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the dead can find me & so can you ft. matt fraser · Top Five

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  Speaker 1: Episode thirty nine of the Top Five podcast. I'm Kaylin,
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  Speaker 1: sitting about an hour away from my co hostsim Brown.
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  Speaker 2: Hi.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, So.
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  Speaker 1: I'm super excited. We have a very very special guest today.
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  Speaker 1: I actually he probably doesn't remember we talked in twenty twenty,
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  Speaker 1: so I'm excited to catch up.
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  Speaker 4: Hello, Matt Frasier.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. It's great to be here and listen. I
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  Speaker 2: remember everyone, the living and the dead.
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  Speaker 1: Believe it or not, I do know that about you,
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  Speaker 1: and you have so much going on and we're going
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  Speaker 1: to get to that. But a little bit about our podcast.
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  Speaker 1: We pick five things each week, which I have your
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  Speaker 1: top five that we're obsessed with.
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  Speaker 4: I agree with every single.
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  Speaker 1: One of your top five and except for one that
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  Speaker 1: I have not accomplished yet, but you're a legend for that.
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  Speaker 1: And then also we just got to talk about catching up.
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  Speaker 1: We talk a little we yap in between of the
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  Speaker 1: top five, and then we have a crash out at
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  Speaker 1: the end that you know, if something made us lose
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  Speaker 1: it for the week or something we don't like, which
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  Speaker 1: something tells me you don't even need to be prepped.
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  Speaker 4: For that, like you will be ready to go. You're
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  Speaker 4: a very opinion.
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  Speaker 2: Like me, I know that's all the good and a
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  Speaker 2: bad thing, right, it's a good I.
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  Speaker 1: Think it's a good thing because I don't think people
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  Speaker 1: wonder what we're thinking, and I think that that's a
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  Speaker 1: good thing.
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  Speaker 4: Probably so great.
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, it's gonna be so fun.
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  Speaker 1: So first of all, for those and I'm I believe
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  Speaker 1: you me, I was just listening to your podcast. I
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  Speaker 1: watched your show. I loved it so much. I know
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  Speaker 1: you have a book and a tour. But for those
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  Speaker 1: who don't know about your gift and your story, you
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  Speaker 1: are a psychic and a medium.
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  Speaker 4: Can you tell me.
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  Speaker 1: How you realize that you have those gifts and a
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  Speaker 1: little bit about your backstory?
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely. You know what's really interesting is that I discovered
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  Speaker 2: that I was a medium when I was a young age.
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  Speaker 2: But I didn't know that I was a medium because
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  Speaker 2: I grew up around the ages of three, four or
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  Speaker 2: five years old seeing and hearing people who had died.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, when you're that young, you don't realize
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  Speaker 2: that you're a psychic or that you're a medium. I
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  Speaker 2: literally just thought that the house was haunted, or where
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  Speaker 2: I was going was haunted. I thought that these were
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  Speaker 2: ghosts that were appearing, and I was so afraid. Like
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  Speaker 2: when I was younger, I was afraid to go to
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  Speaker 2: certain places. I'd asked my mom, you know, did someone
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  Speaker 2: die there before we got there? You know, no matter
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  Speaker 2: where it went. I remember my parents were going and
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  Speaker 2: looking for a new house when we were younger. They
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  Speaker 2: were thinking about moving to the next town over, and
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  Speaker 2: I was so afraid. I begged my parents to please
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  Speaker 2: ask the realtor if anyone died in the house before
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  Speaker 2: we got there. Because I thought that the souls were
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  Speaker 2: attached to the places. I thought that, you know, anybody
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  Speaker 2: could have an experience with souls. I didn't realize that
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  Speaker 2: it was something that only I could. So what was
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  Speaker 2: crazy was is that growing up, I didn't want any
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  Speaker 2: part of this. I wanted to push this away. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't want to see the departed here, that departed connect
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  Speaker 2: with the departed. And it wasn't until later on in
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  Speaker 2: life that I actually realized this is a gift, and
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  Speaker 2: it was given to me to help people to heal.
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  Speaker 2: It was given to me to show people that there's
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  Speaker 2: more to life than what's here in this world, so
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  Speaker 2: that there is another side and I need to use this.
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  Speaker 2: I need to use this to help people to heal.
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  Speaker 4: That's a beautiful thing.
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  Speaker 1: Am I incorrect in saying that it actually runs in
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  Speaker 1: your family?
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  Speaker 2: Which it does. Yeah, So what's really interesting is my
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  Speaker 2: grandmother was a medium who passed it on to my mom,
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  Speaker 2: who passed it on to me. But what's really interesting
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  Speaker 2: is that even though we're all the same blood it
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  Speaker 2: is completely different. So my grandmother's gifts were very different
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  Speaker 2: than my mom's psychic gifts versus me, so I grew
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  Speaker 2: up seeing and hearing they departed. My grandmother used to
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  Speaker 2: get omens. She would be able to tell when something
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  Speaker 2: was gonna happen in the world worldly predictions, you know,
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  Speaker 2: predictions about a person's life. She would just know it.
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  Speaker 2: Things would just come to her. And with my mom,
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  Speaker 2: my mom is a life psychic. So when you come
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  Speaker 2: to my mom, she's the one who can tell you,
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  Speaker 2: you know, who your soulmate is, if you're gonna get
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  Speaker 2: married in the next five years, how many kids you're
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  Speaker 2: gonna have, if you're gonna move to Florida, you know
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  Speaker 2: all those types of things. So even though we're you know,
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  Speaker 2: three of the same and the same bloodline, our gifts
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  Speaker 2: are completely unique. And I've learned in doing this, you
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  Speaker 2: know all these years, that every single medium is unique.
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  Speaker 2: There's some mediums that are remote viewers. Those are the
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  Speaker 2: people you want to go to if you lose objects
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  Speaker 2: like a wedding ring, they can look to see where
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  Speaker 2: it is. There's some mediums that are medical mediums. I
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  Speaker 2: can tell you what's going on in your body, if
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  Speaker 2: you're low on something, if there's something that the doctors
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  Speaker 2: are missing. These animal communicators that communicate with pets that
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  Speaker 2: have passed on. And then there's psychic mediums like myself
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  Speaker 2: that do a little bit of both, meaning that I
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  Speaker 2: connect with the spirit world. But then there's also times
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  Speaker 2: when the spirit world will show me something about your
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  Speaker 2: life and I get to make predictions. So for example,
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  Speaker 2: I might connect with your grandmother and spirit and she
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  Speaker 2: might show me a little baby, and that's my symbol
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  Speaker 2: for the fact that you know you're gonna have a
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  Speaker 2: little baby in the their future. So what's really amazing
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  Speaker 2: is that being a medium, you kind of get the
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  Speaker 2: best at the best of both worlds. It's you get
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  Speaker 2: a little bit of the psychic ability that comes through
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  Speaker 2: in readings and also the mediumship of connecting with the departed.
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  Speaker 3: That's really cool. Do you remember like when you first
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  Speaker 3: started like seeing people when you were ages three, four
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  Speaker 3: or five?
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  Speaker 2: Did you know these people are?
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  Speaker 3: They were just strangers, which makes it like even crazier,
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  Speaker 3: But did you like recognize any of them?
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  Speaker 2: So what was really interesting is that when the first
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  Speaker 2: sole that ever came to me was my grandmother who
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  Speaker 2: had passed away. And I remember, you know, I was
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  Speaker 2: I was so young. I would think I was three
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  Speaker 2: years old when she passed away. So everybody was crying
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  Speaker 2: and upset and just I remember that being all this
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  Speaker 2: emotion around my grandmother and passing, and I didn't know
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  Speaker 2: what death was. Right, everyone's saying, Grandma died, Grandma passed away,
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  Speaker 2: Grandma's in heaven. But what was interesting is is that
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  Speaker 2: when everyone would go to sleep, there would be times
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  Speaker 2: when my grandmother would come to visit me, and I
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  Speaker 2: remember her sitting on the on the end of my bed,
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  Speaker 2: reading me stories, you know, talking to me, checking up
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  Speaker 2: on me. So everybody was grieving her. I never grieved
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  Speaker 2: her because I didn't realize that she died. I had
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  Speaker 2: no idea that she was quote unquote dead because you know,
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  Speaker 2: to me, I would see her and experience her and
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  Speaker 2: feel her every night. So I never had that. But
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  Speaker 2: then what ended up happening is those were all comforting,
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  Speaker 2: comforting experiences. You know. The only thing that I remembered
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  Speaker 2: different but that was about those experiences, is when my
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  Speaker 2: grandmother came to visit me, there was always this I
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  Speaker 2: want to call it like a halo and aura of
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  Speaker 2: white light all around her. That's the only thing. She
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  Speaker 2: wasn't transparent. She wasn't translucent. She was just like me
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  Speaker 2: and you. She just the only thing was to she
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  Speaker 2: had this beautiful, bright light, bright aura all around her.
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  Speaker 2: But after you know, after seeing and having experiencing, uh,
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  Speaker 2: after having these experiences with her, other souls to come in.
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  Speaker 2: Souls that I didn't know, Souls that died in the
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  Speaker 2: nearby area that you know, would come in with urgency. Right.
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  Speaker 2: So for example, I remember being a little boy and
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  Speaker 2: there was this soul that came to me that died
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  Speaker 2: in a car crash and literally is at the foot
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  Speaker 2: of my bed like yelling trying to get a message across.
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  Speaker 2: That was so afraid because the more that I was
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  Speaker 2: trying to get away from this soul, the more that
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  Speaker 2: that soul knew that they could communicate with me, so whoa.
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  Speaker 2: This is what I went through growing up. And this
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  Speaker 2: is why it was just afraid, because when I didn't
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  Speaker 2: listen to the messages, the souls wouldn't just walk away.
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  Speaker 2: They would become louder because they were trying to get
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  Speaker 2: a message through. And here I was putting my hands
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  Speaker 2: over my ears, yelling and screaming for my mom and dad,
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  Speaker 2: not wanting to hear what it was they had to
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  Speaker 2: tell me. And I wish, I wish. If there's one
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  Speaker 2: thing I wish you could do, is I wish you
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  Speaker 2: could go back in time and listen to some of
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  Speaker 2: those messages, to really listen to find out what the
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  Speaker 2: souls were trying to tell me, because I knew that
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  Speaker 2: at that moment they were urgent. I just didn't know
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  Speaker 2: it then.
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  Speaker 4: Gosh that I just can't imagine.
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  Speaker 1: It's already like scary to be a kid, like I
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  Speaker 1: was scared of running out of the stairs that people
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  Speaker 1: are going to I grabbed my angles. But I can't
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  Speaker 1: imagine adding that factor in. And I've I've gotten like
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  Speaker 1: slight signs from other people's people that have passed on,
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  Speaker 1: and I but I've said it to them and they
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  Speaker 1: didn't know, like I didn't know what I was saying,
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  Speaker 1: and then their shock kind of shocked me. But I
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  Speaker 1: can't imagine like seeing people.
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  Speaker 4: And it's interesting.
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  Speaker 1: We're on a morning show with a bigger group of people,
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  Speaker 1: and there's all kinds of levels of belief in this.
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  Speaker 1: And one of our friends is super religious, and I
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  Speaker 1: know that you're religious as well, And I would love
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  Speaker 1: for you to just speak to the people who think,
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  Speaker 1: you know, that this is like doing something against their religion,
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  Speaker 1: because I think it's it's created, it's all created, It's
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  Speaker 1: all one and the same, you know what I mean? Like,
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  Speaker 1: what would you say to those people that are a
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  Speaker 1: little afraid of it or uneasy about it?
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  Speaker 2: Well? I grew up that way too, right, I grew
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  Speaker 2: up in the Catholic bubble where you know, I did
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  Speaker 2: all I did, all the things that was baptized, made
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  Speaker 2: my communion, made my confirmation, went to Sunday School. I
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  Speaker 2: believe in God, I believe in Jesus, I believe in
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  Speaker 2: all of those, all of those things. But doing this work,
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  Speaker 2: I also realized something, something that opens up my mind
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  Speaker 2: in a sense that you know, I can't go back now.
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  Speaker 2: I realize that it doesn't matter what religion you are, right,
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  Speaker 2: there's some people that are just spiritual. There's some people
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  Speaker 2: who believe in God who there's some people Christians, Catholic, right, Orthodox,
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  Speaker 2: you know, whatever, it is that that whatever religion that
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  Speaker 2: you are connected to, we all go to the same place.
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  Speaker 2: There's one heaven. I've read for people with all different
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  Speaker 2: religious backgrounds. There is no you know, Catholics over here,
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  Speaker 2: Christians over there, Jews over here. We all go to
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  Speaker 2: one place. We're all in one heaven. And what's so
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  Speaker 2: beautiful is that religion gives us all a unique way
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  Speaker 2: to connect with the other side, but the teachers are
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  Speaker 2: very similar. What's also so beautiful that I've learned is
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  Speaker 2: that when it comes to the afterlife and the other
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  Speaker 2: side and connecting with spirit is that, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: believe that religions were created for that reason, so that
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  Speaker 2: we all have a way that feels connected to us.
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  Speaker 2: There's something that I've taken away from every single religion
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  Speaker 2: in the readings that I've done. And I've also realized
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  Speaker 2: some things that you know, I found not to be
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  Speaker 2: true that we you know, I grew up and heard
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  Speaker 2: in Sunday school, for example, the idea of hell. Right,
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  Speaker 2: I've never done a reading with you know, a devil
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  Speaker 2: and a pitchfork, you know that's come through. There are
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  Speaker 2: people's spirits, there are there is a lower vibration. So
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  Speaker 2: some of the things that I see that are in
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  Speaker 2: you know, the biblical sense of the Christian teachings, for example,
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  Speaker 2: the idea of hell. Right, So going to the other side, well,
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  Speaker 2: that does happen. There are evil souls that don't transition
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  Speaker 2: onto the other side. But there's certainly no burning place
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  Speaker 2: with you know fire and you know below below ground.
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  Speaker 2: But there is an energy vibration that is a lower
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  Speaker 2: vibration where these souls exist. So I think that you know,
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  Speaker 2: these religions all touch upon the same thing, right, and
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  Speaker 2: they explain it just in a way that at the
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  Speaker 2: time maybe was easy to understand.
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  Speaker 4: That's beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really cool that you're finding, like I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: sometimes religion can be so divisive, right, and like you know,
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  Speaker 3: this person believes this thing, if this person doesn't believe
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  Speaker 3: this thing, and so forth. But I love that you're
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  Speaker 3: sort of finding like in a way commonality between all
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  Speaker 3: all of it. That's really cool.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it makes sense, right, Like for example, like people
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  Speaker 2: don't sometimes people don't like to use the word heaven
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  Speaker 2: because heaven is tied to believe you know, biblical uh,
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  Speaker 2: biblical beliefs. But really heaven, the after life, the other side,
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  Speaker 2: the hereafter, whatever you want to call it, it's the
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  Speaker 2: same place. It's the same exact thing, you know. So
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  Speaker 2: what's really cool about doing this work is is that
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  Speaker 2: that is one place. That is one one place. It's
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  Speaker 2: got a lot of different names, people call it a
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  Speaker 2: lot of different things, it's referenced in a lot of
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  Speaker 2: different ways across different religions, but it's one place that
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  Speaker 2: we all end up, which is the afterlife. Call it
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  Speaker 2: what you want, call it what feels safe to you
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  Speaker 2: and at peace to you. And this is my advice
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  Speaker 2: to people, right, is that when you go down your
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  Speaker 2: own road of spirituality, take what you want that speaks
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  Speaker 2: to your heart and leave the rest. Take the take
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  Speaker 2: the teachings, the wisdom, whatever feels right to you, you take.
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  Speaker 2: And it's the same thing with me in my in
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  Speaker 2: in my views, there's some people that don't you know, uh,
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  Speaker 2: that don't connect with my views or you know, what
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  Speaker 2: I've seen from spirit and that's okay. You know, the
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  Speaker 2: thing is is that you have to go within your heart.
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  Speaker 1: I love that, and I think it makes a lot
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  Speaker 1: of sense how all these different religions are kind of
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  Speaker 1: describing something similar. It's like, how do they all come
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  Speaker 1: to this idea? And a lot of them are such
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  Speaker 1: old religions that you know, I'm more inclined to believe
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  Speaker 1: that that's the situation. And that's that's comforting because down
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  Speaker 1: here right now, it feels like we're living in hell.
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  Speaker 1: You say, hell doesn't make this, but the world is razy.
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  Speaker 1: And I always say to people so like, I am
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  Speaker 1: very much a believer because I've had these moments that
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  Speaker 1: just couldn't possibly be described any other way that like
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  Speaker 1: there's just no way that certain people would know certain things.
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  Speaker 1: And then you know, my friend Jason over here, he
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  Speaker 1: is open, but he hasn't had that experience that was
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  Speaker 1: like whoa like shook him to his poor And so
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  Speaker 1: my hope is for everyone, if they have lost or
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  Speaker 1: grieved or whatever, they have that moment of just like
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  Speaker 1: pure comfort and what you're giving to people is such
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  Speaker 1: a gift.
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  Speaker 4: And so I just that such.
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  Speaker 1: An important job and such important work, and but my
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  Speaker 1: hope for him is that one day someone's gonna say,
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  Speaker 1: he's gonna go, oh, yeah, you know, my loved ones
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  Speaker 1: are with me, and yeah.
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  Speaker 2: There's also a journey and you've got to get there too.
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  Speaker 2: Not everybody, you know, wants a reading right away. Not
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  Speaker 2: everybody wants to connect. Not everybody wants to have that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it depends on that on the period that
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  Speaker 2: you are within life. You know, I've had people that
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  Speaker 2: were skeptics and non believers, you know, for years and
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  Speaker 2: years and years until they lost someone that they loved,
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  Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden they received received a
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  Speaker 2: sign and then they went down the rabbit hole and
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  Speaker 2: the next thing you know, they're open to speaking to
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  Speaker 2: a medium and it changed their life. So sometimes, you know,
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  Speaker 2: it depends on where you are in life, right. Nobody
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  Speaker 2: can just make you a believer. Nobody can make you,
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  Speaker 2: you know, connect, connect or want to connect. You have to,
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  Speaker 2: you have to want in your soul. For example, there
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  Speaker 2: was there was one man that I was connecting with
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  Speaker 2: his his uh, his wife excuse me, had brought him
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  Speaker 2: to a live event to connect with his brother. His
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  Speaker 2: brother had passed away tragically, and she was just this
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  Speaker 2: non believer. And what was crazy was is that it
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  Speaker 2: comes to the event his brother had come through and
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  Speaker 2: his brother passed in this horrible tragedy, his father had
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  Speaker 2: committed suicide. And long story short, the brother came through
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  Speaker 2: like all these details describing like what had happened, he
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  Speaker 2: had hung himself, all of these things. And this man
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  Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, oh my god, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I can't believe this, and like he was like completely
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  Speaker 2: completely emotionally changed from the reading until he went home.
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  Speaker 2: Right when he went home, his mind got the best
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  Speaker 2: of him and he was like, there's you know, maybe
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  Speaker 2: he googled this, maybe he looked this up, maybe he
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  Speaker 2: knew the seatial or maybe this, maybe maybe the other things.
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  Speaker 3: And you have the time to do that, right, you're
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  Speaker 3: Matt Frazier, you have the times.
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  Speaker 2: Well listen, he actually talked himself out of like I
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  Speaker 2: don't think this was my brother, like talked himself all
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  Speaker 2: all the reading. So guess what happens? Long story short.
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  Speaker 2: A couple months later, he comes back to an online
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: group reading and guess what now his dad comes through.
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: Right now, his father comes through with all of these
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: messages and whatnot, you know, with even more validations and
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: he's changed. It's funny because during the reading, like his
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: father had told me and I remembered him. I remember
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: because it was they were only three months of and
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, you would just hear your father passed.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: It's like yes, I'm like, I have your father here now,
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: and his father told them all the stuff, and I'm like,
• 14:06
  Speaker 2: your dad is telling me like you didn't believe the
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: last reading or you didn't believe the last you know message,
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: And the wife was like, oh my god, he gave
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: me hell. Going at home, He's just like right after
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: he got home, this happens and he didn't believe. And anyway,
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: long story shore, his dad was like, you know, this
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: is this is your second chance. This is your second reading.
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: I hope you can believe these words that I say
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: that I say to you. But at the end of
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: the day, it's up to him, right, whether he went
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: home and he suddenly, you know, after hearing from his
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: brother and dad, became a believer or maybe he's maybe
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: he doesn't right. The thing is is that being human,
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: we we have our own opinions. So like, for example,
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: we can go to the doctor and the doctor can
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: tell us, hey, Listen, you're at borderline being a diabetic,
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: you have heart issues, you have all these issues. They
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: can show us the facts, they can show us the proof,
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: and we can even say, yes, I'm gonna change, I believe,
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: or we can say, like for those those skeptics that
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: walk in, ah, that doctor's full of shit. They don't
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: know what they're talking about, and walk out and just
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: keep living your life. Right. So the thing is is
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: that that's where faith comes in, and we have to
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: be at the right time to receive it.
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that example you gave the first when
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: you were talking about his brother. That has to be
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: really hard to sort of deliver that type of message
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: to people and to touch those heavy subjects. Do you
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: is it basically like free flowing like when you get
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: these messages or do you ever find yourself being like
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: maybe I need to rephrase that, or maybe I need
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: to like like that's almost too much to even bring
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: up in this like environment. How is that sort of
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: giving that sort of like heavy heavy stuff.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you, Jason, it's really hard because you can't
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: prepare for it, right, So there is no script, there
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: is no prep work. You're hearing this information live. On
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: the spot and in real time, and sometimes I don't
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: want to say the things that I see. Sometimes I
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: don't want to talk about what it is that comes through.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: And that's the reason why my live shows I don't
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: allow anyone under the age of eighteen because I can't filter.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: I can't filter what I'm gonna be shown, what's gonna
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: be told, what's gonna be said. Some events are really
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: light and fun because the souls, you know, are you know,
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: passed in peaceful ways. Other times it's really tragic. You know,
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: there was this online reading that I did that actually
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: blew up and just gone viral on YouTube. When this
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: man came to one of my online group reading events,
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: and the online group reading events and when you come
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: on zoom zou and other people that are attending and
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: you know, whoever comes through comes through. Well, he was
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: there and when I went to connect with him, his
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: brother had come through. There was only one problem is
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: that he didn't know if his brother was alive or dead.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: His brother had gone missing, Oh to go, and his
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: brother talked about I looked him, likely your brother's coming through,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: your brother's telling me he was murdered. And the man's
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: like I don't know. I'm like, how do you not
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: know if your brother was murdered or not. He's like, well, Matt,
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: he was missing and was never found. I had to
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: tell him, which was the hardest thing in the world,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: Like nobody can prepare you for this right that his
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: brother was not going to be found. And this was
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: a man who had spent years searching for his brother.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, as much as
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: this brought me hurt and pain, you know, to tell
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: him this message, I really didn't want to say it.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: When I got off of that and I kind of debriefed,
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I heard this message from spirit and the message that
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: I was told was this is that during that reading.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: You can go and watch itself on a YouTube page.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: During that reading, this man needed that to heal because
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: he would have spent his whole entire rest of his
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: life searching for his brother, searching for his brother, never
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: finding closure. But that one message allowed him to stop searching.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: That one message allowed him to start the healing process
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: that he was never able to go through because he
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: just didn't have the answers.
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's I can't imagine how hard it
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: is on you.
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: Like the told to deliver that.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: But it, honestly, in the grand scheme, is good for
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: you know, his process to know what happened with his
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: brother and know at least that his brother's like, I'm good,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: I'm over here. And while we're talking about that, like,
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: haven't you help? Jason and I are huge into true
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: crime in the sense that I mean, I personally think
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I'm going to solve like every one of the cases.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: I like, you know, I get my poster board out
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, but I don't have you know, the
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: ability you have.
• 17:59
  Speaker 4: You've helped in some of those cases, haven't you.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: There have been times in my back in the day
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: right when I when there were private investigators that came
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: to me and was like, hey, listen, we'd help with
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: this case. Can you help us? So there are so
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: here's a fun fact. There's no official police psychics, right,
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: but there are private investigators that can come to you
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: on behalf of the family. I think there was. There
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: was actually a detective one time that was working on
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: a case with there some murder case that they came
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: to me with. But yes, in the past, in the past,
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: there were times when I when you know, I was
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: consultant on those things. But the hard part is is this, okay,
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: And I remember one of these cases that was really, really,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: really tough was that the police knew who did it
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: and then the person who I was describing and the
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: write down to the name was on the suspect list.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: The problem was is that they didn't have the evidence
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: to convict the person. So that right there was really
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: hard for me because it's like, Okay, I am a resolutionist.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: I like to see the resolution of things. I like
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: to see things through. When I do a reading, it's
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: the same thing. I like to see everything tied up
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: in a bow. Here you go, like, now it's your
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: time to heal, right, And when it's hard. It's hard
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: when you have an active case and if the other
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: side can tell us who did it, what happened some
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: of the things, but if there's not other elements that
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: are there right justice here in this world. So I
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: stopped doing those cases because you know, I felt that
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: my whole job right now is I want to help
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: people to get to the point of healing. Right. I
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: want to help people. I don't want to work in
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: the true crime or the crime stuff. I want to
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: help people to find peace that are missing a loved one.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: And sometimes I've learned that justice doesn't always get served
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: here on earth, sadly, as much as I wish that
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: it did.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, let's talk about your live shows because you
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: have them coming up April twenty fifth, four Winds Casino,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: New Buffalo. Tickets are still available. But I'm looking at pictures.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: I was watching some videos and there are hundreds thousands
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: of people in the room. When you're doing these events,
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: you just it's got to be like almost overload for
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: you of messages coming through and people trying to, you know,
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: reach their loved ones in the room. How do you
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: sort of like compartmentalize and think, Okay, I'm going to
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: this person or is it automatic?
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Does it just happen? It just happens, and you know,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: I go where the souls pull me. So what I
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: want people to really know, because so many people like
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: spend so much time picking out their seat. There's some
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: people that won't come with the event is like almost
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: souls out because like he'll never see me in the back.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: And the truth is I go where the spirits are.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: You might be sitting up in the balcony, but your
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: son's coming through, so I gotta get up in the
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: back in the balcony and talk to you. You might
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: be sitting away in the back and your your dad
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: passed and I got to get to the back to
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: talk to you. You might be right in the front row
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: and your mom passed and I going to talk to you.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: So I'm all over the room. I never know where
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: the soul is going to lead me. And that's the
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: fun part and the most amazing thing is that people
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: come to the events for all different reasons. One to
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: hear a message, two to learn about the other side,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: and three because they're skeptical. They want to know can
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: something like this be real? Can someone connect with the
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: other side? Can someone connect with the afterlife? And it's
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: really fun to see everyone on their journey. You know,
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: some people are there and they learn something about themselves.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Maybe they have a hidden psychic gift that they didn't
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: uncover yet. Maybe it is that they started receiving signs
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: from their loved one, but they didn't know if it
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: could really be or if it could really happen. So
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: it's really cool because I feel as though that the
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: shows are not just about the messages. It's a learning
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: experience as well.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: Wow, that's I mean, that's going to be amazing.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I know you're doing a whole tour and obviously, like
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: the Michigan one is the one we're highlighting, but we
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: have friends and Raley, we have friends all over, so
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: you know, you can look up those dates if you
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: guys are interested in going.
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: And I just how do you turn it off?
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Because like if you're at Trader Joe's or like you know,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: or like talking to us right now, like do you
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: do you have like a blacker or is like someone
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: standing behind like you know what I mean? Like, are
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: you able to tune it out and really just be
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: in the moment?
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: I am sometimes. I mean there's always there's always certain
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: souls around. There's always certain things that I'm downloading, right
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: It might not be exactly reading a person, but I
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: might get little downloads. For example, during the day before
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: a live event, im MA ging to download that. Okay,
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I callte little downloads. It's almost like little pings from
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: the other side, like Okay, someone's son is going to
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: be there, you know, his his mom there in the audience.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Like I'll get these little messages that come to me.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: But what's really funny is that life has to happen right.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: So for example, I remember that I was just recently
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: on a call with E News and the reporter was like,
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I was on it was an interview, right, and I
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: was on the phone taking this, and she's like, do
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: you hear anything right now? And I had the three
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: kids screaming in the background, right, the kids running all around. Listen,
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: I don't. I can't even hear myself freaking think it
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: was it was right after the baby was born. Yeah,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Like listen, I can't even hear myself think. Never mind
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: here the other side. So the thing is is that
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: am I always feeling things? Yes, when life is kind
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: of calm and not chaotic around me. But when there's
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of things that are going on, kids crying,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: cats being on the rug, white and yelling at you,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: you know, there's no time time to think or to hear.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: It's almost like when someone sends you a text message
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: but you don't respond for two days because life gets
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: in the way. That's kind of what happens with me.
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, because that would be hard.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: I have ADHD, so like I can already do it
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: without the other side talking to me, you know, adding
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: in those voices.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: I mean I do.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: I'll sometimes get a ringing in my ear and I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: wonder if that's going on or I have little signs,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: but I could never be paying attention would be very difficult.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: But that's crazy, and I miss your show. I just
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: want to tell you, like I wish that, I thank you.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Your wife are so cute, she's so beautiful. I loved
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: your dynamic. I love that you don't like fit a
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: mold of like what people might think a psychic medium is.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: And I just like love sharing that with the world
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: because I do feel like so many people could benefit
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: from that in terms of their level of.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: Healing and moving on.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Do you do you want to say your top five
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: if we move into that, or do you want me.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: To read them the top five percent?
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I have here, Go ahead, okay, perfect, We're gonna and
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: then we can talk about each one. So, like I said,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: each week, we pick five things we're obsessed with. Number one,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: speaking of your beautiful wife, you said watching Bridgerton with her?
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: Now is this the new season? Because I know it's
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: a spicy show. Love that we'll love watching it with
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: your partner, But I haven't watched the new season.
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: Is it good?
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Oh? The news this is great? Yes, okay, the season
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: before last was not. But you know what, I gotta
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: tell you that it's for me. I love a TV
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: series right now, it's Bridget hit next. If you ask
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: me this top five next month, it's gonna be something different, right.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Actually it's changed since that since I last wrote that
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: top five. Now the top five is I just got done.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: We just did Age of Perfection on Netflix. Me too, Danny. Okay,
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: so this is the thing is my time. The reason
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: why it's my top five is because me and my
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: wife with the kids screaming, yelling, or it changes you.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Having kids changes your marriage, It really does. You better
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: have a strong maverage if you're gonna have kids. I'm
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: gonna tell you right now. So we don't get any
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: time with one another because we're constantly, you know, taking
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: care of the all three kids. So I love at
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: the end of the night, my favorite thing to do
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: is to just sit in bed, put the kids, put
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: put the kids bed, sit in bed with her and
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: just watch a series. So this way we can talk
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: about it. This way we can have little opinions about
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: what's going on. You know, and it's just our time
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: with one another. So I look forward to it every night.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: And I'm a big believer that you should have something
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: to look forward to, even if it's the smallest thing
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: at the end of the week, at the end the night,
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: that's like, okay, tonight, after I get done with all
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: the stuff. Bridget Finn's on. Right. Whether I like it
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: or not, whether I like it or not, right, the
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: thing is is that it just helps you to unwind,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: take your mind off of what happened during the day,
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: and just kind of wosa.
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: Well, I love that.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I always tell Jason he's going through a knee surgery healing,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, we just need to have like a
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: small win for you because mentally it's a lot.
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: He couldn't walk for a while.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I was pushing him in a wheelchair. But yeah, I'm like,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: we just need something that you look forward to.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: So I love that.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: And my goodness, you've had three kids right since I
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: met you in twenty twenty, since we am I right
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: in saying that one of your kids you think has
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: a gift as well?
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: Did I hear?
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Oh? Absolutely. Royce has definitely shown signs of psychic ability.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: It's been crazy to see that a lot of things
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: that he's experienced I experienced as a as a child
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: as well. Now, I'm not a believer in and this
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: is gonna sound like conterintuitive, but I'm not a believer
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: in pushing him right, Like, there's some people out there
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: that want their kids to be so that like want
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: to like like coach down and push them and push
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: them through that. And you know, I'm I normalize it
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: for him, and I basically, you know, explain to him
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: that there is an afterlife, there is another side. There
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: are souls that come and visit. But I don't want
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: to go and push him into one corner because even
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: though you're a psychic or a medium, doesn't mean that
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: you have to go and do the same things that
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I do. Doesn't mean you have to read people, doesn't
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: mean that you have to go out and to do
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: this work publicly. You know, there's many clients of mine
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: that are extremely psychic but work in all different professions.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: There's one that is a veterinarian and actually found her
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: calling as a vet, and believe it or not, she's
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: a pet psychic. So when these pets come in, she
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: doesn't tell her clients this, but when pets come in,
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: she just knows, she knows what's wrong with them, she
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: knows how to treat them. She can find things that
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: no other vet can. And she's freaking a kick ass
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: vet because of that ability. You know what, I've met
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: a lot of mediums who you know, are in all
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: different trades that just use that gift in a different way.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: Some are psychologists and therapists right, some of them are nurses.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: So it's amazing to see how you can use it
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: hand in hand. And I'm one of those people. If
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: I was not doing this publicly right now, I would
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: still be in the medical fields as a paramedic and
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: using it on the scene. So the thing is is
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: that I don't want to push him into one career
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: or one goal. We all know what that's like when
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: our parents try to push us into something. So if
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: he's interested in later on, he'll come into his own time.
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: You'll have him. That's wild.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: My friend Megan, she goes by misting Mikael.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure if you've heard of her, but she
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: was a teacher prior and she would she would see
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: colors around people and she would go, Okay, I can't
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: sit to like purples together in class.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: Or you know. So it's interesting to think about how.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: Many people are operating with that gift and it's helping them. Okay,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: number two I'm obsessed with as well, gold Belly. We
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: need to tell the people about gold Belly.
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: What are you ordering on Goldbeck?
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: So for those who don't, I don't want to tell you.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: I don't want to tell you because I tell you
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: on gold everyone's gonna order it and then oh so
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: I really don't want to say say it, sorry, but
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: we would love it.
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: Gold Bell.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: You can get food from like anywhere, and so if
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: there's somewhere that has a specialty, like I'm from Detroit,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: if I miss a cony dog, I can literally like
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: get one.
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: Tell us what you're ordering? I promise, all right, you.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: Know, I'm gonna just for the listener. So my favorite
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: thing is is that in Boston there's Mike's Canoli's. Okay,
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: so Mike's pastry Mix canols, which is like the most
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: famous canoli. And if you go to Boston, you have
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: to wait and freaking line all the way down the
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: block to get these canolis. So I gold belly them,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: right and I have them at every single party. I
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: have the every single event, and everyone's like, how do
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: you get these canoes? And never tell them the secret.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: They actually come from gold Belly. It's fresh. They shift
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: to your freaking door. You fill them yourself. You put
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: as much cream in them as you want, as much
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: as much chocolate chips on them as you want, or pistachio.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: They send you all the stuff.
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: It is.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: I think it's better than in the store. So definitely
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: that definitely, Like now that I'm touring and I'm going
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: different places like for example, Chicago, right nows and then
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: you also got Detroit Pizza. Yeah, anything on gold Belly,
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: And I gotta tell you they have like meals for FI.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: You can get anything. It's ween in doubt go to
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: gold Belly because we all get sick. I don't know
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: if you're with me, because I enjoy dash right and
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: I'm so sick of seeing the same stuff ordering from
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: the same places, the same foods.
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: I get it.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I get it, So that is I love gold Belly too,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: and I haven't shared that with them.
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Third one, I think never go out of style. I
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: agree with you on this one. A velvet blazer I
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: love a velvet blazer.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: I love it.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's always in style, and
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: it elevates a blazer situation because sometimes, you know, if
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: we have to wear a blazer, we want to stand
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: out a little bit, right. New restaurants. You obviously are
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: a foodie. You put that on your list. Is there
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: one you went to recently that you love or do
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: you just love the experience of like trying something new
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: and going out?
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm really spoiled because I'm fro Rhode Island,
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: so we have a lot of Mom and pops, good
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: Italian restaurants. That's a lot of food. I love a
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: good restaurant, but I hate it when you go to
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: an expensive place, like, don't bring me to an expensive place,
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: but they're not going to give you the excuse me
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: quantity of food when they gonna only like you ever
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: been to those places where.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: You can go after after balens taking me to these places?
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: You know, I'm both. I'm both. I'm all the people.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: I can go for a dive bar and I will
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: go to a Michelin Star with like tiny little bites
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: and I will get McDonald's afterwards.
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: Sorry.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: No, See, I can't be one of those people. I
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: can't do it. So I'm Italian. So it's like if
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: we leave hungry, it's a problem, Like we should leave hungry.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: That's just a thing. So like when I when when
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: we were doing the television show and like you know,
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: the network producers and whatnot, they want to like wind
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: you and dine you, and they're like, we're going to
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: bring you to the best, and I go on, like
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: I go on the trip advice and I look and
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I see like a little freaking piece of chicken. I'm like, no,
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: please don't bring me, bring me now, pick somewhere else, like, no,
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: go to four style, let's drop a stuff because I
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be young.
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: You are Italian.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: I love that I go on TikTok because I want
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: to see like the whole video, the whole experience. But
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: I am definitely researching before I go somewhere, so.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: Sometimes I miss.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: But lastly, I love that this is on your top
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: five because this is actual flex writing books is just
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: casually on your top which you know we cannot all
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: relate to.
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: I know, Brita, have you written too? I read your
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: first one.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: I've written, Oh my god, for so far, I'm.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: Sorry shut to what was the most So what was
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: the most recent one?
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Because the most recent one is Don't Wait Till You're Dead.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: That's my that's my most recent okay, But the most
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: fun to write was We Never Die. That was the
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: best because it covered like all the secrets that people
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: wonder about the afterlife. So Don't Wait Till You're Dead
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: is all about the life review and you know what
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: happens when the soul crosses over. But we Never Die,
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: it's all about like it's it's all about the questions
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: to life's excuse me, the answers to life's biggest questions.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: For example, do we have a guardian angel? You know?
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Do we have sex in the afterlife? Do all these
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: like things? Do the dead people do what you shot?
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: All these things? All these things?
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: Do we have sex?
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: You got to buy the book to find out.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm not gonna let her die to find out. No,
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: you don't have sex in that No, not in that way. Right,
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: there are there are, but believe it or not. Like, Okay,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: So one of the things I've learned is that the
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: one thing that people wait, wait, wait, wait, stay with
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: me on this. The one thing that people really want
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: to know about the afterlife is about physical touch. They
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: do want to know that, not in the sexual way.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: But there's been a lot of people who've asked me, like, nah,
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: I'm just so afraid because you know, I believe the
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: afterlife is real. I lost my son. I just want
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: to know can I hug him again? You know? Is
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: that a thing?
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we do in heaven. Even though we're energy and
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: our souls are energy, we can't feel. We do have
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: sensations in heaven. It's not the same as here in
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: this world. But to us, we don't we don't see
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: we don't see it differently or view it differently. But no,
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: you don't have you don't get the you do not
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: get the sensations of sex. Like you're not porny on
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: the other side, put it to you that way.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, is my grandma watching me if I'm doing something
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: bad down here? Because I know you feel her with me,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: But I think about that sometimes I'm like not right now, Nana,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Like you're my Like like does she know to like
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: close her eyes?
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: Well she could. So the thing is that, like when
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: I say that they're watching all of you right like
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: she could if she wanted to. But I'm gonna tell
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: you right now, she's not gonna want to write. There's
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: no one. There's no one that is going to be
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: like if you're like, for example, your dad or your mom,
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: the same. The reason why doors exist here in this
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: world is the same way that privacy exists on the
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: other side. They're not going to just open the door
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: when you're going to the bathroom. They don't want to
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: see that, right They're they're more concerned about seeing you
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: on your wedding day, you know, seeing seeing you walk
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: across the graduation stage, and not judging you for what.
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: You do, genuinely something I stress out about.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we'll wrap you and tease the event I
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: know you have to go.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: We will all end with the crash out.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Jason and I can go first to show you how
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: it goes. It's just something that you either don't like
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: right now or that gave you like a fun little
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: like I don't know, crash out, mental breakdown. So for
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: mine right now, it's people on the internet, like seeing
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: a small snippet of a situation and then just deciding
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: definitively like that person's the problem or this person's the problem,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: especially as it relates to like nuanced situations. And I'm
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: just getting really tired of all the judgment online. I'm
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: exhaust did I'm a summerhouse fan and there's a lot
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: going on there. I was Real Housewive or Secret Lives
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: of Mormon why, Like, I'm just like I see situations
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: from more of a bigger picture, and I kind of
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: wish people would do that as well.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: Jason, what is your crash out?
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: So mine has to be really bad weather. So it's
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: just been like raining all the time here, And like
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: I have old dogs and so they're like freaking out
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: when it's raining, and it.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Just makes me depressed.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: And I used to be the type of person that's
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: like I don't care, I'm gonna go out if it's raining,
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: But now I'm like old and I'm like, I can't
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: go out it's raining, right, Like, so I don't know,
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: it just like affects my whole life.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: And I'm sorry that has some like.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Deeper meaning in the afterlife of like rain and cleansing
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: or whatever, but I don't like it.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: Right, I gotta crash out for you, because it's gonna
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you every's gonna agree with this one. I
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: was just renting and raving about this streaming services. There's
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: too many streaming services, too many subscriptions. So you talk
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: to somebody and they say, oh, I'm watching this really
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: great show, and then they're like, oh, where is it? Oh,
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Paramount Plus, Oh I don't have powermoult Plus, I got YouTube,
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: I got YouTube TV or plus or I got this,
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: I have this stuff. I don't even know fool boo.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what the hell to be f boo,
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: whatever the hell the TV thing is. So the problem
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: becomes is that now you're gonna go and you're gonna
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: have either you This is what's been happening right. Everyone's
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: on one subscription. Either you're a Netflix person, a Paramount person,
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: or whatever. I don't even know the subscriptions that are
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: out there anymore, Discovery Plus. So then if you have
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: a show that you like or that you want to watch,
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: you can't watch it. It's not like just going on cable.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: It's like, oh, okay, so you're committed to either Netflix,
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: Kulu or buying thirty seven different subscriptions to watch one show.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: One show you.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: Retweet everyone's gonna agree.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: And also it's like now we can't even share with
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: our friends because they're onto us.
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: It's exhausting.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: And essentially now they're dropping shows week by week. We're
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: just going back to cable. Like we're literally reverting back
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: to cable. It's like, I know one place where we
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: could have had all the channels and played paid one
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: big package, but I don't.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Oh it's bad. It's even with my show. What the
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: thing is that when we were doing the show, we're like, oh,
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: I don't have Cable, all only have Paramount Plus all
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: I have Discovery, all only have this? Is it available
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: on Amazon? It's like, oh my god. It's like, oh,
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: it is absolutely insane. This is the stupidest thing I've
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: ever seen in my entire life because you can never
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: find it. And then it's like I know people who
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: go back and forth, like they cancel it in Netflix
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: and then they go to Hulu and then they go
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: to Hulu from back to Netflix to it's crazy. It's crazy.
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: I we all feel you. We talk about this a lot.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: We're always comparing shows, and so I feel you, my
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: Italian brother. I hope it takes shorter than six years.
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: To see you again.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to make it to your show in
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: New Buffalo, Jay, It's April se.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: April twenty fifth, four Winds Casino, New Buffalo, which is
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: a beautiful venue.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: Perfect And where else can they find you? You have
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: a podcast, you have an Instagram which I love following.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: Yes, if the dead can find me, so can you.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Right on my website Meetmatt Fraser dot com, Meematt Fraser
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: dot com. This everything on there, my Instagram, Facebook. That's
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: another thing. We have too many social media now, too
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: many social media accounts. It's like, yes, and you gonna
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: post it everywhere and the people still can't find you
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: in the you know what, another crashoulder, here's the bonus crash,
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: the FN algorithms. The algorithms like, okay, to everyone on here,
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: please do a solo favor. Don't send me any more videos.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell my wife because if I if my
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: wife sends me one video with girl content right, whatever
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: the hell it is her sense of humor, my whole
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: feed becomes her content for the next day and a half. Like,
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: let me have my own algorithm. I don't understand. I
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: don't understand.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: I agree and I'm always sent like Jason and I.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I'll look and like we're sending each other thirty things.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: And now you know, my TikTok thinks I'm a gay man,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, you know what.
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: Whatever, Here we go Meetmat Fraser dot com. The dad
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: can find him. So can you go to his show?
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: Go to his tour. He's amazing.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: You're so fun, obviously full of life, and so I
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: can only expect the shows are amazing as well.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: Thank you, guys, Thank you so much. It was great
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: being here with you.
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: Thank you so fun.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Have a good day, all right you two.
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: Bye.