two
- 22:38people say it was OK. You can see that that affects
- 22:42you know how they're going to talk about you as a whole.
- 22:46How did you hear about me? That's also another question.
- 22:49You don't have to ask questions about their business, their
- 22:51product or their service. You need to ask you don't just
- 22:55tell somebody O350 Ki ask like, what do you need it for?
- 22:59OK, what's your business or computer business?
- 23:02OK, and they also have to ask about the the objective of the
- 23:07design. This banner, this flight I'm
- 23:09going to design. Is it to increase sales?
- 23:13I'll be easy for brand awareness.
- 23:15Are we trying to do rebranding? I be.
- 23:17You want the flyer to do lead generation?
- 23:20I be It's just for education. You have to ask since you're in
- 23:26graphic design, you have to ask questions about their brand,
- 23:28personality and voice. So normally, how do you guys
- 23:32express yourself as a company? You know, are you guys modern,
- 23:36traditional, playful? They ask them do you guys have
- 23:40brand guidelines? Do you guys have other marketing
- 23:43collateral? I can look at marketing
- 23:44collateral. That just means stuff that they
- 23:47have created before to use to promote the business.
- 23:50So you can have a look at it, but you need to ask those
- 23:52questions. These are the things that will
- 23:55help you figure out exactly who they are, what they want, what
- 23:58they need. You now know how to go far and
- 24:03beyond and wow them and give them a good experience because
- 24:08you're beginning to know some things about them, about the
- 24:12company, about the business, about what they want to use the
- 24:16website for or the flyer for or the banner for or for the
- 24:20whatever. Ask them about their target
- 24:23audience. This banner that we are going to
- 24:25design, who are we designing it for?
- 24:30Get the demographics and psychographics of the target
- 24:34audience. OK, I'm designing website for
- 24:36you. The website is supposed to
- 24:38appeal to who? Nigerians or Cameroonians or or
- 24:42people in the UK, Your audience, a typical audience, what are
- 24:48they like, how old, where do they live, the age, what are the
- 24:51things they're interested in? All these are important factors
- 24:54that go into the kind of design work that you're doing for these
- 24:57people, whether it's logo or website or banner or flyer.
- 25:03You also need to ask questions around deliverables.
- 25:07What format are we delivering in?
- 25:08Is it PNGZ, JPEG? Is it PDF?
- 25:13You want hard copy deliverables, You want soft copy deliverables.
- 25:16As I ask them, ask all these questions.
- 25:21By the way, this thing about deliverables, you can see that
- 25:23that's where I say we need to ask because some of us, that's
- 25:26how we now shoot ourselves in the food.
- 25:28The person will say you will talk, you agree on 500.
- 25:33After you now collect that 500K as a wedding photographer, you
- 25:37will now hear that they want 4 albums.
- 25:39I'm like hey how can I produce 4 albums for somebody?
- 25:44And I collected 500. So anyway, another question you
- 25:53also need to ask them now by the time we're done, what do I have
- 25:58to do that would make you say this was a successful project?
- 26:02You have to ask this question. And to be honest, me, it's a
- 26:05question that I forget to ask. And I've been in a situation
- 26:08where I was working with somebody and as we're nearing
- 26:10the completion, the person said, OK, yes, I would like to
- 26:12achieve, I'd like to achieve this.
- 26:14And I realized that child, I didn't ask the person in the
- 26:16beginning this question. If I had asked early on that
- 26:21what do we have to achieve for you to say this is a successful
- 26:24project, I would not have wasted my time talking about this and
- 26:28talking about this, talking about that.
- 26:30I would have gone straight to the Coco, the thing that they
- 26:34wanted. So you can see why this part is
- 26:41important. Qualification and discovery our
- 26:44sales professionals will call it or need analysis as I like to
- 26:48call it, because this will what this is what would give us all
- 26:51the information that we need first of all for an accurate
- 26:54quote, an accurate price. Then after that is what would
- 26:58give us all the information that we need to be able to deliver
- 27:01the kind of service that by the time they see our design, they
- 27:04will say wow is I see Chinido was inside my skull and removed
- 27:11the image from my skull and just put it on paper.
- 27:14That is how you achieve that. It's not by wizardry, wizardry
- 27:19or share artistic talent or something.
- 27:24The designers who do a good job of this kind of thing, you know,
- 27:27it's not luck. It's because they have ways of
- 27:30discussing with people or sizing somebody or looking at somebody
- 27:34or listening to somebody and able to figure out that this
- 27:38woman, the way she's talking, I really think this is the kind of
- 27:41thing she's going for. And by the time you're done with
- 27:43the design, Madam will say, wow, so that's how it works.
- 27:48Engage them in conversation. So now this is the next step.
- 27:51We've engaged them in conversation.
- 27:52Now we've asked them all these questions, We've gotten some
- 27:54information. So the next thing is we always
- 27:56have to summarize. The reason I'll summarize is
- 27:58we're trying to confirm and get feedback.
- 28:01And that's why I keep saying on the podcast, I eventually have
- 28:03to get to that position, that that part of the conversation
- 28:06where we say, OK, boss, Madam Olga CC based on what I've heard
- 28:11so far, I'm feeling like this is what you want to achieve.
- 28:16Abby, Abby, this is where we're heading.
- 28:17What is the kind of thing that should be able to sort you out?
- 28:22I'll be how do you see it? The stage is very, very
- 28:26important because it's at this stage that somebody would say,
- 28:29ah, no, it's not what I had in mind.
- 28:32You now know that, OK, you totally messed up, need
- 28:35analysis. You have to start again.
- 28:38Or somebody would say, perfect, but you forgot to add this.
- 28:42You now know. Oh, OK, this one is really
- 28:44important. You will now write it down so
- 28:46that next time you will not forget.
- 28:48Or some people say yes, that's the stage where you now say,
- 28:57Aha, Madame, that. Yes, I didn't like that.
- 28:59Yes. I guess I was not too confident.
- 29:01It's like I didn't understand something.
- 29:03So, Madame, don't worry. I was rushing too much.
- 29:04Right. Let's slow down.
- 29:05Let's, Let's slow down. What?
- 29:07What exactly did I not get that yes, is as if there's something
- 29:11you don't like. Well, what is it that you don't
- 29:13like? Let's remove it.
- 29:16So this part is very important. Summarize all that you've heard,
- 29:19Confirm that you understood correctly.
- 29:22Try and get some feedback. Figure out.
- 29:25Are we on the same page? Are B?
- 29:28All the things I'm saying is off point.
- 29:31If you are off point, it is best to know it now at this stage.
- 29:36Now for you to collect money, you now go and spend one week
- 29:40doing design and by the time you submit design, Madam will now
- 29:43say you are off point. It is best to know you are off
- 29:46point at this stage that we are still talking.
- 29:51So summarize, confirm, get feedback.
- 29:54Are we on the same page? Did I hear correctly?
- 29:57Am I off point? Are we good to go?
- 30:00Did I miss anything? That's the next stage.
- 30:04Then after that, in your professional capacity because
- 30:08you are the professional here, remember that we Nigerian
- 30:12service providers, we often forget, except if you're dealing
- 30:16with the professional, chances are you're the one as a
- 30:19professional. Take look, this one I'm trying
- 30:23to say, listen, I want to show cloth.
- 30:25To be honest, I know nothing about showing cloth.
- 30:28So when I get to the tailor or I get to the stylist, the stylist
- 30:32is the professional. I can tell them this is what I
- 30:35want, but at some point as a professional, you have to put
- 30:39your foot down and say, Olga, I feel you.
- 30:41I know that this is what you want to do, but this thing
- 30:43you're asking, it can't be done or this is the best way we
- 30:47should go about it. Some of you will say the
- 30:50consumer is king, Consumer is queen.
- 30:53No, it doesn't work like that. You are the professional.
- 30:56In fact, this is one that I experienced early in the year.
- 31:00Somebody needed the number for a good stylist.
- 31:04We gave number and then she came back to say the person was
- 31:08saying that the thing cannot be made and this is the design.
- 31:11And the person said, oh, this design is beautiful, but his
- 31:15design is AIAI design and real life design is not the same.
- 31:21Madam, this thing you want to do is not going to work in reality.
- 31:25And I was like, oh, she actually said that.
- 31:28She said yes, so interesting. OK, maybe we should try somebody
- 31:31else. So actually tried somebody else
- 31:32and the person said the same thing.
- 31:34And then in my mind, I'm thinking, so like, what are we
- 31:40talking about? You met 2 tailors, 2 different
- 31:44tailors and they both told you the same thing, that this design
- 31:46is beautiful, but this design is AI.
- 31:49This thing will not work in reality.
- 31:51My mind, I'm thinking, look, can you stop wasting my time?
- 31:56But we have to be able to put our foot down and give our own
- 31:59professional insights, give our own recommendations, give our
- 32:02own advice. Madam, you'd love to do this,
- 32:04this, this is that, or guys you'd like to do this, a more
- 32:07professional opinion. I'd recommend like this, like
- 32:09this, I'd recommend like that, like that.
- 32:11And here are a number of options that I think can work.
- 32:14Give them two or three options and then give them good reasons
- 32:18why you're making those recommendations.
- 32:21Be confident here. You're a professional.
- 32:23The client does not know this work.
- 32:26You're the one that knows the work.
- 32:27You're the one that went to school or you're the one that
- 32:30has been watching the YouTube videos, you have been doing the
- 32:33work, you have been designing for other people.
- 32:36Come on, stand confidently, talk confidently.
- 32:39You're a professional here. But like I said, if you're
- 32:43dealing with somebody who is a professional, OK, that's that's
- 32:45a different ball game altogether.
- 32:46So like even as a wedding photographer, normally I'm the
- 32:50professional, but there was that one time that I was talking to a
- 32:54client, so potential clients and the babe was a photographer.
- 32:59The gamer knows some media stuff.
- 33:01Oh, that's a different thing. But in all other situations, I'm
- 33:05the one that is the absolute pro.
- 33:09So please stand firm. You're a professional, don't be
- 33:14scared, OK, Maybe you don't have enough experience.
- 33:17That's the problem. I'll be don't worry.
- 33:19The more you design and design and design, you now have some
- 33:22confidence in your in your abilities.
- 33:25So after we summarize and we confirm, provide some insights,
- 33:29make some recommendations, give them multiple options, we can
- 33:32try option A, option B, option C, then be proactive in
- 33:37communicating with the customers and give work updates.
- 33:41Proactive just means don't wait until they ask you tell them,
- 33:48give them update before they ask you.
- 33:51If I early on as a wedding photographer, that's one thing
- 33:53that I learned. I learned that if the bride is
- 33:55always calling me will quarrel at the end.
- 33:59It's just a normal something if she needs 10 updates before her
- 34:04wedding and she's the one that called me 10 times for those
- 34:07updates. In the back of her mind is
- 34:08already beginning to register that this guy is sloppy, this
- 34:12guy is not professional, this guy is not on top of it, or this
- 34:17guy is just giving me BP. So for me I hated it when the
- 34:21bride called me first. The moment I see the bride, I'm
- 34:24like that wish my you don't have for I should have called her
- 34:28since. So be proactive, be giving them
- 34:31updates. This is where we are.
- 34:34I told you this will be ready by Friday.
- 34:36I'm just calling you Wednesday to remind you it's looking like
- 34:39we're going to be on calls for Friday, you know, blah, blah,
- 34:42blah. You know, just that kind be
- 34:44proactive, giving them communicating like that.
- 34:48So you can see now that based on how things operate in Niger
- 34:55where somebody would just give a price and then just deliver
- 34:58work, you see now that by you beginning to do all this, you
- 35:02are beginning to wow them because the average Nigerian
- 35:06service provider does not do all of this already you are
- 35:11beginning to wow this person. Then delivery, remember we
- 35:17talked about blissful experience.
- 35:18So try and deliver more than they expected.
- 35:21Now, this is my own experience with a graphic designer that I
- 35:25did some work with back in back in the day.
- 35:29When was time for delivering, They delivered everything that
- 35:33we discussed in colour because it was from my photography logo.
- 35:37For my photography logo, we agreed on white and we agreed on
- 35:45burgundy. Yeah, white and burgundy.
- 35:47Yeah, I think that was it. So the guy not only delivered
- 35:52white and burgundy, the guy also delivered transparencies.
- 35:56First of all, I couldn't see the transparency because I opened
- 35:58up. It just looked like an empty
- 35:59square. And So what is this one?
- 36:01So is the transparency. I said transpare.
- 36:04He said transparency. So what is that?
- 36:06What does that mean? He says, oh, it is for
- 36:08situations where you want to take this logo and you want to
- 36:12put it somewhere on the banner or a website or something.
- 36:15It would just make the logo blend nice into the background.
- 36:19I still don't understand what he was saying.
- 36:21He just copied it and pasted it somewhere and the thing just
- 36:24blended. I was like, wow, he removed it
- 36:27and he put it on another surface and the thing still blended.
- 36:29I was like, oh, OK, like thanks. We didn't pay for transparency,
- 36:35but the guy delivered transparency.
- 36:37Is that not part of the WOW experience?
- 36:41I agreed on something. He gave me something extra.
- 36:46Now work with any other kind of surface.
- 36:49I think his transparency, he called it.
- 36:50I can't remember. But for those of you who are
- 36:52into design, you know exactly what is I'm trying to talk
- 36:54about. Then the guy now delivers social
- 36:57media kit as well. He said when you want to use for
- 37:00Instagram, this is how you do the logo.
- 37:03This is the Instagram size, this is the website size, this is the
- 37:07whatever size. Can you see how somebody was
- 37:09beginning to give me a wow experience?
- 37:13I asked for something white and burgundy.
- 37:15They said no problem, here's your white and burgundy.
- 37:18But by the way, if you're going to use white and burgundy on
- 37:22top, all these other different backgrounds, these ones will not
- 37:25work too well. Transparency is what will work
- 37:27well. Or yeah, take transparency.
- 37:29And then for social media, when you are embossing, when you're
- 37:33putting your signature on all the photos, this is how you
- 37:36would do it. Take these small, small versions
- 37:39for social media. See, that is delivering more
- 37:44than expected, but within reason.
- 37:47He gave me the logo and then he anticipated the other ways that
- 37:51my business partners and I would want to use the logos and he
- 37:56gave us an extra something that will help us with that.
- 38:00Then something that Nigerian service providers don't do, do a
- 38:05pre launch checking or a pre something checking if somebody,
- 38:10especially a person is a business owner has reached out
- 38:13to you so that you can design, banner design, website design,
- 38:18flyer design, whatever. Obviously they're doing it
- 38:22because they want to use it to make money.
- 38:24They have some campaigns they're working on.
- 38:28I have not worked with a single designer and I have not heard of
- 38:32a single graphics designer that has delivered something and has
- 38:36called later on to say how far with the project.
- 38:40Is everything going good? Is it working well, my design,
- 38:44my website, my everything, Is everything smooth?
- 38:46Is it working well to help you with what it is that you're
- 38:49planning to do? I have not heard of a single
- 38:52designer that has done that apart from this guy.
- 38:55They give me more than I expected.
- 39:00Oh, is the website up? Oh fantastic.
- 39:02Can I have a look at it? I want to see and be sure that
- 39:06the logo rendered professional, rendered well and is blending
- 39:10with the rest of the website. The average Nigerian service
- 39:13provider does not do that. And Chinido, make sure you do
- 39:18that. Your person is a business owner
- 39:21and they say pay you for logo. It's not just a matter of you
- 39:25take your money, deliver the logo, call this person.
- 39:29Bro, it's been a while. How you been?
- 39:32Hope you're happy with the logo. OK, You've been using it.
- 39:35Oh, you designed that ahead. OK, let me have a look and be
- 39:38sure that everything is looking nice and smooth.
- 39:40OK, It's on the website. And let me see the website and
- 39:43be sure that everything render well, everything is good.
- 39:47So make sure you do a pre something, something check in,
- 39:51right Chinna, do pay attention. All those Nigerian service
- 39:55providers pay attention. I don't know why you guys don't
- 39:57do this. It's common sense.
- 39:59You just collect money and then you just go there later on.
- 40:03You now be asking somebody for referral like why should they
- 40:06refer you because of what? When you took your money and you
- 40:10left, you made it transactional. Then of course there has to be a
- 40:14post launch, you know? Thing as well, OK, now that the
- 40:19campaign is over, now that they have used your flyer, now that
- 40:22they have used your billboard, now that they have used your
- 40:25whatever, how did the thing go? Also take your collaborative
- 40:28approach and try and help them solve any more problems that
- 40:32came up. So some problems came up, you
- 40:34say oh OK, OK. The problem is the website was
- 40:38not optimised, that this was not optimised like that.
- 40:40You know what, I know a guy who does website.
- 40:43Let me give you the guy number. Oh, I know a babe who does this
- 40:47is let me give you the number. You're being collaborative.
- 40:54You're helping them to solve challenges that have come up,
- 40:57whether you provide the service or not.
- 40:58But The thing is, is like you're in the corner.
- 41:01You're trying to help them. Can you see Nigerian service
- 41:04professionals, how we can start to wow people?
- 41:06Small, small, small. All right, for the 40 minutes.
- 41:13OK, let me round up quickly. Hmm.
- 41:18OK, you know what? Let's just have reasonable
- 41:20expectations. Now, I'm not saying that if you
- 41:22follow every single step that you do now, you will wow all
- 41:25your customers. No, that's not what I am saying.
- 41:28You cannot wow all your customers.
- 41:29It is not it's it's it's not possible.
- 41:34You're not better than God. And God has not wowed all of us.
- 41:38God has not wowed all his customers.
- 41:41Some of us are very angry with God.
- 41:42You know, if God did not get 100 / 100, do not expect that you
- 41:46get 100 / 100 is not happening. You will not wow everybody.
- 41:50But the goal is this. You keep following these
- 41:52processes. You keep trying to optimize the
- 41:54customer experience or the user experience, you know, for those
- 41:57of you who create apps and websites and things like that.
- 42:00Because in aggregate, when I say in aggregate, I mean you know,
- 42:05in average when you get everybody together and over time
- 42:08the reputation will begin to build and you will get the
- 42:14chance to be wound people small, small, small.
- 42:18So if on average you're wounding like 2 out of 10, two out of 10
- 42:23looks like it's poor. But if over a two year period
- 42:28where you have 10 customers every month I wow 2 / 10, then a
- 42:36two year period I'll be 24 + 24, I have 48.
- 42:40So you see what I mean? So in aggregate, over time, over
- 42:442 years, you have now wowed 48 people.
- 42:49We can see that that kind of thing starts to compound upon
- 42:52itself. So don't be worried about the
- 42:54fact that you want to wow as many customers as possible.
- 42:57But for now is like 2 / 10 or 3 / 10 or 1 / 10.
- 43:02Don't worry, continue over time in aggregate or average and
- 43:10based on probability, you know you will all add up.
- 43:16Now how do people become an ambassador?
- 43:19Anybody who has gone through this experience with you, I will
- 43:22become sufficiently tripped as in their trip with you that
- 43:26really impressed. That person is now an
- 43:29ambassador. Especially if the person comes
- 43:32back to buy again or the person sends you referrals or the
- 43:36person begins to engage on your social media.
- 43:40The person starts to give you positive reviews or even maybe
- 43:43even once in a while, the person will just call you and say it
- 43:46was option to do blah, blah, blah.
- 43:48You know what? And then they just give you some
- 43:50honest feedback at that level. You now have an ambassador,
- 43:55especially when you didn't ask, you didn't ask, they came back
- 43:58again, They brought other people to you.
- 44:01They are praising your social media.
- 44:04If I guess when I realized as a wedding photographer that I had
- 44:07a problem with my business, I had done I think close to 20
- 44:11weddings and then I noticed there was only one particular
- 44:16bride, only one that was calling me back for stuff, giving her
- 44:26friends my phone number and they even praise me on social media.
- 44:29She will now put the picture and then she will now tag me if you
- 44:33even call me and harass me. That look, I wanted to tell you,
- 44:35I couldn't find you on Instagram.
- 44:36Why? You know, on Instagram was then
- 44:39I realised that, oh, there's a problem with my business
- 44:41processes. The how can I say I've done
- 44:44these many brides and only have one customer who is doing this
- 44:51is it is the reason why I say knowing how to sell business
- 44:54processes. These are the things that make
- 44:55your business rise or fall. I was focusing on the quality of
- 44:59work that I do and I was not paying attention to all these
- 45:03extra stuff. And that's the reason why I
- 45:09basically wasted all my time to do how many brides and only have
- 45:13one ambassador? Just one.
- 45:16We need to be paying attention to all these things.
- 45:18We need to have more people who are raving about us, who come
- 45:22back and buy again, who give numbers to their friends, who
- 45:26blog, blog us on social media and who now start to call us to
- 45:30say how far now I wanted to tag you on Instagram.
- 45:33I didn't see your handle. What is your handle?
- 45:34Why you know, on Instagram? That's how I got on Instagram,
- 45:37by the way. Or for some brides that were
- 45:40impressed, I say why, you know, on Instagram, I want to tag you.
- 45:44I can't argue. That's when you know you have an
- 45:48ambassador. Now the final step is when you
- 45:50have this kind of person, not sure this person, empower this
- 45:53person. So record recognition,
- 45:56appreciation, acknowledge them in public.
- 45:59You have to acknowledge them. That's the reason why whenever
- 46:02you guys drop a comment on the podcast, I reach out to you guys
- 46:05sharp immediately because I appreciate you guys.
- 46:09Those of you who go on Spotify and who say this is the best
- 46:12thing since sliced bread. I didn't know this kind of
- 46:15podcast was available in Niger. This is the best podcast I've
- 46:18ever listened to, blah blah, blah.
- 46:20If I had one lady, she even said, where have you been all my
- 46:22life? This is the reason why I respond
- 46:25to all of you. I really, really appreciate you
- 46:28all my ambassadors, you guys promoting the podcast.
- 46:31I salute you, all of you. Thank you for the encouragement,
- 46:35Thank you for the publicity. Thank you for talking about the
- 46:38podcast. Thank you for sharing the links
- 46:40in your in your groups. Thank you very much.
- 46:42I really appreciate all of you. And that's the reason why when
- 46:45you guys send messages on WhatsApp, I respond, I know
- 46:48sometimes I'm late, maybe 48 hours, but I respond right.
- 46:52Those one babe, I was staying like, oh, I'm really sorry it
- 46:55took so late. He said no and they even
- 46:57responded itself. I was surprised.
- 47:00See, that's the level of service that we expect that people
- 47:04expect in Nigeria. They expect that you love a
- 47:07podcast, you reach out to the podcaster.
- 47:10It is expected that the podcaster is not going to
- 47:12respond to you. So when I respond, even though I
- 47:15am 48 hours late, I am two days late, people are still tripped.
- 47:20You see how I say we can begin to set ourselves apart in
- 47:22Nigeria? People don't even expect much
- 47:26from us. So the small that you do as a
- 47:28podcaster, I respond two days late.
- 47:31People are still tripped because they know the other podcasters
- 47:35that they reach out to, They won't even acknowledge them at
- 47:38all anyway. So when you have these people
- 47:42now that are your ambassadors, recognize them, appreciate them,
- 47:45acknowledge them in public, in private, give some of these
- 47:50people early access. Like a printer that I used to
- 47:53deal with in my photography days.
- 47:55The guy used to give me any access to stuff.
- 47:57When he moved to a new building, he sent me WhatsApp message.
- 48:00You know, boy Alpha, I'm no longer in, in UTC.
- 48:05I've moved here. This is the new place.
- 48:07If I we bought the new machines and what which is that issuing
- 48:10this and this and this. In fact, bring some stuff.
- 48:14Let me give you discount. I want you to try some things
- 48:16and just just tell me how this thing feels because I've been
- 48:22asking the guy for canvas. I'll need to print photos on on
- 48:27canvas. He didn't have canvas, sorry, on
- 48:31texturized wood, but he didn't have texturized wood.
- 48:35So the moment he moved into his new space and he got a canvas
- 48:37machine, he sent me a message and then we spoke on the phone
- 48:42that look, I know you want to do texturized wood, but I'm
- 48:46guessing that you're actually trying to get that canvas feel.
- 48:49And I say, Bros, you're correct. Canvas feel is what I'm looking
- 48:52for. But I didn't know that we can do
- 48:54canvas. I said we can do canvas.
- 48:55The machine is just here. Then when you're ready, come
- 48:59through, I give you small discounts.
- 49:01Just just, you know, just make one or two wrongs and just see
- 49:04how this thing is. Just let me know.
- 49:07So I didn't have anything to do. Well, my cousin wanted to do
- 49:09some stuff. I took my cousin there, give us
- 49:12healthy discount and they were printed.
- 49:13And it's like, you know, just this one is not about the money.
- 49:16Just let me know how The thing is, how people feel this thing.
- 49:22That's how you treat ambassadors.
- 49:25The guy gave me early, early access.
- 49:28I've just rolled out this, I've just rolled out that.
- 49:31I'll come and try this one. Give you 50% off 1 return.
- 49:36Just let me know you know how they receive it.
- 49:40Give your ambassadors incentives.
- 49:43Some people like to give financial rewards.
- 49:45In my own opinion, I beg for now, stay away from financial
- 49:48rewards because it can get tricky, especially in a Nigerian
- 49:52context. Think I'm backfire.
- 49:55There was a skin skin care professional that I was advising
- 50:02and she was talking about how she wanted to give gifts out to
- 50:06her ambassadors. But then one of the ambassadors
- 50:09got very angry and I said what happened?
- 50:11What did you give her? She now told me what she gave
- 50:16and in my mind I was thinking, OK, this thing is OK now.
- 50:18Like the hamper seemed OK until I started asking some more
- 50:22questions about the things that woman had bought in the past.
- 50:26By the time I looked at it, I was like, OK, I understand, I
- 50:29understand. It can't be tricky.
- 50:35Somebody cannot spend, let's say 2 millionaire with you.
- 50:39Then by the time you're giving any gifts, the financial value
- 50:41of the gift is like 20K. This nature, you're insulting
- 50:47the personnel after somebody I spent like 2M with you, you now
- 50:50buy her something OF20K. Like for what?
- 50:53Because she told you that 20 K is our problem.
- 50:56So that's why for me, I mean, financial rewards, it's it's
- 51:00good. It's just that I don't know how
- 51:02to make them work. So I just hope with a look at
- 51:04this financial rewards like you only give somebody money to say
- 51:09thank you. Hold off on that first.
- 51:11Nothing can backfire. And then there's another one of
- 51:14my clients, Well, not really my clients.
- 51:15His daughter was my client. He's a former governor.
- 51:19And there was 1 bottle of wine that he used to live on the
- 51:21table and quite frankly was a cheap bottle of wine.
- 51:25And I was always wondering that this guy is a big boy.
- 51:26Now I can't believe in his bottle of wine here until one
- 51:30day now in the middle of a shoot and somebody came and the person
- 51:32asking that question that Bros, how can we have this one here?
- 51:36So this bottle of wine, you know how I got this one that you know
- 51:41so, so, so so everybody knew the guy, but you know me, I don't
- 51:45know politics. So I don't know the guy is
- 51:47somebody that here hooked up for something on the national level.
- 51:51He said that this is the wine that so, so and so brought to me
- 51:53to come and say thank you. Everybody laughed.
- 51:57So that's the reason why I leave this one here.
- 51:59So the way people come, I will show them that this guy that
- 52:03I've helped see the thing that he brought to me to come and say
- 52:05thank you, even me, that I'm not a wine connoisseur, even me, I
- 52:12looked at that one. I was like, no, this one is a,
- 52:15you know, like color Rossi and all these wines, they can just
- 52:17get any, just go to any pharmacy and just buy any bottle of wine.
- 52:20You know, that kind of wine was not even the the correct bottle.
- 52:25So when it comes to gifts and financial rewards, I've seen
- 52:32that one backfire too much. So for me, I'll say just hang up
- 52:35on that one, you know first or going to receive advice from
- 52:38somebody who knows these sorts of things.
- 52:40But if you're going to give gifts, just know that you're
- 52:44pegging it to the value of, you know, the kind of business that
- 52:48somebody has brought to you in the past.
- 52:51Then also these Niger. So also you have to gauge the
- 52:56relative status of the parties. These kind of things are
- 52:59important. You know, if the person is a big
- 53:03boss, a big Madam, a bigger boss, you know, sometimes the
- 53:08fact that you even think you can give a reward of monetary value
- 53:12itself is an insult. So you can find some creative
- 53:16ways of thanking some people. Like in Mumsy's case, there was
- 53:21somebody that Mumsy helped. That's back when I was in
- 53:24university. The person didn't come and give
- 53:27my Mumsy money. What the person didn't say was
- 53:29the person said, oh, Tavi Shima has almost finished university
- 53:33now be mom. She said yes.
- 53:35I said, OK, I thought as much, Madam, there's no way I can say
- 53:39thank you to you because anything I bring will be too
- 53:43small because it's not as if there's anything you need that
- 53:46you know me, I can provide. But at least Tavishma, I know
- 53:49that Tavishma does not have a mobile phone.
- 53:52So just take this Samsung blue face and just, you know, give to
- 53:57him. And that's how I got my first
- 53:58mobile phone was a Samsung blue face.
- 54:01And that's when I fell in love with mobile phones because I
- 54:03remember looking at this Samsung, this blue face, I held
- 54:06this thing in my hand and I said, hi, this thing is going to
- 54:10make me lots of money. Then I just knew that the mobile
- 54:15phone was going to make me rich. And that's, that's a podcast for
- 54:18another day. And so that's how I got my
- 54:23mobile phone. So in Nigeria, yes, we play that
- 54:25game of relative status and we're trying to say thank you.
- 54:29There's nothing you can give orga or Madam in a monetary
- 54:32value or a give value that will make sense.
- 54:34So sometimes we play these, you know, small games.
- 54:37You do something for our girls on Madam's daughter, you know,
- 54:41whatever, you know, to say thank you.
- 54:44So this has almost been an hour. I think this is the longest
- 54:47podcast episode I've made in 2025.
- 54:49But I was trying to make you comprehensive so I don't come
- 54:51back and record, you know, two or three episodes.
- 54:55But in summary, if you want to wow somebody, you first of all
- 55:00need to know what the person is expecting before you can go and
- 55:04exceed that expectation. So make sure you're having
- 55:08conversation. Make sure we are doing needs
- 55:11analysis, make sure our understanding is on point, be
- 55:16proactive, be professional about this whole thing.
- 55:22And then what else? When it comes to acknowledging
- 55:26our ambassadors, Please remember when it comes to money, you want
- 55:29to give somebody money to say thank you or you want to give
- 55:32somebody a gift to say thank you.
- 55:34Nothing can be tricky. You know, gauge it well,
- 55:36especially where the person is a high person is a high net worth
- 55:41individual, a high paying customer, the person has spent
- 55:44correct money with you or you guys are have unequal, I don't
- 55:51know how to say it now, unequal status.
- 55:53So that's an unequal status on equal social standing, let me
- 55:58put it that way, because we all have equal status as human
- 56:01beings. So me and the president, we are
- 56:03the same. But you know, social standing of
- 56:07the president is different from my own social standing.
- 56:09So yes, we need to have on equal social standing.
- 56:11So let me leave it there since I've said enough of trying to be
- 56:15comprehensive. So that's it and that's all.
- 56:18Remember, if you'd love to connect with me, you can call,
- 56:20you can SMS, you can WhatsApp me on 08064662140.
- 56:26Thank you for your time and attention.
- 56:28I will catch you next time. Same place in your headphones or
- 56:31in your speakers.