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E271: The Real Reason You Can't "Let Go" in Bed

You're finally in bed together, but you can’t stop thinking about tomorrow's to-do list.

We've all heard the advice to “just let go”. Stop thinking, stop controlling, lose yourself.

But 80% of you tell us that you struggle to actually do that.

So we're saying something a little controversial this week: "just let go" might be the worst sex advice out there. Listen in to learn what actually helps you feel present and connected to your partner during sex.

💛 In this episode, you'll hear:

Why "just let go" tends to backfire and pull you further into your head

The real reasons your brain won't…

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