Latest / Closing Sales in Nigeria - Sales For The Nigerian Business Person: The Sales and Marketing Blueprint / Refining Your Marketing: From Niche Focus to WhatsApp Engagement & Authentic Sales
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- 0:01Hello and welcome to the show today.
- 0:03I'm not an audio booth, so apologies for the noise that's
- 0:06going to bleed in through the background.
- 0:08Now, today we're going to have a strategy session for Hercules.
- 0:12Now, when I say Hercules, I don't mean the real Hercules or,
- 0:16you know, the Hercules movies that we watched as kids or the
- 0:20Disney animation. There's just another code name
- 0:23for someone. Actually, I do have his
- 0:25permission to make this podcast recording, but I don't want to
- 0:28use his real name. So I'm going to use the name
- 0:30Hercules. And the guy in question has
- 0:33agreed that I use the name Hercules.
- 0:35So today's a strategy searching for Hercules because he's a
- 0:37strong guy. Now, Hercules reached out to me
- 0:42on WhatsApp. That's on the 30th of January
- 0:442025. He's also a podcast listener,
- 0:48and he is a digital and affiliate marker who is having,
- 0:51sorry I say marker affiliate marketer.
- 0:54Yeah, who's having a couple of problems with, you know,
- 0:58drumming or business and, you know, the same sort of things
- 1:00that we talk about over here on the podcast.
- 1:03So the reason why I'm making today's recording is just to
- 1:05share some of the good stuff from this interaction because I
- 1:10think some of you might be able to learn from it because there's
- 1:13a couple of mistakes that Hercules is making and a whole
- 1:16bunch of us make as well. Now, if you'd love to connect
- 1:18for a strategy session, the business audit or you want me to
- 1:21answer a couple of questions, then hit me up.
- 1:23Call me or WhatsApp me on 08064662140.
- 1:30The country code is +234. Excuse me.
- 1:34That's for those of you who are not Nigerian.
- 1:36Then also connect with me on WhatsApp, the name to look for
- 1:40establishing my IED. So excuse me, sorry about that.
- 1:47Yesterday was the radio show and then I did a couple of coaching
- 1:51sessions and then the podcast recording.
- 1:53So yesterday was very taxing on my voice.
- 1:54So I am then plus the normal Abuja Hammatan and everything.
- 1:59So I'm recovering from a few things.
- 2:03Where was I? OK, yeah.
- 2:06So I said Hercules now. So the guy's a digital an
- 2:08affiliate marketer, and he's been sending some WhatsApp
- 2:12messages, you know, for outreach, you know, like a whole
- 2:14bunch of us do to try and draw more business.
- 2:17Although me, I don't send those broadcast messages.
- 2:19But I'll explain why in the future, and I'll tell you guys
- 2:22why I don't think that's a good idea for those of you who keep
- 2:25blasting all these messages out, trying to draw more business
- 2:28from total strangers, people you've never met before.
- 2:31I mean, as I'm saying it now, I hope it's beginning to click in
- 2:34your heads why I think that this is a bad idea.
- 2:37Because the technology for something is there doesn't mean
- 2:42necessarily that we have to do it because the whole point is
- 2:45not to being, what's the word, efficient with how many people
- 2:50will reach. The goal is not to wake up and
- 2:52try and reach 5 million people today.
- 2:55The goal is to be effective for the small number of people that
- 2:58you reach. How many productive
- 2:59conversations are you going to have?
- 3:01So if you send out 5 million messages and then you piss off,
- 3:04you know, 4.9999 million of them, I mean, like, what's the
- 3:09point? But then if you only send out 20
- 3:12messages, you end up having conversations with eight people
- 3:15and you end up doing businesses, doing business with three.
- 3:18I mean, which is better? But anyway, we'll talk about
- 3:20that more in the future. But by the way, this is not what
- 3:24Hercules is doing. But Hercules has been sending
- 3:27out WhatsApp messages, trying to promote his teaching services,
- 3:32his affiliate marketing services, his money making on
- 3:35WhatsApp seminar, and then also trying to sell people on social
- 3:41media growth. So let me repeat, Hercules has
- 3:45been sending messages on WhatsApp and this is what he's
- 3:49promoting. He's promoting his teaching
- 3:50services, he's promoting affiliate marketing, he's
- 3:54promoting how to teach you how to make money on WhatsApp, and
- 3:57he's also promoting social media growth.
- 4:02Now, the first question that I have for Hercules is that we
- 4:04have to figure out is, you know, who are you?
- 4:08Are you an affiliate marketer or are you a coach?
- 4:11The answer to this question is really, really important because
- 4:14if you're an affiliate marketer, then the thing you should be
- 4:16doing is you should be doing outreach to other businesses,
- 4:19other companies. You should be doing B to B,
- 4:22trying to sell other people's product.
- 4:26Now an affiliate marketer is just somebody who sells on
- 4:28behalf of somebody else. As in you're not an agent of the
- 4:31person, but sure you will help them sell their thing.
- 4:34That's what an affiliate marketer is.
- 4:36So if I have, well, of course, it has now become mostly an
- 4:42online thing. OK, let me just explain how it
- 4:44works in online thing since it's now mostly an online thing.
- 4:48Let's say I have a course and the name of that course is I
- 4:51will teach you to Hammer in 2025.
- 4:54For those of you who are not Nigerian listening to the
- 4:56podcast, you know in this part of the world when we say you a
- 4:58hammer, that means you're going to blow up as you make big
- 5:01money, good money. So over the name of my courses,
- 5:04I will teach you to Hammer in 2025.
- 5:07A bunch of you listening to this podcast right now who think what
- 5:10I'm doing is OK, you guys might reach out to me and say, oh boy,
- 5:13how far I like what you're doing.
- 5:15Can I sell on your behalf? For every customer that I bring
- 5:18to you, you give me one K. Your cost is 250K.
- 5:22For every customer I bring to you, give me one K.
- 5:25And then I agree. I say sure, no problem.
- 5:26You send me a customer, I give you 1K.
- 5:29And then in your mind you're thinking, OK, you should be able
- 5:30to send 500 customers my way. And if you do that, then what
- 5:34you're going to get is 500 * 1 K.
- 5:36So you get 500 K, Abby, if my math is correct, that's how
- 5:41you're going to make 500,000 naira.
- 5:44So that's essentially what affiliate marketers do.
- 5:47For every single customer that I send your way, you give me X
- 5:50percent, or for every single customer I send your way, you
- 5:53give me X naira or X cobo. So that's what affiliate
- 5:56marketers do. So that's my main question to
- 6:00Hercules and my question to any of you listening to this
- 6:03particular session right now and you're having difficulties with
- 6:08all the outreach, the marketing messaging that you're putting
- 6:10out there. Who are you?
- 6:14If you're an affiliate marketer, sell to other companies and tell
- 6:18them bro, Madam, I like what you do.
- 6:22I can help you sell your course. If I sell your course, give me a
- 6:25cut. Your messaging will be tight
- 6:28because you know who you are and you're trying to market to one
- 6:31person. Are you a coach or an
- 6:34instructor? If that's the case, then you're
- 6:37now business to consumer and you're talking to everyday
- 6:41ordinary people. But still, I would advise you to
- 6:43narrow the problems that you solve 'cause I suspect that one
- 6:47of the reasons why you're having problems, Hercules, with your
- 6:49messaging is because it's too broad.
- 6:51It can appeal to everybody and nobody at the same time.
- 6:54Teaching services, affiliate marketing, making money on
- 6:57WhatsApp, social media growth. It can appeal to everybody and
- 7:01to no one. And messaging to everybody, at
- 7:03the end of the day is messaging to nobody.
- 7:07The first time I saw it and I looked through it, it took me
- 7:11like I had to actually sit and think before it clicked in my
- 7:14mind. Like what does Hercules do
- 7:16again? Because you know, you're
- 7:17receiving lots of messages and I'm responding and things like
- 7:20that. After a while, actually forgot
- 7:22Hercules are being real here. Actually forgot what it is that
- 7:25you do. Unlike somebody who says, hey,
- 7:29Tavishma, love the podcast, I'm a fashion designer, blah, blah,
- 7:32blah. The conversation continues.
- 7:34I won't forget that the person is a fashion designer.
- 7:37The person didn't say I'm a fashion designer.
- 7:39Sometimes I do bricklaying, the other times I sell catfish.
- 7:42Apart from that, I also do digital design services and then
- 7:45I'm also a full growth stock marketer.
- 7:48As the conversation continues after a while, I will even
- 7:50forget like I had this babe, what does she do again?
- 7:53And I have to scroll to the top to remember it's Hercules to be
- 7:59Homefront. Man, this there's a bit much
- 8:01teaching services, affiliate marketing, making money on
- 8:03WhatsApp, social media growth. Who are you?
- 8:07What do you do? Are you an affiliate marketer?
- 8:10Sell your affiliate marketing services only.
- 8:13Are you a coach or an instructor?
- 8:15Then pick what it is that you're instructing on and then start
- 8:19marketing to those people. It's easier to sell if you
- 8:23narrow down the problem set that you solve the problem sets or is
- 8:27easier to sell if you narrow down your ICPICP is your ideal
- 8:31customer profile, the ideal client, the person you like
- 8:33working working with best. So pick either way your ICP,
- 8:39narrow it down. The problems that you solve,
- 8:41narrow it down. But primarily the big question
- 8:44I'm going to ask you, Hercules, is who are you?
- 8:47Once you decide who you are, the rest of the journey is going to
- 8:50be a lot easier. Excuse me?
- 8:52Because if you're an affiliate marketer, the journey will not
- 8:54become clear on what you have to do.
- 8:58If you're a coach or an instructor, everything will not
- 9:01become clear on what it is that you need to do next.
- 9:04Now the next thing, Hercules, I need to pay attention.
- 9:08I need to pay attention to is this Hercules actually use
- 9:15WhatsApp status, putting posts on WhatsApp status and well,
- 9:20it's good. That's how I promote my own
- 9:22podcast on WhatsApp status. But the posts that he posts are
- 9:25essentially, you know, by my services kind of posts, you
- 9:28know, like the first thing that we spoke about in in the
- 9:30beginning, you know, you know, hello, this is me.
- 9:34This is what I do teaching services, affiliate marketing,
- 9:36making money on WhatsApp, social media growth, that kind of
- 9:39messaging. Now the, the problem with that
- 9:42kind of messaging, let me just call it buy my services
- 9:45messaging is when you put those kinds of things on WhatsApp
- 9:48status, people eventually ignore you, they hide you or they block
- 9:52you. And that's because when people
- 9:55are on WhatsApp status, they're bored or they're looking for
- 9:58excitement or they're whatever. People on WhatsApp status are
- 10:02not necessarily in the mood to buy something.
- 10:05So picture this, somebody opens their WhatsApp status.
- 10:08The first status they see from you is buy my stuff, teaching
- 10:12services, affiliate marketing, making money, social media
- 10:14growth. The next post is a different
- 10:17variation of buy my stuff, teaching services, affiliate
- 10:20marketing, making money on WhatsApp, social media growth.
- 10:23You're getting the point. They see temples from you every
- 10:25day and then that's it. After a while, they mentally
- 10:29check out or they select that thing.
- 10:34See less post from this from this person.
- 10:39So you need to mix it up. The WhatsApp status strategy
- 10:46should either be built around entertainment or education
- 10:50because that is what will get you the engagement that you're
- 10:52looking for. Remember WhatsApp status, we're
- 10:55trying to do entertainment or education.
- 10:57If you're entertaining, people will look forward to seeing your
- 11:00stuff. I know because I've tried.
- 11:04I have a dry sense of humor. I have a wacky sense of humor,
- 11:06and I'm very good at that jokes. And so I tested it for a while,
- 11:11I did nothing but post only that jokes.
- 11:14It was a hit. People knew that every single
- 11:18day you would get about 10 bad dad jokes from me.
- 11:23And it was a nice way that people used to, you know, catch
- 11:27trips. Some people.
- 11:28You won't tell me that, man. It's your jokes.
- 11:29I like it. Every time I get it, I send to
- 11:31my wife. Every time I get it, I send to
- 11:33my husband. And I was having real
- 11:35conversations around that. But the reason why I stopped is
- 11:38because I don't want to make a living by being a comedian.
- 11:42So, yeah, I think I'm funny or, you know, I have a sense of
- 11:46humor. I think I can sell.
- 11:48But I really don't want to make a living being a comedian.
- 11:50And I that's not what I want to be associated with.
- 11:52So I stopped. But to be honest with you, the
- 11:58jokes, the kind of engagement that was getting me is not quite
- 12:01the same that now all the only thing I post is business
- 12:04content. I also tried with music because
- 12:07I have a really interesting taste in music.
- 12:10Like yesterday I was listening to SA Osita OSA DB, that's some
- 12:14Korean high life music. The day before that I was
- 12:18listening to Oliver the Coke, and the day before that I was
- 12:21listening to what's his name? Morocco.
- 12:27Count something on Morocco. I can't remember.
- 12:28Like some correct high life ego musicians.
- 12:31So I share stuff like that on my status and nothing gets lots of
- 12:34engagement. IBO people will be like, oh boy,
- 12:36you listen to this kind of music.
- 12:37I'm like, yeah, of course now. So do you even know what this
- 12:40thing means? Like, I mean, I don't know, I'm
- 12:41just feeling the vibe. Excuse me.
- 12:43And then we start having conversations around IBO music
- 12:49and then sometimes it's gospel music and then somebody who
- 12:51said, oh boy, are you a Christian?
- 12:52I say yes, now I'm Catholic. Now say, OK, I didn't know that
- 12:55Catholics are Christians. I say, you idiot, how you know
- 12:57that Catholics are not Christians and we know the
- 12:59original Christians. From there you now start using.
- 13:02So entertainment builds engagement.
- 13:06I know this one first hand because I can tell you that when
- 13:10I put up the dad jokes, when I try to put up funny stuff, when
- 13:13I put up music, I get mad engagement.
- 13:16But when I put up business stuff V everywhere is just quiet and
- 13:21we hear anything. Maybe once in a while somebody
- 13:23will say, boss, I don't understand, explain this to me,
- 13:27share this one to me. But generally quiet.
- 13:31But either way, Hercules, you need to decide for WhatsApp
- 13:37status. What is going to work is either
- 13:39entertainment or education. If you can find ways to put up
- 13:43entertaining content that is going to get you engagement
- 13:46around your business, then good for you.
- 13:51If you want to try the dry education route like I am doing,
- 13:53good for you. If you're wondering how can I
- 13:56come up with entertaining ideas to promote my business, that is
- 14:01the reason why Google Gemini has been invented.
- 14:04Take your phone, open up the Google folder.
- 14:07You will see an icon there that is a white background with a
- 14:10four point star. Click on that.
- 14:12Once you click on it, Gemini will open and then you ask you
- 14:16say dear Gemini, I am a Nigerian business person.
- 14:20Ioffer teaching services, affiliate marketing, making
- 14:22money on WhatsApp and social media growth.
- 14:26I want to promote my business on WhatsApp status.
- 14:28Come up with 20 entertaining ideas that I can use to create
- 14:33content to promote my business. Then hit send.
- 14:36I see what Google Gemini sends you back.
- 14:39It will send a bunch of stuff that you don't like.
- 14:42Ignore for the ones that you like.
- 14:45Start implementing, it's better than sitting down and doing
- 14:50nothing. It's also better than posting
- 14:53the same thing every day, which is essentially buy my services,
- 14:56buy my services, buy my services and then you end up being
- 14:58ignored, you end up being hid or you end up being blocked.
- 15:03Then Hercules also, Oh, sorry, it's not as if you won't say buy
- 15:07my services or now. It's just that buy my services
- 15:10would be once in a while. So maybe Monday, Wednesday,
- 15:13Friday entertaining content, Tuesday and Thursday educational
- 15:20content, maybe Saturday pictures of, you know, you, your wife,
- 15:25your family, your kids, maybe Sunday something about God, and
- 15:30then maybe every second Wednesday, buy my stuff.
- 15:34So that's how it works, you know, spice it up.
- 15:37Then he also said that he has a lack of confidence because of
- 15:42some ideas, you know, things that he tried out in the past
- 15:45that didn't work. And OK, one thing I'm going to
- 15:50say, Hercules, is you actually are on track for this one
- 15:55because you've reached out to me.
- 15:56That's good. But actually, I think you should
- 16:00be investing your time and investing your money in training
- 16:04from other people who are in the affiliate marketing space, who
- 16:09are affiliate marketing specialists.
- 16:11Because in case you haven't noticed, Hercules, I am not an
- 16:16affiliate marketing specialist. It's a different field.
- 16:20I have some skills that can make you more efficient as an
- 16:22affiliate marketer, but it's a different field.
- 16:25You know, different mental models, different frameworks,
- 16:30different execution. It's different, so it's good
- 16:33that you've reached out to me, but actually you should be
- 16:35reaching out to affiliate marketing specialists.
- 16:39Join affiliate marketing communities and groups because
- 16:43there are plenty on WhatsApp and on Facebook.
- 16:46The whole point of joining these communities is you're going to
- 16:49try and figure out the frameworks for affiliate
- 16:52marketing, the principles for affiliate marketing so that you
- 16:56can execute because lots of times when people suffer from a
- 16:59lack of confidence, just like in your own case, because some
- 17:02things didn't work out. The problem is you didn't have a
- 17:06plan in the 1st place. So what you're doing is you're
- 17:08just freestyling. Today you try like this,
- 17:10tomorrow you try like this and what you're trying like this,
- 17:12trying like that. On your freestyling, not
- 17:14everything is going to work. So the first thing you need to
- 17:17do is come up with a plan. When you have a plan and you
- 17:19execute it faithfully and you execute it the best of your
- 17:23ability, eventually you're going to start seeing results and you
- 17:25start noticing that, OK, this playbook was works best for
- 17:28these kinds of conditions. Let me continue.
- 17:31This kind of playbook doesn't work well for these kinds of
- 17:33conditions. Let me discontinue, but join
- 17:36affiliate marketing communities, join the affiliate marketing
- 17:38groups, look for an affiliate marketing specialist.
- 17:41Start listening to that person's podcast, start listening to
- 17:44their YouTube videos, you know, pay for the person's coaching
- 17:46services or whatever. But bottom, what I'm trying to
- 17:50say is figure out the frameworks, figure out the
- 17:53principles and then begin to execute.
- 17:55Once you do that, confidence starts to go up.
- 17:58But don't worry, nobody was born with confidence.
- 17:59You know, small, small. Like I tell my son when he gets
- 18:03frustrated sometimes I tell him that look, we've been through
- 18:05this before. In the beginning you refused to
- 18:08crawl. You decided you wanted to walk,
- 18:09but you were a baby so I couldn't stop you.
- 18:12And you fell lots of times. And each time you fell, you
- 18:15would get angry, but you would cry and then you try again.
- 18:18So I tell my son, look, you're a natural fighter.
- 18:20This how you've been fighting from day one.
- 18:21You refused to crawl, you wanted to walk, and no problem, you
- 18:26took the hit, you took the falls.
- 18:28But that's what you have to do. So I remind my son that, look,
- 18:31we've been here before, so don't get discouraged.
- 18:34Continue to fall, continue to learn.
- 18:36You know, eventually this thing that you're trying to do, you
- 18:38will do. You're a fighter.
- 18:39You've done this before, so don't worry.
- 18:41So that's how we get confidence. You stand your fall, you stand
- 18:44your fall, you stand your fall. Eventually you figure it out and
- 18:46then you move on. So next thing for Hercules, he's
- 18:51been doing work for free, but he has not been able to get some
- 18:54conversions. Now, this is what a conversion
- 18:56mean. A conversion means you try to
- 18:58get people to take the next step with you.
- 19:00So the one you listen to this podcast, some of you reach out
- 19:03and say, hey, big time, what's up now?
- 19:06I like what you do. How can we talk?
- 19:07Let's see if we can do one or two things.
- 19:09I think you can help me like this.
- 19:11And then eventually a person deposits money in my account and
- 19:13I do some coaching and consulting for them, maybe some
- 19:16speaking at their office. That is conversions.
- 19:19You do one thing, you convert to another, You convert.
- 19:21You take another step, another step, another step, and then
- 19:24ping him. Money enters your account.
- 19:26That is what conversion means. So Hercules says he's been doing
- 19:29some work for free, but conversions, conversions.
- 19:32No, they happen as in it's not happening.
- 19:35Things are not entering into his bank account.
- 19:37Now, I would like to be upfront about something.
- 19:44Doing work for free can lead to conversions.
- 19:46Yeah, it can. It can work, but you have to be
- 19:49upfront about it because lots of people are doing work for free,
- 19:52but they're not being upfront about what they expect in return
- 19:55or how this is going to work. So if you're doing work for free
- 19:58for people, but you're not saying anything, you know, I
- 20:01expect this or this is the next step.
- 20:03This is how it's going to work. People will take your free work
- 20:06and say thank you very much, My my brother, May God bless you
- 20:09and they will mean well and I'll pray for you.
- 20:11It's just that right now you don't need their prayers.
- 20:13What you need is you need to be hamping him, ping him and you
- 20:16look at your phone and you see that XYZ has deposited 100K in
- 20:20your bank account. That's what you need right now.
- 20:23So you just have to be upfront about the whole thing.
- 20:26When you're doing work for free, boss, I'll do this work for you
- 20:30for free. I can help you achieve XY
- 20:32results at no costs. But if so, boss, I'm hoping that
- 20:38what we're going to do next is for XYZ months, I will do this
- 20:41work for you, but at ABC price Bros, what do you think?
- 20:46Now you're being upfront, Bros can either say no problem now
- 20:49let's try now. If it works out and this is
- 20:51where the results you deliver, then you're sure I'll be able to
- 20:54drop, you know, 50K for us to continue for the next three
- 20:57months. Be explicit about your
- 21:01expectations when you're having all these free work
- 21:03conversations. Even me selfie, you can't be
- 21:05giving me work for free. Like, I'll take it and I'll say
- 21:08thank you. Actually, after a while, my
- 21:12conscience will start to break me.
- 21:13And I ask you like, hey, look, dude, you've been doing this
- 21:15thing for free or a level with me.
- 21:17Like, what's up? Like, what do you want in
- 21:19return? But if you tell me that, oh, no,
- 21:22no, no, really, just out of the goodness of my heart, I'll tell
- 21:24you, OK, no problem. Thank you and I'll take it.
- 21:27So just be really explicit, explicit talk about your
- 21:31expectations. Let's have expectations on both
- 21:34ends. And we're having all these
- 21:35conversations for free work. But for me, the main benefit of
- 21:39free work actually is the testimonials that you get, the
- 21:42credibility and the competence that you get and the chance that
- 21:44you have to build your portfolio.
- 21:46Maybe you build some referrals. But The thing is with the
- 21:49testimonials, with the credibility, with the competence
- 21:51and with the portfolio, you will now use that to start chasing
- 21:54other jobs. So I'm not, I don't have a
- 21:58problem for doing free work. In fact, my preference is if
- 22:00you're going to do free work, do it for the portfolio, do it for
- 22:04like 4 or five people. Take your results, package it
- 22:07well. Now use your results and start
- 22:09prospecting. When you're prospecting to other
- 22:12people, you will now be telling them, Mister Man, Mr. Woman, I
- 22:16have been able to achieve XYZ results for these five
- 22:19businesses. The pictures, see them, I'm
- 22:22showing you the results. See it, I'm showing you.
- 22:25Are you interested to see if I can do the same for you?
- 22:28And then keep quiet. And then you hear some people
- 22:32will say, no thanks, I'm not interested.
- 22:33Some people will say you achieve a results for this business.
- 22:36That business really, you really did this thing for Philip.
- 22:39So I know Philip now. So you even know Philip.
- 22:41Call Philip and ask him. Now.
- 22:43I'm the one that worked on on this and this and this for him.
- 22:48And then you ask, are you interested to see how we can do
- 22:51the same for you? The person says yes, very good.
- 22:54That's it. Your free work in the past is
- 22:56now paying off. You don't have to tell everybody
- 22:59they did it for free. When I started off as a wedding
- 23:02photographer, I told you I shot 8 weddings for free.
- 23:04I didn't tell, OK, I shot 7 for free for one customer, I-1
- 23:10client, I charge a person 50 Ki did not tell the future people
- 23:14that look, these 8 weddings are shot for free.
- 23:16They don't need to know that. What they need to know is that
- 23:18I'm good, I've got skills and this is what I can deliver.
- 23:23So that's my own preference. If you're going to do the free
- 23:26thing, go ahead. Well, the focus actually is
- 23:29testimonials and portfolio. The only ability to show that
- 23:35this is what I can do. These people can vouch for me.
- 23:37I'm legit. I'm the guy, I'm the very babe.
- 23:42So that's my own take when it comes to free work.
- 23:45Now, the final thing that I would like to put out there is I
- 23:50asked them, Hercules, what his definition of selling was, and
- 23:53what he said was a little troubling.
- 23:55It's a little troubling because it's the same definition that a
- 24:01whole host of you over here have.
- 24:05Hercules said that selling is convincing someone into your own
- 24:08idea or into what it is that you want to do.
- 24:12And that definition is very problematic.
- 24:17I repeat, Hercules said that selling is convincing someone
- 24:20into your idea or into your own thing.
- 24:23So excuse me now that is problematic.
- 24:30So First off, I'd like to start by saying this.
- 24:33I've said this lots of times on the podcast and want to say it
- 24:35again for those of you who are listening to this for the first
- 24:38time. You cannot convince someone to
- 24:42do something that they already did not want to do.
- 24:45Let me repeat, you cannot convince someone to do something
- 24:50that they didn't already want to do.
- 24:55If you're trying to convince someone to do something and they
- 24:58don't want to do it, the process you have chosen is laden with
- 25:02friction. It is full of friction.
- 25:05You are pushing. The person is pushing back.
- 25:09The sales works best when you know you lean back.
- 25:11The person for follows you. The person leads back you to you
- 25:15leaning. You guys are moving in the same
- 25:17direction. You know, you're swinging back
- 25:18and forth. You guys are moving together.
- 25:20It's a relationship. But if I say A, you say B, and
- 25:24we're butting heads. I mean, yeah, people can close
- 25:28sales that way, but the less friction we have in the process,
- 25:31the better. So instead of trying to convince
- 25:35people who don't agree, spend time looking for people who are
- 25:41already interested. So Hercules, the reason why I'm
- 25:47frustrated is because you're wasting too much time talking to
- 25:50people who will never buy. You're trying to convince them.
- 25:54Somebody says no, somebodies are not interested.
- 25:56You're still trying to convince them.
- 25:57Somebody's ghosting you. You're still trying to convince
- 25:59them. You're still trying to convince
- 26:00them. It is not about convincing
- 26:03someone into your idea, It is about looking for someone who
- 26:07already has your own idea. You guys already are on the same
- 26:12level. If you guys are on the same
- 26:15level, the future conversations will be smooth.
- 26:20So just change your understanding.
- 26:22If you're listening to this podcast right now, you're one of
- 26:23those people who thinks that sales is about convincing
- 26:26somebody into your own way. You have picked a path that is
- 26:30not going to serve you well. Stop looking for people to
- 26:33convince. Look for people who are already
- 26:36convinced and who already believe and then tell them, OK,
- 26:38this is how we can work together.
- 26:39This is the results I can help you achieve.
- 26:43So the proper understanding of sales is this.
- 26:46When you're having conversations with people, try and figure out
- 26:48who is interested, try and figure out their motivations in
- 26:52your own head. You'll be asking yourselves, OK,
- 26:54this is what the person truly wants is their alignment.
- 26:56Can I deliver this? And can I deliver it in a way
- 27:00that will give me a nice profit margin?
- 27:02And there's not going to be any quarrel.
- 27:03If there's an alignment, then you make an effective proposal.
- 27:07OK, I understand what it is that you're trying to say.
- 27:09With my skill set, with my inventory, with the things I
- 27:11have in store, with the connections I have, I can help
- 27:14you achieve this, this, this, this, this.
- 27:16And this is how we can help you do that.
- 27:19What do you think? Is that something that you're
- 27:20interested in doing? And then you continue to follow
- 27:23up because it's not everybody that is going to drop money
- 27:26immediately. Make an effective proposal.
- 27:29But summary is if there is no alignment, just say goodbye and
- 27:33move on to the next person. Stop trying to convince people.
- 27:38Sales and business is hard enough that you wake up every
- 27:41day. You try to talk to 20 people and
- 27:45of the 20 people, 17 of them you're convincing, you're
- 27:48explaining, you are educating, you are psyching, you are
- 27:53begging, you are pushing. Like life is hard enough as it
- 27:55is. Just make it easy.
- 27:57If you talk to 20 people and it looks as if 17 of them need some
- 28:03convincing, just free it. Put them in a relationship
- 28:06building campaign, keep them in WhatsApp, send them helpful
- 28:09resources, things like that. But the goal is to look for
- 28:12people who are already interested, which is why I still
- 28:16keep telling you guys that the first time you're talking to
- 28:18somebody, it's like the example that I gave for the marketer of
- 28:24real estate. You start off the conversation,
- 28:26not by trying to educate the person that do you know that
- 28:31buying wealth in Abuja is buying land in Abuja is the greatest
- 28:34way to be to build wealth. That's why you start off these
- 28:37conversations. All these do you know, do you
- 28:39know conversations you're trying to educate somebody rather go
- 28:43and ask, have you ever thought about adding landed property to
- 28:49your investment portfolio? Some people will say, what does
- 28:52that question mean? So actually what it means is
- 28:55this and then you have the conversation, you find somebody
- 28:58who's interested. Some people will say, Nope, I do
- 29:01not believe in real estate as as an investment category.
- 29:06And that's the point where you say, oh really?
- 29:07Tell me more. You hear the person out.
- 29:11And truly, if the person doesn't believe in real estate as an
- 29:13investment category, but you happen to know a stockbroker,
- 29:16pass the person along to your friend who's a stockbroker,
- 29:18collect your 10% Commission. If the person says no I don't
- 29:22want to get landed property as an investment but I am looking
- 29:27for a place to go and rent, then you know you can have a fruitful
- 29:30conversation. But don't start off these things
- 29:33by saying do you know that buying a land in Abuja in 2025
- 29:38is the surest way to triple your money between 2025 and 2026?
- 29:45Don't start off the conversation that way.
- 29:47Go and look for any flavor of question that starts the
- 29:51conversation saying are you interested in?
- 29:55Have you ever thought about? Do you think it would be a nice
- 30:00idea too? Chief Odoku has done this and
- 30:05this is what he achieved. Would you like to know too?
- 30:08Would you like to learn more as well?
- 30:10Would you like to explore it too?
- 30:14The goal is, is the person already interested and already
- 30:18motivated? Those are the people that you
- 30:20should be talking to. So Hercules, please change your
- 30:23ideas about selling. For the rest of you listening to
- 30:25this podcast who are like Hercules, change your ideas
- 30:28about serving. I'm selling.
- 30:30If you continue like that, you will spend every single day,
- 30:33Monday to Friday. And you find that 80% of the
- 30:35time you're talking to people and it's like doing head butt
- 30:38every day. You're trying to convince,
- 30:40trying to convince, trying to educate, trying to educate.
- 30:43And that is tiring. We're human, we're mere mortals.
- 30:48There's a limit to how much educate, convince, educate.
- 30:51Convinced that we can do Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday,
- 30:53Friday, and then to now do that 20 days for the rest of the
- 30:57month. Many stress.
- 31:00All right, as I wrap up, Hercules, I would like to say
- 31:06stop sending unsolicited links because that's one thing I
- 31:10noticed in our conversation. When you send unsolicited links,
- 31:14people ignore you, people block you, people ignore you.
- 31:18An unsolicited link just means this is what unsolicited means.
- 31:22Or solicit. Unsolicited just means I didn't
- 31:24ask you, I didn't say I was interested.
- 31:28So if you're sending a link APDF, download a picture is
- 31:31something the person didn't ask you, the person didn't say you
- 31:35are interested. That is unsolicited.
- 31:38Let me give you an example. If my wife is with the kids,
- 31:42someone at the birthday party, my son does something silly, she
- 31:44snaps the picture she sends. I'll look at it.
- 31:47That's cute. They're my sons so I didn't ask
- 31:50her for that particular photo. But because of the context on
- 31:53our relationship, it is not unsolicited.
- 31:56I'm interested, so send me the photo.
- 31:59That's really nice. Can you send this photo to my
- 32:02mum as well? My mum will like it.
- 32:04That is not unsolicited. But if my wife now takes that
- 32:07picture and she sends it to you, you as in you who are listening
- 32:14to the podcast right now, maybe because, you know, you and I are
- 32:18friends or something like it's also listed like from where to
- 32:21where? Like, Madam, did I ask you to
- 32:23send me pictures of your children?
- 32:25Did I say I was interested in pictures of your children?
- 32:28That is unsolicited. So stop sending unsolicited
- 32:34messages, especially when those messages contains contain links,
- 32:38'cause that's how the conversation with me and him
- 32:39started. I just saw a link in my inbox,
- 32:42Bra. Well, of course, since I'm in
- 32:45sales and I like to be nice to other sales people, I always
- 32:48proud to try and figure out who are you?
- 32:50Why are you sending me all this kind of stuff?
- 32:52And then I was like, oh, this is me, the guy that made a comment
- 32:55on your podcast. So, oh, OK.
- 32:56Then the conversation continued. Just sending unsolicited links,
- 33:01unsolicited messages, that kind of stuff gets you ignored, gets
- 33:04you blocked, especially nowadays that people have found ways.
- 33:09I mean Nigerians are smart. I don't know how they do it.
- 33:11They send you a link, you click on it and then next thing we
- 33:13have cloned your WhatsApp, they have hijacked your WhatsApp.
- 33:17Then they start sending messages to people.
- 33:18They please help me, I have police Biggie send me 50K.
- 33:23They send that message to all your contacts.
- 33:26Maybe four or five people might send 5050 K and then that's it.
- 33:29Then I have a 200K. Then I'll call you later on and
- 33:32say oh boy, how far would that police matter?
- 33:34Are you OK? So I wish police matters.
- 33:36I received WhatsApp message from you.
- 33:37Now that you have police matter, I say no, no, no, no, that was
- 33:40not me. And believe me, these things
- 33:42happen because I just changed in one day.
- 33:45And then my landlady, you know, she called me up like look,
- 33:47don't pay any money. I say I pay any money.
- 33:49How my this thing has been hijacked.
- 33:50And then true truth, I don't have been hijacked.
- 33:53So please, maybe if you're selling in the UK or Latin
- 34:00America or North America or whatever, you can send whatever.
- 34:05But in Nigeria, please stop sending unsolicited messages
- 34:09with unsolicited links and unsolicited material or
- 34:12solicited just means I didn't ask you and I didn't say I was
- 34:15interested. If you want to send, ask the
- 34:19person first. So hello, Mr. so, so, so and so
- 34:24might you be interested in this disease?
- 34:25Actually, I am explain some more.
- 34:28OK, It is like this, like this, like this.
- 34:30Can I share with you some resources that will explain
- 34:33better? Oh, yes, please send you now
- 34:35send the link. So that's how it works.
- 34:39All right, now let me bring it to a close for Hercules.
- 34:42If you would like to connect for strategy session, the business
- 34:46audit or you want me to answer a couple of questions, then reach
- 34:50out to me on WhatsApp. The number is 08064662140.
- 34:55The country code is +234. Also connect with me on WhatsApp
- 34:58the name to look for establishing my ID.
- 35:00I'm the host of the show. So thank you very much for your
- 35:03time and attention. I will catch you guys at the
- 35:05next episode. And Hercules, I hope a bunch of
- 35:09stuff that I've said here has been helpful.
- 35:11But really, I really think the main question that you need to
- 35:14solve and the main thing you need to ask yourself is you need
- 35:16to sit down, have a conversation with yourself as yourself.
- 35:21Who am I? Am I an affiliate marketer or am
- 35:25IA coach? If you answer I'm an affiliate
- 35:28marketer, what you need to do to grow your business is much more
- 35:31clear. If you answer I am a coach, what
- 35:36you need to do becomes a lot more clear.
- 35:39But if you decide I am both an affiliate marketer and I'm a
- 35:41coach and I'm going to sell teaching services, affiliate
- 35:44marketing, making money on WhatsApp and social media, well,
- 35:49I would say it can't work. You just, you're multiplying the
- 35:53kind of work that you need to do.
- 35:57If you start off as affiliate marketer, become really good at
- 36:00affiliate marketing, maybe you've now been doing it for
- 36:02like 710 years and like you're the best in Niger.
- 36:06You now want to try and sell a course like OK, this is how I
- 36:09made 1 billion in affiliate marketing.
- 36:12This is how I will teach you to be rich.
- 36:15Release the course. That's a different thing.
- 36:18You have now started like, OK, I'm an affiliate marketer first.
- 36:23You become the Don first, then you now start trying to sell
- 36:26your coaching thing. So ask yourself, who are you?
- 36:31The answer will determine what it is that you have to do next.
- 36:33So thank you very much everyone for listening.
- 36:35I'll catch you at the next episode.