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SATURDAY SECRETS 🤫 High end ESCORT reveals all - all the juicy things you want to know about a sex worker with Carly Electric 💦 🍆 🔥 · She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

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Speaker 1: Appogie Production, Grow and Glows Twelve Days of Christmas. Hello everybody,
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Speaker 1: welcome back to twelve Days of Christmas for Grow and Glow.
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Speaker 1: I'm Ashley, your host and today I know you guys
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Speaker 1: are so excited. I've been saying it on my socials,
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Speaker 1: but I have a high and escort with me. Carly,
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Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us, Thanks for having me. I'm excited
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Speaker 1: h get to be here, So excited. I've got so
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Speaker 1: many juicy questions and these kind of questions I feel
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Speaker 1: like everyone would love to know, but they just like
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Speaker 1: don't have anyone to ask. That's so true, So buckle in.
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Speaker 1: You're an open book, which I absolutely love. You actually
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Speaker 1: have your own podcast.
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Speaker 2: I do.
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Speaker 1: I do.
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Speaker 2: That's called Girlfriend for Hire, Verbal Diarrhea, Everything that's going
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Speaker 2: on in my world. And yeah, there's a lot of
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Speaker 2: juicy stories and a lot of weird and wonderful things
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Speaker 2: that happen in my life. So look, it's a good
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Speaker 2: place to get it out on a podcast.
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Speaker 1: So cool and good for everyone else who's just like
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Speaker 1: really interested or curious to learn about it. Cool. So
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Speaker 1: how did you get into this work?
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Speaker 2: I actually left my corporate job behind to start this,
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Speaker 2: and I had I don't know, doing what everybody always does.
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Speaker 2: You know, you get a career and you study, and
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Speaker 2: you work your way up the ladder and you try
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Speaker 2: and do all things. And I kind of got to
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Speaker 2: the top of my game and I was absolutely miserable,
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Speaker 2: and I would just in a corporate office, sit at
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Speaker 2: my desk and cry, you know, really long hours, not
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Speaker 2: enough pay to survive, not really getting anywhere, and I
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Speaker 2: thought there has to be something else I can do,
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Speaker 2: because like, is this it? This is seriously it. I
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Speaker 2: was doing, like, you know, between forty to sixty hours
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Speaker 2: hours working but then not making any money. So of
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Speaker 2: course I was working hospitality at night, a bit of lifestyle. Well,
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Speaker 2: I had no lifestyle because only work work, and it
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Speaker 2: just wasn't making me enough and I wasn't getting anywhere.
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Speaker 2: So I was just like, f this, I I'm just
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Speaker 2: going to see if I can make some money elsewhere.
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Speaker 2: And so took some really dodgy photos at home in
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Speaker 2: my little unit, just on my phone and tried to
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Speaker 2: be sexy and it was so awkward. Like I look
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Speaker 2: at the photos now ever so often they come up
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Speaker 2: in my memories and I'm like, God, it's so bad.
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Speaker 2: But you know, went to an escort website, started my
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Speaker 2: own profile and put the photos up and was kind
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Speaker 2: of like, okay, well maybe somebody will text me and
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Speaker 2: maybe I'll get some work. And literally as soon as
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Speaker 2: my profile went live that afternoon, my phone started going
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Speaker 2: off and I was like, oh, oh my god, I
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Speaker 2: could okay, this is happening. Yeah, And within twenty four
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Speaker 2: hours I had my first booking. And I was just
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Speaker 2: so not prepared. One thing about myself is I just
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Speaker 2: throw myself in the deep end and then learn how
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Speaker 2: to swim, and I definitely did that with sex work,
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Speaker 2: and so I was just like, look, I'm going to
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Speaker 2: go do it once. If it's terrible, yeah, I will
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Speaker 2: never do it ever again. Yeah, and I'll just oh well,
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Speaker 2: I gave it a go. I had no idea what
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Speaker 2: I was doing. I even forgot to look at the time.
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Speaker 2: So I think I got to a point where the
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Speaker 2: guy was kind of like we can finish like now.
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Speaker 2: And I had such a good time with him. He
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Speaker 2: was just a middle aged man on the Gold Coast
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Speaker 2: and literally skipped out of his place with my handful
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Speaker 2: of fifties and I honestly never looked back. Wow.
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Speaker 1: I was thinking when you were telling that story. Just
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Speaker 1: imagine if I was in that position. I think I
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Speaker 1: would want to talk to other escorts and be like,
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Speaker 1: what's your advice? What do I need to prepare with?
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Speaker 1: Like is there certain things I need to take? Do
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Speaker 1: I make them shower? Like There's so many questions.
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Speaker 2: I didn't know, But also at the same time, I
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Speaker 2: didn't know anyone. Yeah. True, I really had no idea
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Speaker 2: and you can't really like there's no manuals and there's
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Speaker 2: no websites telling you what to do, and I'm trying
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Speaker 2: to google and looking back on it now, I'm just
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Speaker 2: lucky that my first few clients were just really nice, lovely,
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Speaker 2: because I really could have been taken advantage of in
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Speaker 2: that situation.
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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's some horror stories.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I learned so much and I just loved it.
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Speaker 2: I honestly loved it. I was like, I can't believe
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Speaker 2: I could get paid to do this, but also like
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Speaker 2: get paid a lot of money.
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Speaker 1: So, yeah, did you quit your job pretty soon after?
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Speaker 2: Straight away?
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Speaker 1: Wow?
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Speaker 2: Straight away? Then I was just full time sex work,
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Speaker 2: and do you know what it did? It actually freed
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Speaker 2: up for me. So I went from working say eighty
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Speaker 2: hours a week to four hours a week.
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Speaker 1: Wow, and please out so much more money, Lee, Yes, yeah, for.
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Speaker 2: Quadruple the money. Life changing.
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Speaker 1: Oh that's really cool. So they booked through a website.
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Speaker 1: Are you just on one website? Do you have your
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Speaker 1: own website?
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Speaker 2: I'm on a couple of different websites, just the main ones. Generally,
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Speaker 2: guys will find me through my social.
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Speaker 3: Media, so your DM, well, no, So what they'll do
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Speaker 3: is they'll stumble across or they've been following me for
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Speaker 3: a while on Instagram or Twitter, and you know, they
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Speaker 3: know what I'm about.
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Speaker 2: They can see my personality that I'm a real person,
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Speaker 2: and you know they can I've got like six thousand
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Speaker 2: photos on Instagram, like they can have a good stalk.
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Speaker 2: And then they go to my escort pages.
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Speaker 1: You send them your link and yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: My links are easily accessible and then they just shoot
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Speaker 2: me a text and begin the booking process. So it
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Speaker 2: is really quite easy. And yeah, I get maybe I
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Speaker 2: don't know anywhere from thirty to eighty inquiries a day, whoa, yeah,
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Speaker 2: but it is a lot to sift through. I don't
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Speaker 2: reply to everyone, Okay.
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Speaker 1: I can choose who you want.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I I am such a stickler for if people
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Speaker 2: don't address me properly. If people I'm like the spelling
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Speaker 2: and grammar police, and so if they don't use correct
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Speaker 2: grammar or spelling, that's a no.
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Speaker 1: For see one emotionally intelligent man.
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Speaker 2: Yes, and so I've beg on connection really. Yeah, So
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Speaker 2: for all the inquiries I get per week, I'm probably
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Speaker 2: only seeing point zero five clients.
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Speaker 1: Would you have a week?
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Speaker 2: A couple? Not many? Anywhere up to maybe ten clients
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Speaker 2: in a week. It really all depends to I might
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Speaker 2: just see one client for the week, but kind of
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Speaker 2: up to ten. But then I also won't work again
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Speaker 2: for a fortnight a break.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I'm a touring escort, so it means that I'm on
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Speaker 2: planes twenty four to seven. I generally don't really work
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Speaker 2: out of Southeast Queensland, where I live. Yeah, and so
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Speaker 2: I just jump on a plane and go have a
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Speaker 2: tour for a few days, come home.
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Speaker 1: Do you find you mentally and emotionally need a break
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Speaker 1: or physically your body needs a break?
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Speaker 2: No, I'm mentally my body is always fine because I'm
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Speaker 2: actually not having a lot of sex. What really?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so, oh my goodness, get a client.
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Speaker 2: Okay, So when I first started out and I was
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Speaker 2: a lot cheaper. I was a third of the price
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Speaker 2: of what I am now back then, and also I
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Speaker 2: didn't have a name for myself or anything like that,
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Speaker 2: so men were booking me purely because they wanted to
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Speaker 2: be serviced, they wanted to have sex, whereas now I
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Speaker 2: find that with a higher price point, I am more
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Speaker 2: of a companion a girl experience. So I am there
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Speaker 2: are sometimes tours where I will have maybe a couple
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Speaker 2: of minutes worth of sex total over the whole week
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Speaker 2: that I've been somewhere, So it's actually not a lot
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Speaker 2: on my body. It's more of the fact that I'm
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Speaker 2: giving so much emotionally and taking on so much from
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Speaker 2: these people, so I do find it really exhausting and
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Speaker 2: really mentally draining. There are times at the end of
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Speaker 2: a tour where I'm just wrecked, like I'm just so emotionally. Yeah. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: there are so many different levels of sex work, and
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Speaker 2: especially for escorts, it is quite varied. HAVE worked my
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Speaker 2: way up to this point of being where I am,
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Speaker 2: and I really do like being in this space. You know,
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Speaker 2: I have worked really hard to get to this point.
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Speaker 2: But look, I'm pretty happy with it for the moment.
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Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, juicy question. What happens if your
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Speaker 1: client would love a blowjob but you're just not into it,
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Speaker 1: you don't like the look of it, the smell of it,
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Speaker 1: something's just like, oh ick, what do you do?
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Speaker 2: I don't do it? Just say no, no, essentially, And
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Speaker 2: this is what I tell guys who inquire, because often
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Speaker 2: guys will write to me and they say, oh, I
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Speaker 2: just want this to I just want a blowjob. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: a blowjob for like an hour.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, my door can't handle that.
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Speaker 2: Oh I could not think of anything else. And I say,
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Speaker 2: you're not paying per service, you're actually paying for my time,
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Speaker 2: And so it's up to me what I do in
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Speaker 2: that time. If they do want certain things to happen,
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Speaker 2: I try and accommodate and make that happen for them,
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Speaker 2: Like I want them to have the best time.
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Speaker 1: Ever and fulfill their fantasies.
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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, totally. And there are times where yeah, their
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Speaker 2: hygiene is an amazing or you know, they have something
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Speaker 2: going on, and so yeah, I won't have a boundary.
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Speaker 2: I actually will stop whatever's happening and like have a
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Speaker 2: chat to them about what's going on. Okay, A lot
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Speaker 2: of the time, I don't think men are actually aware of,
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Speaker 2: you know, how to clean themselves properly or look after
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Speaker 2: themselves properly. And so I put on my teacher pants.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you make them all shower before you have Hell? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: hell yes. And I'm very like the boy wash. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I actually I am very stern with I bring them
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Speaker 2: into Okay, men, they're glorious creatures because if I say
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Speaker 2: just jump in the shower, they will often just jump
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Speaker 2: in the shower, wet their body, not use soaping, do anything,
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Speaker 2: and jump back out. And so I have to this
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Speaker 2: is your towel, this is the mouth wash, please use it.
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Speaker 2: This is the soap, that's where it is.
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Speaker 1: How to use it construction.
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Speaker 2: I have to give them instructions like that for them
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Speaker 2: to fully take it on board. But there are times
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Speaker 2: where I will put them back in the shower and look,
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Speaker 2: that's just taking up their own time, like they've paid
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Speaker 2: a lot of money for me. And however, I talk
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Speaker 2: about it so much on my podcast that guys who
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Speaker 2: book me now and guys who see me are like, Okay,
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Speaker 2: I listen to all your episodes. I know what I'm doing,
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Speaker 2: and I know like to be respectful of this and
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Speaker 2: I even brought my toothbrush.
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Speaker 1: Like, oh, so that's cool, it's good, that's really good.
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Speaker 1: Do you have a horror story that you can share
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Speaker 1: with us. We've rocked up and you're just like absolutely not,
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Speaker 1: or something's happened to you and you're like traumatized from it.
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Speaker 2: So this is something that I brought up just recently
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Speaker 2: on my podcast. And this was when I was very green,
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Speaker 2: back in the beginning, when I didn't have set boundaries
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Speaker 2: and didn't know, you know, how to ID someone. Because
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Speaker 2: I do a background check on everybody that I see,
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Speaker 2: just to make sure that I'm not putting myself in
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Speaker 2: harm's way, because my safety is more important than any
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Speaker 2: amount of money. So yeah, I do checks on everyone.
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Speaker 2: But I mean that was something that I learned a
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Speaker 2: couple of months in. So back in the beginning, I
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Speaker 2: had an inquiry for a guy who wanted me to
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Speaker 2: drive up to the Sunshine Coast and spend the weekend
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Speaker 2: with him. The booking process was going fine via text.
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Speaker 2: It was going to be a ten k booking. He
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Speaker 2: sent me a photo of the ten k and all
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Speaker 2: seemed fine and well, I was packing my bag. I
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Speaker 2: got ready, threw my bag in the car and I
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Speaker 2: just sat there and I don't know what happened, but
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Speaker 2: I just I sent a text message to one of
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Speaker 2: my friends that I just made in the industry, and
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Speaker 2: I said, look, I'm going and doing this. I can't
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Speaker 2: believe I've got a ten K booking like this is huge,
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Speaker 2: and she goes, look, I don't want to burst your bubble,
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Speaker 2: but they're unrealistic. You don't get ten K bookings. And
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Speaker 2: it's true, I've never had a weekend booking before. Nobody's
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Speaker 2: throwing around ten k to spend on a stranger that
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Speaker 2: they haven't met. Nobody wants to spend that amount of
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Speaker 2: time was somebody that they haven't met yet. And so
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Speaker 2: she said, look, ask him for a deposit. If he's
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Speaker 2: got ten k, and if he's rich, he can put
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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars into your bank account to cover your
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Speaker 2: petrol for the drive up there. And I was like, no,
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Speaker 2: that's valid, okay, And so I reached back out to
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Speaker 2: him and I said, look, I'm in the car, I'm
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Speaker 2: about to leave. Can you just put one hundred dollars
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Speaker 2: into my bank account. That'll just cover petrol and I'll
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Speaker 2: see when I get there, he became so instantly aggressive
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Speaker 2: and refused to deposit the one hundred dollars and like
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Speaker 2: alarm bells straight away. He was very abusive via text instantly,
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Speaker 2: and I grabbed my bag and got back out of
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Speaker 2: the car and was like, okay, I'm not doing that.
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Speaker 2: Holy shit, even though that's so much money, like I
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Speaker 2: couldn't even comprehend. Like at that time, I still was,
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Speaker 2: you know, my car being broken down for ages, and
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Speaker 2: I was living in a.
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Speaker 1: Tiny unit and just you know, was tempting.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so ten k would have changed my life.
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Speaker 2: I'm glad that I didn't go. When I was at
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Speaker 2: peace with it, I made my peace with it. A
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Speaker 2: few days later, it came out in the news that
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Speaker 2: guy on the Sunshine Coast had kidnapped and held a
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Speaker 2: woman hostage for forty eight hours. And it ended up
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Speaker 2: being that guy.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yeah was an escort.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, she luckily got away, but that ordeal. You wouldn't
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Speaker 2: come back from what happened to her. He went to jail,
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Speaker 2: and he's just gotten out, So just gotten out like
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Speaker 2: a couple of weeks ago. So did hear her, Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 2: very much.
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Speaker 1: So, Oh you got so lucky there.
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Speaker 2: And so people are like, how the hell can you
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Speaker 2: stay in a job like this, Like how can you
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Speaker 2: that nearly happened to you? Like what if that had
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Speaker 2: happened to you? Like, how can you? But you know,
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Speaker 2: the way that I run my business now I know
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Speaker 2: exactly who I'm seeing. I get deposits a great lesson
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Speaker 2: to learn. Yeah, and I've set in place really strict,
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Speaker 2: like I probably have some of the most strict id
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Speaker 2: process out of a lot of people. And you know,
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Speaker 2: it's to keep me safe. So and it does. I've
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Speaker 2: not had I mean, I've had one stealthy incident that's
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Speaker 2: a story for another day. But apart from that, everybody
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Speaker 2: that I see is doing wonderful.
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Speaker 1: Oh great, you know, glad to hear.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I feel very lucky. Like it's not a
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Speaker 2: scary story. I have nightmares about it too. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I follow another escort on TikTok and I love her content.
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Speaker 1: I just find it's so interesting. She counts her money
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Speaker 1: and she shares like her stories, and there's one thing
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Speaker 1: that she doesn't like to do, and that's backdoor. So
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Speaker 1: she charges like I think it's like fifteen k or something.
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Speaker 1: She's like I don't want anyone to book it, but
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Speaker 1: if they're gonna pay me that money, then fine, I'll
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Speaker 1: do it. Is there anything that is totally off the
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Speaker 1: cards for you that you're like, no, thank you, absolutely not,
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Speaker 1: can't pay me.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have so many things. So I've got a
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Speaker 2: service list and so it is a menu. It is,
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Speaker 2: and because I have a gir design background, it looks
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Speaker 2: so common. Okay. So I've got this amazing menu that
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Speaker 2: I send out, so when somebody sends me an inquiry
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Speaker 2: to my phone, I will send them this picture. And
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Speaker 2: so it has all of my different packages and what
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Speaker 2: I do, and it lists everything you could possibly eat,
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Speaker 2: so much detail. And if it's not on the list,
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Speaker 2: I don't do it. And so there are things that
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Speaker 2: I'm just not into. Definitely backdoor stuff, not for you,
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Speaker 2: not for me, no, no amount of money. So even
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Speaker 2: you know, putting such a high price tag on it,
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Speaker 2: it's actually quite smart. But at the same time, I've
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Speaker 2: got to be able to sleep at night, and doing
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Speaker 2: things that aren't within my boundaries make me not sleep,
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Speaker 2: like yeah, and it affects my mental health. In the beginning,
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Speaker 2: I used to get really burnt out by this work.
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Speaker 2: And it was because people would be like, oh, i'll
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Speaker 2: give you one thousand dollars to do this, and I'll
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Speaker 2: be like, oh, I haven't done that before. Okay, I'll
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Speaker 2: do that. I'll try it, and then while I'm doing it,
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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I haven't done this for a reason
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Speaker 2: is not for me. I put a lot of boundaries
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Speaker 2: in place of things that I will and won't do.
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Speaker 2: And I don't know how like in depth we can
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Speaker 2: get with like what I do and don't do open book. Oh, okay,
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Speaker 2: back in the beginning, a guy was like, can you
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Speaker 2: peel my mouth? I'll give you a thousand dollars And
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Speaker 2: I was like, I've never not even in my private life,
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Speaker 2: I've never heard common before. And I was like, huh,
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Speaker 2: I'll try. I'll see what it's like. Go to his
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Speaker 2: unit and he's laid down like blue tarp that it
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Speaker 2: honestly is just taken straight from his ute, and he
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Speaker 2: just sat in the middle of the blue tarp and
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Speaker 2: he was like, okay, go.
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Speaker 1: And I was like, you just have to on the knees,
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Speaker 1: just like yeah.
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Speaker 2: So he was just sitting on the ground on the
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Speaker 2: blue tarp and he was like, Okay, just come stand
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Speaker 2: over me, and I was like, hold on, do we kiss?
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Speaker 1: Like?
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Speaker 2: What do we? How do we am? I literally just
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Speaker 2: peeing and I got.
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Speaker 1: In his mouth. I thought he was going in your head?
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, do you know what if somebody said
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Speaker 2: to me five million dollars?
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Speaker 1: I would I five million?
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Speaker 2: Would you for fucking?
17:13
Speaker 1: Oh? I mean maybe it's Steve Stranger.
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Speaker 2: I'd have to.
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Speaker 1: Okay, it was a diet like pineapples.
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Speaker 2: I just yeah, like he would inside his yes in
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Speaker 2: his mind, and so I drink yes. But still it's
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Speaker 2: like I don't know a Tuesday at like midday and
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Speaker 2: I'm just like standing over him and I am closing
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Speaker 2: my eyes and I'm like singing waterfalls by like TLC.
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Speaker 2: And I'm trying to make it happen, and it just
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Speaker 2: like nothing, and he's like, oh no, are you doing it?
17:46
Speaker 2: He was getting like.
17:47
Speaker 1: Discreed, frustrated, and which.
17:49
Speaker 2: Made me even more anxious and nervous, and I couldn't
17:52
Speaker 2: and nothing would come out. After maybe twenty minutes of trying.
17:58
Speaker 2: Even when I got a water, drank more water like
18:00
Speaker 2: I was going to explode. But I was so nervous
18:03
Speaker 2: and he was just so like not yeah, I couldn't
18:08
Speaker 2: make it happen, and he was like, oh, you can
18:10
Speaker 2: just go, and I grab my stuff and I ran
18:13
Speaker 2: to my car and I had to stop in it
18:16
Speaker 2: like a glory jeans or something to because I was busting.
18:20
Speaker 2: And so, yeah, I realized that I just can't do
18:23
Speaker 2: things that aren't in my realm. So how I have
18:27
Speaker 2: sex and intimacy in my real life is what I
18:31
Speaker 2: provide to people. It's a really authentic experience because it's
18:36
Speaker 2: just what I know and like, and it's what comes
18:38
Speaker 2: naturally to me. I'm six or seven years deep in
18:41
Speaker 2: this industry and it's only just kind of now that
18:43
Speaker 2: I've loosened things a little bit. And so a guy
18:49
Speaker 2: recently was like, can you pee in my mouth? And
18:52
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, a lot of money and I
18:55
Speaker 2: did it so easily all of the pa and he
18:58
Speaker 2: was very happy.
19:00
Speaker 1: And that's all we wanted. It was in more after all.
19:01
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, there was more, but there was a
19:03
Speaker 2: lot of people. Yeah, I charged, you know, triple.
19:07
Speaker 1: What I get for that, So, oh my gosh. That
19:10
Speaker 1: brings me on to my next question then, like, what
19:12
Speaker 1: is the strangest request that you've had? Because I've heard
19:15
Speaker 1: stories and I've read books of like, yeah, people wanting
19:18
Speaker 1: to be shit on, or they want to wear a
19:20
Speaker 1: nappy and for you to treat them like a baby,
19:22
Speaker 1: or that. There's lots of different.
19:23
Speaker 2: There's so much, Jesus, there's so much. I kind of
19:26
Speaker 2: anticipate that I'm going to be asked really weird requests
19:30
Speaker 2: all the time, and yeah, they do come through. And
19:32
Speaker 2: so because I'm anticipating it, just purely from being a
19:35
Speaker 2: sex worker, because I'm anticipating it, I don't find them shocking, right,
19:40
Speaker 2: I do find them humorous. And there's this one guy
19:43
Speaker 2: and I so he texts everyone and he wants me
19:46
Speaker 2: to shit in her container and send it to him.
19:49
Speaker 2: Oh and he what you that's crazy? What's deal with it?
19:54
Speaker 2: I've asked him because I was so curious, because I
19:57
Speaker 2: find this stuff fascinating. So I'm just like, look, I'm
20:00
Speaker 2: not going to do it, but like, can I ask
20:02
Speaker 2: why are doing exactly?
20:04
Speaker 1: What do you do with it?
20:05
Speaker 2: He eats it?
20:08
Speaker 1: No, he doesn't jerk off to it, but no.
20:13
Speaker 2: He eats it if it's solid, and if it's squishy
20:17
Speaker 2: he smears it. Oh my, I know, look that's probably
20:24
Speaker 2: most like out there.
20:25
Speaker 1: So why would you not do that just felt weird
20:28
Speaker 1: or it's not painful, it's not enough to see him,
20:32
Speaker 1: it's quick, it seems like an easy job.
20:35
Speaker 2: It's so gross. Okay, I try not to yumplay. So
20:39
Speaker 2: there's a saying you can't yuck people's yum you know,
20:42
Speaker 2: so you don't kink shame and you don't you know.
20:44
Speaker 2: People are into what they're into, and everybody's into something
20:47
Speaker 2: behind closed doors. But that when I just I can't
20:50
Speaker 2: past the request. That I find really weird are the
20:55
Speaker 2: mundane requests that are I like to watch you paint
21:01
Speaker 2: your nails. Oh that is sexual for them. Well, I
21:05
Speaker 2: want to do your dishes. Now, these are all mundane things.
21:09
Speaker 2: I have my nas painted all the time, dishes, boring, whatever,
21:13
Speaker 2: But there are guys who attached like a sexual connotation
21:17
Speaker 2: to it, like for them it's a kink or a fetish.
21:19
Speaker 2: So that's what I find weird. I got told recently
21:23
Speaker 2: a friend of mine she did a booking where the
21:25
Speaker 2: guy just wanted to sleep, and so she just had
21:28
Speaker 2: to watch him sleep, and he paid her and so
21:32
Speaker 2: he slept and she just had to sit there babysit
21:35
Speaker 2: him and watch him sleep. And then when the time
21:38
Speaker 2: was up, she just took her bag and all of
21:41
Speaker 2: her money and it was a lot of money, and
21:43
Speaker 2: she left. See, they're what I find weird. I expect
21:48
Speaker 2: guys are going.
21:49
Speaker 1: To be like, gross, can I fist you double?
21:53
Speaker 2: What? I anticipate that I'm going to get stupid requests
21:56
Speaker 2: like that, But it's the mundane.
21:58
Speaker 1: Stuff that shocked me.
21:59
Speaker 2: Actually, I'll get requests through where someone has had their
22:04
Speaker 2: wife pass away, and so they will say, can you
22:08
Speaker 2: be my wife? Can I call?
22:11
Speaker 1: Yeah?
22:11
Speaker 2: Can I call you her name? Can I Can we
22:13
Speaker 2: just lay together? I know. I've actually done a few
22:17
Speaker 2: of them, and it is a real mental toll on me.
22:20
Speaker 2: Usually they leave and then I have a good cry. Yeah,
22:25
Speaker 2: it's awful.
22:26
Speaker 1: I can see how they would want that, just to
22:28
Speaker 1: like feel the closeness of they worn back, even though
22:32
Speaker 1: it's not her, like their physical body is just touch.
22:37
Speaker 1: That's really valid Actually.
22:39
Speaker 2: Why I'm in business.
22:41
Speaker 1: Yeah, give back to those people that are not getting
22:44
Speaker 1: it elsewhere or carrying shame around what they're wanting.
22:47
Speaker 2: I think loneliness in men is huge, huge, something that
22:52
Speaker 2: they don't often talk about, and so.
22:55
Speaker 1: The shame they carry for it.
22:57
Speaker 2: Yeah, So yeah, just weird nails painting. I had a
23:00
Speaker 2: guy that wanted to sedate me for an hour. He's
23:04
Speaker 2: just but it kept on saying, Oh, it's just to
23:07
Speaker 2: put you to sleep, like I just want to be
23:09
Speaker 2: to you, film you sleeping, and I was like, hold
23:12
Speaker 2: on a second, but it's so scary to me. Yeah,
23:14
Speaker 2: it is. So they've actually removed that category off porn Hub.
23:19
Speaker 2: That category you can know that category, yeah, because it
23:22
Speaker 2: used to be sleep porn really yeah, where someone's asleep,
23:27
Speaker 2: but of course it is mimicking somebody being drugged or
23:31
Speaker 2: they have been drugged, and of course it's very rapy.
23:34
Speaker 1: So so people want to watch them sleep or put
23:36
Speaker 1: them to sleep and then have sex with them.
23:38
Speaker 2: Yeah, put them to sleep and then have sex.
23:40
Speaker 1: Yeah that doesn't feel right.
23:42
Speaker 2: No, that's actually that's fully removed.
23:45
Speaker 1: Yeah it doesn't feel no, So, yeah, requests like that.
23:48
Speaker 1: Do you do only fans as well or just face
23:51
Speaker 1: to face? Yeah?
23:51
Speaker 2: I do only fans. I'm just a solo creator on
23:55
Speaker 2: only fans. I've had it for about four years now.
23:57
Speaker 1: Do you make more money on that or your sex work?
24:00
Speaker 2: No? My sex work is definitely what I love and
24:03
Speaker 2: also where I make all of my money, but the
24:05
Speaker 2: only fans money coming in, I kind of can't turn.
24:07
Speaker 1: It away low effort to Yeah.
24:09
Speaker 2: It makes a good income. I'm at a point where
24:12
Speaker 2: I have filmed so much content over the years that
24:15
Speaker 2: I probably have maybe about six thousand pieces of content
24:19
Speaker 2: just photos and videos. So you know, it kind of
24:22
Speaker 2: gets recycled a lot. So I'm not actually filming very
24:24
Speaker 2: much lately. It just bubbles away. I think I'm probably
24:28
Speaker 2: making about ten k us a month, wow, just from
24:33
Speaker 2: you know, just solo content.
24:34
Speaker 1: So so when you say solo, you're not doing sexual
24:36
Speaker 1: acts with anyone else, it's just you. Yeah, okay, would
24:39
Speaker 1: you want to do things with other creators? You know,
24:41
Speaker 1: they collaborate.
24:42
Speaker 2: I've heard that I don't see myself as a porn star.
24:45
Speaker 1: Oh so does that put you into a porns like category?
24:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're having sex on camera with you know, you're
24:51
Speaker 2: creating porn and you're essentially a porn star. And it's
24:54
Speaker 2: just a road that I've never.
24:55
Speaker 1: Yeah, I felt the need to go down.
24:57
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so good one on one. My human connection
25:01
Speaker 2: with people is what gives me life and what I love.
25:04
Speaker 2: I'm not really that's fair enough. The top one hundred
25:08
Speaker 2: Only Fans list for Queensland came out, and who knows
25:13
Speaker 2: how you got on that list. But I had a
25:14
Speaker 2: look and I realized that I would have been like
25:16
Speaker 2: number forty seven or something, or forty eight. I don't
25:18
Speaker 2: even see myself as like a serious only fans creator.
25:21
Speaker 2: I don't really talk about it too much. Everybody knows
25:24
Speaker 2: where to find it, and it just bubbles away and
25:26
Speaker 2: does its own thing.
25:27
Speaker 1: So yeah, oh, I still have so many questions, but
25:29
Speaker 1: we probably will have to wrap it up. Maybe I'll
25:31
Speaker 1: bring you on for a part two. You guys can
25:32
Speaker 1: let me know if you'd like Carlie to come back
25:34
Speaker 1: on and share some more juicy stories. But thank you
25:36
Speaker 1: so much for being so open anytime. Thanks for having me. Yeah,
25:39
Speaker 1: it's just really cool to have all the questions answered
25:41
Speaker 1: because we're all so curious.
25:43
Speaker 2: I could talk forever about this topic.
25:45
Speaker 1: It's just such a different world to most of us,
25:48
Speaker 1: but it's my everyday life. Yeah. Wow, that's so cool.
25:51
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Where do they find you? What's
25:54
Speaker 1: your Instagram?
25:54
Speaker 2: How I Am at Carli Electric?
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Speaker 1: Yes and podcast is the Girlfriend for Hire girl Friend
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Speaker 1: for High As you guys can go on the Star
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Speaker 1: episodes there as well. Marykusins everyone in your ease tomorrow. Bye,
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Speaker 1: mm hmm