1829 || avoiding disappointment in relationships

Make Your Damn Bed · Aug 19, 2026 · 10m

The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/202608/why-people-disappoint-us-in-relationships

https://psychology-spot.com/cognitive-miser-definition

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_mise

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streetlight_effect

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