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E284: Tammy's Takes #5: You Don't Find Yourself, You Remember Yourself · Adult Child of Dysfunction

• 0:47
  Hello,
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  everybody.
• 0:48
  Welcome
• 0:48
  back
• 0:48
  to
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  Adult
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  Child
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  of
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  Dysfunction.
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  Today
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  with
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  we
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  are
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  doing
• 0:51
  Tammy's
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  Takes
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  number
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  five,
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  where
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  we
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  break
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  down
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  what
• 0:54
  our
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  guests
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  teach
• 0:55
  us
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  about
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  trauma,
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  resilience
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  and
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  how
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  we
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  actually
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  come
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  back
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  to
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  ourselves.
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  Today
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  I'm
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  going
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  to
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  be
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  discussing
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  the
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  episode
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  that
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  we
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  did
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  with
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  Kelly
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  Kinney
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  yesterday.
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  Absolutely
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  amazing
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  episode.
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  And
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  an
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  absolutely
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  amazing
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  young
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  woman,
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  if
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  you
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  have
• 1:08
  not
• 1:08
  heard
• 1:08
  the
• 1:08
  episode,
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  highly
• 1:09
  suggest
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  you
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  go
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  back
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  and
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  listen
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  to
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  it.
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  She
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  is
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  all
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  magical
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  and
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  all
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  fairy
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  energy
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  and
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  she
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  talks
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  about
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  all
• 1:18
  fire
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  and
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  the
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  rituals
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  and.
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  But
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  she
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  talks
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  about
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  truth.
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  And
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  she
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  kept
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  saying
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  something
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  that
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  stuck
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  with
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  me
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  really,
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  really,
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  really
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  hard.
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  And
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  it
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  was
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  a
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  very
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  clear
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  truth.
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  She
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  said
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  she
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  didn't
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  find
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  herself.
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  She
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  remembered
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  herself.
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  And
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  I
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  want
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  you
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  to
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  let
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  that
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  sit
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  for
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  a
• 1:35
  minute.
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  She
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  remembered
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  herself,
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  didn't
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  make
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  a
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  new
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  self,
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  didn't
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  find
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  herself.
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  She
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  remembered
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  herself.
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  So
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  talk
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  about
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  what
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  that
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  really
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  means
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  because
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  I
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  hear
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  it
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  all
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  the
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  time.
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  I
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  just
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  need
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  to
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  find
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  myself.
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  I
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  don't
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  know
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  who
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  I
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  am
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  anymore.
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  I
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  feel
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  lost.
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  But
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  here's
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  the
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  truth.
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  You're
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  not
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  lost.
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  You
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  know
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  who
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  you
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  are.
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  You're
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  just
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  disconnected
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  from
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  that
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  person.
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  And
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  here's
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  how
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  that
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  happens.
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  Kelly
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  actually
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  talked
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  about
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  it
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  really
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  well.
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  She
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  shared
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  from
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  a
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  very
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  young
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  age
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  how
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  she
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  didn't
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  have
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  that
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  stable
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  mothering
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  energy.
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  She
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  had
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  trauma.
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  She
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  had
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  to
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  figure
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  things
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  out
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  on
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  her
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  own.
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  So
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  what
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  did
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  she
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  do?
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  She
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  learned
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  to
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  trust
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  herself.
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  She
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  learned
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  to
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  trust
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  her
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  instincts.
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  Not
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  perfectly,
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  not
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  without
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  mistakes,
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  but
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  she
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  kept
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  coming
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  back
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  to
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  what
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  feels
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  right
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  for
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  me.
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  She
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  questioned
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  everything,
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  but
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  that
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  was
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  the
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  main
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  question.
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  What
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  feels
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  right
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  for
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  me?
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  Because
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  so
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  many
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  of
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  us
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  are
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  waiting
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  for
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  the
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  clarity.
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  We're
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  waiting
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  for
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  someone
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  to
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  tap
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  us
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  on
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  the
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  shoulder
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  and
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  be
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  like,
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  hey,
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  by
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  the
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  way,
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  this
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  is
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  your
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  purpose.
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  We're
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  waiting
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  for
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  that
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  great
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  big
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  aha
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  moment.
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  But
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  it
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  doesn't
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  work
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  like
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  that.
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  You
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  actually
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  have
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  to
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  connect
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  first.
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  Then
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  comes
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  the
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  clarity.
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  Not
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  before.
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  Not
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  before.
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  Didn't
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  happen
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  for
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  me.
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  Didn't
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  happen
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  for
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  Kelly.
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  It
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  didn't
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  happen
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  for
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  any
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  of
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  us.
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  Kelly
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  did
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  not
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  wake
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  up
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  one
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  day
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  and
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  just
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  say,
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  but,
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  Ching,
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  I'm
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  going
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  to
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  have
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  this,
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  create
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  this
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  beautiful,
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  magical
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  life.
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  No.
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  She
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  made
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  small,
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  aligned
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  choices
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  over
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  and
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  over
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  again.
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  And
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  she
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  talks
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  a
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  lot
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  about
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  those
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  choices.
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  She
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  watched
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  what
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  she
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  was
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  putting
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  in
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  her
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  body
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  and
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  only
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  fed
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  herself
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  good
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  food.
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  She
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  watched
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  how
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  she
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  was
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  living.
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  She
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  left
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  the
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  environments
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  and
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  the
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  people
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  that
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  didn't
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  feel
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  right
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  or
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  that
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  were
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  toxic
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  for
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  her.
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  And
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  she
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  followed
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  what
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  lit
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  her
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  up.
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  And
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  even
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  when
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  she
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  went
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  off
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  track,
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  even
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  when
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  she
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  slipped,
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  because
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  that
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  is
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  part
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  of
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  healing
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  My
• 3:18
  friends,
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  that
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  is
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  part
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  of
• 3:20
  connecting.
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  That
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  is
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  part
• 3:21
  of
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  learning.
• 3:22
  Even
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  when
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  those
• 3:23
  things
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  happen,
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  when
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  she
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  slipped
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  into
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  addiction
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  or
• 3:25
  she
• 3:25
  slipped
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  into
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  an
• 3:26
  unhealthy
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  relationship,
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  she
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  still
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  continued
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  to
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  come
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  back
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  to
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  herself.
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  And
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  a
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  lot
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  of
• 3:34
  people
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  miss
• 3:34
  that.
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  A
• 3:35
  lot
• 3:35
  of
• 3:35
  people
• 3:35
  get
• 3:35
  off
• 3:35
  track
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  and
• 3:36
  they
• 3:36
  think,
• 3:36
  oh,
• 3:36
  I'm
• 3:37
  done.
• 3:37
  But
• 3:37
  no,
• 3:38
  healing
• 3:38
  is
• 3:38
  not
• 3:38
  a
• 3:39
  straight
• 3:39
  line.
• 3:39
  It's
• 3:40
  remembering
• 3:40
  and
• 3:41
  forgetting
• 3:41
  and
• 3:41
  coming
• 3:42
  back
• 3:42
  and
• 3:42
  leaving
• 3:43
  and
• 3:43
  relearning
• 3:44
  over
• 3:44
  and
• 3:45
  over
• 3:45
  and
• 3:45
  over
• 3:45
  again.
• 3:47
  Kelly
• 3:48
  even
• 3:48
  talked
• 3:48
  about
• 3:49
  a
• 3:49
  time
• 3:49
  where
• 3:49
  she
• 3:49
  had
• 3:50
  created
• 3:50
  something
• 3:50
  absolutely
• 3:51
  beautiful.
• 3:52
  And
• 3:53
  then
• 3:53
  she
• 3:53
  was
• 3:53
  so
• 3:53
  overwhelmed
• 3:54
  that
• 3:55
  she
• 3:55
  lost
• 3:55
  herself
• 3:55
  again.
• 3:57
  She
• 3:57
  stopped
• 3:57
  taking
• 3:57
  care
• 3:57
  of
• 3:58
  herself
• 3:58
  again.
• 3:58
  She
• 3:59
  pushed
• 3:59
  people
• 3:59
  away.
• 4:00
  She
• 4:00
  went
• 4:00
  back
• 4:01
  to
• 4:01
  her
• 4:01
  old
• 4:01
  patterns.
• 4:02
  But
• 4:02
  instead
• 4:03
  of
• 4:03
  staying
• 4:03
  there,
• 4:04
  she
• 4:04
  sat
• 4:04
  with
• 4:04
  herself.
• 4:05
  And
• 4:06
  what
• 4:06
  did
• 4:06
  she
• 4:06
  ask
• 4:06
  herself?
• 4:07
  What
• 4:08
  is
• 4:08
  true
• 4:09
  for
• 4:09
  me
• 4:10
  now?
• 4:11
  And
• 4:11
  she
• 4:11
  rebuilt
• 4:12
  again.
• 4:15
  So
• 4:15
  what
• 4:15
  does
• 4:15
  remembering
• 4:16
  yourself
• 4:16
  actually
• 4:17
  look
• 4:17
  like?
• 4:17
  It's
• 4:17
  not
• 4:18
  complicated.
• 4:18
  We
• 4:18
  make
• 4:19
  it
• 4:19
  complicated.
• 4:20
  It
• 4:20
  really
• 4:21
  just
• 4:21
  looks
• 4:21
  like
• 4:21
  getting
• 4:22
  back
• 4:22
  into
• 4:22
  your
• 4:22
  body,
• 4:23
  learning
• 4:23
  to
• 4:23
  breathe,
• 4:23
  slowly,
• 4:24
  slowing
• 4:25
  down,
• 4:25
  going
• 4:26
  outside,
• 4:26
  feeling
• 4:27
  something
• 4:27
  real.
• 4:29
  She
• 4:29
  put
• 4:29
  it
• 4:30
  so
• 4:30
  simply
• 4:30
  when
• 4:30
  she
• 4:31
  literally
• 4:31
  said,
• 4:32
  just
• 4:32
  go
• 4:32
  hug
• 4:32
  a
• 4:33
  tree.
• 4:33
  And
• 4:34
  it.
• 4:34
  It.
• 4:34
  It
• 4:35
  really.
• 4:35
  Oh,
• 4:36
  my
• 4:36
  goodness,
• 4:36
  it
• 4:37
  made
• 4:37
  so
• 4:37
  much
• 4:37
  sense.
• 4:38
  I
• 4:38
  know
• 4:38
  people
• 4:39
  hear
• 4:39
  that
• 4:39
  and
• 4:39
  they
• 4:39
  laugh,
• 4:40
  but
• 4:40
  let
• 4:41
  me
• 4:41
  put
• 4:41
  it
• 4:41
  in.
• 4:42
  Let
• 4:42
  me
• 4:42
  translate.
• 4:42
  Let
• 4:43
  me
• 4:43
  put
• 4:43
  it
• 4:43
  in
• 4:43
  layman's
• 4:43
  terms
• 4:44
  for
• 4:44
  you.
• 4:44
  Get
• 4:45
  out
• 4:45
  of
• 4:45
  your
• 4:45
  head
• 4:45
  and
• 4:45
  back
• 4:45
  into
• 4:46
  your
• 4:46
  body,
• 4:46
  because
• 4:47
  your
• 4:47
  body
• 4:47
  knows
• 4:47
  who
• 4:48
  you
• 4:48
  are
• 4:49
  before
• 4:49
  your
• 4:49
  mind
• 4:49
  starts
• 4:50
  overthinking
• 4:50
  and
• 4:50
  analyzing
• 4:51
  everything.
• 4:52
  So
• 4:53
  if
• 4:54
  you
• 4:54
  are
• 4:54
  feeling
• 4:54
  disconnected
• 4:55
  right
• 4:55
  now,
• 4:56
  you
• 4:56
  are
• 4:57
  going
• 4:57
  to
• 4:57
  do
• 4:57
  something,
• 4:57
  but
• 4:58
  you're
• 4:58
  not
• 4:58
  going
• 4:58
  to
• 4:58
  try
• 4:58
  to
• 4:59
  fix
• 4:59
  your
• 4:59
  whole
• 4:59
  life.
• 4:59
  You're
• 5:00
  going
• 5:00
  to
• 5:00
  start
• 5:00
  simple.
• 5:01
  Start
• 5:02
  with
• 5:02
  this.
• 5:03
  Take
• 5:03
  five
• 5:03
  deep
• 5:03
  breaths.
• 5:05
  Put
• 5:05
  your
• 5:05
  feet
• 5:05
  on
• 5:05
  the
• 5:05
  ground.
• 5:07
  Get
• 5:07
  out
• 5:07
  in
• 5:07
  nature.
• 5:08
  Touch
• 5:09
  something
• 5:09
  real.
• 5:10
  Tree,
• 5:10
  grass,
• 5:11
  air,
• 5:11
  sunlight.
• 5:12
  I
• 5:12
  don't
• 5:12
  care
• 5:12
  what
• 5:12
  it
• 5:12
  is.
• 5:13
  And
• 5:13
  while
• 5:13
  you're
• 5:13
  doing
• 5:14
  that,
• 5:14
  I
• 5:14
  want
• 5:14
  you
• 5:14
  to
• 5:14
  ask
• 5:15
  yourself,
• 5:17
  what
• 5:17
  actually
• 5:17
  feels
• 5:18
  good
• 5:18
  right
• 5:19
  now?
• 5:19
  Not
• 5:20
  what
• 5:20
  should
• 5:20
  feel
• 5:20
  good.
• 5:21
  Not
• 5:21
  what
• 5:21
  someone
• 5:22
  else
• 5:22
  told
• 5:22
  you
• 5:22
  feels
• 5:23
  good,
• 5:23
  but
• 5:24
  what
• 5:24
  feels
• 5:24
  good
• 5:24
  to
• 5:25
  you
• 5:25
  in
• 5:26
  your
• 5:26
  soul.
• 5:28
  Because
• 5:28
  the
• 5:28
  real
• 5:28
  takeaway
• 5:29
  is,
• 5:29
  guys,
• 5:29
  you
• 5:29
  don't
• 5:29
  need
• 5:30
  to
• 5:30
  become
• 5:30
  someone
• 5:30
  new.
• 5:31
  You
• 5:31
  need
• 5:32
  to
• 5:32
  come
• 5:32
  back
• 5:32
  to
• 5:33
  who
• 5:33
  you
• 5:33
  already
• 5:33
  are.
• 5:34
  Before
• 5:34
  the
• 5:34
  trauma,
• 5:35
  before
• 5:35
  the
• 5:35
  conditioning,
• 5:36
  before
• 5:36
  the
• 5:36
  expectations,
• 5:37
  before
• 5:38
  people
• 5:38
  tried
• 5:38
  to
• 5:39
  rewrite
• 5:39
  your
• 5:39
  story
• 5:40
  for
• 5:40
  you.
• 5:42
  Just
• 5:42
  come
• 5:42
  back
• 5:42
  to
• 5:42
  who
• 5:42
  you
• 5:43
  are.
• 5:43
  And
• 5:43
  always,
• 5:44
  continually
• 5:45
  and
• 5:45
  forever
• 5:45
  ask
• 5:46
  your
• 5:46
  question.
• 5:46
  That
• 5:47
  question.
• 5:48
  What
• 5:48
  feels
• 5:48
  good
• 5:49
  for
• 5:49
  me
• 5:49
  right
• 5:50
  now?
• 5:50
  What
• 5:50
  do
• 5:51
  I
• 5:51
  need
• 5:52
  right
• 5:52
  now?
• 5:54
  So
• 5:54
  ask
• 5:54
  yourself
• 5:55
  that
• 5:55
  today.
• 5:56
  And
• 5:56
  if
• 5:56
  this
• 5:56
  episode
• 5:57
  is
• 5:57
  resonating
• 5:58
  with
• 5:58
  you,
• 5:58
  please,
• 5:59
  and
• 5:59
  you're
• 5:59
  realizing
• 6:00
  you're
• 6:00
  sitting
• 6:00
  there
• 6:00
  thinking,
• 6:01
  wow,
• 6:01
  I've
• 6:01
  been
• 6:01
  disconnected
• 6:02
  from
• 6:02
  myself
• 6:03
  for
• 6:03
  a
• 6:03
  very
• 6:03
  long
• 6:04
  time.
• 6:04
  I
• 6:05
  want
• 6:05
  you
• 6:05
  to
• 6:05
  take
• 6:05
  this
• 6:06
  next
• 6:06
  step
• 6:06
  with
• 6:06
  me.
• 6:07
  Head
• 6:07
  on
• 6:07
  over
• 6:08
  to
• 6:08
  my
• 6:08
  website.
• 6:08
  It's
• 6:08
  just
• 6:09
  my
• 6:09
  name,
• 6:09
  Tammy
• 6:09
  Vincent.
• 6:10
  Dot
• 6:10
  com.
• 6:10
  Listen
• 6:11
  to
• 6:11
  my
• 6:11
  webinar
• 6:12
  awakening
• 6:12
  your
• 6:12
  authentic
• 6:13
  self,
• 6:13
  because
• 6:14
  that's
• 6:14
  exactly
• 6:15
  what
• 6:15
  we're
• 6:15
  talking
• 6:15
  about
• 6:16
  here.
• 6:16
  Not
• 6:17
  becoming
• 6:17
  someone
• 6:17
  new,
• 6:18
  but
• 6:18
  remembering
• 6:19
  who
• 6:19
  you
• 6:19
  were
• 6:19
  before
• 6:19
  the
• 6:19
  world
• 6:20
  told
• 6:20
  you
• 6:20
  who
• 6:20
  to
• 6:21
  be.
• 6:21
  We're
• 6:22
  going
• 6:22
  to
• 6:22
  talk
• 6:22
  about
• 6:22
  boundaries.
• 6:23
  We're
• 6:23
  going
• 6:23
  to
• 6:23
  talk
• 6:23
  about
• 6:24
  the
• 6:24
  myths,
• 6:24
  about
• 6:24
  healing.
• 6:25
  We're
• 6:25
  going
• 6:25
  to
• 6:25
  talk
• 6:25
  about
• 6:25
  all
• 6:26
  kinds
• 6:26
  of
• 6:26
  different
• 6:26
  things,
• 6:28
  but
• 6:28
  we're
• 6:28
  going
• 6:28
  to
• 6:28
  talk
• 6:28
  about
• 6:29
  coming
• 6:29
  back
• 6:30
  to
• 6:30
  the
• 6:30
  real
• 6:30
  you.
• 6:31
  And
• 6:32
  if
• 6:32
  you
• 6:32
  know
• 6:32
  somebody
• 6:33
  that
• 6:33
  could
• 6:33
  also
• 6:33
  use
• 6:33
  this
• 6:34
  information,
• 6:35
  please
• 6:35
  share
• 6:35
  it
• 6:36
  with
• 6:36
  someone.
• 6:36
  Please.
• 6:37
  Because
• 6:38
  you're
• 6:38
  not
• 6:39
  lost,
• 6:39
  my
• 6:39
  friends.
• 6:40
  You're
• 6:41
  really
• 6:41
  just
• 6:41
  coming
• 6:41
  home
• 6:42
  to
• 6:42
  yourself.
• 6:43
  And
• 6:44
  I
• 6:44
  think
• 6:44
  that's
• 6:44
  what
• 6:44
  we
• 6:45
  need
• 6:45
  to
• 6:45
  do.
• 6:46
  So
• 6:46
  I
• 6:46
  will
• 6:46
  see
• 6:47
  you
• 6:47
  back
• 6:47
  in
• 6:47
  the
• 6:47
  next.
• 6:47
  Tammy
• 6:48
  takes.