Latest / The Podcaster's Voice / How to not get angry at anyone else for the rest of your life! Repeat these affirmations when you need self-assurance.
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- 0:03There is a demure power that anyone can have.
- 0:12It enables you never to get mad at anyone else
- 0:19for the rest of your life. This is the kind of
- 0:26power that is soft, respectful and doesn't react
- 0:31to anger, rejection or ignorance. It starts with
- 0:40expectations. When you are expecting a certain
- 0:46response or something to happen, your attitude
- 0:53shifts when it doesn't happen the way you expect
- 1:00it. And you become angry, bitter, and resentful.
- 1:09Many of us react out of our own anger. Don't
- 1:18let your mood become controlled by strangers.
- 1:23Stop the acting to a hate. deliberate put -downs.
- 1:28That's what they want you to do. Just let them
- 1:33betray you and be fine with it. Everyone has
- 1:38a choice and they made theirs out of selfishness.
- 1:46Be better than them. So standing in peace is
- 1:51more important than proving your point. Let them
- 1:56do their evil and you walk away with a head held
- 2:00up not losing any ounce of confidence. Stay self
- 2:07-assured and remember silence will kill them
- 2:12quicker this affirmation when you need to assure
- 2:35your self -worth taining your badassness day
- 8:1819 today we'll be doing the 20th 21st and 22nd
- 8:32your homework for the 20th and 21st with body
- 8:41recovery and check -in Do a 20 -minute stretch,
- 8:47breath work, or bath. No productivity. So work
- 8:55on your body. When you work on your body, it
- 9:13will cross over into your mind. When your body
- 9:19feels good, you feel good. What felt easier that
- 9:39week? Write down what felt easier in the present
- 9:50week. Say the things. Use observation. Impact.
- 10:10To ask the one question you've been avoiding
- 10:12in a meeting or chat. You know, in those weekly
- 10:20meetings you want to ask this question. So bad!
- 10:26Whether it is related to work or a situation
- 10:34that happened at work. Ask it. Use your observation.
- 10:43Read the room. And if the room feels like, okay...
- 10:50Now is a good time to ask and your boss and co
- 10:55-workers will be accepted. Ask it. Here's a way
- 11:00you can tell. Read the room and feel everybody's
- 11:05energy. These survey questions for Got Badassness?
- 11:18We'll see at the end of this month what level
- 11:21you're on if you're even on the scale. Question
- 11:2858. How many people do you date at once? Are
- 11:33you an exclusive dater? And let them know there
- 11:46is about a relationship right now. I'm dating
- 11:49a few people. Do you play the ex game? You know
- 11:55what I'm talking about. Where you keep in touch
- 11:59with your ex just to have a secure thing hanging
- 12:03around. You know, the old standby. We'll get
- 12:12into that a little bit later of why you should
- 12:15not play the ex game. You need to be through
- 12:20with that person. Do you exercise often? do you
- 12:36self think? A lot of people group think and that
- 12:45can be a benefit and a hazard. But how often
- 12:52do you self think? Do you make time for continuous
- 13:00learning? Not just at your job. Do you have back
- 13:07pocket skills? I've talked about back pocket
- 13:10skills a lot. Do you have back pocket skills?
- 13:16Yeah, it's fine to learn for your job, but you
- 13:21don't have to wait on your job. to allow you
- 13:25to further your education? Do you strive to break
- 13:32the glass ceiling if you are a woman or minority?
- 13:46Do you get each night more than four, more than
- 13:51six, more than eight? Do you find yourself worrying
- 13:57too much? And the last question, do you get headaches
- 14:03often? I played. Whenever you need to be reassured
- 14:44of your self -worth. Which I read at the beginning
- 14:51of this session. Listen to it again.