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Friday feature - quick fire quotes · She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

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  Speaker 1: Appologie production. We've got quick fire quotes. We love a
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  Speaker 1: good quote. Yeah, I feel like they hit hard. They
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  Speaker 1: motivate you, they help you change, they create in your awareness,
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  Speaker 1: they make you feel good. If you wanted to pause
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  Speaker 1: at any point to write them down or write them
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  Speaker 1: in your note section, please do, because yeah, quotes.
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  Speaker 2: Are really these are the ones that really stood out
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  Speaker 2: to us.
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  Speaker 1: Like we tried to put in ones that we haven't
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  Speaker 1: said before. Yeah, because we don't want to sound like
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  Speaker 1: a broken record. Yeah, alrighty, you gonna go first. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Ships don't sink because of the water around them. Ships
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  Speaker 2: sink because of the water that gets in them. Don't
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  Speaker 2: let what's happening around you get inside you and weigh
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  Speaker 2: you down.
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  Speaker 1: Oh love it. The journey to success begins with the
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  Speaker 1: decision to just try. Yeah that's true.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so trying.
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  Speaker 1: Just thinks everyone's successful, you're lucky. Like everyone that's successful
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  Speaker 1: actually just gives it a go. Yeah. They just try. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and you don't see all the fallbacks and failures, but
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  Speaker 1: they get up on they try.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they try something new and it doesn't work,
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  Speaker 2: and they try again and again. When you start to
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  Speaker 2: see your worth. You will find it harder to spend
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  Speaker 2: time with people who don't see it too.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so true, so true, option in a good way.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: She's the type of flower that can still grow after
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  Speaker 1: a forest fire, no matter how many times she gets burnt.
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  Speaker 1: She's as that's powerful one. I love it.
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  Speaker 2: Stay close to people who want more for you, not
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  Speaker 2: from you.
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  Speaker 1: That's amazing. Never trust your fears. They don't know your strengths.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the truth dropt a work in front of me.
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  Speaker 1: It's true. It's so true. Your fears don't know your strengths.
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  Speaker 1: You know your fears unbacking you. Your fears are holding
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  Speaker 1: you back literally, like a chain around your neck, keeping
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  Speaker 1: you safe. They're not progressing you forward. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The strength I admire in others is in me too,
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  Speaker 2: isn't it. And it's so true. You see people and
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  Speaker 2: you're like, Wow, they can do this.
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  Speaker 1: I can do that. You can do it.
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  Speaker 2: You've got that same strength inside of you.
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  Speaker 1: You haven't tapped into it or explored it or OneD it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: allowed it to come out.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: Take the risk or lose the chance. Yeah, so true,
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  Speaker 1: so true. Don't take those risks. Those opportunities are gone Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: chances are gone. Take the risk, give it a go.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay if it doesn't work out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, going back to that old question, where's ask what's
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  Speaker 2: the worse that can happen?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly?
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  Speaker 2: You glow differently when your confidence is fueled by belief
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  Speaker 2: in yourself instead of validation from others.
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  Speaker 1: This is a cute one. A grateful heart is a
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  Speaker 1: magnet for miracles. Yeah, that's so true. In the vibration
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  Speaker 1: of gratitude, you just attract so much more and you're
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  Speaker 1: so much more open to receiving as well. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: you're just like a magnet for more of it.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you're a magnet for more of that,
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  Speaker 2: And like I feel like people around you too, Like
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  Speaker 2: people want to be around you, Like they're so happy,
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  Speaker 2: they're so.
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  Speaker 1: Positive around someone that is grateful and lives in that
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  Speaker 1: energy you put that and just enjoy being around those
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  Speaker 1: kind of people. Yes, when you become that, you enjoy
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  Speaker 1: your own company more too.
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  Speaker 2: You deserve to be in environments that bring out the
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  Speaker 2: softness in you, not the survival to an extent, there's
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  Speaker 2: parts of that that I'm like, Yes, around friendships and
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  Speaker 2: certain things like that.
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  Speaker 1: Say it again, you deserve to be.
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  Speaker 2: In environments that bring out the softness in you, not
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  Speaker 2: the survival.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I see it, so I can see it in
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  Speaker 1: true lights.
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  Speaker 2: I think around people wise, Yes, you should be around
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  Speaker 2: people who bring out the softness in you. Feel like
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  Speaker 2: you be yourself with You're not like oh my gosh
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  Speaker 2: on these people around.
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  Speaker 1: But they're defensive or like on the flight of flight.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but then survival is a big word. But yes,
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  Speaker 2: fight or flight feels like survival mode. But then when
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  Speaker 2: it comes to opportunities and work wise, you need to
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  Speaker 2: sometimes do that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, push yourself. Yeah, you are what you are, not
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  Speaker 1: what you'll say you'll do. Yeah, like the whole kind
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  Speaker 1: of actions speak of that on the words. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: say they're this and that and blah blah blah, But
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  Speaker 1: are you actually doing that? Are you actually embodying that?
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  Speaker 1: Are you actually practicing that you are or you are
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  Speaker 1: not what you say you'll do.
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  Speaker 2: It is so true what people say is what they
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  Speaker 2: are going to say, But what they actually do and
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  Speaker 2: how they move afterwards and the way that they show
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  Speaker 2: up or that is who they actually.
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  Speaker 1: Are after words, don't mean March Hay. Actions is what
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  Speaker 1: actually you can feel and see.
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  Speaker 2: You become your best self when you work on things
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  Speaker 2: that people can't take away from you, your mindset, character, integrity, authenticity, grit, discipline,
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  Speaker 2: and kindness. That is the real upgrade.
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  Speaker 1: So good. True freedom comes when you stop caring what
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  Speaker 1: others think of you. Yes, it's like a trap if
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  Speaker 1: you're always living your life for what everyone thinks of
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  Speaker 1: you and outside validation, you're living your life everyone else
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  Speaker 1: but you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, true, sir rings, You're always worrying about what you're saying.
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  Speaker 2: How you're not being authentic self.
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  Speaker 1: No, you're wearing a mask. It's a true freedom for
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  Speaker 1: everything in your life comes from when you stop caring
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  Speaker 1: what other people think. Yeah. One year, three hundred and
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  Speaker 1: sixty five opportunities. Yeah, so true.
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  Speaker 2: Every single day and it's doing one thing in a
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  Speaker 2: day feels like not much. But if you do one
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  Speaker 2: thing every single day over three hundred and sixty five
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  Speaker 2: days of the year, like, how many new things have
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  Speaker 2: you done or tried or chances is taken?
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  Speaker 1: Every day is a new opportunity to start fresh, to
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  Speaker 1: try something new, to become a better person, to improve,
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  Speaker 1: to grow. It's so cool. Three hundred and sixty five
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  Speaker 1: days creating sixty five opportunities.
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  Speaker 2: Six year olds laugh on average three hundred times per day.
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  Speaker 2: Adults only laugh fifteen to one hundred times per day.
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  Speaker 2: B six again.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I love that. Yeah, don't expect to see a
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  Speaker 1: change if you didn't.
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  Speaker 2: Make a change, nothing changes, Nothing changes.
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  Speaker 1: No, if you want something to change, be the change,
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  Speaker 1: create the change.
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  Speaker 2: This one hit me you already, it's pretty ready. Your
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  Speaker 2: daughter is going to grow up being told how much
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  Speaker 2: she looks like you, how much she looks like her mother.
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  Speaker 2: Don't stand in the mirror and tear yourself down and
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  Speaker 2: herself down to Oh my gosh, so true.
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  Speaker 1: That one hit me in the field. Find a way,
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  Speaker 1: not an excuse. Yeah, a lot of the time we're
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  Speaker 1: just finding excuses. Why don't you try and find a
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  Speaker 1: way instead.
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  Speaker 2: There's always everything.
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  Speaker 1: Even if you've tried ten times, there's probably ten other
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  Speaker 1: ways that it can work. You just haven't found the
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  Speaker 1: right way that works for you. Yeah, So find a way,
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  Speaker 1: non excuse.
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  Speaker 2: Encouraging someone to be entirely themselves is the loudest way
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  Speaker 2: to love them, Accepting them wholeheartedly.
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  Speaker 1: To them, that's really beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: That's beautiful, just accepting them and loving them for who
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  Speaker 2: they are.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I really like that. I know, this one really
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  Speaker 1: hit me. I feel like I'm bad at this admire
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  Speaker 1: someone else's beauty without questioning your own. Yeah. So sometimes
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  Speaker 1: like if you can admire someone, look at someone, Oh, Car,
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  Speaker 1: you've got such beautiful, big round eyes. Oh, then be like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my eyes are so small and squinty just because
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  Speaker 1: yours are beautiful. It doesn't mean I have to question
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  Speaker 1: what mine are. No, but I'm definitely guilty of that.
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  Speaker 1: When I read that, it really hit me. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I remember I had a girlfriend once and she was
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  Speaker 1: comparing her personality to someone online and she said, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I wish I was like way more softer and feminine
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  Speaker 1: like self spoken like that girl, I'm just crazy and
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  Speaker 1: loud and out there. And I was like, but one
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  Speaker 1: isn't bad or good, like one isn't wrong or right.
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  Speaker 1: Both are cool. You're funny and quirking, make everyone laugh,
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  Speaker 1: and she's really soft and calm, and like, both are good.
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  Speaker 2: That's great, and I feel like we can embody all
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  Speaker 2: of it. You have your moments waking like that, and
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  Speaker 2: then like you know, when she's around you, she probably
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  Speaker 2: has that loud, fun energy because you guys are vibing
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  Speaker 2: when you're together, and.
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  Speaker 1: It brings out her true personality. That's right. Personality is
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  Speaker 1: loud and bright. Yeah cool, yeah, but it's Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: just thought it was a really good one. That is
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  Speaker 1: a good one. You can admire someone's beauty without questioning
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  Speaker 1: your own.
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  Speaker 2: It won't happen overnight, but if you quit, it won't
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  Speaker 2: happen at all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeap, yep. Decide what kind of life you want and
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  Speaker 1: then say no to everything that isn't that. Oh, that's good.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good one. That's a good one.
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  Speaker 2: That's a good one.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good truth. It's like we're talking about in
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  Speaker 1: our previous episode about visualization. Yes, we said the same thing, like,
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  Speaker 1: once you visualize the life you want or who you
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  Speaker 1: want to be, or the relationship you want, anything that
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  Speaker 1: isn't that, it's a hard no, and it's an easier
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  Speaker 1: no because you know what you want. If you don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you want, you don't have that clarity, you
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  Speaker 1: probably say yes to so around that, yeah, give that
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  Speaker 1: a go. But if you know what you went out
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  Speaker 1: of life and who you want to be, anything else
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  Speaker 1: along it's like no, that doesn't fit it. So it's
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  Speaker 1: an easy no. Yeah, then you have to fluff around,
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  Speaker 1: wasting time and energy or brain power to start trying
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  Speaker 1: to decide. It's easy. No, easy, Yes, it's very clear.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, clarity is so important, so important. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: can be both a masterpiece and a work in progress. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: so cool.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, yes, I feel like we're all continually a work
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  Speaker 2: in progress.
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  Speaker 1: Oh we Yeah, you're still perfect and fantastic and amazing,
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  Speaker 1: just as you are right now as well. Yeah, a
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  Speaker 1: work in progress doesn't mean that you're broken or that
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  Speaker 1: something's wrong with you.
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  Speaker 2: Every single one is working on their own stuff. Even
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  Speaker 2: the most amazing person that you look up to, they
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  Speaker 2: will have something that they're going through or working.
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  Speaker 1: I'm still perfect the way you are right now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because where you are right now is for a reason,
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  Speaker 1: and it's helping you, you know, progress into the next version.
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  Speaker 2: Repetitive complaining will give you more things to complain about.
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  Speaker 2: Repetitive gratitude will give you more things to be grateful for.
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  Speaker 1: So true, like tracks like, that's it. You've got to
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  Speaker 1: know yourself so that you can be yourself. You can't
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  Speaker 1: be yourself if you don't know yourself. That is so true.
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  Speaker 1: That goes to the whole clarity thing. Yeah, if you
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  Speaker 1: don't actually know who you are, how are you being
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  Speaker 1: your authentic self? I feel like that word authentic is
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  Speaker 1: being thrown around on social media so much lately. But
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  Speaker 1: if you don't actually know who you are, you've got
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  Speaker 1: a mask on. Yeah, and there's no judgment around that.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people wear masks because they don't know
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  Speaker 1: who they are, because they've been told and they've listened
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  Speaker 1: to society and they haven't done the work. They're in
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  Speaker 1: a work to get to know themselves and unpack the
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  Speaker 1: way they think and the way they do things. Yea,
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  Speaker 1: you can't be yourself. You don't know yourself.
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  Speaker 2: If it makes you happy, it doesn't need to make
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  Speaker 2: sense to other people.
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  Speaker 1: So true.
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  Speaker 2: Go back to that people pleaser or people ask you why,
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  Speaker 2: it's like, just because it makes me happy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't even need to explain. No, Yeah, that's cool.
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  Speaker 1: Distance between dreams and reality is action. Yes. Actually, what
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  Speaker 1: changes things from just being a dream or a vision yes,
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  Speaker 1: to being your actual reality is the action that you
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  Speaker 1: take to get there. Yeah, it's so cool, so true.
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  Speaker 2: You're not gonna get anywhere if you just sit there.
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  Speaker 1: To take action every day. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Two traps. You need to avoid caring what they think
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  Speaker 2: and thinking that they care.
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  Speaker 1: It's like the spotlight affect Hey, when you think there's
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  Speaker 1: a spotlight on you, but actually no one's That's exactly
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  Speaker 1: what it's like. It's like women go into a gym
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, I'm so nervous. Everyone just stares
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  Speaker 1: at me. Everyone's looking at me doing things wrong and
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  Speaker 1: don't know what I'm doing. Like, honey, they're worrying about themselves.
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  Speaker 1: They are worrying about their own body, their own cameltos,
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  Speaker 1: their own sweat marks, their own how to figure out
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  Speaker 1: how to do this their own Can I get through
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  Speaker 1: the reps? They're not even looking at you. No, it's
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  Speaker 1: so true to get someone glancing at you. You think they're
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  Speaker 1: just like gawking. It's like, no, they're looking at themselves. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the last one, it's a goody. I trust the next
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  Speaker 1: chapter because I know author Crown Door