How to Manage a Boss Who Gaslights You

The Difficult Boss Podcast with Fexingo: Managing Up, Toxic Managers, and Workplace Survival · Jul 11, 2026 · 6m · transcript

Episode 107 of The Difficult Boss Podcast tackles gaslighting bosses — the subtle but corrosive behavior where a manager denies reality, rewrites history, or makes you question your own competence. Lucas and Luna walk through the telltale signs, drawing on a real example from a former Citigroup compliance officer whose boss repeatedly claimed she'd never sent emails he had actually replied to. They explore why gaslighting especially thrives in remote work environments where documentation gaps can be weaponized, and offer three concrete strategies: the 'paper trail plus witness&#x27…