Latest / Women in The Coaching Arena / 138 | The 3 Qualities That Separate Thriving Coaches From the Rest
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- 0:00My
- 0:00clients
- 0:00often
- 0:01ask
- 0:01me,
- 0:02what
- 0:02are
- 0:02the
- 0:02qualities
- 0:03of
- 0:03your
- 0:04most
- 0:05successful
- 0:05clients?
- 0:07And
- 0:07after
- 0:07working
- 0:08with
- 0:08more
- 0:08than
- 0:08150
- 0:09coaches
- 0:10over
- 0:10the
- 0:10last
- 0:10few
- 0:11years,
- 0:12I've
- 0:12noticed
- 0:12something
- 0:13that
- 0:13is
- 0:13really
- 0:14clear.
- 0:15The
- 0:15qualities
- 0:15required,
- 0:16are
- 0:17things
- 0:17that
- 0:17you
- 0:18already
- 0:18have
- 0:19in
- 0:19doves
- 0:20as
- 0:20a
- 0:20coach.
- 0:21They
- 0:22are
- 0:22consistency,
- 0:24generosity,
- 0:25and
- 0:25empathy.
- 0:27In
- 0:27this
- 0:27episode,
- 0:28I'm
- 0:28going
- 0:28to
- 0:29break
- 0:29those
- 0:29down,
- 0:30share
- 0:31what
- 0:31I've
- 0:31seen
- 0:31in
- 0:32my
- 0:32most
- 0:32successful
- 0:33clients,
- 0:34and
- 0:34give
- 0:34you
- 0:34one
- 0:35simple
- 0:35change
- 0:36that
- 0:36you
- 0:36can
- 0:36make
- 0:37this
- 0:38week
- 0:38to
- 0:38see
- 0:39results
- 0:40right
- 0:40away.
- 0:41The
- 0:41truth
- 0:42is
- 0:42coaching
- 0:43is
- 0:44a
- 0:44busy
- 0:44marketplace.
- 0:46There
- 0:46are
- 0:47lots
- 0:47of
- 0:48brilliant
- 0:48coaches
- 0:49out
- 0:49there,
- 0:50but
- 0:50people
- 0:51don't
- 0:51choose
- 0:52based
- 0:52on
- 0:53qualifications.
- 0:54They
- 0:54choose
- 0:55based
- 0:55on
- 0:55trust.
- 0:56And
- 0:57trust
- 0:57is
- 0:58built
- 0:58when
- 0:59you
- 0:59show
- 0:59up
- 1:00consistently,
- 1:01when
- 1:01you
- 1:01give
- 1:02generously,
- 1:03and
- 1:03when
- 1:04you
- 1:04meet
- 1:04people
- 1:05with
- 1:05empathy.
- 1:07There
- 1:07is
- 1:07a
- 1:08quote
- 1:08from
- 1:08Seth
- 1:09Godin
- 1:09that
- 1:09was
- 1:10the
- 1:10inspiration
- 1:11for
- 1:11this
- 1:11episode,
- 1:12which
- 1:12is
- 1:12people
- 1:13don't
- 1:13buy
- 1:13goods
- 1:14and
- 1:14services.
- 1:16They
- 1:16buy
- 1:16relationships,
- 1:18stories,
- 1:18and
- 1:19magic,
- 1:20and
- 1:20in
- 1:21coaching
- 1:21that
- 1:21magic
- 1:22isn't
- 1:23something
- 1:23that
- 1:23you
- 1:23can
- 1:24fake.
- 1:25It's
- 1:25created
- 1:26through
- 1:26those
- 1:27three
- 1:27qualities.
- 1:28Where
- 1:29most
- 1:29coaches
- 1:30fail
- 1:30is
- 1:31chasing
- 1:31hacks.
- 1:33The
- 1:33perfect
- 1:33funnel,
- 1:34the
- 1:34cleverest
- 1:35niche,
- 1:35copying
- 1:36what
- 1:36other
- 1:36people
- 1:37are
- 1:37doing,
- 1:37who
- 1:37may
- 1:38be
- 1:38years
- 1:38ahead
- 1:39of
- 1:39you,
- 1:40and
- 1:40their
- 1:40strategies
- 1:41just
- 1:41won't
- 1:41work
- 1:42for
- 1:42you.
- 1:44I
- 1:44remember
- 1:45years
- 1:45ago
- 1:46seeing
- 1:46Lisa
- 1:47Johnson,
- 1:48a
- 1:48business
- 1:48strategist
- 1:49doing
- 1:50a
- 1:50five
- 1:50day
- 1:50challenge,
- 1:51and
- 1:52at
- 1:52the
- 1:52time.
- 1:54I
- 1:54just
- 1:54thought,
- 1:55gosh,
- 1:55this
- 1:55is
- 1:56so
- 1:56easy.
- 1:56She's
- 1:57selling
- 1:57this
- 1:572000
- 1:58pound
- 1:58course.
- 1:59She
- 2:00had
- 2:00hundreds
- 2:01of
- 2:01people
- 2:02buying
- 2:02the
- 2:02course.
- 2:04And
- 2:04I
- 2:04had
- 2:05absolutely
- 2:06no
- 2:07awareness
- 2:08that
- 2:08I
- 2:09couldn't
- 2:09just
- 2:10do
- 2:10the
- 2:10same.
- 2:11Because
- 2:12she
- 2:12had
- 2:12built
- 2:13that
- 2:13audience
- 2:13and
- 2:14had
- 2:14years
- 2:14of
- 2:15experience
- 2:15on
- 2:15me.
- 2:17So
- 2:17if
- 2:17you
- 2:18are
- 2:18currently
- 2:19posting
- 2:20for
- 2:20two
- 2:20weeks,
- 2:21not
- 2:21seeing
- 2:21results
- 2:22and
- 2:22then
- 2:22giving
- 2:23up.
- 2:24Or
- 2:25holding
- 2:25back
- 2:25on
- 2:26sharing
- 2:26value,
- 2:27worrying
- 2:27that
- 2:27you
- 2:28are
- 2:28giving
- 2:28too
- 2:29much
- 2:29away
- 2:29for
- 2:30free,
- 2:31or
- 2:32putting
- 2:32so
- 2:33much
- 2:33emphasis
- 2:34on,
- 2:35will
- 2:35I
- 2:36get
- 2:36a
- 2:36client
- 2:36from
- 2:37this?
- 2:38Is
- 2:38this
- 2:38worth
- 2:39my
- 2:39time?
- 2:40Rather
- 2:40than
- 2:41putting
- 2:41the
- 2:42full
- 2:42focus
- 2:43on
- 2:43who
- 2:43you
- 2:43are
- 2:43here
- 2:44to
- 2:44help.
- 2:46When
- 2:46you
- 2:46view
- 2:46your
- 2:46business
- 2:47as
- 2:47a
- 2:48complete
- 2:48ecosystem
- 2:49rather
- 2:50than
- 2:51one
- 2:51fluke
- 2:52that
- 2:52might
- 2:52make
- 2:53all
- 2:53the
- 2:53difference,
- 2:54then
- 2:54you
- 2:54really
- 2:55do
- 2:55build
- 2:55a
- 2:56consistent,
- 2:57credible
- 2:57business.
- 2:59Everything
- 2:59takes
- 3:00longer
- 3:00than
- 3:00we
- 3:00want.
- 3:01Six
- 3:01years
- 3:02into
- 3:02starting
- 3:02my
- 3:03business,
- 3:04I'm
- 3:04sitting
- 3:05in
- 3:05the
- 3:05sort
- 3:05of
- 3:05home
- 3:06that
- 3:06I
- 3:06dreamed
- 3:07of
- 3:07and
- 3:07thought
- 3:08would
- 3:08be
- 3:08possible
- 3:08within
- 3:09one
- 3:09year,
- 3:09but
- 3:09it's
- 3:09taken
- 3:10six
- 3:10years
- 3:11to
- 3:11get
- 3:11here
- 3:12income
- 3:13wise,
- 3:13I'm
- 3:14probably
- 3:14earning
- 3:15the
- 3:15amount
- 3:15of
- 3:15money
- 3:16I
- 3:16thought
- 3:16I
- 3:16would
- 3:17be
- 3:17earning
- 3:18within
- 3:18six
- 3:18to
- 3:1812
- 3:19months.
- 3:20Finally,
- 3:21six
- 3:21years
- 3:21on
- 3:22really
- 3:22good,
- 3:23steady
- 3:24income,
- 3:24a
- 3:25really
- 3:25large
- 3:25home.
- 3:26All
- 3:26of
- 3:26the
- 3:26things
- 3:27that
- 3:27I
- 3:27dreamed
- 3:28of
- 3:28are
- 3:28finally
- 3:29becoming
- 3:30true,
- 3:30but
- 3:31that's
- 3:31only
- 3:31because
- 3:32I
- 3:32have
- 3:32showed
- 3:33up
- 3:33for
- 3:34you.
- 3:35My
- 3:35ideal
- 3:35client
- 3:37day
- 3:37in,
- 3:38day
- 3:38out.
- 3:39For
- 3:40years
- 3:40now.
- 3:41I've
- 3:41never
- 3:42missed
- 3:42a
- 3:42podcast.
- 3:43I've
- 3:43never
- 3:43missed
- 3:44posting
- 3:44on
- 3:45social
- 3:45media.
- 3:46I've
- 3:46never
- 3:47missed
- 3:47sending
- 3:47an
- 3:47email
- 3:48to
- 3:48my
- 3:48list
- 3:48weekly.
- 3:50The
- 3:50key
- 3:51really
- 3:51is
- 3:52how
- 3:53can
- 3:53we
- 3:53create
- 3:54business
- 3:55as
- 3:55usual?
- 3:55How
- 3:56can
- 3:56we
- 3:56build
- 3:57that
- 3:57consistency
- 3:58into
- 3:58your
- 3:59business
- 4:00where
- 4:00you
- 4:00show
- 4:00up
- 4:01for
- 4:01your
- 4:01ideal
- 4:01client
- 4:02as
- 4:02if
- 4:02they
- 4:03were
- 4:03your
- 4:03boss.
- 4:05And
- 4:05don't
- 4:05get
- 4:05me
- 4:05wrong,
- 4:06there
- 4:06is
- 4:07waiting.
- 4:07There
- 4:08is
- 4:09doubt
- 4:09in
- 4:09all
- 4:10of
- 4:10our
- 4:10lives,
- 4:11mine
- 4:11included,
- 4:13but
- 4:13I
- 4:13hope
- 4:13this
- 4:14is
- 4:14inspiration,
- 4:15that
- 4:15if
- 4:15you
- 4:15stay
- 4:16consistent,
- 4:17keep
- 4:17giving
- 4:18with
- 4:19empathy
- 4:20for
- 4:20your
- 4:21ideal
- 4:21client,
- 4:22then
- 4:22you
- 4:22will
- 4:23get
- 4:23that
- 4:24version
- 4:25of
- 4:25your
- 4:25home,
- 4:26whatever
- 4:26that
- 4:27goal
- 4:27is
- 4:27for
- 4:28you.
- 4:29So
- 4:29let's
- 4:29get
- 4:30back
- 4:30to
- 4:30the
- 4:30episode,
- 4:31which
- 4:31is
- 4:31something
- 4:32I
- 4:32bore
- 4:32my
- 4:32children
- 4:33with
- 4:33day
- 4:34in
- 4:34day
- 4:34out,
- 4:35which
- 4:35is
- 4:36consistency
- 4:37beats
- 4:37talent,
- 4:39generosity
- 4:40beats
- 4:41strategy,
- 4:41and
- 4:41empathy
- 4:43beats
- 4:43ego.
- 4:45These
- 4:45three
- 4:45things
- 4:46matter
- 4:47more
- 4:47than
- 4:47anything
- 4:48else
- 4:48in
- 4:48business,
- 4:49especially
- 4:50in
- 4:50the
- 4:50current
- 4:51climate.
- 4:52And
- 4:52the
- 4:52best
- 4:53part
- 4:53is
- 4:54you
- 4:54have
- 4:55all
- 4:55of
- 4:55these
- 4:55quantities
- 4:56in
- 4:57oodles.
- 4:59Every
- 4:59single
- 5:00one
- 5:00of
- 5:00my
- 5:00clients
- 5:01has
- 5:02these,
- 5:02so
- 5:03I
- 5:03know
- 5:03that
- 5:03every
- 5:04single
- 5:04one
- 5:04of
- 5:04you
- 5:05will
- 5:05also
- 5:06have
- 5:06these
- 5:06qualities
- 5:07of
- 5:08consistency,
- 5:09generosity,
- 5:10and
- 5:10empathy,
- 5:11and
- 5:12we
- 5:12just
- 5:12need
- 5:12to
- 5:13keep
- 5:13honing
- 5:13them
- 5:14and
- 5:14keep
- 5:14building
- 5:15them.
- 5:16So
- 5:16let's
- 5:17go
- 5:17into
- 5:17each
- 5:17of
- 5:17these
- 5:18in
- 5:18more
- 5:18detail.
- 5:19Number
- 5:20one
- 5:20is
- 5:20consistency.
- 5:22The
- 5:22clients
- 5:23who
- 5:23succeed
- 5:24are
- 5:24the
- 5:25ones
- 5:25who
- 5:25show
- 5:26up
- 5:26even
- 5:27when
- 5:27no
- 5:28one
- 5:28is
- 5:28clapping
- 5:29or
- 5:29cheering
- 5:29for
- 5:30them,
- 5:30which
- 5:31is
- 5:31most
- 5:31of
- 5:32the
- 5:32time,
- 5:32in
- 5:32all
- 5:33honesty,
- 5:34especially
- 5:35in
- 5:35the
- 5:35start
- 5:36of
- 5:36your
- 5:36business
- 5:37where
- 5:37people
- 5:37are
- 5:38kind
- 5:38of
- 5:38cringing
- 5:39at
- 5:39seeing
- 5:39you
- 5:40show
- 5:40up
- 5:40on
- 5:40video
- 5:41suddenly,
- 5:42or
- 5:42things
- 5:42you
- 5:43might
- 5:43be
- 5:43sharing.
- 5:45But
- 5:45that
- 5:45is
- 5:45the
- 5:45rite
- 5:46of
- 5:46passage
- 5:46to
- 5:47having
- 5:47a
- 5:47business.
- 5:48Doing
- 5:49things
- 5:49that
- 5:49most
- 5:50people
- 5:50will
- 5:50never
- 5:51do
- 5:51to
- 5:51get
- 5:52the
- 5:52thing
- 5:52that
- 5:52they
- 5:52want.
- 5:54So
- 5:54my
- 5:54most
- 5:54successful
- 5:55clients
- 5:55are
- 5:56posting,
- 5:57emailing,
- 5:58networking,
- 5:59whatever
- 5:59it
- 5:59is
- 6:00for
- 6:00that
- 6:00particular
- 6:01client,
- 6:01week
- 6:02in,
- 6:02week
- 6:03out.
- 6:03It's
- 6:04not
- 6:04glamorous,
- 6:05but
- 6:05it
- 6:06works.
- 6:07And
- 6:08this
- 6:08doesn't
- 6:08mean
- 6:08you
- 6:08have
- 6:09to
- 6:09show
- 6:09up
- 6:09on
- 6:09social
- 6:10media
- 6:10all
- 6:10day,
- 6:11every
- 6:11day.
- 6:12I
- 6:12have
- 6:13wonderful
- 6:13clients
- 6:14in
- 6:14my
- 6:14mastermind,
- 6:15for
- 6:15example,
- 6:15who
- 6:15are
- 6:16doing
- 6:16super
- 6:17well,
- 6:17earning
- 6:18great
- 6:18money,
- 6:19and
- 6:19what
- 6:19they
- 6:19do
- 6:19differently
- 6:20is
- 6:21really,
- 6:22really
- 6:22keep
- 6:23in
- 6:23touch
- 6:23with
- 6:23the
- 6:23people
- 6:24that
- 6:24they
- 6:24know
- 6:25through
- 6:25their
- 6:25workplaces.
- 6:26So
- 6:27how
- 6:27can
- 6:27you
- 6:28continue
- 6:28to
- 6:29build
- 6:29those
- 6:30relationships,
- 6:31send
- 6:31that
- 6:31awkward
- 6:32message,
- 6:33even
- 6:33if
- 6:33you
- 6:33think
- 6:33it
- 6:34feels
- 6:34salesy,
- 6:35whatever
- 6:35it
- 6:35is
- 6:36for
- 6:36you.
- 6:36It's
- 6:37those
- 6:37awkward
- 6:38things
- 6:38that
- 6:38you
- 6:39need
- 6:39to
- 6:39do
- 6:39first,
- 6:40because
- 6:41they
- 6:41are
- 6:41usually
- 6:42the
- 6:42needle
- 6:42movers
- 6:43in
- 6:43your
- 6:43business.
- 6:44Okay,
- 6:45number
- 6:45two,
- 6:46generosity.
- 6:47Most
- 6:48successful
- 6:48coaches
- 6:49don't
- 6:49hold
- 6:49back.
- 6:51They
- 6:51give
- 6:51their
- 6:52best
- 6:52stuff
- 6:53away
- 6:53for
- 6:53free.
- 6:54And
- 6:55here
- 6:55is
- 6:55the
- 6:55magic.
- 6:56People
- 6:57don't
- 6:57think,
- 6:58oh,
- 6:58well
- 6:58I
- 6:58don't
- 6:59need
- 6:59to
- 6:59work
- 6:59with
- 6:59them
- 7:00now
- 7:00they
- 7:01think
- 7:01if
- 7:01this
- 7:02is
- 7:02what
- 7:02they
- 7:02give
- 7:02away
- 7:02for
- 7:03free,
- 7:03imagine
- 7:04what
- 7:04it's
- 7:04like
- 7:05to
- 7:05work
- 7:05with
- 7:05them.
- 7:06And
- 7:06for
- 7:07those
- 7:07who
- 7:07think
- 7:07you
- 7:08can
- 7:08build
- 7:09everything
- 7:09for
- 7:09free,
- 7:11like
- 7:11that's
- 7:11okay.
- 7:12Your
- 7:13real
- 7:14ideal
- 7:14clients,
- 7:15the
- 7:15one
- 7:15who
- 7:16will
- 7:16get
- 7:16results,
- 7:17the
- 7:17one
- 7:17who
- 7:18knows
- 7:18that
- 7:18there
- 7:18is
- 7:18more
- 7:19to
- 7:19learn.
- 7:20They
- 7:20will
- 7:20be
- 7:21the
- 7:21ones
- 7:21who
- 7:22come
- 7:22into
- 7:22your
- 7:22world.
- 7:24It
- 7:24also
- 7:25massively
- 7:26raises
- 7:26your
- 7:27rates.
- 7:27Good
- 7:28isn't
- 7:28good
- 7:29enough
- 7:29anymore
- 7:30and
- 7:31we
- 7:31want
- 7:31to
- 7:32be
- 7:32excellent
- 7:33to
- 7:33be
- 7:33able
- 7:33to
- 7:34stand
- 7:34out
- 7:34in
- 7:35a
- 7:35competitive
- 7:35marketplace.
- 7:37So
- 7:37what
- 7:38is
- 7:38one
- 7:38generous
- 7:39post
- 7:39you
- 7:39could
- 7:40share
- 7:40this
- 7:40week
- 7:41that
- 7:41solves
- 7:41a
- 7:42real
- 7:42problem
- 7:43that
- 7:43you
- 7:43would
- 7:43normally
- 7:44only
- 7:45share
- 7:45in
- 7:45a
- 7:45session?
- 7:47Imagine
- 7:47you
- 7:48are
- 7:48aiming
- 7:48for
- 7:48people
- 7:48to
- 7:49say
- 7:49this
- 7:50was
- 7:50so
- 7:50helpful,
- 7:52or
- 7:52message
- 7:53you
- 7:53directly
- 7:53to
- 7:54say
- 7:54thank
- 7:54you.
- 7:55And
- 7:56it
- 7:56doesn't
- 7:56always
- 7:56need
- 7:57to
- 7:57be
- 7:57'how
- 7:57to'
- 7:58content,
- 7:58although
- 7:59that
- 7:59is
- 7:59really
- 8:00useful.
- 8:01It
- 8:01can
- 8:01sometimes
- 8:02be
- 8:02as
- 8:02simple
- 8:03as
- 8:03sharing
- 8:03your
- 8:03story.
- 8:05I
- 8:05shared
- 8:05my
- 8:05story
- 8:06last
- 8:06week
- 8:06on
- 8:07social
- 8:07media
- 8:07of
- 8:08moving
- 8:08to
- 8:08this
- 8:08house,
- 8:09which
- 8:09I
- 8:09never
- 8:09thought
- 8:10would
- 8:10be
- 8:10possible
- 8:10for
- 8:10me
- 8:11once
- 8:12I
- 8:12had
- 8:12children
- 8:12and
- 8:12went
- 8:12part-time
- 8:14and
- 8:14I
- 8:14had
- 8:14so
- 8:15many
- 8:16private
- 8:16DM
- 8:17saying,
- 8:17thank
- 8:18you
- 8:18so
- 8:18much.
- 8:19I've
- 8:19just
- 8:19started
- 8:20my
- 8:20business.
- 8:21It's
- 8:21so
- 8:21hard.
- 8:22I'm
- 8:22so
- 8:23grateful
- 8:24to
- 8:24you
- 8:24for
- 8:24sharing
- 8:25that
- 8:25story
- 8:25that's
- 8:25given
- 8:26me
- 8:26momentum
- 8:27and
- 8:27a
- 8:27spark
- 8:27today.
- 8:29It
- 8:29also
- 8:29got
- 8:30something
- 8:30like
- 8:30700
- 8:31and
- 8:31something
- 8:32likes
- 8:33and
- 8:33hundreds
- 8:33of
- 8:33comments
- 8:34from
- 8:34people
- 8:35really
- 8:35grateful
- 8:36for
- 8:36the
- 8:36perspective
- 8:37shift
- 8:37that
- 8:37it
- 8:38is
- 8:38possible
- 8:39to
- 8:40be
- 8:40self-employed
- 8:41and
- 8:41get
- 8:41a
- 8:42mortgage.
- 8:43Okay.
- 8:44Our
- 8:44third
- 8:44point,
- 8:44which
- 8:45is
- 8:45my
- 8:45favorite
- 8:46is
- 8:46empathy.
- 8:47The
- 8:47standout
- 8:48coaches
- 8:49are
- 8:49the
- 8:49ones
- 8:49who
- 8:50feel
- 8:51their
- 8:51ideal
- 8:51clients.
- 8:53Like
- 8:53I
- 8:53really
- 8:54feel
- 8:54in
- 8:54my
- 8:55body
- 8:55exactly
- 8:56what
- 8:56it
- 8:56feels
- 8:57like.
- 8:57That
- 8:58feeling
- 8:58has
- 8:58never
- 8:58left
- 8:59me
- 8:59from
- 8:59starting
- 9:00my
- 9:00business
- 9:01as
- 9:01to
- 9:01the
- 9:02overwhelm
- 9:03of,
- 9:03oh
- 9:04my
- 9:04gosh,
- 9:04how
- 9:05am
- 9:05I
- 9:05meant
- 9:05to
- 9:05post
- 9:05on
- 9:06social
- 9:06media?
- 9:07And
- 9:08do
- 9:08something
- 9:08else.
- 9:10And
- 9:10what
- 9:10I
- 9:10know
- 9:10now,
- 9:11the
- 9:11other
- 9:11side
- 9:11of
- 9:11this
- 9:12is
- 9:12that
- 9:13it
- 9:13just
- 9:13needs
- 9:14to
- 9:14become
- 9:14business
- 9:14as
- 9:15usual.
- 9:16And
- 9:16the
- 9:16only
- 9:16way
- 9:17it
- 9:17becomes
- 9:17business
- 9:18as
- 9:18usual
- 9:19is
- 9:19by
- 9:19doing
- 9:20it
- 9:20So
- 9:20often
- 9:21you
- 9:21can
- 9:21do
- 9:22it
- 9:22with
- 9:22your
- 9:22eyes
- 9:22closed.
- 9:23It's
- 9:24a
- 9:24bit
- 9:24like
- 9:24when
- 9:24I
- 9:24drive
- 9:25on
- 9:25the
- 9:25school
- 9:25run.
- 9:26If,
- 9:27for
- 9:27example,
- 9:27we're
- 9:28going
- 9:28somewhere
- 9:29different
- 9:29on
- 9:29the
- 9:29route
- 9:30or
- 9:30I'm
- 9:31meant
- 9:31to
- 9:31be
- 9:31pulling
- 9:31over
- 9:32at
- 9:32the
- 9:32shop
- 9:32I
- 9:32will
- 9:33always
- 9:33end
- 9:33up
- 9:34driving
- 9:34by.
- 9:34So
- 9:34my
- 9:35children
- 9:35will
- 9:35go,
- 9:35mum,
- 9:36you've
- 9:36missed
- 9:36this.
- 9:37Because
- 9:37it's
- 9:37automatic
- 9:38now
- 9:38because
- 9:39we
- 9:39do
- 9:39it
- 9:39so
- 9:39often.
- 9:40So
- 9:40your
- 9:40social
- 9:41posts
- 9:41and
- 9:41things
- 9:42that
- 9:42you
- 9:42want,
- 9:43those
- 9:43consistent
- 9:44habits
- 9:44in
- 9:44your
- 9:44business
- 9:46that
- 9:46currently
- 9:46might
- 9:47take
- 9:47you
- 9:47a
- 9:47lot
- 9:47of
- 9:47energy
- 9:48will
- 9:49become
- 9:49easier
- 9:50with
- 9:50practice.
- 9:52So
- 9:52instead
- 9:53of
- 9:53staying
- 9:54in
- 9:54your
- 9:54head,
- 9:54creating
- 9:55your
- 9:55niche
- 9:55statement
- 9:56or
- 9:56your
- 9:56offers,
- 9:58really
- 9:58get
- 9:59out
- 9:59there
- 9:59and
- 9:59talk
- 10:00to
- 10:00real
- 10:00life
- 10:01people
- 10:02and
- 10:02try
- 10:02and
- 10:02solve
- 10:03real
- 10:03life
- 10:04problems.
- 10:06We
- 10:06might
- 10:06think
- 10:06of
- 10:07that
- 10:07as
- 10:07reframing,
- 10:08limiting
- 10:09beliefs,
- 10:09for
- 10:09example.
- 10:11But
- 10:11we
- 10:11really
- 10:12need
- 10:12to
- 10:12think
- 10:12about
- 10:12it
- 10:13as
- 10:14our
- 10:14ideal
- 10:15clients
- 10:15do.
- 10:16Do
- 10:16they
- 10:16even
- 10:16know
- 10:16what
- 10:17a
- 10:17limiting
- 10:17belief
- 10:17is?
- 10:18Or
- 10:18do
- 10:18they
- 10:19think
- 10:19they
- 10:19have
- 10:19a
- 10:19completely
- 10:20different
- 10:20problem,
- 10:21which
- 10:22obviously
- 10:22might
- 10:23be
- 10:23a
- 10:23limiting
- 10:23belief?
- 10:24We
- 10:24know
- 10:24that,
- 10:25but
- 10:25often
- 10:26they
- 10:26don't
- 10:26yet.
- 10:27So
- 10:27it's
- 10:28really
- 10:28important
- 10:29to
- 10:29talk
- 10:29to
- 10:30their
- 10:30front
- 10:30door
- 10:31issues
- 10:31rather
- 10:32than
- 10:32the
- 10:32back
- 10:33door,
- 10:33which
- 10:34is
- 10:34what
- 10:34we
- 10:34will
- 10:34work
- 10:35on
- 10:35when
- 10:35they're
- 10:35actually
- 10:36in
- 10:36the
- 10:37door.
- 10:38So
- 10:38these
- 10:38might
- 10:39sound
- 10:39like
- 10:39fluffy
- 10:40add-ons,
- 10:40but
- 10:40they
- 10:41are
- 10:41really
- 10:41your
- 10:42business
- 10:42multipliers.
- 10:44One
- 10:44of
- 10:45my
- 10:45clients,
- 10:45Levanah.
- 10:46Does
- 10:46all
- 10:47three
- 10:47of
- 10:47these
- 10:48beautifully.
- 10:49She
- 10:49has
- 10:49shown
- 10:50up
- 10:50consistently
- 10:51for
- 10:51the
- 10:5118
- 10:52months
- 10:52that
- 10:52she's
- 10:53been
- 10:53building
- 10:53her
- 10:53business.
- 10:54She
- 10:55generously
- 10:56builds
- 10:56trust
- 10:57with
- 10:57her
- 10:57audience
- 10:58by
- 10:58being
- 10:58consistent
- 11:00and
- 11:00she
- 11:00has
- 11:00real
- 11:01empathy
- 11:02for
- 11:02exactly
- 11:03where
- 11:03her
- 11:04ideal
- 11:04client
- 11:04is
- 11:04at
- 11:05and
- 11:05the
- 11:05challenges
- 11:06that
- 11:06they
- 11:06are
- 11:06facing.
- 11:07And
- 11:07she's
- 11:08not
- 11:08afraid
- 11:08to
- 11:09call
- 11:09them
- 11:09out
- 11:10and
- 11:10let
- 11:10those
- 11:10people
- 11:11really
- 11:12see
- 11:12that
- 11:13someone
- 11:13gets
- 11:13where
- 11:14they're
- 11:14at
- 11:14and
- 11:14that
- 11:15they
- 11:15are
- 11:15not
- 11:15alone.
- 11:17So
- 11:17let's
- 11:17bring
- 11:18this
- 11:18back
- 11:18to
- 11:18you.
- 11:20The
- 11:20three
- 11:20qualities
- 11:21that
- 11:21separate
- 11:22successful
- 11:23coaches
- 11:23from
- 11:24the
- 11:24rest
- 11:25are
- 11:26consistency,
- 11:27generosity,
- 11:29and
- 11:30empathy.
- 11:31Your
- 11:31challenge
- 11:32this
- 11:32week
- 11:32is
- 11:33to
- 11:33pick
- 11:33one
- 11:33of
- 11:34these
- 11:34and
- 11:34commit
- 11:35to
- 11:35a
- 11:35small
- 11:36action.
- 11:37Don't
- 11:38overthink
- 11:38it.
- 11:39Just
- 11:39do
- 11:39something.
- 11:41And
- 11:41notice
- 11:42the
- 11:42evidence,
- 11:43whether
- 11:43that
- 11:43is
- 11:44a
- 11:44comment
- 11:44on
- 11:45your
- 11:45post,
- 11:46a
- 11:47conversation
- 11:47that
- 11:47feels
- 11:48easier,
- 11:49or
- 11:50that
- 11:50you
- 11:50just
- 11:50feel
- 11:51more
- 11:51confident
- 11:52in
- 11:52your
- 11:52own
- 11:52process.
- 11:53That
- 11:54is
- 11:54your
- 11:54sign.
- 11:55It's
- 11:55working.
- 11:56And
- 11:56again,
- 11:57like
- 11:57I've
- 11:57talked
- 11:57about
- 11:58in
- 11:58this
- 11:58episode,
- 12:00don't
- 12:00be
- 12:00the
- 12:00person
- 12:01who
- 12:01puts
- 12:01out
- 12:02that
- 12:02one
- 12:02post
- 12:03or
- 12:03does
- 12:03someone
- 12:04a
- 12:04favor
- 12:05and
- 12:05then
- 12:05throws
- 12:06their
- 12:06toys
- 12:06out
- 12:06of
- 12:07the
- 12:07pram.
- 12:07If
- 12:07it
- 12:08doesn't
- 12:08get
- 12:08immediately
- 12:09rewarded.
- 12:11Do
- 12:11it
- 12:11again
- 12:12tomorrow.
- 12:13If
- 12:13you
- 12:13don't
- 12:13get
- 12:13your
- 12:14sign
- 12:14today.
- 12:15I
- 12:15met
- 12:16this
- 12:16guy
- 12:16when
- 12:17I
- 12:17first
- 12:17started
- 12:17my
- 12:18business.
- 12:19And
- 12:20he's
- 12:20a
- 12:20coach
- 12:21also
- 12:22and
- 12:22he
- 12:23honestly
- 12:23has
- 12:23kept
- 12:24in
- 12:24touch
- 12:24with
- 12:24me
- 12:25over
- 12:26six
- 12:26years
- 12:26now
- 12:28and
- 12:28not
- 12:28just
- 12:28me.
- 12:29He
- 12:29does
- 12:29this
- 12:29with
- 12:30everyone.
- 12:31His
- 12:31system
- 12:32is
- 12:32insane,
- 12:33and
- 12:33because
- 12:34he
- 12:34is
- 12:34so
- 12:35generous
- 12:36and
- 12:37sends
- 12:37WhatsApps
- 12:38and
- 12:38sends
- 12:39the
- 12:39latest
- 12:40ICF
- 12:40reports
- 12:41or
- 12:41anything
- 12:42else
- 12:42he
- 12:43thinks
- 12:43I
- 12:43might
- 12:43be
- 12:43interested
- 12:44in,
- 12:45it's
- 12:45really
- 12:45hard
- 12:46to
- 12:47ignore
- 12:48when
- 12:48he
- 12:48asks
- 12:49for
- 12:50a
- 12:50favor.
- 12:51So
- 12:51for
- 12:51example,
- 12:52he
- 12:52contacted
- 12:52me
- 12:53recently
- 12:53and
- 12:53he
- 12:54has
- 12:54published
- 12:54a
- 12:54book
- 12:55and
- 12:55he
- 12:56wanted
- 12:56me
- 12:56to
- 12:56read
- 12:56his
- 12:57book,
- 12:58and
- 12:58I
- 12:58was
- 12:58like,
- 12:59oh,
- 12:59I
- 12:59just
- 13:00haven't
- 13:00really
- 13:00got
- 13:00time
- 13:01to
- 13:01read
- 13:01your
- 13:01book.
- 13:02But
- 13:03obviously
- 13:04because
- 13:05he
- 13:05has
- 13:05paid
- 13:05into
- 13:06the
- 13:06value
- 13:06bank
- 13:07of
- 13:07me
- 13:08for
- 13:08so
- 13:08many
- 13:08years,
- 13:09there
- 13:09was
- 13:09nothing
- 13:10I
- 13:10could
- 13:10do
- 13:11than
- 13:11try
- 13:11and
- 13:12read
- 13:12his
- 13:12book
- 13:12and
- 13:12feed
- 13:13back
- 13:13to
- 13:13him
- 13:13quickly.
- 13:14So
- 13:14be
- 13:15that
- 13:15person
- 13:15who
- 13:16does
- 13:16pay
- 13:16into
- 13:17the
- 13:17value
- 13:17bank.
- 13:17So
- 13:18when
- 13:18you
- 13:18want
- 13:18something
- 13:19in
- 13:19return,
- 13:20that
- 13:20person
- 13:21will
- 13:21do
- 13:22what
- 13:22you
- 13:22ask.
- 13:24If
- 13:24you
- 13:24want
- 13:24more
- 13:25structure
- 13:25and
- 13:25support
- 13:26to
- 13:26build
- 13:26your
- 13:27business
- 13:27with
- 13:28honesty
- 13:28and
- 13:28not
- 13:29hype,
- 13:29that
- 13:29is
- 13:29exactly
- 13:30what
- 13:30we
- 13:30do
- 13:31inside
- 13:31my
- 13:31program.
- 13:32The
- 13:32business
- 13:32of
- 13:33coaching.
- 13:33It
- 13:34is
- 13:34sold
- 13:35out
- 13:35in
- 13:35October,
- 13:36in
- 13:36fact,
- 13:37oversubscribed.
- 13:38So
- 13:38I've
- 13:38had
- 13:38to
- 13:39ask
- 13:39some
- 13:40people
- 13:40to
- 13:40wait
- 13:41to
- 13:41join
- 13:41because
- 13:41I
- 13:42like
- 13:42to
- 13:42take
- 13:42a
- 13:42maximum
- 13:43number
- 13:43each
- 13:43month
- 13:44so
- 13:44I
- 13:44know
- 13:45that
- 13:45I
- 13:45have
- 13:45adequate
- 13:46time
- 13:47to
- 13:47give
- 13:47to
- 13:47those
- 13:48amazing
- 13:48clients
- 13:49who
- 13:49have
- 13:49trusted
- 13:49me
- 13:49with
- 13:50their
- 13:50investment.
- 13:52The
- 13:52next
- 13:52intake
- 13:53is
- 13:53the
- 13:5311th
- 13:54of
- 13:54November.
- 13:56That
- 13:56doesn't
- 13:56mean
- 13:57you
- 13:57need
- 13:57to
- 13:57wait
- 13:57until
- 13:58then
- 13:58before
- 13:58you
- 13:58can
- 13:59join
- 13:59the
- 13:59community,
- 14:00our
- 14:00core
- 14:00calls
- 14:01and
- 14:02the
- 14:02training
- 14:02part
- 14:03of
- 14:03the
- 14:03program,
- 14:04but
- 14:04it
- 14:04just
- 14:05means
- 14:05we
- 14:05won't
- 14:06start
- 14:06your
- 14:07small
- 14:07group
- 14:08accelerator,
- 14:08which
- 14:09is
- 14:09a
- 14:09four
- 14:09week
- 14:09thing
- 14:10I
- 14:10do
- 14:10to
- 14:11really
- 14:11make
- 14:11sure
- 14:11within
- 14:12those
- 14:12first
- 14:12four
- 14:13weeks
- 14:13you
- 14:14get
- 14:14clarity
- 14:14on
- 14:14your
- 14:14niche,
- 14:15your
- 14:16offer,
- 14:16and
- 14:16taking
- 14:17some
- 14:17steps
- 14:18to
- 14:18share
- 14:18that
- 14:19within
- 14:19our
- 14:19first
- 14:20four
- 14:20weeks
- 14:20together,
- 14:24you
- 14:24will
- 14:24find
- 14:24the
- 14:25link
- 14:26to
- 14:26learn
- 14:26more
- 14:26in
- 14:27the
- 14:27show
- 14:27notes.
- 14:28There
- 14:28is
- 14:28an
- 14:28application
- 14:29form
- 14:30right
- 14:30at
- 14:30the
- 14:30bottom
- 14:30of
- 14:31the
- 14:31business
- 14:31of
- 14:31coaching
- 14:32page.
- 14:32So
- 14:33if
- 14:33you
- 14:33are
- 14:33curious
- 14:34but
- 14:34have
- 14:34questions,
- 14:35wanna
- 14:35make
- 14:35sure
- 14:35it's
- 14:35right
- 14:36for
- 14:36you,
- 14:37then
- 14:37just
- 14:37complete
- 14:37that
- 14:38and
- 14:38I
- 14:38will
- 14:38send
- 14:38you
- 14:38a
- 14:38personalised
- 14:39walkthrough
- 14:40to
- 14:41make
- 14:41sure
- 14:41it
- 14:41fits
- 14:42you.
- 14:42Like
- 14:42I
- 14:43don't
- 14:43wanna
- 14:43work
- 14:43with
- 14:43anybody
- 14:44who
- 14:44isn't
- 14:45a
- 14:45right
- 14:45fit
- 14:45in
- 14:45the
- 14:45program
- 14:46either.
- 14:47So
- 14:48it's
- 14:48in
- 14:48both
- 14:48of
- 14:48our
- 14:49interests
- 14:49that
- 14:49I
- 14:50only
- 14:50take
- 14:50on
- 14:51people
- 14:51that
- 14:51I
- 14:51feel
- 14:51like
- 14:52can
- 14:52get
- 14:53results
- 14:53in
- 14:53my
- 14:54program.
- 14:55So
- 14:56today,
- 14:56take
- 14:57a
- 14:57deep
- 14:57breath
- 14:58and
- 14:58remember,
- 14:58you
- 14:59don't
- 14:59need
- 14:59to
- 15:00chase
- 15:00shiny
- 15:01objects
- 15:02around.
- 15:03The
- 15:03ones
- 15:04who
- 15:04succeed
- 15:05are
- 15:05the
- 15:05ones
- 15:05who
- 15:06show
- 15:06up
- 15:06with
- 15:06consistency,
- 15:08give
- 15:08generously
- 15:09and
- 15:10lead
- 15:10with
- 15:11empathy.
- 15:13And
- 15:13like
- 15:14I
- 15:14share
- 15:14at
- 15:14the
- 15:14end
- 15:15of
- 15:15every
- 15:15episode,
- 15:16trust
- 15:16yourself,
- 15:17believe
- 15:17in
- 15:17yourself,
- 15:18and
- 15:18be
- 15:18the
- 15:18wise
- 15:19gardener
- 15:19who
- 15:20keeps
- 15:20on
- 15:20watering
- 15:21the
- 15:21seed
- 15:22Microphone (Samson Q2U Microphone): Thank
- 15:23Microphone (Samson Q2U Microphone): you
- 15:23Microphone (Samson Q2U Microphone): so
- 15:23Microphone (Samson Q2U Microphone): much
- 15:23Microphone (Samson Q2U Microphone): for
- 15:24Microphone (Samson Q2U Microphone): listening
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