Men Who Fear Toys Have It Backwards PhD Sexologist Explains

What I Discussed With Dr Jess O’Reilly

- Why sex toys can help couples adapt to changing bodies, arousal, and sexual needs as they get older.

- How introducing a toy can create novelty and playfulness in a long-term relationship.

- Why a sex toy is a tool for pleasure — not a replacement for intimacy or a partner.

- How smaller, simpler toys can make introducing them into a relationship feel less intimidating.

- Why toys can reduce performance pressure when erections, libido, or orgasm become less predictable.

- How self-pleasure can help women understand what they like and communicate it…

The skinny

The skinny isn't ready yet — notes appear once the transcript is processed.