Speed Dating Disasters, Self-Love Detours, and Why We Should Probably Just Start Our Own Matchmaking Service

it’s nothing. I’m fine. · Jul 7, 2026 · 1h 2m

Katie went speed dating. The men were older than advertised. One of them slipped her his number anyway — against the actual rules. And somehow, this became the perfect jumping-off point for everything. Michelle and Katie — two women in their 40s navigating the wildly weird world of midlife dating — are back for round two, and this episode goes deep. They talk about what it actually means to love yourself before you look for love from someone else (spoiler: it's not just a bumper sticker), how emotional self-regulation is the skill nobody taught us and everybody needs, and why building a…