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Love Your Love Muscle - Silent Walking: A Digital Detox for the Soul · Transformational Meditation Podcast

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  Hello everyone.
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  Welcome back to Love Your Love Muscle, a biweekly podcast
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  about living from the heart, heart-focused meditation,
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  heart focused self-regulation techniques.
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  We should reconnect our heart to our brain, right?
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  And the other way around.
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  Uh, I'm sep, I'm your host for today.
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  I'm the founder of the Transformational Meditation Group,
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  A group for people that want to transform their lives
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  by using meditation and self-regulation techniques,
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  and of course, people that want to transform the lives
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  of others as well, which you do automatically
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  when you do heart-focused living.
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  Um, last week
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  I was on a podcast by Jody
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  Albert Moss from Canada.
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  I've had a podcast with him before
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  and then he was on my podcast, and now I was on his podcast.
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  It was great fun. It's a great guy.
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  And he interviewed me about my work,
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  the Transformation Meditation Group.
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  And we had special focus on living from the heart.
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  What is it when we reconnect our heart to our brain?
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  And I explained that in the West, especially,
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  uh, and I sometimes I hear people have the same experience
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  when they grow up, go to school.
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  Uh, they notice that, uh, especially for the guys
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  amongst us, that, uh, now times sometimes have heard like,
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  uh, sentences like, big boys don't cry, right?
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  They have to be strong. And our whole society is
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  going in a direction or went into a direction.
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  It's not going in a direction so much anymore,
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  but it's still a thing our society is, uh,
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  very up in our head.
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  And by saying to children,
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  especially like a big boy, don't cry.
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  Um, suppress your feelings, right?
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  That's what we are saying
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  to our get children, suppress your feelings.
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  By suppressing our feelings, we actually
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  are disconnecting our feeling, part of our being,
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  which is our heart and our gut.
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  So everything up above the heart
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  and below, below, uh,
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  gets cut off from our logical thinking from our brain
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  and which what is,
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  what is connecting our heart to our brain?
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  Well, that's our nervous system, especially the vagus nerve.
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  So in a sense, by, um,
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  living in our heads, being there focusing on everything
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  that we, in logic and analyst analysis
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  and leaving our feelings behind, we actually separating.
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  We cutting our vagus nerve, especially, which is one
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  of the 12 major cranial nerves coming from the brain, uh,
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  straight to, uh, connecting us straight to our organs.
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  We, we actually cut that off.
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  So it's not only the, the heart we, uh,
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  we cut from the brain, but also our other organs.
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  And isn't strange that when that happens,
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  then we are only living in the head that we lose contact
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  with our body and especially our feelings and emotions
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  and things get dysregulated.
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  In countries where I'm living, for example, in Norway, uh,
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  there's an increase of people having psychological problems.
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  Mental health is a big issue in, uh, in countries where
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  apparently it's very nice to live.
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  People seem to be happy,
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  but it's only based on the amount of money that is going
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  around and how the government, um, uh, deals with money and,
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  and, and, uh, um, divides money amongst the people.
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  Uh, but mental health is still a problem
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  if you really look at how a country is doing.
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  Uh, and on the Happiness Index, we shouldn't look at
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  what a FN or the UN has as a, as a happiness index.
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  We should look at other organizations
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  that have a happiness index based on really feeling not on
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  the money that is being spent, but on how they feel.
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  And there we see that countries
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  where people are the happiest are the countries
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  that don't have much money.
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  But where there is a connection between people still, uh,
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  a connection between, uh, communities,
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  people in certain communities
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  and they don't need much money,
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  but as long as they have each other
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  and help each other, uh, people are happy.
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  People survive, people dealing collaboratively
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  with their issues
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  and with everyday life, which makes people more happy.
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  When you go to the richer countries, like
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  what the UN says are the happiest countries in the world,
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  we see a increase of loneliness and mental health problems.
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  Um, because people aren't connected to each other anymore,
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  they are more on themselves.
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  It's the government that's relying
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  or they rely on the government funding, uh,
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  and not on each other so much anymore.
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  Um, so the connection between people gets lost
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  and the same is happening inside of us in these countries
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  where we have big problems with mental health.
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  It's not only because we're not talking
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  to each other anymore or keeping our distance
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  or can be bothered with other people.
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  It is because we also miss the connection between our brain
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  and the rest of our body.
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  Our feelings, our brain
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  and our feelings, our logical thinking
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  and our feelings, they're not connected anymore.
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  Once you focus on your heart,
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  it means you automatically are using your brain
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  and focus on your heart.
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  You listen to your heart. What am I feeling?
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  You listen to your gut, your heart, everything
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  above the heart and below you start to listen to you start
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  to focus on what does this mean to me?
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  How do I feel about this?
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  Uh, is this a good situation to be in?
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  And you also learn to solve issues.
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  That way you become more resilient,
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  which means you can cope better
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  with not having the connection with other people maybe,
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  or you can cope better in social situations
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  because you let your feelings speak your become whole again
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  by reconnecting your heart to your brain.
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  So that's what we were talking about in that podcast
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  with your Albert mos.
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  I will put the link below.
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  I want you to watch it and of course, also, uh, watch
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  and listen to his other podcast as well.
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  Um, so please do that
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  because he is inviting very interesting
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  casters, uh, to every podcast.
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  I want to focus today on reconnecting
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  the brain to the heart, of course,
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  and using the vagus nerve.
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  And how can we stimulate the vagus nerve, which I said is
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  one of the most important nerve nerves in our system.
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  It recon, it connects the brain to all our major organs, uh,
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  and information is going back and forth.
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  And I've said it many times that when we focus on our heart
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  and do heart-focused breathing, we create
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  so much energy in our heart
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  and focus in our heart that we optimize the information flow
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  through that nerve to the vagus nerve
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  and the nervous system as a whole.
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  Uh, and just remember
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  that there's five times more information going from the
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  heart to the brain to
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  that vagus nerve than the other way around.
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  So you can imagine that when we cut that off,
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  we're missing as all of a sudden lots of information
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  and it doesn't feel strange then that we feel lonely,
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  even lonely with ourselves.
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  And that, I have to say was one thing I noticed when I
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  reconnected my heart to my brain
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  is I was very comfortable being alone.
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  Uh, I didn't feel alone
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  because I was interacting as a whole being
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  with my environment.
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  And it didn't have to be people in it.
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  It could be animals, it could be nature, plants, whatever.
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  So the whole community becomes larger.
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  Not only people, but everything that lives around you.
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  Everything that happens around you,
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  you become more connected with it.
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  You can deal better with it as well.
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  So, um, a couple of weeks ago for work, I did a exercise
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  with some people, which was, uh,
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  stimulating the vagus nerves by breathing in
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  through the nose and out through the nose.
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  But when you breathe out, you hum.
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  So we can do that together very shortly.
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  Just try it in, try it out together with me.
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  Just sit straight, relax your shoulders
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  and breathe in through your nose very deeply,
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  just slowly and good.
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  And then you pause a little bit
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  and then you breathe out through your nose,
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  but you hum at the same time.
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  All the way out, all the way out.
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  Make that outre longer than you inhale, Right?
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  So that's the trick. So let's do
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  that together a couple of more times.
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  Inhale through your nose in an okay tempo, not too quick,
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  just normal, a little bit slower maybe than usual.
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  Then you breathe out when your lungs are filled with air
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  and hum at the same time.
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  And make it a long exhale while you hum
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  to make it as long as possible.
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  All right? There we go. Breathe in out through your nose,
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  just go on yourself and continue doing this.
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  After your out breath, just breathe in again
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  through your nose, out through your nose and humming.
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  And the humming stimulates the vagus nerve as well.
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  So the two things stimulating the nerve vagus nerve in this
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  exercise, it's the long exhale
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  and it's the sound of the vibrations, the sound,
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  and the vibrations of the humming.
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  All right? So I can try to catch up with you email
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  through your,
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  Just do that.
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  And you don't have to do it high or low.
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  Just feel something that is comfortable for you.
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  When you hum feel the vibration, right?
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  And if you're thinking like, oh, this is a lot like what,
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  uh, people say about meditators, right?
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  They sit in a lotus position with their hands like this
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  and they're like, oh,
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  oh, it's the same.
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  It's the sound, the vibration that works for them. Alright?
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  You can do that a couple of times.
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  So that's how that works.
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  And I think we'll leave it at that, a very short
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  podcast this time.
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  I know people are busy and podcasts at half an hour or more.
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  People don't listen to that anymore.
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  We are living in a fast paced world.
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  We want quick results and quick tips and tricks, right?
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  So please continue yourself if you want to do that.
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  Uh, and uh, yeah, thank you for joining today.
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  Hope you enjoyed this short session.
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  Please click on the link below in the podcast subscription
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  or podcast description, uh, where you go
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  to the podcast of, uh, Jody Albert Moss.
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  And, uh, see my interview there. It was a lot of fun.
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  So take care everyone.
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  Have a wonderful rest of your day and evening.
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  Be safe and namaste.