Latest / Hurdle with Emily Abbate / 348. How Dare I Not: Dr. Chelsea Jackson Roberts On How Yoga Changed Her Life & Letting Go Of 'Should'
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Just give it a try, because how dare you not
- 0:02Speaker 1: use this opportunity to get closer and understand exactly who
- 0:05Speaker 1: you are in this lifetime?
- 0:21Speaker 2: Hey, hey, Emily, a body here. You are listening to
- 0:25Speaker 2: episode two hundred and forty eight of Hurdle, a wellness
- 0:28Speaker 2: focused podcast where I talk to inspirational people about everything
- 0:32Speaker 2: from their highest highs and toughest moments to essential tips
- 0:36Speaker 2: on how to live a healthier, happier, more motivated life.
- 0:40Speaker 2: We all go through our fair share of hurdles. My
- 0:43Speaker 2: goal through these discussions is to empower you to better
- 0:46Speaker 2: navigate yours and move with intention so that you can
- 0:49Speaker 2: stride towards your own big potential and of course, have
- 0:54Speaker 2: some fun along the way. For today's episode two forty eight,
- 1:00Speaker 2: M chatting with doctor Chelsea Jackson Roberts. She may just
- 1:05Speaker 2: be your favorite Peloton instructor. She's also a Lemon ambassador.
- 1:11Speaker 2: And when I tell you that this conversation is so
- 1:16Speaker 2: full of light and positivity and truly inspirational vibes, that's
- 1:23Speaker 2: the biggest understatement in our chat today. Chelsea and I
- 1:27Speaker 2: really dive in to her backstory. She talks to me
- 1:30Speaker 2: about the craziness that ensued in her first ever hot
- 1:34Speaker 2: yoga class, and how the practice early on helped her
- 1:38Speaker 2: navigate the unexpected loss of.
- 1:41Speaker 3: A loved one.
- 1:42Speaker 2: We also talk about the highs and lows of showing
- 1:45Speaker 2: up each and every day to such a wide global audience,
- 1:49Speaker 2: and we wrap a bit about sleep. Peloton recently launched
- 1:52Speaker 2: a new meditation series. It's called Seven Days to Better Sleep.
- 1:55Speaker 2: I'll link it in the show notes. Chelsea talks to
- 1:58Speaker 2: me about what her really has been like with sleep
- 2:01Speaker 2: since becoming a new mom to her beautiful sun Noble,
- 2:06Speaker 2: and how she leans into her yoga and meditation practice
- 2:10Speaker 2: to get better shut eye, something that so many of
- 2:14Speaker 2: us are constantly trying to hack for ourselves. She also
- 2:19Speaker 2: offers up beginner tips for anyone that's trying to integrate
- 2:21Speaker 2: a yoga and meditation practice into their regular routine, and
- 2:25Speaker 2: tells me about what it is that she's most looking
- 2:29Speaker 2: forward to right now.
- 2:31Speaker 3: Love this convo.
- 2:32Speaker 2: Like I said, no shortage of inspiration from Chelsea, and
- 2:35Speaker 2: I'm so happy to bring this to the feed. Make
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- 3:06Speaker 3: With that, let's get to it.
- 3:08Speaker 2: Let's get to hurdling.
- 3:22Speaker 3: Today.
- 3:23Speaker 2: I am sitting down with the ever lovely doctor Chelsea
- 3:27Speaker 2: Jackson Roberts. She's probably one of your favorite Peloton instructors
- 3:31Speaker 2: and she is here on the pot today.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Welcome to Hurdle, Chelsea.
- 3:35Speaker 4: Thank you so much for having me, Emily.
- 3:37Speaker 2: Thank you so much for making the time talk to
- 3:40Speaker 2: me about how you are doing lately.
- 3:43Speaker 3: There's a lot in the pipeline for you right now.
- 3:46Speaker 1: You know, no time is ever like really like just
- 3:50Speaker 1: this downtime, I feel like everything is in constant motion.
- 3:55Speaker 1: Even in those spaces when I find time for rest,
- 3:58Speaker 1: I'm still moving and so so I'm definitely as the
- 4:01Speaker 1: seasons change, is starting to get busy again. And then
- 4:07Speaker 1: you know, it's just like those ebbs and flows. It's
- 4:09Speaker 1: just like my yoga practice. One day, maybe a power
- 4:12Speaker 1: yoga day. The other day may be strictly restoredive yoga,
- 4:15Speaker 1: and right now I am somewhere in between the two.
- 4:18Speaker 1: I'm a little bit yin yoga, so that means that
- 4:21Speaker 1: it's not super easy, but I'm finding spaces to be
- 4:25Speaker 1: still and also stay strong, stay strong.
- 4:33Speaker 2: I love hearing it you talk about the diversity of
- 4:37Speaker 2: your yoga practice, because a lot of people hear yoga
- 4:41Speaker 2: and they may think one very specific type of yoga.
- 4:45Speaker 2: Maybe they think about slow and hot, or they think
- 4:49Speaker 2: about power, or they think about bickrum. Obviously, so many
- 4:53Speaker 2: different ones we can list here. And I also love
- 4:56Speaker 2: the diversity in your practice because when you started at
- 4:59Speaker 2: the beginning, you had no idea what you were getting into, right,
- 5:03Speaker 2: talk to us a little bit about that beginning entry
- 5:06Speaker 2: point to yoga for you and what that looked like.
- 5:09Speaker 1: I was familiar with yoga because I would see people
- 5:13Speaker 1: who were around me who practiced yoga, and I always
- 5:17Speaker 1: thought that they had this thing about them that I
- 5:21Speaker 1: couldn't put my finger on, but I was drawn to it.
- 5:24Speaker 1: It wasn't necessarily that they were happy all the time,
- 5:28Speaker 1: but they were at peace. It wasn't necessarily that they
- 5:32Speaker 1: had all of the answers, but they were clear, and
- 5:37Speaker 1: so I knew that I wanted to practice yoga. The
- 5:41Speaker 1: first yoga class I went into was a hot yoga class.
- 5:44Speaker 1: It was quite intense. I fainted in the class. I
- 5:48Speaker 1: did not know that it could take me out like
- 5:51Speaker 1: that and also transform my life in a way that
- 5:56Speaker 1: has been more integrated than I think that it would
- 5:58Speaker 1: have been had yoga not entered my life. And then
- 6:01Speaker 1: yoga then opened up the possibilities to have a meditation practice,
- 6:05Speaker 1: something that I didn't think I would ever be able
- 6:08Speaker 1: to do, to like sit down and just breathe. And
- 6:13Speaker 1: what I thought was quieting the mind was really just
- 6:16Speaker 1: being in communication with my own thoughts and this opportunity
- 6:24Speaker 1: to not say I want to be something other than
- 6:27Speaker 1: who I am right now, but to accept who I
- 6:29Speaker 1: was in the moment, so that I could decide who
- 6:32Speaker 1: I wanted to evolve into being. And so I started
- 6:35Speaker 1: yoga when I was a school teacher, my first year
- 6:39Speaker 1: of being a school teacher, when I needed something to
- 6:42Speaker 1: come to after school, like the students were fine, like,
- 6:47Speaker 1: of course, it could get a lot when you're dealing
- 6:50Speaker 1: with I had third graders, and so it was quite active,
- 6:54Speaker 1: but the demands are really from administrators, from you know,
- 6:59Speaker 1: standard tests and things like that, and so it was
- 7:02Speaker 1: quite overwhelming for me. So I knew that I needed
- 7:05Speaker 1: something to put me back together again, and yoga and
- 7:08Speaker 1: meditation happened to be the practice that put me back together.
- 7:12Speaker 2: You add some color to where I wanted to go here,
- 7:16Speaker 2: which is asking about how you were feeling when you
- 7:21Speaker 2: first sought out yoga. You talk a bit about how
- 7:25Speaker 2: you associated those that did yoga to be individuals that
- 7:29Speaker 2: had peace, that had calm, and you were after that
- 7:33Speaker 2: peace and that calm. So can you tell us a
- 7:35Speaker 2: little bit more about your mental state and what was
- 7:38Speaker 2: perhaps the straw that broke the camel's back that sent
- 7:41Speaker 2: you to yoga for the first time.
- 7:43Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I will share what got me deeper into yoga.
- 7:47Speaker 1: So when I was going to yoga for the first time,
- 7:50Speaker 1: it was just like this purely physical experience. It was
- 7:54Speaker 1: like my workout, especially because I was doing hot yoga.
- 7:57Speaker 1: I could just go in and instantly start sweating, and
- 8:00Speaker 1: it was just like, oh, this is a great way
- 8:02Speaker 1: to get into my body. And it was later in
- 8:06Speaker 1: life that I had quite a tragic event happened. I
- 8:10Speaker 1: lost one of my closest friends to gun violence, and
- 8:13Speaker 1: so she was my roommate at Spelman College.
- 8:17Speaker 4: Shout out to Spelman.
- 8:18Speaker 1: We actually just returned from Spelman with Peloton, So that
- 8:22Speaker 1: was really great talking about mental and emotional well being,
- 8:26Speaker 1: which was so full circle for me. But it was
- 8:29Speaker 1: during a moment in life where I did not have
- 8:32Speaker 1: an anchor to walk me through and help me navigate
- 8:36Speaker 1: something as huge as losing someone to gun violence, and
- 8:42Speaker 1: it was so abrupt. It was this experience of what
- 8:46Speaker 1: we did, everything we were supposed to do. We went
- 8:49Speaker 1: to college, we got the degrees, we were these high
- 8:51Speaker 1: achieving women in this all women's school.
- 8:54Speaker 4: And it was just like it was like.
- 8:57Speaker 1: The rug was pulled out from beneath me when this happened,
- 9:00Speaker 1: When this tragedy happened, and I had already had my
- 9:04Speaker 1: yoga practice, that was my workout. But then the pieces
- 9:08Speaker 1: started coming together that I realized that yoga was way
- 9:11Speaker 1: more than just a workout for me. It was my
- 9:14Speaker 1: opportunity again, I said, put the pieces back together.
- 9:18Speaker 4: I felt very fragmented.
- 9:20Speaker 1: You know, it was a trauma, and anyone who's familiar
- 9:23Speaker 1: with our responses to trauma, were either going to fight,
- 9:27Speaker 1: fly or freeze. It's really just feeling helpless, hopeless, and overwhelmed.
- 9:32Speaker 1: And I felt all of that. And so yoga there
- 9:36Speaker 1: was something that happened that I remembered when I would
- 9:39Speaker 1: work out to yoga that I wanted to feel as
- 9:42Speaker 1: I navigated this uncharted territory of losing Misty, and so
- 9:48Speaker 1: yoga for me became my lifeline. Yoga was the thing
- 9:52Speaker 1: that opened me up to go into therapy. It was
- 9:55Speaker 1: something that reminded me that I'm here right now.
- 9:59Speaker 4: Although missed you may not.
- 10:00Speaker 1: Physically be here, I have an opportunity with this life
- 10:04Speaker 1: that I get to hold right now. And yoga just
- 10:07Speaker 1: somehow made every aspect of my life even more palpable
- 10:11Speaker 1: and potent. I just started experiencing way more gratitude. I
- 10:16Speaker 1: started seeing the connections. I feel like, I started humanizing
- 10:20Speaker 1: myself and giving myself grace a little more, which in
- 10:24Speaker 1: turn gave the people around me a lot more grace.
- 10:28Speaker 1: And so yeah, yoga was that thing that put me
- 10:31Speaker 1: back together again.
- 10:33Speaker 3: Thank you so much for sharing that.
- 10:35Speaker 2: And it is so special to hear about what yoga
- 10:41Speaker 2: was able to give you during that difficult time and
- 10:45Speaker 2: also reflecting on what you shared about that hot class
- 10:49Speaker 2: that you went into where you fainted, you were still
- 10:54Speaker 2: open to what the practice could not only give you
- 10:58Speaker 2: but propel you towards, despite having a pretty rocky start.
- 11:03Speaker 3: Why do you think that is?
- 11:04Speaker 2: Why do you think that you kept with it despite
- 11:07Speaker 2: going through something that would dissuade others from returning to
- 11:11Speaker 2: the mout altogether?
- 11:13Speaker 1: Because I knew inherently yoga was getting me back to
- 11:17Speaker 1: who I was at my core. I knew that when
- 11:20Speaker 1: we had mirrors all around us in this yoga class,
- 11:23Speaker 1: and I knew that there was something there when I
- 11:25Speaker 1: looked myself in my eyes and tears started to fill up.
- 11:29Speaker 1: I knew that there was something there when I would
- 11:31Speaker 1: look at myself in my eyes and I would experience
- 11:34Speaker 1: sadness or pain, or like rage or like all of
- 11:37Speaker 1: the stages of grief that I was experiencing. I showed
- 11:42Speaker 1: up to it each and every time I looked myself
- 11:44Speaker 1: in the eyes, And it was usually when I would
- 11:47Speaker 1: turn away from that that I would just start to spiral,
- 11:51Speaker 1: like the more that I tried to get away and
- 11:53Speaker 1: push away who I truly was and what I was
- 11:56Speaker 1: experiencing that's when things started to get harder. The hardest
- 12:01Speaker 1: part for me sometimes was just saying, okay, I'm a
- 12:05Speaker 1: practice yoga. Whether I was going to a studio or
- 12:07Speaker 1: practicing in my bedroom. The hardest thing was saying, okay,
- 12:11Speaker 1: let me roll out my mat, Okay, let me do
- 12:15Speaker 1: But usually, just like any workout, on the other side
- 12:19Speaker 1: of that, you feel so much better. And I remembered
- 12:23Speaker 1: how I felt at the end of shabasana. Now, granted
- 12:26Speaker 1: everything was not you know, peaches and butterflies, and you
- 12:31Speaker 1: know we always say all the different things, they were
- 12:33Speaker 1: not all of those I love fluffy kittens.
- 12:36Speaker 4: It was not a fluffy kitten moment.
- 12:37Speaker 1: Sometimes there were sometimes where feelings, emotions would come up.
- 12:42Speaker 1: And I want to tell people who have never experienced
- 12:44Speaker 1: yoga and meditation, or they're afraid to because they may
- 12:48Speaker 1: have gotten a glimpse or tapped into a bit of
- 12:51Speaker 1: an emotion that's overwhelming, that that's natural. And why I
- 12:55Speaker 1: love yoga meditation is because we have this built in
- 12:58Speaker 1: framework to remember to breathe. I'm always telling students members
- 13:03Speaker 1: to breathe, to remember to breathe, And so I knew
- 13:07Speaker 1: that I was getting closer to myself each time I
- 13:10Speaker 1: stepped on and off of that met after a practice.
- 13:13Speaker 1: That's what kept me coming back.
- 13:14Speaker 3: That's what kept you coming back and again.
- 13:17Speaker 2: That desire to keep confronting all of those difficult emotions
- 13:23Speaker 2: that you listed, the grief, that anger, the frustration, all
- 13:26Speaker 2: of that that was stirred up within you. That is
- 13:29Speaker 2: truly a sign of the desire for growth, something that
- 13:34Speaker 2: scares so many. For someone that hears this and thinks, okay,
- 13:38Speaker 2: but it couldn't be me, what do you tell them
- 13:41Speaker 2: about meeting themselves with where they're at, whether it be
- 13:44Speaker 2: then stepping onto the mat, or perhaps just trying to
- 13:47Speaker 2: find some solace within their own home and within their
- 13:50Speaker 2: own body.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, there's this mantra that I anchor myself
- 13:54Speaker 1: into a lot.
- 13:55Speaker 4: How dare I not?
- 13:57Speaker 1: I learned that mantra from one of my mentors in
- 13:59Speaker 1: French corn How dare I not? How dare I not?
- 14:03Speaker 1: If I can physically breathe right now? Because I don't
- 14:06Speaker 1: take it for granted, and it's not lost on me
- 14:08Speaker 1: that there's someone out there that may be listening to
- 14:10Speaker 1: a yoga class or a meditation and they're not able
- 14:13Speaker 1: to do all of the things that I instruct you
- 14:15Speaker 1: to do. I try to leave their space for variation,
- 14:19Speaker 1: But I say, how dare I not use this opportunity
- 14:23Speaker 1: to understand who I am?
- 14:26Speaker 4: We only have this one lifetime.
- 14:27Speaker 1: As far as I know, this is all I know,
- 14:29Speaker 1: this body, this experience, and so I don't want to
- 14:32Speaker 1: waste time.
- 14:33Speaker 4: I think the.
- 14:34Speaker 1: Older I get, I think when you reach a certain
- 14:36Speaker 1: threshold in life, you start to realize how sweet life
- 14:41Speaker 1: can be if you truly tap into it. My grandmother
- 14:45Speaker 1: just celebrated one hundred years of being alive. She is
- 14:48Speaker 1: one hundred years old, and I often think about all
- 14:51Speaker 1: of the things that she's experienced, the Great Depression, Jim Crow, segregation,
- 14:58Speaker 1: like she lost her mother at the age of ten.
- 15:01Speaker 1: I share this on social media and the response was
- 15:04Speaker 1: overwhelming because my granny was dancing like she was still
- 15:08Speaker 1: filled with so much joy. And So when I think
- 15:11Speaker 1: about life, when I think about being honest about how
- 15:14Speaker 1: our approach life, I do believe in a positive lens
- 15:19Speaker 1: to see something and to see an experience life. But
- 15:22Speaker 1: I also want to give myself permission to experience the
- 15:26Speaker 1: fullness of life, and so I know that there is
- 15:29Speaker 1: also joy. There's also suffering. There's also light, there's also dark,
- 15:34Speaker 1: like there's all of these things that make up our
- 15:36Speaker 1: human experience. And so I say to anyone who is
- 15:40Speaker 1: alive right now, who can hear, who can feel this message,
- 15:45Speaker 1: just give it a try, because how dare you not
- 15:47Speaker 1: use this opportunity to get closer and understand exactly who
- 15:50Speaker 1: you are in this lifetime?
- 15:52Speaker 4: And for me, yoga and meditation was that way to
- 15:56Speaker 4: get there.
- 15:57Speaker 2: How dare you not started to really adopt more of
- 16:02Speaker 2: a consistent and regular yoga practice. It wasn't super long
- 16:06Speaker 2: before you understood, Okay, I really desire to integrate this
- 16:12Speaker 2: in a bigger way into my life. Talk to us
- 16:15Speaker 2: a little bit about when it shifted from being something
- 16:19Speaker 2: that you simply did as a way to confront yourself
- 16:22Speaker 2: as a way to navigate some of these intricate emotions,
- 16:26Speaker 2: to beginning to incorporate it into your life's work.
- 16:31Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 16:31Speaker 1: So I remember when I decided to take the teachers
- 16:34Speaker 1: training because the teachers training that I took it happened,
- 16:38Speaker 1: like you know, on the weekends and sometimes like on
- 16:41Speaker 1: a Friday night, every other Friday night.
- 16:43Speaker 4: It was a two hundred.
- 16:44Speaker 1: Hour teachers training, and I just remember feeling like, do
- 16:48Speaker 1: I have time for this? Do I really? And it
- 16:51Speaker 1: was just like, yes, I do, Yes, I do. And
- 16:53Speaker 1: when I saw how it impacted other aspects of my life,
- 16:57Speaker 1: I started to lean in even more. Lot of people
- 17:00Speaker 1: who do a yoga teachers training will say I'm doing
- 17:03Speaker 1: this not to be a teacher. I just want to
- 17:05Speaker 1: do like this self study, and then oftentimes they become teachers.
- 17:09Speaker 1: When I went into yoga, I knew that I wanted
- 17:12Speaker 1: to teach yoga because I, in particular wanted to share
- 17:15Speaker 1: this with my community. And I lived in Atlanta, Georgia
- 17:19Speaker 1: at the time. I worked in a predominantly black African
- 17:23Speaker 1: American school that was a Title I school where the
- 17:27Speaker 1: majority of the students live below the poverty line. I
- 17:30Speaker 1: think about my own upbringing in Dayton, Ohio, and so
- 17:35Speaker 1: I was just like, again, how dare I not share
- 17:39Speaker 1: what I have learned that has helped me and perhaps
- 17:44Speaker 1: it will touch someone the same way, maybe not, but
- 17:46Speaker 1: I'm going to at least try. And so I never
- 17:49Speaker 1: went into yoga saying that I wanted to be like
- 17:53Speaker 1: this huge yoga star like. I never went into it
- 17:56Speaker 1: saying these are my goals I want to reach here
- 17:59Speaker 1: by this, I didn't have a five year plan when
- 18:02Speaker 1: it came to being a yoga instructor. I just wanted
- 18:06Speaker 1: to be in the work. I just wanted to understand myself.
- 18:09Speaker 1: And then fast forward about five years into teaching yoga,
- 18:12Speaker 1: I ended up being on the cover of Yoga Journal twice.
- 18:16Speaker 1: I was on the cover of different publications that were
- 18:19Speaker 1: specific about yoga. And then all of a sudden, I
- 18:22Speaker 1: started moving. People started to hear the way in which
- 18:25Speaker 1: I talked about yoga, they saw the excitement, they they
- 18:28Speaker 1: just it spoke for itself. And so I always say,
- 18:32Speaker 1: if you lead with your purpose in life, it's gonna happen.
- 18:36Speaker 1: If you're consistent, if you're committed, something will eventually happen.
- 18:41Speaker 1: And for me, I had no idea that it was
- 18:44Speaker 1: going to be Peloton because here I am a yoga
- 18:47Speaker 1: teacher who was used to either being a school teacher
- 18:50Speaker 1: or a yoga teacher who was deeply rooted in a
- 18:53Speaker 1: yoga community. Now I'm in this space just celebrating five
- 18:58Speaker 1: years at Peloton that she I was in this space
- 19:02Speaker 1: that was a fitness space, it was an entertainment space,
- 19:05Speaker 1: it was a technology It was like all of these
- 19:08Speaker 1: things that I never thought I would be able to
- 19:11Speaker 1: share yoga in this capacity and cast as wide of
- 19:16Speaker 1: a net as I do now, And so that was
- 19:21Speaker 1: how it happened. I did not know that this could happen,
- 19:24Speaker 1: and it did because I stayed committed to my purpose.
- 19:28Speaker 2: And oftentimes when things unfold for us in this way
- 19:31Speaker 2: where you didn't anticipate it or you didn't think that
- 19:34Speaker 2: it could happen, it's because you weren't modeled this way previously.
- 19:39Speaker 2: You talked about the communities that you were so active
- 19:42Speaker 2: in and when you started yoga, not seeing many other
- 19:45Speaker 2: practitioners that looked like you. So now you've become her,
- 19:50Speaker 2: for lack of a better word, right, someone that is
- 19:52Speaker 2: modeling the way for so many others who aspire to
- 19:55Speaker 2: do something similar to what it is that you're doing. Now,
- 19:58Speaker 2: before we talk more about your Peloton chapter, I do
- 20:01Speaker 2: want to talk about what you said, which was that
- 20:04Speaker 2: you noticed that yoga was impacting other aspects of your life.
- 20:10Speaker 3: Talk to me about what those aspects were and are.
- 20:14Speaker 1: Yes well, currently public speaking and conversation with people. I
- 20:19Speaker 1: get really nervous, I get really the thoughts just start
- 20:24Speaker 1: to flood in at a really rapid pace. I can
- 20:27Speaker 1: lose my train of thought because I'm so excited about
- 20:30Speaker 1: the conversation. I can almost hesitate and stop myself from
- 20:35Speaker 1: saying something. Because I'm a recovering perfectionist. Yoga has helped
- 20:41Speaker 1: me with this. Yoga has grounded me in a way
- 20:44Speaker 1: that you know. I've worked with vocal coaches, have been
- 20:48Speaker 1: tremendously helpful, but there was something about the connection. I
- 20:52Speaker 1: often find a vocal coach who is familiar with yoga
- 20:54Speaker 1: and meditation so that it's more of an embodied experience,
- 20:58Speaker 1: and that is just how I learned, and so it's
- 21:01Speaker 1: helped me in that aspect. It's helped me how I
- 21:05Speaker 1: use my voice in this world. I think about when
- 21:08Speaker 1: I launched at Peloton and how nervous I was to
- 21:13Speaker 1: say some of the things that I said at the
- 21:15Speaker 1: time that we were experiencing. And so yoga people think
- 21:21Speaker 1: yogis are like just these quiet, like reserve I mean,
- 21:25Speaker 1: I'll bee it like sometimes introverted. But I think because
- 21:29Speaker 1: we spend so much time in our meditations, in observation,
- 21:34Speaker 1: in self reflection, that if we get an opportunity to
- 21:37Speaker 1: let it out, then you're gonna get some information from us,
- 21:41Speaker 1: and I think that yoga and meditation has certainly supported
- 21:45Speaker 1: me in harnessing that power that I didn't realize was
- 21:50Speaker 1: a power before. I didn't realize that me listening and
- 21:53Speaker 1: observing and not being the person who was super chatty
- 21:57Speaker 1: would end up supporting me in life later because I've
- 22:01Speaker 1: just been taking it all in, taking it all in,
- 22:03Speaker 1: and now I have like a framework for me to
- 22:06Speaker 1: be able to articulate it. And yoga has definitely supported
- 22:11Speaker 1: me in my relationships. So my husband and I, Shane,
- 22:16Speaker 1: are about to celebrate ten years of marriage in May,
- 22:20Speaker 1: and I think about how that has certainly been the glue.
- 22:23Speaker 1: Heat went and did a teachers training when we were
- 22:25Speaker 1: dating because he was just like, I don't know what
- 22:27Speaker 1: you're talking about, Chakras, you're crying all the time, You're emotional,
- 22:31Speaker 1: Like I just need to understand. So he did a
- 22:33Speaker 1: two hundred hour teachers training. And oftentimes we will call
- 22:38Speaker 1: on the sacred texts of yoga to help us navigate
- 22:43Speaker 1: conversations at time, And so it has definitely impacted and
- 22:48Speaker 1: how I have arrived to motherhood.
- 22:50Speaker 4: It has influenced that as well.
- 22:52Speaker 2: So nothing says I love you like I'm going to
- 22:56Speaker 2: spend two hundred hours taking a yoga teacher training.
- 23:02Speaker 3: What a rock star.
- 23:04Speaker 2: And I appreciate when we talk about the ways that
- 23:08Speaker 2: yoga has impacted all these other aspects of your life,
- 23:10Speaker 2: you're actually drawing a meaningful point up here, which is
- 23:15Speaker 2: that meditation and yoga. Although meditation can be a component
- 23:19Speaker 2: of yoga, they can also be two very different things. Right,
- 23:23Speaker 2: So you're speaking on how meditation, that aspect of your
- 23:28Speaker 2: practice has really holistically helped you in all of these
- 23:31Speaker 2: different areas.
- 23:32Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, there are a lot of people who meditate
- 23:35Speaker 1: who think that they can't do yoga. I beg to differ,
- 23:39Speaker 1: but yeah, meditation can be a different experience than the
- 23:43Speaker 1: physical embodiment of yoga.
- 23:45Speaker 2: Now oftentimes when people think about meditation and think about yoga.
- 23:49Speaker 2: I love that you threw out some of these stereotypes already.
- 23:52Speaker 2: This inability or maybe this feeling as though someone is
- 23:56Speaker 2: incapable of sitting still. I'm sure this is something that
- 23:59Speaker 2: you can year all of the time to someone that
- 24:02Speaker 2: approaches you and says, I'm just not good at setting still.
- 24:06Speaker 3: What do you tell them, Chelsea.
- 24:07Speaker 1: Don't do it? Don't sit still. If your meditation looks
- 24:11Speaker 1: like you need to go take a walk. Guess what
- 24:13Speaker 1: I got you covered? We've got walking meditations. I like
- 24:17Speaker 1: to meet people where they are. As a former elementary
- 24:20Speaker 1: school teacher, I am very respectful of the multiple intelligences,
- 24:24Speaker 1: and so I don't believe that we are all like
- 24:27Speaker 1: carbon copies of each other that were robots. Like there
- 24:30Speaker 1: are some days that I can't sis still, and I
- 24:32Speaker 1: have to honor that. Instead of rejecting exactly how my
- 24:35Speaker 1: body is showing up, I'm an acceptance of it, and
- 24:39Speaker 1: then I work with it. If there's something that I
- 24:40Speaker 1: want to shift and change. And I think that that
- 24:43Speaker 1: is a formula that if more people would practice that,
- 24:49Speaker 1: then there would be a lot less internal violence and
- 24:52Speaker 1: then violence between each other because we're not fighting ourselves
- 24:56Speaker 1: in this moment. It's just like, all right, take a
- 24:58Speaker 1: deep breath, let's assess the situation. All right, this is
- 25:01Speaker 1: what is right now. I live in New York City
- 25:03Speaker 1: and there's a siren going by on one side, there's
- 25:05Speaker 1: you know, there's all these moving factors. How can I
- 25:10Speaker 1: meet myself exactly where I am? How can I meet
- 25:12Speaker 1: my environment exactly as it's showing up for me?
- 25:15Speaker 4: Today. And then also I tell people start off in
- 25:18Speaker 4: smaller increments. Do not feel like.
- 25:21Speaker 1: You have to be this like Yogi who's sitting on
- 25:25Speaker 1: a mountaintop meditating for eight days straight. That is not
- 25:30Speaker 1: realistic in the world in which we live. And so
- 25:34Speaker 1: I tell people to be kind to yourself and offer
- 25:36Speaker 1: yourself grace.
- 25:38Speaker 4: In that way.
- 25:40Speaker 1: And then that's when we began to own our version
- 25:43Speaker 1: of our meditation practice.
- 25:46Speaker 3: When was the last time that you really had to
- 25:48Speaker 3: be diligent about offering yourself grace?
- 25:51Speaker 4: Chelsea, Oh, in the last two years.
- 25:55Speaker 1: Noble is two years old, and I would say in
- 25:59Speaker 1: the last years certainly while I was even carrying Noble.
- 26:03Speaker 1: But it was something about having this human being that
- 26:07Speaker 1: my partner and I, my husband and I are responsible for.
- 26:10Speaker 1: But there was something about mothering and me that triggered
- 26:14Speaker 1: some of the things that I was trying to recover from,
- 26:16Speaker 1: so like the perfectionism and so reminding myself that I
- 26:20Speaker 1: had to offer myself grace in order to approach Noble
- 26:25Speaker 1: in that way. So anything that I was trying to
- 26:28Speaker 1: make happen, Like I think the biggest challenge for new
- 26:32Speaker 1: parents in general are just like these milestones and it's
- 26:35Speaker 1: just like, oh gosh, they're not doing this by this stage,
- 26:39Speaker 1: or I'm not doing this right, what's wrong with me?
- 26:42Speaker 1: And I don't ever want Noble to feel that I'm
- 26:46Speaker 1: looking at him like hurry up, son, we gotta get
- 26:49Speaker 1: this moving. It's just like, all right, Chelsea, let's take
- 26:52Speaker 1: this a step back, offer yourself grace first, take a
- 26:55Speaker 1: deep breath, you know, and it's just like, everything's okay.
- 27:00Speaker 1: I ground myself in the facts, and I feel like
- 27:03Speaker 1: meditation yoga is a great way to practice being rooted
- 27:08Speaker 1: in what is in this moment. And so that's those
- 27:12Speaker 1: are some of the ways that I have to remind
- 27:15Speaker 1: myself to practice exactly what I teach.
- 27:19Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think so many get caught up in
- 27:22Speaker 2: the frantic nest, whether it is, you know, within their
- 27:26Speaker 2: own journey with motherhood or just everyday life.
- 27:28Speaker 3: Right. It's as though we have these tools and we.
- 27:31Speaker 2: Know they're in the toolbox, but sometimes life be life
- 27:34Speaker 2: and and you forget friendly available for you, right.
- 27:38Speaker 1: Absolutely, And it may not look like a child like
- 27:41Speaker 1: that was my experience, but like something that you're birthy
- 27:44Speaker 1: in a new project. I remember working writing my dissertation
- 27:48Speaker 1: way before Noble was in existence, and it felt like
- 27:51Speaker 1: a very similar experience of being like, you may not
- 27:55Speaker 1: figure this out overnight. You may have to take a
- 27:58Speaker 1: little bit more time than you thought it was going
- 28:00Speaker 1: to take. And so that's for anyone who's experiencing something
- 28:04Speaker 1: that they really love, they really care about, and they
- 28:08Speaker 1: want to see it happen, and maybe it's not happening
- 28:11Speaker 1: quick enough.
- 28:12Speaker 4: Maybe you need to.
- 28:13Speaker 1: Take a pause, a beat, a breath and go to
- 28:17Speaker 1: your mat or to your cushion, just to just reset.
- 28:22Speaker 4: Reset.
- 28:23Speaker 2: You know a lot about hard work and patience, exemplified
- 28:27Speaker 2: by the amount of time that you put in to
- 28:30Speaker 2: your studies. I mean it's not traditional by any means
- 28:34Speaker 2: to get your bachelor's, then a master's, then a PhD,
- 28:40Speaker 2: go through all of this study and learning. Talk to
- 28:44Speaker 2: me about what that journey taught you about patients and
- 28:50Speaker 2: about the importance of investing in yourself.
- 28:53Speaker 1: Yeah, I would if you would have asked me, listen,
- 28:57Speaker 1: if I would have taken my class.
- 29:00Speaker 4: That classes that I teach now, like maybe ten.
- 29:03Speaker 1: Years ago, I don't know, if I would have gotten
- 29:06Speaker 1: a PhD, I'd have been, like Chelsea said, just go
- 29:09Speaker 1: take a rest. So relax, girl, and so that's what
- 29:13Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, don't get me wrong, I'm often telling
- 29:16Speaker 1: people to remember to rest, to remember to have those
- 29:20Speaker 1: restorative and recovery practices. And also I know that it
- 29:25Speaker 1: can benefit us to achieve. It's quite beneficial for me
- 29:31Speaker 1: to have been a high achiever for so many decades
- 29:34Speaker 1: really in my life, and the journey was definitely one
- 29:39Speaker 1: of unlearning what that looks like. I'm here to normalize
- 29:44Speaker 1: being the both. And so those nights when I stayed
- 29:48Speaker 1: up and maybe not have, you know, slept the way
- 29:52Speaker 1: that I should have, and perhaps that could have impacted
- 29:55Speaker 1: how I showed up to the next day, I think
- 29:57Speaker 1: I would have done that differently. I think that I
- 30:00Speaker 1: would have rested a little bit more. But then I say,
- 30:04Speaker 1: I don't want to do anything different because I probably
- 30:06Speaker 1: wouldn't have ended up where I am today. And so
- 30:10Speaker 1: it's all of those lessons. I often tell my students,
- 30:13Speaker 1: I never be ashamed of the journey that got you
- 30:16Speaker 1: where you are right now, and remind yourself that these
- 30:20Speaker 1: were the steps that were needed, these were.
- 30:22Speaker 4: The lessons that were needed.
- 30:24Speaker 1: I don't get into that everything happens for a reason,
- 30:27Speaker 1: because I think that that can be dismissive sometimes case
- 30:30Speaker 1: by case, but I will say, never be ashamed of
- 30:35Speaker 1: the journey that brought you here. And when I think
- 30:37Speaker 1: about the journey those sleepless nights, those nights where I
- 30:40Speaker 1: prop my central nervous system was probably looking at me
- 30:44Speaker 1: like girl, just stop, just stop for a second. I'm
- 30:48Speaker 1: glad that I'm learning those lessons now, and that's why
- 30:51Speaker 1: I'm sharing them the way that I do now to
- 30:53Speaker 1: hopefully save someone a little bit of suffering, you know,
- 30:57Speaker 1: like just a little bit that you can have a
- 31:01Speaker 1: more balanced approach to achievement.
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- 34:26Speaker 3: It is really wild. The older that you get, the
- 34:29Speaker 3: deeper appreciation.
- 34:30Speaker 2: And I don't want to generalize, but that we have
- 34:33Speaker 2: for rest and the benefit of just slowing down and
- 34:38Speaker 2: realizing that ninety nine point nine percent of the time,
- 34:41Speaker 2: it's really not that serious, right it is.
- 34:44Speaker 1: Oh my gosh when I think about things in the
- 34:46Speaker 1: past and I'm just like, I was just so and
- 34:49Speaker 1: I'm like, wait a minute, I don't even really remember,
- 34:52Speaker 1: you know, like when you have an argument with someone,
- 34:54Speaker 1: here's like I don't even remember what it was about,
- 34:56Speaker 1: Like yeah, And it's just like at the end of
- 35:00Speaker 1: the day, I think somebody has posed this question before.
- 35:03Speaker 1: It's just like, at the end of your time here
- 35:06Speaker 1: on this earth, what are you really going to reflect on?
- 35:10Speaker 1: And I want to reflect on those moments when I'm
- 35:12Speaker 1: with those with whom I love, whether it's my students
- 35:16Speaker 1: or my very close family members, my husband, my child,
- 35:19Speaker 1: like all of those things. That's what I want to
- 35:21Speaker 1: remember where their love existed. Not everything that I produce.
- 35:25Speaker 4: Now.
- 35:26Speaker 1: Of course, the things that I produce can be a
- 35:28Speaker 1: space for love, but it's really about those intimate connections
- 35:32Speaker 1: and I am usually not present if I'm not well rested.
- 35:38Speaker 1: And so those are the things that are really important
- 35:42Speaker 1: to me.
- 35:42Speaker 2: Talk to me about how you stay present with everything
- 35:46Speaker 2: that you have going on right now.
- 35:49Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's definitely a work in progress. And
- 35:52Speaker 1: it's that's why yoga teachers will often say to have
- 35:55Speaker 1: a beginner's mind, like I'm never going to be this master.
- 35:59Speaker 1: I never want to be you know whatever the word is, Like,
- 36:04Speaker 1: i am a teacher with a capital T, but I'm
- 36:06Speaker 1: also still a student with a capital S. Like it's
- 36:09Speaker 1: just like I want to constantly be learning and evolving.
- 36:14Speaker 1: And so the challenges for me, as I said, I
- 36:18Speaker 1: do have tendencies to be introverted. I started off this
- 36:22Speaker 1: year saying that I'm going to work with that and
- 36:25Speaker 1: see how it feels to not lead with that as
- 36:27Speaker 1: my identity, because I think that that was a defense
- 36:30Speaker 1: mechanism for me in order to not for one to
- 36:35Speaker 1: not arrive to.
- 36:37Speaker 4: The things that I could actually do.
- 36:39Speaker 1: So it was just like, oh, if I tell them
- 36:41Speaker 1: I'm an introvert, introvert, they're not going to ask me
- 36:44Speaker 1: on a podcast, They're not going to want to interview
- 36:48Speaker 1: me and talk to me. So it's just like these
- 36:50Speaker 1: roadblocks that I was subconsciously putting up so that I
- 36:55Speaker 1: couldn't even arrive to the challenges of sharing all of
- 37:00Speaker 1: this experience with yoga that I have. And so some
- 37:05Speaker 1: of the challenges are being seen. That is one of
- 37:08Speaker 1: my biggest challenges, and says the Peloton instructure, being seen
- 37:14Speaker 1: like being seen and heard. That's still something that I
- 37:17Speaker 1: work with and really it's my own internalized view of
- 37:23Speaker 1: what I should look like. And they say comparison is
- 37:28Speaker 1: the thief of joy. And I've never felt happier after
- 37:32Speaker 1: comparing myself to anyone else. And so again, although I
- 37:35Speaker 1: may have tendencies that may not look extroverted, I'm still
- 37:40Speaker 1: very much a person who loves human connection. And so
- 37:43Speaker 1: the challenges for me are being seen and heard out
- 37:48Speaker 1: into the world.
- 37:49Speaker 2: Would you mind if we dug into that feeling of
- 37:53Speaker 2: should What is it that sometimes you feel as though
- 37:58Speaker 2: you should look like?
- 38:00Speaker 3: How does that show up for you?
- 38:02Speaker 1: Before Peloton, I was a global ambassador for Lulu Women,
- 38:05Speaker 1: where I traveled the world. One of the last things
- 38:08Speaker 1: that I did right before the pandemic I taught in China.
- 38:12Speaker 1: I taught in China right at the end of the
- 38:13Speaker 1: year and there were about five thousand people in the
- 38:16Speaker 1: audience taking yoga with me. I had an interpreter, I
- 38:21Speaker 1: had demos, about five people demoing for me. Shae was
- 38:27Speaker 1: with me, and I just could not believe it. I
- 38:30Speaker 1: could not believe that I had done that. And it
- 38:32Speaker 1: was almost like this out of body experience. And I
- 38:34Speaker 1: started to watch the playback the videos and I was just.
- 38:37Speaker 4: Like, who was that? Who is that?
- 38:42Speaker 1: And all I can remember was just like I was
- 38:45Speaker 1: extremely nervous, anxious, all of the things, being in a
- 38:49Speaker 1: country where the language, like everything told me that I
- 38:54Speaker 1: should not have been there, yet I did it anyway.
- 38:58Speaker 1: And had I listened to.
- 39:00Speaker 4: The should shoulds, the shoulds and.
- 39:03Speaker 1: Woods and you can't and who are you to think
- 39:06Speaker 1: and all of those, I would have never have seen
- 39:09Speaker 1: myself in that way. And that was definitely a transformative
- 39:13Speaker 1: moment in time. And then fast forward to when I
- 39:16Speaker 1: became a Peloton instructor, and what I knew a Peloton
- 39:20Speaker 1: instructor to be were some of the people that I
- 39:23Speaker 1: was quite impressed with, Like I would see Robin, and
- 39:27Speaker 1: I would see Ali, and I see you know, Cody
- 39:30Speaker 1: and Alex, and these were all the people who I
- 39:33Speaker 1: was looking at before I started Peloton, I was like,
- 39:36Speaker 1: but I'm not like them, And so then I start
- 39:38Speaker 1: second guessing and doubting myself. Even after all of the
- 39:41Speaker 1: experiences that I have. I'm like, are they sure they
- 39:44Speaker 1: want me? Are they sure they know who? And so
- 39:47Speaker 1: all of these mental gymnastics that I'm doing to tell
- 39:51Speaker 1: myself that I shouldn't step into my power?
- 39:55Speaker 4: How dare I not?
- 39:56Speaker 1: If the opportunity was being offered and these people fell
- 40:01Speaker 1: the time, saw my light, saw my talent, saw my skill,
- 40:06Speaker 1: and gave me a chance, how dare I not take that?
- 40:09Speaker 4: Because what would.
- 40:09Speaker 1: Have happened was it would have looked for someone else
- 40:12Speaker 1: to fill that space, and they may not have had
- 40:14Speaker 1: the message that I know that is so important that
- 40:19Speaker 1: I am sure has brought so many people to the
- 40:21Speaker 1: mat who thought that they were never ever Yogi's or
- 40:24Speaker 1: worthy of this space. I know that it has made
- 40:28Speaker 1: a breakthrough for so many. So that's what I did
- 40:32Speaker 1: with my shoulds and my coud is I would like bye.
- 40:38Speaker 2: It's so powerful, right, and it's something that is such
- 40:40Speaker 2: a common occurrence for all of us, regardless of whatever
- 40:43Speaker 2: it is that we may be up against or going after.
- 40:47Speaker 2: This constant, unfortunate era of comparison, especially with everything that
- 40:52Speaker 2: we deal with on social media. For someone that may
- 40:56Speaker 2: be in the thick of this comparison spiral right now,
- 40:59Speaker 2: for someone that is in their own battle with the
- 41:01Speaker 2: shouldoves and the kuldoves in the wood ofs what is
- 41:04Speaker 2: it that you tell them to help them get out
- 41:05Speaker 2: of their own way?
- 41:07Speaker 4: Yeah? I always love people.
- 41:09Speaker 1: I always invite people to close their eyes, take a
- 41:12Speaker 1: deep breath. One of the practices that I do when
- 41:16Speaker 1: I'm experiencing being unkind, and that's a form of not
- 41:21Speaker 1: being kind to ourselves, like just completely doubting ourselves or
- 41:25Speaker 1: not thinking that we're worthy to fill up that space.
- 41:28Speaker 1: I often tell my students to imagine yourself at the
- 41:31Speaker 1: age of five, and you're sitting in front of yourself,
- 41:35Speaker 1: and you're seeing yourself so full of hope, excitement before
- 41:39Speaker 1: the world begins to throw onto you who you are,
- 41:43Speaker 1: who you need to be, who those people are, and
- 41:46Speaker 1: why they're not you, and you know all of these
- 41:50Speaker 1: things that we learn as we grow up. I feel
- 41:54Speaker 1: like there's this sweet spot in our youth. I see
- 41:57Speaker 1: it in Noble right now, how he can just go
- 41:59Speaker 1: up to a child and just want to play.
- 42:01Speaker 4: No matter what. He just has that courage.
- 42:04Speaker 1: And so I tell people to imagine that you're sitting
- 42:07Speaker 1: in front of yourself at that tender age of whatever
- 42:10Speaker 1: it is, and I think that there's like a trend.
- 42:14Speaker 4: Going around right now of like I met.
- 42:16Speaker 1: My younger self for coffee, and I think I'm crying
- 42:20Speaker 1: every time I read somebody's it's just like, oh, I
- 42:23Speaker 1: get it, And it's just like, take yourself back to
- 42:27Speaker 1: that place where you can be completely sweet to yourself
- 42:31Speaker 1: and see yourself in that light now who you are
- 42:33Speaker 1: right now, in this moment, who you've learned to develop
- 42:38Speaker 1: shame around something that you may not be proud of,
- 42:41Speaker 1: or something you wish you would have done differently, but
- 42:44Speaker 1: that person A's the purest point at whatever age that is.
- 42:49Speaker 1: And go to that version of you and sit with
- 42:52Speaker 1: that version of you, and something usually happens.
- 42:56Speaker 3: Something usually happens.
- 42:58Speaker 2: We talked about the should have and the kudos being
- 43:01Speaker 2: a big challenge for you as you stepped into your
- 43:04Speaker 2: power and especially as this new in that new chapter
- 43:07Speaker 2: as a Peloton instructor, what would you say has been
- 43:10Speaker 2: the biggest challenge that you feaced over your last five
- 43:14Speaker 2: years at Peloton.
- 43:17Speaker 1: Being seen and Willie really is like, It's like, on
- 43:22Speaker 1: the one hand, no, I'm not comparing myself to my colleagues,
- 43:26Speaker 1: but thank goodness, I have such amazing colleagues that I
- 43:32Speaker 1: can say I'm right here with them, and what is
- 43:36Speaker 1: it that I see myself doing? And so you know
- 43:39Speaker 1: that whole iron sharpens iron. That's how I feel. And
- 43:44Speaker 1: so the challenge, while the challenge may be me being seen,
- 43:48Speaker 1: me saying the thing even when my voice shakes, me
- 43:53Speaker 1: sharing the yoga practice that I'm just like, oh gosh,
- 43:56Speaker 1: I don't know how they're going to receive this, but
- 43:58Speaker 1: doing it anyway like that has been the challenge, and
- 44:02Speaker 1: what's on the other side of it has been my
- 44:04Speaker 1: biggest transformation achievements.
- 44:07Speaker 4: In really proud moments.
- 44:10Speaker 2: You will never find someone that does something that is
- 44:13Speaker 2: so authentic to their being and who it is they
- 44:15Speaker 2: are at their core and they will say I regret doing.
- 44:18Speaker 3: That, like when never, absolutely never.
- 44:25Speaker 2: So it totally makes sense that although there is that
- 44:29Speaker 2: fear of the shoot of the kod, ofs the being seen,
- 44:31Speaker 2: right when you act in your purpose and you're standing
- 44:35Speaker 2: on your own two feet, there's so much pride and
- 44:38Speaker 2: strength and beauty that comes hand in hand with fast. Yes,
- 44:42Speaker 2: something that I do want to talk about is that
- 44:43Speaker 2: I know that recently Peloton launched their seven Days to
- 44:47Speaker 2: Better Sleep series, sleep one of without a doubt, the
- 44:52Speaker 2: things that can truly benefit from a meditation a practice.
- 44:56Speaker 2: Why was this something that was important for you to
- 44:58Speaker 2: be involved in, Chelsea.
- 45:01Speaker 1: Because I have challenges with sleep. I've had challenges with
- 45:05Speaker 1: sleep again, it ebbs and it flows. I used to
- 45:07Speaker 1: be that person, I think, like in my early twenties
- 45:11Speaker 1: who was just like, I don't understand why people have
- 45:13Speaker 1: such a hard time.
- 45:14Speaker 4: Sleeping, Like I just didn't get it.
- 45:17Speaker 1: And then something happened and then I started having a
- 45:21Speaker 1: hard time sleeping. That's something the trauma of losing my
- 45:25Speaker 1: best friend, like the trauma of just everyday life, the
- 45:30Speaker 1: experience of being a high achiever who's trying to write
- 45:34Speaker 1: a dissertation over the course of five years. So things
- 45:38Speaker 1: in different parts of our lives will keep us up.
- 45:41Speaker 4: But what I did find was that usually when I
- 45:45Speaker 4: was in resistance to go to sleep, I was usually
- 45:50Speaker 4: asleep to something in my life that needed to be
- 45:53Speaker 4: worked on. I'll say that again.
- 45:57Speaker 1: Usually when I was in resistance to go to sleep
- 46:00Speaker 1: and recover and to be still and to turn everything off.
- 46:04Speaker 1: It was usually because I was staying asleep to something
- 46:08Speaker 1: in my life that was a big challenge, and my
- 46:12Speaker 1: yoga Nidra teacher actually supported me with that. Tracy Stanley
- 46:16Speaker 1: shout out to her and it was that question that
- 46:18Speaker 1: she asked. She was like, what have you been asleep
- 46:20Speaker 1: to in your life? What have you been basically sleeping
- 46:23Speaker 1: on yourself about? And it was my voice, it was
- 46:27Speaker 1: my own voice, and I think that that was keeping
- 46:29Speaker 1: me up at night because I wasn't living in my
- 46:32Speaker 1: true authentic self. That was keeping me up. It was
- 46:36Speaker 1: I felt unsettled. I was having issues asleep before Noble came.
- 46:41Speaker 1: I actually started to get a better sleep practice when
- 46:45Speaker 1: Noble was earthside because I would go to sleep with him.
- 46:48Speaker 1: Shane would be up binge watching, catching up on all
- 46:51Speaker 1: the shows that I would fall asleep on, and he
- 46:53Speaker 1: would just be like, Chelsea, you're still awake. No, I'm
- 46:56Speaker 1: sleep And so I would just start going to sleep
- 46:59Speaker 1: at eight o'clock and it truly shifted like how I
- 47:04Speaker 1: felt in the morning, and it's certainly leveled out now.
- 47:09Speaker 4: I'm actually having an adult life.
- 47:12Speaker 1: You know that I can watch my favorite programming and
- 47:15Speaker 1: spend time with my husband and just things like that.
- 47:18Speaker 1: But I do remember struggling with sleep when I was
- 47:23Speaker 1: in resistance to sharing my voice in the world.
- 47:26Speaker 4: It was keeping me up at night.
- 47:28Speaker 2: There is nothing worse than wanting to get to sleep
- 47:32Speaker 2: and not being able to get to sleep or and
- 47:35Speaker 2: I would argue that this is really the worst, waking
- 47:38Speaker 2: up anytime between like one thirty and two thirty AM,
- 47:42Speaker 2: and then just being awake and the thoughts are racing
- 47:46Speaker 2: and you feel as though you are literally a prisoner
- 47:50Speaker 2: within your own body.
- 47:51Speaker 4: Yeah, And you know, I've.
- 47:54Speaker 1: Experienced that too before Noble, even before Pelotime when I
- 47:59Speaker 1: lived in Atlanta, and waking up and just being like,
- 48:03Speaker 1: oh my gosh, why don't you just go to sleep?
- 48:05Speaker 1: And then after a while I just started making peace
- 48:07Speaker 1: with being up. I was just like, you know what
- 48:10Speaker 1: you're up right now? I wasn't necessarily going to feed
- 48:13Speaker 1: it by going on social media, and my central nervous
- 48:17Speaker 1: system is now getting ignited again, like on ready, and
- 48:21Speaker 1: it's just like, but I would kind of work with
- 48:25Speaker 1: being up. I would start to journal I'm like, what
- 48:28Speaker 1: am what are it's on my mind right now because I'm.
- 48:30Speaker 4: Clearly not sleeping. I would do my meditation.
- 48:35Speaker 1: I would it didn't look perfect, but I would do
- 48:38Speaker 1: things that allow me to work with what is as
- 48:43Speaker 1: opposed to saying, oh my gosh, Chelsea, why can't you
- 48:46Speaker 1: just go back to sleep?
- 48:47Speaker 4: That never works. That never worked for me.
- 48:50Speaker 1: I could not force myself ever, whether it was in yoga,
- 48:56Speaker 1: whether it's publicly speaking, to force myself to do something
- 49:00Speaker 1: thing that was in resistance to what was actually happening.
- 49:05Speaker 3: And that's the way that it's supposed to go.
- 49:08Speaker 2: Right When you start to get wound up and more
- 49:10Speaker 2: angry about something that you can't necessarily one hundred percent
- 49:15Speaker 2: control in the moment, it is truly just wasted energy.
- 49:19Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like I remember, like especially during pandemic days,
- 49:24Speaker 1: like if you had to cough and you're like trying
- 49:27Speaker 1: to keep the cough in because you're like, I don't
- 49:28Speaker 1: want anybody around me to think I and then you're
- 49:31Speaker 1: like trying to hold the coffin. The cough is going
- 49:33Speaker 1: to be ten times worth my friends, Or like when
- 49:37Speaker 1: you're trying to not cry, especially during a yoga class
- 49:41Speaker 1: and at the end and you're just like, I'm going
- 49:43Speaker 1: to hold it in.
- 49:44Speaker 4: I don't want anybody see me cry.
- 49:45Speaker 1: Just cry because I promised that it's going to be
- 49:50Speaker 1: way more of a dramatic moment, trying to keep whatever
- 49:55Speaker 1: that is it needs to be out released. And so yeah,
- 49:57Speaker 1: that's why I say work with what you got friends,
- 50:00Speaker 1: be kind, be patient, work with yourself.
- 50:03Speaker 2: Tell me a little bit then, in this meditation series,
- 50:06Speaker 2: what are some of the cornerstones, What are the things
- 50:09Speaker 2: that you feel to be very important that help us
- 50:13Speaker 2: get better sleep.
- 50:15Speaker 1: The one thing is that these are in ten minute increments.
- 50:19Speaker 1: People have been doing these this whole series in seven days,
- 50:23Speaker 1: and the feedback has been beautiful. A lot of people
- 50:27Speaker 1: who started they're just like, Okay, ten minutes, I'm gonna
- 50:30Speaker 1: make this commitment.
- 50:31Speaker 4: They fall asleep in the first three minutes.
- 50:34Speaker 1: There's something about not feeling like you have to do
- 50:37Speaker 1: something like, okay, y'all. Just disclaimer, is a sleep meditation
- 50:42Speaker 1: the goal go to sleep, and then you may put
- 50:45Speaker 1: so much pressure on yourself that you're just like, I
- 50:47Speaker 1: have to go to sleep perfectly now by the end
- 50:50Speaker 1: of this. If I'm not asleep, I didn't do it right.
- 50:53Speaker 1: That's not true. So I love that we have these
- 50:56Speaker 1: ten minute increments, that that's the commitment, see what happens.
- 51:01Speaker 1: I also know that meditation is not easy for everyone,
- 51:04Speaker 1: so anchors are always great. The breath mantra, visualization like
- 51:11Speaker 1: these are all of the techniques that we use to
- 51:14Speaker 1: support us to get more present with our meditation and
- 51:18Speaker 1: then with sleep meditation. My goodness, like what a wonderful goal.
- 51:23Speaker 1: Like I know that a lot of people are excited
- 51:25Speaker 1: about their streaks on Peloton, and for non Peloton users members,
- 51:31Speaker 1: that just means that you are consistently showing up to
- 51:34Speaker 1: yourself in some way. Sleep meditations count, So making that like, okay,
- 51:40Speaker 1: if you missed a day of whatever it was that
- 51:43Speaker 1: you were going to do on the platform, make sure
- 51:44Speaker 1: that you count yourself in for that sleep meditation. And
- 51:48Speaker 1: so while we have thirty minute sleep meditations on the platform,
- 51:52Speaker 1: these ten minute increments during the seven days to better sleep.
- 51:56Speaker 1: To me or just like Chef's kiss, it's just like
- 51:59Speaker 1: ten minutes I can do that, I can do.
- 52:01Speaker 3: That, ten minutes, you can do that.
- 52:03Speaker 2: And if you're going to take at least five minutes
- 52:06Speaker 2: to fall asleep anyway, it seems like a no brainer.
- 52:08Speaker 4: Right, exactly.
- 52:10Speaker 2: Now, for someone that may be in this mode as
- 52:14Speaker 2: you talked about, it's like I have to do this
- 52:16Speaker 2: ten minute meditation or I want it to be perfect,
- 52:19Speaker 2: that perfectionism is seeping in. How can they break from
- 52:23Speaker 2: that attachment and really just take the practice for what
- 52:28Speaker 2: it is.
- 52:29Speaker 1: Yeah, I again, journaling is my best friend. I've been
- 52:33Speaker 1: a journaler ever since I was a little girl and
- 52:36Speaker 1: I was called a diary. And it's just like when
- 52:39Speaker 1: I look back when I read the words of fifteen
- 52:43Speaker 1: year old Chelsea, like of even twenty one year old Chelsea,
- 52:48Speaker 1: and I see how much I've grown, even in something
- 52:52Speaker 1: like a seven day practice. If you just have like
- 52:55Speaker 1: a sentence or a word or two minutes of just
- 52:59Speaker 1: free and just saying I'm just gonna write, right, rite,
- 53:02Speaker 1: whatever happens, whatever comes up after the meditation, look back
- 53:07Speaker 1: on it and you will see the growth. And to me,
- 53:10Speaker 1: that's the motivation. Like this is such a personal experience, meditation, sleep,
- 53:18Speaker 1: like all of these things, So only you, only the user,
- 53:22Speaker 1: only the practitioner, only the meditator is going to know
- 53:27Speaker 1: how truly beneficial this is. So why not document it,
- 53:31Speaker 1: make a picture, draw a picture about it?
- 53:33Speaker 4: Afterwards?
- 53:33Speaker 1: Like just something to one remind you that you did it,
- 53:38Speaker 1: and to two for you to be able to see, wow,
- 53:42Speaker 1: I've really grown since this first day that I didn't
- 53:45Speaker 1: think I could make it through a ten minute meditation.
- 53:48Speaker 3: Yeah, speaking of the word grown.
- 53:51Speaker 2: As you reflect again on this anniversary five years at Peloton,
- 53:55Speaker 2: what would you say some of the most transformational parts
- 53:59Speaker 2: of this experience have been for you?
- 54:02Speaker 1: Absolutely definitely seeing my self in this way. There has
- 54:08Speaker 1: been no other experience where I can turn on the
- 54:11Speaker 1: TV or turn on my app and take one of
- 54:14Speaker 1: my classes and you know, I know a lot of
- 54:17Speaker 1: people say when I hear my voice play back, I'm like,
- 54:20Speaker 1: oh my gosh, And it's just like that was a
- 54:22Speaker 1: practice for me. That was a practice for me to
- 54:24Speaker 1: hear myself and so that has been transformative for me
- 54:28Speaker 1: to love my voice, to understand that people love my voice,
- 54:34Speaker 1: with especially the sleep meditations as one of my most popular,
- 54:39Speaker 1: you know, ways that I reach folks. I will definitely
- 54:42Speaker 1: say the community. I had no idea what I was
- 54:46Speaker 1: getting into Peloton. I had no idea of the tremendous
- 54:55Speaker 1: just open arms that people were way for me. And
- 55:01Speaker 1: that's what that to add to a question that you
- 55:04Speaker 1: asked earlier, like no one is you, Like how dare
- 55:08Speaker 1: you compare yourself to anyone else? It was just like
- 55:11Speaker 1: they were waiting for me and wherever else you want
- 55:15Speaker 1: to go, and you're listening and maybe it's not yoga
- 55:18Speaker 1: and fitness, maybe it is. You know, whatever your goals are,
- 55:23Speaker 1: they're waiting for you. You just have to step into
- 55:26Speaker 1: and own your purpose of those that journey that got
- 55:30Speaker 1: you to where you are, and so community hearing my
- 55:35Speaker 1: own voice step into her power, and just to know
- 55:41Speaker 1: that people who never thought that they could practice yoga
- 55:45Speaker 1: and meditation are now certified yogi's and meditators and that
- 55:52Speaker 1: means so much to me.
- 55:53Speaker 2: You look back on these five years and there is
- 55:57Speaker 2: so much that makes you feel a little bit better
- 56:00Speaker 2: side yourself in awe. Right when you think about moving forward,
- 56:05Speaker 2: where do the goals go from here?
- 56:07Speaker 3: Chelsea?
- 56:08Speaker 1: The goals go to continue to normalize yoga meditation. I
- 56:12Speaker 1: think that because you know yoga and meditation proceeds even
- 56:17Speaker 1: fitness in general, how we experience fitness, especially in the
- 56:21Speaker 1: Western world, that it can feel overwhelming. You can feel like,
- 56:24Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I need to learn all of these
- 56:27Speaker 1: things before I consider myself a yoga practitioner. I just
- 56:31Speaker 1: want to normalize yoga and meditation so much that it
- 56:35Speaker 1: just becomes this household practice, it becomes a framework for
- 56:38Speaker 1: how we engage each other. And so that has been
- 56:42Speaker 1: my goal, especially here at Peloton, at a space where
- 56:47Speaker 1: it's different, because usually I'm in a place where people
- 56:50Speaker 1: are like, this is a yoga space, So I'm going
- 56:53Speaker 1: to a yoga space to experience this, whereas some people
- 56:58Speaker 1: are finding me because they're just like, oh, oh, I
- 57:01Speaker 1: do this, and then it's just like WHOA, I had
- 57:03Speaker 1: no idea that this is what yoga was or yoga is.
- 57:07Speaker 1: And so normalizing the impact that yoga and meditation can
- 57:11Speaker 1: have on our lives to make us more mindful, more compassionate,
- 57:16Speaker 1: empathetic with each other, and also owning our power and
- 57:22Speaker 1: our power together.
- 57:23Speaker 2: Someone comes to your Instagram page, they see you as
- 57:26Speaker 2: a Peloton instructor or Lulu Lemon ambassador. They look at
- 57:30Speaker 2: the numbers and they see that there are something like
- 57:32Speaker 2: two hundred and fifty seven thousand people there. When you
- 57:37Speaker 2: look in the mirror, though, Chelsea, what is it that
- 57:39Speaker 2: you see looking back at you?
- 57:41Speaker 1: Oh?
- 57:42Speaker 4: See this?
- 57:42Speaker 1: Now that question makes me emotional. I see the little
- 57:47Speaker 1: girl from Dayton, Ohio.
- 57:51Speaker 4: Who huh.
- 57:55Speaker 1: I just see this little girl who who had no
- 58:01Speaker 1: idea that all the things that were hard for her,
- 58:07Speaker 1: that she didn't think that she was good enough for.
- 58:14Speaker 4: That.
- 58:14Speaker 1: That is the power that allows me to reach and
- 58:19Speaker 1: connect with so many people, because I think that so
- 58:23Speaker 1: many people in this world, and I think that that's
- 58:25Speaker 1: where a lot of the confusion, the disagreements, the suffering, Like,
- 58:29Speaker 1: I think that it all comes from our own internalized
- 58:33Speaker 1: view of how we see ourselves. And we're either trying
- 58:37Speaker 1: to paint a picture, construct a narrative, deliver this persona
- 58:43Speaker 1: that protects who That little girl from Dayton, Ohio who
- 58:47Speaker 1: thought that she was not worthy to speak up and
- 58:50Speaker 1: share her voice, That's who I see. And I'm just like, girl,
- 58:53Speaker 1: we are here. We did it.
- 58:56Speaker 4: All those scars, all of those experiences, you did that
- 59:02Speaker 4: and they were for this moment, and they were for
- 59:04Speaker 4: this stepping into and owning your power right now.
- 59:08Speaker 2: Man, Chelsea, it really is so special the way that
- 59:12Speaker 2: you own your power, the way that you inspire others
- 59:17Speaker 2: to be their own biggest hype man. And speaking of
- 59:20Speaker 2: being your own biggest hype man, woman, should I say,
- 59:25Speaker 2: right now, you have an opportunity to offer yourself a
- 59:28Speaker 2: piece of advice. Looking back on that hurdle moment when
- 59:31Speaker 2: you were taking your first yoga class, unsure of what
- 59:36Speaker 2: it was that you were seeking, but knowing that you
- 59:39Speaker 2: needed to process the grief and step into your power.
- 59:43Speaker 2: Knowing what you know now, Chelsea, what would you tell
- 59:49Speaker 2: your younger self?
- 59:51Speaker 1: Yeah, to know that you are enough, to know that
- 59:55Speaker 1: you have everything that you need to get over that
- 59:57Speaker 1: hurdle right now. It may not feel like it, it may
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: not look like it, you may not even be able
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: to imagine it. But if you truly believe that what
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: you have inside of you right now is enough, then
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: anything is possible.
- 1:00:12Speaker 3: Doctor Chelsea Jackson Roberts.
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: For those that don't follow along with you on social
- 1:00:17Speaker 2: just yet, where do we find you?
- 1:00:19Speaker 3: How can we keep up.
- 1:00:20Speaker 4: Your Chelsea loves Yoga.
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: It's been there for so long. It's so wild that
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: I was just like, what should I take? It was
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: really a website. It was a website that started first
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: and it just became my social tag everywhere.
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: So Chelsea loves Yoga.
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: I'm over at Hurdle podcast and at Emily Abadi another
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: hurdle conquered.
- 1:00:42Speaker 3: Catch you guys next time.