Latest / Hey Docs! / Navigating Practice Acquisition: Dr. Richard Clabaugh’s Journey
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Welcome to the Haydocks Podcast with your host Jill Allen.
- 0:09Speaker 1: Today I am joined by doctor Richard Claybaugh, who shares
- 0:12Speaker 1: a first hand look at what it really feels like
- 0:14Speaker 1: to step into a practice acquisition, not the polished version,
- 0:18Speaker 1: but the real one. The uncertainty, the pressure, the moments
- 0:22Speaker 1: where things don't go as planned, and the decisions that
- 0:25Speaker 1: shape what comes next. His story is a reminder that
- 0:28Speaker 1: growth doesn't happen all at once. It happens through small shifts,
- 0:31Speaker 1: tough days, and the willingness to keep moving forward. In
- 0:35Speaker 1: this episode, we're walking through that journey, from the early
- 0:37Speaker 1: challenges to where things stand today. So let's dive in,
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- 2:35Speaker 1: show notes to learn more. Richard, thank you so much
- 2:43Speaker 1: for being on Haydocks today with me.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Well, that's a huge privilege. You are one of my
- 2:48Speaker 2: favorite people, your whole team. This is a crazy experience
- 2:52Speaker 2: for me because if you had told me nine or
- 2:54Speaker 2: ten years ago that we were going to sit down
- 2:57Speaker 2: and do a podcast together, Hey, I'm not sure I
- 2:59Speaker 2: would know what a podcast was, but b I would
- 3:02Speaker 2: have never thought I could have been here.
- 3:03Speaker 3: And really it's probably because of you.
- 3:05Speaker 1: Oh well, thank you for saying that. So the way
- 3:09Speaker 1: I like to start off the podcast is just to
- 3:11Speaker 1: have my guests talk a little bit about who they are,
- 3:15Speaker 1: how they got to where they're at, and I think,
- 3:18Speaker 1: especially for you, it's always a really special episode for
- 3:21Speaker 1: me when I get to have a previous client on
- 3:24Speaker 1: and talk about the journey that it took to go
- 3:28Speaker 1: from the decision making component of am I going to
- 3:31Speaker 1: pursue a startup? Am I going to do an acquisition?
- 3:34Speaker 1: So I'm wondering if you can just start us off
- 3:36Speaker 1: by a little history in case somebody doesn't know who
- 3:38Speaker 1: you are, and then also where you're at now.
- 3:42Speaker 3: Yeah for sure.
- 3:43Speaker 2: Well, my name is Richard and I grew up in Lincoln,
- 3:46Speaker 2: Nebraska and started out in college thinking I was going
- 3:49Speaker 2: to be an engineer.
- 3:50Speaker 3: And ultimately changed thought I was going to be a dentist.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Then, and I practiced journal dentistry for a couple of
- 3:55Speaker 2: years and I loved it, but kind of fell in
- 3:57Speaker 2: love with Ortho. So went back to school and for
- 4:01Speaker 2: a while had a plan to go back to kind
- 4:03Speaker 2: of the middle of Kansas and practice. And the longer
- 4:07Speaker 2: I got into residency, the more it became obvious that
- 4:10Speaker 2: that practice was not going to work out.
- 4:11Speaker 3: Doctors was changing some plans.
- 4:14Speaker 2: So really thought to my time in general dentistry. When
- 4:19Speaker 2: I got to practice for a couple of years after
- 4:21Speaker 2: dental school, and I learned a lot of things from
- 4:25Speaker 2: that doctor was very high functioning practice. He did just
- 4:29Speaker 2: awesome work, awesome guy. Patients loved him, town loved him.
- 4:33Speaker 2: I learned a lot of things. But as an associate there,
- 4:36Speaker 2: I had kind of felt this pressure where I had
- 4:39Speaker 2: like all the responsibility but maybe not the authority. I
- 4:44Speaker 2: wanted to make some of the decisions that I felt
- 4:46Speaker 2: like for me to do the best job for patients
- 4:48Speaker 2: I wanted to do, and so I kind of carried
- 4:50Speaker 2: that with me a little bit that maybe the next
- 4:53Speaker 2: step I wanted to try and own my own practice
- 4:56Speaker 2: so that I could have equal parts of authority and
- 4:58Speaker 2: responsibility together. So really that led me to think I
- 5:01Speaker 2: wanted to buy, so then really got down that path.
- 5:04Speaker 2: I'd sent out a bunch of letters towards the end
- 5:06Speaker 2: of Orthodonical residency, kind of blanketed all the areas that
- 5:10Speaker 2: we thought we were going to go to and had
- 5:13Speaker 2: a few bites things that were working. I was set
- 5:15Speaker 2: to buy a practice and then it fell through the
- 5:17Speaker 2: week before graduation, so I had kind of this string
- 5:21Speaker 2: of things that just led me to have to say, like,
- 5:24Speaker 2: am I really in on this or not? And all
- 5:26Speaker 2: in all, like long story short, I kind of ended
- 5:28Speaker 2: up looking at about thirty five practices. So that sounds
- 5:32Speaker 2: like you're buying a house, not a practice, you know,
- 5:34Speaker 2: but it was like thirty five practices. My wife and
- 5:36Speaker 2: I had to come back on this and make sure
- 5:37Speaker 2: that wasn't a lot, and ultimately my heart was just
- 5:41Speaker 2: set on buying. So I ended up buying this practice.
- 5:44Speaker 2: It's been ten years now and I'm really thankful. It's
- 5:48Speaker 2: a bunch of work, but there's a lot of really
- 5:50Speaker 2: really good things that come from it, and the heart
- 5:52Speaker 2: and sould what I wanted, which was being able to
- 5:56Speaker 2: make some of the decisions that go along with the practice,
- 5:59Speaker 2: but also having the authority to make the changes I
- 6:01Speaker 2: thought were important. That's been there, and so I'm thankful
- 6:04Speaker 2: for that. Some days are harder than others, some days
- 6:06Speaker 2: are better than others. But it seems like every time
- 6:09Speaker 2: that there's a dark day, there's always a bright corner
- 6:11Speaker 2: that's coming. And part of that is people like you
- 6:14Speaker 2: that have been a big help along the way.
- 6:16Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:16Speaker 1: Oh, thanks for saying that. And I think what's so
- 6:19Speaker 1: fun about your story is we've known each other for
- 6:22Speaker 1: ten years now, and this is a decision that I
- 6:25Speaker 1: think almost every orthodonist wrestles with. Am I going to
- 6:30Speaker 1: partner into a practice? Am I going to buy a
- 6:33Speaker 1: practice and do an acquisition? Am I going to do
- 6:35Speaker 1: a startup? Or maybe I don't see this as much,
- 6:39Speaker 1: I'm going to spend my career as an associate. I
- 6:41Speaker 1: mean I think that it may start off thinking that
- 6:44Speaker 1: that looks great, but usually by about that eight year mark,
- 6:46Speaker 1: if somebody's been doing that for a while, they're like, Okay,
- 6:48Speaker 1: I think I'm ready for one of the other three
- 6:50Speaker 1: options here. And the reason that I wanted to have
- 6:53Speaker 1: you on is number one. I think I'm pretty well
- 6:56Speaker 1: known for doing startups in Orthodonic Consulting realm, but we
- 7:00Speaker 1: also do a lot with acquisitions, and I just think
- 7:04Speaker 1: that it's such a different story because I think a
- 7:08Speaker 1: lot of people think, and you'll have to tell me
- 7:11Speaker 1: what you thought, but an acquisition is easy. I'm just
- 7:14Speaker 1: going to go in and I'm going to step into
- 7:16Speaker 1: somebody else's practice and I'm just going to be able
- 7:19Speaker 1: to just jump right in and things are going to
- 7:22Speaker 1: be wonderful, and the team is going to love me
- 7:24Speaker 1: and all of those things. And what you and I
- 7:28Speaker 1: both know, and I think anybody who's listening who's done
- 7:31Speaker 1: an acquisition is it is a lot of hard work. Sometimes,
- 7:36Speaker 1: I think, from my perspective getting to see both, probably
- 7:40Speaker 1: more work doing an acquisition than it is a startup.
- 7:44Speaker 1: And so I want to just take a walk down
- 7:47Speaker 1: memory lane with you and have you think back to
- 7:51Speaker 1: when we were talking and when you were thinking about, Okay,
- 7:55Speaker 1: I'm making this decision to do the acquisition. I think
- 8:00Speaker 1: you definitely didn't step in there where it was just
- 8:03Speaker 1: rose colored glasses, you know, from the beginning, And I
- 8:05Speaker 1: want to talk about your journey as we have went
- 8:09Speaker 1: through this in the year that we work together, but
- 8:11Speaker 1: then as you have went year after year growing into
- 8:15Speaker 1: the business owner that you are now.
- 8:17Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think you're exactly right. There's parts that
- 8:21Speaker 2: are easier and then there's parts that are harder, and
- 8:24Speaker 2: so it is kind of, you know, which of those
- 8:26Speaker 2: sets of pros and cons do you want to take?
- 8:30Speaker 2: My mindset with buying something that was already running, I
- 8:33Speaker 2: felt like there was already some systems in place, there
- 8:36Speaker 2: was already cash flow, there was already some reputation, there
- 8:39Speaker 2: was patience for me to see, there was structure of
- 8:44Speaker 2: some degree, and I felt like that would help me
- 8:48Speaker 2: just hit the ground running when I thought about a startup,
- 8:51Speaker 2: just with my personality and what I didn't say in
- 8:55Speaker 2: my story there was I had a couple of large
- 8:57Speaker 2: gaps between graduating Orthodonic residency and then actually getting to
- 9:02Speaker 2: this practice.
- 9:03Speaker 3: There was a couple of very large gaps because I was.
- 9:06Speaker 2: Just looking looking, and as you know, you got to
- 9:08Speaker 2: do due diligence, You got to look at the profit
- 9:10Speaker 2: and laws statements. I had an accountant that was helping
- 9:13Speaker 2: me the whole time to evaluate all this stuff.
- 9:14Speaker 3: Is this a viable opportunity?
- 9:17Speaker 2: So as I thought about these practices that I was
- 9:19Speaker 2: looking at, I was kind of asking myself a few questions.
- 9:22Speaker 2: The first one was am I going to practice the
- 9:24Speaker 2: same way as this person that I'm looking at their practice?
- 9:27Speaker 3: Because those are two really different things.
- 9:29Speaker 2: If they're going one way and I'm trying to go
- 9:31Speaker 2: a different way, you're kind of fighting headwinds that you
- 9:33Speaker 2: wouldn't have had to fight maybe if you had done
- 9:35Speaker 2: something a different way. You know, it's going to sound oud.
- 9:39Speaker 2: Are they driving the practice like a Ferrari and you're
- 9:41Speaker 2: going to drive it like a Honda, you know, because
- 9:44Speaker 2: you're going to pay big, big money for a practice
- 9:46Speaker 2: that's maybe being pushed to the max, And if you
- 9:48Speaker 2: don't have that desire, you're going to pay for it.
- 9:51Speaker 3: But then you're not really going to maybe reap the
- 9:52Speaker 3: benefits because you're going to do something different.
- 9:54Speaker 2: So ultimately I settled on to a practice that I
- 9:57Speaker 2: felt like had great bones. I think we talked about
- 10:00Speaker 2: houses that way, like it's got good bones, but we
- 10:02Speaker 2: can knock some walls out and do stuff and make
- 10:04Speaker 2: it our own. And so I settled into something that
- 10:06Speaker 2: I felt like had great Bones. I don't know what
- 10:09Speaker 2: else to say except I just had a gut feeling
- 10:12Speaker 2: after looking at all those different practices that I said, Okay,
- 10:15Speaker 2: I think this.
- 10:16Speaker 3: Is the one.
- 10:17Speaker 2: And there were many that I had gone to that
- 10:19Speaker 2: I just said, it's not for me. You know, there's
- 10:22Speaker 2: nothing wrong with the practice or the doctor, the staff
- 10:25Speaker 2: was great, but for whatever reason, maybe it's location, maybe
- 10:28Speaker 2: it was too much money. I didn't want to get
- 10:30Speaker 2: into that much debt. Maybe it was how they practiced.
- 10:33Speaker 2: I didn't want to do that thing. But ultimately, I
- 10:35Speaker 2: just sort of had a gut instinct. And I think
- 10:37Speaker 2: it may be crazy to some people, but I think
- 10:39Speaker 2: our instincts are worth listening to.
- 10:41Speaker 3: I'm not saying we should trust all of our.
- 10:43Speaker 2: Feelings, because you know, a feeling could just be a
- 10:45Speaker 2: bad taco from the night before, So you got to
- 10:48Speaker 2: be a little careful with what you what you feel
- 10:50Speaker 2: and go for. But yeah, I just I settled into
- 10:52Speaker 2: something that I felt like was good bones. It had
- 10:55Speaker 2: a reasonable price tag on it that I felt like
- 10:58Speaker 2: I could pay that debt back without being unnecessarily burdened,
- 11:03Speaker 2: and then really I had an opportunity to go up,
- 11:05Speaker 2: so I felt like with me putting my fingerprint on it,
- 11:09Speaker 2: I could begin to do that and make changes in
- 11:11Speaker 2: a positive direction. Again, if you buy something that's so
- 11:16Speaker 2: highly efficient, so perfect from the start, it almost feels
- 11:20Speaker 2: like you got no place to go but down. And
- 11:22Speaker 2: that really wasn't a place I wanted to put myself
- 11:24Speaker 2: in right off the bat. And so the decision to
- 11:28Speaker 2: try and purchase for me was really this felt like
- 11:32Speaker 2: a good fit.
- 11:32Speaker 3: It felt like I could do some good here.
- 11:35Speaker 2: It felt like I could settle in with a skill
- 11:38Speaker 2: set I had and grow with the practice.
- 11:40Speaker 3: And I think ultimately that's why we pulled the trigger.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think number one, this is unheard of
- 11:47Speaker 1: I think nowadays. But to think you had what did
- 11:49Speaker 1: you say, thirty five practices that you looked at potentially
- 11:53Speaker 1: had an option.
- 11:53Speaker 2: And some of those were obviously more detailed than others, right,
- 11:56Speaker 2: Some of them were just like an initial call, but
- 11:59Speaker 2: some of them were I mean, we looked at a
- 12:01Speaker 2: lot of you and ls for a lot of places.
- 12:03Speaker 3: Yeah, I visited a lot of practices.
- 12:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:05Speaker 1: What a blessing to be able to even have that opportunity.
- 12:08Speaker 1: I think nowadays a lot of my dogs are like
- 12:10Speaker 1: I'm lucky if I can find one in the area
- 12:13Speaker 1: that I'd be interested in. So what a blessing to
- 12:16Speaker 1: have that plethora of practice opportunities, but then to be
- 12:21Speaker 1: able to see an opportunity and have the fortitude within
- 12:26Speaker 1: yourself to say, hey, if I just it's hard work,
- 12:28Speaker 1: I can take this into something else. And I'm curious
- 12:32Speaker 1: if when you're looking back at some of the decisions
- 12:35Speaker 1: that you were making with even just that, are there
- 12:38Speaker 1: things that you look back at now and go if
- 12:42Speaker 1: you were to say, hey, peer, who's listening, these are
- 12:44Speaker 1: some things that having done this, that I might have
- 12:47Speaker 1: put more emphasis on, or I may have ten years
- 12:51Speaker 1: and now I may have maybe cared less about or
- 12:55Speaker 1: more about when you look back that way, Yeah.
- 12:58Speaker 3: For sure.
- 12:59Speaker 2: I think that's probably a mark of being a humble
- 13:02Speaker 2: person that you look back and you say, I kind
- 13:04Speaker 2: of messed that up a little bit, and I'm trying
- 13:07Speaker 2: to grow in that humility.
- 13:08Speaker 3: But I think there's things we did well.
- 13:11Speaker 2: The things we did well, I think where we came
- 13:13Speaker 2: in with a mindset that was this isn't perfect, but
- 13:16Speaker 2: we're gonna give it all all. I remember spending late
- 13:19Speaker 2: nights here. This is going to sound wild, especially to
- 13:22Speaker 2: the newer graduates. But the doctor that was here had
- 13:26Speaker 2: to submit blaster models for a large number of his
- 13:31Speaker 2: patients to have the insurance approved, and so he made
- 13:35Speaker 2: those and so there was a big backlog. He had
- 13:38Speaker 2: been sick, he had had cancer, and he ended up
- 13:41Speaker 2: passing way shortly after I bought the practice, But I
- 13:44Speaker 2: was here till midnight for I think it was weeks,
- 13:48Speaker 2: just like catching up on plaster models and that kind
- 13:51Speaker 2: of stuff.
- 13:51Speaker 3: And really I was excited.
- 13:53Speaker 2: I was excited that I finally had the opportunity to
- 13:55Speaker 2: use the skill set that I had trained all these
- 13:57Speaker 2: years for that I put all this money into. Honestly
- 14:00Speaker 2: don't remember being like bitter or anything in My wife
- 14:04Speaker 2: was so supportive in that, so I think we came
- 14:06Speaker 2: in with the right attitude on that. The changes I'd make,
- 14:09Speaker 2: I think one of the biggest ones would be where
- 14:12Speaker 2: is my focus during the day.
- 14:13Speaker 3: So I came in feeling.
- 14:15Speaker 2: Like the biggest focus had to be on patient care,
- 14:18Speaker 2: and that wasn't wrong, But I think I unnecessarily maybe
- 14:22Speaker 2: overlooked the health of the team that was shouldering alongside
- 14:29Speaker 2: me to make this all possible. And I probably didn't
- 14:34Speaker 2: think about as much as I could have how I
- 14:37Speaker 2: could help them, because that's a big change for the
- 14:39Speaker 2: team too, you know, to go from one doctor to
- 14:42Speaker 2: another doctor, And I probably could have asked more questions,
- 14:45Speaker 2: you know, like how are you guys processing with this?
- 14:47Speaker 3: You know, like this is obviously a big change.
- 14:49Speaker 2: I probably could have been a little bit slower to
- 14:51Speaker 2: make changes to like the employee manual or the time
- 14:54Speaker 2: off policy, or the vacation policy or the PTA, you know,
- 14:58Speaker 2: all of that stuff. I think I think I could
- 15:00Speaker 2: have been slower to do that and just really prioritize, like, hey,
- 15:03Speaker 2: this is my core group of people, and how can
- 15:06Speaker 2: I help you feel comfortable in this process? Because if
- 15:09Speaker 2: you get there and you've got a bunch of patients
- 15:11Speaker 2: and you got things rolling, but you have nobody to
- 15:13Speaker 2: help you, it's a pretty lonely process.
- 15:16Speaker 3: You know.
- 15:17Speaker 2: If I could go back and talk to my younger self,
- 15:19Speaker 2: I think I'd go back and just emphasize the value
- 15:22Speaker 2: and worth of the people that are shouldering alongside you
- 15:27Speaker 2: to accomplish the same goals that you're trying to get after,
- 15:30Speaker 2: and how you can support them. Be sure that all
- 15:33Speaker 2: the ripples in the waters have kind of settled for them. Meanwhile,
- 15:36Speaker 2: you also have to be great at what you're doing orthodonically,
- 15:39Speaker 2: But I think that that's part of the burden of
- 15:41Speaker 2: just being captain of the enterprise, you know, like you're
- 15:44Speaker 2: driving the shit. So if you want to be done
- 15:47Speaker 2: at five pm and out and zero responsibility until tomorrow
- 15:52Speaker 2: morning at eight am, it's probably not going to be
- 15:55Speaker 2: a super easy adjustment, at least on the acquisition side,
- 15:59Speaker 2: you know, because there's a lot that I could have.
- 16:00Speaker 3: Done better on that.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think you know, again, we all have
- 16:05Speaker 1: those moments when we look back, you know, the farther
- 16:08Speaker 1: we get in our careers, I can say the Jill
- 16:11Speaker 1: who owns Jill Allen and Associates twenty years in is
- 16:14Speaker 1: very different than the Jill who owned Jill Allen and
- 16:17Speaker 1: Associates twenty years ago, Right, And things that I thought
- 16:20Speaker 1: were important were important, but maybe the focus, you know,
- 16:24Speaker 1: energy could have been you know, maybe distributed differently. And
- 16:27Speaker 1: I think that's the beauty of growing into yourself as
- 16:30Speaker 1: a leader and as a business owner that we get
- 16:34Speaker 1: to have the grace to be like, yeah, I could
- 16:35Speaker 1: have done that a little better, but you know, I'm
- 16:38Speaker 1: still here and where I'm at Yeah.
- 16:40Speaker 2: I think you brought up a really important word and
- 16:42Speaker 2: I love it, and that is energy. And you probably
- 16:45Speaker 2: emphasized that while you were here, but it really I
- 16:48Speaker 2: think that walking in in the morning, there's days I
- 16:52Speaker 2: would definitely take a deep breath before I open the
- 16:53Speaker 2: back door.
- 16:54Speaker 3: And just I think you said it this way.
- 16:56Speaker 2: You said you have to realize that when you walk
- 16:58Speaker 2: in the office, you're on stage. And I've never forgotten
- 17:02Speaker 2: that you've said that, because it's really is true. And
- 17:05Speaker 2: so I think you have to be willing to adopt
- 17:08Speaker 2: that mentality, not in a way that you have to
- 17:11Speaker 2: spend your life trying to be somebody or not, but
- 17:14Speaker 2: in the way that you recognize that all the little
- 17:18Speaker 2: things matter and you're the leader that's helping set the
- 17:21Speaker 2: tone for how everybody's going to act, how everybody's going
- 17:24Speaker 2: to treat everybody else, how your patients are going to feel.
- 17:28Speaker 2: And it's a tiresome thing. Leadership can sometimes be tiresome
- 17:32Speaker 2: and lonely, and that's not a fault of leadership, it's
- 17:36Speaker 2: just kind of how it goes. So I might not
- 17:40Speaker 2: have been as ready for that as I thought I was,
- 17:43Speaker 2: but having great people like you and other doctors that
- 17:46Speaker 2: I've talked to along the way, I think has helped
- 17:48Speaker 2: reduce some of those feelings. But it is like during
- 17:51Speaker 2: the day, you are the top of the food chain,
- 17:54Speaker 2: and so you need to be willing to accept that
- 17:56Speaker 2: to own it and have people be able to look
- 17:58Speaker 2: at you and say like, Okay, where are we going
- 18:01Speaker 2: and you have a clear vision and direction because people
- 18:04Speaker 2: want to know what we're doing, you know, like the organization,
- 18:07Speaker 2: where are we going and how are we going to
- 18:08Speaker 2: get there? And if you have the deer in the
- 18:10Speaker 2: headlights look and you're like, I don't know, yeah, yeah,
- 18:13Speaker 2: the team isn't going to feel super great. So your
- 18:15Speaker 2: idea of energy, like I love the energy because you've
- 18:18Speaker 2: got to bring it every day because.
- 18:19Speaker 3: You're on stage.
- 18:20Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, that's funny that you remember that, because that
- 18:23Speaker 1: is something I say a lot. So let's think back
- 18:29Speaker 1: to those first years, especially in the first couple of years,
- 18:32Speaker 1: and just that reality of ownership is kicking in and
- 18:37Speaker 1: I've got this group of team members that may or
- 18:40Speaker 1: may not be going in the same direction that I am.
- 18:43Speaker 1: Let's talk about what were some of those bigger challenges
- 18:47Speaker 1: that maybe you didn't expect we're going to happen, or
- 18:52Speaker 1: that you were kind of like, huh, didn't see that coming,
- 18:55Speaker 1: or you know, so let's talk a little bit about that.
- 18:59Speaker 2: I remember exact dates, and I don't remember exactly, but
- 19:02Speaker 2: I think you joined us maybe like nine months into
- 19:05Speaker 2: ownership and we were a year together. I think in
- 19:10Speaker 2: the review I wrote for you after it was all over,
- 19:12Speaker 2: I wrote something about your almost prophetic abilities, because when
- 19:17Speaker 2: you came, you talked about just the changes that could
- 19:20Speaker 2: happen with the team, and they were scary to me
- 19:24Speaker 2: to think about that, because you were talking about, like
- 19:27Speaker 2: you could face some pretty significant turnover here, and I
- 19:32Speaker 2: had just taken it like for granted that these people
- 19:35Speaker 2: are going to be here to do the jobs that
- 19:37Speaker 2: need to get done so that I can take care
- 19:39Speaker 2: of patients. And that's like one of the biggest things
- 19:42Speaker 2: I missed. And so to answer your question, you know,
- 19:44Speaker 2: there was some good stability for a matter of months,
- 19:48Speaker 2: but then there was some changes that began to happen
- 19:51Speaker 2: as we started to implement some of the things that
- 19:52Speaker 2: you had kind of instructed us with no fault of yours.
- 19:55Speaker 2: It was good stuff that had to happen, but there
- 19:59Speaker 2: was just a different mindset between where we were going
- 20:01Speaker 2: and then where maybe other people felt like they wanted
- 20:04Speaker 2: to go. And I've tried, over the course of time
- 20:07Speaker 2: to learn to actually feel this way. Sometimes I have
- 20:11Speaker 2: to still just tell myself. But I don't think that
- 20:14Speaker 2: any employee is ever out to like get me, right.
- 20:17Speaker 2: I don't think any employee, for the most part, is
- 20:19Speaker 2: probably out to get anybody. Everybody's probably out to the
- 20:23Speaker 2: best they can for themselves, and I don't think there's
- 20:25Speaker 2: anything wrong with that. So when things happen that don't
- 20:28Speaker 2: go my way, like, how do I respond to that?
- 20:31Speaker 2: And do I learn from it? Do I say, Okay,
- 20:34Speaker 2: what could I have done better? And I've tried to
- 20:37Speaker 2: get better at that over time. But probably the hardest
- 20:39Speaker 2: thing to answer your question was I think I started
- 20:42Speaker 2: out with eight seven or eight staff.
- 20:45Speaker 3: There was some part time helping there. I honestly don't remember.
- 20:47Speaker 2: It's been a while, but about the time that my
- 20:51Speaker 2: second child was born in February of twenty seventeen, I
- 20:56Speaker 2: think I had four resignations within like two or four
- 21:01Speaker 2: week period, and it was pretty significant, Like it was
- 21:04Speaker 2: the office manager, it was the treatment coordinator, and a
- 21:07Speaker 2: couple of assistants. So what ended up happening was my
- 21:11Speaker 2: wife had to come in and help in the office,
- 21:14Speaker 2: and she was two weeks postpartum doing all the jobs.
- 21:19Speaker 2: She had no idea what she was doing. And then
- 21:21Speaker 2: we hired a lady who had never been in ORTHO
- 21:23Speaker 2: office before, and so between my wife and this other lady,
- 21:26Speaker 2: they had a grand total of I think two weeks
- 21:29Speaker 2: of experience, you know, and they're running the whole show
- 21:32Speaker 2: up in front. And so the biggest challenge at that
- 21:35Speaker 2: point was how do we just keep the ship moving forward. Meanwhile,
- 21:39Speaker 2: you got all the clinic load in the back. You
- 21:42Speaker 2: were a big help in that. But I mentioned the
- 21:45Speaker 2: clinical load. The hard part is meanwhile, you've got all
- 21:48Speaker 2: the patients that need care. Yeah, the practice I stepped
- 21:51Speaker 2: into it was like nine hundred active patients, and.
- 21:55Speaker 3: There had been some challenges along the way.
- 21:57Speaker 2: I think that with the prior doctor maybe having the
- 22:00Speaker 2: cancer diagnosis and stuff, things had just gotten behind.
- 22:02Speaker 3: So there were some challenges just how do you keep
- 22:05Speaker 3: the day moving.
- 22:06Speaker 2: And you probably remember this, but our schedule was made
- 22:11Speaker 2: out every day in my Microsoft word.
- 22:13Speaker 1: Yep, I do remember, yeah.
- 22:15Speaker 3: Microsoft Words.
- 22:16Speaker 2: So it would literally just say like eight am and
- 22:19Speaker 2: it would just have three patient names. You didn't know
- 22:20Speaker 2: what you were doing, you didn't know why they were there,
- 22:23Speaker 2: and it was every I think fifteen minutes that you
- 22:25Speaker 2: just see this list of names. And I was, you know,
- 22:29Speaker 2: seeing like seventy five patients a day, and some of
- 22:32Speaker 2: these people had been in treatment eighteen months and they
- 22:34Speaker 2: didn't have braces on the bottom teeth yet.
- 22:35Speaker 3: It was just there was a lot of things, and
- 22:37Speaker 3: so my mind was very.
- 22:39Speaker 2: Busy with the clinical side, but I think that that
- 22:42Speaker 2: kind of distracted me from the important parts on the
- 22:45Speaker 2: just the team health side. And ultimately we were able
- 22:47Speaker 2: to make it through that God provided for us in
- 22:49Speaker 2: that and I hope at some point we're going to
- 22:51Speaker 2: talk about just like how did you get those great
- 22:53Speaker 2: people and what did you look for? Because I've got
- 22:55Speaker 2: some things to say on that. But yeah, that was
- 22:57Speaker 2: probably the biggest one. You know, four resignations and two
- 23:00Speaker 2: to four weeks. That was just I think I would
- 23:02Speaker 2: go home and just say like, are we going to
- 23:04Speaker 2: survive or are we just going to be done?
- 23:05Speaker 3: What's happening?
- 23:07Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, Well, and I can remember a lot of
- 23:09Speaker 1: those conversations and the hardest part and I tell this
- 23:13Speaker 1: to a lot of my docs that are doing acquisitions.
- 23:16Speaker 1: Is the reality of it is, there is a good
- 23:19Speaker 1: chance that by the end of your first year you
- 23:22Speaker 1: could have an entire team turnover. And I think that
- 23:26Speaker 1: is such a scary thing to hear. And the reality
- 23:30Speaker 1: of it is it has nothing to do with you
- 23:32Speaker 1: necessarily as the doctor, but it has to do more
- 23:37Speaker 1: with the situation of the change. And a lot of
- 23:42Speaker 1: times the employees that come along with the practice were
- 23:46Speaker 1: maybe the dream team employees for a different doctor who
- 23:50Speaker 1: had different goals, views and visions. And when you come
- 23:54Speaker 1: in as a new doctor and you have different goals,
- 23:58Speaker 1: views and visions and you just assume that a team
- 24:03Speaker 1: is going to assimilate into your goals, views and visions,
- 24:07Speaker 1: it doesn't always go well. And I just want to
- 24:10Speaker 1: point this out for anybody who's listening. That doesn't mean
- 24:13Speaker 1: that you as a doctor are doing it wrong or
- 24:16Speaker 1: that your goals, views and visions are wrong. But we
- 24:19Speaker 1: do have to understand and you made this point that
- 24:22Speaker 1: I do believe everybody, each one of us has our
- 24:26Speaker 1: own core values, our own core vision of where we
- 24:31Speaker 1: want our life to go, and they aren't always going
- 24:33Speaker 1: to line up a team that especially. I see this
- 24:36Speaker 1: a lot in acquisitions where I've got a team that's
- 24:40Speaker 1: maybe been coasting with the doctor. There isn't a lot
- 24:43Speaker 1: of demand. They're kind of winding down their schedule there.
- 24:47Speaker 1: You know, it's pretty comfortable. That's a very different work
- 24:51Speaker 1: environment than when you get a hungry young doc that's
- 24:54Speaker 1: coming in and saying I got loans to pay and
- 24:57Speaker 1: I got you know this, that and the other end.
- 24:59Speaker 1: We're going to breathe life. We're going to put some
- 25:02Speaker 1: oxygen onto this fire here, and we're going to take
- 25:04Speaker 1: it in a different direction. And so I think you
- 25:09Speaker 1: definitely had to experience this, and you walked through the
- 25:12Speaker 1: fire for sure. I can remember training with Heather and
- 25:16Speaker 1: training you know, with the new TC that had no clue,
- 25:19Speaker 1: and even with some of the turnover, and just not
- 25:22Speaker 1: only are we training team members, but now we're building
- 25:26Speaker 1: a schedule that accommodates, and you know, we were doing
- 25:29Speaker 1: some treatment modality shifting around too, taking the practice from
- 25:33Speaker 1: one kind of vision of how the practice was being
- 25:36Speaker 1: run to another. So I think why I especially wanted
- 25:40Speaker 1: you on to talk about this was you went through
- 25:44Speaker 1: the fire. And I think so many people think that
- 25:47Speaker 1: just stepping in. And I don't want it to sound
- 25:50Speaker 1: like it's doomsday by any means, because I think once
- 25:53Speaker 1: we get past it and through it, it's beautiful. But
- 25:56Speaker 1: you're definitely doing the hard work in those first couple
- 25:59Speaker 1: year to write the ship.
- 26:02Speaker 3: Yeah, this is going to sound wild.
- 26:04Speaker 2: But even though you told me there's a really good
- 26:07Speaker 2: chance you're going to turn over your team, and even
- 26:08Speaker 2: though you're telling people right now there's a really good
- 26:10Speaker 2: chance you're going to turn over your team, I still
- 26:13Speaker 2: thought inside of me, that's okay, you think that, but
- 26:16Speaker 2: it's not going to happen.
- 26:17Speaker 3: You know. That's kind That's still what I thought.
- 26:20Speaker 2: And so I think that the earlier that I had
- 26:22Speaker 2: come to terms with the idea, that that was not
- 26:26Speaker 2: as secure as I thought it was, and that it
- 26:28Speaker 2: was no reflection on me, And so I almost just
- 26:31Speaker 2: to say, like, yes, this is going to happen. I
- 26:33Speaker 2: think that would have been better for me mentally. And again,
- 26:37Speaker 2: like nobody's out to get you, I don't for the
- 26:39Speaker 2: most part. You know nobody's out to get you, but
- 26:42Speaker 2: you need to be out to get the right people
- 26:44Speaker 2: because you've got to go places.
- 26:46Speaker 3: And so I think I would have just sat down.
- 26:49Speaker 2: You know, I'd probably go back and I'd sit down
- 26:51Speaker 2: individually and I'd probably say, look, I'm super glad you're here.
- 26:55Speaker 2: I know this is a big change for you. It's
- 26:57Speaker 2: a big change for me too. Here's what I understand
- 26:59Speaker 2: that you do here. I would love for you to
- 27:01Speaker 2: keep doing that here. I want to share with you
- 27:03Speaker 2: where I see this going, and I want to know
- 27:06Speaker 2: if you're on board with that, if you also see
- 27:08Speaker 2: that vision, or if you feel like this is the
- 27:10Speaker 2: time where you'd like to make a change. And that
- 27:13Speaker 2: almost sounds like a scary conversation, but I'd rather know
- 27:17Speaker 2: than just wonder, like for a while what's happening. Yeah,
- 27:20Speaker 2: I think just telling somebody I want you here and
- 27:22Speaker 2: leaving it in their court, like what do you want?
- 27:24Speaker 2: And if they're like no, I'm out, Well at least
- 27:27Speaker 2: let's get that out of the way, you know, and
- 27:28Speaker 2: then the people that are there, it's kind of like
- 27:30Speaker 2: a purifying event where what's left is this is a
- 27:32Speaker 2: really good group of people and let's go Yeah, but
- 27:34Speaker 2: everything's out on the table and we're kind of ready
- 27:36Speaker 2: to launch into what you're going to do. So yeah,
- 27:38Speaker 2: great point. That's a challenging part of the purchase, at
- 27:41Speaker 2: least my story.
- 27:44Speaker 1: I just want to say this, I think it's most
- 27:46Speaker 1: doctors in an acquisition. If we're in a million or
- 27:49Speaker 1: less practice, maybe a little different story if you're that
- 27:52Speaker 1: two million plus practice, But if you're that million and
- 27:55Speaker 1: a half million or less practice, there really is this
- 27:59Speaker 1: moment where everybody's got to make these decisions. And the
- 28:03Speaker 1: other thing that I just want to say to this
- 28:05Speaker 1: point is, I think it can be really easy for us,
- 28:08Speaker 1: especially when we're new owners, like to take it really
- 28:11Speaker 1: personal that oh my gosh, they're leaving and it's me,
- 28:14Speaker 1: And the reality of it is maybe you were the
- 28:18Speaker 1: catalyst to it, but it's usually not your person that
- 28:22Speaker 1: they're leaving because of. I just try and give and say, like,
- 28:27Speaker 1: if we've got those team members that it's time to
- 28:29Speaker 1: make that change, like send them away with love, don't
- 28:32Speaker 1: harbor this negative energy. Like number one, who's got time
- 28:36Speaker 1: for that? But number two, they're getting back to Okay.
- 28:40Speaker 1: Now we've opened up a space to get the right
- 28:42Speaker 1: people in that are going to be on board with
- 28:46Speaker 1: my values, my vision and where we're going with the practice.
- 28:50Speaker 1: And that leads me into the point that you just said,
- 28:53Speaker 1: I would love to hear how that change happened for
- 28:59Speaker 1: you when you started really focusing on Okay, I'm going
- 29:02Speaker 1: to make lemonade out of lemons here. I've got openings,
- 29:05Speaker 1: We've done some hard work, but now I can start
- 29:07Speaker 1: to identify who's the right people, who do I want?
- 29:11Speaker 1: What am I looking for out of employees to really
- 29:14Speaker 1: build that team that becomes this foundation for your vision
- 29:20Speaker 1: of your practice and the culture that you now have
- 29:24Speaker 1: an opportunity to completely and totally cultivate.
- 29:27Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I think in the beginning I was a
- 29:30Speaker 2: little shell shocked and probably just made me a little
- 29:33Speaker 2: gun shy of like, where's this going? And when you're
- 29:37Speaker 2: down that many people, you need people, And I probably
- 29:41Speaker 2: felt more of a need almost to sell myself on
- 29:45Speaker 2: the people that were interviewing with me.
- 29:47Speaker 3: They need to want to be here, like they need
- 29:49Speaker 3: to like me, They need to And that was like backwards.
- 29:53Speaker 2: So what should have happened is to recognize and this
- 29:57Speaker 2: is I think this is true and Olive Ortho, we
- 30:00Speaker 2: do amazing stuff and we have an amazing gig to offer.
- 30:06Speaker 2: These are great jobs and we should be proud of
- 30:10Speaker 2: what we have to offer to people and how we
- 30:14Speaker 2: can help hopefully make their lives full, because it should
- 30:19Speaker 2: be way more than just a paycheck. I think if
- 30:22Speaker 2: all I see is my team members as people that
- 30:25Speaker 2: get paychecks and they check things off the list, for
- 30:28Speaker 2: me missing out, they're missing out. My attitude is way wrong.
- 30:32Speaker 2: So when it really started to get better for me
- 30:35Speaker 2: is when I realized the kind of jobs that we
- 30:38Speaker 2: have to offer. I want to find people that want that,
- 30:42Speaker 2: that value that, and I see people that I just
- 30:45Speaker 2: want to be around all day and so I would
- 30:49Speaker 2: rather almost scare somebody away on the day of their interview,
- 30:52Speaker 2: because if they still show up, I know that I
- 30:54Speaker 2: can be the worst version of myself and they're going
- 30:56Speaker 2: to stick around, you know.
- 30:59Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, I think now I'm kind of at
- 31:01Speaker 3: a point where I'm just like, I'm going to tell you.
- 31:04Speaker 2: Exactly how it is on day one and maybe even
- 31:06Speaker 2: make it a little cloudy, and if you're still in, hey,
- 31:09Speaker 2: we're going to do this thing together and it's going
- 31:11Speaker 2: to be great.
- 31:11Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 31:12Speaker 2: So I think things started to change when I got
- 31:14Speaker 2: a couple people that saw that and wanted in on
- 31:17Speaker 2: it and then stuck around for a long period of time.
- 31:21Speaker 2: And what I didn't expect was that sometimes after people
- 31:25Speaker 2: would leave, some terminations, some resignations, I thought that'd probably
- 31:30Speaker 2: be the end of our time talking. And what I've
- 31:32Speaker 2: realized over the course of time is I still talk
- 31:35Speaker 2: with some of these people for various reasons.
- 31:37Speaker 3: You know, they reach out.
- 31:39Speaker 2: They're working at a different office now, and they kind
- 31:41Speaker 2: of remembered we did something this way.
- 31:42Speaker 3: They liked the way we did it. Can you tell
- 31:44Speaker 3: us how we can do better? Oh, well, that's cool.
- 31:48Speaker 2: Or people that are maybe like, hey, I'm thinking about
- 31:49Speaker 2: maybe coming back, what do you think. Or people that
- 31:53Speaker 2: just thought it was greener on a different side, And
- 31:55Speaker 2: I totally get why you'd think that, but they wanted back.
- 31:58Speaker 2: So I think what you said about not earning bridges
- 32:00Speaker 2: and leaving things in a really good space, You're so right.
- 32:04Speaker 3: You're so right. I like that a lot.
- 32:06Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's hard, right, it's hard to again not
- 32:10Speaker 1: take it personally and to be like, oh, well, they're
- 32:13Speaker 1: quitting or they're leaving or whatever away with them, you know,
- 32:17Speaker 1: you sean versus just like, yep, maybe this is the
- 32:21Speaker 1: best decision for their life right now. And I truly
- 32:25Speaker 1: believe things will always work out. They will always find
- 32:28Speaker 1: their way to a better Even the best employees sometimes
- 32:32Speaker 1: they need to leave us and it's it can be
- 32:34Speaker 1: the best decisions and opportunities for our practices that we
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- 33:35Speaker 1: let's talk a little bit about as you have matured
- 33:39Speaker 1: in your position as a leader and an owner over
- 33:42Speaker 1: the last ten years. Let's talk about how you started
- 33:46Speaker 1: to shift the mindset of team members and really start
- 33:52Speaker 1: to bring in. What does it look like to bring
- 33:55Speaker 1: your vision in and what you want patients to experience
- 34:00Speaker 1: out of the practice and the interaction that they have
- 34:03Speaker 1: with you and your team. Now, let's talk a little
- 34:06Speaker 1: bit about that, because I think, again, when we're taking
- 34:09Speaker 1: over a practice, you're kind of working into or backing
- 34:13Speaker 1: into somebody else's vision, somebody else's patient experience, somebody else's
- 34:19Speaker 1: mindset on whatever culture means or lack of culture. And
- 34:25Speaker 1: as you have come into this and walked through this
- 34:29Speaker 1: and started to why do they say burn it down
- 34:31Speaker 1: to build it back up again? To a point, let's
- 34:34Speaker 1: talk about how that has changed for you as you've
- 34:38Speaker 1: been moving into your ten years of now doing this
- 34:42Speaker 1: and really coming into yourself as a senior doctor in
- 34:46Speaker 1: a practice with a solid team, and what that has
- 34:49Speaker 1: looked like over the years.
- 34:51Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I say all of this with a cautious
- 34:56Speaker 2: optimism because I know that tomorrow can bring anything right.
- 35:01Speaker 2: I love my team so much right now, they're just fantastic,
- 35:05Speaker 2: both as team members but also as friends. I know
- 35:09Speaker 2: there are folks that would say you should not be
- 35:11Speaker 2: friends with your coworkers, especially when you're the boss, and
- 35:14Speaker 2: I understand that, and I think that there are proper boundaries.
- 35:18Speaker 2: But I think the fact that we care about each
- 35:20Speaker 2: other in a genuine way, with proper guardrails and all
- 35:26Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. Don't hear me wrong. But the
- 35:28Speaker 2: fact that we genuinely care for each other helps us
- 35:31Speaker 2: work harder for each other too, and we want to
- 35:34Speaker 2: pull the weight for each other. We know that we
- 35:37Speaker 2: see the task as a whole, and nobody's above any job.
- 35:41Speaker 2: So if I need to help out some night and
- 35:44Speaker 2: take out the garbage, I don't have a problem with that.
- 35:46Speaker 2: If I need to do some stuff that normally I
- 35:49Speaker 2: wouldn't do, I don't have a problem with that. And
- 35:51Speaker 2: I try to model that from top down so that
- 35:54Speaker 2: other people are also. I'm happy to pitch it anywhere,
- 35:58Speaker 2: and then the more tenured people then continue to model
- 36:02Speaker 2: that for the ones that are younger and things. Just
- 36:05Speaker 2: a mindset overall that hopefully we begin to set as
- 36:08Speaker 2: doctors to say like, here's how I see the vision,
- 36:12Speaker 2: and I'm not above these things, and I don't expect
- 36:14Speaker 2: anybody else to be above them either, So I think
- 36:16Speaker 2: it starts at the top.
- 36:18Speaker 3: That's my mindset.
- 36:19Speaker 2: And then we have a set of core beliefs that
- 36:22Speaker 2: we periodically recite and try to just recenter ourselves.
- 36:28Speaker 3: So we just talked about it this past week.
- 36:30Speaker 2: You know, like an NCAA coach, there's pride times a
- 36:34Speaker 2: practice that they go back to basics and things that
- 36:36Speaker 2: these players have heard thousands of times. They do them
- 36:39Speaker 2: again because you need to come back to this stuff.
- 36:42Speaker 2: I was watching the Duke game. End of the game,
- 36:46Speaker 2: Boozer gets the ball, makes a pass that I know
- 36:50Speaker 2: instantly he wishes he could have taken back, and they
- 36:53Speaker 2: end up losing the game. He ends up losing the game,
- 36:57Speaker 2: I mean breaking a press right, something they've probably taught
- 37:00Speaker 2: about a million times. But going back to the basics
- 37:03Speaker 2: for us and what we believe, so things like we
- 37:06Speaker 2: believe in our mission. We believe in the Golden Rule.
- 37:09Speaker 2: We believe in a patient centric gratitude. We believe in honesty.
- 37:13Speaker 2: We believe orthodox is a team sport. We believe the
- 37:15Speaker 2: excellence is not an accident. We believe that rebounding for
- 37:18Speaker 2: mistakes is essential. We do not believe in being mediocre.
- 37:22Speaker 2: So we go through these things of the team so
- 37:24Speaker 2: that everybody hears the same stuff and we're always thinking
- 37:26Speaker 2: the same thing. So we try and do that in
- 37:28Speaker 2: a morning huddle or an evening huddle and just constantly
- 37:31Speaker 2: come back to this stuff. So I think when people
- 37:33Speaker 2: started to hear the same things, I begin to see
- 37:36Speaker 2: a shift. And then now I've been super thankful, and
- 37:40Speaker 2: I'm just so fortunate.
- 37:42Speaker 3: I praise the Lord for it.
- 37:43Speaker 2: I'm just thankful to God for giving me some team
- 37:44Speaker 2: members that have been around a long time and that
- 37:47Speaker 2: just do fantastic work, and so they're kind of guiding
- 37:49Speaker 2: the younger ones, who I'm also super thankful for. These
- 37:53Speaker 2: girls kind of grab a piece of your heart and
- 37:56Speaker 2: you just want to do your best for them, and
- 37:57Speaker 2: they want to do their best for you, and sometimes
- 38:00Speaker 2: they break your heart and that's just the.
- 38:02Speaker 3: Way that it goes.
- 38:03Speaker 2: But I always say, it's my name on the door,
- 38:06Speaker 2: But you guys are the heart and soul of this
- 38:08Speaker 2: whole thing. So I love it when we get reviews,
- 38:12Speaker 2: and we kind of read reviews at the end of
- 38:13Speaker 2: the day, you know, And so when we get a
- 38:15Speaker 2: review online, I love it when that review highlights one
- 38:18Speaker 2: of the team members. Yeah, because I love to make
- 38:21Speaker 2: a big deal about it and I love to just
- 38:23Speaker 2: I try to make a blush if I can. You know,
- 38:25Speaker 2: I'm not always successful, but I love that. So I
- 38:28Speaker 2: love the ones that don't even mention me. It's all
- 38:31Speaker 2: about the team, you know, the whole thing is just
- 38:33Speaker 2: about the scheduler up front and the ladies in the
- 38:35Speaker 2: back and whoever got to start it. I love it
- 38:38Speaker 2: when I'm not even part of it because that tells
- 38:39Speaker 2: me that everybody's doing what they should do.
- 38:41Speaker 3: You know, if I just fade into the background, mission accomplished.
- 38:44Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I love that. And I just really appreciate
- 38:49Speaker 1: you saying this because I really do believe that we
- 38:51Speaker 1: don't always see this, I think, as brand new business owners.
- 38:55Speaker 1: But as you mature and as you come into that
- 38:58Speaker 1: leadership role in real life, start to do exactly what
- 39:02Speaker 1: you've done, cultivate what it really means, the values that
- 39:06Speaker 1: you are making a part of your in and out
- 39:10Speaker 1: daily practice. It really becomes the foundation of your business.
- 39:14Speaker 1: And I have got to believe that having all of
- 39:17Speaker 1: these pieces in place now also makes it very easy
- 39:21Speaker 1: for you to see if you happen to hire somebody
- 39:25Speaker 1: or bring somebody onto the team, that just kind of
- 39:28Speaker 1: is rubbing against the grain, kind of makes it easier
- 39:32Speaker 1: to see that maybe. You know, again, we all make mistakes.
- 39:36Speaker 1: We all think somebody is going to be great and
- 39:38Speaker 1: maybe something in their life changes, or we miss something
- 39:42Speaker 1: along the way and they just don't end up being
- 39:44Speaker 1: the best fit, and again we send them away with
- 39:46Speaker 1: love and find the right person. But has it become
- 39:49Speaker 1: easier do you think too? In working with knowing you
- 39:54Speaker 1: know those values, those what did.
- 39:56Speaker 2: You call them? Core?
- 39:57Speaker 3: Our beliefs our beliefs?
- 39:58Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, core believe even from the lens of I'm
- 40:02Speaker 1: hiring somebody to kind of come into my family, come
- 40:05Speaker 1: into that fold. Have you noticed that that has even
- 40:08Speaker 1: made it easier now that you've really got those solidified
- 40:10Speaker 1: and in place, It's.
- 40:12Speaker 3: Definitely helped provide clarity for me.
- 40:15Speaker 2: And I think the last two hires we've done, I've
- 40:18Speaker 2: actually had the team do the majority of the process.
- 40:21Speaker 2: I'm not even involved, and they basically get to a
- 40:24Speaker 2: spot where they kind of come down to one or
- 40:26Speaker 2: two people and they say, this is who we'd like
- 40:28Speaker 2: to work with. So that's been a real great thing
- 40:32Speaker 2: for me because now they're taking everything that we are
- 40:37Speaker 2: and also looking at who this person is as a person,
- 40:41Speaker 2: like do we want to spend time together because we
- 40:43Speaker 2: should want to do that. Yeah. And I think that
- 40:46Speaker 2: our current team members have a vested interest in not
- 40:48Speaker 2: wanting to see somebody pull that apart. You know, we
- 40:52Speaker 2: have had some that new hires that were wonderful people.
- 40:55Speaker 2: They were honestly wonderful people. If we were going to
- 40:58Speaker 2: go have coffee together, we could for a couple hours,
- 41:01Speaker 2: it'd be awesome. Working together was maybe a different story,
- 41:05Speaker 2: and we just saw things different. And that doesn't mean
- 41:08Speaker 2: that I'm right and that they're wrong. It doesn't mean
- 41:10Speaker 2: that they're right and I'm wrong. It just means that
- 41:12Speaker 2: we're not rowing in the same direction. So I was
- 41:16Speaker 2: a little afraid the first time I terminated somebody, you know,
- 41:18Speaker 2: I felt like lightning might come down and get me.
- 41:22Speaker 3: But that's also a purifying event.
- 41:25Speaker 2: I can think of some situations where if I had
- 41:27Speaker 2: not terminated somebody, it would have been problematic for the
- 41:31Speaker 2: rest of the team to see you continue to tolerate
- 41:34Speaker 2: less than what everybody else is held to yes, And
- 41:38Speaker 2: so I think that there has to be a bar
- 41:42Speaker 2: that whatever our practice name is, like, this is our bar.
- 41:44Speaker 3: This is we never go below, this is it's only
- 41:47Speaker 3: here and up.
- 41:48Speaker 2: And if someone just can't get there, you've helped them
- 41:50Speaker 2: as many way as you can and they can't get there.
- 41:53Speaker 2: My experience has been that it's probably better to say, like,
- 41:56Speaker 2: you're an awesome person, but this is your last day.
- 42:00Speaker 2: I had a wonderful teammate at one point in time
- 42:02Speaker 2: who was honestly just one of the kindest people. But
- 42:05Speaker 2: she couldn't wake up on time. And I'm embarrassed to
- 42:08Speaker 2: tell you how many times she was late. It would
- 42:10Speaker 2: make me look bad, so I'm not going to tell you,
- 42:11Speaker 2: but I will say this. I bought her an alarm clock.
- 42:15Speaker 1: I remember this.
- 42:16Speaker 2: So this alarm clock, I think it was called clocky.
- 42:20Speaker 2: It had wheels and you'd set it on the nightstand
- 42:22Speaker 2: and when the alarm went off, like lights flash and
- 42:25Speaker 2: it flew off the nightstand and just like buzzed around
- 42:27Speaker 2: the room until you got up to get it off,
- 42:29Speaker 2: you know, to turn it off. And so I I remember,
- 42:32Speaker 2: I just distinctly remember this event. I pulled her into
- 42:34Speaker 2: my office. I was like, look, I'm giving this to
- 42:36Speaker 2: you today, and this alarm clock has a name. Its
- 42:39Speaker 2: name is Grace, because I am extending a major of
- 42:43Speaker 2: grace to you today and you have to show up
- 42:47Speaker 2: on time.
- 42:47Speaker 3: You can't be late.
- 42:49Speaker 2: But ultimately I wanted it more than she did, and
- 42:53Speaker 2: that never ever works. And that's true with patients wearing
- 42:56Speaker 2: rubber bands, that's true with patients brushing their teeth, that's
- 42:59Speaker 2: true with outcomes. It's truth success in the work. If
- 43:03Speaker 2: you want it more than somebody else, it's probably not
- 43:06Speaker 2: going to work. So anyway, she's still got the alarm clock,
- 43:09Speaker 2: and hopefully she thinks of good things when she sees that.
- 43:11Speaker 3: But it just didn't work out. You know, I don't
- 43:14Speaker 3: buy alarm clocks for everybody.
- 43:16Speaker 1: I remember that story and thought it was so wonderful,
- 43:19Speaker 1: But I think to your point, though you wanted it
- 43:22Speaker 1: more than her, And I think a lot of times,
- 43:24Speaker 1: especially when we're newer at managing team members, being in
- 43:29Speaker 1: the role of being an owner of a practice and
- 43:32Speaker 1: having employees, we tend to, I think in the beginning
- 43:36Speaker 1: sway or bend a lot more than we need to.
- 43:39Speaker 1: And we don't want to become so rigid that it
- 43:42Speaker 1: becomes a toxic environment on the other side of it, either,
- 43:46Speaker 1: but there is definitely I think team members are looking
- 43:51Speaker 1: for our doctors to stand in their space as the
- 43:54Speaker 1: leader of the practice and lead the charge in whichever
- 43:58Speaker 1: direction we're going. And what you just don't want is
- 44:01Speaker 1: everybody moving in their own direction because they think that's
- 44:05Speaker 1: the direction that they should be going, because there is
- 44:08Speaker 1: nobody leading from the front. And I just watched from
- 44:12Speaker 1: afar as you have matured and come into this. I'm
- 44:15Speaker 1: not meaning it as if you were a young nubie
- 44:18Speaker 1: even when you were stepping into this, but it is
- 44:20Speaker 1: just so fun for me as a consultant to watch
- 44:24Speaker 1: my doctors blossom into these amazing leaders of their practices
- 44:28Speaker 1: and have a team that will literally follow them. You know,
- 44:32Speaker 1: they're like, you say left, and we're going left. I mean,
- 44:35Speaker 1: we're not even questioning it. That's the way we're going.
- 44:37Speaker 1: And I hope that for all of my doctors that
- 44:40Speaker 1: they're able to really come into that. But it's definitely,
- 44:44Speaker 1: I think even more challenging in an acquisition because most
- 44:48Speaker 1: of the time you're not getting to pick who starts
- 44:50Speaker 1: out on your team and you're not getting to have
- 44:52Speaker 1: all of the decisions from the beginning.
- 44:56Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 44:56Speaker 2: I know we've talked a lot about employees, and I
- 44:59Speaker 2: definitely don't want to make a sense. I'm like, I'm
- 45:00Speaker 2: an HR expert. I'm not, you know, I just I'm
- 45:02Speaker 2: a small practice with a small team, and God's just
- 45:04Speaker 2: been really faithful to bring some great people along. Seventeen
- 45:08Speaker 2: twenty five says that God gives us life and breath
- 45:12Speaker 2: and everything. So any good team members I have or
- 45:16Speaker 2: because God has brought them to our office and they've
- 45:20Speaker 2: continued to want to be here. And I'm not the
- 45:22Speaker 2: most gregarious guy. I was never a life of the party.
- 45:25Speaker 2: I was never a popular kid. But I do deeply
- 45:28Speaker 2: care about people and I want the best for them.
- 45:31Speaker 2: So I hoped it for all the faults that I
- 45:34Speaker 2: bring to the table, maybe some of those redeeming qualities
- 45:38Speaker 2: are things that make up for it a little bit,
- 45:40Speaker 2: because like I said, I genuinely love my team, and
- 45:43Speaker 2: I would love that for everybody, because if you don't
- 45:46Speaker 2: like your team, I think the first question you got
- 45:48Speaker 2: to ask is like, well, why am I still doing this?
- 45:52Speaker 3: Am I leading in a way that's not right?
- 45:54Speaker 2: Or am I unwilling to make the hard decision to
- 45:56Speaker 2: get a new team or did they just not see
- 45:59Speaker 2: the vision? But that's a really hard thing if you
- 46:01Speaker 2: go to work every day and you don't like the
- 46:03Speaker 2: people that you're with. So again I just say with
- 46:06Speaker 2: all thankfulness that I love the ladies that I work with.
- 46:09Speaker 2: A part of my heart that will always belong to
- 46:11Speaker 2: those team members. So I'm thankful for that. But I
- 46:14Speaker 2: am a sample size of one. Okay, So I'm not
- 46:16Speaker 2: saying I'm an HR expert. I just and tomorrow, like
- 46:18Speaker 2: the wheels could come off.
- 46:19Speaker 3: I have no idea.
- 46:20Speaker 2: And that's the crazy part about this whole thing is
- 46:22Speaker 2: that you don't know what tomorrow brings.
- 46:24Speaker 3: You don't know.
- 46:25Speaker 2: So maybe there's a follow up to this podcast when
- 46:28Speaker 2: the wheels come off, and then you can ask me.
- 46:29Speaker 3: How I'm doing.
- 46:30Speaker 2: Well.
- 46:31Speaker 1: I know that even if the wheels come off, you're
- 46:33Speaker 1: going to get through it. You're going to walk through
- 46:35Speaker 1: it and will always come out on the other side.
- 46:37Speaker 3: I'll have to have you back for another year.
- 46:39Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly, let's do that. So as we finish up,
- 46:42Speaker 1: I know you and I could just talk and talk
- 46:44Speaker 1: and talk, but as you look back ten years in review,
- 46:48Speaker 1: let's talk about to anybody that's out there, what would
- 46:52Speaker 1: you say if somebody's considering doing an acquisition or you know,
- 46:56Speaker 1: maybe even a startup, but especially an acquisition, because you know,
- 47:00Speaker 1: you hear it like I do. Oh, the industry, you know,
- 47:04Speaker 1: great clouds, Oh, you know, it's maybe this isn't the industry.
- 47:08Speaker 1: You know, you guys wasted your money and all the
- 47:10Speaker 1: different things. And I want to shout hooey from the
- 47:13Speaker 1: rooftops about all of that. But what would you say
- 47:16Speaker 1: to somebody if they're really considering, you know, I might
- 47:19Speaker 1: have a great opportunity or I'm willing to bet on
- 47:22Speaker 1: myself and take an opportunity to move outside of something
- 47:27Speaker 1: that feels comfortable, like a guaranteed paycheck at an associate
- 47:30Speaker 1: ship job. What would you say to them?
- 47:32Speaker 3: I think instincts are worth listening to. You know me
- 47:36Speaker 3: well enough.
- 47:37Speaker 2: I am a Christian. I think prayer for me is
- 47:41Speaker 2: a big part of this. Thinking about what you're doing,
- 47:45Speaker 2: committing it to the Lord. Speaking counsel in the wisdom
- 47:48Speaker 2: of many counselors is success. The lone wolf strategy generally
- 47:53Speaker 2: isn't a great one. So ask people that know you well.
- 47:56Speaker 2: Do you think I am a good fit for this?
- 47:58Speaker 2: Do I have the personality for this character for this?
- 48:01Speaker 2: Do you think I can make this happen? I think
- 48:02Speaker 2: often what we jump to is just the money, Just
- 48:05Speaker 2: the money. Is it going to cash flow?
- 48:07Speaker 3: Can I make money? Can I pay my bills?
- 48:09Speaker 2: But my parents always told me, there's at least four
- 48:11Speaker 2: parts to every person that you have to attend to, spiritual, mental, physical, financial,
- 48:18Speaker 2: And too often I think we get stuck on just
- 48:20Speaker 2: the financial. And even if you get a great practice
- 48:24Speaker 2: and you make gizzillions of dollars, but you've neglected spiritual, mental, physical,
- 48:30Speaker 2: you're not going to be happy. I just talked with
- 48:32Speaker 2: a friend recently who was telling me somebody that he
- 48:35Speaker 2: had connected with who makes far less than him. But
- 48:39Speaker 2: that guy who makes far less than him is wanting
- 48:41Speaker 2: to check in on my friend who makes more money
- 48:44Speaker 2: to make sure he's doing okay. And I just think
- 48:48Speaker 2: it's a recentering moment for us to realize that the
- 48:51Speaker 2: money's never going to make us happy. I think it's
- 48:54Speaker 2: Proverbs that talks about money sprouting wings and flying away.
- 49:00Speaker 2: These things that we have we have to hold loosely.
- 49:03Speaker 2: But we need to make wise decisions too. We have
- 49:04Speaker 2: to count the cost before we do it. So what
- 49:07Speaker 2: advice would I give? Sorry, that's kind of a sidetrack,
- 49:10Speaker 2: Ask yourself what you want. Think that the ownership part
- 49:13Speaker 2: can be very very rewarding. It's hard, but life is hard,
- 49:16Speaker 2: you know, Like I think sometimes the voices, especially the
- 49:20Speaker 2: big voices in our industry. They're frustrating to me personally
- 49:25Speaker 2: because they make it sound like everybody should just be
- 49:29Speaker 2: rolling around in money and if you're not, you're doing
- 49:33Speaker 2: something drastically wrong. And they don't even need to know you.
- 49:36Speaker 2: They can tell you what you're doing wrong. And I
- 49:38Speaker 2: think that that's just unhealthy. It's unhealthy. And you know,
- 49:43Speaker 2: if you have a wife and kids, or you have
- 49:45Speaker 2: a husband and kids, your first ministry is at home,
- 49:48Speaker 2: like take care of your family. If you make all
- 49:51Speaker 2: the money in the world but your family falls apart,
- 49:54Speaker 2: how much would you give to put your family back together?
- 49:57Speaker 3: So do it for the right reasons.
- 50:00Speaker 2: If you want this because you care about doing things
- 50:04Speaker 2: the way that you think is right, you want the
- 50:06Speaker 2: autonomy to do that, and you're willing to take some
- 50:10Speaker 2: of the blows along the way to make it happen,
- 50:12Speaker 2: then do it. You got to have a bank that's
- 50:14Speaker 2: going to loan you the money unless you're independently wealthy.
- 50:17Speaker 2: You got to have an accountant that says this is
- 50:19Speaker 2: going to work. You got to have a lawyer that's
- 50:21Speaker 2: going to draw stuff up. You got to have jill
- 50:23Speaker 2: to make sure that you can survive when the wheels
- 50:26Speaker 2: fall off, but you can do it. Like we do
- 50:29Speaker 2: great things, we have great outcomes for people. We change lives.
- 50:34Speaker 2: I was a college student when I got braces, and
- 50:37Speaker 2: my orthodonist probably didn't feel like he did all that
- 50:40Speaker 2: much for me, but he closed a diasthma in the
- 50:43Speaker 2: front for me, and that was a game changer for
- 50:45Speaker 2: me confidence wise.
- 50:47Speaker 3: So I think our.
- 50:48Speaker 2: Mission statement says that we exist to improve lives by
- 50:53Speaker 2: improving smiles. That's the whole reason we exist. Love that
- 50:57Speaker 2: If that's what we're really trying to do, and this
- 51:00Speaker 2: is how you think you can do it, then great.
- 51:03Speaker 2: I just think what bothers me a little bit is
- 51:05Speaker 2: that we've kind of like commoditized our what we do
- 51:09Speaker 2: and it's just become you're hiring something out.
- 51:12Speaker 3: I'm hiring an orthodonist. This is just so much bigger
- 51:15Speaker 3: than that. Here, I got to show you something real quick.
- 51:17Speaker 3: I have a folder.
- 51:19Speaker 2: This folder is titled personal notes, and these are all
- 51:24Speaker 2: things that patients have given to me, and I keep
- 51:27Speaker 2: those because some days they're better than others.
- 51:29Speaker 3: You know, sometimes you need to read a note. Yep,
- 51:33Speaker 3: remember why you're doing what you're doing.
- 51:35Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think it was Jerry Sampson that said,
- 51:40Speaker 2: we're in the business of improvement, not in the business
- 51:43Speaker 2: of perfection. And that's been such a helpful thing because again,
- 51:50Speaker 2: we can't take biological beings and make them robots, but
- 51:54Speaker 2: we can take where we're at and try to restore
- 51:58Speaker 2: to something that's better, and you can change lives. Yep.
- 52:02Speaker 2: So I know it's not doctoring in the same way
- 52:05Speaker 2: as cardiovascular surgery or brain surgery or I had back
- 52:09Speaker 2: problems this past November and had to have some help.
- 52:11Speaker 3: It's not doctoring in that way. It can be really significant.
- 52:15Speaker 2: You know. I've got a folder fuld of stuff to
- 52:17Speaker 2: prove that. So I think, if that's what you want,
- 52:20Speaker 2: and you want more than just the paycheck, I go
- 52:24Speaker 2: for it. Like an acquisition is a great thing. It's proven,
- 52:27Speaker 2: it exists, somebody's been doing it for however long. Yeah,
- 52:30Speaker 2: you're gonna have some ups and downs, and it's probably
- 52:32Speaker 2: gonna be like buying a house. You know, you get
- 52:34Speaker 2: the inspection, you think you know what you're getting, and
- 52:36Speaker 2: then you get in there and you find out, oh,
- 52:38Speaker 2: I didn't realize this was happening, and then you got
- 52:40Speaker 2: to change stuff. But you own a house you know,
- 52:43Speaker 2: and you're not renting anymore, and there's good things with that.
- 52:46Speaker 2: So you can't be terrible at your job.
- 52:49Speaker 3: No matter what you do.
- 52:50Speaker 2: You have to be good at your job. You can't
- 52:53Speaker 2: go off and just be terrible. Even if somebody's paying
- 52:56Speaker 2: you to do. They're not gonna keep you. They're gonna
- 52:57Speaker 2: fire you. So I think whether you want to work
- 53:00Speaker 2: for somebody, which is fine, I'm not saying it's not
- 53:03Speaker 2: fine to make money, especially coming out of school.
- 53:05Speaker 3: You got debt, you got stuff. I did it.
- 53:08Speaker 2: But I would say, don't be afraid because you have
- 53:11Speaker 2: a marketable skill, You've worked really hard. You're probably a
- 53:15Speaker 2: great person because you've made it past all these interviews.
- 53:19Speaker 2: Don't sell yourself short. Yeah, just give it everything you got.
- 53:22Speaker 2: If you're a spiritual person, I'd encourage you to entrust
- 53:25Speaker 2: it to the Lord and recognize that he wants to
- 53:29Speaker 2: give good gifts.
- 53:30Speaker 3: Sometimes the gifts look different than you think they'll look.
- 53:34Speaker 2: And I think it's proverb sixteen nine that says in
- 53:37Speaker 2: his heart, a man plans his way, but the Lord
- 53:39Speaker 2: determines his steps.
- 53:41Speaker 3: So life is going to take some left turns and
- 53:44Speaker 3: some hard right turns, and.
- 53:46Speaker 2: At the end of the day, we got to decide
- 53:48Speaker 2: if we're going to trust ourselves or if we're going
- 53:50Speaker 2: to trust in something bigger, of which I do and
- 53:53Speaker 2: I've shared that before, so I'd say, go for it,
- 53:56Speaker 2: get your ducks in order, do the hard work to
- 53:59Speaker 2: prepare for it is best as you can. But one
- 54:02Speaker 2: of the most freeing things my wife told me when
- 54:04Speaker 2: we were making a lot of these decisions and I
- 54:07Speaker 2: was kind of in vapor lock for a while, she said, Richard,
- 54:11Speaker 2: you need to give yourself the freedom to make a
- 54:13Speaker 2: decision and then if something changes, make a new decision. Yeah, lovely,
- 54:20Speaker 2: And that was so liberating for me because we're so
- 54:25Speaker 2: perfectionistic that we think that everything we have to do
- 54:29Speaker 2: has to be perfect the first time or we've failed.
- 54:32Speaker 3: And that's just not how life so far forty two
- 54:35Speaker 3: years in has worked for me.
- 54:37Speaker 2: Maybe for some it has gone different, But I'm trying
- 54:41Speaker 2: to grow in that mindset where I want to make
- 54:44Speaker 2: decisions that seem good at the time, and then if
- 54:46Speaker 2: something changes, you make new decisions, and to be gracious
- 54:50Speaker 2: with yourself and that because even though I said you
- 54:52Speaker 2: had near profetic abilities, none of us as a prophet,
- 54:54Speaker 2: we don't know it's coming, and so stuff can happen,
- 54:58Speaker 2: stuff can change, and then you just got to be
- 54:59Speaker 2: ready for it as best as you can, you know,
- 55:01Speaker 2: makeing new decisions. So yeah, that's what i'd say.
- 55:04Speaker 1: Yeah, well, thank you, And I just love that you're
- 55:08Speaker 1: so candid and honest and raw with this because it really,
- 55:11Speaker 1: it really is all of that. And I would tell
- 55:14Speaker 1: anybody to who's listening, if you're willing to take that
- 55:17Speaker 1: step and stand in that space, you're going to do
- 55:20Speaker 1: just fine. You're going to have to do the work.
- 55:22Speaker 1: You're going to have tough days sometimes, and you're going
- 55:25Speaker 1: to have really great days sometimes, but darn it, that's
- 55:28Speaker 1: just part of being a business owner. It doesn't matter
- 55:31Speaker 1: what we're in and that's also just life to a point,
- 55:34Speaker 1: some are going to be better than others. So again,
- 55:37Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking us on your journey.
- 55:40Speaker 1: In the event, you can tell me how you feel
- 55:42Speaker 1: about this. But if somebody was listening and maybe they've
- 55:45Speaker 1: gone through a similar experience, or they're just needing kind
- 55:49Speaker 1: of a safe space to talk to a peer or
- 55:51Speaker 1: bring up maybe a thought or whatnot. If somebody wanted
- 55:54Speaker 1: to reach out to you, what would be the best way,
- 55:57Speaker 1: or find out a little bit more about your practice
- 55:59Speaker 1: or whatnot.
- 56:00Speaker 2: Yeah, well they need to lower their expectations for whatever
- 56:03Speaker 2: they're going to, you know, expect to come back. Lower
- 56:06Speaker 2: the expectations. But email is probably just the easiest thing
- 56:10Speaker 2: to give over this kind of thing. So just Richard
- 56:12Speaker 2: at play about orthodonics dot com. Just say who you
- 56:15Speaker 2: are and I'll do my best to get back to you.
- 56:17Speaker 2: But yeah, lower your expectations. We are just fellow pilgrims
- 56:21Speaker 2: trying to navigate the way together. So I don't have
- 56:23Speaker 2: all the answers and I'm an end of one. Yeah,
- 56:26Speaker 2: but I wish I would have had something like this
- 56:29Speaker 2: ten years ago when I was getting started and somebody
- 56:31Speaker 2: that I knew would be open to talk about it.
- 56:34Speaker 3: And that's one of the reasons I did this.
- 56:36Speaker 2: I probably would have just normally said no, but I
- 56:39Speaker 2: would have killed to just hear somebody kind of might
- 56:42Speaker 2: not paint it in a perfect way or make themselves
- 56:46Speaker 2: sound perfect, because my story definitely wasn't perfect. My story
- 56:49Speaker 2: was far from perfect and it still is, you know.
- 56:52Speaker 2: But yeah, if I can help somebody, then praise the
- 56:55Speaker 2: Lord for that. And if we get to be friends
- 56:56Speaker 2: out of it. That'd be awesome and we can laugh
- 56:59Speaker 2: together and cry together. Things might go great, things might
- 57:03Speaker 2: go terrible, but I don't think that that defines you
- 57:06Speaker 2: at the end of the day. Now, I've tried as
- 57:08Speaker 2: time it has gone on, you know, and people say, like, hey,
- 57:10Speaker 2: tell us about yourself or whatever. I've tried really hard
- 57:12Speaker 2: to not lead with I'm an orthodonist, because I think
- 57:16Speaker 2: we do that and it really boxes us in and
- 57:19Speaker 2: we begin to think of ourselves in a really narrow way.
- 57:22Speaker 3: So I think we need to start by saying things like.
- 57:25Speaker 2: I'm a husband, I'm a dad, I'm a son, I'm
- 57:28Speaker 2: a member of my church, I'm a boy Scout leader,
- 57:31Speaker 2: whatever it's going to be. But like, start with those
- 57:34Speaker 2: things because those are things that are probably going to
- 57:36Speaker 2: make you far happier than just saying I'm an orthodonist.
- 57:39Speaker 3: You got to make money, and this is how you
- 57:40Speaker 3: chosen to do that. You've gone through the school and
- 57:42Speaker 3: now you got to do it. But you get to
- 57:43Speaker 3: do it.
- 57:44Speaker 2: But your identity has to be in something bigger than
- 57:46Speaker 2: your practice or us. I think you're going to live
- 57:49Speaker 2: kind of a narrow life.
- 57:50Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, totally agree. It can't define you for sure,
- 57:54Speaker 1: or it definitely becomes pretty lonely at the end if that's.
- 57:58Speaker 3: All that you have.
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- 58:59Speaker 1: so much for such a great talk. And I don't
- 59:02Speaker 1: know if you remember this or not, but the way
- 59:04Speaker 1: I like to finish up haydocs is do a little
- 59:06Speaker 1: quick speed round. I got a couple questions for you.
- 59:09Speaker 1: If you're ready to jump in.
- 59:10Speaker 3: Okay, I'm nimble, I'm ready.
- 59:12Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. What is one of your go
- 59:15Speaker 1: to strategies for getting unstuck if you're facing a tough problem?
- 59:19Speaker 3: Mm hmm, well, you've heard me say it before.
- 59:21Speaker 2: I think instincts are worth something, So whatever your first
- 59:23Speaker 2: instinct is, I would lean into that.
- 59:26Speaker 3: One of my team members of the course of time
- 59:28Speaker 3: also told me she's like, you know what, we should
- 59:30Speaker 3: pray about that. I'm like, dang it, you're right, I
- 59:32Speaker 3: should pray about that. So instincts and prayer, I'd.
- 59:35Speaker 2: Go with that.
- 59:36Speaker 1: Okay, great, great, all right, how about this one. What
- 59:38Speaker 1: is one piece of advice you wish you had followed
- 59:41Speaker 1: earlier in your career.
- 59:43Speaker 2: Do everything you can to prioritize time with your family.
- 59:47Speaker 2: I know stuff has to get done at the office,
- 59:48Speaker 2: but kids grow up way too fast. I've got eleven
- 59:51Speaker 2: nine and two at home, and my third born is
- 59:54Speaker 2: already in heaven, so time just goes way too fast.
- 59:57Speaker 2: So you got to prioritize that and don't miss the memories.
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: You know, take pictures, try to say yes to as
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: many things as possible.
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that well, Richard, thank you again for
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: being here and sharing your story with us. I cannot
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: tell you how valuable this is, and I know that
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: this is hit home with some listeners out there. So
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: God put you in the right place and put you
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: on the right path, and I know that you're just
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: to breathe into somebody's life.
- 1:00:24Speaker 3: So thank you for sure. Yeah, thanks for your help
- 1:00:26Speaker 3: a decade ago. Thanks for continuing to just be a friend.
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:00:31Speaker 3: I value your whole team and really thankful for who
- 1:00:34Speaker 3: you are, for what you bring, for how you helped us.
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: You've been the same person for as long as I've
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: known you, and same infectious laugh, same smile, same everything, and.
- 1:00:44Speaker 3: I just I'm really thankful for it. Thanks for the opportunity, yep,
- 1:00:47Speaker 3: thank you.
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