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- 0:01Today on the podcast, I'm going to share a conversation that I
- 0:05had with a very talented creative, a creative individual.
- 0:11And in the conversation, I was trying to ground this guy in
- 0:15reality because sometimes I think creatives, not just
- 0:21Nigerian creatives, you know, sometimes creatives, you know,
- 0:23you guys, your, your head is in the clouds and you're not
- 0:26thinking straight. And it's one of the reasons why
- 0:28you're not making progress in your business.
- 0:33So of course there's a conversation with a guy who, you
- 0:36know, the usual now is getting at the time we had this
- 0:39conversation was getting to the end of the year in 2025.
- 0:42We're currently in January of 2026.
- 0:45So, you know, creatives, they're going through that whole, you
- 0:48know, new year, new me, new business, new growth, new this,
- 0:53new that, or sometimes a lot of the reasons why you creators are
- 0:58not making progress. You know, you're a photographer,
- 1:01you're a video person, you're a painter, you're a sculptor, you
- 1:04are a you know, whatever part of the reasons why you're making
- 1:08progress in your business is because you're not thinking
- 1:10clearly about a couple of things.
- 1:14Now, if you love talking about these sorts of issues, then
- 1:16subscribe to the podcast on Spotify, on YouTube, on Apple or
- 1:19any player of your choice. My name is Tamashima Ayede, I'm
- 1:23a former lawyer turned business consultant and if you'd love to
- 1:27connect with me, you can call, send me a text message or
- 1:30WhatsApp message on 08064662140. So like I said, there's a
- 1:40conversation between me and a creative Niger guy and I'm
- 1:45trying to ground them in reality.
- 1:48Now. This is the guy's dilemma.
- 1:51The guy reached out to me because he listened to a podcast
- 1:54episode I recorded on the selling outcomes and not
- 1:59features. For those of you who are new to
- 2:02the podcast and you don't understand what that means, when
- 2:05I made that podcast episode, this is what I was trying to
- 2:07hint at. There are too many of you who
- 2:10when you sell your product, you're trying to sell features.
- 2:13For instance, I got a keyboard for my kids and I was like maybe
- 2:182 years back. And the mistake that some of you
- 2:22make when you sell musical equipment is you start talking
- 2:24about features. You say this thing has 88 keys,
- 2:28this thing is touch sensitive, whatever.
- 2:31This thing has 52 programmable sounds.
- 2:35Therefore, those of you who sell guitars is the same thing.
- 2:38This is a Fender. So, so, so, so this is a Gibson.
- 2:42So, so, so, and so. It has a hamburger pickup, it
- 2:44has a this, it has a that, it has, you know, 52 tones.
- 2:49It has this, this, you know, you keep going on about features,
- 2:52about features, about features and in Niger that is the typical
- 2:56way that we know how to sell. Buy this fan.
- 2:59This is the latest Binatone fan. You can see that it is 5 speed.
- 3:03Look at this thing, it is made with graphite.
- 3:06It is extra light. You see The thing is very, very
- 3:08stylish and in fact we are doing a promo right now.
- 3:12If you buy 3, you get 1 free. All those sorts of things,
- 3:17selling based on features, but to be successful in selling and
- 3:22in your business, you need to be able to learn how to sell on
- 3:24outcomes because somebody who buys something from you is not
- 3:27buying features. The person is buying outcomes.
- 3:30Of the people that I spoke to, only one person asked me, why do
- 3:33you want to buy this keyboard? When I said I want to buy for my
- 3:37kids, the person now said, oh cool, you want your children to
- 3:40learn. It is advisable that if they're
- 3:43going to learn, if you can afford it, you should buy a
- 3:46piano that has a full set of keys so they get used to it.
- 3:49Now you can see the person is selling based on outcomes.
- 3:54Other people were saying buy this thing because it has 88
- 3:57keys. For someone like me who's a
- 3:59novice when it comes to keyboards, because I don't know
- 4:03anything about keyboards because I started off playing guitar, so
- 4:07I know guitar, but I don't know keyboards.
- 4:09If you don't say this thing has 88 keys, like how, how am I
- 4:12supposed to know what that means?
- 4:15So a lot of you are not moving market because you're selling
- 4:17features, not outcomes. So back to the Binauto thing.
- 4:21You don't just say this fan is made of graphite.
- 4:25You say, Madam, see this fan graphite very, very light.
- 4:30So that means if you ever have to move it from room to room,
- 4:33you don't have to look for the house board to carry for you.
- 4:35This thing is very light. You're speaking in terms of
- 4:38outcomes. Somebody's not just buying a
- 4:43graphite fan for the sake of the fact that it is graphite.
- 4:48The same thing with guitars in Nigeria.
- 4:52People who sell guitars, they always talk about the brand
- 4:55name. This is a Fender, this is a
- 4:56Stratocaster, this is a Gibson. This is it this this is it that.
- 5:01But I'm glad I bought my guitars while I lived in the UK.
- 5:07So currently I don't have my guitars anymore.
- 5:08I sold them all, but I'm glad that I went through that
- 5:12experience in the UK because was a master class in learning how
- 5:14to sell because they're hundreds of guitars in the guitars the
- 5:20guitar store outside walking and the guys like, sure, we can help
- 5:23you out. They didn't ask me which kind of
- 5:25guitar are you interested in. They didn't ask me what's your
- 5:27budget. The guy asked me what kind of
- 5:30music do you like or what kind of music are you hoping to play?
- 5:36And that is what guided us looking at guitars, whether
- 5:39acoustic or electric or steel, steel slide and on and on and
- 5:45on. So the creative who reached out
- 5:52to me was after he listened to that podcast because he liked
- 5:54what he heard about selling outcomes and not features.
- 6:00So remember, whatever business you're involved in, we are
- 6:02selling results, we are selling outcomes.
- 6:05We don't sell features. So let's say buy this Toyota
- 6:09because it's red or don't buy this, don't buy this Tesla
- 6:13because it's purple. Don't.
- 6:16Don't sell based on features, you sell based on outcomes.
- 6:20The person who's having the conversation with you wants to
- 6:22achieve a certain outcomes with this purchase.
- 6:25Have a conversation with the person, try and figure out what
- 6:27the outcomes are and then you now align with that as best as
- 6:30you can. So back to the keyboard thing.
- 6:34This keyboard that I bought will always have 88 keys, will never
- 6:37change 88 keys, some have 55 keys.
- 6:41Your goal is to figure out what the person wants and then blend
- 6:44it with what the person needs. So in my own case, the man said
- 6:50if you can't afford it, it will be nice to start off with a
- 6:53system that has a full set of keys so that your children are
- 6:56used to it when they play in the future.
- 6:58And then we started talking based on 88 keys.
- 7:04For some other person, the attitude would be it's not a
- 7:07starter keyboard. I don't want to waste money on
- 7:09this thing. In that case, you will now say,
- 7:11oh, that's not a problem. Ignore this one of the 88 keys.
- 7:15Here are the keyboards that have 55 keys.
- 7:17You know they can learn based on that and you know blah, blah,
- 7:19blah, blah, blah. But you don't just wait when
- 7:24somebody shows up, you now start vomiting features on them.
- 7:26OK, buy this keyboard 55 keys ivory battery powered electric
- 7:31disc dot dot dot finger weighted something something especially
- 7:38if you're selling to a novice. All these features mean nothing
- 7:41to someone who's buying for the first time anyway.
- 7:45So basically, that's how this creative guy, that's how he
- 7:50discovered me and he'd been listening to the podcast.
- 7:53Now this fellow, the creative, he considers himself a multi
- 7:58potentialite. I have a problem with you
- 8:00people. I won't lie.
- 8:02Multi creative, multi hyphenated, multi potentialite,
- 8:08multi dis, multi dis multi that look, you will love yourself too
- 8:12much. Relax, relax.
- 8:16It's not about being good at, you know, 1520.
- 8:19You know different things. Can you be good at one thing?
- 8:22You know well enough so that we can tell you that make some
- 8:24money. So you have multi potentialite.
- 8:26And so this guy that reached out, he's good at music, he's
- 8:29good at painting, he's good at fashion, he's good at acting,
- 8:32he's good at writing. And so yes, you have all the
- 8:35talent, you know everything. But this is business here.
- 8:38We're trying to put money in your pocket.
- 8:39What does it profit you? If you're good at music, good at
- 8:42painting, good at fashion, good at acting, good at writing, good
- 8:45at dancing, good at everything, but then you can't put some
- 8:48money in your pocket. I'm a talented guy myself.
- 8:54And trust me, if you're talented of the, you understand what I'm
- 8:58saying. As in you're not lacking for
- 9:00talent. But in pocket is always empty.
- 9:04The children say don't want to buy ice cream you say because
- 9:08you don't have money. You shout on them.
- 9:12You're struggling to pay school fees.
- 9:14You can't load data on your phone.
- 9:18Who fueling your car is a problem?
- 9:21Then what is all this talent doing for you?
- 9:25You multi potentialite. Relax.
- 9:28You need to settle down and pick one.
- 9:32We can't start off by doing music and by doing painting and
- 9:37by doing fashion and by doing acting and by doing dancing and
- 9:40by doing writing. We can't.
- 9:44We have to stand somewhere. If you try to do it all, you
- 9:48will be overwhelmed and you won't know how to market
- 9:50yourself effectively. Think about it now.
- 9:53How is this guy supposed to market himself as a dancer, as a
- 9:56musician, as a painter, as a fashionista, as an actor and as
- 10:01a writer? How will you market yourself?
- 10:04Let's be practical now you want to buy adverts on the radio, How
- 10:07you advertise yourself. You want to start posting on
- 10:10LinkedIn. What kind of posts will you
- 10:12write? You want to start posting on
- 10:14Instagram, What kind of posts are you going to create?
- 10:16How you will overwhelm yourselves and you'll be able to
- 10:20market yourself effectively. So that's one thing you multi
- 10:27potentialize multi creatives, multi hyphenate, multi
- 10:32something, something. What's the one that used to call
- 10:34themselves again, something man, something Renaissance,
- 10:40Renaissance man, Renaissance woman.
- 10:43You should calm down. 252025 didn't work because you're not
- 10:48focused. You're trying to do it all when
- 10:512026, now 2026 is not going to work if you are not focused.
- 10:57Pick one. We have to stand somewhere.
- 11:01It doesn't matter who you like, if you like.
- 11:04What's his name? Is it Gregory Hynes?
- 11:07I think was was it Gregory Hynes?
- 11:08I can't remember. This black guy that used to tap
- 11:10dance. He didn't start doing tap
- 11:12dancing and then acting and then jazz music and everything on day
- 11:15one. He started from somewhere and
- 11:17then career evolved. The same thing with this guy
- 11:22that produced Michael Jackson's album I was the guy's name
- 11:25again, Quincy Jones. Aha.
- 11:28Quincy Jones did not start jazz, then start pop music, then start
- 11:34big band music and start eating to it all on the same day.
- 11:37I think he started off as a trumpeter.
- 11:40Yeah, I think he started off as a trumpeter, You know, before
- 11:42big band music, then before scoring movies and before, you
- 11:45know, small, small, small. You don't just do everything on
- 11:48day one. So creatives multi, have multi,
- 11:53potentialite, multi, dis multi, that multi, whatever, whatever,
- 11:59whatever. If you're not happy with how
- 12:012025 turned out, 2026, pick one. We have to start from somewhere.
- 12:08As a salesperson, I'm telling you, even if you paid me a
- 12:10million naira, I don't even know how to start marketing you.
- 12:13It's too much. What is the messaging supposed
- 12:16to be? I don't know the targeting, what
- 12:19we're supposed to, what we're running advertisements, What are
- 12:21we supposed to be targeting in the ad campaign?
- 12:23I don't know. It's too wide, as in from a very
- 12:25practical or tactical point of view.
- 12:28I don't know what the next step is.
- 12:31You have to pick 1. So 1 moment.
- 12:33It's hard to sell here. Let me just I hope the noise
- 12:38doesn't come. All the noise doesn't come in
- 12:42too much on the microphone. All right, so where was I?
- 12:48OK, so I was talking about how we ought to be.
- 12:51We multi talented people, we ought to be focused, targeted.
- 13:02The next thing. I was trying to give this guy
- 13:05one reality check on it to ground him because the guy was
- 13:09talking a lot about his dreams and I'm trying to.
- 13:12Whenever I'm talking to people who consider themselves artists,
- 13:14creatives, whatever, I tried to get them quickly from dreaming
- 13:18to doing because dreaming is very, very easy.
- 13:23Anybody can dream. I can sit down and dream all
- 13:25day, but the problem is if we want to see progress, we
- 13:28actually have to start doing. So we have to move from dreaming
- 13:34to doing very, very quickly. So I wanted to get this guy
- 13:41focused. I told him, OK, all these fancy
- 13:43ideas, OK, we've picked a couple, so this is what we're
- 13:46going to do. You need to write down a list of
- 13:4810 people, whether they're friends, they're family members,
- 13:51or associates, and you have to go and pitch one or two ideas to
- 13:54them. This is not just a matter of
- 13:57thinking or dreaming anymore. Write up a list of 10 people who
- 14:01might be interested in the product, might be interested in
- 14:03the service, might be interested in the collaboration, and then
- 14:06go and start talking to those people.
- 14:08Sitting down and dreaming is not going to get you anywhere.
- 14:11If you are a multi creative, multi talented, multi
- 14:14hyphenated, multi, this renaissance man, renaissance
- 14:17woman, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah genius.
- 14:21You know how you spent all of 2025 dreaming and you're not
- 14:24happy with how it went. 2026 is going to turn out the same way.
- 14:28If you spend all your time dreaming.
- 14:31Narrow it down. Then come up with a list. 10
- 14:34people, friends, family, associates.
- 14:36Go and start pitching your idea, your product, your service, your
- 14:40collaboration, your you know, whatever it is you want to do an
- 14:45exhibition, draw up a list of 10 museums.
- 14:48I say museums, 10 art galleries or 10 art collectors or 10, you
- 14:52know, whatever in your city. I go and start talking to
- 14:54people. You can't just sit down in your
- 14:57room and start dreaming and then you're going to manifest a
- 14:59successful creative career. It is not going to happen.
- 15:03Write a list. Stop thinking about networking.
- 15:10Go and do networking. Anyway.
- 15:16The good thing about that session with the artist, and you
- 15:18know, I mentioned it on a former podcast episode, was this guy
- 15:22thought he had a big, big network.
- 15:23When he started putting it down to paper, all those many, many
- 15:26people he thought were on his network.
- 15:28It turns out he only has two people now.
- 15:30We know the work that needs to be done.
- 15:33You can see that the talent is not the problem.
- 15:35You can be a talented individual, but at the end of
- 15:38the day, when it comes to planning your art career,
- 15:41selling some paintings, organizing an exhibition,
- 15:45organizing a music show, organizing a whatever, if true,
- 15:49true, true, you only have two people in your corner.
- 15:51How are you going to do it? Which successful business has
- 15:54been built on the back back of only two customers or two
- 15:56collaborators? It's not going to happen.
- 15:59You creatives, you multi talented, multi hyphenated,
- 16:03multi water, whatever. I hope you guys are listening.
- 16:05I hope you can see why 2025 didn't work for you and what you
- 16:08need to do in 2026 to move things forward.
- 16:13So my business advice to him, in case I haven't figured it out,
- 16:16was quite simple. There are a couple of red flags
- 16:18we need to deal with #1 there's a niche problem.
- 16:21You need to niche down. You're trying to launch music,
- 16:25you're trying to launch fashion brand, you're trying to launch
- 16:27this, you're trying to launch that, You're trying to do all of
- 16:30it at the same time. Guy, it's too much.
- 16:33Business is hard. It is hard to build 1 business.
- 16:38Ask anybody who has tried. Take pure water.
- 16:42There are people who try to do pure water business and have
- 16:44failed. If doing pure water business
- 16:46alone is hard enough, think about when you're now trying to
- 16:48do pure water business, then you're trying to add suya
- 16:51business, then you're trying to add restaurant business, then
- 16:54you're trying to add taxi business, then you're now trying
- 16:56to add real estate to do all of them at the same time.
- 16:59Business is hard. Make things easy for yourself in
- 17:02the beginning. Start somewhere.
- 17:04News now small. It is hard to validate 2345
- 17:10different businesses at the same time.
- 17:12Pick one lane to start first, then another.
- 17:16Red flag. When we're trying to grow our
- 17:20sales, when we're trying to move forward, when we're trying to
- 17:23build a career or whatever, whether we like it or not, we
- 17:26need numbers. As our sales is important, we
- 17:29need numbers. We need the business list, the
- 17:32contacting lists, the prospect list, whatever.
- 17:36We need numbers. Two people is not enough.
- 17:40If you only have two people in your corner, then the two of you
- 17:43need to sit down. The three of you are come up
- 17:45with a plan for how you're going to reach out to more people.
- 17:47You need numbers. You're not going to have a
- 17:49successful art exhibition if you only know two people.
- 17:52You need numbers. You're not going to be able to,
- 17:57you know, pull off your dance production, whatever.
- 17:59If you only know 2 art directors or two dance directors, you need
- 18:03numbers. You need to reach out to people.
- 18:06You need to reach out to people. You need numbers.
- 18:09This is business. You need the numbers.
- 18:13Should I repeat it again just in case somebody hasn't gotten the
- 18:17point? You need numbers.
- 18:24So I gave this guy some homework because this guy loves Quincy
- 18:28Jones. He really loves Quincy Jones.
- 18:30Of course, who doesn't love Quincy Jones now like Quincy
- 18:32Jones? Not my guy.
- 18:34When it comes to the horn, the guy is correct.
- 18:36It's on point when it comes to producing Big Bang music is on
- 18:42point. The Michael Jackson album, in
- 18:44fact, the first time I heard that I think was Thriller.
- 18:47The first time I heard that was Quincy Jones that produced
- 18:49Thriller. I said no lie.
- 18:50I said it's not possible. I said Quincy Jones is a jazz
- 18:53man, how can he produce Thriller, Michael Jackson's
- 18:56Thriller? I say no lie until I saw the
- 18:59document documentary myself and I saw Quincy Jones in studio
- 19:03with Michael Jackson. That is when I believe I say OK,
- 19:07true, true. Now Quincy Jones produced this
- 19:09album. I was shocked because I know
- 19:13Quincy Jones from his jazz background.
- 19:16So I told this guy, now this creative, I said, so you like
- 19:19Quincy Jones? I mean good.
- 19:22Go and look at Quincy Jones as a case study.
- 19:25Quincy Jones was a master of many things.
- 19:27He did jazz, he did music for films and he also did pop music.
- 19:33I told him go and look at Quincy Jones.
- 19:34See how Quincy Jones built his network or see how Quincy Jones
- 19:38was validating one idea after another.
- 19:41Go and study Quincy Jones. Whatever Smithy Jones did, come
- 19:44back and tell me this is what we're going to do in your own
- 19:47particular case. So for those of you who are
- 19:51multi potential, multi hyphenate, multi talented,
- 19:54multi, whatever, there's somebody that you respect.
- 19:58Go and sit down, do some small research.
- 20:00This guy that I respect, how the guy take blow.
- 20:06Write down the pattern, then we'll now model one or two
- 20:08things. It will help you.
- 20:10It will help give structure to your ideas and structure to your
- 20:14execution. I'm not saying just copy
- 20:16blindly, but I'm just saying if you're a multi, hyphenate,
- 20:21multi, talented, multi, whatever.
- 20:22And let's say you love Arnold Schwarzenegger because Arnold
- 20:26Schwarzenegger was a bodybuilder, then he became an
- 20:28actor, then he became a businessman, then he became
- 20:30governor. So if you like it, sit down, go
- 20:33and study Arnold Schwarzenegger. What was the pattern?
- 20:37How did he do it? There will be one or two things
- 20:40we can learn and one or two things you can execute to help
- 20:43you on the way. I'm not saying well, copy
- 20:46Schwarzenegger. I'm not saying that if you love
- 20:48the guy, you respect the guy. Well, study the guy.
- 20:50You will learn one or two things.
- 20:52He will help you. Execution is the key.
- 20:57And again, in Schwarzenegger's case, he didn't do everything at
- 20:59the same time. He didn't do governor at the
- 21:01same time as bodybuilding as the same time as acting as the same
- 21:05time as business. It was step by step.
- 21:07Oh, and by the way, Schwarzenegger was a bricklayer
- 21:09for a while. So ties people like to think
- 21:14like this thing comes easy or more is work because while he's
- 21:18doing bodybuilding you guys to pay the bills now how you pay
- 21:21the bills for him was bricklayer at work and some of you feel too
- 21:25fancy. This guy, I think was it Prince.
- 21:32I think Prince did cleaning work used to go and be cleaning
- 21:36cleaning studio brew my mop vacuum cleaner be washing
- 21:39toilet. They will be feeling too fancy.
- 21:46You love your art. You're not willing to suffer for
- 21:48it. Meanwhile, you're heroes.
- 21:50See what they're doing. Washing toilet, Doing bricklayer
- 21:52work. If you have too many ideas,
- 21:59honestly it's the same as having no idea.
- 22:01Let me repeat, if you have 20 ideas, you are on the same boat
- 22:04as somebody who does not have any ideas.
- 22:09Pick one idea, write down 10 real people you can talk to
- 22:13about it. See if the people are willing to
- 22:17pay for what you have. See if the people are willing to
- 22:20collaborate on a project. When you're able to do that,
- 22:26then will not start making progress.
- 22:32Now, for those of you who are in this guy's situation, you want
- 22:36to do music, you want to do all blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 22:38Pick one. Let's say we pick music.
- 22:42The first step now is I think my music sounds good.
- 22:46That is one thing. What you need to see how the
- 22:48market reacts to it. I think my music sound good.
- 22:51That is one thing. Everybody thinks that music
- 22:53sounds good. Whether the market, whether
- 22:57other people think your market your your music sounds good is
- 23:00another thing entirely. So if you want to validate this
- 23:03music thing, if you want to start this music thing, the goal
- 23:06actually is to validate your musical ideas.
- 23:08It's not just about record deal. Now you need to prove that
- 23:11people actually want to listen to your music, don't want to
- 23:13listen to your specific sound. So I've spoken a lot about
- 23:19minimum viable product, which is the smallest version of your
- 23:21product, your idea, your service, your whatever that
- 23:24people can see, people can taste, people can interact with
- 23:28so that you will get the feedback to know whether you're
- 23:32on course, whether there's demand for your product or not.
- 23:35So think in terms of minimum viable track.
- 23:38Track, for instance, don't want to waste money and buy, you
- 23:42know, all the equipment and all the whatever, Record one or two
- 23:45things. Nice quality demo.
- 23:50The goal is not to have a polished final product.
- 23:53We're just trying to see our hook, melody, the emotional
- 23:55impact. Are people feeling this thing?
- 23:57Try and get it out there now. Since this is music, 10 is not
- 24:05going to cut it. Except if you know the top 10
- 24:09music executives in Nigeria. 10 is not going to be enough in my
- 24:12own opinion. I'll say, I'll say more like
- 24:14100. Send your music to people.
- 24:18Plenty people, plenty of them. Any DJ, you know, send.
- 24:22Any club promoter, you know, send.
- 24:24Even your friends and family, you know, send, let them hear.
- 24:29Ask for people's feedback. Ask people, would you put this
- 24:36to your playlist? If people say it's nice but they
- 24:41didn't say yes, I will jam this thing all day, then you are not
- 24:46as talented as you think because that's not people.
- 24:50Don't blow because it's nice. That's not how people blow in
- 24:54the music industry to try and validate your idea.
- 25:03Anyway, I've already spoken about the assignment that I gave
- 25:06him about how you try and model himself after Quincy Jones or
- 25:11learn a couple of lessons about how Quincy Jones was able to
- 25:14move his his career forward. But for those of you who are
- 25:20multi creatives, multi potentialites, multi hyphenates,
- 25:23multi this multi, whatever that are listening, please learn.
- 25:27If you're not happy with how 2025 turned out, I've given you
- 25:30some possible reasons about why the ministry did not move in
- 25:342025. Right now we're in January of
- 25:372026. We need to make sure that the
- 25:39ministry will move this year. Even if you don't hammer, at
- 25:42least try and move forward small, especially for those of
- 25:46you who are in relationships, you know, so your wife likes
- 25:51you, she supports you. Your girlfriend likes you,
- 25:52supports you. But after a while, it gets
- 25:54tiring that I love you, I support your dreams, I support
- 25:57your vision, you know, but it's been five years.
- 25:59I'm not seeing any progress. You know, it's not as if the
- 26:02girl is bad. Oh, she's not bad.
- 26:05It's just like she can't really. She can't put her knife on pause
- 26:07for five years now. She loves you because you're
- 26:10talented and you're creative and you're this and this and then
- 26:13and that and that. But The thing is, it's been five
- 26:15years. She has not seen some progress.
- 26:17Put yourself in her shoes. What do you expect?
- 26:19Now, she's not a bad girl. She's not a gold digger.
- 26:28She too, she wants to build her own life.
- 26:32And if it's the other way around, you know, you're the
- 26:34lady. Put yourself in the guy's point
- 26:36of view. Yeah, he likes you and he's been
- 26:38supporting you. But it's been five years.
- 26:41Then what? They see progress.
- 26:44This is Nigel. Nowadays people are afraid of
- 26:47liability, so it's not as if he doesn't believe in your dreams
- 26:51or anything. But you know he doesn't want to
- 26:53wake up one day and you know the guy don't enter one chance yes,
- 26:57I do himself with liability and then before I know it, the
- 27:01children will come. Then what next?
- 27:08Plezo multi creatives artists multi talented multi hyphenate
- 27:13multi every every let 2026 be different.
- 27:21By the way, my partners and I launching a program on the 12th
- 27:26of January to the 23rd of January 2026.
- 27:29It's about how to sell effectively over the phone.
- 27:32If you've been listening to the podcast for the last 2-3 weeks,
- 27:34you've already heard me talk about it.
- 27:36We're still talking to people. It's today's date is currently
- 27:40the what's today's date 5th of January.
- 27:43So we're still talking to people who are still taking applicants.
- 27:46If you're interested in the program, reach out.
- 27:48The goal of the program is to learn how to sell effectively
- 27:51over the phone. If you're multi potentialite,
- 27:54multi, creative, multi, hyphenated, multi, whatever.
- 27:57The goal is to make sure that when you draw up this list of 10
- 28:00and you're talking to 10 people, you want to know how you can
- 28:06build relationships over the phone, how you can set meetings
- 28:08and appointments over the phone. If you guys are far apart and
- 28:12you need to make some kind of proposal, some kind of pitch,
- 28:15whatever, and do it over the phone.
- 28:16Do it over Zoom. The goal is to try and see how
- 28:19you can do that effectively, how you can sustain this
- 28:21relationship over the phone. Or you can move your hustle over
- 28:26the phone. That's the focus of the program
- 28:30because these things are in our pocket phones and it's just not,
- 28:35not just for Netflix and YouTube.
- 28:37Why should you use it to grow our business?
- 28:40These things are valuable assets that we have on ourselves.
- 28:46So if you're interested in the program, call, send me a text
- 28:49message or a WhatsApp message on 08064662140 or connect with me
- 28:57on LinkedIn, my name again, establish my aide.
- 29:01Now, even if you're not interested in the program, I
- 29:02love hearing from people who listen to the podcast all the
- 29:04time. So just reach out, say what's
- 29:06up, say I enjoy the show, say I like it, or say I don't like it
- 29:11or tavish. And when you said this thing,
- 29:13when you said it like this, that invets me.
- 29:15Let me know, let's have a conversation.
- 29:18Who knows, I might have made an error and you're the one that
- 29:21will correct me. Either way, they're going to
- 29:24give me useful perspectives about what people want to hear
- 29:27about on the show. You will be making the podcast
- 29:29better if you reach out. So that's it and that's all.
- 29:32Thank you very much. I'll catch you all some other
- 29:34time.