"I Didn't Have A Self" | An Avoidant Wife Explains What Broke
Kate is the admittedly avoidant partner to Tyler Ely, the anxious partner I had on a previous live stream. Tyler read The Dead Bedroom Fix, backed off, and started working on his own security. It helped. We heard his side. This one is hers.
Three years ago they sat in therapy and talked about ending it. Today she cancels plans so she can be around him.
What she gets into:
Why she stopped believing him even while he was doing everything right
The two books they handed each other, and how both got taken as an insult
Why the divorce conversation came four months AFTER they started working on the…
The skinny
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