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- 1:39I've
- 1:39noticed
- 1:39that
- 1:40this
- 1:40time
- 1:40of
- 1:40year
- 1:41brings
- 1:41out
- 1:41two
- 1:42extremes.
- 1:43Either
- 1:44everything
- 1:45feels
- 1:45suddenly
- 1:46important
- 1:47and
- 1:47we
- 1:48scramble
- 1:48to
- 1:48make
- 1:48huge
- 1:49progress
- 1:49before
- 1:50the
- 1:50year
- 1:50closes
- 1:51out,
- 1:52or
- 1:52we
- 1:53feel
- 1:53exhausted
- 1:54and
- 1:54switch
- 1:55off
- 1:55completely.
- 1:57And
- 1:57neither
- 1:57one
- 1:57of
- 1:58these
- 1:58really
- 1:59helps
- 1:59us.
- 2:01Today
- 2:01I
- 2:02wanted
- 2:02to
- 2:02offer
- 2:02a
- 2:03gentler,
- 2:04more
- 2:04strategic
- 2:05way
- 2:05to
- 2:05set
- 2:06goals
- 2:06before
- 2:06the
- 2:07year
- 2:07end,
- 2:08which
- 2:08help
- 2:09you
- 2:09feel
- 2:09grounded
- 2:10rather
- 2:10than
- 2:11overwhelmed.
- 2:13It's
- 2:13the
- 2:13same
- 2:13process
- 2:14I
- 2:14used
- 2:15at
- 2:15my
- 2:15in
- 2:15person
- 2:16event
- 2:17last
- 2:17week
- 2:17which
- 2:17was
- 2:18called
- 2:18Dare
- 2:18Greatly
- 2:19and
- 2:19was
- 2:19amazing.
- 2:20If
- 2:20you
- 2:20attended,
- 2:21thank
- 2:21you
- 2:22for
- 2:22your
- 2:22presence.
- 2:23So
- 2:24this
- 2:24podcast
- 2:25purpose
- 2:25is
- 2:25to
- 2:26help
- 2:26you
- 2:26create
- 2:26a
- 2:26year
- 2:27that
- 2:27feels
- 2:27purposeful
- 2:28and
- 2:29not
- 2:29pressured.
- 2:31I'm
- 2:31Jo
- 2:31Lott
- 2:32and
- 2:32this
- 2:32is
- 2:32women
- 2:32in
- 2:33the
- 2:33coaching
- 2:33arena.
- 2:33If
- 2:34you
- 2:34are
- 2:34ready
- 2:34to
- 2:35make
- 2:352026
- 2:36your
- 2:36year,
- 2:37let's
- 2:38get
- 2:38started.
- 2:39What
- 2:40I
- 2:40noticed
- 2:40from
- 2:41my
- 2:41event
- 2:41day
- 2:42Greatly
- 2:42was
- 2:43that
- 2:43the
- 2:43important
- 2:44part
- 2:44isn't
- 2:45the
- 2:45plan.
- 2:46It
- 2:47is
- 2:47taking
- 2:48a
- 2:48moment
- 2:49to
- 2:49allow
- 2:50ourselves
- 2:51to
- 2:51even
- 2:51consider
- 2:52the
- 2:53plan.
- 2:54Coaches
- 2:54come
- 2:55into
- 2:55that
- 2:55room
- 2:56with
- 2:56ideas,
- 2:57plans,
- 2:58high
- 2:58expectations,
- 3:00and
- 3:00before
- 3:00we
- 3:01talk
- 3:01about
- 3:01strategy,
- 3:02we
- 3:02need
- 3:02to
- 3:03actually
- 3:03look
- 3:04back
- 3:04on
- 3:05the
- 3:05previous
- 3:05year.
- 3:06There
- 3:06are
- 3:07so
- 3:07many
- 3:07lessons
- 3:08in
- 3:08what
- 3:08we
- 3:09messed
- 3:09up
- 3:09and
- 3:10the
- 3:10patterns
- 3:10that
- 3:10come
- 3:11through
- 3:11and
- 3:12the
- 3:12things
- 3:12that
- 3:12we
- 3:12achieved
- 3:13and
- 3:13not
- 3:14what
- 3:14we
- 3:14think
- 3:14we
- 3:15should
- 3:15have
- 3:15done,
- 3:15but
- 3:16what
- 3:16actually
- 3:17happened.
- 3:18How
- 3:18did
- 3:18it
- 3:18really
- 3:19feel?
- 3:20So
- 3:21think
- 3:21about
- 3:21this
- 3:21now
- 3:22as
- 3:22you
- 3:22listen.
- 3:23What
- 3:24were
- 3:24the
- 3:24moments
- 3:25that
- 3:25you
- 3:25were
- 3:25proud
- 3:25of?
- 3:28What
- 3:28were
- 3:29the
- 3:29parts
- 3:29that
- 3:29stretched
- 3:30you?
- 3:32Where
- 3:33did
- 3:33you
- 3:33surprise
- 3:33yourself?
- 3:36Where
- 3:36did
- 3:37you
- 3:37hold
- 3:37back?
- 3:40And
- 3:41where
- 3:41did
- 3:41you
- 3:41feel
- 3:42the
- 3:42most
- 3:42like
- 3:43you?
- 3:44You
- 3:45can
- 3:45pause
- 3:45this
- 3:45episode,
- 3:46write
- 3:47those
- 3:47things
- 3:47down,
- 3:48take
- 3:48a
- 3:48moment
- 3:48to
- 3:49reflect
- 3:49on
- 3:49them,
- 3:50or
- 3:50just
- 3:50let
- 3:51them
- 3:51sink
- 3:51in
- 3:52as
- 3:52we
- 3:52continue
- 3:53our
- 3:53conversation.
- 3:54Because
- 3:54when
- 3:55you
- 3:55give
- 3:55yourself
- 3:56the
- 3:56space
- 3:56to
- 3:56answer
- 3:57this
- 3:57honestly,
- 3:58something
- 3:59will
- 3:59shift
- 4:00just
- 4:01like
- 4:01happened
- 4:01in
- 4:01the
- 4:01room
- 4:02to
- 4:02so
- 4:02many
- 4:03of
- 4:03my
- 4:03attendees.
- 4:05And
- 4:05the
- 4:05most
- 4:06important
- 4:07part
- 4:07here
- 4:07is
- 4:08actually
- 4:08allowing
- 4:09yourself
- 4:10to
- 4:10see
- 4:10that
- 4:10progress.
- 4:11I
- 4:12remember
- 4:12when
- 4:12I
- 4:12started
- 4:13my
- 4:13coach
- 4:13training,
- 4:14I
- 4:14absolutely
- 4:16could
- 4:16not
- 4:16answer
- 4:17the
- 4:17question
- 4:18what
- 4:18went
- 4:19well.
- 4:20It
- 4:20was
- 4:21so
- 4:21far
- 4:21removed
- 4:22from
- 4:22my
- 4:22everyday
- 4:23thinking
- 4:23that
- 4:23it
- 4:24was
- 4:24just
- 4:25impossible.
- 4:25And
- 4:26in
- 4:26all
- 4:26honesty,
- 4:27I
- 4:27still
- 4:27find
- 4:27it
- 4:28really
- 4:28difficult
- 4:28now.
- 4:29Which
- 4:29is
- 4:29why
- 4:30we
- 4:30need
- 4:30somebody
- 4:31to
- 4:31ask
- 4:31us
- 4:32these
- 4:32questions,
- 4:33because
- 4:33our
- 4:33brains
- 4:33will
- 4:34not
- 4:34allow
- 4:34ourselves
- 4:35to
- 4:35ask
- 4:36them.
- 4:36Our
- 4:36brain's
- 4:37job
- 4:37is
- 4:37to
- 4:38keep
- 4:38us
- 4:38safe,
- 4:38to
- 4:39keep
- 4:39us
- 4:39small,
- 4:40and
- 4:40to
- 4:40not
- 4:41help
- 4:41us
- 4:41have
- 4:42an
- 4:42amazing
- 4:42time,
- 4:43but
- 4:43just
- 4:44to
- 4:44help
- 4:44us
- 4:44stay
- 4:45alive.
- 4:46And
- 4:46many
- 4:46of
- 4:46those
- 4:47threats
- 4:47that
- 4:47our
- 4:47brain
- 4:48is
- 4:48geared
- 4:48up
- 4:48for
- 4:49are
- 4:49not
- 4:49really
- 4:50in
- 4:50existence
- 4:51anymore.
- 4:52We
- 4:52don't
- 4:52need
- 4:52to
- 4:53hide
- 4:53in
- 4:53the
- 4:53cave
- 4:54because
- 4:54we're
- 4:54going
- 4:54to
- 4:54get
- 4:55eaten
- 4:55alive.
- 4:57So
- 4:57allow
- 4:57yourself
- 4:58to
- 4:58enjoy
- 4:59this
- 5:00moment,
- 5:01light
- 5:01a
- 5:01candle,
- 5:02let
- 5:02yourself
- 5:03look
- 5:03back
- 5:03and
- 5:04acknowledge
- 5:05all
- 5:05of
- 5:05your
- 5:05progress
- 5:06to
- 5:06date.
- 5:07So
- 5:08now
- 5:08we
- 5:08have
- 5:08looked
- 5:08back,
- 5:09let's
- 5:09leap
- 5:10forward.
- 5:11And
- 5:11by
- 5:11this,
- 5:12I
- 5:12don't
- 5:12mean
- 5:12forcing
- 5:13yourself
- 5:13to
- 5:13create
- 5:14a
- 5:14perfect
- 5:15plan.
- 5:15I
- 5:16mean
- 5:16really
- 5:16thinking
- 5:17about
- 5:17what
- 5:18do
- 5:18you
- 5:18want
- 5:18from
- 5:19the
- 5:19next
- 5:19season
- 5:20of
- 5:20your
- 5:20business.
- 5:21If
- 5:21you're
- 5:22anything
- 5:22like
- 5:22me,
- 5:23it's
- 5:23really
- 5:23easy
- 5:24to
- 5:24set
- 5:25really
- 5:25ginormous
- 5:26goals.
- 5:27Especially
- 5:27I
- 5:28think,
- 5:28in
- 5:28the
- 5:28early
- 5:29stages
- 5:29of
- 5:29your
- 5:30business.
- 5:31I
- 5:31literally
- 5:32had
- 5:32huge
- 5:33ambitions
- 5:34to
- 5:34help
- 5:35millions
- 5:35of
- 5:36people
- 5:37back
- 5:37then.
- 5:38And
- 5:39I
- 5:39guess,
- 5:39am
- 5:39I
- 5:40just
- 5:40more
- 5:40realistic
- 5:41now?
- 5:41I'm
- 5:41not
- 5:42sure.
- 5:42Don't
- 5:42get
- 5:42me
- 5:43wrong,
- 5:43I
- 5:43still
- 5:43have
- 5:44that
- 5:44fire
- 5:44inside
- 5:45to
- 5:45help
- 5:45masses
- 5:46of
- 5:46people,
- 5:46which
- 5:46is
- 5:47why
- 5:47I
- 5:47work
- 5:47tirelessly
- 5:49day
- 5:49in,
- 5:49day
- 5:49out
- 5:50to
- 5:50do
- 5:50so.
- 5:51But
- 5:51I
- 5:51suppose
- 5:52I'm
- 5:52just
- 5:52more
- 5:52realistic
- 5:53as
- 5:53to
- 5:53what's
- 5:54achievable
- 5:55in
- 5:56a
- 5:56month
- 5:56or
- 5:56in
- 5:57a
- 5:57year.
- 5:57There
- 5:58is
- 5:58that
- 5:58saying
- 5:58that
- 5:59we
- 5:59overestimate
- 6:00what
- 6:00is
- 6:00possible
- 6:01within
- 6:01a
- 6:01year,
- 6:02but
- 6:02we
- 6:02underestimate
- 6:03what
- 6:04is
- 6:04possible
- 6:04within
- 6:05five
- 6:05years.
- 6:06Most
- 6:06of
- 6:06the
- 6:06goals
- 6:07I
- 6:07set
- 6:07at
- 6:07the
- 6:08start
- 6:08of
- 6:08my
- 6:08business
- 6:08are
- 6:09finally
- 6:10in
- 6:11fruition
- 6:11and
- 6:11I'm
- 6:12helping
- 6:12so
- 6:13many
- 6:13people.
- 6:13I'm
- 6:14earning
- 6:14great
- 6:14money,
- 6:14I'm
- 6:15doing
- 6:15all
- 6:15the
- 6:15things
- 6:15that
- 6:16I
- 6:16thought
- 6:16I
- 6:16would
- 6:16be
- 6:17doing
- 6:17in
- 6:1812
- 6:18months.
- 6:19That's
- 6:19not
- 6:19to
- 6:19say
- 6:20don't
- 6:20dream
- 6:20big.
- 6:20It's
- 6:21not
- 6:21harmed
- 6:21me
- 6:22to
- 6:22dream
- 6:22big
- 6:22because
- 6:23I
- 6:23have
- 6:23therefore
- 6:24played
- 6:24way
- 6:24bigger
- 6:25than
- 6:25I
- 6:25would
- 6:25have
- 6:25done
- 6:26if
- 6:26I
- 6:26didn't
- 6:26set
- 6:26that
- 6:27goal.
- 6:28I
- 6:28always
- 6:29start
- 6:29this
- 6:30section
- 6:30through
- 6:31a
- 6:31visualization
- 6:32to
- 6:32really
- 6:33help
- 6:33you
- 6:34stop
- 6:34thinking
- 6:35and
- 6:35start
- 6:36feeling
- 6:37into
- 6:37it.
- 6:38Our
- 6:38brains
- 6:39can
- 6:39make
- 6:39so
- 6:39much
- 6:40better
- 6:40decisions
- 6:41just
- 6:41with
- 6:41two
- 6:42or
- 6:42three
- 6:42minutes
- 6:43of
- 6:43deep
- 6:43breathing.
- 6:44So
- 6:45why
- 6:45jump
- 6:46into
- 6:46something
- 6:47when
- 6:47it
- 6:47might
- 6:48not
- 6:48actually
- 6:49be
- 6:49in
- 6:49alignment
- 6:50with
- 6:50you?
- 6:51So
- 6:52take
- 6:52a
- 6:52moment
- 6:52to
- 6:53consider
- 6:53these
- 6:53questions.
- 6:55What
- 6:55kind
- 6:56of
- 6:56work
- 6:56do
- 6:56I
- 6:57want
- 6:57to
- 6:57be
- 6:57known
- 6:57for
- 6:58next
- 6:58year?
- 7:01What
- 7:01kind
- 7:01of
- 7:02business
- 7:02do
- 7:02I
- 7:03want
- 7:03my
- 7:03clients
- 7:03to
- 7:04step
- 7:04into?
- 7:07What
- 7:07kind
- 7:07of
- 7:07leader
- 7:08do
- 7:08I
- 7:08want
- 7:08to
- 7:09be
- 7:09in
- 7:09my
- 7:09own
- 7:10life?
- 7:12And
- 7:12what
- 7:12is
- 7:12calling
- 7:13me,
- 7:14even
- 7:14if
- 7:14I
- 7:15don't
- 7:15feel
- 7:15ready?
- 7:17When
- 7:17we
- 7:17explored
- 7:18these
- 7:18types
- 7:19of
- 7:19questions
- 7:19at
- 7:20DARE
- 7:20greatly,
- 7:21things
- 7:21shifted.
- 7:23We
- 7:23really
- 7:23tuned
- 7:24into
- 7:24our
- 7:24why.
- 7:25If
- 7:26you
- 7:26haven't
- 7:26done
- 7:27the
- 7:27five
- 7:27whys
- 7:28exercise
- 7:29before,
- 7:30it's
- 7:30really
- 7:30worth
- 7:31doing.
- 7:31The
- 7:32coaches
- 7:32in
- 7:32the
- 7:32room
- 7:33had
- 7:33such
- 7:33a
- 7:34great
- 7:34experience
- 7:35of
- 7:35trying
- 7:35it
- 7:35out.
- 7:38So
- 7:38essentially
- 7:39you
- 7:39ask
- 7:40yourself
- 7:40why
- 7:41five
- 7:41times.
- 7:42So,
- 7:43for
- 7:43example,
- 7:44why
- 7:45do
- 7:45you
- 7:45want
- 7:45your
- 7:45business
- 7:46to
- 7:46work
- 7:46for
- 7:47you?
- 7:47It
- 7:48could
- 7:48be,
- 7:49I
- 7:49need
- 7:49to
- 7:50have
- 7:50work
- 7:50around
- 7:51the
- 7:51school
- 7:51run.
- 7:52So
- 7:52then
- 7:53why
- 7:53does
- 7:53it
- 7:53matter
- 7:54for
- 7:54you
- 7:54to
- 7:55have
- 7:55work
- 7:55around
- 7:55the
- 7:55school
- 7:56run?
- 7:56And
- 7:57you
- 7:57can
- 7:57say,
- 7:58well,
- 7:58I
- 7:58need
- 7:59to
- 7:59pay
- 7:59the
- 7:59mortgage
- 8:00and
- 8:00obviously
- 8:01I
- 8:01didn't
- 8:01have
- 8:01kids
- 8:02to
- 8:02not
- 8:02be
- 8:02be
- 8:03there.
- 8:03So
- 8:03that's
- 8:03why
- 8:03I
- 8:04need
- 8:04to
- 8:04do
- 8:04it
- 8:05okay,
- 8:05and
- 8:05why
- 8:06does
- 8:06it
- 8:06matter
- 8:06for
- 8:06you
- 8:07to
- 8:07pay
- 8:07your
- 8:07mortgage?
- 8:08So
- 8:09keep
- 8:09going,
- 8:09keep
- 8:09going
- 8:10until
- 8:10you've
- 8:10done
- 8:11five
- 8:11times
- 8:12and
- 8:12then
- 8:12you
- 8:13will
- 8:13get
- 8:13to
- 8:14way
- 8:14deeper
- 8:15into
- 8:15why
- 8:16this
- 8:16matters
- 8:16for
- 8:17you.
- 8:17And
- 8:18without
- 8:18that,
- 8:18why
- 8:19you
- 8:20can
- 8:20set
- 8:20all
- 8:21the
- 8:21plans
- 8:21you
- 8:22like
- 8:22and
- 8:22none
- 8:23of
- 8:23them
- 8:23will
- 8:23happen.
- 8:25So
- 8:25now
- 8:25we
- 8:25have
- 8:26looked
- 8:26back,
- 8:26we
- 8:27have
- 8:27leaped
- 8:27forward.
- 8:28Let's
- 8:28turn
- 8:28your
- 8:29desire
- 8:29into
- 8:30direction
- 8:32because
- 8:32again,
- 8:33we
- 8:33don't
- 8:34struggle
- 8:34with
- 8:34ambition
- 8:35and
- 8:36we
- 8:36don't
- 8:37struggle
- 8:37setting
- 8:38over
- 8:38ambitious
- 8:39goals.
- 8:40What
- 8:40we
- 8:40do
- 8:40struggle
- 8:41with
- 8:41is
- 8:42really
- 8:42focusing
- 8:43on
- 8:43just
- 8:44what
- 8:44matters.
- 8:45Right
- 8:45now.
- 8:46I
- 8:47would
- 8:47highly
- 8:47recommend
- 8:48you
- 8:49just
- 8:49jotting
- 8:50down
- 8:50your
- 8:50one
- 8:51core
- 8:51focus
- 8:52for
- 8:53quarter
- 8:53one,
- 8:55then
- 8:55putting
- 8:55all
- 8:56of
- 8:56your
- 8:56other
- 8:57shiny
- 8:58wonderful
- 8:58ideas
- 8:59across
- 8:59the
- 8:59year.
- 9:00So
- 9:00in
- 9:01the
- 9:01coaches
- 9:01planner,
- 9:02if
- 9:02you
- 9:02haven't
- 9:02downloaded
- 9:03it
- 9:03yet,
- 9:03you
- 9:03can
- 9:04get
- 9:04the
- 9:04free
- 9:04online
- 9:04version
- 9:05in
- 9:05the
- 9:05Show
- 9:06Notes
- 9:06or
- 9:06you
- 9:07can
- 9:07purchase
- 9:07it
- 9:07on
- 9:07Amazon.
- 9:08Also
- 9:08the
- 9:08link
- 9:09will
- 9:09be
- 9:09in
- 9:09the
- 9:09show
- 9:09notes
- 9:10and
- 9:10there
- 9:10are
- 9:11these
- 9:11two
- 9:11pages
- 9:11which
- 9:12essentially
- 9:12allow
- 9:13you
- 9:13to
- 9:14plot
- 9:14things
- 9:14out
- 9:15across
- 9:15the
- 9:15whole
- 9:15year,
- 9:16month
- 9:16on
- 9:17month.
- 9:18So
- 9:19for
- 9:19example,
- 9:19if
- 9:20I
- 9:20know
- 9:20I
- 9:20want
- 9:20to
- 9:21get
- 9:21my
- 9:21website
- 9:21redone,
- 9:22I
- 9:22don't
- 9:23need
- 9:23to
- 9:23carry
- 9:24that
- 9:24right
- 9:24now.
- 9:25Right
- 9:25now
- 9:26I
- 9:26need
- 9:26to
- 9:26do
- 9:27other
- 9:27things,
- 9:28but
- 9:28I
- 9:28know
- 9:29that
- 9:29I
- 9:29have
- 9:30parts
- 9:30redo
- 9:31my
- 9:31website
- 9:31in
- 9:32April,
- 9:32for
- 9:33example.
- 9:34So
- 9:34plot
- 9:34those
- 9:35other
- 9:35shiny
- 9:36objects
- 9:36across
- 9:36the
- 9:37year
- 9:37so
- 9:38you
- 9:38don't
- 9:38worry,
- 9:39you
- 9:39don't
- 9:39think
- 9:39they've
- 9:40been
- 9:40forgotten
- 9:40about,
- 9:41but
- 9:41so
- 9:41you
- 9:42can
- 9:42actually
- 9:42be
- 9:43freed
- 9:43up
- 9:43to
- 9:43focus
- 9:43on
- 9:44what
- 9:44really
- 9:44is
- 9:45going
- 9:45to
- 9:45move
- 9:45the
- 9:45needle
- 9:45for
- 9:46you
- 9:46Right
- 9:46now.
- 9:48Something
- 9:48I
- 9:48do
- 9:48in
- 9:48my
- 9:49business
- 9:49of
- 9:49coaching
- 9:49program
- 9:50is
- 9:50to
- 9:50look
- 9:51at
- 9:51the
- 9:51consequences
- 9:52of
- 9:52doing
- 9:53nothing.
- 9:54So
- 9:54if
- 9:54nothing
- 9:55changes,
- 9:56what
- 9:56will
- 9:56be
- 9:56the
- 9:57consequences
- 9:58for
- 9:58you?
- 9:59And
- 10:00on
- 10:00the
- 10:00flip
- 10:00side,
- 10:01if
- 10:01this
- 10:01is
- 10:01the
- 10:02year
- 10:02that
- 10:02I
- 10:02fully
- 10:03back
- 10:03myself,
- 10:04what
- 10:04becomes
- 10:05possible
- 10:07in
- 10:07between
- 10:07these
- 10:08two
- 10:08questions
- 10:09is
- 10:09where
- 10:09that
- 10:10excitement
- 10:11can
- 10:11meet
- 10:12responsibility,
- 10:14that
- 10:14there
- 10:14are
- 10:15consequences
- 10:16either
- 10:16way.
- 10:17You
- 10:17can
- 10:17make
- 10:18excuses
- 10:19and
- 10:19think
- 10:19it's
- 10:20easier
- 10:20to
- 10:20not
- 10:21grow
- 10:21your
- 10:21business,
- 10:22but
- 10:23the
- 10:23consequence
- 10:23of
- 10:24that
- 10:24is
- 10:24that
- 10:24you
- 10:25will
- 10:25financially
- 10:26start
- 10:26really
- 10:27panicking.
- 10:27So
- 10:28when
- 10:28you
- 10:28actually
- 10:29do
- 10:29need
- 10:29to
- 10:29start
- 10:30growing
- 10:30your
- 10:30business,
- 10:31you
- 10:31are
- 10:32in
- 10:32a
- 10:32way
- 10:32different
- 10:33state
- 10:33and
- 10:33you're
- 10:33actually
- 10:35way
- 10:35behind
- 10:36where
- 10:36you
- 10:36may
- 10:36be
- 10:36in
- 10:37this
- 10:37moment.
- 10:38So
- 10:38do
- 10:38think
- 10:39about
- 10:39the
- 10:39consequences
- 10:40of
- 10:40doing
- 10:40nothing
- 10:41towards
- 10:41your
- 10:42goals.
- 10:42It
- 10:43can
- 10:43certainly
- 10:43drive
- 10:44you.
- 10:45When
- 10:45we
- 10:45did
- 10:46the
- 10:46five
- 10:46whys
- 10:47exercise
- 10:47in
- 10:47the
- 10:48room,
- 10:48many
- 10:49of
- 10:49us
- 10:49notice
- 10:49that
- 10:50actually
- 10:50our
- 10:50core
- 10:51driver
- 10:51is
- 10:51away
- 10:52from
- 10:52pain.
- 10:53Mine
- 10:54is
- 10:54definitely
- 10:54away
- 10:55from
- 10:55pain.
- 10:56Another
- 10:56person
- 10:56shared
- 10:57that
- 10:57it
- 10:58was
- 10:58the
- 10:58fear
- 10:59of
- 10:59being
- 10:59outcast.
- 11:00So
- 11:00again,
- 11:00it's
- 11:00away
- 11:01from
- 11:01pain.
- 11:02We
- 11:02all
- 11:02have
- 11:03different
- 11:03drivers.
- 11:04Many
- 11:04of
- 11:04us
- 11:05are
- 11:05driven
- 11:05away
- 11:06from
- 11:06what
- 11:07we
- 11:07really,
- 11:07really
- 11:07don't
- 11:08want
- 11:08is
- 11:08to
- 11:09be
- 11:09a
- 11:09Failure,
- 11:09for
- 11:09example.
- 11:10And
- 11:11many
- 11:11of
- 11:11us
- 11:11are
- 11:12driven
- 11:12towards
- 11:13the
- 11:13desire
- 11:13for
- 11:14something
- 11:14usually
- 11:15bordering
- 11:15on
- 11:16the
- 11:16irrational
- 11:17for
- 11:17it
- 11:17to
- 11:18actually
- 11:18make
- 11:18you
- 11:19take
- 11:19action.
- 11:21So
- 11:21take
- 11:21that
- 11:21time
- 11:22to
- 11:22tune
- 11:22in
- 11:23both
- 11:23ways.
- 11:24What
- 11:24do
- 11:24you
- 11:24want
- 11:25and
- 11:25what
- 11:25do
- 11:25you
- 11:26want
- 11:26to
- 11:26move
- 11:26away
- 11:26from?
- 11:28What
- 11:28was
- 11:28also
- 11:29special
- 11:29about
- 11:29the
- 11:30day
- 11:30was
- 11:31being
- 11:31coached
- 11:32and
- 11:32coaching
- 11:33others.
- 11:34I've
- 11:34always
- 11:34paid
- 11:35a
- 11:35personal
- 11:35coach
- 11:36to
- 11:36help
- 11:36me
- 11:37with
- 11:37clarity,
- 11:38help
- 11:38me
- 11:38talk
- 11:38about
- 11:39all
- 11:39the
- 11:39worries
- 11:39that
- 11:40will
- 11:40come
- 11:40up
- 11:40along
- 11:40the
- 11:41way.
- 11:41And
- 11:41what
- 11:42I
- 11:42noticed
- 11:42from
- 11:42working
- 11:43with
- 11:43hundreds
- 11:44of
- 11:44coaches
- 11:44now
- 11:45is
- 11:45that
- 11:45generally
- 11:46not
- 11:46many
- 11:46people
- 11:47are
- 11:47actually
- 11:48having
- 11:48coaching
- 11:48themselves
- 11:49anymore.
- 11:51I
- 11:51completely
- 11:51get
- 11:52why
- 11:52it
- 11:53can
- 11:53feel
- 11:53expensive
- 11:54when
- 11:54you
- 11:55are
- 11:55maybe
- 11:56building
- 11:56up
- 11:56your
- 11:56business
- 11:57and
- 11:57starting
- 11:57from
- 11:57zero.
- 11:59But
- 12:00it's
- 12:00a
- 12:00real
- 12:00shame
- 12:01because
- 12:01you
- 12:02can
- 12:02get
- 12:02so
- 12:02much
- 12:03clarity
- 12:03and
- 12:04overcome
- 12:04all
- 12:05of
- 12:05the
- 12:05beliefs
- 12:06that
- 12:06are
- 12:06slowing
- 12:07you
- 12:07down
- 12:07in
- 12:07your
- 12:07business.
- 12:09So
- 12:09I'm
- 12:09so
- 12:09excited
- 12:10to
- 12:11have
- 12:11finally,
- 12:12after
- 12:13probably
- 12:1412
- 12:14plus
- 12:14months
- 12:15of
- 12:15trying
- 12:16to
- 12:16create
- 12:17what
- 12:17I
- 12:18feel
- 12:18like
- 12:18is
- 12:18really
- 12:19needed
- 12:19in
- 12:20this
- 12:20industry,
- 12:21I
- 12:21have
- 12:21created
- 12:22a
- 12:22new
- 12:22offer
- 12:23called
- 12:24the
- 12:24Practice.
- 12:25It
- 12:25is
- 12:26a
- 12:2612
- 12:26month
- 12:27container
- 12:27where
- 12:28essentially
- 12:28you
- 12:28come
- 12:29back
- 12:29to
- 12:29your
- 12:30vision,
- 12:30your
- 12:31goals,
- 12:31reflect
- 12:32on
- 12:32your
- 12:32month,
- 12:33plan
- 12:33your
- 12:33next
- 12:34month,
- 12:34commit
- 12:35to
- 12:35what
- 12:35action
- 12:36you
- 12:36are
- 12:36going
- 12:36to
- 12:36take
- 12:37in
- 12:37your
- 12:37business,
- 12:39get
- 12:39coached
- 12:40and
- 12:40coach
- 12:41another
- 12:41coach.
- 12:42So
- 12:43every
- 12:43single
- 12:44month
- 12:44you
- 12:45start
- 12:45in
- 12:45a
- 12:46grounded
- 12:46place
- 12:47with
- 12:47the
- 12:48clarity
- 12:48that
- 12:48will
- 12:49help
- 12:49you
- 12:49to
- 12:49take
- 12:50the
- 12:50action.
- 12:51It's
- 12:51a
- 12:51very
- 12:52different
- 12:52offer
- 12:53from
- 12:53everything
- 12:53else
- 12:54I've
- 12:54created
- 12:55and
- 12:55much
- 12:55different
- 12:55from
- 12:56nearly
- 12:56everything
- 12:57else
- 12:57out
- 12:57there
- 12:58that
- 12:58exists.
- 12:59Because
- 12:59this
- 12:59isn't
- 13:00about
- 13:00overloading
- 13:01you
- 13:01with
- 13:01information,
- 13:02it's
- 13:03about
- 13:03providing
- 13:03you
- 13:04the
- 13:04space
- 13:05to
- 13:06set
- 13:06those
- 13:06goals,
- 13:07go
- 13:07after
- 13:07them
- 13:08and
- 13:08have
- 13:08somebody
- 13:09at
- 13:09the
- 13:09end
- 13:09of
- 13:09that
- 13:10month
- 13:10say
- 13:11how
- 13:11did
- 13:12it
- 13:12go?
- 13:12Look
- 13:12back
- 13:13at
- 13:13those
- 13:13goals,
- 13:14how
- 13:14did
- 13:14you
- 13:14get
- 13:15on
- 13:15if
- 13:15it
- 13:15wasn't
- 13:16what
- 13:16you
- 13:16wanted,
- 13:17what
- 13:18got
- 13:18in
- 13:18the
- 13:18way
- 13:19and
- 13:19help
- 13:19you
- 13:20move
- 13:20through
- 13:20those
- 13:20blocks
- 13:21that
- 13:21will
- 13:21continuously
- 13:22stop
- 13:23you
- 13:23month
- 13:23on
- 13:24month.
- 13:25It's
- 13:25something
- 13:26that
- 13:26I
- 13:26know
- 13:27is
- 13:27going
- 13:27to
- 13:29absolutely
- 13:30change
- 13:31so
- 13:31many
- 13:31coaches
- 13:32lives.
- 13:33If
- 13:33you
- 13:33would
- 13:33like
- 13:34to
- 13:35come
- 13:35and
- 13:35have
- 13:35a
- 13:36taster
- 13:36of
- 13:36the
- 13:36practice,
- 13:37it's
- 13:37easier
- 13:38to
- 13:39feel
- 13:39it
- 13:40than
- 13:40hear
- 13:40about
- 13:40it.
- 13:42Then
- 13:42join
- 13:42me
- 13:43on
- 13:43Friday
- 13:4412th
- 13:45December
- 13:46at
- 13:4612:30
- 13:47to
- 13:482:30
- 13:49UK
- 13:49time
- 13:50we
- 13:50will
- 13:51look
- 13:51back
- 13:51on
- 13:52your
- 13:522025
- 13:53together.
- 13:53So
- 13:54if
- 13:54this
- 13:54episode
- 13:54was
- 13:55too
- 13:55rushed
- 13:55for
- 13:56you,
- 13:57come
- 13:57join
- 13:57me
- 13:57properly.
- 13:58Look
- 13:58back
- 13:58on
- 13:592025,
- 14:00set
- 14:00your
- 14:01goal
- 14:01for
- 14:012026.
- 14:03Be
- 14:03coached
- 14:04by
- 14:04another
- 14:05coach
- 14:05and
- 14:05also
- 14:06coach
- 14:06another
- 14:07coach
- 14:08and
- 14:08you'll
- 14:08start
- 14:08to
- 14:09see
- 14:09that
- 14:09you
- 14:09are
- 14:10not
- 14:10alone.
- 14:11We
- 14:11all
- 14:12need
- 14:12connection
- 14:13to
- 14:13help
- 14:13us
- 14:13feel
- 14:14good.
- 14:15It's
- 14:16proven
- 14:16that
- 14:16that
- 14:17is
- 14:17the
- 14:17one
- 14:17key
- 14:18ingredient
- 14:19in
- 14:19life
- 14:20which
- 14:20determines
- 14:21how
- 14:21happy
- 14:21you
- 14:21are.
- 14:22And
- 14:23in
- 14:23fact
- 14:23when
- 14:23we
- 14:24have
- 14:24our
- 14:24own
- 14:24business,
- 14:25which
- 14:25is
- 14:25why
- 14:25I'm
- 14:25so
- 14:26excited
- 14:26about
- 14:26this
- 14:27offer.
- 14:27It's
- 14:28the
- 14:28one
- 14:28thing
- 14:28we
- 14:29end
- 14:29up
- 14:29losing
- 14:30because
- 14:30suddenly
- 14:31you
- 14:31don't
- 14:31have
- 14:32a
- 14:32team.
- 14:32You
- 14:33don't
- 14:33really
- 14:33have
- 14:34anyone
- 14:34to
- 14:34share
- 14:35that
- 14:35success.
- 14:35When
- 14:36you
- 14:36have
- 14:36a
- 14:36client
- 14:37win
- 14:37or
- 14:38gain
- 14:38a
- 14:38new
- 14:38client
- 14:39or
- 14:39if
- 14:39something
- 14:40is
- 14:40challenging,
- 14:41you
- 14:41have
- 14:41no
- 14:41one
- 14:41to
- 14:42say,
- 14:43do
- 14:43you
- 14:43ever
- 14:43feel
- 14:44like
- 14:44this
- 14:44is
- 14:44this
- 14:45normal?
- 14:46So
- 14:46come
- 14:46along
- 14:47and
- 14:47you
- 14:47will
- 14:47see
- 14:48that
- 14:48there
- 14:48is
- 14:49nothing
- 14:49wrong
- 14:50with
- 14:50you.
- 14:51You
- 14:51can
- 14:52build
- 14:52your
- 14:52business,
- 14:53you
- 14:54can
- 14:54allow
- 14:54yourself
- 14:55the
- 14:55connection
- 14:56that
- 14:56you
- 14:56need
- 14:56to
- 14:56make
- 14:56that
- 14:57happen
- 14:57and
- 14:58the
- 14:58support
- 14:58that
- 14:59you
- 14:59need
- 14:59to
- 14:59make
- 14:59that
- 15:00happen
- 15:00from
- 15:01me
- 15:01and
- 15:01from
- 15:02an
- 15:02amazing
- 15:03community
- 15:04of
- 15:04exceptional
- 15:05coaches.
- 15:06And
- 15:06if
- 15:07the
- 15:07word
- 15:07exceptional
- 15:08scares
- 15:08you,
- 15:09please
- 15:09don't
- 15:10be
- 15:10scared.
- 15:10They
- 15:11are
- 15:11just
- 15:1125
- 15:12minute
- 15:12short
- 15:13sessions.
- 15:14You're
- 15:14not
- 15:14expected
- 15:14to
- 15:15change
- 15:15somebody's
- 15:16life.
- 15:16No
- 15:16one
- 15:17is
- 15:17judging
- 15:17your
- 15:18coaching
- 15:18skills.
- 15:19What
- 15:19we
- 15:19are
- 15:19all
- 15:20doing
- 15:20is
- 15:20being
- 15:21so
- 15:21grateful
- 15:23for
- 15:23the
- 15:23space
- 15:24to
- 15:24think.
- 15:25And
- 15:25you
- 15:25will
- 15:25never
- 15:26find
- 15:26somebody
- 15:27more
- 15:27grateful
- 15:27than
- 15:28a
- 15:28coach
- 15:29to
- 15:29be
- 15:29in
- 15:30that
- 15:30coaching
- 15:30situation.
- 15:32So
- 15:32come
- 15:32join
- 15:33me
- 15:33for
- 15:33the
- 15:33taster
- 15:34session
- 15:34of
- 15:35the
- 15:35practice.
- 15:36I
- 15:36will
- 15:36be
- 15:36launching
- 15:37it
- 15:37later
- 15:37this
- 15:37year
- 15:38and
- 15:39it's
- 15:39going
- 15:39to
- 15:39be
- 15:39a
- 15:39once
- 15:39a
- 15:40year
- 15:40intake.
- 15:41If
- 15:41you
- 15:41don't
- 15:41join
- 15:42now,
- 15:42the
- 15:42next
- 15:43opportunity
- 15:43is
- 15:44to
- 15:442027.
- 15:46So
- 15:46join
- 15:46me
- 15:46in
- 15:47this
- 15:47exciting
- 15:48founder
- 15:49stage
- 15:49of
- 15:49what
- 15:49I
- 15:50know
- 15:50is
- 15:50going
- 15:50to
- 15:50be
- 15:51an
- 15:51absolute
- 15:52game
- 15:52changer
- 15:53for
- 15:54so
- 15:54many
- 15:54coaches.
- 15:55You
- 15:55will
- 15:56find
- 15:56the
- 15:56link
- 15:56to
- 15:57the
- 15:57practice
- 15:57taster
- 15:58session
- 15:58in
- 15:58the
- 15:58show
- 15:59notes
- 15:59and
- 16:00I
- 16:00hope
- 16:00it
- 16:01helps
- 16:01you
- 16:01to
- 16:02ground
- 16:02yourself
- 16:03in
- 16:03everything
- 16:04you've
- 16:04achieved
- 16:05and
- 16:05set
- 16:05yourself
- 16:06up
- 16:06for
- 16:06success
- 16:07in
- 16:072026
- 16:09and
- 16:09to
- 16:09experience
- 16:10what
- 16:11is
- 16:11going
- 16:11to
- 16:11be
- 16:12the
- 16:12practice.
- 16:13Because
- 16:14your
- 16:14business
- 16:14is
- 16:15not
- 16:15a
- 16:15project,
- 16:16it
- 16:17is
- 16:17a
- 16:17practice.
- 16:19Nothing
- 16:19is
- 16:19ever
- 16:20signed
- 16:21up
- 16:21neatly
- 16:21in
- 16:22a
- 16:22bow.
- 16:22It's
- 16:23about
- 16:23taking
- 16:23those
- 16:24steps
- 16:24day
- 16:25in,
- 16:25day
- 16:25out
- 16:25while
- 16:26things
- 16:26get
- 16:26clearer
- 16:27and
- 16:27clearer
- 16:28and
- 16:28suddenly
- 16:28you
- 16:29look
- 16:29back
- 16:29and
- 16:29think,
- 16:30my
- 16:31goodness,
- 16:33how
- 16:33did
- 16:33I
- 16:33create
- 16:34this?
- 16:35This
- 16:35is
- 16:35essentially
- 16:36where
- 16:36I
- 16:36am
- 16:37now,
- 16:37through
- 16:39holding
- 16:39this
- 16:39amazing
- 16:40event
- 16:40that
- 16:40people
- 16:40have
- 16:41raved
- 16:41about
- 16:41online
- 16:42and
- 16:43other
- 16:43clients
- 16:44like
- 16:44sharing
- 16:44what
- 16:44a
- 16:45difference
- 16:45I've
- 16:45made
- 16:45in
- 16:46their
- 16:46life.
- 16:47And
- 16:47in
- 16:47all
- 16:48honesty,
- 16:48I
- 16:48feel
- 16:48like
- 16:49I
- 16:49have
- 16:49quite
- 16:50a
- 16:50big
- 16:51identity
- 16:52gap
- 16:52between
- 16:53what
- 16:54others
- 16:54say
- 16:55and
- 16:55what
- 16:55I
- 16:55think
- 16:56is
- 16:56true.
- 16:56Because
- 16:57just
- 16:57like
- 16:58you,
- 16:58my
- 16:59brain
- 16:59is
- 16:59wired
- 17:00to
- 17:01look
- 17:01for
- 17:01the
- 17:01fear,
- 17:02look
- 17:02for
- 17:03what
- 17:03could
- 17:03have
- 17:04gone
- 17:04wrong,
- 17:05look
- 17:05for
- 17:05what
- 17:06didn't
- 17:06I
- 17:06achieve
- 17:06this
- 17:07year
- 17:07versus
- 17:08what
- 17:08did
- 17:08I
- 17:08achieve.
- 17:10So
- 17:10that
- 17:10is
- 17:10why
- 17:11I'm
- 17:11so
- 17:12excited
- 17:12to
- 17:13create
- 17:13this
- 17:13place
- 17:14where
- 17:14you
- 17:14can
- 17:15connect
- 17:15in
- 17:16every
- 17:16single
- 17:17month
- 17:17and
- 17:18live
- 17:19an
- 17:19intentional
- 17:20life
- 17:20and
- 17:21have
- 17:21an
- 17:21intentional
- 17:22business
- 17:23rather
- 17:23than
- 17:24a
- 17:24reactive
- 17:24one
- 17:25where
- 17:25you
- 17:26get
- 17:26distracted
- 17:27from
- 17:28everything
- 17:28that
- 17:28matters.
- 17:29For
- 17:29you.
- 17:30So
- 17:30come
- 17:30join
- 17:31me
- 17:31in
- 17:31the
- 17:31practice
- 17:32taster.
- 17:32And
- 17:32like
- 17:33I
- 17:33say
- 17:33in
- 17:33every
- 17:34episode,
- 17:35trust
- 17:35yourself,
- 17:35believe
- 17:36in
- 17:36yourself,
- 17:36and
- 17:37be
- 17:37the
- 17:37wise
- 17:37gardener
- 17:38who
- 17:38keeps
- 17:38on
- 17:39watering
- 17:39the
- 17:39seed.
- 17:41Thank
- 17:42you
- 17:42so
- 17:42much
- 17:42for
- 17:43listening
- 17:43to
- 17:43this
- 17:43episode
- 17:44of
- 17:44Women
- 17:44in
- 17:45the
- 17:45Coaching
- 17:45Arena.
- 17:46I
- 17:46have
- 17:47a
- 17:47mass
- 17:47of
- 17:47free
- 17:48resources
- 17:49on
- 17:49my
- 17:49website
- 17:50joannalottcoaching.com
- 17:53that's
- 17:53Joanna
- 17:54with
- 17:54an
- 17:54A
- 17:54and
- 17:55Lott
- 17:55with
- 17:55two
- 17:56Ts.
- 17:57Joannalotcoaching.com
- 17:59and
- 17:59I'll
- 17:59also
- 18:00put
- 18:00link
- 18:00links
- 18:00in
- 18:00the
- 18:00show
- 18:01notes
- 18:01below.
- 18:02Let
- 18:03me
- 18:03know
- 18:03if
- 18:03you
- 18:03found
- 18:04this
- 18:04episode
- 18:04useful,
- 18:05share
- 18:05it
- 18:06with
- 18:06a
- 18:06friend
- 18:06and
- 18:07leave
- 18:07me
- 18:07a
- 18:07review
- 18:08and
- 18:08I
- 18:08will
- 18:08personally
- 18:09thank
- 18:09you
- 18:10for
- 18:10that.
- 18:11Remember
- 18:12to
- 18:12trust
- 18:12yourself,
- 18:13believe
- 18:13in
- 18:13yourself,
- 18:14and
- 18:14be
- 18:14the
- 18:15wise
- 18:15gardener
- 18:15who
- 18:16keeps
- 18:16on
- 18:16watering
- 18:17the
- 18:17seed.
- 18:18Get
- 18:18into
- 18:18the
- 18:18arena,
- 18:19dare
- 18:19greatly
- 18:20and
- 18:20try.