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You're Not Behind — You're Just Between Versions of Yourself | EP 284 · Confident and Empowered Women

• 0:05
  The
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  old
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  you
• 0:06
  doesn't
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  fit
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  anymore
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  and
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  the
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  new
• 0:08
  you
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  isn't
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  fully
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  here
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  yet.
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  You
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  are
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  not
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  behind
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  friend.
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  You
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  are
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  just
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  in
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  between
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  versions
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  of
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  yourself
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  and
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  nobody
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  warned
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  you
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  that
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  this
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  in
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  between
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  was
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  gonna
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  feel
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  this
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  lonely.
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  Okay,
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  but
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  don't
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  worry.
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  I
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  got
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  you.
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  Let's
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  get
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  into
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  it.
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  Hey
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  friend.
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  Confident
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  and
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  empowered
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  is
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  your
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  weekly
• 0:32
  reminder.
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  You
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  are
• 0:34
  that
• 0:34
  girl.
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  Every
• 0:36
  episode
• 0:36
  is
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  a
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  new
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  conversation,
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  a
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  new
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  framework,
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  a
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  new
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  invitation
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  to
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  show
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  up
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  as
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  the
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  most
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  powerful
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  version
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  of
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  yourself.
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  Subscribe
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  and
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  pull
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  up
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  a
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  seat
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  because
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  this
• 0:47
  community
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  is
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  exactly
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  where
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  you
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  belong.
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  Hey,
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  hey,
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  hey.
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  Welcome
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  back
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  to
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  Confident
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  and
• 0:56
  Empowered
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  Women,
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  the
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  podcast
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  where
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  we
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  keep
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  it
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  all
• 1:00
  the
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  way
• 1:00
  real.
• 1:01
  We
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  pour
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  into
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  each
• 1:02
  other
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  and
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  we
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  do
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  not
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  play
• 1:04
  small
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  around
• 1:04
  here.
• 1:05
  I'm
• 1:05
  your
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  host,
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  Leticia,
• 1:07
  and.
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  Friend,
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  I
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  am
• 1:08
  glad
• 1:09
  you
• 1:10
  are
• 1:10
  here
• 1:10
  today
• 1:10
  because
• 1:11
  this
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  episode,
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  this
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  one,
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  hit
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  me
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  in
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  a
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  place
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  that
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  I
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  needed
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  to
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  talk
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  about
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  because
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  I
• 1:18
  know
• 1:19
  there
• 1:19
  is
• 1:19
  a
• 1:19
  woman
• 1:20
  listening
• 1:20
  to
• 1:20
  this
• 1:21
  right
• 1:21
  now
• 1:22
  who
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  has
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  been
• 1:22
  doing
• 1:23
  the
• 1:23
  work.
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  She's
• 1:24
  been
• 1:24
  showing
• 1:25
  up,
• 1:25
  she's
• 1:25
  been
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  choosing
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  herself,
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  saying
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  the
• 1:28
  affirmations,
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  doing
• 1:29
  the
• 1:29
  journaling,
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  setting
• 1:30
  the
• 1:30
  intentions,
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  and
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  yet,
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  and
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  still
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  feels.
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  Off.
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  Like
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  she
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  is
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  in
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  between,
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  not
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  fully
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  who
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  she
• 1:39
  was
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  anymore,
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  but
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  not
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  completely
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  who
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  she's
• 1:43
  becoming
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  yet
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  either.
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  And
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  instead
• 1:46
  of
• 1:46
  recognizing
• 1:47
  that
• 1:47
  as
• 1:47
  growth,
• 1:48
  she's
• 1:48
  been
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  quietly
• 1:49
  wondering
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  if
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  she's
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  behind,
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  if
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  she
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  missed
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  something,
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  if
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  everybody
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  else
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  got
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  a
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  memo
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  that
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  she
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  somehow
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  did
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  not
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  receive.
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  But
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  friend,
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  no
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  worries.
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  I
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  see
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  you
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  and
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  we
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  are
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  talking
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  about
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  all
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  of
• 2:05
  that
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  today.
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  Here
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  is
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  what
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  I
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  need
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  you
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  to
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  understand
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  before
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  we
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  get
• 2:10
  into
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  anything
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  else.
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  The
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  in-between
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  is
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  not
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  a
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  punishment.
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  I
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  know
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  it
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  feels
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  like
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  it.
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  But
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  it's
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  not.
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  It
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  is
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  not
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  a
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  sign
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  that
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  you
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  are
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  doing
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  something
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  wrong
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  and
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  it's
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  not
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  evidence
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  that
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  you
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  missed
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  your
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  window
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  or
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  that
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  you're
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  too
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  late
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  or
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  that
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  somehow
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  life
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  has
• 2:28
  passed
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  you
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  by.
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  The
• 2:30
  in-between
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  is
• 2:31
  where
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  the
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  transformation
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  actually
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  happens.
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  Think
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  about
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  it
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  like
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  this.
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  You
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  know
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  how
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  when
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  you
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  are
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  getting
• 2:37
  a
• 2:37
  renovation
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  done
• 2:38
  on
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  your
• 2:39
  house
• 2:39
  and
• 2:39
  it
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  looks
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  absolutely
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  terrible
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  in
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  the
• 2:42
  middle,
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  sometimes
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  it
• 2:45
  even
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  looks
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  worse
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  than
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  before
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  it
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  even
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  started.
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  There's
• 2:50
  dust
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  everywhere.
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  There
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  are
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  walls
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  knocked
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  down.
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  Nothing
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  is
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  where
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  it's
• 2:54
  supposed
• 2:54
  to
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  be.
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  And
• 2:55
  you
• 2:55
  are
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  standing
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  there
• 2:56
  thinking,
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  why
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  did
• 2:57
  I
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  even
• 2:57
  agree
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  to
• 2:58
  do
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  this?
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  But
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  you
• 3:01
  didn't
• 3:02
  stop
• 3:02
  the
• 3:02
  renovation
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  because
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  it
• 3:04
  looked
• 3:04
  messy
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  in
• 3:05
  the
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  middle,
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  because
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  you
• 3:06
  knew
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  something
• 3:07
  better
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  is
• 3:08
  being
• 3:08
  built
• 3:09
  here.
• 3:09
  Something
• 3:10
  that
• 3:10
  is
• 3:10
  going
• 3:10
  to
• 3:11
  be
• 3:11
  worth
• 3:11
  every
• 3:12
  single
• 3:13
  uncomfortable
• 3:14
  day
• 3:14
  of
• 3:14
  this
• 3:15
  process,
• 3:16
  friend.
• 3:17
  That
• 3:17
  is
• 3:17
  you
• 3:18
  right
• 3:18
  now.
• 3:19
  You
• 3:19
  are
• 3:19
  mid
• 3:20
  renovation
• 3:21
  and
• 3:21
  the
• 3:21
  mess
• 3:22
  you
• 3:22
  see
• 3:22
  when
• 3:23
  you
• 3:23
  look
• 3:23
  around,
• 3:24
  that
• 3:24
  is
• 3:24
  not
• 3:25
  failure.
• 3:26
  That
• 3:27
  is
• 3:27
  construction
• 3:28
  only.
• 3:29
  Okay.
• 3:30
  Okay,
• 3:31
  So
• 3:31
  now
• 3:31
  that
• 3:31
  we
• 3:31
  got
• 3:32
  that
• 3:32
  squared
• 3:32
  away,
• 3:34
  next
• 3:34
  I
• 3:34
  wanna
• 3:35
  talk
• 3:35
  about
• 3:35
  this
• 3:35
  idea
• 3:36
  that
• 3:37
  the
• 3:37
  in-between
• 3:38
  is
• 3:38
  somehow
• 3:39
  wasted
• 3:40
  time.
• 3:41
  Like
• 3:41
  you're
• 3:41
  just
• 3:41
  sitting
• 3:42
  in
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  this
• 3:42
  waiting
• 3:42
  room,
• 3:43
  waiting
• 3:43
  for
• 3:43
  your
• 3:44
  real
• 3:44
  life
• 3:45
  to
• 3:45
  actually
• 3:45
  start.
• 3:46
  And
• 3:46
  friend,
• 3:47
  I
• 3:47
  need
• 3:47
  you
• 3:48
  to
• 3:48
  cancel
• 3:48
  that
• 3:49
  thought
• 3:49
  immediately.
• 3:53
  Because
• 3:54
  it
• 3:54
  is
• 3:54
  a
• 3:55
  lie.
• 3:56
  The
• 3:56
  in-between
• 3:57
  is
• 3:57
  not
• 3:58
  a
• 3:58
  waiting
• 3:58
  room,
• 3:59
  it's
• 3:59
  a
• 4:00
  workshop.
• 4:01
  This
• 4:01
  is
• 4:01
  where
• 4:02
  God
• 4:02
  source,
• 4:03
  universe,
• 4:04
  or
• 4:04
  whomever
• 4:05
  it
• 4:05
  is
• 4:05
  that
• 4:05
  you
• 4:05
  believe
• 4:06
  in.
• 4:06
  This
• 4:07
  is
• 4:07
  where
• 4:07
  the
• 4:07
  deep
• 4:07
  work
• 4:08
  in
• 4:08
  you
• 4:09
  is
• 4:09
  actually
• 4:10
  happening.
• 4:11
  This
• 4:11
  is
• 4:11
  what
• 4:12
  your
• 4:12
  next
• 4:12
  level
• 4:13
  requires.
• 4:14
  But
• 4:14
  here's
• 4:15
  the
• 4:15
  truth.
• 4:16
  You
• 4:16
  cannot
• 4:16
  carry
• 4:17
  the
• 4:17
  weight
• 4:18
  of
• 4:18
  what
• 4:18
  is
• 4:18
  coming
• 4:19
  with
• 4:20
  the
• 4:20
  same
• 4:21
  mindset
• 4:21
  you
• 4:21
  had
• 4:22
  before.
• 4:23
  You
• 4:23
  cannot
• 4:23
  step
• 4:24
  into
• 4:24
  the
• 4:24
  next
• 4:24
  version
• 4:25
  of
• 4:25
  your
• 4:25
  life
• 4:26
  with
• 4:26
  the
• 4:26
  old
• 4:26
  version
• 4:27
  of
• 4:27
  your
• 4:28
  beliefs
• 4:29
  still
• 4:29
  running
• 4:29
  the
• 4:30
  show.
• 4:30
  So
• 4:31
  this
• 4:31
  season.
• 4:32
  It
• 4:32
  is
• 4:33
  doing
• 4:33
  something.
• 4:34
  It
• 4:35
  is
• 4:35
  stripping
• 4:35
  away
• 4:36
  what
• 4:37
  no
• 4:37
  longer
• 4:37
  serves
• 4:38
  you.
• 4:39
  This
• 4:39
  is
• 4:39
  really
• 4:40
  the
• 4:40
  shedding
• 4:41
  process
• 4:42
  and
• 4:42
  it's
• 4:42
  building
• 4:43
  your
• 4:43
  capacity.
• 4:44
  This
• 4:45
  is
• 4:45
  where
• 4:45
  you
• 4:45
  are
• 4:46
  expanding
• 4:46
  your
• 4:47
  tolerance
• 4:47
  for
• 4:48
  discomfort
• 4:49
  so
• 4:49
  when
• 4:49
  the
• 4:49
  next
• 4:49
  level
• 4:50
  comes
• 4:50
  and
• 4:51
  it
• 4:51
  is
• 4:51
  coming,
• 4:51
  friend,
• 4:52
  that
• 4:52
  you
• 4:53
  are
• 4:53
  actually
• 4:53
  ready
• 4:54
  to
• 4:54
  hold
• 4:55
  it.
• 4:55
  So
• 4:56
  instead
• 4:56
  of
• 4:56
  asking
• 4:57
  yourself,
• 4:57
  why
• 4:58
  is
• 4:58
  it
• 4:58
  taking
• 4:59
  so
• 4:59
  long?
• 5:01
  I
• 5:01
  want
• 5:01
  you
• 5:01
  to
• 5:01
  start
• 5:02
  asking
• 5:02
  yourself,
• 5:03
  what
• 5:04
  is
• 5:04
  this
• 5:04
  season
• 5:05
  building
• 5:06
  in
• 5:06
  me?
• 5:07
  Because
• 5:07
  that's
• 5:08
  the
• 5:08
  real
• 5:08
  question,
• 5:09
  the
• 5:09
  one
• 5:10
  that
• 5:10
  will
• 5:10
  change
• 5:11
  everything
• 5:12
  Now
• 5:13
  friend,
• 5:13
  let's
• 5:13
  talk
• 5:14
  about
• 5:14
  this
• 5:14
  loneliness,
• 5:15
  okay?
• 5:16
  Because
• 5:17
  I
• 5:17
  would
• 5:17
  be
• 5:17
  doing
• 5:18
  you
• 5:18
  a
• 5:18
  disservice
• 5:19
  if
• 5:20
  I
• 5:20
  didn't
• 5:20
  actually
• 5:20
  address
• 5:21
  this
• 5:21
  part
• 5:22
  of
• 5:22
  the
• 5:22
  journey
• 5:23
  directly.
• 5:24
  The
• 5:24
  in-between
• 5:25
  can
• 5:25
  feel
• 5:26
  so
• 5:26
  incredibly
• 5:27
  lonely,
• 5:28
  and
• 5:28
  here's
• 5:29
  why.
• 5:30
  When
• 5:30
  you
• 5:30
  start
• 5:30
  to
• 5:31
  level
• 5:31
  up,
• 5:31
  your
• 5:32
  energy
• 5:32
  shifts
• 5:33
  your
• 5:34
  tolerance
• 5:35
  for
• 5:35
  certain
• 5:36
  convers.
• 5:36
  Certain
• 5:37
  behaviors,
• 5:38
  the
• 5:38
  things
• 5:38
  that
• 5:39
  used
• 5:39
  to
• 5:39
  feel
• 5:39
  so
• 5:40
  comfortable,
• 5:41
  they
• 5:41
  start
• 5:41
  to
• 5:41
  feel
• 5:42
  misaligned.
• 5:43
  And
• 5:43
  the
• 5:43
  people
• 5:44
  around
• 5:45
  you,
• 5:45
  even
• 5:45
  the
• 5:45
  ones
• 5:46
  who
• 5:46
  love
• 5:47
  you,
• 5:47
  they
• 5:48
  don't
• 5:48
  always
• 5:49
  know
• 5:49
  what
• 5:50
  to
• 5:50
  do
• 5:50
  with
• 5:51
  this
• 5:51
  new
• 5:51
  version
• 5:52
  of
• 5:52
  you
• 5:52
  that
• 5:53
  is
• 5:53
  emerging.
• 5:54
  So
• 5:55
  you
• 5:55
  start
• 5:55
  to
• 5:55
  feel
• 5:56
  like
• 5:56
  you
• 5:56
  don't
• 5:57
  fully
• 5:57
  belong.
• 5:58
  Anywhere
• 5:59
  you've
• 6:00
  outgrown
• 6:01
  where
• 6:01
  you
• 6:01
  were,
• 6:02
  but
• 6:03
  you
• 6:03
  haven't
• 6:03
  fully
• 6:04
  arrived
• 6:05
  where
• 6:05
  you're
• 6:05
  going
• 6:06
  yet,
• 6:07
  and
• 6:07
  that
• 6:07
  gap,
• 6:08
  that
• 6:08
  space
• 6:09
  in
• 6:09
  between
• 6:10
  can
• 6:10
  feel
• 6:11
  like
• 6:11
  the
• 6:12
  loneliest
• 6:12
  zip
• 6:12
  code
• 6:14
  you
• 6:15
  have
• 6:15
  ever
• 6:16
  lived
• 6:16
  in.
• 6:19
  But
• 6:19
  here's
• 6:20
  what
• 6:20
  I
• 6:20
  want
• 6:20
  you
• 6:20
  to
• 6:20
  hear.
• 6:21
  The
• 6:22
  loneliness
• 6:23
  are
• 6:23
  not
• 6:24
  rejection.
• 6:25
  The
• 6:26
  loneliness
• 6:27
  is
• 6:27
  redirection.
• 6:29
  It
• 6:29
  is
• 6:29
  your
• 6:29
  life
• 6:30
  making
• 6:30
  room,
• 6:32
  making
• 6:32
  space,
• 6:33
  clearing
• 6:34
  out
• 6:34
  what
• 6:35
  was
• 6:35
  never
• 6:35
  meant
• 6:36
  to
• 6:36
  make
• 6:36
  it
• 6:36
  to
• 6:36
  your
• 6:37
  next
• 6:37
  chapter.
• 6:38
  So
• 6:38
  that
• 6:39
  what
• 6:39
  is
• 6:40
  meant
• 6:40
  for
• 6:40
  you
• 6:41
  can
• 6:42
  actually
• 6:42
  find
• 6:42
  you.
• 6:43
  Because
• 6:44
  here's
• 6:44
  the
• 6:44
  thing,
• 6:44
  friend,
• 6:45
  the
• 6:45
  connections,
• 6:46
  the
• 6:46
  relationships,
• 6:48
  the
• 6:48
  community
• 6:49
  that
• 6:49
  are
• 6:49
  aligned
• 6:50
  with
• 6:50
  who
• 6:50
  you're
• 6:50
  becoming.
• 6:52
  They
• 6:52
  don't
• 6:52
  know
• 6:52
  how
• 6:52
  to
• 6:53
  find.
• 6:53
  Your
• 6:54
  old
• 6:54
  address,
• 6:55
  they
• 6:55
  are
• 6:55
  looking
• 6:56
  for
• 6:56
  the
• 6:56
  new
• 6:57
  you,
• 6:58
  and
• 6:58
  you
• 6:59
  have
• 6:59
  to
• 6:59
  be
• 6:59
  willing
• 7:00
  to
• 7:00
  sit
• 7:00
  in
• 7:01
  that
• 7:01
  lonely
• 7:01
  in
• 7:02
  between
• 7:03
  long
• 7:03
  enough
• 7:04
  to
• 7:05
  let
• 7:05
  them
• 7:05
  catch
• 7:05
  up
• 7:06
  to
• 7:06
  where
• 7:07
  you're
• 7:07
  going.
• 7:08
  So
• 7:08
  friend,
• 7:09
  trust
• 7:09
  and
• 7:09
  believe
• 7:10
  you
• 7:10
  are
• 7:10
  not
• 7:11
  behind.
• 7:11
  You
• 7:12
  are
• 7:12
  on
• 7:12
  a
• 7:12
  divine
• 7:13
  timeline,
• 7:14
  and
• 7:14
  this
• 7:15
  one,
• 7:15
  I
• 7:15
  really
• 7:16
  need
• 7:17
  you
• 7:17
  to
• 7:17
  sit
• 7:17
  with
• 7:18
  it
• 7:18
  because
• 7:19
  I
• 7:19
  think
• 7:19
  this
• 7:19
  is
• 7:19
  where
• 7:20
  most
• 7:20
  of
• 7:20
  us
• 7:20
  get
• 7:21
  caught
• 7:21
  up
• 7:21
  the
• 7:21
  most,
• 7:22
  the
• 7:22
  comparison
• 7:23
  trap
• 7:24
  because
• 7:24
  nothing
• 7:25
  will
• 7:25
  make
• 7:25
  the
• 7:25
  in-between
• 7:26
  feel
• 7:26
  more
• 7:27
  unbearable
• 7:28
  than
• 7:28
  scrolling
• 7:29
  through
• 7:29
  somebody
• 7:30
  else's
• 7:30
  highlight
• 7:31
  reel
• 7:31
  and
• 7:32
  deciding
• 7:32
  that
• 7:33
  it's
• 7:33
  evidence
• 7:34
  that
• 7:34
  you
• 7:34
  are
• 7:34
  behind.
• 7:35
  She
• 7:36
  got
• 7:36
  the
• 7:36
  promotion,
• 7:37
  she's
• 7:37
  in
• 7:37
  the
• 7:37
  relationship,
• 7:38
  she
• 7:39
  launched
• 7:39
  the
• 7:39
  business.
• 7:40
  She
• 7:41
  seems
• 7:41
  to
• 7:41
  have
• 7:41
  it
• 7:41
  all
• 7:42
  figured
• 7:42
  out,
• 7:43
  and
• 7:43
  here
• 7:43
  you
• 7:43
  are
• 7:44
  sitting
• 7:44
  in
• 7:44
  the
• 7:44
  middle
• 7:45
  of
• 7:46
  becoming
• 7:47
  still
• 7:47
  in
• 7:47
  the
• 7:47
  gap.
• 7:48
  Still
• 7:48
  waiting
• 7:49
  on
• 7:50
  your
• 7:50
  renovation
• 7:51
  to
• 7:51
  be
• 7:51
  done,
• 7:52
  and
• 7:52
  I
• 7:52
  just
• 7:53
  want
• 7:53
  to
• 7:53
  ask
• 7:54
  you
• 7:54
  something
• 7:54
  really
• 7:55
  quick.
• 7:56
  Do
• 7:56
  you
• 7:56
  actually
• 7:57
  know
• 7:57
  what
• 7:57
  is
• 7:57
  happening
• 7:58
  behind
• 7:59
  her
• 7:59
  highlight
• 7:59
  reel?
• 8:00
  Do
• 8:00
  you
• 8:01
  know
• 8:01
  what
• 8:02
  she
• 8:02
  cried
• 8:02
  about
• 8:03
  last
• 8:03
  Tuesday?
• 8:04
  Do
• 8:04
  you
• 8:04
  know
• 8:05
  what
• 8:05
  she
• 8:05
  is
• 8:05
  carrying
• 8:06
  that
• 8:07
  she's
• 8:07
  not
• 8:07
  posting
• 8:08
  about?
• 8:09
  Because
• 8:09
  friend
• 8:10
  comparison
• 8:11
  is
• 8:11
  always
• 8:11
  going
• 8:12
  to
• 8:12
  be
• 8:13
  a
• 8:13
  losing
• 8:14
  game
• 8:14
  because
• 8:15
  you
• 8:15
  are
• 8:15
  comparing
• 8:16
  your
• 8:16
  behind
• 8:17
  the
• 8:17
  scenes
• 8:18
  to
• 8:18
  everybody
• 8:18
  else's
• 8:19
  highlight
• 8:19
  reel,
• 8:20
  and
• 8:20
  that's
• 8:21
  not
• 8:21
  a
• 8:21
  fair
• 8:21
  fight.
• 8:22
  Your
• 8:22
  timeline
• 8:23
  is
• 8:24
  not
• 8:24
  late.
• 8:25
  Your
• 8:25
  timeline
• 8:26
  is
• 8:26
  not
• 8:27
  slow.
• 8:28
  Your
• 8:28
  timeline
• 8:29
  is
• 8:30
  intentional.
• 8:31
  Every
• 8:32
  detour
• 8:33
  delay
• 8:34
  every
• 8:34
  season.
• 8:35
  That
• 8:36
  felt
• 8:36
  like
• 8:36
  it
• 8:36
  was
• 8:36
  taking
• 8:37
  longer
• 8:37
  than
• 8:38
  it
• 8:38
  should
• 8:38
  have.
• 8:39
  It
• 8:39
  was
• 8:39
  doing
• 8:39
  something
• 8:40
  in
• 8:40
  you
• 8:42
  that
• 8:42
  the
• 8:42
  shortcut
• 8:43
  never
• 8:44
  could
• 8:44
  have
• 8:44
  done.
• 8:45
  Okay?
• 8:46
  You
• 8:46
  are
• 8:46
  not
• 8:46
  behind
• 8:47
  her.
• 8:48
  Matter
• 8:48
  of
• 8:48
  fact,
• 8:49
  you
• 8:49
  are
• 8:49
  not
• 8:49
  behind
• 8:50
  anyone
• 8:52
  and
• 8:53
  you
• 8:53
  can't
• 8:53
  be
• 8:53
  late
• 8:54
  to
• 8:54
  your
• 8:54
  own
• 8:55
  life.
• 8:56
  You
• 8:56
  are
• 8:57
  on
• 8:57
  your
• 8:58
  own
• 8:58
  divine
• 8:59
  assignment
• 9:00
  and
• 9:01
  the
• 9:01
  version
• 9:01
  of
• 9:01
  you
• 9:01
  that
• 9:02
  is
• 9:02
  coming.
• 9:03
  She
• 9:03
  needed
• 9:03
  every.
• 9:04
  Single
• 9:05
  day
• 9:06
  of
• 9:06
  this
• 9:07
  season
• 9:08
  to
• 9:08
  become
• 9:08
  who
• 9:09
  she
• 9:09
  is
• 9:09
  about
• 9:10
  to
• 9:10
  be.
• 9:10
  So
• 9:11
  stop
• 9:11
  penalizing
• 9:12
  yourself
• 9:13
  for
• 9:13
  being
• 9:14
  exactly
• 9:14
  where
• 9:15
  you
• 9:15
  are
• 9:16
  supposed
• 9:16
  to
• 9:17
  be.
• 9:19
  Okay,
• 9:20
  this
• 9:20
  is
• 9:20
  for
• 9:20
  the
• 9:20
  woman
• 9:21
  who
• 9:21
  is
• 9:21
  ready
• 9:21
  to
• 9:22
  take
• 9:22
  everything
• 9:22
  that
• 9:23
  she
• 9:23
  just
• 9:23
  heard
• 9:24
  and
• 9:24
  actually
• 9:25
  do
• 9:25
  something
• 9:26
  with
• 9:26
  it,
• 9:26
  because
• 9:27
  if
• 9:28
  this
• 9:28
  podcast
• 9:29
  has
• 9:29
  been
• 9:29
  speaking
• 9:30
  to
• 9:30
  you
• 9:30
  in
• 9:31
  the
• 9:31
  way
• 9:31
  that
• 9:31
  I
• 9:31
  think
• 9:32
  it
• 9:32
  has,
• 9:33
  you
• 9:33
  are
• 9:33
  going
• 9:33
  to
• 9:34
  want
• 9:34
  the
• 9:34
  main
• 9:34
  character
• 9:35
  momentum
• 9:36
  builder.
• 9:36
  In
• 9:37
  your
• 9:37
  hands,
• 9:38
  friend.
• 9:38
  This
• 9:39
  is
• 9:39
  the
• 9:39
  digital
• 9:40
  guide
• 9:40
  for
• 9:40
  the
• 9:40
  woman
• 9:41
  who
• 9:41
  is
• 9:41
  finally
• 9:42
  ready
• 9:43
  to
• 9:43
  get
• 9:43
  clear
• 9:44
  on
• 9:44
  who
• 9:44
  she
• 9:45
  actually
• 9:45
  is.
• 9:46
  Start
• 9:46
  trusting
• 9:47
  herself
• 9:47
  for
• 9:48
  real
• 9:48
  and
• 9:49
  walk
• 9:49
  fully
• 9:50
  into
• 9:51
  her
• 9:51
  main
• 9:51
  character
• 9:52
  energy.
• 9:53
  Not
• 9:53
  perform
• 9:54
  it,
• 9:54
  but
• 9:54
  live
• 9:55
  it,
• 9:56
  and
• 9:56
  it
• 9:56
  is
• 9:56
  all
• 9:57
  in
• 9:57
  the
• 9:57
  show
• 9:58
  notes,
• 9:58
  so
• 9:59
  go
• 9:59
  ahead
• 9:59
  and
• 9:59
  pause
• 10:00
  and
• 10:00
  grab
• 10:00
  it
• 10:00
  right
• 10:01
  now.
• 10:04
  Okay,
• 10:04
  friend.
• 10:05
  You
• 10:05
  know
• 10:06
  I
• 10:06
  cannot
• 10:07
  leave
• 10:07
  here
• 10:08
  without
• 10:08
  giving
• 10:09
  you
• 10:09
  your
• 10:09
  self-love
• 10:10
  two
• 10:10
  step,
• 10:12
  because
• 10:13
  I
• 10:13
  don't
• 10:13
  just
• 10:14
  want
• 10:14
  this
• 10:14
  to.
• 10:15
  Feel
• 10:15
  good
• 10:15
  in
• 10:16
  your
• 10:16
  earbuds.
• 10:17
  I
• 10:17
  want
• 10:17
  you
• 10:18
  to
• 10:18
  actually
• 10:18
  walk
• 10:19
  away
• 10:19
  with
• 10:19
  something
• 10:20
  you
• 10:21
  can
• 10:21
  use
• 10:21
  this
• 10:21
  week.
• 10:22
  Okay?
• 10:22
  So
• 10:23
  step
• 10:23
  one
• 10:24
  is
• 10:24
  the
• 10:25
  reflection.
• 10:26
  I
• 10:26
  want
• 10:26
  you
• 10:26
  to
• 10:27
  grab
• 10:27
  your
• 10:27
  journal
• 10:28
  and
• 10:28
  if
• 10:28
  you
• 10:28
  don't
• 10:29
  have
• 10:29
  one
• 10:29
  friend,
• 10:30
  no
• 10:30
  worries.
• 10:31
  Your
• 10:31
  notes
• 10:31
  app
• 10:32
  works
• 10:32
  just
• 10:33
  fine.
• 10:33
  Okay,
• 10:34
  we
• 10:34
  are
• 10:34
  making
• 10:34
  this
• 10:34
  simple,
• 10:35
  and
• 10:36
  I
• 10:36
  want
• 10:36
  you
• 10:36
  to
• 10:36
  write
• 10:36
  down
• 10:37
  this
• 10:37
  question
• 10:38
  and
• 10:38
  answer
• 10:39
  it
• 10:39
  honestly.
• 10:40
  What
• 10:40
  is
• 10:40
  this
• 10:41
  in-between
• 10:42
  season
• 10:43
  trying
• 10:43
  to
• 10:44
  build
• 10:44
  in
• 10:44
  me
• 10:45
  that
• 10:46
  I
• 10:46
  couldn't
• 10:46
  have
• 10:46
  developed?
• 10:47
  Any
• 10:48
  other
• 10:48
  way,
• 10:49
  not
• 10:50
  what
• 10:50
  it's
• 10:50
  taking,
• 10:51
  not
• 10:51
  what
• 10:51
  it's
• 10:51
  costing.
• 10:52
  You
• 10:52
  write
• 10:53
  down
• 10:53
  whatever
• 10:54
  comes
• 10:54
  up
• 10:54
  without
• 10:55
  editing,
• 10:56
  filtering
• 10:56
  it,
• 10:57
  just
• 10:57
  the
• 10:58
  real
• 10:58
  honest
• 10:58
  truth
• 10:59
  because
• 10:59
  that
• 11:00
  answer
• 11:01
  that
• 11:01
  is
• 11:01
  your
• 11:01
  compass
• 11:02
  for
• 11:02
  this
• 11:02
  season.
• 11:04
  Step
• 11:04
  two
• 11:04
  is
• 11:05
  the
• 11:05
  action.
• 11:06
  This
• 11:06
  week
• 11:06
  I
• 11:07
  want
• 11:07
  you
• 11:07
  to
• 11:07
  identify
• 11:08
  one
• 11:08
  area
• 11:09
  of
• 11:09
  your
• 11:09
  life
• 11:10
  where
• 11:10
  you
• 11:10
  have
• 11:10
  been
• 11:10
  rushing
• 11:11
  the
• 11:11
  process,
• 11:12
  where
• 11:12
  you
• 11:12
  have
• 11:13
  been
• 11:13
  so
• 11:14
  focused
• 11:15
  on
• 11:15
  getting
• 11:15
  to
• 11:15
  that
• 11:16
  you've
• 11:16
  been
• 11:16
  missing
• 11:17
  out
• 11:17
  on
• 11:17
  what
• 11:17
  the
• 11:17
  journey
• 11:18
  is
• 11:18
  trying
• 11:19
  to
• 11:19
  teach
• 11:19
  you.
• 11:20
  And
• 11:20
  then
• 11:20
  I
• 11:21
  want
• 11:21
  you
• 11:21
  to
• 11:21
  make
• 11:21
  a
• 11:22
  conscious
• 11:22
  decision
• 11:23
  to
• 11:23
  be
• 11:23
  present
• 11:24
  in
• 11:24
  that
• 11:25
  area
• 11:25
  this
• 11:25
  week.
• 11:26
  Not
• 11:26
  to
• 11:27
  fix
• 11:27
  it,
• 11:28
  not
• 11:28
  to
• 11:28
  force
• 11:29
  it,
• 11:29
  just
• 11:30
  to
• 11:30
  be
• 11:30
  in
• 11:31
  it
• 11:32
  with
• 11:32
  intention
• 11:33
  and
• 11:34
  trust
• 11:34
  that
• 11:34
  it's
• 11:34
  working
• 11:35
  even
• 11:35
  when
• 11:36
  you
• 11:36
  can't
• 11:36
  see
• 11:36
  anything
• 11:37
  happening
• 11:37
  just
• 11:38
  yet.
• 11:38
  Okay?
• 11:38
  Okay.
• 11:40
  Now
• 11:40
  friend,
• 11:41
  before
• 11:41
  we
• 11:41
  move
• 11:41
  on,
• 11:42
  I
• 11:42
  have
• 11:42
  to
• 11:42
  just
• 11:43
  say
• 11:43
  this
• 11:43
  to
• 11:43
  you
• 11:44
  because
• 11:44
  I
• 11:45
  know
• 11:46
  this
• 11:46
  space
• 11:47
  all
• 11:47
  too
• 11:48
  well.
• 11:48
  I
• 11:49
  have
• 11:49
  cried
• 11:49
  tears
• 11:50
  in
• 11:50
  this
• 11:50
  space.
• 11:51
  I
• 11:51
  have
• 11:52
  been
• 11:52
  frustrated.
• 11:53
  I
• 11:53
  have
• 11:53
  felt
• 11:53
  disappointed.
• 11:54
  I
• 11:54
  have
• 11:55
  been.
• 11:55
  Ultimately
• 11:56
  discouraged
• 11:57
  friend
• 11:58
  being
• 11:58
  in
• 11:58
  this
• 11:59
  in-between
• 12:00
  space.
• 12:01
  So
• 12:02
  I'm
• 12:02
  saying
• 12:03
  this
• 12:03
  to
• 12:03
  you
• 12:04
  from
• 12:04
  my
• 12:05
  heart
• 12:05
  to
• 12:05
  yours,
• 12:06
  from
• 12:07
  the
• 12:07
  old
• 12:07
  version
• 12:08
  of
• 12:08
  me
• 12:09
  and
• 12:09
  wish
• 12:09
  I
• 12:10
  could
• 12:10
  have
• 12:10
  said
• 12:10
  to
• 12:11
  her
• 12:11
  today.
• 12:12
  I'm
• 12:12
  sharing
• 12:13
  that
• 12:13
  with
• 12:14
  you
• 12:14
  because
• 12:15
  when
• 12:16
  I
• 12:16
  was
• 12:16
  in
• 12:17
  my
• 12:17
  dating
• 12:18
  desperately
• 12:19
  seasoned
• 12:19
  friend
• 12:20
  for
• 12:20
  a
• 12:20
  decade
• 12:21
  ish.
• 12:24
  There
• 12:24
  was
• 12:24
  nothing
• 12:24
  I
• 12:25
  wanted
• 12:25
  more
• 12:26
  than
• 12:26
  to
• 12:26
  fast
• 12:27
  forward
• 12:27
  through
• 12:27
  all
• 12:28
  of
• 12:28
  those
• 12:28
  years
• 12:29
  so
• 12:29
  that
• 12:29
  I
• 12:29
  could
• 12:30
  hurry
• 12:30
  up
• 12:30
  and
• 12:30
  just
• 12:30
  get
• 12:31
  to
• 12:31
  my
• 12:31
  husband
• 12:31
  already.
• 12:32
  Okay.
• 12:34
  I
• 12:35
  dreaded
• 12:36
  the
• 12:36
  dating
• 12:37
  process
• 12:37
  so
• 12:38
  much,
• 12:38
  it
• 12:38
  was
• 12:39
  so
• 12:39
  daunting
• 12:40
  and
• 12:40
  just
• 12:40
  draining
• 12:42
  if
• 12:42
  I'm
• 12:42
  being
• 12:43
  so
• 12:43
  honest
• 12:43
  with
• 12:44
  you.
• 12:44
  And
• 12:45
  I
• 12:45
  just
• 12:46
  wanted
• 12:46
  to
• 12:46
  press
• 12:47
  fast
• 12:47
  forward
• 12:48
  and
• 12:48
  just
• 12:48
  be
• 12:49
  where
• 12:49
  I
• 12:49
  was
• 12:50
  to
• 12:50
  be,
• 12:51
  to
• 12:51
  meet
• 12:51
  the
• 12:51
  man
• 12:52
  of
• 12:52
  my
• 12:52
  dreams
• 12:53
  and.
• 12:55
  If
• 12:55
  I
• 12:55
  would've
• 12:56
  done
• 12:56
  that,
• 12:57
  I
• 12:57
  would
• 12:58
  not
• 12:58
  have
• 12:58
  become
• 12:59
  the
• 12:59
  woman
• 13:00
  that
• 13:00
  I
• 13:00
  am
• 13:01
  who
• 13:02
  attracted
• 13:02
  him.
• 13:04
  There
• 13:04
  were
• 13:04
  so
• 13:04
  many
• 13:05
  things
• 13:05
  about
• 13:05
  me
• 13:06
  that
• 13:06
  I
• 13:07
  needed
• 13:07
  to
• 13:07
  shed,
• 13:08
  things
• 13:09
  that
• 13:09
  needed
• 13:09
  to
• 13:09
  change,
• 13:10
  things
• 13:11
  that
• 13:11
  I
• 13:11
  needed
• 13:11
  to
• 13:11
  become
• 13:12
  better
• 13:13
  at
• 13:14
  in
• 13:14
  order
• 13:15
  for
• 13:15
  me
• 13:15
  to
• 13:15
  be
• 13:16
  the
• 13:16
  woman
• 13:16
  that
• 13:16
  I
• 13:17
  am
• 13:17
  now.
• 13:18
  And
• 13:19
  so
• 13:19
  I
• 13:19
  just
• 13:20
  want
• 13:20
  you
• 13:20
  to
• 13:20
  know
• 13:21
  that
• 13:21
  every
• 13:21
  single
• 13:22
  day
• 13:23
  it
• 13:23
  will
• 13:23
  count
• 13:24
  for
• 13:24
  something.
• 13:25
  And
• 13:25
  there's
• 13:26
  gonna
• 13:26
  come
• 13:26
  a
• 13:26
  time
• 13:27
  when
• 13:27
  you
• 13:28
  are
• 13:28
  looking
• 13:28
  back
• 13:29
  and
• 13:29
  thinking
• 13:30
  about
• 13:30
  every
• 13:30
  single
• 13:31
  day,
• 13:32
  and
• 13:32
  you're
• 13:32
  gonna
• 13:32
  realize
• 13:33
  that
• 13:34
  it
• 13:34
  was
• 13:34
  all
• 13:35
  worth
• 13:35
  it.
• 13:36
  And
• 13:36
  even
• 13:36
  if
• 13:37
  you
• 13:37
  wouldn't
• 13:37
  do
• 13:37
  it
• 13:37
  again,
• 13:39
  you'll
• 13:39
  still
• 13:40
  be
• 13:40
  able
• 13:40
  to
• 13:40
  look
• 13:41
  back
• 13:41
  with
• 13:42
  admiration
• 13:43
  for
• 13:43
  what
• 13:44
  that
• 13:44
  time
• 13:44
  built
• 13:45
  in
• 13:45
  you.
• 13:46
  Because
• 13:46
  just
• 13:47
  like
• 13:47
  you
• 13:48
  need
• 13:48
  to
• 13:48
  be
• 13:49
  a
• 13:49
  certain
• 13:49
  version
• 13:50
  of
• 13:50
  yourself
• 13:50
  to
• 13:50
  attract
• 13:51
  him,
• 13:52
  he
• 13:52
  also
• 13:53
  has
• 13:53
  to
• 13:53
  go
• 13:54
  through
• 13:54
  his
• 13:55
  growing
• 13:55
  season
• 13:56
  so
• 13:56
  that
• 13:56
  he
• 13:57
  can
• 13:57
  be
• 13:57
  the
• 13:58
  right
• 13:58
  man
• 13:58
  for
• 13:59
  you.
• 13:59
  And
• 14:00
  if
• 14:00
  you
• 14:00
  rush
• 14:00
  that
• 14:01
  process,
• 14:02
  you
• 14:02
  miss
• 14:03
  each
• 14:03
  other.
• 14:04
  So
• 14:05
  trust
• 14:05
  in
• 14:05
  the
• 14:06
  divine
• 14:06
  unfolding
• 14:07
  and
• 14:08
  trust
• 14:09
  that
• 14:09
  every
• 14:10
  single
• 14:10
  thing
• 14:11
  is
• 14:11
  unfolding
• 14:12
  perfectly
• 14:14
  because
• 14:14
  it
• 14:14
  may
• 14:14
  not
• 14:15
  be
• 14:15
  in
• 14:15
  your
• 14:15
  timeframe,
• 14:17
  but
• 14:17
  it
• 14:18
  is
• 14:19
  in
• 14:19
  God's
• 14:19
  timeframe,
• 14:20
  and
• 14:21
  he
• 14:21
  always
• 14:21
  has
• 14:22
  impeccable.
• 14:23
  Perfect.
• 14:24
  Timing.
• 14:25
  And
• 14:26
  even
• 14:26
  if
• 14:26
  God
• 14:27
  isn't
• 14:27
  your
• 14:27
  jam,
• 14:28
  the
• 14:28
  source,
• 14:29
  the
• 14:29
  universe,
• 14:30
  whomever
• 14:30
  it
• 14:30
  is
• 14:31
  that
• 14:31
  you
• 14:31
  believe
• 14:32
  in,
• 14:32
  trust
• 14:33
  that
• 14:33
  every
• 14:34
  single
• 14:34
  thing
• 14:34
  is
• 14:35
  unfolding
• 14:36
  for
• 14:36
  your
• 14:36
  highest
• 14:37
  good
• 14:38
  Ooh,
• 14:38
  friend,
• 14:38
  as
• 14:39
  if
• 14:39
  I
• 14:39
  didn't
• 14:39
  already
• 14:39
  do
• 14:40
  it.
• 14:40
  Let
• 14:40
  me
• 14:40
  pour
• 14:40
  into
• 14:41
  you
• 14:41
  again
• 14:42
  real
• 14:42
  quick.
• 14:44
  Before
• 14:45
  we
• 14:45
  go
• 14:45
  any
• 14:45
  further,
• 14:46
  let
• 14:46
  me
• 14:46
  just
• 14:46
  say
• 14:47
  this
• 14:47
  to
• 14:47
  you.
• 14:48
  The
• 14:48
  woman
• 14:49
  who
• 14:49
  has
• 14:49
  been
• 14:49
  carrying
• 14:50
  this
• 14:50
  quietly,
• 14:51
  the
• 14:52
  one
• 14:52
  who
• 14:52
  puts
• 14:52
  on
• 14:53
  a
• 14:53
  good
• 14:53
  face
• 14:53
  and
• 14:53
  shows
• 14:54
  up
• 14:54
  and
• 14:54
  does
• 14:54
  the
• 14:55
  thing
• 14:55
  and,
• 14:56
  but
• 14:56
  in
• 14:56
  the
• 14:56
  private
• 14:56
  moments.
• 14:58
  When
• 14:58
  her
• 14:58
  heart
• 14:58
  is
• 14:59
  quiet,
• 15:00
  she
• 15:00
  has
• 15:00
  been
• 15:00
  wondering
• 15:01
  if
• 15:01
  she's
• 15:02
  going
• 15:02
  to
• 15:02
  make
• 15:03
  it
• 15:03
  on
• 15:03
  the
• 15:03
  other
• 15:03
  side
• 15:04
  of
• 15:04
  this
• 15:05
  friend.
• 15:05
  I
• 15:06
  see
• 15:06
  you
• 15:07
  and
• 15:07
  I
• 15:07
  need
• 15:08
  you
• 15:08
  to
• 15:08
  really
• 15:09
  hear
• 15:09
  this
• 15:10
  with
• 15:10
  your
• 15:10
  whole
• 15:11
  heart.
• 15:12
  You
• 15:12
  are
• 15:12
  not
• 15:13
  falling
• 15:13
  behind,
• 15:14
  you're
• 15:14
  falling
• 15:15
  forward.
• 15:16
  Every
• 15:16
  stumble,
• 15:17
  every
• 15:17
  moment
• 15:18
  of
• 15:18
  uncertainty,
• 15:19
  every
• 15:20
  day
• 15:20
  that
• 15:20
  felt
• 15:21
  like
• 15:21
  nothing
• 15:22
  was
• 15:22
  moving.
• 15:23
  It
• 15:23
  was
• 15:23
  all
• 15:24
  moving
• 15:24
  forward.
• 15:25
  You
• 15:25
  don't
• 15:26
  feel
• 15:26
  the
• 15:26
  earth
• 15:26
  rotating,
• 15:27
  but
• 15:28
  it
• 15:28
  is.
• 15:29
  And
• 15:29
  that's
• 15:29
  the
• 15:29
  same
• 15:30
  thing
• 15:30
  that's
• 15:30
  happening
• 15:31
  with
• 15:31
  your
• 15:31
  growth.
• 15:32
  You
• 15:32
  just
• 15:33
  couldn't
• 15:33
  see
• 15:33
  it
• 15:34
  from
• 15:34
  inside
• 15:35
  of
• 15:35
  the
• 15:35
  renovation.
• 15:36
  The
• 15:36
  woman
• 15:37
  you
• 15:37
  are
• 15:37
  becoming,
• 15:38
  she's
• 15:38
  real
• 15:39
  and
• 15:39
  she's
• 15:40
  close.
• 15:41
  She's
• 15:41
  being
• 15:42
  built
• 15:42
  right
• 15:42
  now
• 15:43
  in
• 15:43
  the
• 15:43
  quiet
• 15:44
  of
• 15:44
  this
• 15:44
  season,
• 15:45
  and
• 15:46
  she's
• 15:46
  going
• 15:46
  to
• 15:46
  be
• 15:47
  worth
• 15:47
  every
• 15:48
  single
• 15:48
  uncomfortable
• 15:49
  day
• 15:50
  you
• 15:51
  spent
• 15:52
  becoming
• 15:53
  her.
• 15:54
  So
• 15:54
  grant
• 15:54
  yourself
• 15:55
  some
• 15:55
  grace,
• 15:56
  friend.
• 15:57
  Give
• 15:57
  yourself
• 15:58
  some
• 15:58
  credit
• 15:58
  for
• 15:59
  still
• 15:59
  being
• 15:59
  here,
• 16:00
  still
• 16:00
  doing
• 16:01
  the
• 16:01
  work,
• 16:01
  still
• 16:01
  showing
• 16:02
  up
• 16:03
  even
• 16:03
  when
• 16:04
  it's
• 16:04
  hard.
• 16:05
  That
• 16:06
  is
• 16:06
  not
• 16:06
  small.
• 16:07
  That
• 16:07
  is
• 16:08
  everything,
• 16:09
  and
• 16:09
  I'm
• 16:09
  so,
• 16:10
  so
• 16:11
  proud
• 16:11
  of
• 16:11
  you
• 16:12
  and
• 16:12
  I'm
• 16:12
  cheering
• 16:13
  for
• 16:13
  you
• 16:14
  with
• 16:14
  everything
• 16:15
  that
• 16:15
  I
• 16:15
  have.
• 16:18
  Ooh,
• 16:19
  so
• 16:19
  good.
• 16:20
  Okay,
• 16:20
  friend.
• 16:21
  If
• 16:21
  this
• 16:22
  episode
• 16:22
  spoke
• 16:23
  to
• 16:23
  something
• 16:23
  in
• 16:23
  your
• 16:24
  heart
• 16:24
  today,
• 16:25
  I
• 16:25
  need
• 16:25
  you
• 16:25
  to
• 16:26
  do
• 16:26
  a
• 16:26
  few
• 16:26
  things
• 16:26
  for
• 16:26
  me.
• 16:27
  First,
• 16:27
  make
• 16:28
  sure
• 16:28
  that
• 16:28
  you're
• 16:28
  subscribed
• 16:29
  so
• 16:29
  you
• 16:29
  never
• 16:29
  miss
• 16:30
  an
• 16:30
  episode
• 16:31
  because
• 16:31
  we're
• 16:31
  building
• 16:32
  something
• 16:32
  so
• 16:33
  special
• 16:34
  here
• 16:35
  and
• 16:35
  you
• 16:35
  don't
• 16:35
  wanna
• 16:36
  miss
• 16:36
  out
• 16:36
  on
• 16:36
  what's
• 16:37
  coming.
• 16:37
  Second,
• 16:38
  share
• 16:39
  this
• 16:39
  episode
• 16:39
  with
• 16:40
  a
• 16:40
  woman
• 16:40
  in
• 16:40
  your
• 16:40
  life
• 16:41
  who
• 16:41
  is
• 16:42
  also
• 16:42
  in
• 16:43
  her
• 16:43
  in-between
• 16:44
  season.
• 16:44
  The
• 16:45
  one
• 16:45
  who
• 16:45
  needs
• 16:46
  to
• 16:46
  be
• 16:46
  reminded,
• 16:47
  she's
• 16:47
  not
• 16:48
  behind,
• 16:49
  she
• 16:49
  is
• 16:50
  becoming,
• 16:50
  she
• 16:51
  needs
• 16:51
  to
• 16:51
  hear
• 16:51
  this
• 16:52
  today
• 16:52
  and
• 16:53
  drop
• 16:53
  me
• 16:53
  a
• 16:53
  comment
• 16:54
  and
• 16:54
  tell
• 16:55
  me
• 16:55
  what
• 16:55
  is
• 16:56
  your
• 16:56
  in-between
• 16:57
  season
• 16:57
  building
• 16:58
  in
• 16:58
  you
• 16:59
  right
• 16:59
  now?
• 17:00
  I
• 17:00
  genuinely
• 17:01
  wanna
• 17:01
  know,
• 17:01
  and
• 17:02
  I
• 17:02
  read
• 17:02
  every
• 17:03
  single
• 17:03
  one.
• 17:04
  I
• 17:04
  will
• 17:04
  be
• 17:04
  cheering
• 17:05
  for
• 17:05
  you
• 17:06
  loud
• 17:06
  and
• 17:06
  obnoxiously
• 17:08
  right
• 17:08
  on
• 17:08
  the
• 17:08
  sidelines.
• 17:11
  And
• 17:11
  as
• 17:11
  always
• 17:12
  friend,
• 17:13
  remember,
• 17:13
  you
• 17:14
  are
• 17:14
  the
• 17:15
  main
• 17:15
  character
• 17:16
  of
• 17:16
  your
• 17:17
  life
• 17:18
  and
• 17:18
  I
• 17:18
  can't
• 17:19
  wait
• 17:19
  to
• 17:19
  see
• 17:20
  you
• 17:21
  in
• 17:21
  the
• 17:21
  next
• 17:21
  episode.