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How To Honor Loss Without Performing Through The Holidays

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The holidays can be beautiful—and brutal. We open our hearts to the truth that celebrations don’t create grief; they reveal it. From empty chairs to evolving traditions, we talk candidly about what it feels like when love has no easy place to land and why presence beats performance every time.

I share stories of family gatherings that changed shape, the tenderness of spotting red cardinals that feel like a wink from loved ones, and the quiet ache of doing less when your body asks for rest. We name how “being agreeable” can turn into armor, how that armor leaks…

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