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Why Gay Dating Is Harder, and Why You Keep Picking The Same Man Anyway

Dating as a gay man really is harder, and I want you to hear me say that before anything else. The pool is small, the apps have trained us to reject, racism and ageism are all over the scene, and a whole generation of men who could have shown us what a long relationship looks like aren't here.

And still, inside all of that, you keep picking the same man in a different body. In this episode, I tell you about mine.

In this episode:

The research on the apps: the rejection mindset study by Pronk and Denissen, why more choice leaves people more anxious about ending up alone, and how loneliness and…

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