Latest / Confident and Empowered Women / EP 255. Confidence, Identity & Leadership — How to Lead With Love (& Still Get Big Results)
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- 0:05You
- 0:05ever
- 0:05notice
- 0:06how
- 0:06some
- 0:06leaders
- 0:07make
- 0:07you
- 0:07feel
- 0:07like
- 0:07you're
- 0:08working
- 0:08in
- 0:08a
- 0:08Ciara
- 0:09Music
- 0:09video?
- 0:10Everything
- 0:10is
- 0:10in
- 0:11sync.
- 0:11The
- 0:11energy
- 0:12is
- 0:12high,
- 0:12you
- 0:13feel
- 0:13seen,
- 0:13supported,
- 0:14and
- 0:14you're
- 0:14just
- 0:15shining
- 0:15in
- 0:15your
- 0:15lane.
- 0:16And
- 0:17then
- 0:17there
- 0:17are
- 0:18others
- 0:18who
- 0:18make
- 0:18you
- 0:18feel
- 0:19like
- 0:19you
- 0:19are
- 0:19trapped
- 0:20in
- 0:20a
- 0:20horror
- 0:20film
- 0:21with
- 0:21no
- 0:22exit
- 0:23every
- 0:23day
- 0:24chaos,
- 0:25the
- 0:25energy's
- 0:25tense,
- 0:26and
- 0:26you're
- 0:26questioning
- 0:27all
- 0:27your
- 0:27life
- 0:27choices.
- 0:28Like,
- 0:28how
- 0:28did
- 0:29I
- 0:29end
- 0:29up
- 0:29in
- 0:30this
- 0:30soundtrack
- 0:30of
- 0:31stress,
- 0:32here's
- 0:32the
- 0:32truth.
- 0:33Both
- 0:33of
- 0:34those
- 0:34leaders
- 0:34have
- 0:35power,
- 0:35but
- 0:36one
- 0:36uses
- 0:36it
- 0:37to
- 0:37elevate
- 0:37people,
- 0:38and
- 0:38the
- 0:38other
- 0:38uses
- 0:39it
- 0:39to
- 0:39exhaust
- 0:40them.
- 0:40Because
- 0:41here's
- 0:41the
- 0:41thing,
- 0:42nobody
- 0:42tells
- 0:42you,
- 0:43no
- 0:43matter
- 0:44what
- 0:44role
- 0:44you
- 0:45hold,
- 0:45corporate,
- 0:46entrepreneur,
- 0:47mama,
- 0:48friend,
- 0:48or
- 0:48just
- 0:49CEO
- 0:50of
- 0:50your
- 0:50own
- 0:50peace,
- 0:51you
- 0:52are
- 0:52a
- 0:52leader.
- 0:53Whether
- 0:53you're
- 0:54managing
- 0:54a
- 0:54team,
- 0:55raising
- 0:55a
- 0:55family,
- 0:56leading
- 0:56a
- 0:56business,
- 0:57or
- 0:57simply
- 0:58leading
- 0:58yourself
- 0:59through
- 0:59a
- 0:59new
- 1:00season,
- 1:00you
- 1:00are
- 1:01influencing,
- 1:02guiding,
- 1:02and
- 1:03setting
- 1:03the
- 1:03tone
- 1:04every
- 1:04single
- 1:04day.
- 1:05So
- 1:05the
- 1:05question
- 1:06then
- 1:06becomes,
- 1:07what
- 1:08kind
- 1:08of
- 1:08leader
- 1:08do
- 1:08you
- 1:08wanna
- 1:09be?
- 1:09The
- 1:09kind
- 1:10of
- 1:10leader
- 1:10you
- 1:10decide
- 1:11to
- 1:11be,
- 1:12determines
- 1:12whether
- 1:13your
- 1:13world
- 1:14becomes
- 1:14a
- 1:14living
- 1:15heaven
- 1:16or
- 1:16a
- 1:16living,
- 1:17HE
- 1:17double
- 1:17hockey
- 1:18sticks.
- 1:21You
- 1:21don't
- 1:21need
- 1:22another
- 1:22to-do
- 1:22list,
- 1:23friend.
- 1:23You
- 1:24need
- 1:24alignment.
- 1:25The
- 1:25main
- 1:25character
- 1:26alignment
- 1:26call
- 1:27is
- 1:27your
- 1:27personalized
- 1:28power
- 1:29session
- 1:30to
- 1:30stop
- 1:30forcing,
- 1:31start
- 1:31flowing,
- 1:32and
- 1:32get
- 1:32back.
- 1:33In
- 1:33sync
- 1:34with
- 1:34the
- 1:34woman
- 1:35you're
- 1:35becoming,
- 1:35we're
- 1:36gonna
- 1:36ditch
- 1:36the
- 1:36overwhelm.
- 1:37Define
- 1:38your
- 1:38next
- 1:38aligned
- 1:39step
- 1:39and
- 1:40make
- 1:40purpose
- 1:40feel
- 1:41peaceful
- 1:42again.
- 1:42Book
- 1:43your
- 1:43call
- 1:43through
- 1:43the
- 1:44link
- 1:44in
- 1:44the
- 1:44show
- 1:44notes
- 1:45and
- 1:45let's
- 1:46get
- 1:46you
- 1:46back
- 1:47in
- 1:47your
- 1:47main
- 1:48character
- 1:48energy.
- 1:49No
- 1:49hustle
- 1:50required.
- 1:54Hey,
- 1:54hey,
- 1:54hey
- 1:54friend.
- 1:55Welcome
- 1:55back
- 1:56to
- 1:56another
- 1:56episode
- 1:57of
- 1:58You
- 1:58Already
- 1:58Know,
- 1:58encourage
- 1:59Over
- 1:59Everything
- 1:59Presents
- 2:01Confident
- 2:01and
- 2:02Empowered
- 2:03Women.
- 2:04I'm
- 2:04your
- 2:04encourager
- 2:05in
- 2:05Chief
- 2:06Letitia,
- 2:07and
- 2:07today
- 2:08we're
- 2:08talking
- 2:08about
- 2:09what
- 2:09it
- 2:09really
- 2:10means
- 2:11to
- 2:11lead,
- 2:12not
- 2:12just
- 2:12others,
- 2:13but
- 2:13yourself
- 2:15because
- 2:15the
- 2:16secret
- 2:16that
- 2:16no
- 2:17one
- 2:17tells
- 2:17you
- 2:18about
- 2:18leadership,
- 2:19how
- 2:19you
- 2:20lead
- 2:20others,
- 2:21is
- 2:21actually
- 2:22a
- 2:22reflection
- 2:23of
- 2:23how
- 2:23you
- 2:24lead
- 2:24you
- 2:25and
- 2:25the
- 2:25kind
- 2:26of
- 2:26leader
- 2:26you
- 2:27are
- 2:27reveals
- 2:28your
- 2:28character,
- 2:29your
- 2:29values.
- 2:30And
- 2:30whether
- 2:31you
- 2:31are
- 2:31living
- 2:31in
- 2:32alignment
- 2:32with
- 2:32who
- 2:33you
- 2:33were
- 2:33created
- 2:34to
- 2:34be,
- 2:35because
- 2:35that
- 2:36one
- 2:36decision,
- 2:37that
- 2:37single
- 2:38energetic
- 2:39choice
- 2:39determines
- 2:40everything
- 2:40you
- 2:41build
- 2:41and
- 2:42who
- 2:42you
- 2:42become
- 2:44in
- 2:44the
- 2:44process.
- 2:45This
- 2:46isn't
- 2:46just
- 2:46about
- 2:47leadership
- 2:47titles
- 2:48or
- 2:48corner
- 2:49offices.
- 2:49This
- 2:50is
- 2:50about
- 2:50identity
- 2:51alignment.
- 2:52This
- 2:53is
- 2:53about
- 2:54the
- 2:54legacy
- 2:55you
- 2:55are
- 2:55creating
- 2:56every
- 2:57day.
- 2:57One
- 2:58choice,
- 2:58one
- 2:59conversation,
- 3:00one
- 3:00reaction
- 3:01at
- 3:02a
- 3:02time.
- 3:02Over
- 3:03my
- 3:0320
- 3:03plus
- 3:04years
- 3:04in
- 3:04leadership,
- 3:05both
- 3:06in
- 3:06corporate
- 3:06America
- 3:07and
- 3:07in
- 3:08life,
- 3:08i've
- 3:08worked
- 3:09under
- 3:09all
- 3:09kinds
- 3:10of
- 3:10leaders.
- 3:11The
- 3:11ones
- 3:11who
- 3:11make
- 3:12showing
- 3:12up
- 3:12feel
- 3:13like
- 3:13purpose,
- 3:14and
- 3:14the
- 3:14ones
- 3:14who
- 3:15make
- 3:15showing
- 3:15up
- 3:16feel
- 3:16like
- 3:16punishment.
- 3:17Honey,
- 3:18you
- 3:18know
- 3:18the
- 3:18type
- 3:19who
- 3:19leads
- 3:20from
- 3:20fear,
- 3:21they
- 3:21micromanage,
- 3:22they
- 3:23motivate
- 3:23through
- 3:23pressure,
- 3:24not
- 3:24purpose.
- 3:25They
- 3:25build
- 3:26teams
- 3:26that
- 3:26perform,
- 3:27yes,
- 3:28but
- 3:28not
- 3:29from
- 3:29passion,
- 3:30from
- 3:30panic.
- 3:31They
- 3:31lead
- 3:32with
- 3:32fear,
- 3:33control,
- 3:33and
- 3:34constant
- 3:34criticism.
- 3:35It's
- 3:36like
- 3:36their
- 3:36playlist
- 3:37is
- 3:37stuck
- 3:37on
- 3:38lose
- 3:38yourself,
- 3:39but
- 3:39not
- 3:40the
- 3:40inspiring
- 3:40part,
- 3:41just
- 3:42the
- 3:42pressure.
- 3:43You
- 3:43can
- 3:43feel
- 3:44the
- 3:44fear
- 3:45trickle
- 3:45down
- 3:46from
- 3:46every
- 3:47decision
- 3:47they
- 3:47make
- 3:48because
- 3:49you're
- 3:49constantly
- 3:49afraid
- 3:50of
- 3:50losing
- 3:50your
- 3:51job.
- 3:51And
- 3:51while
- 3:52they
- 3:52might
- 3:52get
- 3:53quick
- 3:53results,
- 3:54it
- 3:54always
- 3:55comes
- 3:55with
- 3:56collateral
- 3:56damage,
- 3:57burnout,
- 3:58resentment
- 3:59and
- 3:59mistrust.
- 4:00Then
- 4:01I've
- 4:01seen
- 4:02the
- 4:02ones
- 4:02who
- 4:02lead
- 4:03from
- 4:03love
- 4:04and
- 4:04no,
- 4:04not
- 4:05that
- 4:05fluffy,
- 4:06passive,
- 4:07say
- 4:07yes
- 4:07to
- 4:07everything.
- 4:08Kinda
- 4:08love,
- 4:09I
- 4:09mean,
- 4:09real
- 4:10love,
- 4:11the
- 4:11kind
- 4:11that
- 4:11challenges
- 4:12empowers
- 4:13and
- 4:14calls
- 4:14people
- 4:15higher.
- 4:16The
- 4:16ones
- 4:16who
- 4:16lead
- 4:17with
- 4:17love
- 4:17are
- 4:17steady.
- 4:18They
- 4:19care
- 4:19about
- 4:20people
- 4:20as
- 4:20much
- 4:20as
- 4:21they
- 4:21care
- 4:21about
- 4:21performance.
- 4:22They
- 4:23create
- 4:23cultures
- 4:24where
- 4:24people
- 4:25don't
- 4:25just
- 4:25survive,
- 4:26they
- 4:26soar.
- 4:28They
- 4:28don't
- 4:28need
- 4:29to
- 4:29threaten
- 4:29anyone
- 4:30to
- 4:30see
- 4:30results
- 4:31because
- 4:31their
- 4:31people
- 4:32trust
- 4:33them
- 4:33enough
- 4:34to
- 4:34give
- 4:35their.
- 4:35Best
- 4:36that
- 4:37one
- 4:37leader
- 4:38walks
- 4:38into
- 4:39a
- 4:39room
- 4:39and
- 4:40the
- 4:40energy
- 4:40shifts.
- 4:41People
- 4:42breathe
- 4:42easier.
- 4:43Ideas
- 4:44flow.
- 4:45You
- 4:45wanna
- 4:45give
- 4:45your
- 4:46best
- 4:46because
- 4:47they
- 4:47see
- 4:48the
- 4:48best
- 4:48in
- 4:48you.
- 4:49Here's
- 4:49what
- 4:50I
- 4:50learned
- 4:50watching
- 4:51both.
- 4:52You
- 4:52can
- 4:52get
- 4:53results
- 4:53either
- 4:54way,
- 4:54but
- 4:55only
- 4:55one
- 4:55of
- 4:56those
- 4:56paths
- 4:57leads
- 4:58to
- 4:58joy
- 4:58because
- 4:59fear
- 4:59can
- 5:00produce
- 5:00obedience.
- 5:01But
- 5:02not
- 5:02love.
- 5:03Love
- 5:04creates
- 5:04ownership.
- 5:06Love
- 5:06gets
- 5:07people
- 5:07to
- 5:07show
- 5:08up,
- 5:08not
- 5:09just
- 5:09for
- 5:09you,
- 5:10but
- 5:10with
- 5:11you.
- 5:12And
- 5:12I
- 5:12made
- 5:12a
- 5:12decision
- 5:13very
- 5:13early
- 5:14on,
- 5:15I
- 5:15wanted
- 5:15to
- 5:15be
- 5:16the
- 5:16kind
- 5:16of
- 5:16leader
- 5:17who
- 5:17builds
- 5:18with
- 5:18love
- 5:19because
- 5:19that's
- 5:19the
- 5:20kind
- 5:20of
- 5:20foundation
- 5:21that.
- 5:22Lemme
- 5:22put
- 5:23it
- 5:23to
- 5:23you
- 5:23this
- 5:23way.
- 5:24Building
- 5:24with
- 5:24fear
- 5:25is
- 5:25like
- 5:26throwing
- 5:26together
- 5:27a
- 5:27house
- 5:27made
- 5:27a
- 5:27straw
- 5:28in
- 5:28a
- 5:28storm.
- 5:29It
- 5:29might
- 5:30go
- 5:30up
- 5:30fast,
- 5:31but
- 5:32it
- 5:32won't
- 5:32stand
- 5:32long.
- 5:33Building
- 5:34with
- 5:34love,
- 5:35that's
- 5:35brick
- 5:36by
- 5:36brick
- 5:36kind
- 5:37of
- 5:37work.
- 5:37It
- 5:37takes
- 5:38patience,
- 5:39it
- 5:39takes
- 5:39character.
- 5:40It
- 5:40takes
- 5:41care.
- 5:42But
- 5:42when
- 5:42the
- 5:42wind
- 5:43blows
- 5:43and
- 5:44it
- 5:44always
- 5:44does,
- 5:45what
- 5:45you
- 5:46built
- 5:46will
- 5:47still
- 5:47be
- 5:48standing
- 5:49Fear.
- 5:50Gets
- 5:50you
- 5:50obedience.
- 5:51Love
- 5:52earns
- 5:52you
- 5:53loyalty.
- 5:54Fear
- 5:55might
- 5:55get
- 5:55you
- 5:55results,
- 5:56but
- 5:57love,
- 5:57love
- 5:58builds
- 5:58legacy.
- 5:59Let
- 5:59me
- 5:59break
- 5:59it
- 6:00down
- 6:00one
- 6:00time
- 6:00a
- 6:00little
- 6:01bit
- 6:01deeper.
- 6:01We've
- 6:02all
- 6:02had
- 6:03that
- 6:03link
- 6:03up
- 6:04situation.
- 6:05Hold
- 6:05on,
- 6:05let
- 6:05me
- 6:05explain
- 6:06what
- 6:06I
- 6:06mean,
- 6:07because
- 6:08I
- 6:08feel
- 6:08you,
- 6:08your
- 6:08mind
- 6:09just
- 6:09went
- 6:09somewhere
- 6:09else.
- 6:09Let's
- 6:09bring
- 6:10it
- 6:10right
- 6:10back.
- 6:12I'm
- 6:12talking
- 6:13about
- 6:13when
- 6:13the
- 6:13worst
- 6:14in
- 6:14you
- 6:15links
- 6:15up
- 6:15with
- 6:16the
- 6:16worst
- 6:16in
- 6:16them.
- 6:17When
- 6:17your
- 6:18impatience
- 6:19meets
- 6:19their
- 6:19insecurity,
- 6:20when
- 6:21your
- 6:21pride
- 6:21links
- 6:22up
- 6:22with
- 6:22their
- 6:22pressure,
- 6:23when
- 6:23everybody's
- 6:24ego
- 6:25shows
- 6:25up
- 6:25to
- 6:25the
- 6:26meeting
- 6:26before
- 6:27the
- 6:28emotional
- 6:28intelligence
- 6:29does,
- 6:30that's
- 6:30that
- 6:31toxic
- 6:31tango.
- 6:32Nobody
- 6:33wants
- 6:33to
- 6:33dance.
- 6:33To,
- 6:34and
- 6:34yet
- 6:35we
- 6:35do
- 6:35it.
- 6:36Why?
- 6:37Because
- 6:37we're
- 6:37leading
- 6:38from
- 6:38reaction
- 6:39instead
- 6:39of
- 6:40reflection,
- 6:41we're
- 6:41managing
- 6:41behavior
- 6:42instead
- 6:43of
- 6:43mastering
- 6:44energy.
- 6:45But
- 6:45here's
- 6:45the
- 6:45good
- 6:46news,
- 6:46you
- 6:47can
- 6:47change
- 6:48that
- 6:48soundtrack
- 6:49the
- 6:49same
- 6:50way,
- 6:50the
- 6:50worst
- 6:51in
- 6:51you
- 6:51can
- 6:51link
- 6:52up
- 6:52with
- 6:52the
- 6:52worst
- 6:52in
- 6:53them,
- 6:53the.
- 6:54Best
- 6:54of
- 6:54you
- 6:55can
- 6:55link
- 6:55up
- 6:56with
- 6:56the
- 6:56best
- 6:57in
- 6:57them
- 6:57too.
- 6:58That's
- 6:59the
- 6:59link
- 6:59up
- 6:59where
- 7:00real
- 7:00leadership
- 7:01begins
- 7:02When
- 7:02maturity
- 7:03meets
- 7:04mastery.
- 7:06Hey
- 7:07friend,
- 7:07popping
- 7:08in
- 7:08real
- 7:08quick.
- 7:08Before
- 7:09the
- 7:09year
- 7:09slips
- 7:10away,
- 7:10I
- 7:10wanna
- 7:11personally
- 7:12invite
- 7:12you
- 7:12to
- 7:12something
- 7:13special.
- 7:13It's
- 7:14called
- 7:14the
- 7:14Aligned
- 7:15Era
- 7:15Workshop,
- 7:16reflect,
- 7:17dream
- 7:17and
- 7:18rise
- 7:18into
- 7:182026.
- 7:20It's
- 7:20a
- 7:20soul
- 7:21level
- 7:21experience
- 7:22where
- 7:22we
- 7:23will
- 7:23look
- 7:23back
- 7:24at
- 7:24this
- 7:24year
- 7:24with
- 7:25gratitude,
- 7:26Reconnect
- 7:26with
- 7:27the
- 7:27dreams
- 7:27God
- 7:27placed
- 7:28in
- 7:28your
- 7:28heart
- 7:28and
- 7:29realign
- 7:30with
- 7:30the
- 7:30woman
- 7:30you
- 7:31are
- 7:31becoming.
- 7:32If
- 7:32you
- 7:32are
- 7:32ready
- 7:32to
- 7:32close
- 7:33out
- 7:33this
- 7:34chapter
- 7:34of
- 7:342025
- 7:35in
- 7:35peace
- 7:36and
- 7:36walk
- 7:37into
- 7:37your
- 7:37next
- 7:38era
- 7:38with
- 7:38confidence
- 7:39and
- 7:39clarity,
- 7:40join
- 7:40the
- 7:41wait
- 7:41list
- 7:41today.
- 7:42Just
- 7:42tap
- 7:43the
- 7:43link
- 7:43in
- 7:43the
- 7:43show
- 7:43notes
- 7:44because
- 7:442026
- 7:45is
- 7:46waiting
- 7:46for
- 7:46the
- 7:47aligned
- 7:47version
- 7:48of
- 7:48you.
- 7:49Let's
- 7:50rise
- 7:50together.
- 7:52Now
- 7:52let's
- 7:53clear
- 7:53something
- 7:53up
- 7:53right
- 7:54quick.
- 7:54Leading
- 7:55with
- 7:55love
- 7:55isn't
- 7:56weak,
- 7:57it's
- 7:57not
- 7:57naive,
- 7:58it's
- 7:58not
- 7:59soft.
- 7:59Love
- 8:01takes
- 8:01guts.
- 8:02It
- 8:02takes
- 8:02discernment,
- 8:03emotional
- 8:04intelligence,
- 8:05and
- 8:05restraint
- 8:06because
- 8:07anyone
- 8:07can
- 8:07lead
- 8:08with
- 8:08fear.
- 8:09All
- 8:09it
- 8:09takes
- 8:10is
- 8:10insecurity
- 8:11and
- 8:11a
- 8:11loud
- 8:12voice,
- 8:12but
- 8:13leading
- 8:13with
- 8:13love
- 8:14requires
- 8:14something
- 8:15deeper.
- 8:16It
- 8:16requires
- 8:17self-awareness,
- 8:18confidence
- 8:18and
- 8:19consistency.
- 8:20Love-based
- 8:21leadership
- 8:21means
- 8:22you
- 8:22are
- 8:22secure
- 8:23enough
- 8:24to
- 8:24listen.
- 8:25You
- 8:25are
- 8:25confident
- 8:26enough
- 8:26to
- 8:26correct
- 8:27with.
- 8:28Compassion
- 8:29and
- 8:29you
- 8:29are
- 8:30wise
- 8:30enough
- 8:31to
- 8:31protect
- 8:32peace
- 8:32and
- 8:32progress
- 8:33all
- 8:34at
- 8:34the
- 8:34same
- 8:34time.
- 8:35That's
- 8:36power,
- 8:37that's
- 8:37presence.
- 8:38Ooh,
- 8:39friend.
- 8:39That's
- 8:40Main
- 8:40Character
- 8:41leadership.
- 8:42This
- 8:43is
- 8:43so
- 8:43much
- 8:44about
- 8:44how
- 8:45you
- 8:45want
- 8:45to
- 8:45lead.
- 8:46Yourself,
- 8:48your
- 8:48family,
- 8:49your
- 8:49children,
- 8:50how
- 8:51you
- 8:51want
- 8:51to
- 8:51be
- 8:52a
- 8:52leader
- 8:52within
- 8:53your
- 8:53friend
- 8:53group
- 8:54in
- 8:54your
- 8:54office
- 8:54or
- 8:55neighborhood.
- 8:56Leadership
- 8:56is
- 8:57truly
- 8:57everywhere.
- 8:58You
- 8:59show
- 8:59up
- 9:00and
- 9:00you
- 9:00gotta
- 9:01decide
- 9:02how
- 9:02you
- 9:02show
- 9:03up
- 9:03and
- 9:03how
- 9:04you
- 9:04speak.
- 9:05One
- 9:05of
- 9:05the
- 9:05greatest
- 9:06lessons
- 9:06I've
- 9:06learned
- 9:07in
- 9:07leadership,
- 9:08and
- 9:08honestly
- 9:09it
- 9:09applies
- 9:09everywhere
- 9:10in
- 9:10life,
- 9:11is
- 9:11to
- 9:11speak
- 9:12to
- 9:12the
- 9:12king
- 9:13or
- 9:13queen
- 9:14in
- 9:14people,
- 9:15not
- 9:15the
- 9:15chaos
- 9:16they're
- 9:16showing
- 9:17you.
- 9:17Anybody
- 9:18can
- 9:18call
- 9:19somebody
- 9:19out.
- 9:19Listen,
- 9:20this
- 9:20day
- 9:20and
- 9:21age,
- 9:22we
- 9:22see
- 9:23it
- 9:23all
- 9:23around
- 9:23us
- 9:24as.
- 9:24Especially
- 9:25on
- 9:25social
- 9:25media,
- 9:26but
- 9:26it
- 9:27takes
- 9:27real
- 9:28wisdom
- 9:29to
- 9:29call
- 9:29people
- 9:30up
- 9:31when
- 9:31you
- 9:31correct,
- 9:32do
- 9:32it
- 9:33with
- 9:33care.
- 9:33When
- 9:34you
- 9:34challenge,
- 9:35do
- 9:35it
- 9:35with
- 9:35clarity
- 9:36and
- 9:36compassion
- 9:37because
- 9:38the
- 9:38goal
- 9:39isn't
- 9:39to
- 9:39crush
- 9:40somebody's
- 9:40confidence.
- 9:41It.
- 9:42It's
- 9:42to
- 9:42awaken
- 9:43their
- 9:44greatness.
- 9:45If
- 9:45you've
- 9:45been
- 9:45around
- 9:46from
- 9:46the
- 9:46beginning,
- 9:47you've
- 9:47heard
- 9:47me
- 9:47talk
- 9:48about
- 9:48my
- 9:48coach.
- 9:49I
- 9:49call
- 9:50her
- 9:50my
- 9:50angel
- 9:51on
- 9:51earth.
- 9:51Ooh,
- 9:52she's
- 9:52the
- 9:52best.
- 9:53When
- 9:53I
- 9:53went
- 9:53through
- 9:53Brendan
- 9:54Bouchard's
- 9:55Certified
- 9:55High
- 9:56Performance
- 9:56Coaching
- 9:57program.
- 9:58As
- 9:58a
- 9:58client,
- 9:59I
- 9:59got
- 9:59to
- 9:59pick
- 10:00the
- 10:00degree
- 10:01of
- 10:01coach
- 10:01I
- 10:01got.
- 10:02I
- 10:02could
- 10:03choose
- 10:03a
- 10:03coach
- 10:04that
- 10:04had
- 10:04a
- 10:04soft
- 10:04or
- 10:05hard
- 10:05approach,
- 10:06or
- 10:06even
- 10:06somewhere
- 10:06in
- 10:07the
- 10:07middle,
- 10:07meaning
- 10:08by
- 10:08the
- 10:08way,
- 10:09they
- 10:09would
- 10:09challenge
- 10:10me.
- 10:10Listen,
- 10:11okay.
- 10:11I
- 10:12chose
- 10:12hard
- 10:13because
- 10:13I
- 10:13wanted
- 10:14the
- 10:14top
- 10:15of
- 10:15the
- 10:15line,
- 10:15honey,
- 10:16straight
- 10:17up,
- 10:17no
- 10:17chaser
- 10:18type,
- 10:18because
- 10:19when
- 10:19I'm
- 10:19paying
- 10:20for
- 10:20it,
- 10:20I
- 10:20want
- 10:21all
- 10:21my
- 10:21dollars
- 10:21to
- 10:21get
- 10:22the
- 10:22top
- 10:22tier
- 10:23honey.
- 10:25In
- 10:25all
- 10:26honesty,
- 10:27I
- 10:27never
- 10:27one
- 10:28time
- 10:29felt
- 10:29that
- 10:29my
- 10:29coach
- 10:30was
- 10:30hard.
- 10:31She
- 10:31didn't
- 10:31call
- 10:32me
- 10:32out
- 10:32in
- 10:32a
- 10:32way
- 10:33that
- 10:33put
- 10:33me
- 10:33down
- 10:34or
- 10:34made
- 10:35me
- 10:35feel
- 10:35guilty.
- 10:36She
- 10:36called
- 10:37me
- 10:37up,
- 10:38she
- 10:38spoke
- 10:39to
- 10:39the
- 10:39queen
- 10:40in
- 10:40me.
- 10:41Trust
- 10:42me.
- 10:42How
- 10:43you
- 10:43say
- 10:43things
- 10:44matters
- 10:45because
- 10:46if
- 10:46your
- 10:46tone
- 10:47hits
- 10:47harder
- 10:47than
- 10:48your
- 10:48truth,
- 10:49the
- 10:49message
- 10:50gets
- 10:50lost
- 10:50In
- 10:50translation,
- 10:52they'll
- 10:52remember
- 10:53the
- 10:53sting
- 10:53but
- 10:54not
- 10:54the
- 10:54substance.
- 10:55The
- 10:55same
- 10:56holds
- 10:56true
- 10:57for
- 10:57how
- 10:57you
- 10:57speak
- 10:58to
- 10:58yourself.
- 10:59You
- 10:59can
- 10:59always
- 11:00tell
- 11:00when
- 11:01someone
- 11:01talks
- 11:01crap
- 11:02to
- 11:02themselves
- 11:03because
- 11:04they
- 11:04are
- 11:04talking
- 11:04crap
- 11:04to
- 11:05everybody.
- 11:06Every
- 11:07chance
- 11:07they
- 11:07get.
- 11:10So
- 11:11when
- 11:11your
- 11:11negative
- 11:11self-talk
- 11:12is
- 11:12running
- 11:13away
- 11:13with
- 11:13you,
- 11:14constantly
- 11:15putting
- 11:15you
- 11:15down,
- 11:16and
- 11:16you're
- 11:16believing
- 11:17the
- 11:17lies,
- 11:18it
- 11:18tells
- 11:18you
- 11:18about
- 11:19yourself,
- 11:19like,
- 11:20you're
- 11:20not
- 11:20good
- 11:20enough,
- 11:21you're
- 11:21a
- 11:21failure,
- 11:22or
- 11:23you're
- 11:23not
- 11:23worthy.
- 11:24All
- 11:25of
- 11:25which
- 11:25is
- 11:25completely
- 11:27not
- 11:27true,
- 11:28but
- 11:28that's
- 11:29the
- 11:29kind
- 11:29of
- 11:29dialogue
- 11:30that
- 11:30you
- 11:31tend
- 11:31to
- 11:31have
- 11:31with
- 11:32is
- 11:32your
- 11:32self-talk.
- 11:33On
- 11:33a
- 11:33scale
- 11:34of
- 11:34one
- 11:34to
- 11:3510,
- 11:35one
- 11:36being
- 11:36the
- 11:36best
- 11:37and
- 11:3710
- 11:37being
- 11:38the
- 11:38worst,
- 11:39no
- 11:39shade.
- 11:40And
- 11:40no
- 11:40shame,
- 11:41just
- 11:42awareness.
- 11:43Could
- 11:43you
- 11:43talk
- 11:44to
- 11:44yourself
- 11:45more
- 11:45like
- 11:45someone
- 11:46that
- 11:46you
- 11:46care
- 11:46about
- 11:47or
- 11:47someone
- 11:47you
- 11:47love?
- 11:48What
- 11:49area
- 11:49of
- 11:49your
- 11:49self
- 11:50talk
- 11:51could
- 11:51you
- 11:51speak
- 11:52to
- 11:52yourself
- 11:53like
- 11:53a
- 11:53best
- 11:54friend?
- 11:54Can
- 11:54you
- 11:55give
- 11:55yourself
- 11:55a
- 11:55compliment
- 11:56and
- 11:56recognize,
- 11:57Hey,
- 11:58I'm
- 11:58a
- 11:58good
- 11:58mom.
- 11:59I'm
- 11:59excellent
- 12:00at
- 12:00what
- 12:00I
- 12:01do.
- 12:01I'm
- 12:02beautiful.
- 12:02I
- 12:03have
- 12:03a
- 12:03heart.
- 12:03So
- 12:04big.
- 12:04I
- 12:04help
- 12:05everyone.
- 12:05I
- 12:05can
- 12:06talk
- 12:07to
- 12:07the
- 12:07queen
- 12:08in
- 12:09you.
- 12:10Call
- 12:10yourself
- 12:11up.
- 12:11Speak
- 12:12to
- 12:12the
- 12:12best
- 12:13in
- 12:13you.
- 12:14The
- 12:15more
- 12:15you
- 12:15speak
- 12:15to
- 12:15the
- 12:16best
- 12:16in
- 12:16you,
- 12:17the
- 12:17more
- 12:17beauty
- 12:18you'll
- 12:18see
- 12:18in
- 12:18yourself.
- 12:19You'll
- 12:20start
- 12:20to
- 12:20see
- 12:20something
- 12:21so
- 12:21miraculous.
- 12:23The
- 12:23more
- 12:23beauty
- 12:24you
- 12:24see
- 12:24in
- 12:24yourself,
- 12:25the
- 12:25more
- 12:26beauty
- 12:26you'll
- 12:26see
- 12:27within
- 12:27others.
- 12:28So
- 12:29when
- 12:29you
- 12:29lead,
- 12:30lead
- 12:31like
- 12:31you
- 12:32love
- 12:32yourself.
- 12:33And
- 12:34others
- 12:35lead
- 12:35like
- 12:35you
- 12:35believe
- 12:36in
- 12:36yourself
- 12:37and
- 12:38others
- 12:39because
- 12:39that
- 12:40energy,
- 12:41it
- 12:41hits
- 12:41different
- 12:42The
- 12:42more
- 12:42you
- 12:43speak
- 12:43to
- 12:43the
- 12:43king
- 12:44and
- 12:44queen
- 12:44in
- 12:45them,
- 12:45the
- 12:46less
- 12:46you'll
- 12:46see
- 12:46the
- 12:46clown
- 12:47in
- 12:47them.
- 12:47You
- 12:48are
- 12:48constantly
- 12:49writing
- 12:50the
- 12:50script
- 12:50of
- 12:51your
- 12:51life.
- 12:52So
- 12:53King
- 12:53and
- 12:53queen,
- 12:54talk
- 12:54only
- 12:54friend.
- 12:55The
- 12:55most
- 12:55powerful
- 12:56leaders,
- 12:57they
- 12:57aren't
- 12:57necessarily
- 12:58the
- 12:58loudest
- 12:59or
- 12:59the
- 12:59most
- 12:59polished,
- 13:00or
- 13:00even
- 13:00the
- 13:00most
- 13:01qualified.
- 13:02They
- 13:02are
- 13:02the
- 13:02ones
- 13:03who
- 13:03are
- 13:03in
- 13:04alignment
- 13:05with
- 13:05who
- 13:06they
- 13:06truly
- 13:06are.
- 13:08Like
- 13:08leadership
- 13:09brought
- 13:09out
- 13:10the
- 13:10best
- 13:11in
- 13:11them.
- 13:11When
- 13:11you
- 13:12lead
- 13:12from
- 13:12that
- 13:13place,
- 13:14from
- 13:14peace,
- 13:15from
- 13:15presence
- 13:16and
- 13:16purpose,
- 13:17your
- 13:17confidence
- 13:18radiates
- 13:19your
- 13:20energy
- 13:21sets
- 13:21the
- 13:21tone.
- 13:22You
- 13:23don't
- 13:23have
- 13:23to
- 13:23control
- 13:24people
- 13:24to.
- 13:24Influence
- 13:25them.
- 13:26Your
- 13:26authenticity
- 13:27does
- 13:27it
- 13:28for
- 13:28you.
- 13:28And
- 13:29when
- 13:29you
- 13:29are
- 13:29not
- 13:29in
- 13:29alignment,
- 13:30that's
- 13:31when
- 13:31things
- 13:32start
- 13:32to
- 13:32crumble.
- 13:33You
- 13:33start
- 13:34overcompensating.
- 13:35You
- 13:35lead
- 13:36with
- 13:36pressure
- 13:36instead
- 13:37of
- 13:37purpose.
- 13:38You
- 13:38become
- 13:38the
- 13:38kind
- 13:39of
- 13:39leader
- 13:39who
- 13:39looks
- 13:40around
- 13:40one
- 13:40day
- 13:41and
- 13:41doesn't
- 13:42like
- 13:42what
- 13:42she's
- 13:42built
- 13:43or
- 13:44who
- 13:44she
- 13:45had
- 13:45to
- 13:45become
- 13:46in
- 13:47order
- 13:47to
- 13:47build
- 13:48it.
- 13:48This
- 13:49is
- 13:49why
- 13:49so
- 13:49often
- 13:50you'll
- 13:50find
- 13:50unhappy
- 13:51people
- 13:51in
- 13:51their
- 13:52relationships.
- 13:53They
- 13:53let
- 13:53the
- 13:53behavior
- 13:54of
- 13:54their
- 13:54partner
- 13:55dictate
- 13:56who
- 13:56they
- 13:57will
- 13:57be.
- 13:57They
- 13:58did
- 13:58something
- 13:58wrong
- 13:59or
- 13:59something
- 13:59that
- 13:59you
- 14:00don't
- 14:00like.
- 14:00So
- 14:01you
- 14:01just
- 14:01have
- 14:02to
- 14:02give
- 14:02them
- 14:02the
- 14:02business.
- 14:03You
- 14:03have
- 14:04to
- 14:04give
- 14:04hurtful
- 14:05feedback
- 14:06with
- 14:06the
- 14:06always
- 14:07lingo
- 14:07so
- 14:07they
- 14:07feel
- 14:08like
- 14:08they
- 14:08never
- 14:09do
- 14:09anything
- 14:09right,
- 14:10or
- 14:10name
- 14:11calling
- 14:12the
- 14:12fat,
- 14:12lazy,
- 14:13sorry.
- 14:15Oh
- 14:15my
- 14:15gosh.
- 14:16But
- 14:16that's
- 14:17not
- 14:17who
- 14:17you
- 14:18are.
- 14:18You're
- 14:19not
- 14:19a
- 14:19name
- 14:19caller.
- 14:20You're
- 14:20not
- 14:20someone
- 14:21who
- 14:21puts
- 14:21other
- 14:22people
- 14:22down
- 14:22or
- 14:23someone
- 14:23who
- 14:23only
- 14:24recognizes
- 14:25when
- 14:25someone
- 14:26does
- 14:26something
- 14:26wrong.
- 14:27Or
- 14:27you
- 14:27see
- 14:28it
- 14:28at
- 14:28work
- 14:29where
- 14:29people
- 14:29start
- 14:29only
- 14:30doing
- 14:30the
- 14:30absolute
- 14:31bare
- 14:32minimum
- 14:32because
- 14:33they
- 14:33can't
- 14:33stand
- 14:34their
- 14:34boss.
- 14:34That's
- 14:35not
- 14:35really
- 14:35who
- 14:35you
- 14:36are.
- 14:36You
- 14:37have
- 14:37an
- 14:37amazing
- 14:38work
- 14:38ethic,
- 14:39but
- 14:39because
- 14:40you
- 14:40don't
- 14:40feel
- 14:41like
- 14:41you
- 14:41get
- 14:41the
- 14:41recognition
- 14:42or
- 14:43opportunities
- 14:43that
- 14:44you
- 14:44think
- 14:44you
- 14:44deserve,
- 14:45you
- 14:45work
- 14:46below
- 14:46your
- 14:46natural
- 14:47level
- 14:47of
- 14:47awesomeness
- 14:48when
- 14:49you
- 14:49allow
- 14:49other
- 14:50people
- 14:50or
- 14:51things
- 14:51to
- 14:51dictate
- 14:52who
- 14:52you
- 14:52are
- 14:53being,
- 14:54you
- 14:54get
- 14:54out
- 14:54of
- 14:55alignment
- 14:55with
- 14:55the
- 14:56best
- 14:57of
- 14:57who
- 14:57you
- 14:58are,
- 14:58which
- 14:59creates
- 15:00a
- 15:00completely
- 15:01different
- 15:01world
- 15:02that
- 15:02you
- 15:02now
- 15:02live
- 15:03in.
- 15:03But
- 15:03when
- 15:04you
- 15:04build
- 15:04with
- 15:04love,
- 15:05when
- 15:05you
- 15:06let
- 15:06your
- 15:06leadership
- 15:07flow
- 15:07from
- 15:08wholeness,
- 15:09not
- 15:09hustle,
- 15:10when
- 15:10you
- 15:10say,
- 15:11regardless
- 15:11of
- 15:12what
- 15:12they
- 15:12do.
- 15:13I
- 15:13determine
- 15:14how
- 15:14I
- 15:14respond,
- 15:16which
- 15:16is
- 15:16in
- 15:16alignment
- 15:17and
- 15:17a
- 15:18clear
- 15:18reflection
- 15:19of
- 15:19who
- 15:20I
- 15:20am.
- 15:21You
- 15:21get
- 15:21to
- 15:21look
- 15:21around
- 15:22one
- 15:22day
- 15:22and
- 15:23say,
- 15:23I'm
- 15:24proud
- 15:24of
- 15:25this.
- 15:25I
- 15:26am
- 15:26proud
- 15:27of
- 15:27me.
- 15:28Leadership
- 15:29isn't
- 15:30just
- 15:30about
- 15:31what
- 15:31you
- 15:31build.
- 15:32It's
- 15:32about
- 15:33who
- 15:33you
- 15:33are
- 15:34building
- 15:35within
- 15:35yourself,
- 15:36because
- 15:37that
- 15:38is
- 15:38who
- 15:38will
- 15:38lead
- 15:39everything
- 15:39you
- 15:40create.
- 15:40Ooh,
- 15:41yes.
- 15:42So
- 15:42here's
- 15:43your
- 15:43Main
- 15:43Character
- 15:44leadership
- 15:45moment.
- 15:45Decide
- 15:46what
- 15:46kind
- 15:47of
- 15:47leader
- 15:47you
- 15:48wanna
- 15:48be,
- 15:49not
- 15:49just
- 15:49in
- 15:50your
- 15:50work,
- 15:50but
- 15:50in
- 15:51your
- 15:51home,
- 15:51your
- 15:52friendships,
- 15:52your
- 15:52relationships,
- 15:54even
- 15:55in
- 15:55your
- 15:56healing.
- 15:57Because
- 15:57leadership
- 15:58is
- 15:58happening
- 15:59in
- 15:59every
- 15:59moment.
- 16:00And
- 16:00if
- 16:00you
- 16:01wanna
- 16:01build
- 16:01something,
- 16:02You'll
- 16:03still
- 16:03love
- 16:03years
- 16:04from
- 16:04now.
- 16:05It
- 16:05starts
- 16:06with
- 16:06you
- 16:06being
- 16:07in
- 16:07love
- 16:08with
- 16:08who
- 16:08you
- 16:08are,
- 16:09becoming
- 16:10the
- 16:10kind
- 16:11of
- 16:11leader
- 16:11you
- 16:12are,
- 16:12determines
- 16:13the
- 16:13kind
- 16:13of
- 16:13legacy
- 16:14you'll
- 16:14leave.
- 16:15So
- 16:15ask
- 16:15yourself,
- 16:16am
- 16:16I
- 16:17leading
- 16:17from
- 16:17fear
- 16:18or
- 16:19from
- 16:19love?
- 16:20Because
- 16:20fear
- 16:21builds
- 16:22fast,
- 16:22but
- 16:23love
- 16:23builds
- 16:24forever.
- 16:25Ooh,
- 16:26that
- 16:26was,
- 16:26Ooh,
- 16:26that
- 16:27was
- 16:27good.
- 16:27Friend.
- 16:27I
- 16:27hope
- 16:28you
- 16:28caught
- 16:28it.
- 16:32Lemme
- 16:32give
- 16:32it
- 16:32to
- 16:32you
- 16:33one
- 16:33more
- 16:33time
- 16:33so
- 16:33you
- 16:33can
- 16:33write
- 16:34that
- 16:34down,
- 16:34friend.
- 16:35Ooh,
- 16:35that
- 16:35was
- 16:35good
- 16:36because
- 16:36fear
- 16:37builds
- 16:38fast,
- 16:39but
- 16:39love
- 16:40builds
- 16:41forever.
- 16:42One
- 16:42day
- 16:42you
- 16:43are
- 16:43gonna
- 16:43look
- 16:43back
- 16:44at
- 16:44your
- 16:44life,
- 16:45the
- 16:45business
- 16:45you
- 16:46built,
- 16:46the
- 16:46family
- 16:47you
- 16:47raised,
- 16:48the
- 16:48relationships
- 16:49you
- 16:49nurtured,
- 16:49and
- 16:50ask
- 16:50yourself,
- 16:51do
- 16:51I
- 16:51love
- 16:52the
- 16:52woman
- 16:52I
- 16:52became
- 16:53in
- 16:53the
- 16:53process?
- 16:55Because
- 16:55it's
- 16:55not
- 16:56just
- 16:56about
- 16:56what
- 16:57you
- 16:57build
- 16:58it.
- 16:58It's
- 16:58about
- 16:59who
- 16:59you
- 16:59become
- 17:00while
- 17:01you're
- 17:01building
- 17:02it.
- 17:02When
- 17:02you
- 17:02lead
- 17:03from
- 17:03love,
- 17:04you
- 17:04end
- 17:04up
- 17:04proud
- 17:05of
- 17:05both.
- 17:06But
- 17:06when
- 17:06you
- 17:07lead
- 17:07from
- 17:07fear,
- 17:08you
- 17:08might
- 17:09get
- 17:09the
- 17:09outcome
- 17:10and
- 17:10still
- 17:11hate
- 17:12what
- 17:12you
- 17:12see
- 17:12in
- 17:12the
- 17:13mirror.
- 17:13Love
- 17:14multiplies
- 17:15fear
- 17:16divides.
- 17:17Love
- 17:17expands
- 17:19fear,
- 17:19exhaust
- 17:21love
- 17:22liberates
- 17:23fear
- 17:24limits.
- 17:25So
- 17:26which
- 17:26one
- 17:26are
- 17:26you
- 17:26building
- 17:27from?
- 17:29If
- 17:29you've
- 17:30been
- 17:30journaling
- 17:30and
- 17:31it's
- 17:31starting
- 17:31to
- 17:31feel
- 17:31like
- 17:32homework,
- 17:32you
- 17:33need
- 17:33the
- 17:33Main
- 17:33Character
- 17:34Energy
- 17:34Journal
- 17:34Prompts.
- 17:35These
- 17:36are
- 17:36your
- 17:36power
- 17:37questions
- 17:37that
- 17:37pull
- 17:38your
- 17:38future
- 17:38self
- 17:39into
- 17:39your
- 17:39now
- 17:40building
- 17:41confidence,
- 17:41clarity,
- 17:42and
- 17:42alignment
- 17:42In
- 17:43real
- 17:43time,
- 17:44you'll
- 17:44walk
- 17:45away
- 17:45from
- 17:45every
- 17:46page
- 17:46feeling
- 17:47more
- 17:47grounded,
- 17:48more
- 17:48magnetic,
- 17:49and
- 17:49more.
- 17:50You
- 17:50hit
- 17:51the
- 17:51link
- 17:51in
- 17:52the
- 17:52show
- 17:52notes
- 17:52and
- 17:52grab
- 17:53your
- 17:53prompts
- 17:53today
- 17:54because
- 17:54your
- 17:55confidence
- 17:55era
- 17:56starts
- 17:56with
- 17:57one
- 17:57journal
- 17:58page.
- 18:01Okay,
- 18:01friend.
- 18:02Let's
- 18:02really
- 18:03put
- 18:03this
- 18:03into
- 18:04practice
- 18:05with
- 18:05our
- 18:05favorite,
- 18:06the
- 18:06self-love
- 18:06two
- 18:06step.
- 18:07Why?
- 18:08Because
- 18:08everybody
- 18:09can
- 18:09do
- 18:09a
- 18:09little
- 18:09two
- 18:10step
- 18:10and
- 18:10it
- 18:10always
- 18:11gets
- 18:12the
- 18:12party
- 18:13started.
- 18:14Step
- 18:14one,
- 18:15set
- 18:15the
- 18:15vibe
- 18:16and
- 18:16check
- 18:16your
- 18:17leadership
- 18:18mirror
- 18:18before
- 18:19you
- 18:19lead
- 18:20anyone,
- 18:21your
- 18:21kids,
- 18:22your
- 18:22partner,
- 18:23your
- 18:23team,
- 18:24or
- 18:24even
- 18:24your
- 18:25own
- 18:25To-do
- 18:25list,
- 18:26pause
- 18:27and
- 18:27set
- 18:27your
- 18:28vibe
- 18:28for
- 18:29the
- 18:29day.
- 18:29Ask
- 18:30yourself,
- 18:30am
- 18:30I
- 18:31leading
- 18:31from
- 18:31love
- 18:32or
- 18:32from
- 18:32pressure?
- 18:33Notice
- 18:34whether
- 18:34your
- 18:34inner
- 18:35voice
- 18:35sounds
- 18:36like
- 18:36a
- 18:36coach
- 18:37or
- 18:37a
- 18:37critic,
- 18:38because
- 18:38your
- 18:39energy
- 18:39is
- 18:39the
- 18:39playlist.
- 18:40Everyone
- 18:41around
- 18:41you
- 18:42is
- 18:42dancing
- 18:42to.
- 18:43Step
- 18:44two,
- 18:44model
- 18:45the
- 18:45energy
- 18:45you
- 18:46want
- 18:46returned.
- 18:47Lead
- 18:48yourself
- 18:48first
- 18:49friend.
- 18:49Speak
- 18:50to
- 18:50yourself
- 18:51the
- 18:51way
- 18:51a
- 18:51great
- 18:52leader
- 18:52would
- 18:53with
- 18:53direction,
- 18:54not
- 18:55doubt.
- 18:55Take
- 18:56one
- 18:56aligned
- 18:57action
- 18:57that
- 18:58reflects
- 18:58your
- 18:58values,
- 18:59not
- 19:00your
- 19:00fears.
- 19:00Show
- 19:01the
- 19:01grace,
- 19:02confidence,
- 19:02and
- 19:03calm
- 19:04you
- 19:04want
- 19:04mirrored
- 19:05back
- 19:05to
- 19:05you.
- 19:06That's
- 19:06how
- 19:06you
- 19:07turn
- 19:07self-leadership
- 19:08into
- 19:09influence
- 19:10and
- 19:10alignment
- 19:11into
- 19:11results.
- 19:12Because
- 19:13true
- 19:13leadership
- 19:14always
- 19:15starts
- 19:16within
- 19:17when
- 19:17you
- 19:17pause
- 19:18to
- 19:18set
- 19:18your
- 19:19vibe
- 19:19and
- 19:19check
- 19:20your
- 19:20energy,
- 19:21you
- 19:21regulate
- 19:22your
- 19:22nervous
- 19:22system,
- 19:23which
- 19:23means
- 19:24you
- 19:24lead
- 19:24from
- 19:25presence,
- 19:25not
- 19:26pressure.
- 19:27By
- 19:27consciously
- 19:28modeling
- 19:28the
- 19:28energy
- 19:29you
- 19:29want
- 19:29returned,
- 19:30you
- 19:30create
- 19:31emotional
- 19:32alignment
- 19:33between
- 19:33your
- 19:33words.
- 19:34Actions
- 19:35and
- 19:35intentions.
- 19:36That
- 19:36alignment
- 19:37builds
- 19:38trust
- 19:38first
- 19:39with
- 19:39yourself,
- 19:40then
- 19:41everyone
- 19:41around
- 19:42you.
- 19:42The
- 19:42more
- 19:43consistently
- 19:43you
- 19:44do
- 19:44it,
- 19:44the
- 19:44stronger
- 19:45your
- 19:45confidence
- 19:46becomes
- 19:47because
- 19:47you're
- 19:47no
- 19:48longer
- 19:48reacting
- 19:49to
- 19:49life.
- 19:50You
- 19:50are
- 19:51leading
- 19:51it.
- 19:51And
- 19:52listen,
- 19:52friend,
- 19:52you
- 19:53don't
- 19:53need
- 19:54a
- 19:54title
- 19:54to
- 19:55be
- 19:55a
- 19:55leader.
- 19:56You
- 19:56don't
- 19:56need
- 19:57a
- 19:57boardroom
- 19:58or
- 19:58a
- 19:58huge
- 19:59social
- 19:59media
- 20:00following
- 20:01to
- 20:01have
- 20:02influence.
- 20:02You
- 20:03already
- 20:04lead
- 20:04every
- 20:05day
- 20:06with
- 20:06your
- 20:06words,
- 20:07your
- 20:07energy,
- 20:07your
- 20:08example.
- 20:09The
- 20:09question
- 20:10is,
- 20:11what
- 20:11energy
- 20:11are
- 20:12you
- 20:12leading
- 20:12with?
- 20:13Because
- 20:13a
- 20:13leadership
- 20:14isn't
- 20:14just
- 20:15about
- 20:15guiding
- 20:16others,
- 20:17it's
- 20:17about
- 20:17guiding
- 20:18yourself.
- 20:19It's
- 20:20making
- 20:20sure
- 20:20your
- 20:21inner
- 20:21world
- 20:22reflects.
- 20:23The
- 20:23peace,
- 20:24purpose,
- 20:24and
- 20:25love
- 20:25you
- 20:26are
- 20:26trying
- 20:26to
- 20:26create
- 20:27in
- 20:27the
- 20:27outer
- 20:27one.
- 20:28And
- 20:28when
- 20:28you
- 20:29start
- 20:29leading
- 20:29your
- 20:30life
- 20:30from
- 20:30love,
- 20:31you
- 20:31attract
- 20:32more
- 20:33of
- 20:33it
- 20:33into
- 20:34everything
- 20:35you
- 20:35touch.
- 20:36Your
- 20:36confidence
- 20:37gets
- 20:37louder,
- 20:38your
- 20:38influence
- 20:39gets
- 20:39stronger,
- 20:40and
- 20:41your
- 20:41results,
- 20:42They
- 20:42start
- 20:43to
- 20:43reflect
- 20:43your
- 20:44integrity.
- 20:45ooh.
- 20:46Now
- 20:46let
- 20:46me
- 20:46pour
- 20:46into
- 20:46you
- 20:47real
- 20:47quick,
- 20:47friend
- 20:48Crown
- 20:48on
- 20:49Queen.
- 20:49You
- 20:50don't
- 20:50have
- 20:50to
- 20:51lead
- 20:51loudly
- 20:52to
- 20:52lead
- 20:53powerfully.
- 20:54You
- 20:54don't
- 20:55have
- 20:55to
- 20:55lead
- 20:55perfectly
- 20:56to
- 20:56lead,
- 20:57purposefully.
- 20:58Lead
- 20:59with
- 20:59love.
- 21:00Call
- 21:00people
- 21:01up,
- 21:01not
- 21:02out.
- 21:02And
- 21:03when
- 21:03you
- 21:03do,
- 21:03call
- 21:04them
- 21:04out.
- 21:04Do
- 21:05it
- 21:05with
- 21:05care,
- 21:06not
- 21:06like
- 21:07your
- 21:07condemning.
- 21:08The
- 21:08world
- 21:09doesn't
- 21:09need
- 21:10another
- 21:10fear-based
- 21:11leader.
- 21:12It
- 21:12needs
- 21:13a
- 21:13love
- 21:13LED
- 21:14one,
- 21:15and
- 21:15that's
- 21:16where
- 21:16you
- 21:16come
- 21:16in.
- 21:17So
- 21:17today,
- 21:18who
- 21:18do
- 21:19you
- 21:19want
- 21:19to
- 21:19be
- 21:20as
- 21:20a
- 21:21leader?
- 21:21Because
- 21:22you
- 21:22are
- 21:22already
- 21:23leading.
- 21:24The
- 21:24only
- 21:24question
- 21:25is
- 21:25what
- 21:26frequency
- 21:27are
- 21:27you
- 21:27leading
- 21:28from?
- 21:28Keep
- 21:29your
- 21:29rhythm
- 21:30steady,
- 21:31your
- 21:31tone
- 21:32soft,
- 21:33but
- 21:33strong,
- 21:34and
- 21:34your
- 21:35leadership
- 21:35aligned
- 21:36with
- 21:37your
- 21:37soul.
- 21:38Because
- 21:38your
- 21:39love
- 21:39leads,
- 21:40everything
- 21:41you
- 21:41build
- 21:42will
- 21:42sound
- 21:43like
- 21:44you.
- 21:45Let
- 21:45love
- 21:46be
- 21:46your
- 21:46strategy.
- 21:47Let
- 21:47alignment
- 21:48be
- 21:48your
- 21:49standard
- 21:50and
- 21:50let
- 21:50peace
- 21:51be
- 21:51your
- 21:51power
- 21:52move.
- 21:52Because
- 21:53when
- 21:53you
- 21:53build
- 21:54with
- 21:54love,
- 21:55you
- 21:55don't
- 21:55just
- 21:56create
- 21:56success,
- 21:57you
- 21:58create
- 21:58something
- 21:59you
- 21:59can
- 21:59stay
- 22:00in
- 22:00love
- 22:01with
- 22:01for
- 22:02years
- 22:02to
- 22:02come.
- 22:04Ooh,
- 22:05friend.
- 22:06Mm.
- 22:06So
- 22:07good.
- 22:08As
- 22:08we
- 22:08wrap
- 22:09this
- 22:09up,
- 22:09I
- 22:09want
- 22:10to
- 22:10remind
- 22:11you
- 22:11of
- 22:11this,
- 22:12leadership
- 22:13is
- 22:13not
- 22:14about
- 22:14control.
- 22:15It's
- 22:16about
- 22:16character.
- 22:17It's
- 22:17not
- 22:18about
- 22:18titles,
- 22:19teams,
- 22:19or
- 22:20trophies.
- 22:21It's
- 22:21about
- 22:21how
- 22:22you
- 22:22treat
- 22:22people
- 22:23starting.
- 22:24With
- 22:24you,
- 22:25the
- 22:26world
- 22:26can
- 22:26be
- 22:26harsh
- 22:27enough
- 22:27on
- 22:28its
- 22:28own
- 22:29life,
- 22:30will
- 22:30test
- 22:31you,
- 22:31stretch
- 22:32you,
- 22:33and
- 22:33sometimes
- 22:34throw
- 22:34a
- 22:34little
- 22:35shade
- 22:35your
- 22:36way.
- 22:36So
- 22:36the
- 22:37last
- 22:37thing
- 22:38you
- 22:38need
- 22:38to
- 22:38do
- 22:40is
- 22:40lead
- 22:41yourself
- 22:41with
- 22:41criticism
- 22:43when
- 22:43what
- 22:44you
- 22:44really
- 22:44need
- 22:45is
- 22:45care.
- 22:46Lead
- 22:46yourself
- 22:47with
- 22:47grace.
- 22:48Lead
- 22:49yourself
- 22:49with
- 22:49kindness.
- 22:51Lead
- 22:51yourself
- 22:52with
- 22:52love
- 22:53because
- 22:54when
- 22:54you
- 22:54set
- 22:54the
- 22:55example
- 22:55of
- 22:55what
- 22:56leading
- 22:56from
- 22:57love
- 22:57looks
- 22:57like,
- 22:58you
- 22:58give
- 22:59others
- 22:59permission
- 23:00to
- 23:00rise
- 23:01to
- 23:02you.
- 23:02Show
- 23:02them
- 23:03that
- 23:03they
- 23:03can
- 23:03be
- 23:03firm
- 23:04without
- 23:05being
- 23:05cold.
- 23:06You
- 23:06can
- 23:06be
- 23:06strong
- 23:07without
- 23:07being
- 23:07hard.
- 23:08You
- 23:08can
- 23:09be
- 23:09the
- 23:09leader
- 23:10you
- 23:10always
- 23:11wished
- 23:11you
- 23:12had
- 23:12because
- 23:13you
- 23:14are
- 23:14that
- 23:15leader.
- 23:16You
- 23:16are
- 23:16the
- 23:16Main
- 23:17Character
- 23:18of
- 23:18your
- 23:18life
- 23:19friend.
- 23:19So
- 23:20take
- 23:20the
- 23:20lead,
- 23:21set
- 23:21the
- 23:21tone,
- 23:22and
- 23:22let
- 23:22love
- 23:23be
- 23:23your
- 23:24legacy.
- 23:25Now,
- 23:25if
- 23:25this
- 23:26episode
- 23:26spoke
- 23:27to
- 23:27your
- 23:27spirit,
- 23:28the
- 23:28way
- 23:28that
- 23:29it
- 23:29spoke
- 23:29through
- 23:29mine,
- 23:30share
- 23:30it
- 23:31with
- 23:31another
- 23:31powerhouse
- 23:32who's
- 23:32ready
- 23:32to
- 23:33lead
- 23:33herself
- 23:34well,
- 23:35because
- 23:35we
- 23:35rise
- 23:36higher
- 23:37when
- 23:37we
- 23:37rise
- 23:38together.
- 23:39Make
- 23:39sure
- 23:40to
- 23:40hit
- 23:40subscribe.
- 23:41Leave
- 23:41a
- 23:41five
- 23:42star
- 23:42review
- 23:43and
- 23:43let
- 23:43me
- 23:43know
- 23:43what
- 23:44part
- 23:44of
- 23:44this
- 23:44episode
- 23:45hit
- 23:45home
- 23:45for
- 23:46you
- 23:46the
- 23:46most.
- 23:47Until
- 23:48next
- 23:48time,
- 23:49keep
- 23:49leading
- 23:50with
- 23:50love,
- 23:51walking
- 23:52in
- 23:52grace,
- 23:52and
- 23:53remembering
- 23:54your
- 23:54leadership
- 23:55starts
- 23:56with
- 23:56how
- 23:56you
- 23:57love
- 23:58you.