Shrinking to Fit In Is Exhausting — Here's How Nicola Salter Finally Stopped Asking for Permission

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi · Feb 24, 2025 · 35m

You have been editing yourself for so long you have forgotten what the unedited version actually looks like. Biting your tongue. Shrinking to fit the room. Letting fear of judgment decide what you say, what you wear, and what you dare to want. Nicola Salter has lived that — and she has spent her career as a high-performance leadership coach helping women stop seeking permission from a world that was never going to give it anyway. What she shares with Stacey Chillemi about her own journey from self-editing to radical authenticity, the specific mindset shifts that broke her free from society's…