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- 0:05We
- 0:05love
- 0:05a
- 0:05good
- 0:06plan,
- 0:06honey,
- 0:06don't
- 0:07we?
- 0:09We
- 0:09want
- 0:09the
- 0:09outline,
- 0:10every
- 0:11step,
- 0:11time
- 0:12steps,
- 0:12and
- 0:12everything.
- 0:13We
- 0:13want
- 0:13the
- 0:14full
- 0:14agenda,
- 0:15all
- 0:15of
- 0:15it,
- 0:16or
- 0:16at
- 0:16least
- 0:17I
- 0:17know
- 0:17I
- 0:17do.
- 0:19And
- 0:20whole
- 0:20time,
- 0:20I'm
- 0:21over
- 0:21here
- 0:21doing
- 0:21the
- 0:21calculations.
- 0:23Okay,
- 0:23I'm
- 0:23doing
- 0:24this,
- 0:24I'll
- 0:24do
- 0:24that,
- 0:25but
- 0:25I
- 0:25am
- 0:26definitely
- 0:27not
- 0:27doing
- 0:28that,
- 0:28and
- 0:28hence
- 0:29the
- 0:29negotiations
- 0:30come
- 0:31in.
- 0:33Whether
- 0:34this
- 0:34is
- 0:34you
- 0:35or
- 0:35you're
- 0:35more
- 0:35of
- 0:36the
- 0:36free
- 0:36spirit
- 0:37type
- 0:37that
- 0:38goes
- 0:38with
- 0:38the
- 0:39flow
- 0:39But
- 0:39then
- 0:39low-key
- 0:40wonders
- 0:41why
- 0:41the
- 0:41flow
- 0:42isn't
- 0:42getting
- 0:42you
- 0:43any
- 0:43closer
- 0:43to
- 0:43your
- 0:44dreams,
- 0:45or
- 0:45you
- 0:45fall
- 0:46somewhere
- 0:46in
- 0:46between.
- 0:47We're
- 0:48talking
- 0:48baby
- 0:49steps,
- 0:49bold
- 0:49moves,
- 0:50and
- 0:50everything
- 0:51in
- 0:51between.
- 0:52Because
- 0:52more
- 0:52than
- 0:53likely,
- 0:53there's
- 0:54some
- 0:54steps
- 0:55you've
- 0:55been
- 0:55avoiding,
- 0:56and
- 0:56that's
- 0:57exactly
- 0:58where
- 0:58the
- 0:58payoff
- 0:59lives.
- 1:00Now,
- 1:00it's
- 1:00time
- 1:01for
- 1:01us
- 1:01to
- 1:01bridge
- 1:02that
- 1:02gap.
- 1:02So
- 1:03let's
- 1:03get
- 1:04into
- 1:04it
- 1:06Hey,
- 1:06hey,
- 1:06hey
- 1:07friend.
- 1:07Let
- 1:07me
- 1:08formally
- 1:08welcome
- 1:09you.
- 1:09I'm
- 1:09Letitia,
- 1:10your
- 1:11identity
- 1:11shift
- 1:12coach
- 1:12and
- 1:12founder
- 1:13of
- 1:13Encourage
- 1:13Over
- 1:14Everything.
- 1:15You
- 1:15just
- 1:15found
- 1:15your
- 1:16favorite
- 1:16podcast.
- 1:18This
- 1:18is
- 1:18Confident
- 1:19and
- 1:19Empowered
- 1:19Women,
- 1:20and
- 1:20we
- 1:20are
- 1:20here
- 1:21every
- 1:21Tuesday
- 1:22and
- 1:22Thursday
- 1:23helping
- 1:23you
- 1:23step
- 1:24into
- 1:24your
- 1:24main
- 1:25character
- 1:25era.
- 1:26So
- 1:26hit
- 1:27subscribe
- 1:27so
- 1:27you
- 1:27are
- 1:28always
- 1:28in
- 1:29the
- 1:29room.
- 1:30And
- 1:30to
- 1:31my
- 1:31CEW,
- 1:32my
- 1:32confident,
- 1:33empowered
- 1:34women
- 1:34friends,
- 1:35Welcome
- 1:36back.
- 1:36Now
- 1:37that
- 1:37we
- 1:37are
- 1:37all
- 1:37gathered
- 1:38here
- 1:38today,
- 1:40let's
- 1:41go
- 1:43Okay,
- 1:43friend,
- 1:44this
- 1:44is
- 1:44one
- 1:45of
- 1:45those
- 1:45episodes
- 1:46where
- 1:46I
- 1:46may
- 1:47be
- 1:47telling
- 1:47on
- 1:47myself
- 1:48a
- 1:48little
- 1:48bit
- 1:48too
- 1:49much
- 1:49up
- 1:49and
- 1:49through
- 1:49here,
- 1:50so
- 1:50don't
- 1:51mind
- 1:51me.
- 1:54If
- 1:54you
- 1:55are
- 1:55like
- 1:55me
- 1:56and
- 1:56love
- 1:56a
- 1:56good
- 1:57plan,
- 1:57you
- 1:58are
- 1:58my
- 1:58people.
- 1:59We
- 2:00want
- 2:00every
- 2:00single
- 2:01step
- 2:01mapped
- 2:02out,
- 2:02color-coded,
- 2:03and
- 2:03fully
- 2:03negotiated
- 2:04before
- 2:05we
- 2:05take
- 2:05a
- 2:05single
- 2:06step.
- 2:09And
- 2:10I
- 2:10am
- 2:10convinced,
- 2:11and
- 2:11I
- 2:12mean
- 2:12absolutely
- 2:13convinced,
- 2:14that's
- 2:14exactly
- 2:15why
- 2:15God,
- 2:16source,
- 2:17universe,
- 2:17whom
- 2:18it
- 2:18is
- 2:18you
- 2:18believe
- 2:19in,
- 2:20never
- 2:20gives
- 2:20us
- 2:21the
- 2:21full
- 2:21plan.
- 2:24He
- 2:24already
- 2:25know
- 2:25what
- 2:25we
- 2:26gonna
- 2:26do
- 2:26with
- 2:26it.
- 2:29We
- 2:30are
- 2:30gonna
- 2:30sit
- 2:30down
- 2:31and
- 2:31let
- 2:32the
- 2:32negotiations
- 2:33begin.
- 2:33We
- 2:34wanna
- 2:34tell
- 2:34him
- 2:34what
- 2:35we
- 2:35will
- 2:35and
- 2:36won't
- 2:36do.
- 2:39And
- 2:39what's
- 2:39crazy
- 2:40is
- 2:40we
- 2:40already
- 2:41know
- 2:41he
- 2:42ain't
- 2:42here
- 2:42for
- 2:42none
- 2:43of
- 2:43the
- 2:43back
- 2:43and
- 2:43forth.
- 2:46He
- 2:47is
- 2:47like,
- 2:47"I'm
- 2:48not
- 2:48trying
- 2:48to
- 2:48hear
- 2:48that."
- 2:52And
- 2:52even
- 2:52when
- 2:53you
- 2:53do
- 2:53get
- 2:53a
- 2:53plan,
- 2:54he
- 2:54doesn't
- 2:55just
- 2:55wanna
- 2:55see
- 2:56how
- 2:56bad
- 2:56you
- 2:57want
- 2:57it,
- 2:58but
- 2:58are
- 2:58you
- 2:58willing
- 2:59to
- 2:59do
- 3:00what
- 3:00it
- 3:00takes
- 3:01to
- 3:01actually
- 3:02have
- 3:02it,
- 3:03including
- 3:04changing
- 3:05you?
- 3:06Because
- 3:06here's
- 3:07what
- 3:07I've
- 3:07noticed.
- 3:08We
- 3:08have
- 3:09the
- 3:09big,
- 3:09beautiful
- 3:10dreams
- 3:11We
- 3:11can
- 3:11see
- 3:12them,
- 3:12feel
- 3:13them,
- 3:13pray
- 3:13over
- 3:14them,
- 3:14declare
- 3:15them.
- 3:15But
- 3:16when
- 3:16it's
- 3:16time
- 3:17to
- 3:17actually
- 3:18become
- 3:18the
- 3:18version
- 3:19of
- 3:19us
- 3:19that
- 3:20the
- 3:20dream
- 3:20belongs
- 3:21to,
- 3:22we
- 3:22wanna
- 3:22negotiate.
- 3:23We
- 3:23want
- 3:24the
- 3:24dream,
- 3:25but
- 3:25without
- 3:26too
- 3:26much
- 3:26change
- 3:27on
- 3:27our
- 3:27part.
- 3:30We
- 3:30want
- 3:30the
- 3:30results
- 3:31without
- 3:31the
- 3:32release,
- 3:32the
- 3:32new
- 3:33life
- 3:33with
- 3:34our
- 3:34old
- 3:35habits
- 3:36still
- 3:36intact,
- 3:37and
- 3:37that's
- 3:38just
- 3:38not
- 3:38the
- 3:38way
- 3:39that
- 3:39it
- 3:39works.
- 3:40So
- 3:41here's
- 3:41the
- 3:41part
- 3:42of
- 3:42the
- 3:42show
- 3:42where
- 3:43I'm
- 3:44really
- 3:44talking
- 3:45to
- 3:45both
- 3:45of
- 3:45us,
- 3:46but
- 3:46take
- 3:47what
- 3:47is
- 3:47for
- 3:47you
- 3:48and
- 3:48leave
- 3:49the
- 3:49rest,
- 3:49okay,
- 3:50friend?
- 3:50This
- 3:51is
- 3:51the
- 3:52real
- 3:52talk
- 3:52straight
- 3:53up,
- 3:53no
- 3:54chaser,
- 3:54okay?
- 3:55We
- 3:56cannot
- 3:56keep
- 3:56eating
- 3:57the
- 3:57way
- 3:57that
- 3:57we
- 3:58do
- 3:58and
- 3:58wonder
- 3:58why
- 3:59our
- 3:59body
- 4:00isn't
- 4:00changing.
- 4:01And
- 4:01I
- 4:02say
- 4:02this
- 4:02with
- 4:02so
- 4:03much
- 4:04love
- 4:04because
- 4:05listen,
- 4:05if
- 4:05the
- 4:05drive-thru
- 4:06knows
- 4:07your
- 4:07order
- 4:07before
- 4:08you
- 4:08pull
- 4:08up
- 4:08to
- 4:08the
- 4:09speaker,
- 4:10we
- 4:10gotta
- 4:10dial
- 4:10that
- 4:11in.
- 4:16You
- 4:16can't
- 4:16keep
- 4:16staying
- 4:17up
- 4:17until
- 4:182:00
- 4:18AM
- 4:18in
- 4:18the
- 4:19wee
- 4:19hours
- 4:19of
- 4:19the
- 4:20morning
- 4:20and
- 4:20then
- 4:20wonder
- 4:21why
- 4:22you
- 4:22don't
- 4:22have
- 4:22enough
- 4:22energy
- 4:23to
- 4:23pour
- 4:24into
- 4:24your
- 4:24dream.
- 4:25You
- 4:25cannot
- 4:25keep
- 4:26saying
- 4:26you
- 4:27want
- 4:27a
- 4:27happy,
- 4:28healthy,
- 4:28committed
- 4:29relationship,
- 4:30but
- 4:31stay
- 4:31in
- 4:31a
- 4:31situationship
- 4:33with
- 4:33somebody
- 4:33who
- 4:34is
- 4:34the
- 4:34exact
- 4:35opposite
- 4:35of
- 4:36that
- 4:36when
- 4:36the
- 4:37only
- 4:37thing
- 4:37he
- 4:38has
- 4:38been
- 4:38committed
- 4:39to
- 4:39is
- 4:39to
- 4:40himself?
- 4:42Friend,
- 4:43it's
- 4:43time
- 4:43to
- 4:43recognize
- 4:44the
- 4:44pattern,
- 4:45and
- 4:45it's
- 4:45time
- 4:45to
- 4:46decide
- 4:46that
- 4:47you
- 4:47love
- 4:47yourself
- 4:48too
- 4:49much
- 4:49to
- 4:50stay.
- 4:51The
- 4:51dream
- 4:51requires
- 4:52a
- 4:52new
- 4:52version
- 4:53of
- 4:53you,
- 4:54and
- 4:54that
- 4:54new
- 4:54version,
- 4:55She
- 4:55doesn't
- 4:56just
- 4:56have
- 4:56new
- 4:57skill
- 4:57sets
- 4:57and
- 4:58competencies.
- 4:59She
- 4:59has
- 5:00shed
- 5:00the
- 5:01things
- 5:01that
- 5:01no
- 5:02longer
- 5:02serve
- 5:02her.
- 5:03She
- 5:03has
- 5:04released
- 5:04the
- 5:05habits,
- 5:05the
- 5:05relationships,
- 5:07the
- 5:07beliefs,
- 5:07the
- 5:08patterns
- 5:08that
- 5:08were
- 5:09voting
- 5:09against
- 5:10her.
- 5:11You
- 5:11cannot
- 5:11carry
- 5:12the
- 5:12old
- 5:13into
- 5:13the
- 5:13new
- 5:14and
- 5:14expect
- 5:15a
- 5:15different
- 5:15life.
- 5:16Something
- 5:17has
- 5:17to
- 5:17go
- 5:18The
- 5:18changes
- 5:19you
- 5:19need
- 5:19to
- 5:19make
- 5:20will
- 5:20always
- 5:21show
- 5:21up
- 5:21in
- 5:21your
- 5:22steps.
- 5:23Your
- 5:23steps
- 5:23be
- 5:24telling
- 5:24on
- 5:24you.
- 5:27They're
- 5:28always
- 5:28telling
- 5:28the
- 5:29story
- 5:29of
- 5:29who
- 5:30you
- 5:30are
- 5:31or
- 5:31if
- 5:31you're
- 5:32staying
- 5:32the
- 5:32same
- 5:33every
- 5:34single
- 5:34time.
- 5:35So
- 5:35let's
- 5:36talk
- 5:36about
- 5:36these
- 5:36steps,
- 5:37shall
- 5:37we?
- 5:38Listen,
- 5:38to
- 5:39know
- 5:39me
- 5:39is
- 5:40to
- 5:40know
- 5:40I
- 5:41am
- 5:41steps
- 5:41inclusive.
- 5:43I
- 5:43love
- 5:44all
- 5:44of
- 5:44the
- 5:44steps,
- 5:45okay?
- 5:45All
- 5:46steps
- 5:46count.
- 5:46The
- 5:47baby
- 5:47steps,
- 5:47the
- 5:48regular
- 5:48steps,
- 5:48the
- 5:49bold
- 5:49moves,
- 5:50all
- 5:50of
- 5:50it.
- 5:53Baby
- 5:54steps
- 5:54count.
- 5:55Please
- 5:55don't
- 5:55let
- 5:56anybody
- 5:56make
- 5:56you
- 5:57feel
- 5:57like
- 5:57your
- 5:57baby
- 5:58steps
- 5:58don't
- 5:58matter,
- 5:59because
- 6:00that
- 6:00is
- 6:00often
- 6:01where
- 6:01your
- 6:01consistency
- 6:03lives.
- 6:04Consistency
- 6:05is
- 6:05what
- 6:05builds
- 6:06momentum,
- 6:07and
- 6:07momentum
- 6:08is
- 6:08what
- 6:09builds
- 6:09the
- 6:09new
- 6:09you.
- 6:10The
- 6:10small
- 6:11daily
- 6:12actions
- 6:12that
- 6:13don't
- 6:13feel
- 6:13like
- 6:13much,
- 6:14they
- 6:14are
- 6:15compounding
- 6:16in
- 6:16ways
- 6:17you
- 6:17can't
- 6:17even
- 6:18see
- 6:18yet.
- 6:19So
- 6:19don't
- 6:19despise
- 6:20them.
- 6:20Don't
- 6:21rush
- 6:21past
- 6:22them.
- 6:22Your
- 6:22baby
- 6:23steps
- 6:23are
- 6:23building
- 6:24the
- 6:24foundation
- 6:25of
- 6:25everything,
- 6:26and
- 6:26they
- 6:26matter
- 6:27And
- 6:27bold
- 6:28moves
- 6:28count
- 6:28too.
- 6:29They
- 6:29got
- 6:29some
- 6:30weight
- 6:30on
- 6:30them
- 6:30Your
- 6:31steps
- 6:31and
- 6:32even
- 6:32the
- 6:32baby
- 6:33steps
- 6:33are
- 6:33building
- 6:34the
- 6:34foundation
- 6:35of
- 6:35everything.
- 6:36They
- 6:36matter.
- 6:37But
- 6:37them
- 6:37bold
- 6:37moves,
- 6:38they
- 6:39count
- 6:39as
- 6:39well,
- 6:40and
- 6:40they
- 6:40got
- 6:41a
- 6:41little
- 6:41weight
- 6:41to
- 6:42them,
- 6:42you
- 6:42know
- 6:42what
- 6:42I
- 6:42mean?
- 6:45And
- 6:46this
- 6:46right
- 6:46here
- 6:47is
- 6:47really
- 6:48where
- 6:48I
- 6:48need
- 6:48us
- 6:48to
- 6:49level
- 6:49up
- 6:49collectively.
- 6:51You
- 6:51may
- 6:51be
- 6:51good
- 6:52at
- 6:52the
- 6:52other
- 6:53steps,
- 6:53and
- 6:53now
- 6:54it's
- 6:54time
- 6:55to
- 6:55upgrade
- 6:56because
- 6:56bold
- 6:57moves
- 6:57have
- 6:57the
- 6:57ability
- 6:58to
- 6:58catapult
- 6:59you
- 7:00to
- 7:00the
- 7:00next
- 7:00level,
- 7:01just
- 7:01like
- 7:01a
- 7:02slingshot.
- 7:03These
- 7:03are
- 7:03the
- 7:03steps
- 7:03that
- 7:04are
- 7:04risky,
- 7:05the
- 7:05ones
- 7:05that
- 7:05make
- 7:05your
- 7:06heart
- 7:06race
- 7:06a
- 7:06little
- 7:07bit,
- 7:07where
- 7:07everything
- 7:08in
- 7:08you
- 7:09is
- 7:09scared,
- 7:10But
- 7:10you
- 7:10take
- 7:10them
- 7:11anyway
- 7:11because
- 7:12you
- 7:12know,
- 7:12you
- 7:13just
- 7:13know
- 7:14that
- 7:15betting
- 7:15on
- 7:15yourself
- 7:16is
- 7:16always
- 7:17the
- 7:18right
- 7:18move.
- 7:19And
- 7:19even
- 7:19if
- 7:20it
- 7:20doesn't
- 7:20go
- 7:21exactly
- 7:22the
- 7:22way
- 7:22you
- 7:22planned,
- 7:23You
- 7:23still
- 7:24win.
- 7:24You've
- 7:24shown
- 7:25yourself
- 7:26that
- 7:26you
- 7:26can
- 7:26do
- 7:26hard
- 7:27things,
- 7:28And
- 7:28that
- 7:28confidence
- 7:29cannot
- 7:29be
- 7:30bought.
- 7:30You
- 7:30build
- 7:31it
- 7:31one
- 7:32bold
- 7:32move
- 7:33at
- 7:33a
- 7:33time.
- 7:34So
- 7:35where
- 7:35are
- 7:35you
- 7:35taking
- 7:36leaps
- 7:36at,
- 7:36friend?
- 7:37Like
- 7:38actually
- 7:38leaping.
- 7:39As
- 7:40your
- 7:40coach,
- 7:40I
- 7:41wanna
- 7:41challenge
- 7:41you
- 7:42to
- 7:42plan
- 7:42at
- 7:42least
- 7:43four
- 7:43bold
- 7:43moves
- 7:44a
- 7:44year,
- 7:45one
- 7:45per
- 7:45quarter.
- 7:46Once
- 7:47a
- 7:47quarter,
- 7:47I
- 7:47want
- 7:48you
- 7:48to
- 7:48do
- 7:48something
- 7:48that
- 7:49really
- 7:50pushes
- 7:50you,
- 7:51something
- 7:51that
- 7:51the
- 7:52old
- 7:52version
- 7:52of
- 7:52you
- 7:53would've
- 7:54talked
- 7:54herself
- 7:54out
- 7:55of.
- 7:57and
- 7:57at
- 7:58the
- 7:58end
- 7:58of
- 7:58a
- 7:58year,
- 7:59you
- 7:59will
- 7:59have
- 8:00made
- 8:00four
- 8:00moves
- 8:02that
- 8:02change
- 8:02the
- 8:02trajectory
- 8:03of
- 8:04everything.
- 8:05Think
- 8:05about
- 8:05where
- 8:06you
- 8:06will
- 8:06be
- 8:06six
- 8:07months,
- 8:07a
- 8:07year
- 8:08from
- 8:08now
- 8:08if
- 8:08you
- 8:09commit
- 8:09to
- 8:09that
- 8:09right
- 8:10now
- 8:11And
- 8:11let
- 8:11me
- 8:11tell
- 8:11you
- 8:11why
- 8:12this
- 8:12matters
- 8:13beyond
- 8:13just
- 8:13results.
- 8:14When
- 8:15you
- 8:15challenge
- 8:15yourself,
- 8:16you
- 8:16are
- 8:16not
- 8:16at
- 8:17the
- 8:17mercy
- 8:17of
- 8:18whatever
- 8:18life
- 8:19decides
- 8:19to
- 8:19throw
- 8:19at
- 8:20you.
- 8:23You
- 8:23are
- 8:23intentionally
- 8:24curating
- 8:25your
- 8:25own
- 8:26evolution.
- 8:27This
- 8:28is
- 8:28co-creation
- 8:30at
- 8:30its
- 8:30finest.
- 8:31You
- 8:32and
- 8:32God,
- 8:33source,
- 8:33universe
- 8:34in
- 8:34the
- 8:34lab
- 8:35together
- 8:35building
- 8:36the
- 8:36version
- 8:36of
- 8:37you
- 8:37that
- 8:38the
- 8:38dream
- 8:38belongs
- 8:39to
- 8:39But
- 8:40listen,
- 8:40when
- 8:40you
- 8:41don't
- 8:41challenge
- 8:41yourself,
- 8:42life
- 8:43says,
- 8:43"Oh,
- 8:44okay.
- 8:45It's
- 8:45my
- 8:45job
- 8:45now.
- 8:46Got
- 8:46it."
- 8:49And
- 8:50life
- 8:50will
- 8:51serve
- 8:51you
- 8:51up
- 8:51with
- 8:52some
- 8:52randomness
- 8:54to
- 8:54push
- 8:54you,
- 8:55stretch
- 8:55you
- 8:55in
- 8:56ways
- 8:56that
- 8:56you
- 8:57probably
- 8:57won't
- 8:58enjoy.
- 9:00And
- 9:00that's
- 9:01putting
- 9:01it
- 9:01mildly.
- 9:02The
- 9:02difference
- 9:03is
- 9:03when
- 9:04life
- 9:04challenges
- 9:05you,
- 9:05you
- 9:05don't
- 9:06get
- 9:06to
- 9:06choose
- 9:06the
- 9:07terms
- 9:07and
- 9:07conditions.
- 9:08But
- 9:09when
- 9:09you
- 9:09challenge
- 9:09yourself,
- 9:10you
- 9:11do
- 9:11I've
- 9:11seen
- 9:12this
- 9:12so
- 9:12many
- 9:13times
- 9:13throughout
- 9:14my
- 9:14own
- 9:14life.
- 9:15More
- 9:15recently,
- 9:16it's
- 9:16showing
- 9:16up
- 9:17in
- 9:17this
- 9:17YouTube
- 9:18challenge.
- 9:19Posting
- 9:19daily
- 9:20has
- 9:20pushed
- 9:20me
- 9:21in
- 9:21ways
- 9:21I
- 9:22did
- 9:22not
- 9:22anticipate.
- 9:23It
- 9:24has
- 9:24required
- 9:24me
- 9:25to
- 9:25shed
- 9:25old
- 9:25stories
- 9:26about
- 9:26being
- 9:27seen.
- 9:27It's
- 9:28required
- 9:28consistency
- 9:29on
- 9:30days
- 9:30that
- 9:30I
- 9:31didn't
- 9:31feel
- 9:31like
- 9:31showing
- 9:31up.
- 9:32It
- 9:32has
- 9:33required
- 9:33bold
- 9:34moves,
- 9:34showing
- 9:35up
- 9:35on
- 9:35camera,
- 9:36and
- 9:37sharing
- 9:37things
- 9:38that
- 9:38I've
- 9:38never
- 9:39shared
- 9:39publicly
- 9:40in
- 9:40a
- 9:40visual
- 9:41way
- 9:42before
- 9:43And
- 9:43every
- 9:43single
- 9:44step,
- 9:44the
- 9:44baby
- 9:45moves,
- 9:46the
- 9:46bold
- 9:46moves,
- 9:47all
- 9:47of
- 9:47it
- 9:48has
- 9:48been
- 9:48pressurizing
- 9:49my
- 9:49own
- 9:50diamonds
- 9:51because
- 9:51that's
- 9:52what
- 9:52intentional
- 9:53challenge
- 9:53does.
- 9:54It
- 9:54applies
- 9:55pressure
- 9:55that
- 9:55turns
- 9:56what's
- 9:56inside
- 9:57of
- 9:57you
- 9:58into
- 9:58something
- 9:59brilliant
- 10:00You
- 10:00get
- 10:01to
- 10:01decide
- 10:02the
- 10:02pressure
- 10:02you
- 10:02apply.
- 10:03You
- 10:03get
- 10:03to
- 10:04see
- 10:04your
- 10:04limits
- 10:05and
- 10:05raise
- 10:05them.
- 10:06You
- 10:06get
- 10:07to
- 10:07set
- 10:07your
- 10:07sights
- 10:08on
- 10:08exactly
- 10:08how
- 10:09you
- 10:09wanna
- 10:09grow
- 10:09and
- 10:10lock
- 10:10in.
- 10:11And
- 10:12when
- 10:12you
- 10:12do
- 10:12that,
- 10:13when
- 10:13you
- 10:13initiate
- 10:14your
- 10:14own
- 10:14challenge,
- 10:15life
- 10:16doesn't
- 10:16have
- 10:17to
- 10:17pick
- 10:17on
- 10:17you
- 10:18nearly
- 10:18as
- 10:18much.
- 10:21This
- 10:22by
- 10:22no
- 10:22means
- 10:23makes
- 10:23us
- 10:23exempt,
- 10:25but
- 10:25because
- 10:25you
- 10:26are
- 10:26already
- 10:27in
- 10:27the
- 10:27work,
- 10:28you're
- 10:28already
- 10:28in
- 10:29process
- 10:29and
- 10:30already
- 10:30becoming
- 10:31who
- 10:31you
- 10:31are
- 10:31meant
- 10:31to
- 10:32be
- 10:32on
- 10:33purpose
- 10:34Life
- 10:34realizes
- 10:35it
- 10:36can
- 10:36kick
- 10:36back
- 10:36a
- 10:36little
- 10:36bit.
- 10:38By
- 10:38initiating
- 10:39your
- 10:39own
- 10:40challenge,
- 10:40you
- 10:41guide
- 10:41the
- 10:41change
- 10:42you
- 10:42want
- 10:42to
- 10:43see
- 10:44so
- 10:44you
- 10:44can
- 10:44create
- 10:44the
- 10:45change
- 10:45you
- 10:45wanna
- 10:45live
- 10:46out.
- 10:46This
- 10:47is
- 10:47not
- 10:47just
- 10:48goal-setting,
- 10:49friend.
- 10:49This
- 10:49is
- 10:50identity
- 10:50work.
- 10:51That
- 10:52is
- 10:52co-creation.
- 10:53That
- 10:53is
- 10:53you
- 10:54deciding
- 10:54that
- 10:54you
- 10:55are
- 10:55done
- 10:55waiting
- 10:56for
- 10:56life
- 10:56or
- 10:56things
- 10:57outside
- 10:58of
- 10:58you
- 10:58to
- 10:59move
- 10:59or
- 11:00change
- 11:01because
- 11:01you
- 11:01are
- 11:01going
- 11:02to
- 11:02move
- 11:02yourself.
- 11:03So
- 11:04the
- 11:04question
- 11:05isn't
- 11:05whether
- 11:05you
- 11:05want
- 11:06to
- 11:06change,
- 11:07you
- 11:07already
- 11:07said
- 11:08you
- 11:08do.
- 11:08The
- 11:08question
- 11:09is,
- 11:10are
- 11:10you
- 11:10willing
- 11:10to
- 11:11do
- 11:11what
- 11:11the
- 11:11change
- 11:13actually
- 11:13requires?
- 11:15Are
- 11:15you
- 11:15willing
- 11:15to
- 11:16release
- 11:16what's
- 11:16comfortable
- 11:17to
- 11:17make
- 11:17room
- 11:18for
- 11:18what's
- 11:18coming?
- 11:19Are
- 11:19you
- 11:19willing
- 11:20to
- 11:20take
- 11:20the
- 11:20bold
- 11:21move
- 11:21even
- 11:22when
- 11:22you're
- 11:22scared?
- 11:23Are
- 11:23you
- 11:23willing
- 11:24to
- 11:24be
- 11:24intentional
- 11:25enough
- 11:26about
- 11:27your
- 11:27own
- 11:27growth
- 11:28that
- 11:28life
- 11:28doesn't
- 11:29have
- 11:29to
- 11:29intervene?
- 11:30Because
- 11:30listen,
- 11:31all
- 11:31I
- 11:31know
- 11:32is
- 11:32the
- 11:32dream
- 11:33is
- 11:33waiting.
- 11:35And
- 11:36so
- 11:36is
- 11:36the
- 11:36version
- 11:37of
- 11:37you
- 11:37who
- 11:37already
- 11:38has
- 11:38it.
- 11:39She's
- 11:39not
- 11:39waiting
- 11:40on
- 11:40the
- 11:40plan.
- 11:41She's
- 11:41waiting
- 11:41for
- 11:42you
- 11:42to
- 11:43take
- 11:43the
- 11:43step
- 11:47Friend,
- 11:47wanna
- 11:47go
- 11:47deeper
- 11:48on
- 11:48today's
- 11:49episode?
- 11:50I
- 11:50have
- 11:50journal
- 11:50prompts
- 11:51waiting
- 11:51for
- 11:51you
- 11:52in
- 11:52the
- 11:52show
- 11:53notes.
- 11:53They
- 11:54will
- 11:54help
- 11:54you
- 11:54get
- 11:54clear
- 11:55on
- 11:55what
- 11:56to
- 11:56release,
- 11:56what
- 11:57bold
- 11:57move
- 11:57is
- 11:58calling
- 11:58your
- 11:58name
- 11:58this
- 11:59quarter,
- 11:59and
- 12:00how
- 12:00to
- 12:00start
- 12:01intentionally
- 12:02curating
- 12:03your
- 12:03own
- 12:04evolution.
- 12:05The
- 12:05link
- 12:05is
- 12:05in
- 12:05the
- 12:05show
- 12:06notes,
- 12:06so
- 12:06grab
- 12:07it,
- 12:07because
- 12:07this
- 12:08has
- 12:08your
- 12:09next
- 12:09step
- 12:09written
- 12:10all
- 12:10over
- 12:10it
- 12:14Okay,
- 12:14you
- 12:14already
- 12:15know
- 12:15we
- 12:15don't
- 12:15just
- 12:16take
- 12:16in
- 12:16information
- 12:17around
- 12:18here,
- 12:18we
- 12:19apply
- 12:19it.
- 12:20So
- 12:20here's
- 12:21our
- 12:21favorite
- 12:22self-love
- 12:23two-step
- 12:23with
- 12:24the
- 12:24remix.
- 12:26Step
- 12:27one,
- 12:28release.
- 12:29I
- 12:29want
- 12:30you
- 12:30to
- 12:30get
- 12:30honest
- 12:30about
- 12:31one
- 12:31thing
- 12:32you
- 12:32are
- 12:32holding
- 12:33onto
- 12:34that
- 12:34directly
- 12:35contradicts
- 12:37what
- 12:37you
- 12:37say
- 12:37you
- 12:38want.
- 12:38Not
- 12:39just
- 12:39a
- 12:39skill
- 12:40you
- 12:40need
- 12:40to
- 12:41gain,
- 12:42something
- 12:42you
- 12:42need
- 12:42to
- 12:43shed,
- 12:44a
- 12:44habit,
- 12:45a
- 12:45pattern,
- 12:45a
- 12:45relationship,
- 12:47a
- 12:47story
- 12:47you
- 12:48keep
- 12:48telling
- 12:48yourself.
- 12:49Name
- 12:50it,
- 12:50And
- 12:50then
- 12:50make
- 12:51the
- 12:51decision
- 12:51today,
- 12:52not
- 12:52someday,
- 12:53but
- 12:54today
- 12:55to
- 12:55let
- 12:56it
- 12:56go
- 12:57because
- 12:58your
- 12:58dreams
- 12:59need
- 12:59space
- 13:00and
- 13:01she
- 13:01needs
- 13:02your
- 13:02vote
- 13:03Step
- 13:03two,
- 13:04build.
- 13:05I
- 13:05want
- 13:06you
- 13:06to
- 13:06identify
- 13:07your
- 13:07next
- 13:08bold
- 13:08move,
- 13:09not
- 13:09your
- 13:09baby
- 13:10step.
- 13:10You
- 13:10are
- 13:11already
- 13:11doing
- 13:11those,
- 13:12okay?
- 13:14Your
- 13:14next
- 13:15bold
- 13:15move,
- 13:16the
- 13:16one
- 13:16that
- 13:16scares
- 13:17you
- 13:17a
- 13:17little
- 13:17bit,
- 13:18the
- 13:18one
- 13:18you've
- 13:19been
- 13:19talking
- 13:19yourself
- 13:20out
- 13:20of,
- 13:20okay?
- 13:21Write
- 13:21it
- 13:22down,
- 13:22give
- 13:22it
- 13:22a
- 13:22deadline,
- 13:23and
- 13:23then
- 13:24do
- 13:24it
- 13:25because
- 13:26that's
- 13:26where
- 13:27the
- 13:27next
- 13:27level
- 13:28version
- 13:28of
- 13:28you
- 13:29lives,
- 13:30on
- 13:30the
- 13:30other
- 13:31side
- 13:31of
- 13:32the
- 13:32move
- 13:32that
- 13:32you
- 13:32keep
- 13:33putting
- 13:33off.
- 13:35And
- 13:35then
- 13:35the
- 13:36you
- 13:36step.
- 13:36You
- 13:37get
- 13:37still,
- 13:38you
- 13:38get
- 13:38quiet,
- 13:39and
- 13:39you
- 13:39ask
- 13:39yourself,
- 13:40"What
- 13:40is
- 13:41the
- 13:41next
- 13:41right
- 13:42aligned
- 13:42step
- 13:43for
- 13:43me
- 13:44to
- 13:44take?"
- 13:45Not
- 13:45the
- 13:45whole
- 13:45plan,
- 13:46just
- 13:47the
- 13:47next
- 13:47move.
- 13:48Trust
- 13:49her,
- 13:49friend.
- 13:50She
- 13:50already
- 13:50knows
- 13:52Now
- 13:52let
- 13:52me
- 13:52pour
- 13:53into
- 13:53you
- 13:53real
- 13:54quick.
- 13:54The
- 13:55dream
- 13:56is
- 13:56not
- 13:56waiting
- 13:57on
- 13:57the
- 13:57plan.
- 13:57It's
- 13:58waiting
- 13:58on
- 13:58you,
- 13:59the
- 13:59version
- 13:59of
- 13:59you
- 14:00who
- 14:00is
- 14:00willing
- 14:01to
- 14:01change,
- 14:02not
- 14:02just
- 14:03add
- 14:03some
- 14:03new
- 14:03skills
- 14:04and
- 14:04check
- 14:05some
- 14:05boxes,
- 14:05but
- 14:06actually
- 14:07shed
- 14:07what
- 14:08no
- 14:08longer
- 14:08serves
- 14:09you
- 14:10and
- 14:11step
- 14:11boldly
- 14:12into
- 14:12who
- 14:12you
- 14:13are
- 14:13becoming
- 14:14You
- 14:15are
- 14:15pressurizing
- 14:16your
- 14:16own
- 14:17diamonds
- 14:17right
- 14:18now.
- 14:18Every
- 14:19step,
- 14:19baby
- 14:20step,
- 14:20bold
- 14:21move,
- 14:21everything
- 14:22you
- 14:22release,
- 14:23every
- 14:24standard
- 14:25you
- 14:25hold,
- 14:26it
- 14:26is
- 14:26all
- 14:27applying
- 14:27the
- 14:27pressure
- 14:28that
- 14:29is
- 14:29turning
- 14:29what's
- 14:30inside
- 14:30of
- 14:30you
- 14:30into
- 14:31something
- 14:31extraordinary.
- 14:33Don't
- 14:34stop
- 14:35now.
- 14:36Avoid
- 14:36that
- 14:36step,
- 14:37avoid
- 14:38the
- 14:38payoff.
- 14:39And
- 14:39friend,
- 14:40we've
- 14:40been
- 14:40avoiding
- 14:40it
- 14:41for
- 14:41way
- 14:41too
- 14:42long.
- 14:42Challenge
- 14:43yourself
- 14:43before
- 14:44life
- 14:44decides
- 14:45to
- 14:45do
- 14:45it
- 14:45for
- 14:46you.
- 14:47Initiate
- 14:48your
- 14:48own
- 14:49evolution.
- 14:50Guide
- 14:50the
- 14:50change
- 14:51you
- 14:51want
- 14:51to
- 14:52see
- 14:52This
- 14:53is
- 14:53not
- 14:53just
- 14:53creating
- 14:54a
- 14:54plan,
- 14:55following
- 14:55some
- 14:55steps,
- 14:56and
- 14:56checking
- 14:56things
- 14:57off
- 14:57your
- 14:57list.
- 14:58This
- 14:59is
- 14:59an
- 14:59identity
- 15:00shift.
- 15:01This
- 15:01is
- 15:02you
- 15:02being
- 15:03who
- 15:03you
- 15:03say
- 15:04you
- 15:04want
- 15:05to
- 15:05be
- 15:06And
- 15:06for
- 15:06where
- 15:06you're
- 15:07going,
- 15:07you
- 15:07gonna
- 15:07need
- 15:08the
- 15:08steps,
- 15:08the
- 15:08baby
- 15:09steps,
- 15:09and
- 15:09the
- 15:09bold
- 15:10moves,
- 15:10friend.
- 15:10You
- 15:10gonna
- 15:11need
- 15:11it
- 15:11all.
- 15:14Guide
- 15:15the
- 15:15change
- 15:16you
- 15:16want
- 15:16to
- 15:16see
- 15:17so
- 15:17you
- 15:18can
- 15:18live
- 15:18the
- 15:18change
- 15:19that
- 15:19you
- 15:19wanna
- 15:20experience,
- 15:21because
- 15:21the
- 15:21life
- 15:22you
- 15:22are
- 15:22dreaming
- 15:23of,
- 15:23it
- 15:24is
- 15:24not
- 15:24just
- 15:24gonna
- 15:25show
- 15:25up
- 15:25for
- 15:25the
- 15:25old
- 15:26version
- 15:26of
- 15:26you.
- 15:27It
- 15:27is
- 15:27waiting
- 15:28for
- 15:28the
- 15:28one
- 15:29you
- 15:29are
- 15:29becoming.
- 15:30So
- 15:31take
- 15:31the
- 15:31step,
- 15:32make
- 15:32the
- 15:32move,
- 15:33bet
- 15:33on
- 15:33yourself,
- 15:35Because
- 15:35eventually,
- 15:36and
- 15:36I
- 15:37promise
- 15:37you
- 15:37this,
- 15:38you
- 15:39will
- 15:39win.
- 15:40Because
- 15:41when
- 15:41you
- 15:42are
- 15:42doing
- 15:42your
- 15:42part,
- 15:43it
- 15:43becomes
- 15:44inevitable.
- 15:47Friend,
- 15:48I
- 15:48could
- 15:48not
- 15:49be
- 15:49more
- 15:49proud
- 15:50of
- 15:50you,
- 15:51and
- 15:51I
- 15:51can't
- 15:52wait
- 15:52for
- 15:52you
- 15:52to
- 15:53fill
- 15:53me
- 15:53in
- 15:54on
- 15:54the
- 15:54bold
- 15:54moves
- 15:55you
- 15:56are
- 15:56taking.
- 15:57Whatever
- 15:57that
- 15:57step
- 15:58is
- 15:58that
- 15:58you've
- 15:59been
- 15:59avoiding,
- 16:00that
- 16:00is
- 16:00where
- 16:01one
- 16:01of
- 16:01your
- 16:01biggest
- 16:03payoffs
- 16:04is
- 16:04waiting
- 16:04for
- 16:05you
- 16:06right
- 16:06on
- 16:07the
- 16:07other
- 16:07side
- 16:07of
- 16:07it.
- 16:08And
- 16:08friend,
- 16:09I
- 16:09couldn't
- 16:09be
- 16:09more
- 16:10proud
- 16:10of
- 16:11you
- 16:11for
- 16:11doing
- 16:12your
- 16:12work
- 16:13today.
- 16:13I
- 16:13love
- 16:14you
- 16:14so
- 16:14much,
- 16:14and
- 16:15I'm
- 16:15cheering
- 16:15for
- 16:15you
- 16:16loud
- 16:16and
- 16:16obnoxiously
- 16:17always.
- 16:20And
- 16:20your
- 16:21shift
- 16:21starts
- 16:22right
- 16:22now