Forgiveness Is Not for Them — It's for You. Here's How Elizabeth Jane Finally Got Free

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi · Mar 19, 2025 · 36m

You have been waiting to forgive until they apologize. Until they understand what they did. Until it somehow feels fair. Elizabeth Jane is the author of Free and First and she has one thing to tell you about that wait — it is keeping you more imprisoned than the person who hurt you. What she shares with Lisa Urbanski about why forgiveness is the most powerful act of self-care available to anyone carrying old pain, how to stop letting past hurt control decisions you are making right now, and why setting boundaries is not a punishment you give others but a gift you give yourself will give you…