Latest / Tom's Hirschsprung's Podcast / Episode 29 - With Stefania Little
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- 0:05You are listening to Tom's Hirshprun's Podcast, where I provide a look into the
- 0:09remarkable experiences of the most inspiring people around Hirshprung's disease and sports. Hello and
- 0:38welcome to episode twenty nine of Tom's Hirshprung's Podcast. Now today I am joined
- 0:45by somebody very special, somebody who I think I've been after for about four
- 0:50months, five months or so. We've been chatting quite a lot sort of
- 0:54back and forth over those months and managed to've been very gracious with her time.
- 1:00I've managed to get somebody on who is incredibly special, incredibly important to
- 1:04the hirshprongs community. So huge, Welcome to Steph Little Welcome, Steph Hi.
- 1:11How are you love? Fantastic, fantastic, all the better for having
- 1:15you on. It's so kind. There's eventually at the start with somebody who
- 1:23very very important in the Hirshbrons community, and we'll talk all about your extraordinary
- 1:30story through Hirshbrungs, through your incredible sporting career as well, is something that
- 1:38also also struck a chord with me. But I'd like to start, if
- 1:44I may just really from the very beginning with you and obviously you were born
- 1:49a little bit premature and you would diagnosed straight away, which wasn't something I
- 1:59had sort of about two or three weeks or when I was diagnosed. But
- 2:04you were diagnosed pretty much. Were I right in saying about there was a
- 2:08couple of days give or take or was it on the day? Yeah,
- 2:13a couple of dates, Yeah, a couple of days. So diagnosed with
- 2:16a couple days was yeah, really really quick. So they sort of found
- 2:20it really really early and then had I lost to be fitted about a week
- 2:24old? Is that right? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? So how did
- 2:31your your mum find that? Did you display sort of all the classic symptoms
- 2:38of having hirshprungs and it was just diagnosed or how a dico? So mom
- 2:46fed me within hours of giving birth to me, and I vomited up grain
- 2:52bio straightaway, and the nurse that was in the room supporting my mom through
- 2:58the breastfeeding was called out and was like, something's wrong, we need help,
- 3:05blah blah blah. And then this nurse that was actually supposed to be
- 3:08in on a holiday in Africa somewhere came in and she's like, I know
- 3:15what's going on. I'm going to call a doctor a Princess Margaret Hospital in
- 3:21that was down the road from where I was at the time, and she
- 3:28said it was Hershbrung's disease and she had seen it only in boys at the
- 3:31time. The doctor rushed over and he was tapping his feet and he goes,
- 3:38yep, get her over to Princess Margaret Hospital. We need to do
- 3:39surgery straightaway. And that's when they found it. And I was my doctor's
- 3:46first female to be diagnosed with it. That's always interesting because doing the research
- 3:52and speaking to a lot of people, I haven't calculated exactly, but I
- 3:57think I have probably a about fifty to fifty men and women split from people
- 4:02who have hirshprungs. But Hirshprungs is three three quarters more likely to appear in
- 4:11boys than it is in girls, which isn't so it isn't so much of
- 4:16a shot that they hadn't seen a girl with hirshprungs before. So then from
- 4:25that part, so you had the colostomy about a week old, did you
- 4:29have the pull through at that point as well? Around six months later,
- 4:35and that was when you add the coostomy reversal as well. Yes, yep.
- 4:42One thing I do want to pick off on because your story I've read
- 4:46it from your Facebook page, kicking Hirshprung's disease in the arse. That's something
- 4:51I love that. I absolutely love it and if anybody obviously please please follow
- 5:00because it's fantastic your story is on there. There's some great positive, positive
- 5:05posts on there that we'll get on to later. And the one thing that
- 5:10really struck me from the early part of your story was when you were named
- 5:14the million dollar Baby. How did you get that name? Because the medical
- 5:21stuff all knew me at the time because I didn't really leave the hospital.
- 5:27They one nurse was born at one stage, I think, and she started
- 5:31calculating how many surgeries I've had and how many procedures and all that, and
- 5:35she reckoned it was hitting around the million dollar mark of how many procedures and
- 5:42stuff I've had. It was I think all the procedures and all that came
- 5:46to like ten in the first year. So yeah, million dollar baby.
- 5:55I think there's even an article somewhere in the local hospital newspaper. They even
- 6:00put that like afraid of me and that in there, So yeah, million
- 6:05dollar baby. Pretty cool. I wish it was in like actual cash though.
- 6:10Oh yeah, they just gave me the yeah, yeah, just stuff
- 6:13the surgeries. Just maybe I'll take that. Absolutely fantastic. So it obviously
- 6:25had many many surgeries sort of so this is all kind of going on before
- 6:30a year old. This is within the sort of first six months those ten
- 6:33surgeries or so. No, the first first year was the ten Penish surgeries.
- 6:42Yeah, first year. I know we were talking about and what we'll
- 6:45obviously get onto this later on that we were talking just just off air that
- 6:49currently you stand on one hundred and forty six, and we were checking to
- 6:53see if that was a world record, which unfortunately it isn't. Yeah unfortunately
- 7:00and still a way to go to nine hundred and something, but yes,
- 7:02one hundred and forty six is. It's quite staggering. Do you ever sort
- 7:08of look both and think, Wow, that's a lot, or is it
- 7:11just take it an your stride and go. As I was younger, I
- 7:16used to just be like why me, like typical teenage kind of attitude,
- 7:24Why me? Why can't I just be like everyone else? That sort of
- 7:27thing, because there was skirls around me, even though I had a very
- 7:30fit body as a teenager, but I had scars alone my stomach and no
- 7:35one else did, or they could wear her heels and I can't. And
- 7:39that's something we can talk about a bit later about my feet because of the
- 7:42surgeries. But that was the attitude I have. But now I'm like,
- 7:47well, it's never going to really stop, so let's just try and make
- 7:54a goal. And it's just silly. And my goal is three hundred,
- 7:59not that I want to have another one hundred and fifty odd surgeries to go,
- 8:03but why not just make fun of it. It's typical Australian thing to
- 8:07do anyway. It's just a lot of how to joke that I'm having with
- 8:13myself phone with my family, just see how many I can get to.
- 8:18But yeah, some people might not like that joke, but oh, I
- 8:22think it's great. Why not have a goal. You can't stop having surgeries,
- 8:24is why not have a goal? I think it's great. And this
- 8:28is one of the reasons, one of the many reasons why I wanted to
- 8:31interview, because you're so positive about about Tecks and this podcast is all about
- 8:37positivity and not glossing over the hard times because as we all know, with
- 8:41Hirshbrungs. It's it's not nice, and there's lots of things that go along
- 8:46with Hirshbrungs that are I'm not very very easy to deal with at all.
- 8:52But I love your positivity and I love I love the thing that you know,
- 8:58you've made the Facebook page and you know obviously the great sporting career and
- 9:01and everything in between. So that we will we will get onto a little
- 9:05bit later on, but that that's some That's why I know we talked about
- 9:11off air that your somebody is really really important to interview for the podcast.
- 9:16And i'd like to because you mentioned just just briefly back then about the high
- 9:24heels, because you also diagnose with bilateral drop foot. Is that was that
- 9:30in both feet or is that because I think he said it was more severe
- 9:33in the right than the left. Is that right? Yep? Yep,
- 9:39so did in both feet left? You can't really tell any like professionals kind
- 9:46of tell. It's more like a delayed in my left. But my foot,
- 9:50my right one is completely deformed. It's around three and a half centimeters
- 9:54so about each and a bit shorter than my left foot, and it just
- 10:03it. Yeah, I can't walk so it doesn't go like hell, when
- 10:07I walk, my left foot goes hill toe and my other my right foot
- 10:11goes toe hill. I don't know how it does it, but it does.
- 10:20Okay, that's sins I'd never. I'd never. Is that is that
- 10:24common with somebody with drop foot or is that another sort of no idea?
- 10:31I don't really look into it. So another word for it is called club
- 10:35foot. So there there are baby born with club foot and stuff that can
- 10:41be fixed, but mine's medically induced, so it was a little bit harder.
- 10:48And there's like a tendon in my big toe that's shrunk so and were
- 10:52tended and you can't really mess around with them too much so because of the
- 10:58shrunk and it makes my foot on a wind angle and all that sort of
- 11:03thing. So it's not something that can never be fixed, but it's just
- 11:07using like personal training to strengthen the ankle around it, so then I don't
- 11:16injure myself as much. And yeah, last tic, but I want to
- 11:22talk about as well, when you would sort of diagnosed with bilateral drop foot
- 11:28and many other things that happened in and around the age of five, so
- 11:35you went into a what was supposed to be a twelve hour surgery. It
- 11:39turned into seventy two and then woke up with all manner of things. So
- 11:48nerve damage, I'm not just reading off my list here, nerve damage,
- 11:52paralysis, hypersensitivity, bilateral drop foot, and sciatic nerve damage. Is that
- 12:00all just from one surgery? Yep I was septic at the time, so
- 12:11I had uh perianal fish perianal abscesses that were affected and fish sulars. They
- 12:20were also very infected, so they became septic because the fish ullars were causing
- 12:26the holes in my bow and my blood are and all the blood and everything
- 12:31was just like mixing. And then when they did the surgery, they put
- 12:35a canula, sorry, a epidural canula in my spine, and the sepsis
- 12:43went down into the canular site and into my spine and that's how I woke
- 12:48up with it. Well that's what they think. Another thing that they think
- 12:52is that I'm allergic to whatever medication that they put in the epidura at the
- 12:56time. So there's a whole bunch of things out they're been trying to investigate
- 13:05ever since. But yeah, when I wake up, you can touch me.
- 13:11You had to lay on pig fat and had to do hyper like physio
- 13:16and hydrotherapy and all that to learn how to walk again because I became paralyzed
- 13:22head down and I had to do like so much. It was no,
- 13:28I don't know how my mum did it, to be honest, So did
- 13:33that did that make you? I know, we'll talk about your sort of
- 13:37high level sporting career and see your daughter's high level sporting career as well.
- 13:41Yeah, did that make you more determined to go? Right? I'm I've
- 13:46got all these physical issues and whatnot, but I'm I'm going to I'm going
- 13:52to become more determined. I'm going to achieve what I want to achieve sporting
- 13:56wise. No, no, no, um, my personal trainer changed my
- 14:09train of thought with that. I settled personal training with her and I was
- 14:13like, I can't do this, I can't do that, and she was
- 14:15like, no, yeah we can. But yet she's pretty incredible. She
- 14:22became. She was my client first because I did dog walking as a job
- 14:28and she was my client. I walked her dog. Then I reached I
- 14:31was like, hey, lish, I need personal training. Let's do a
- 14:35swamp and then I told her. I was like I can't lift over sixteen
- 14:41kilos, I can't do lunges, I can't do squats, I can't do
- 14:43this, can't do that. And she's like, let's prove you wrong.
- 14:48Let's do it all. And I was like what And I was like,
- 14:52no, we're never going to do that. She's like, yeah, trust
- 14:54me, we'll get there. And now we're doing it all and more.
- 14:58Jeez. Yeah, she's the one that changed. While I was trying to
- 15:01talk pretty and how long have you been with uh? Four and a half
- 15:07year, isn't wow? Yeah, been training with her for fore and a
- 15:11half years. She's she's just wonder woman. She always said that tells me
- 15:16it's me. I'm like, nah, man, I couldn't have done it
- 15:18without That's brilliant. That's absolutely fantastic. And well, well, Obs,
- 15:28you go with your You've been obviously very very heavy into fitness, fitness and
- 15:33and I know you dropped a little bit. I know shared some videos about
- 15:37lifting and there is exercise you've done which is incredibly impressive. But if we
- 15:43go back a little bit, have you always been interested in sports? Yeah?
- 15:52So my dad is huge into soccer or football as you would call it.
- 16:00We have football in Australia, it's different. We use our hands.
- 16:06Yeah, that one. So my dad Italian, and he aspired my brother
- 16:15into wanting to be, you know, a famous soccer player, and so
- 16:19we played soccer and backyard soccer and all that. Very competitive family like,
- 16:26even fishing was a competitive sport for us. And then I got into netble.
- 16:36I actually got picked to play for Western Australia, but I had to
- 16:42turn it down because I was having surgery and because of how long I had
- 16:45to be out of surgery and stuff. Oh sorry not playing netball. Because
- 16:52of surgery. It was like six seven months not being able to play netball.
- 16:56It took a long time to get back. And because they reconstructed my
- 17:00ankle, I had to be really careful on how I played and I never
- 17:07had sensation in my foot before I played that ball, so I was just
- 17:14really rough and just didn't really care because I didn't get her basically. Then
- 17:18after the surgery, I just kept hurting my ankle, my ankle roll and
- 17:22just being so much pain and I had to give up the sport. So
- 17:27that dream went down the drain pretty quickly. I begged my mom because I
- 17:33was twelve at the time, I begged my mom, let's put it off.
- 17:37Let's put it off. But she fought so hard. I think she
- 17:41fought like five six years or something for me to have this surgery. But
- 17:48I had to stop growing before they could do the surgery. And because she
- 17:52fought so hard for it, she wanted me to have it, and I
- 17:56wanted it. I did want it. But when this opportunity, like I
- 18:00got pulled aside. I was just umpiring netball and I got pulled aside with
- 18:07the manager of the club and some scouts, and I was like, oh
- 18:10my gosh, I'm gonna be in trouble. Like all these people were just
- 18:12standing around in suits and just want to talk to me. And then yeah,
- 18:18they're like we want you on the Western Australian team for under thirteenes or
- 18:22whatever it was. And I was just like yes, and they're like yeah,
- 18:26we need you to play and we can fly around wa and like Australia
- 18:32and all this sort of stuff. And I went home, like my mom
- 18:36my dad picked me up and I went home and told my mom and I
- 18:38was like, Mom, we need to put the surgery off. And she's
- 18:41like, no, we can't, we can't. But yeah, never mind.
- 18:45Networks pretty pull on the body anyway, So I couldn't imagine keep like
- 18:52these people that play still in their twenties and thirties. I look at him
- 18:56like, I can't be doing that to your knees, man, he needs
- 19:00any joints. But he did go back all around sort of twenty eighteen,
- 19:06though I didn't. You went back to playing it. I did. I
- 19:10did. That's when I learned netball's very you know, it might not be
- 19:18a contact sport, but it is on your body. Yeah, yeah,
- 19:22I had. There's a lot of twisting, there's a lot of turning.
- 19:23The's a lot of a lot of a lot of impact on joints. Yeah,
- 19:30because you just got to like run and jump and just not move and
- 19:33the jumping and just this like the instant stopping and making sure you're not moving
- 19:38with the ball in your hand and stuff. I don't know how people do
- 19:42it. I miss playing Nebel, Don't get me wrong, It's so so
- 19:45fun. But yeah, I just couldn't do it for long because it was
- 19:49it was too much. No, but but fantastic to achieve you know so
- 19:57much at a short space time. Fantastic to know that you know you were
- 20:03very, very talented with with netball. It must take sort of quite a
- 20:07bit of comfort from that. I would imagine to get a get where where
- 20:11you know a very small amount of percentage of people will will ever have you
- 20:18know scouts come up to them in What did you think was was the issue?
- 20:22What did you think you were in trouble for? By the way,
- 20:25I don't wr but you don't. At school, wasn't a very nice person.
- 20:30So whenever AGU had like a group of people come up to me,
- 20:33I was like, I only trouble. I don't worry, and maybe I
- 20:37was umpiring wrong with I have no idea how people come and tell you of
- 20:45I don't know that. I just love the way you automatically thought I'm in
- 20:52trouble rather than actually, oh something's something good might happen from this. I
- 20:57do you know, like scouting was a thing. I just played netball.
- 21:02I didn't like think of playing for Western Australia and you know, possibly playing
- 21:07for Australia one day. I was just playing and I would play for all
- 21:12age groups because they're like, oh we need you, we need a player,
- 21:17we need a player. And they used to bend the rules because when
- 21:18you're when you're a feeling for a team, you can only play wings.
- 21:23And I hated wings. I hated wings. I hated center. And they're
- 21:29like, all right, for this one, you can play in the goals.
- 21:33So I used to just yeah, they used to bend the rules just
- 21:34so I could play ways of the best. Who's going to know, No,
- 21:40nobody, nobody's going to ask try a team. You would get upset
- 21:45because you know, I wasn't in their wings. I was in goals instead.
- 21:51So that goal shooter and I'm going off my very limited netball knowledge.
- 21:55Okay, I played both, So I played shooter, back and defense.
- 22:02Because there's only certain people who can score. Is that right? Yeah,
- 22:06you're getting pretty challenging. But so, but only the positions of goal shooter
- 22:11can score. Go shooter and go attack. It's not not like basketball where
- 22:18any edinbard can score. Not only two people can shoot. Yeah, got
- 22:23it, got it. I'm going off my life as a pe teacher sort
- 22:30of way. We did netball for like six weeks, and I had to
- 22:32learn the rules for six weeks and then teach it. And yeah, so
- 22:36I knowledge is very limited, but good enough to teach at primary school level.
- 22:40You can kind of get away with it. Yeah you couldn't. Yeah,
- 22:45make it up as you go along. So yeah, primary school,
- 22:49you definitely can to a certain degree. And as long as you're world like,
- 22:55as long as I didn't have somebody, you know, I was teaching
- 22:57like you who knew the rules, that was all right. Yeah, we
- 23:03get very passionate about the rules. That version. It can cause a lot
- 23:08of arguments a little bit, A little bit it so if we again I
- 23:17was sort of bouncing around all over the place here, but if we sort
- 23:21of take it back maybe two or three years, and I just wanted to
- 23:26read out the list by age ten. I know this is up on your
- 23:30your Facebook page, but by age ten seven coloss three bags, nine pull
- 23:37throughs sixty eight what you call major surgeries, which I thought was like sixty
- 23:41eight surgeries in total, but sixty eight just major. I think, to
- 23:48be honest, i'd call all surgery. They just surgery, but one hundred
- 23:52and thirty in total, and then bilateral drop foot in both feet due to
- 23:59psciatic nerve damage all by age ten? Was that again? Was that sort
- 24:06of did you sort of realize what was happening? What was going on?
- 24:11At that young age, or was it like, right, I'll just go
- 24:15in surgery because one hundred and thirty's that's thirteen a year, isn't it.
- 24:19So that moment must have been well, one a month give or ta.
- 24:23So was it just simply right, next one, next one, next one,
- 24:29or did you sort of think about it a bit more at that age.
- 24:33I don't think I did. Mum might have something, but from my
- 24:38memory, I think I was just always in hospital. That's went from the
- 24:45age of birth to ten, I spent so much time in hospital. I
- 24:48didn't know anything else. I really struggled with school. So they discharged me
- 24:56within a week and be back into hospital. Doctors were starting to think that
- 25:03I was institutionalized because I recovered better in hospital than at home as well.
- 25:11And just like the with girls, you grow so much from birth to ten,
- 25:17then after that it kind of slows down because of all that. My
- 25:21body just wasn't coping. And I was born with segmental her shrunks disease,
- 25:29So there's short, short, long, total, and then there's segmental.
- 25:40Segmental is kind of a bit more rare than the rest of them, and
- 25:47having it in a girl's even more rare back then, so they didn't know
- 25:51what to expect, and my body just didn't know how to fight off infections
- 25:57either, so they didn't know how to to heap infections away. So I
- 26:07spent a lot of times, a lot of time on antibiotics, which caused
- 26:11all issues. So yeah, I just major, I think was the ones
- 26:18that it was Mum that mainly mentioned the major to the minor. I think
- 26:25from her point of view, it was the ones that were they're not so
- 26:30severe. Severe ones were probably like a couple of hour surgeries in and out
- 26:36and recovered, Okay. The major ones were the ones that I was in
- 26:40for like hours. It was supposed to be in for like a couple of
- 26:42hours and they turned into hours and or a lot of the time in those
- 26:48surgeries there I would what's called crash on the table so flat lined basically that
- 26:56have to bring me back, and then a lot of time in ICU and
- 27:00all that sort of stuff. So I think that's what Mum's classifying as the
- 27:03major ones where there was complications and they're not so severe ones where there wasn't
- 27:07any complications where I was this in and out. Wow. I mean,
- 27:11I think I call all surgery, major surgery. But it's funny. It's
- 27:17funny that you you sort of classify them as such, or your mum classifies
- 27:22them as ones that you know, if you flat light, it's major,
- 27:26if you don't, it's fine, or it's minor. Yeah, yeah,
- 27:33I think that's just what mum kind of saw, because she saw everything that
- 27:41my daughter goes to like something small and I'll call her an hystericism. How
- 27:45did you do this? I'm not even going through as bad as you did,
- 27:48and I don't know how strong you were, blah blah blah. She's
- 27:51like, well, you got to do what you've got to do for your
- 27:52children. You're gotta be strong and you're just gotta make sure that they're going
- 27:56to get out okay. And I'm like okay, and she's like, pull
- 27:59yourself together, meant needsy. I'm like okay, and she kind of like
- 28:02gives me a reality check and I just, you know, got to get
- 28:04on with it because that's what mothers do. You know. Mothers have to
- 28:10be there for their child, like and father's obviously, but my mom was
- 28:17the one that she fought for my life. She was pretty awesome. I've
- 28:22got no idea how she did it begins. Yeah, that would have been
- 28:26hard. And I definitely know where you're coming from with that because my mom
- 28:32was the same she you know, she was there throughout the whole surgeries.
- 28:36My dad's been great obviously as well. Yeah, whilst whilst he was at
- 28:41work, you know, mum's in hospital with me with my ten surgeries or
- 28:45so. I know it's not one hundred and forty six, but it's it's
- 28:48ten. But yeah, it's still ten surgeries that your body had said to
- 28:53endure though. Yeah, but yeah, definitely, on a on a on
- 28:56a serious point, I can't take my mum and us for what she did
- 29:02for me and and how and how she's been there. So yeah, the
- 29:07bottom line with that, mums are mums are incredible superheroes, absolutely absolutely,
- 29:15And to that point, you're obviously a mother yourself to Samantha, Yeah,
- 29:21who was born with hirs Sprungs as well, so becoming becoming second generation Hirshprungs.
- 29:30Would you like to go through through the story of Samantha. Yeah,
- 29:36yeah, I can talk about sam Thankfully, she's not as bad as what
- 29:41I went through. I was seventeen when I had her, so when I
- 29:45found out she also had hirshprungs. I was beating myself about it quite a
- 29:52bit, the blame all that, because no one else in my family has
- 29:57sprungs. I've got her shprungs and now she's got so that blame game starts
- 30:02playing in your head. The mom give all that sort of stuff. But
- 30:06again, I was seventeen, so very hard for a seventeen year old to
- 30:10comprehend one being a mom and two your child's all of a sudden sick.
- 30:17Because she was born and she was fine. She was passing MEX, she
- 30:19was the meculum, she was passing all sorts of things, and she was
- 30:26doing really well. And then come like day or I think she stopped passing
- 30:33anything. And then it was like day six. From memory, I can't
- 30:41really remember. Its nearly fourteen years ago. She mom and I just got
- 30:48up were cleaning the house and we started looking at the time. We're like
- 30:52nearly lunchtime, and Mom's like, have you fared her today? I was
- 30:56like, no, she had spent a sleep all day, and she goes
- 30:59that. But we were so busy in just cleaning, and I was taking
- 31:03advantage of the fact that I could get this house done with mum. And
- 31:07again we did a massive cook up and everything, and we both looked at
- 31:14her and she was so dawned as her stomach was massive, and Mom's like,
- 31:18all right, let's try and give her a bar to try and reduce
- 31:22it. She wouldn't even wake up for a bath. And Mom's like,
- 31:25right, we pack a bag. You're going to be there for a while.
- 31:27We're going to the hospital. And I was like no, She's like
- 31:30no, set Steph. She's got her as frongs and these we gotta go.
- 31:36So she's I'm running around trying to pack bags, me and Samantha,
- 31:40and she's calling my dad and she's in hysterics and I'm in hysterics and I'm
- 31:44just like, no, not again, not again. She can't have her
- 31:47clostery bag. We can talk about that too. But my mental health around
- 31:52the costerm bags isn't great. A lot of people were probably going to take
- 31:56offense to that, because when people hear that, they just do. But
- 32:02we'll get that to that in a second. But yes, we got to
- 32:07her to the hospital. They kind of rushed us into because they just saw
- 32:10her and then just like go straight in doctors came around. The doctor that
- 32:16came around open the curtain. She goes, ah, I know what this
- 32:20baby has. I remember you, and I remember you, mum, And
- 32:24she looks at me. She goes, and my mum and the doctor looked
- 32:28at each other, and she goes. And Mom kind of had a sigh
- 32:30of relief because she knew a doctor that had been dealing with me. And
- 32:36Mom turned around and turns to me. She goes, Doctules one was your
- 32:39doctor. And I just went fix her. Just you know what to do,
- 32:45now, just do it. And I begged her and I was like,
- 32:51do you not do everything? Do everything to not give her a closs
- 32:54with your bag. But I obviously had to sign that paperwork to say she
- 33:00can have a closs new bag if need be. Samantha had was born born
- 33:07with I forgot that. I mentioned that ultra short Hirshbrons disease, but because
- 33:13I was born with segmental they instead of cutting out just ten centimeters, that
- 33:17cut out to thirty wow. Wow yep, just to be absolutely sure that
- 33:24they've got everything. And then they used the whole thirty centimeters to make sure.
- 33:30But yeah, because they cut out quite healthy bow within that thirty centimeters,
- 33:37they were able to just do a straight fall through and it was just
- 33:42dialysis I think for six weeks or six months one of the two. Wow.
- 33:49So if we go back to sort of segmental Hirsh Bronx, what would
- 33:54be the difference between for people who are listening, what's difference between segment men
- 34:00and then sort of short segment short segments like a small section about they from
- 34:08one centimeter to ten segmental is as I explain it as a zebra stripes,
- 34:20so affected, not affected, infected, not affected, thinking the white as
- 34:27not affected, black is affected, tarts. That's the way. That's the
- 34:31best way I can describe it. It's just all threat. So yeah,
- 34:39wow, Yeah, No, I think that's a that's a fantastic explanation.
- 34:44I always I've always struggled, certainly because I'm short segment and whenever anybody asked
- 34:49me to pre podcast about Hirsh Brungs, it would always I'd always try and
- 34:54get it down to like two or three sentences, but it would do quite
- 34:59difficult out sort of going odd at art. Yeah. Yeah, and so
- 35:05did you did you find that as well? Growing up? The kind of
- 35:07thing? Right if anybody said about Hirshprungs or Hirshprungs was ever or if you
- 35:14ever had to explain Hirshprungs, did it take a long time or did you
- 35:17manage to get it down to a couple of sentences. As a kid,
- 35:22I kind of said, I don't know. I just wasn't born with the
- 35:27neves in the bow, kind of like shrumved it off and they're like,
- 35:30what how do you go toilet? I'm like, I don't know. I
- 35:35didn't quite understand it until I actually started the Hirshbrong's page. I was actually
- 35:40going through a really low low time in my life when I started that page.
- 35:46A lot of guidecology issues and that's happening again now, and a lot
- 35:52of the time where they wanted to do a hysterectomy and because it because of
- 35:59all the certain it's too hard to so they're throwing the plus three bag around
- 36:05so that I need that and it'll be permanent and blah blah blah. And
- 36:07I was, yeah, like I mentioned before, my mental health around classy
- 36:12bags isn't great. And I was like, surely I'm not the only person
- 36:20in this world that's got to have gynocology issues that needs a hysterectomy because of
- 36:27endometriosis, and stuff that needs to have a bag. Surely we're in like
- 36:34were at twenty seventeen then, and I was like, you know, things
- 36:37have come so far, why are we still doing these ancient surgeries and stuff.
- 36:46That's the way I had it. So I had to really throw myself
- 36:51into the Hirshmump's page and really share my story and find people and really changed
- 36:58my train of thought with that, And that's how I started to learn more
- 37:01about it. And because more people contact me about it, and I'm learning
- 37:08more about you know, total klonic and long and all that sort of stuff,
- 37:15and I'm just like, whoa, what does all this mean? So
- 37:19I started researching and then and that's when I started to learn more and more
- 37:22and I was like, wow, we really need more awareness about this.
- 37:27Very true, very true. And obviously I've come across your page and know
- 37:31you from from your your Hirshbrun's page, and it's got less part four thousand
- 37:37give or take to three point eight I think give will take followers, which
- 37:43is one of the largest in Yeah, oh yeah, wow, do I
- 37:47know more about I don't really focus on the followers and stuff. I kind
- 37:55of just jump on there and put up whatever's going on in my life the
- 38:00time, and then I usually have like my my regulars or my you know,
- 38:06the ones that have been following me from the very start, or and
- 38:09I kind of have conversations in the comments section treatment with them or they you
- 38:14go, oh, I'm sicking trying to find the notification. They start messaging
- 38:17me and we have a good old conversation through Messenger and I love it.
- 38:22There's a few on there and yeah, it's it's awesome. Found people in
- 38:28Perth. And I got something in in the mix happening at Perth Children's Hospital
- 38:35soon and I've got a meeting with that and hopefully that takes off. And
- 38:40sorry fingers crossed. Yeah, So the per Children's Hospital have a lot of
- 38:49support groups regarding like other conditions, but there's nothing for bou and I really
- 38:57want to organize a support group for about conditions and I can be that point
- 39:00of contact if people want to, you know, talk to me as a
- 39:04mom or as someone that's gone through it and now is a mum. At
- 39:07least they've got that support person regarding that. The hospital are so keen.
- 39:15There's a few, you know, protocols and everything that we're going to sit
- 39:20down and have a discussion about. But it might take a little while,
- 39:22but I think it's gonna I think it's going to take off, and I
- 39:27reckon. There's a lot of people that want to and we also got to
- 39:30think called telephone. Yeah, so it's like institution research and money funding all
- 39:39that sort of stuff, and there's no bower. There's no research center for
- 39:44bows that telephone support. So I don't know how it's going to be done
- 39:51because I don't have a bachelor's degree in science and I've gotten none of that.
- 39:53I'm just a person that with an ambition and I really want tell us
- 40:00to support a business. I can organize a business and organization over here,
- 40:06which we don't have prepares, but we'll find we'll find it. We'll find
- 40:13it one thing at a time. We'll start off with the support group and
- 40:17see where that goes, and maybe that turns into the organization with telethon.
- 40:22Who knows, we'll see no change yours. Yeah, absolutely, And you're
- 40:30right when because I don't have a science degree or anything, So you're absolutely
- 40:36right when you say ambition can take you an awful long way. I just
- 40:40podcast with nearly thirty episodes in. I'm not a doctor or a nurse or
- 40:45anything, so I do sport for a living, so I don't do don't
- 40:52I done to any kind of medicine. I have a sports science degree,
- 40:57but it's not it's not quite the same thing. But ambition can take you
- 41:02an awful away and I do if there's anything see I can do to support
- 41:08that, help that, get the word out, do whatever, I'll absolutely
- 41:15help you with that. So if you ever need me, please please get
- 41:20in contact. And I'd like to talk about I'd like to talk about the
- 41:23page as well. You set it up in twentyeen. What is one of
- 41:30the largest, if not the largest. I've done a little bit of research
- 41:34on it in the world, and I had Melissa on who runs the UK
- 41:39Facebook page. Yeah, fifteen, so it's sort of fifteen weeks ago,
- 41:45give or take. And that's nearly two thousand, so it's sort of double
- 41:50the size of that. And there's there's some really great content on there,
- 41:52some lovely people, and you've very helpfully for my research Britain your story on
- 42:00there, so I'm very grateful for that, because that's saved me an awful
- 42:04lot of time that you've you documented sort of yearly on there and everything you
- 42:15achieved in sort of a year block. So I'd like to if I may
- 42:19just go through, just go through that. So obviously it creates twenty seventeen
- 42:24and in twenty eighteen, I think was something that I didn't know before coming
- 42:31across your page. I just knew Hirshbrung's Awareness month as September, but I
- 42:37didn't realize you're the person behind that. Yeah, it's all told me.
- 42:45Yeah, I didn't realize that. I obviously, you know, people have
- 42:49talked about Hirshbrung's Awareness being in September, but I didn't realize that was you
- 42:54do you want to talk a little bit about how that all came about.
- 43:00Yeah, So when I started the page in twenty seventeen, I had people,
- 43:07and that page grew really quickly. That's when I started looking at followers
- 43:12because that was like super exciting to have like all these notifications of people following
- 43:15me and I was like, oh, my goodness is growing and I was
- 43:17like documenting, Like when I got to five hundred, I was like,
- 43:21whoa, what the the fact that it's a nearly four thousand, that's that's
- 43:25crazy. I had no idea that it goes to show how much I pay
- 43:34attention to that. I'll just literally like to share my stories and have a
- 43:37chat to people. But people started messaging me and going, what's the hirsh
- 43:43wrong's awareness months and or awareness day or whatever? So I started doing research
- 43:46and we didn't have one where I was like hmmm. So I put it
- 43:50up the post on there and I was like, hey, guys, we
- 43:52don't have an awareness month, we don't have an awareness date. Let's do
- 43:57a vote. Should we do a month? Day week? What should it
- 44:00be? And then everyone voted months, and I was like why not,
- 44:02Let's go big. And then I was like, all right, everyone's voted
- 44:07month, what months should it be? And then we did a vote on
- 44:10what month it should be and people voted September. That was the most votes.
- 44:17I don't I can't remember. I think September was like huge, like
- 44:22it just blew it out of the water with all the votes and interesting and
- 44:29yeah, it was very weird how that came about. But in saying that,
- 44:35I think I chose like maybe six and it was like September, October,
- 44:39March August, which is my family's birthdays. And then I think I
- 44:45only chose like six because otherwise we're just it was going to be too much.
- 44:52And then I started from twenty seventeen. I think it was about July
- 45:00August time that I started trying to get the away this month and started doing
- 45:05research and people wanted there's a place in America that wanted five and a half
- 45:09thousand American dollars. In Australia, that's like nearly ten thousand dollars. I
- 45:15wouldn't know what it is in UK money, but it's like I was thinking,
- 45:22ten thousand dollars, where am I going to get that from? And
- 45:25it was yearly. I had to pay that yearly. Yeah, I was
- 45:30like dollars apparently just registered in America. Oh, that that's not what I
- 45:40want. That's all you get for tailor. Yeah, it was like registered
- 45:46in America radio announcements. But I'm like, how do I even monitor that?
- 45:54How do I monitor the fact that it's been you know, announced in
- 45:59all out anyway. I was like, no, that's too much, and
- 46:04just for America. I was like, no, sorry, America, this
- 46:07is about the world not just you. And then I contacted I said to
- 46:15I contacted Reach and I was like, Hey, how do you guys,
- 46:19reckon, we can get this done. And they're like, we've got no
- 46:21idea. Good luck, and I was like, well great. I think
- 46:25they were trying at one point as well to get an awareness month, and
- 46:30I don't know. I think they probably just ran in the same sort of
- 46:37situations I did and was like, we came in a bit too hard.
- 46:42I'm not sure. I don't I'm just speculating nothing against them. I think
- 46:46they just lost faith kind of thing. Then I contacted the Western Australian Government
- 46:55Health Department and I was like, I really want to register this month as
- 47:02Heirsprung's Awareness months and I wanted to be worldwide recognition. And they said to
- 47:14me that they will have a look into it see if it does have the
- 47:20win away this month, and obviously it didn't. And then about a year
- 47:22later I emailed them again because it was about I think six months of no
- 47:29communication and I was like, Hey, what's going on? And then they
- 47:35sent me the screenshot and I was like, Ryan, I screamed. My
- 47:39neighbors came over that I thought something like hysterically was going wrong. I was
- 47:44on my phone and I was like, ef, thing happened, mom,
- 47:47and she's like, what happened? I was like Hirsprung's awareness months freaking happened.
- 47:52I was like beside myself. And then I shared it all over Facebook
- 47:59and yeah, that's how it happened. Wow, you are the person.
- 48:06I am the person by not to have a big head, but yeah that
- 48:08was me. Oh, go for it. Absolutely. I'm all about self
- 48:14promotion. If my greatest well besides my children, but yeah, definitely my
- 48:22one of my greatest achievements was pretty cool. I think that's fantastic, and
- 48:27it just as well to talk about that. It's not just a case of
- 48:32right, you've got the month, you've got the accreditation for it and stopped
- 48:37there. You've done an awful lot in that time and just sort of You've
- 48:42done a couple of walks sort of pre COVID one twenty eighteen, one twenty
- 48:45nineteen. And you've also been very much into public speaking as well. Is
- 48:51that something you've done before? Is this the first time you've gone into public
- 48:54speaking. It was the first time I got approached by the medical staff at
- 49:04Perst Children's hospital because it was my daughter's conscience nurse that approached me. She's
- 49:15like, stuff your stories, and like amazing. She pulled all my documents
- 49:20because she's like, I don't know if this is all true, So she
- 49:23pulled it all and like, I'm still a case study at this hospital and
- 49:28I wasn't even born at the hospital. Like I didn't even go to this
- 49:31children's hospital. I went to Princess Margat Hospital. Anyway, she pulled my
- 49:37case study out and she just couldn't believe what she was reading and the fact
- 49:44that I became an ambassador. She had me looking after my daughter for two
- 49:46years and then I was like, hey, look, look this is what
- 49:50I'm doing now. Was that if there's anything you eat, want to you
- 49:57know, have it in or anything I can do, just let me know.
- 50:02And she's like, hey, we have a Continence Foundation conference thing happening.
- 50:07Would you be willing to talk about your story? And I was like
- 50:10sure. She goes you gotta be talking in front of medical stuff, and
- 50:15I was like, are okay? And I kind of like freaked out,
- 50:20but I was like super excited and you know, felt, oh, what's
- 50:24the word like privileged to do that. I was like, this is cool.
- 50:30So I did that. And then because so many so many medical stuff,
- 50:37had so many questions for me. They're like, how did you do
- 50:39this? And I didn't know that they did that, and oh my goodness,
- 50:43that happened. And the doctor spoke before me and he said, in
- 50:52ninety seven, nineteen ninety seven, they brought out a sphincter ectomy surgery that
- 51:00wasn't even FDA approved at the time, and they had never had done the
- 51:08surgery wrong. And I put my hand up and I was like, actually,
- 51:15I'm leaving proof in this room right now that you have in ninety seven.
- 51:22And that's where it all started with the because that that surgery there was
- 51:29only supposed to be very small. And then I got in section from that
- 51:36and that's where the pre anal piri anal absence that it to form. And
- 51:42after that that was it because instead of cutting a little bit, they overcut
- 51:49it. YEP. So he was like saying, oh, we've never overcut
- 51:57it and it's a very safe surgery and blah blah blah, like you're wrong,
- 52:01and he pulled me aside and he's like, I don't appreciate you doing
- 52:05that. I'm like well have the correct things. He goes, I'm going
- 52:07to have to pull your case study again, and he actually called me.
- 52:10He goes, I'm so sorry, but I said that because you are living
- 52:15proof. I was like, I'm sorry to you know, make you look
- 52:17like an idiot in front of everyone. But you can't be saying something that's
- 52:21so false. Yeah may be true, because otherwise, you know, if
- 52:24you said, oh, everything's perfect, everything's fine, you know, and
- 52:30and it isn't. Yeah, you've got to you've got to speak up.
- 52:31And kudos for you for speaking up. And yeah, because it might have
- 52:36been easy to just go yeah, yeah, yeah, fine, you know,
- 52:38but but it isn't. And no, it is a very simple surgery.
- 52:43They just overcut it. I think because it was so new. I
- 52:46was the first person in PERF to ever have that surgery. Because you know,
- 52:52why not use me In the guinea pigs, I think we used to
- 53:00be used as guinea pigs in one form or another, absolutely, especially nineties
- 53:06babies and earlier. I think we were pretty much like, let's just see
- 53:14how we go and look if that's the case, where if we were all
- 53:20guinea pigs and stuff back then, just to make things better, now than
- 53:24I reckon, so be it because the kids nowadays do not have to go
- 53:29through as much. I know a little boy that's got long segment and he
- 53:31only had to have one surgery sorry one lost to me bag and now he's
- 53:37living an awesome life and he's a little golfer now too. So you know,
- 53:45there's those stories, and I'm like, that's how far Heirsprung's surgeries have
- 53:52really come. Then I'm glad I was a guinea pig for that, if
- 53:57that makes sense. True. No, I feel exactly the same way,
- 54:00and I've talked a little bit about it before. But there were some pioneering
- 54:05surgeries or procedures. I had that nine at the time, like because I
- 54:12had at taco cardia where the heart's just beating and beating over and over again,
- 54:15so one hundred times a minute. And there was a pioneering surgery actually
- 54:20by a junior doctor at the time that said, if you give a shot
- 54:23of magnesium to a patient, it slows the heart rate down. And this
- 54:28wasn't known. I mean it's just nineteen ninety two, so this wasn't known,
- 54:32and thanks to him, I was saved, you know, and I'm
- 54:37still here today. So I totally agree that if we could go through things,
- 54:42or if we did go through things so it makes other people's lives easier,
- 54:46then I'm all for that, absolutely all for And if we circle back
- 54:53to your page, obviously you've done quite a bit on there. So your
- 55:00your story was recognized in twenty nineteen on radio and magazines, newspapers and how
- 55:08how was that? Wow, you really did your research. I do nothing
- 55:19else. You are thorough. That's awesome. I kind of wanted the hirschbrungs
- 55:25Awenness months out there. I wanted to make sure because it was new,
- 55:30I wanted to get it out there. I was like, this is done,
- 55:31this is official. Let's just make it happen that it's official. So
- 55:36I was messaging and emailing. I spent hours, hours upon hours emailing radio
- 55:42stations, newspapers, you name it, I name I emailed them all the
- 55:50bigger ones, the bigger hey, radio stations and newspapers around Australia, and
- 55:54pers didn't really want to burow it because I wanted money, that's but the
- 56:02local pages, the local papers and radio stations where they were kind of like
- 56:06smaller, they were like, yeah, let's get you in let's do it
- 56:09couch. He's on Boxtel. He was like, yeah, come in,
- 56:17I would love to hear about you. I think from memory he's got rowan,
- 56:22so he's like, yeah, let's talk about it. I've got a
- 56:28bow disease. We need more people like you get onto it. Let's do
- 56:31it. You come in, let's talk about it. It was pretty awesome
- 56:35because he promoted the walk. We had a couple of people from just randomly
- 56:40coming up not knowing what Ho Sprungs is and came and did the walk with
- 56:45us. And I was like, whoa, this is incredible. People coming
- 56:49up like congratulating me, and I had no idea who they were. They
- 56:52just told me that they see me on the couch and I was like,
- 56:54whoa. That made a big difference. And Fred is awesome. He's so
- 57:04cool, he's so easy to talk to. His team's awesome. I think
- 57:08a couple of years later he messaged me and he's like, hey, I
- 57:13want to come on the show again. I was like, sure, let's
- 57:15go on, let's do it. And I invited a friend because I already
- 57:19spoke about my story. I was like, what would you like me to
- 57:22talk about it? He goes, oh, do you know anyone that's got
- 57:23her shprungs and want to come on? And I was like sure, So
- 57:25I messaged my friend and I was like, hey, you want to talk
- 57:28about them your boy's story, and she's like yeah, because it took her
- 57:35ages and lots of fighting to get her son diagnosed, because they just kept
- 57:40brushing her off. She's another young mom and because she has got no no
- 57:47history of her shrugs is in her family that she knows of, or her
- 57:53son's father's side as well, So she was just kind of brushed off as
- 58:00just a paranoid young mum that was just being too paranoid about her son.
- 58:07And you know, told her that she's not feeding her son right and it's
- 58:10all diet related and blah blah blah. So you know, he is.
- 58:16Stuff like that really irritates me when I hear stuff like that. So I
- 58:22was a massive advocate for her family at one point as well, because her
- 58:27daughter has a bad disease. She has been ruled out for her sprunks,
- 58:31but she still has a bad disease, and she she was in ed at
- 58:38one point and was almost about to be sent home, but luckily she called
- 58:42me, she's a hay steph. I'm going to ED Can you meet me
- 58:45either? And I was like yeah, sure. So I dropped everything and
- 58:46I went there and they were actually going to send her home and I was
- 58:52like, no, we're not going home. I was like, it's not
- 58:54happening. We are staying until you can diagnosed her properly. And luckily enough,
- 59:04I fought for that because she was passing massive, massive stores and they
- 59:08were rock hard and this poor little kid was like two, just screaming every
- 59:15time she passed, and I was like, no, this isn't happening.
- 59:19No, And from there they actually started to get answers because I put my
- 59:23foot down. I was like, no, you're doing the tests on her.
- 59:27We don't want the test done, but we need the test done because
- 59:30she needs she needs help. She can't be living like this. Yeah.
- 59:36Definitely investment. Yeah, so I yeah, that's really really important to advocate
- 59:45because if you you know, see you're having experience with hershprungs, you know
- 59:49quite a lot about it. So if you feel something, I think a
- 59:57lot is no pun intended on this, but a lot about gut feels I
- 1:00:01think is really really important. Ye, and I know, I sort of
- 1:00:07personally as well. My mum had to fight for my diagnosis and because she
- 1:00:14knew thing was wrong, she absolutely knew something was wrong, and the doctor
- 1:00:16didn't want to come out because it was a bank holiday Monday, and in
- 1:00:21the end he did and then apologized to her and said I'm really really sorry,
- 1:00:24and you know, because of your gut feel you Yeah, it was
- 1:00:29really really important. So definitely i'd advocate. I'd advocate for that. And
- 1:00:35as we sort of circle towards the end of our interview, I'd love to
- 1:00:39get your thoughts on now, So for you, for your daughter, for
- 1:00:46Sam, obviously you're doing more public speaking now. You've just reached in years
- 1:00:53on the Facebook page as we're talking now, June my right, Junish times
- 1:01:00about a month ago from when we talked, just reached seven years. So
- 1:01:04congratulations, congratulations, And see Sam is taking up competitive swimming and doing very
- 1:01:13very well from from world documented whatever you've documented on Instagram at Facebook. So
- 1:01:22how how is her national swimming going? She hasn't done nationals yet? Sorry,
- 1:01:30yes, state, she was trying to get to nationals this year but
- 1:01:35unfortunately she ended up with best artists in her shoulder so we're kind of going
- 1:01:40through diagnosis with that, not like treatment for that. This has been diagnosed,
- 1:01:47but she hasn't really been swimming this year because she's in a lot of
- 1:01:51pain. But she's still somehow managed to do the swimming carnival through school and
- 1:01:58then do Interstate into School swim Carnival and hook out Champion Girl for that.
- 1:02:02She still made state championships this year for butterfly. Her favorite stroke is bud.
- 1:02:12Yeah, her favorite stroke is butterfly. I'm like, wow, you
- 1:02:15really like to take the difficult road in life. She loves it. Yeah.
- 1:02:23Self taught at the beginning too. Wow. She was like taught like
- 1:02:28how to kind of do it. And then she was only taught for like
- 1:02:31maybe two three weeks, and then my parents took her up north that's where
- 1:02:36they were living at the time, and I was like, mom, she
- 1:02:38really needs to get her butterfly downpacked. So she spent I think an hour
- 1:02:44every day because it was up north of Western Australia there's always summer, an
- 1:02:50hour every day for like three four weeks in the pool, just training herself
- 1:02:55how to do butterfly. She came back, she did the assessment and passed
- 1:03:00and I was like, whoa. And then she's just loved Butterfly of vers
- 1:03:04In and she's incredible at it. So I don't know how she flings herself
- 1:03:08out of the water, honestly, no idea. And you all think that
- 1:03:15she got by first artists with Butterfly. It wasn't even Butterfly as beast stroke,
- 1:03:21oh price, Yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. The easier one that
- 1:03:25gives you that there's always the way is that the difficult thing is fine,
- 1:03:28then the easier one you end up hurting yourself on it, yeah, exactly.
- 1:03:32And she wasn't doing it it through like race, and it's she was
- 1:03:36just training. And in training you don't really push speed or anything. Is
- 1:03:42just more endurance and technique and everything. And they were doing a breaststroke set
- 1:03:46and she hyper extended her shoulders and boom, she felt the pop and that
- 1:03:52was it. But no, she is doing incredible. Her goals are still
- 1:04:00your come Wealth Games in two years, Olympic Games in four years, Nationals
- 1:04:10hopefully next year and the year after. Sorry, we'll see how that all
- 1:04:15goes. Hopefully she does it. No, that would be that would be
- 1:04:18fantastic. And I'm sure your document progress and on your Facebook and Instagram as
- 1:04:27well, and then for the Facebook page in particular, what do you see
- 1:04:33the vision for that being in the next sort of few years. So you
- 1:04:36just celebrated seven years, so where would you like to be you celebrate ten
- 1:04:41years for example, Oh, three ys time. Hopefully the support group at
- 1:04:50the hospital has gotten off the ground and you know people being supported hopefully hospitals
- 1:05:00and doing the same thing. I'm not sure. I can't speak for other
- 1:05:02hospitals, so I don't know what support groups they've got. My main focus
- 1:05:08for support groups is for West Australia because it's my hometown. I have a
- 1:05:15lot to do with the Ostume Association, but they more focus on people that
- 1:05:19need oustomes and all that sort of stuff. But it's not for just people
- 1:05:27that don't need that sort of stuff either, So just support and how to
- 1:05:30get into if they need support through the school Liaison office at this hospital because
- 1:05:36a lot of people didn't know about that. I didn't even know about that.
- 1:05:39I had no idea that was a thing. Getting in contact with the
- 1:05:43content continence nurs. So many people that have gone, hey, you need
- 1:05:46to go to your GP and get a referral for continence nurse because the continents
- 1:05:50can help you with your either whether it is in continence where you've got loose
- 1:05:57vehicles or you know, the patient, the consonance nurse has a way of
- 1:06:02fixing that. And sometimes when you've got fecal in consciency, sometimes also have
- 1:06:09urinary conscience, so that also helps because sometimes your blooder, you're also backed
- 1:06:15up that your bladder over urinates um or that also stops as well. So
- 1:06:24the continent the consonance nurses are great to help with that. And Smount this
- 1:06:29conscienceness has been awesome and she's been an amazing support person for Samatta and helping
- 1:06:33me with my host Wong's journey as well. So hopefully more and more people
- 1:06:41around Australia and the world have got an inspiration off me. I guess to
- 1:06:49take these steps and take these leaps, as scary as they are, and
- 1:06:53contact the hospitals and be more involved in your own hospital. Would say,
- 1:07:02getting getting yourself out there. If you've got the passion to do it,
- 1:07:04I reckon, just go for it. Just contact them and trying to find
- 1:07:09out who the medical staff are and work with them a little bit. It
- 1:07:15is your free time though, but it can also your free time might learn
- 1:07:20it into a career without even having a bachelor's or the plomer or whatever the
- 1:07:27case may be in medicals, because I don't believe you need a certificate to
- 1:07:32know what's going on. You can help one hundred percent, you can help.
- 1:07:39So hopefully I've got that inspiration for people in the next three years.
- 1:07:44I hope that telethon without making something bow related, because it needs to be.
- 1:07:55It can't just be swapped under the rug. I think there's urinary,
- 1:08:00very sure. Off the top of my I think there's bladder, but there's
- 1:08:02no bow, which is so important because when the bow is not working,
- 1:08:10the gut's not working and everything else stops working and it's just really uncomfortable.
- 1:08:15So fingers crossed to get something there. I just don't know where to go
- 1:08:19from there on how to get to tell. But that's my goal ten years.
- 1:08:29Hopefully I did have a goal of Ellen, but she's no longer around.
- 1:08:33I'm sure. I'm sure there's somebody else taking her a daytime slaught Nellie
- 1:08:42Clarkson show, maybe even only interviews celebrities that I think you made up.
- 1:08:49You've got Hirshprungs aware this month. Do you have more of a celebrity than
- 1:08:51I have? You should, But just for me, I'll actually one more
- 1:09:00thing before before we before we wrap up. Where can people find you?
- 1:09:05Find your story? And best way to contact I guess so they can contact
- 1:09:14me on either Instagram, which is definitely it's s T E double f y
- 1:09:18underscore little or on kicking host wrongs disease on the in the AARs on Facebook
- 1:09:28ours is a double S because the other spelling yeah, contact me away.
- 1:09:40I don't buy it. You can contact me uh. I will not give
- 1:09:45medical advice though, leaves for it that I'll talk about experience, but never
- 1:09:53medical advice. I'm not medically professional or anything like that. I will just
- 1:09:58speak from experience and what you may or may not wait for you. But
- 1:10:03my advice may not work for you. They please don't take that to heart.
- 1:10:09I beg you no. It was the first thing I did on here.
- 1:10:12I wrote a disclaimer basically saying, don't don't take this as medical advice.
- 1:10:15Take its personal stories, take great inspiration from it. But I'm not
- 1:10:19a doctor. Please don't take mexical advice. Yeah, exactly, I've had
- 1:10:26to do that a lot. Also, with the hirshung kicking hershwrongs. Is
- 1:10:30these in the yards. If you would like a Horshwrong's ribber with your name
- 1:10:34on it, imum contact me on there. There are just digital photos and
- 1:10:39they're free, so they're not like physical copy like physical things. It's just
- 1:10:45a picture those But I can do whatever name. As long as the you
- 1:10:50send me the correct name in the correct spelling, I will do it correctly.
- 1:10:56Make sure you spell your own name correctly, I think, yeah,
- 1:11:00trust me. I've had a lot of people send me their thing and I've
- 1:11:02done the spelling and they're gone, that's wrong, And I'm like, I've
- 1:11:05COPI and pasted your name. What do you mean? I don't know how
- 1:11:10to spell your day? You should know how to spell your Yeah, exactly,
- 1:11:15fantastic. I just want to say a huge, huge thank you.
- 1:11:17I know we've been in contact for sort of several mothers trying to sort of
- 1:11:21set this up, and I know we're on different time zones and whatnot,
- 1:11:25but I just want to say a massive, massive thank you for coming on
- 1:11:30the podcast for everything you do, because you are a huge voice in the
- 1:11:34hirsh Bronx community and on behalf of me and a lot of people I've talked
- 1:11:41to. I just want to say an enormous thank you for everything you do
- 1:11:45and for everything you're continuing to do. Thank you so much. Thanks Tom.
- 1:11:49I appreciate you inviting me. It's been fun. It's so easy to
- 1:11:55talk to it's awesome. Thank you so much, Thanks Tom. Thank you
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