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"Good Intentions" Aren't a Substitute for Consent! with Paloma Alves (S05 Ep66)
'Uninvited Touch and the Myth of Assumption'
In this episode, Gui and I, joined by Paloma Alves, tackle the controversial topic of uninvited massage, stretching, and intimate touch on the dance floor.
We discuss why assuming consent for therapeutic contact is a boundary violation and how to navigate these moments with awareness.
We address the trend of dancers massaging partners mid-dance without permission.
The Massage Trap: Intentions vs. Reality
The "Taught" Massage: We express concern over workshops teaching massage as a "connection tool." Learning a technique for an hour doesn't make one…
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