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SCANDAL… Private dance, stolen money and MY DAD 😱💵😶‍🌫️ · She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

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  Speaker 1: Apologiae Production.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday, Secrets, Horror, Scandal, Hysterios Wild, Hello,
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  Speaker 2: and welcome back to Freaky Friday with your favorite hosts,
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  Speaker 2: Stephanie and Tatiana.
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  Speaker 3: We're so excited to be here.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is going to be a really
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  Speaker 2: interesting submission for you today. So let's get stuck into her,
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  Speaker 2: shall we? Oh?
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  Speaker 3: This is juicy? Are you ready give it to us?
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  Speaker 3: I don't think you are, okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I grew up in a very religious family, like
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  Speaker 1: homeschool because public school was satanic kind of religious. My
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  Speaker 1: dad is actually the pastor of our local church. At nineteen,
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  Speaker 1: I moved down. Let's just say I went full rebellion.
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  Speaker 1: I bartended part time, and I taught pole fitness. Last year,
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  Speaker 1: I was short on rent and a friend convinced me
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  Speaker 1: to do one private show for a client that she trusted.
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  Speaker 1: He's loaded and harmless, she said. I agreed, I wore,
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  Speaker 1: took the cash, and left. Oh my god, good and juicy.
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  Speaker 1: By weeks later, my dad calls a church meeting. The
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  Speaker 1: church fund, which we've been saving for an orphanage trip,
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  Speaker 1: was missing over eight thousand dollars and no one could
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  Speaker 1: figure out where it went until I saw him, the
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  Speaker 1: man from the private show, sitting next to my dad,
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  Speaker 1: arms folded, watching me. Turns out he's.
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  Speaker 3: The church treasurer.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, now he sends me double just to
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  Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut.
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  Speaker 3: Stop it.
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  Speaker 1: I feel so guilty, so much shame, and also so
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  Speaker 1: much anger because I can't bring myself to tell my
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  Speaker 1: dad about this. I feel this would haunt me for
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  Speaker 1: the rest of my life. What would you girls do?
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  Speaker 2: Girl, you have gotten yourself into a sticky situation.
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  Speaker 3: This is a big pickle. This is a problem.
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  Speaker 1: I have so many I have no words, Like you're
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  Speaker 1: close to your dad, could you imagine like going to
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  Speaker 1: your dad about this?
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  Speaker 2: When I think of my dad's best friend, there's no
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  Speaker 2: fucking way if I thought of that being the person
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  Speaker 2: that I had done that with.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Money is for an orphanage camp or the guilt.
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  Speaker 1: How could you be spending that. I could not spend
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  Speaker 1: that money and go to sleep at night and look
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  Speaker 1: in the mirror and be proud of what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 3: That's crazy. Come clean.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I would be like, Dad, this is a problem,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I've done. We'll talk about that later,
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  Speaker 1: but right now, like this treasure I needs to go.
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  Speaker 1: You're very religious, dad. You're very religious dad, who is
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  Speaker 1: the pastor of the church. I mean, I don't have
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  Speaker 1: a close relationship with a father figure. But I imagine
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  Speaker 1: I just I think I would rather that disappointment. Then
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  Speaker 1: you have to live with the guilt of this money
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  Speaker 1: that I'm spending that could have gone to helping kids
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  Speaker 1: at an orphanage.
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  Speaker 2: In so what And he's also paying her double now
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  Speaker 2: of right, is that coming from the church or is
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  Speaker 2: that coming from his own mind?
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  Speaker 1: Well, there's no guessing. There's no more money in the church. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: so it's his own personal money. That's an expensive private
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  Speaker 1: show like that was dollars you make a bank kind
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  Speaker 1: of private show.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like, gosh, maybe there's
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  Speaker 3: more to the story. Maybe it's not just a dance,
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  Speaker 3: maybe eight thousand dollars for a dance, because that doesn't
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  Speaker 3: make sense in my head. I don't think so.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how much stuff like that costs. But
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  Speaker 2: I imagine it's not like that.
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  Speaker 1: I imagine it's not. Well, actually, me and a couple of
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  Speaker 1: girlfriends went to a ship club once a god a
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  Speaker 1: up dance. It was not eight thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like a couple of hundred between us. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 3: there you go. Yeah, I don't think you're making eight
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  Speaker 3: thousand dollars for one little private No, honey, you got
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  Speaker 3: some more sins to confess.
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  Speaker 1: Oh. No, the treasurer doesn't know it's her because she
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  Speaker 1: wore a mask. So she's looking at him, going, I
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  Speaker 1: know you spent the money, but he doesn't know that
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  Speaker 1: she was one with a private dance because she wore
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  Speaker 1: a mask.
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  Speaker 2: But at the end she says, oh, he pays a double,
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  Speaker 2: so he does know that it's her.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so I wonder how he found out with the
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  Speaker 1: last situation. That's interesting.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's somehow they would have known each other. Was
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  Speaker 3: that is tricky.
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  Speaker 1: But I just morally and out of integrity, Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think I can live with myself. It's like cheating things.
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  Speaker 1: Like you know, you hear about people keeping cheating secrets
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  Speaker 1: from the partners.
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  Speaker 3: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: I would feel physically ill. Yeah, I would be vomiting
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  Speaker 1: every night. Yeah, staring at Steve knowing I'd done that,
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  Speaker 1: like I could not.
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  Speaker 2: And then like the thought of keeping that secret, being
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  Speaker 2: dishonest and then going and being intimate with your partner again, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Like all of it.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like that's her dad who's really close and
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  Speaker 2: every hoow she goes to church, she's going to be
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  Speaker 2: reminded of kids. Yeah, I know that money is supposed
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  Speaker 2: to go to them, and it went to your lap dance.
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  Speaker 1: Literally, And now what are you spending that money on.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's obviously you need to come clean
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  Speaker 1: gat the money back. Yeah, because those kids need to
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  Speaker 1: roof over their head, they need food on their plate,
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  Speaker 1: they need like clothes on their bodies that money would
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  Speaker 1: have gone to.
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  Speaker 3: That's all you just need money for. And at the
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  Speaker 3: end of the day, with things like this, that will
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  Speaker 3: it awate you forever ever. It will make you sick.
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  Speaker 3: It will make you make you sick.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like as well, karma comes back around. I
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  Speaker 2: believe in karma, and I believe that karma comes around immediately,
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  Speaker 2: and there will be some kind of repercussion for you
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  Speaker 2: continuing to choose this, especially if you do whatever a
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  Speaker 2: long period of time, it will come back to bite
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  Speaker 2: you in the ass for sure, whatever way that looks.
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  Speaker 3: I think you're gonna tell your dad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And also if he's done this once, what's to
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  Speaker 1: stop him from stealing again? You're preventing it from happiness.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, because it's more than just the situation between
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  Speaker 2: you and him.
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  Speaker 3: It's the church.
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  Speaker 2: It's not that it's the money, it's the children. It's
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  Speaker 2: the church morals. And to have someone so high up
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  Speaker 2: who is supposed to be trustworthy, who is actually not trustworthy.
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  Speaker 2: I think that in itself is something to come clean for.
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  Speaker 1: I agree.
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  Speaker 3: Oh girl, that's a good submission that can you please?
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  Speaker 3: Can you follow up? Because information that's juicy.
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  Speaker 1: Even if you decide not to go ahead with saying
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  Speaker 1: you think, can you let us know? I'm so curious,
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  Speaker 1: But just remember, like you are the one that has
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  Speaker 1: to look in the mirror every single day and be
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  Speaker 1: proud of who you are, your values, how you show up,
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  Speaker 1: how you treat other people, where you're contributing, where you're
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  Speaker 1: making impact. All that is so important to me, Like
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  Speaker 1: I just can't imagine.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And the good thing about when you do come
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  Speaker 2: clean about things that are terrible to come clean about,
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  Speaker 2: you can learn to live with it. Because you learn
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  Speaker 2: to overcome it, you can heal it. But if you're
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  Speaker 2: hiding it, in secrecy and shame, and you're just like
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  Speaker 2: doing it on your own, like it will forever eat
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  Speaker 2: away at you. At least if you own it, then
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  Speaker 2: you can take accountability for it and you can actually
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  Speaker 2: one day move past it. And I think that's a
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  Speaker 2: better route to go down. My gosh, Yeah, speaking from experience,
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  Speaker 2: not not with this.
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  Speaker 3: I definitely haven't done nothing like this.
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  Speaker 1: So even told me about an eight thousand no no girl,
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  Speaker 1: why are you in the podcasting?
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  Speaker 3: Straight? If they were eight thousand dollars I've been doing Honestly,
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  Speaker 3: that's a lot of money. Damn. Yeah, do a little dance.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of dance classes and love dancers, that's it's completely
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  Speaker 1: booked out.
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  Speaker 3: But it's a couple's dance class.
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  Speaker 1: This is kind of off topic, but Steve sits in
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  Speaker 1: the chair all her husbands do, and we learn a
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  Speaker 1: dance and practice on them.
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  Speaker 3: That's so booked.
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  Speaker 1: That's so fun because I can Steve love dances and
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  Speaker 1: dance for him before. But being in the dance shdio
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  Speaker 1: like and all the girls where lingeris are like little
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  Speaker 1: skimpy outfits, like being at Environ with the teacher, the lights,
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  Speaker 1: the music, the other girls, like.
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  Speaker 2: You're so in the hot, you're so in the environment,
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  Speaker 2: so you kind of have like the Stephanie comes out.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because at.
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  Speaker 1: Home and sometimes like oh the kid's gonna hear the
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  Speaker 1: music or knock on the door. I've forgot the routine,
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  Speaker 1: our carpet burn. I'm just getting in my head. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and he doesn't know any different, he just likes. But
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  Speaker 1: I just can't wait for that. Just reminded me. I
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  Speaker 1: book that in fordun So I'm really excited. You have
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  Speaker 1: to tell us all about it. I will definitely come
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  Speaker 1: on absolutely to tell you guys about it. All right, lovely,
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  Speaker 1: thank you so much for bringing this in. Honestly, give
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  Speaker 1: us a follow up.
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  Speaker 3: I can.
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  Speaker 2: Or if you are somebody else who has a sticky
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  Speaker 2: situation like this where you are really let's say, shameful,
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  Speaker 2: you don't know who to tell, You really think that
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  Speaker 2: you're going to take it to the grave and you
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  Speaker 2: think I've got to die with this lie bring it in.
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  Speaker 3: It's a good story. Yeah, but it is a good story.
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  Speaker 3: We might not feel good about it. We're here for
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  Speaker 3: the lulls. We want the juice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And also again there's no shame, no judge on
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  Speaker 2: this is just an open space. You can bring anything
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  Speaker 2: in and we just want to have a chat about it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, more context of better either. Now there's two sentences.
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  Speaker 3: We want to know all the details. Yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Stephanie and Tatian are also going to give you the
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  Speaker 2: most honest and direct opinion.
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  Speaker 3: There's no filters. There's no filters. Yeah yeah, and you
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  Speaker 3: love it. We love it, love it, We love them already.
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  Speaker 3: We'll see you on the next fight. Bye.