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Leaky Booties and Shitty Ass Niggas · Sistas IN Sync

0:25
SPEAKER_02: Hey y'all, what's going on?
0:28
SPEAKER_02: You are tuning in to another episode.
0:31
SPEAKER_02: This is our quarter of a century episode.
0:33
SPEAKER_02: This is our 25th episode.
0:35
SPEAKER_02: I know, right?
0:36
SPEAKER_02: This is our 25th episode of Sisters in Sync.
0:39
SPEAKER_02: This is your girl Ashley.
0:40
SPEAKER_02: Hey y'all, this is Diamond.
0:43
SPEAKER_02: And welcome in.
0:45
SPEAKER_02: We might not have a lot of topics, though.
0:46
SPEAKER_02: We do have a loaded show, if you get what I'm saying.
0:49
SPEAKER_02: But first, before we get into these crazy topics of leaky booties and shitty ass niggas, sis, how you feeling?
0:58
SPEAKER_02: That was a good one.
0:59
SPEAKER_00: That was a good one.
1:00
SPEAKER_00: That was really good.
1:01
SPEAKER_00: That was like A1.
1:03
SPEAKER_02: That was like That might be our title, leaky booties and shitty ass niggas.
1:07
SPEAKER_00: That's that's like amazing.
1:11
SPEAKER_00: Um I am doing, I'm doing pretty good.
1:15
SPEAKER_00: Um mental health is good.
1:20
SPEAKER_00: And I'm just, I don't know.
1:23
SPEAKER_00: I'm just every week, I'm just, I feel like I'm living for Friday.
1:28
SPEAKER_00: Like I'm just counting down till Friday.
1:30
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
1:31
SPEAKER_00: And absolutely.
1:33
SPEAKER_00: When I am not at work, I am like the happiest person ever.
1:38
SPEAKER_00: But when I'm at work, I am extremely not okay.
1:44
SPEAKER_00: And so that's where I am.
1:47
SPEAKER_02: It's not funny, but I'm laughing because I know exactly how you feel and exactly what you're saying.
1:54
SPEAKER_00: Like, I hate it.
1:57
SPEAKER_00: I hate it so much right now.
1:59
SPEAKER_00: And the fact that I don't have any PTO is just so fucking sad.
2:07
SPEAKER_02: Listen, you've been gone this year, honey.
2:09
SPEAKER_02: Uh summer, not summer, Lord.
2:11
SPEAKER_02: Uh summer can't come close enough for you.
2:14
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, I understand that, but I mean you've been outside this year.
2:17
SPEAKER_02: You use that PTO the hell up.
2:19
SPEAKER_00: But I'm like, even though the summer comes as an administrator, I still have to work.
2:23
SPEAKER_00: I only get one full week off in the summer.
2:28
SPEAKER_00: That's true.
2:29
SPEAKER_02: Um which I think is crazy because my whole thing is what the hell are administrators doing in the summer?
2:34
SPEAKER_00: Fucking nothing working on projects and preparing for the next year.
2:38
SPEAKER_00: And it's just annoying because we have to go into the building three times a week, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and you're literally sitting in a room like working on a computer.
2:48
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, I could do this at home.
2:50
SPEAKER_00: Well, at least you got four.
2:51
SPEAKER_02: So you have four-day weekends?
2:53
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
2:54
SPEAKER_02: Well, that's a plus, but still, I I I guess I didn't realize that until I talked to you.
3:00
SPEAKER_02: I know sometimes like the school will be open, but I didn't know that most administrators don't have summer vacation.
3:06
SPEAKER_02: I think that's youngers.
3:08
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like it just sucks, but I don't know.
3:11
SPEAKER_00: I guess I just I'm I'm thankful that summer's coming because the pace will be slower and I don't have to deal with children and their parents.
3:19
SPEAKER_00: So that's great.
3:21
SPEAKER_00: But yeah, other than that, man, at work, I'm just sick of that shit.
3:27
SPEAKER_00: And like I feel like right now it's the end of the school year, and now is when I'm getting like a bunch of like parents hitting me up about shit.
3:36
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, dude.
3:37
SPEAKER_00: You had all fucking your child is failing.
3:41
SPEAKER_00: Good day.
3:42
SPEAKER_00: And don't call me again.
3:43
SPEAKER_00: Like, can we review their plan?
3:46
SPEAKER_00: Like, I feel like their plan is not being, you know, used correctly.
3:51
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, we literally have four weeks of school left.
3:55
SPEAKER_00: What are you talking about?
3:58
SPEAKER_02: So you and your child can go kick rocks.
4:01
SPEAKER_00: I'm just sick of that shit.
4:03
SPEAKER_02: See, that's why I don't deal with kids.
4:04
SPEAKER_02: I'll be wanting to say that to my adults at work.
4:07
SPEAKER_02: Like, sir, you're 50 years old and you don't know how to make your own doctor's appointment.
4:10
SPEAKER_02: I'm your housing case manager.
4:13
SPEAKER_02: I am not your superwoman.
4:15
SPEAKER_02: I'm not carrying a while, baby.
4:17
SPEAKER_02: Stop blinding.
4:18
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
4:20
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
4:21
SPEAKER_00: Other than that, though, I mean, I'm doing good.
4:24
SPEAKER_00: I'm still losing weight.
4:25
SPEAKER_00: So I'm down.
4:26
SPEAKER_00: I started out.
4:27
SPEAKER_00: Yes, I started out at 249.
4:30
SPEAKER_00: And so I'm 218 right now.
4:33
SPEAKER_03: Umgratulations.
4:35
SPEAKER_03: Yes.
4:37
SPEAKER_03: Yes.
4:39
SPEAKER_02: Oh, my girl says she's a skinny legend.
4:42
SPEAKER_00: I know that's.
4:43
SPEAKER_00: But with that, you know, comes me now having to, you know, run away from my husband who's trying to like knock me up every five fucking minutes.
4:54
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, sir, I don't want to have.
5:01
SPEAKER_00: I'm like, I don't want to have another baby.
5:04
SPEAKER_00: He's like, oh, you looking good.
5:05
SPEAKER_00: Let's do it one more time.
5:07
SPEAKER_00: Let's have one more baby.
5:08
SPEAKER_00: And I was like, no.
5:10
SPEAKER_00: It's like every time.
5:12
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
5:13
SPEAKER_00: Can I enjoy my nice body?
5:15
SPEAKER_00: Like, damn.
5:17
SPEAKER_00: So, you know.
5:19
SPEAKER_02: But I feel like childbirth or a nigga wanting to get a bitch pregnant.
5:26
SPEAKER_02: I feel like that's low-key a threat to my life.
5:31
SPEAKER_01: Mm-mm.
5:32
SPEAKER_02: Seriously.
5:33
SPEAKER_02: Like, I hate when niggas say like it's different for you because you're married, but just imagine dating.
5:38
SPEAKER_02: Like, even the few times that I would talk to a dude, well, it's been more than a few times, but you will be surprised how many times I've talked to a man, be like, ooh, you so fine, or ooh, I want to fuck you.
5:50
SPEAKER_02: I want to get you pregnant.
5:51
SPEAKER_02: The way my cooter cat was just dry up, because nigga, what is you talking about?
5:55
SPEAKER_02: A lot of y'all niggas say that shit, but don't, y'all already got kids.
5:59
SPEAKER_02: Y'all got pre-existing fucking conditions.
6:01
SPEAKER_02: And y'all don't take care of the fucking kids.
6:03
SPEAKER_02: Bitch, you're not finna baby mama Mijo.
6:06
SPEAKER_02: That is not sexy.
6:07
SPEAKER_02: Like, and it's not like lying.
6:10
unknown: Yeah.
6:10
SPEAKER_02: Y'all don't ever talk about making the bitch come hit in the G spot, but y'all want to get a bitch pregnant.
6:14
SPEAKER_02: Y'all don't even know our anatomy.
6:16
SPEAKER_02: Y'all don't know about uh ovaries, urethas, and fucking vulvas.
6:22
SPEAKER_02: Like, get the fuck out of here.
6:23
SPEAKER_02: Like, well, vulva that's in the throat.
6:25
SPEAKER_02: But still, I digress.
6:27
SPEAKER_02: Um, just sick of you nigga.
6:30
SPEAKER_02: Um, yeah, bro.
6:32
SPEAKER_02: Let my sister show a little like because first of all, Hot Girl Summer is in full effect.
6:36
SPEAKER_02: We're gonna get into that in a minute.
6:38
SPEAKER_02: But no, no.
6:40
SPEAKER_02: Let my girl.
6:42
SPEAKER_03: She got some breeze.
6:43
SPEAKER_03: So let her breathe.
6:45
SPEAKER_03: Hit up with that Tony Brackett.
6:47
SPEAKER_03: Every time he started sweating a song, da do.
6:50
unknown: Do.
6:53
SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to get my sexy on, okay?
6:56
SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to look good.
6:58
SPEAKER_00: I feel good.
6:59
SPEAKER_00: And ain't nobody trying to be birthing no babies right now.
7:03
SPEAKER_00: So, yeah.
7:04
SPEAKER_00: She's too expensive any damn way.
7:06
SPEAKER_00: Yes, and I told him, I told him that.
7:08
SPEAKER_00: I'm like, Kron, like, that is not in the plan right now.
7:12
SPEAKER_00: Like, no, no, we don't need to have another baby.
7:16
SPEAKER_00: Um, but yeah, other than that, I'm doing good.
7:19
SPEAKER_00: How you doing, sis?
7:22
SPEAKER_02: I'm like you.
7:23
SPEAKER_02: I live for the weekends.
7:24
SPEAKER_02: The white people at my fucking job get on my fucking nerves.
7:29
SPEAKER_02: Um, hate design brands from the Lord's day, but I'm sorry, Lord.
7:34
SPEAKER_02: Um, I really, I'm so over my job, bro.
7:40
SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm just, I can't even really get sad or afford to even cry.
7:45
SPEAKER_02: Because this n I know it's not just me that's having issues, because again, we've talked about this so many times.
7:50
SPEAKER_02: The job market is complete.
7:52
SPEAKER_02: It's like a straight man's ass.
7:55
SPEAKER_02: Just shitty.
7:56
SPEAKER_02: Um, I I I've applied to the last 18 months, the total jobs that I've applied to in just in 18 months has been well over 200.
8:07
SPEAKER_02: I think I'm I would say, I would say the last three years since I've moved back to Clarksville in 2023.
8:17
SPEAKER_02: I moved back to Clarksville officially August of 2023.
8:21
SPEAKER_02: Since then, I've applied, I think the number is like 310.
8:25
SPEAKER_02: But within, so it's like I applied for like 110 jobs and I stopped.
8:30
SPEAKER_02: Then, because I just took a, I took like a year off from applying for jobs because I'm like, mentally, this is fucking with me, right?
8:36
SPEAKER_02: It's kind of like online dating.
8:37
SPEAKER_02: It's just, I'm never lucky at the luck of the draw, right?
8:41
SPEAKER_02: So this within since basically since I've been working this job, I'm like, oh no.
8:46
SPEAKER_02: I never thought I would ever end up in a job like this.
8:50
SPEAKER_02: I'm glad that I have employment, but like, bro, this, this ain't it.
8:57
SPEAKER_02: I thought I was gonna get a call this week for another job, but I didn't get the call.
9:02
SPEAKER_02: At least not yet.
9:03
SPEAKER_02: I'm not gonna give up, but I'm just like, it's so discouraging.
9:10
SPEAKER_02: Because then it's like you people like, oh, well, there's more life in that.
9:13
SPEAKER_02: Is it?
9:13
SPEAKER_02: Is it though?
9:14
SPEAKER_02: You spend a lot of your waking hours of the day at a job.
9:17
SPEAKER_02: Even if it's a job I hate, if I was getting compensated how I thought I should, that would make it worthwhile.
9:22
SPEAKER_02: That that I don't even have health insurance.
9:25
SPEAKER_02: I have vision.
9:28
SPEAKER_02: I don't even have health insurance right now.
9:30
SPEAKER_02: My car is more insured than I am.
9:32
SPEAKER_00: And that's so backwards to me, especially in your line of work, because you're literally, and you talked about this last time, literally helping people get what they need, but you don't have what all that you need.
9:45
SPEAKER_02: It's so fucking the conundrum of working for a nonprofit is absolutely it's the most, it's repulsive, it's necessary, but it's very contradictory.
10:02
SPEAKER_02: I literally help veterans because a lot of the times they've earned it with being a veteran with the VA medical care.
10:08
SPEAKER_02: But even if like I have a veteran that's like, okay, I don't have this, this, that, and the third, I can help you get there.
10:16
SPEAKER_02: We've helped veterans get therapy services, health care, free dentures, food, apartments.
10:24
SPEAKER_02: And I will, I'm just gonna speak about the women in my section that I work in.
10:29
SPEAKER_02: Damn near all of us got two jobs, or have had two jobs, or work in multiple jobs.
10:33
SPEAKER_02: Or like, I already work for a nonprofit.
10:36
SPEAKER_02: I took a pay cut coming from the job I was at previous when the contract ended to this, and then you're telling me you want to take an additional$580 from me a month for health insurance?
10:47
SPEAKER_02: Hell no.
10:48
SPEAKER_02: I just won't have it.
10:51
SPEAKER_01: So ridiculous.
10:53
SPEAKER_02: It's just so many things.
10:54
SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm just I'm not happy.
10:56
SPEAKER_02: And then I hate, I will never, and I mean this, then they have like, oh, don't say never, no, bitch.
11:02
SPEAKER_02: I I'm not a social work person.
11:04
SPEAKER_02: Like, this is not my ministry.
11:06
SPEAKER_02: I'm decent at it and I care for people, but like, nah, I just want to work my corporate job, go home, dealing with clients, and people, excuse me.
11:25
SPEAKER_02: My body always acts up when I talk about my job.
11:29
SPEAKER_02: But dealing with people in this aspect, that shit is not for the week.
11:34
SPEAKER_02: And the sucky part is, and this isn't a a he-man, well, a she-man men haters club.
11:42
SPEAKER_02: It's really not, even though I do hate a lot of you niggas out there, but like my job when you're dealing with the military and you're dealing with veterans, just in general, it is a male-dominated feel.
11:54
SPEAKER_02: So you can only imagine the majority of the people that I serve that I work with on an everyday fucking basis are men.
12:02
SPEAKER_02: Men are just so incompetent.
12:05
SPEAKER_02: They're so incompetent, they're lazy as hell, and they are entitled.
12:10
SPEAKER_02: And I can firmly say I have one woman veteran that I have an issue with, but hers are mental illness issues.
12:20
SPEAKER_02: Majority of the clients that we have issues with are fucking male clients.
12:24
SPEAKER_02: Like you talking about, I'm not talking about 20-year-olds, not that it makes it right, but like you're talking about niggas in their 50s and 60s that's never held out a job for more than the for more than a fucking week.
12:35
SPEAKER_02: You're talking about niggas that, can you make my dialysis for me?
12:38
SPEAKER_02: Nigga, I'm your housing case manager.
12:40
SPEAKER_02: No, I'm not doing that.
12:42
SPEAKER_02: Or like, can you deliver my food?
12:44
SPEAKER_02: Can you give me around?
12:45
SPEAKER_02: I don't have a car.
12:46
SPEAKER_02: Like, I had a dude, well, I heard, I'm just say this.
12:50
SPEAKER_02: There was a client, his mom died, and she did everything for him, and the nigga was in his 60s.
12:58
SPEAKER_02: You got me fucked up.
13:00
SPEAKER_02: Jesus.
13:01
SPEAKER_02: And I just feel like one thing that people don't talk about, and I wish more women had this conversation, but I think a lot of women, especially when I think about the typical army wives, a lot of army wives are weak as fuck.
13:12
SPEAKER_02: Oh yeah.
13:12
SPEAKER_02: Oh yes.
13:13
SPEAKER_02: Growing up with an army wife, having friends that are army wives.
13:17
SPEAKER_02: Luckily, my mother doesn't fall in that trajectory.
13:19
SPEAKER_02: Thank God.
13:20
SPEAKER_02: But like just hearing the shit she tells me now that I'm grown and we can have different conversations.
13:26
SPEAKER_02: Like the mil they want you to serve in the military.
13:34
SPEAKER_02: They they do everything for people in the fucking military.
13:37
SPEAKER_02: That's why a lot of them, when they get out, they cannot cope.
13:41
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you don't have fucking orders.
13:42
SPEAKER_02: You need to find a job.
13:43
SPEAKER_02: You gotta go to well, they act up at that's the fucking, you think civilian us as civilians, we've had to work with regular, daggular fucking people our entire lives.
13:52
SPEAKER_02: Motherfuckers act the fuck up.
13:54
SPEAKER_02: You're not gonna get an article 15 if you deal with somebody that's acting an ass.
13:58
SPEAKER_02: You have to deal with these motherfuckers.
14:00
SPEAKER_02: You have to work with people you don't like, you know, it's so many different issues.
14:04
SPEAKER_02: Or like, they can't, they can't make their own appointments.
14:07
SPEAKER_02: They don't know how to book flights, they don't know how to pay bills because guess what?
14:10
SPEAKER_02: Your woman or your partner, even I've seen it with even same-sex couples where one's in the military and one's not.
14:17
SPEAKER_02: I've seen it on both the men and the women's side.
14:19
SPEAKER_02: The partner that's at home, that's not in the military, they're taking care of the household.
14:24
SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
14:25
SPEAKER_02: Yep.
14:25
SPEAKER_02: They're paying the bills, they got the shit set up, they're cooking the meals, they're still wearing the children.
14:30
SPEAKER_02: Even when you niggas be home, so it's just like working on the from the veteran.
14:35
SPEAKER_02: Oh, you're gonna die today, ho.
14:38
SPEAKER_02: A bug.
14:39
SPEAKER_02: Sorry, y'all.
14:40
SPEAKER_02: That was really loud for no reason.
14:43
SPEAKER_02: That just triggered me.
14:45
SPEAKER_02: Thought about my job, too danger on the bug.
14:48
SPEAKER_02: But no, like it's just working with men, men are and I like every day I struggle to not become a misandrist.
15:00
SPEAKER_02: It truly becomes more evident to me every day that women are definitely the superior beings.
15:09
SPEAKER_02: Not only do we bring life in the world, we keep the world fucking going.
15:17
SPEAKER_02: Um yeah, so job.
15:20
SPEAKER_02: Ugh.
15:21
SPEAKER_02: I definitely okay, let's let's move into physicality.
15:27
SPEAKER_02: Physicality, physicality.
15:29
SPEAKER_02: I was going through a phase this week, bitch.
15:32
SPEAKER_02: I wanted somebody to purr and pounce on this fucking cat.
15:36
SPEAKER_02: I guess like it's been 15 months since I've last had some heated fellowship, okay?
15:42
SPEAKER_02: I know you like, oh, this bitch telling you a bit, bitch, we getting real on this motherfucking podcast.
15:46
SPEAKER_02: I've been holding this shit in.
15:48
SPEAKER_02: I'm I'm just venting with my at this point.
15:50
SPEAKER_02: I'm honestly forgetting we're filming a podcast.
15:52
SPEAKER_02: We're just talking.
15:53
SPEAKER_00: We're just talking.
15:54
SPEAKER_02: Um just just just chatting it up.
15:57
SPEAKER_02: But and I'm I know I'm taking a long time, but this is just how my mental is right now.
16:02
SPEAKER_02: Uh work was super busy this week, so I just I had my coworkers laughing.
16:06
SPEAKER_02: I said, bitch, I feel mentally unstable this week.
16:08
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna go get an iced coffee.
16:09
SPEAKER_02: Don't nobody talk to me for 30 minutes.
16:10
SPEAKER_02: But no, so physicality.
16:13
SPEAKER_02: This week I was purring at the moon for whatever week.
16:17
SPEAKER_02: I haven't been this horny probably since January when I was supposed to have a dick appointment that stood me up.
16:22
SPEAKER_02: A girl, I just was like, she.
16:26
SPEAKER_02: I'm oh damn girl, I need to put a damn muzzle on you.
16:30
SPEAKER_02: A chastity bell, if you will.
16:32
SPEAKER_02: Oh Lord.
16:33
SPEAKER_02: But I'm glad.
16:35
SPEAKER_02: And I, and but see, if I would have let that take control of me, if I would have got an STD or some mid-ass dick over a feeling, I would have just shot shot it.
16:45
SPEAKER_02: I would have switched cheesed, whatever establishment that I was nearest.
16:50
SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
16:51
SPEAKER_02: So I just kept her bottled up.
16:54
SPEAKER_02: I had to, I had to press that bitch down in Pandora's box because, honey, I know I have one.
17:02
SPEAKER_02: I do not call this man, but I know I could.
17:06
SPEAKER_02: I got one in the chamber.
17:09
SPEAKER_02: I will only call him if the world was finna end.
17:11
SPEAKER_02: That's it.
17:13
SPEAKER_02: But I almost called the motherfucker.
17:15
unknown: Okay.
17:16
SPEAKER_02: Uh-oh.
17:17
SPEAKER_02: I mean, she just was scratching me up, girl.
17:20
SPEAKER_02: Scratching me up.
17:21
SPEAKER_02: Oh Lord.
17:22
SPEAKER_02: But I bottled her back in.
17:25
SPEAKER_02: I was yesterday, it kind of, you know, I was feeling a little cute.
17:29
SPEAKER_02: I went to an event where there were men, because I really don't be in spaces with men at all.
17:34
SPEAKER_02: So I was just, every every attractive man I seen, I just was like, bounce on that shit, dance.
17:41
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, uh, mm-mm-mm.
17:43
SPEAKER_02: No ma'am.
17:44
SPEAKER_02: Uh-oh.
17:45
SPEAKER_02: So I'm, and I'm kind of glad, it's times like this where I'm glad I live at home.
17:50
SPEAKER_02: Not that, you know, it's it's a workaround when you want to get busy and you live at home with your family.
17:56
SPEAKER_02: And now I think about it differently because now my nephew's in the house.
17:59
SPEAKER_02: So I definitely wouldn't want him.
18:02
SPEAKER_02: And if it's any when I'm in here getting my damn freak on, but it's just like, you know, your brother's home, your nephew, your parents, uh, it's not sexy.
18:11
SPEAKER_02: So even my last partner, we always did shit at his place.
18:14
SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, no.
18:16
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
18:16
SPEAKER_02: So yeah, physicality.
18:19
SPEAKER_02: I definitely need to get back serious into my weight loss journey because bitch, I can't fit none of my bottoms.
18:23
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, oh yeah, no.
18:25
SPEAKER_02: And I saw a video of myself dancing, even though I was having a good time.
18:28
SPEAKER_02: That's why I really don't take body pictures of me because I feel like, ugh, I was like, oh yeah, I need to tighten up.
18:34
SPEAKER_02: Um, what else, what else, what else?
18:39
SPEAKER_02: But yeah, I just feel like I'm floating right now.
18:44
SPEAKER_02: I'm I want to get a second job because it is a few things I want to do this summer that I know I'm gonna need to, I'm going on a trip in the end of summer with one of my good friends.
18:52
SPEAKER_02: I need to have money for that.
18:54
SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna probably be working two jobs again for the next, probably the unforeseeable future will be until I find a job that I I wanted to go to the Usher and Chris Brown concert for my birthday, but um, I'm not trying to sell one of my motherfucking kidneys.
19:13
SPEAKER_00: So guess I'm not going.
19:16
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
19:18
SPEAKER_01: Mm-mm.
19:20
SPEAKER_01: Girl.
19:22
SPEAKER_01: Oh, girl.
19:24
SPEAKER_02: And it's such a crazy, like, I was mad about not going to verb.
19:30
SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, you know what, bitch, you get on this platform and you get on your other platform, which is a black paradigm, and you talk about black feminicity.
19:37
SPEAKER_02: Meanwhile, like Chris Brown's a whole abuser.
19:39
SPEAKER_02: Like, I love his music and I have an attachment to it, but it's just like, maybe I shouldn't go.
19:44
SPEAKER_02: Even though I can get tickets either.
19:46
SPEAKER_02: But it's like there was some, I saw some cheat tickets and I had some.
19:49
SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, you know what?
19:51
SPEAKER_02: I need to practice what I preach, so I'm just, I'm not gonna worry about it.
19:54
SPEAKER_02: Plus, I just feel like this bitch Beyonce is coming, and I'm just like, all right, like I'm gonna have to sell some ass.
20:01
SPEAKER_02: Cause this, this act three is gonna be crazy.
20:04
SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, I'm just I don't know.
20:08
SPEAKER_02: I'm at a point now where it's like, all right, outside of paying debt and paying shit off, I just want to spend money on experiences and traveling again.
20:18
SPEAKER_02: I want to get back to that.
20:19
SPEAKER_02: So it's just like, you know, oh, and something significant happened in my life the last two weeks.
20:28
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna tell you about.
20:30
SPEAKER_02: This is gonna be like, oh my god, but see, this is a podcast of black women, so I don't give a damn.
20:35
SPEAKER_02: If you can't relate, you should be.
20:38
SPEAKER_02: I have turned into a Sileto girly.
20:40
SPEAKER_02: Yay!
20:41
SPEAKER_00: I saw that.
20:43
SPEAKER_00: I was gonna tell you how cute they look on you.
20:46
SPEAKER_02: Oh my god.
20:50
SPEAKER_02: Even though I still love my square and a cute coffin, but I'm just like, I love those two.
20:55
SPEAKER_02: I love those.
20:56
SPEAKER_02: I love those, I love those.
20:58
SPEAKER_02: But I have turned this.
21:02
SPEAKER_02: Oh, my hands just look so sexy.
21:04
SPEAKER_02: They do.
21:07
SPEAKER_02: It's like you remember when Pusha T was like, power was in my hair, nigga.
21:12
SPEAKER_02: These nails all bitch down.
21:15
SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
21:18
SPEAKER_02: But anyway, I know y'all was like, this bitch just talked for 30 minutes.
21:23
SPEAKER_02: I did.
21:24
SPEAKER_02: And what about it?
21:25
SPEAKER_02: Nah, but that's what I'm doing.
21:27
SPEAKER_00: Um what?
21:29
SPEAKER_00: What did you say?
21:30
SPEAKER_00: I said that part.
21:31
SPEAKER_00: What about it?
21:33
SPEAKER_02: Oh, and I want to tell you something.
21:35
SPEAKER_02: I'm not gonna go into it on the podcast, Dama, but I want the pod to hear it.
21:40
SPEAKER_02: You know, I support you 100%.
21:42
SPEAKER_02: You're still a winner in my eyes, and you know what I'm referring to.
21:46
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
21:47
SPEAKER_02: You've accomplished so much this last academic school year, and just being in the same room and being mentioned with the caliber of people that you were mentioned, because you Of high caliber.
22:01
SPEAKER_02: You're still the winner to me and to the family network.
22:05
SPEAKER_02: So I'm still very, very, very, very, extremely very proud of you.
22:10
SPEAKER_02: And I also want to give a shout-out to my old roommate, Sabrina.
22:14
SPEAKER_02: We hung out.
22:15
SPEAKER_02: We haven't hung out or talked to each other in over three years.
22:18
SPEAKER_02: And sometimes it's so crazy when you catch up with old friends and you realize like things that you thought was happening wasn't happening because of, you know, you never know what's in the person's mental until you talk to them.
22:33
SPEAKER_02: So I definitely, you know, I've told her, I said, it's not gonna be another three years.
22:39
SPEAKER_02: Definitely will not be another three years.
22:40
SPEAKER_02: So if you have that homegirl, and not that we fell out or anything, we just stopped living together.
22:46
SPEAKER_02: Um, but if you have an old friend, nothing happened between y'all, you know, time got away, life time, reach out to them.
22:54
SPEAKER_02: Because I felt it was so beautiful because I feel like we did miss a beat.
22:58
SPEAKER_02: We had some misunderstandings on each other's parts, but we just, after like the first 30 minutes, we went back to how we used to just talk and kick it back in the day.
23:06
SPEAKER_02: And it just was, I definitely gonna make it my business to hang out with her more this summer.
23:11
SPEAKER_02: And because she's family at the end of the day.
23:13
SPEAKER_02: So it was just, I love that.
23:16
SPEAKER_02: And to see your friends getting past tough spots, share their testimonies, you know, she's doing beautifully.
23:24
SPEAKER_02: And that just, I don't know, that made me so happy last night.
23:27
SPEAKER_02: So shout out to her.
23:28
SPEAKER_02: AKA B D.
23:29
SPEAKER_02: I love her.
23:30
SPEAKER_02: AKA Miss Dougie Queen, she knows what I'm talking about.
23:35
SPEAKER_02: But I know y'all have been waiting for it, and we are gonna get into it.
23:41
SPEAKER_02: We're finally into this show, and we finna fucking talk about it.
23:46
SPEAKER_02: We gotta talk about Megan Clay.
23:48
SPEAKER_02: Megan posted a message yesterday, and it was crazy how I kind of was just on, I just was scrolling on Instagram, and I I'm a Megan fan, so I check her, I look up for her updates all the time.
24:02
SPEAKER_02: And this I screenshot it, this was on her story.
24:06
SPEAKER_02: She says she posted this around 1.40 p.m.
24:09
SPEAKER_02: our time.
24:10
SPEAKER_02: She says, cheating, had me around your whole family playing house, got quote unquote cold feet, holding you down through all of your horrible mood swings and treatment towards me during your basketball season, excuse me.
24:24
SPEAKER_02: Now you don't know if you can be quote unquote monogamous.
24:28
SPEAKER_02: Bitch, I need a real break after this one.
24:30
SPEAKER_02: Bye y'all.
24:32
SPEAKER_02: Friend, before I I've talked long enough, I need to hear your thoughts and everything about this.
24:37
SPEAKER_02: Go ahead, then I'll share my thoughts.
24:39
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I follow, I follow Megan as well, and I saw that clicking the babies.
24:53
SPEAKER_00: I know KJ probably gonna wake up to it a minute and get to screaming.
24:57
SPEAKER_00: Um, I follow Megan too.
24:59
SPEAKER_00: How are y'all?
25:01
SPEAKER_00: I follow Megan too on social media.
25:04
SPEAKER_00: And um, I saw that and I was just like, damn, like I really, I was like, fuck.
25:11
SPEAKER_00: I was really rooting for her, I was rooting for them, and I thought they were happy.
25:15
SPEAKER_00: And I think that's another thing that it it made me think of, like you never truly know what people are going through and what their relationships are like.
25:26
SPEAKER_00: Um, because from the outside looking in, because they didn't do, you know, a lot of if like how she was saying she was helping him get through, you know, this mental shit that he was going through with his basketball career.
25:43
SPEAKER_00: Like all of those things were done in silence.
25:46
SPEAKER_00: You know, she was um very quiet about those things, and um, she was able to keep his secrets, you know, and and be a trusted, you know, partner with what he was going through.
26:00
SPEAKER_00: And so outside looking in, we didn't even know that those things were going on, and that's how it should be.
26:08
SPEAKER_00: But I I just I was just really, really, really shocked.
26:12
SPEAKER_00: I was sad, I was hurt for her.
26:15
SPEAKER_00: Um, because I did.
26:16
SPEAKER_00: I thought this was the one I was it, and I think we all did.
26:20
SPEAKER_00: I think we were expecting like this is gonna be her forever love.
26:25
SPEAKER_00: And I mean, even when they were at like the basket, like how she said, being around your whole family, like being at the basketball game with his fucking mom and shit, like he's she sat course dambling with his mom every game.
26:40
SPEAKER_00: Yes, and so I'm just like, god damn, like, ew.
26:46
SPEAKER_00: And then to find out that you're like cheating on her is just so it's just unfortunate and it's fucked up.
26:53
SPEAKER_00: And I really pray that she, you know, takes the time after this to just focus on herself, build up, you know, her mental health, and focus, just focus wholeheartedly on what she needs.
27:09
SPEAKER_00: And I hope that she continues to realize that she's a bad bitch.
27:12
SPEAKER_00: And I'm happy, I'm so happy that she's choosing her and being like, I don't deserve this, I deserve more than this, um, and stepping away and walking away.
27:24
SPEAKER_00: So shout out to Meg, man.
27:27
SPEAKER_00: Um, you a bad bitch, you a ball bitch.
27:29
SPEAKER_02: She did it with partisan.
27:31
SPEAKER_02: Yes, she did it with partisan and that basketball player from the Carolinas that she was dating.
27:36
SPEAKER_02: Girl, fuck these niggas.
27:38
SPEAKER_02: First of all, that's that's one thing I love about Meg.
27:43
SPEAKER_02: And this is kind of why I fell out with Lotto a little bit.
27:48
SPEAKER_02: She's not a bird.
27:50
SPEAKER_02: You're not finna what the fuck?
27:53
SPEAKER_02: Hold on.
27:53
SPEAKER_02: I told y'all I got really bad, like, ladybugs and shit in here where I where my little office is.
27:59
SPEAKER_02: Anyway, um she's not a bird, you're not finna play with her.
28:04
SPEAKER_02: The first time they disrespect you cheating on me, nigga, you gots to go.
28:07
SPEAKER_02: That's right.
28:08
SPEAKER_02: Um But I just want to paint the picture for y'all.
28:11
SPEAKER_02: This is a woman who don't have any immediate family.
28:14
SPEAKER_02: Dad's dead, mom's dead, grandma's dead.
28:18
SPEAKER_02: She's been through so much public ridicule.
28:21
SPEAKER_02: It's it's insane to me.
28:25
SPEAKER_02: Like, the shit with Tori, losing all her friends, like Kelsey, Queenie, Darren, um the disrespect that she got from Gail King, first of all, excuse me.
28:43
SPEAKER_02: First of all, um so what she lied to Gail King.
28:48
SPEAKER_02: I would lie about sleeping with that imp too.
28:50
SPEAKER_02: And that honestly was none of her business.
28:52
SPEAKER_02: I never understood why she asked, Did you sleep with Tori?
28:57
SPEAKER_02: Okay, Wig, please.
29:00
SPEAKER_02: Um I wouldn't who the fuck wants to claim Tori.
29:04
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
29:05
SPEAKER_02: Um, the disrespect she got from the baby, having a fucking dead horse in his music.
29:11
SPEAKER_02: No, was that?
29:12
SPEAKER_02: No, he had to make it look alike in his video.
29:14
SPEAKER_02: Tori had it, he was chopping up a dead horse is his video.
29:18
SPEAKER_02: Um, then she beefing with low the gonoria red, which is fucking crazy.
29:25
SPEAKER_02: She thought Glorilla, you had to fucking, and bitch, I'm really finna stop fucking with you.
29:30
SPEAKER_02: You already showed your shady side, but you had a nerve to post laughing emojis like your man didn't say he can't fucking stand your ass.
29:37
SPEAKER_02: You got a basketball player too.
29:38
SPEAKER_02: You laughing today, bitch.
29:39
SPEAKER_02: You gonna cry.
29:40
SPEAKER_02: You wanna laugh, bitch.
29:41
SPEAKER_02: I can giggle.
29:42
SPEAKER_02: Glorilla, them same, that same bitch, them same smile emojis you posting on, you you you gonna be in the same predicament, bitch.
29:51
SPEAKER_02: Your man already said he don't like your ass.
29:53
SPEAKER_02: He finds you annoying after being around you for so long.
29:56
SPEAKER_02: And coming from the bitch, you didn't change your whole face up and nobody still buying your new records, bitch.
30:03
SPEAKER_02: So please spare me.
30:05
SPEAKER_02: Um, and just the massage and noir that she faces from black men.
30:11
SPEAKER_02: Like, I remember when I watched her, I cried.
30:13
SPEAKER_02: I watched her documentary on Amazon.
30:15
SPEAKER_02: I've always been a Meg fan.
30:17
SPEAKER_02: I just feel like Aquarius, and then my, you know, my room, my old roommate was an Aquarius.
30:22
SPEAKER_02: I've always feel like McQuarius women are misunderstood, but like she got so much unnecessary hate.
30:27
SPEAKER_02: Niggas talking about free Tory, fuck her.
30:29
SPEAKER_02: She needs just the shit that she sees online is just redulous.
30:36
SPEAKER_02: So as her man, as her man, outside of the relationship with you, I think how I read the situation is this girl was more happy to have a family and he knew your soft spot, so he fucking played on you.
30:52
SPEAKER_02: But then, but then, because again, you beige bitch, like you look like a handsome fucking burrito.
30:58
SPEAKER_02: How dare you?
30:59
SPEAKER_02: You've had some really cute girlfriends, and I who and and honestly, and I'm gonna just say this: most black women, Clay Thompson, when it comes to athletes, you will not hear Clay Thompson's name mentioned a fine ass athletes, not until he started fucking with Meg, for real.
31:13
SPEAKER_02: Meg made you look good.
31:15
SPEAKER_02: You on the boat now that you fucking named after her, trying to act like you're not her, then you done got a hundred times uglier overnight, motherfucker.
31:24
SPEAKER_02: Nobody was really checking for you.
31:26
SPEAKER_02: You weren't cute until you got with Meg.
31:28
SPEAKER_02: And to find out you damn near cheated on every single woman that you've been with.
31:32
SPEAKER_02: And I didn't know he dated Coco Jones in the past.
31:35
SPEAKER_02: Didn't know that.
31:37
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, he cheated on her too.
31:39
SPEAKER_02: So, like every woman that you've been with, you cheat, what are you trying to compensate for?
31:43
SPEAKER_02: Because again, you know, we I'm just frustrated for her.
31:49
SPEAKER_02: And it's all y'all are parasocial, or y'all idolize a celebrity relationship.
31:53
SPEAKER_02: It's not that we're idolizing.
31:54
SPEAKER_02: I just, and again, this girl has nobody.
31:57
SPEAKER_02: I truly feel like, okay, she found her person, her family.
32:00
SPEAKER_02: She's sitting there cooking for your daddy.
32:01
SPEAKER_02: He loves her talking about Megan's a good cook.
32:04
SPEAKER_02: You, you ought to be ashamed of yourself.
32:08
SPEAKER_02: And it's, and, and it's just like you brought a house with this woman, and now you're talking about you don't think you can do monogamy.
32:16
SPEAKER_02: Bitch, you should have said that when you was fucking dating me.
32:19
SPEAKER_02: Get men, that's why I get so upset and triggered, because men will take your option away from you.
32:25
SPEAKER_02: Just like I, and and again, I talk about my situation all the time.
32:29
SPEAKER_02: I didn't, the nigga that I've slept with that I first lost my religion to was fucking married, and I had not the slightest clue.
32:36
SPEAKER_02: His biggest thing was, oh, we're going through with it.
32:38
SPEAKER_02: I didn't lie, I just didn't tell you the truth.
32:40
SPEAKER_02: Nigga, the opposite of the truth is a lie.
32:42
SPEAKER_02: You know, if you would have told me you was married, I would not fuck you in the first place.
32:47
SPEAKER_02: Wouldn't have done it.
32:48
SPEAKER_02: I'm a lot of things, but a home record, even if your home is already there, that's not my fucking business.
32:54
SPEAKER_02: Certain shit I won't do just so I won't call back energy out on me.
32:58
SPEAKER_02: And I truly, truly, truly feel that that's why men do the shit they do.
33:03
SPEAKER_03: They take your option away from you.
33:06
SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm I it's just this whole situation, because you really could have left my good sis alone.
33:13
SPEAKER_02: I do not play by Megan.
33:14
SPEAKER_02: And honestly, bitch, I pray your ACLs get fucking barbecued.
33:19
SPEAKER_02: He don't fuck around and be like Stefan is, but you will never win another game again, ho.
33:24
SPEAKER_02: Everybody that's ever fucked Meg over, everybody either fall off, something that happens to them, or somebody happens to the people around them.
33:32
SPEAKER_02: Megan's ancestors and her parents do not play about her.
33:38
SPEAKER_02: You damn handsome Dorita looking ass half breed.
33:41
SPEAKER_02: Get the fuck out of here.
33:43
SPEAKER_02: That was just and then I think the thing that's really pissing me off because my part is saying, bring your punk ass.
33:50
SPEAKER_02: Oh, look here, baby T.
33:52
SPEAKER_02: Well, you just got new teeth, so you sit here smiling.
33:55
SPEAKER_02: Nigga, talking about he's singing he can't love you like I love you, the jagged ass all, you corny ass, cornball ass nigga.
34:02
SPEAKER_02: You shut the fuck up.
34:04
SPEAKER_02: Bitch, you've been out of the picture for at least two years.
34:06
SPEAKER_02: You was a bitch that cheated on Megan in her own fucking house, and you wrote a diss track about her.
34:13
SPEAKER_02: You just mad she broke up with you, but she's not going back to you either.
34:16
SPEAKER_02: I pray to God she don't.
34:19
SPEAKER_02: Like, shut the fuck up, and you insert yourself where you've been fell off.
34:22
SPEAKER_02: Like, nobody's checking for you, Party.
34:24
SPEAKER_02: Please.
34:27
SPEAKER_02: Like that shit pissed me off so fucking bad.
34:31
SPEAKER_02: Like, but I just I I truly feel like listen.
34:38
SPEAKER_02: Because Megan has been throwing hints, and then it's just like niggas, Megan made a song about you.
34:43
SPEAKER_02: She don't make a song about the nigga she been with.
34:45
SPEAKER_02: So like I truly feel like she has she's been hinting at Act Three Outside of Broadway, her new Walmart swimsuit line that she dropped for Male Women and Dogs, her Popeye's, you know, her being a um Popeye's franchise owner, her doing the W.
35:04
SPEAKER_02: She's had so many amazing business deals.
35:07
SPEAKER_02: She still's gonna make her money, do her motherfucking business.
35:10
SPEAKER_02: But I feel like now, I wouldn't even, I could see Megan scrapping what she has and coming out with a banger, bitch.
35:18
SPEAKER_01: Oh yeah.
35:19
SPEAKER_02: But I want her to take all the time she I honestly wouldn't be outside of what she does for like her business, I wouldn't be surprised if she pop out, if she doesn't pop out again until next year.
35:32
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
35:33
unknown: Yeah.
35:34
SPEAKER_00: I want her to take her time.
35:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, we're not gonna be surprised for that shit either.
35:40
SPEAKER_00: I want her to take, I want her to take her time and really focus on her.
35:43
SPEAKER_00: Cause this, that, that's that was a lie.
35:46
SPEAKER_00: Because like this was really, like I said, I think everybody thought that this was really the one.
35:51
SPEAKER_00: So I really want her to take take her, take some time for herself.
35:55
SPEAKER_00: It was, ugh.
35:57
SPEAKER_00: It's terrible.
36:00
SPEAKER_02: But then it's just like, I don't know, man.
36:04
SPEAKER_02: I and and I talked to my friend about this yesterday.
36:07
SPEAKER_02: I've talked to a lot of my, damn near all of my friends, especially my black female friends, because I this is truly a black woman issue.
36:15
SPEAKER_02: Dating a man, dating a black man in this day and age is a fucking humiliation ritual.
36:23
SPEAKER_02: Like, I would never post a nigga that I was with.
36:27
SPEAKER_02: Never.
36:28
SPEAKER_02: Bitch you?
36:29
SPEAKER_02: Soon as you post a nigga, like for me, I have this thing.
36:32
SPEAKER_02: I'm terrified to save numbers in my phone.
36:35
SPEAKER_02: It's either one or two reasons why I don't save people's numbers in my phone, either I don't give a fuck about you and you annoy me.
36:39
SPEAKER_02: So I don't save your number.
36:41
SPEAKER_02: I just know the number because I'm all this nigga again.
36:44
SPEAKER_02: Or I had this thing wherever I was dating to talk to a different dude, soon as I say the nigga number, he acts the fuck up and not like that day.
36:54
SPEAKER_02: So you be terrified to even say nigga number your phone.
36:57
SPEAKER_02: I honestly, I'm not posting a man to I pop out.
37:01
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm gonna be a year married bitch before I post any fucking body because you niggas just embarrass women so much.
37:08
SPEAKER_02: Like I just, but then again, it's just like, you know, it sucks having to think that way.
37:14
SPEAKER_02: And I just hate that I feel like she's being ridiculed and embarrassed, like, not embarrassed, that's not the right word, because she didn't do nothing wrong.
37:21
SPEAKER_02: It was his ass.
37:22
SPEAKER_02: But I just hate that she's going through the backlash over some shit this beige bitch did.
37:27
SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah.
37:30
SPEAKER_02: So I don't, I I pray for my girl.
37:34
SPEAKER_02: Um, Megan, it seems, I just her mental health is what's important to me because she's been through so much.
37:42
SPEAKER_02: Imagine a nigga you sleeping with your your biggest eye, which it just feels like the black in the black community, it just it's it's a lot of that.
37:50
SPEAKER_02: Like I like I told my mama, I said, don't be surprised if I pop out with a woman.
37:55
SPEAKER_02: Like I, it's it's just too hard and it's too much in these dispatch of niggas fucking so it's just so hard for a nigga to be faithful to just be a man.
38:05
SPEAKER_02: Even with that nigga that went viral talking about oh, triple A's coming.
38:10
SPEAKER_02: Uh I don't know how I'm not changing the tire.
38:12
SPEAKER_02: I'm not dominate to it.
38:13
SPEAKER_02: Bitch, what do you?
38:13
SPEAKER_02: Y'all want bitches to be traditional and cook, but you don't know how to change the tire.
38:17
SPEAKER_02: I know how to do that.
38:18
SPEAKER_02: Talking about we waiting for triple A.
38:20
SPEAKER_02: You punk ass bitch.
38:22
SPEAKER_02: You're a bitch.
38:24
SPEAKER_02: A lot of these niggas are bitches out here.
38:26
SPEAKER_02: Like this shit just hearing me so bad.
38:28
SPEAKER_02: Oh, my baby Megan.
38:29
SPEAKER_02: Uh I'ma just hush.
38:31
SPEAKER_02: But I love you, sister.
38:35
SPEAKER_02: One day I'm gonna meet you and hug you.
38:38
SPEAKER_02: And I would love to interview you one day, whether it's here on the Black Paradigm.
38:41
SPEAKER_02: I fucking love you so much.
38:42
SPEAKER_02: I've loved you since you came out.
38:44
SPEAKER_02: And this too shall pass, sister.
38:46
SPEAKER_02: If you try this, that beige bitch is gonna be over there.
38:51
SPEAKER_02: He's trying to act like he's fine now.
38:53
SPEAKER_02: While you're sitting there looking like a whole fucking um homeless potato, but he fumbled his greatest thing.
39:01
SPEAKER_02: So I just I love you.
39:05
SPEAKER_02: And I just pray to God you do have your some strong friends.
39:09
SPEAKER_02: And I and because at times like this, this is when mothers are so important.
39:16
SPEAKER_02: I hope you have some strong older women figures in your life that can take you under their wing, under their wing, excuse me.
39:26
SPEAKER_02: Clay Thompson, in the words of Cardi B, with Stephon Loss I game, bitch, good luck.
39:34
SPEAKER_01: You're done.
39:35
SPEAKER_01: You're crisp, you're a toast.
39:39
SPEAKER_01: Over with.
39:53
SPEAKER_02: And I really feel like maybe that's why God has to bless me with the man because I'm just petty like that.
40:00
SPEAKER_02: Like, I just really I'm not.
40:02
SPEAKER_02: I just don't act on it, but I be having some evil thoughts.
40:07
SPEAKER_02: Some evil thoughts.
40:09
SPEAKER_02: Like, bitch, I was your girlfriend, now I'm your stepmama ho.
40:12
SPEAKER_02: Uh you know what I'm saying?
40:15
SPEAKER_01: The bad part.
40:22
SPEAKER_01: So alright.
40:24
SPEAKER_02: This now we're switching into a serious topic, and we will be discussing death and domestic violence.
40:29
SPEAKER_02: So we're just gonna give you guys a trigger warning.
40:33
SPEAKER_02: If this is triggering for you, or if this is something that you don't want to listen to, please, please, please we'll give you some time to click off because we just want to address it.
40:42
SPEAKER_02: Give you five more seconds.
40:47
SPEAKER_02: Alrighty.
40:48
SPEAKER_02: Um, Diamond.
40:50
SPEAKER_02: I know you heard TJ and I's segment that we did on the Black Femicile Rate with the loss of Mr.
40:58
SPEAKER_02: Ashley Janae, uh Serena Fairfax.
41:03
SPEAKER_02: Um, it was so many women.
41:06
SPEAKER_02: Uh, we talked about uh Ashanti Allen, Serena Fairfax, Victoria Allen, uh Raven Edwards.
41:14
SPEAKER_02: We talked about the Morioral, well, her name her name was Nancy Matier Bowen.
41:22
SPEAKER_02: She was 38.
41:23
SPEAKER_02: She was uh the vice mayor, vice morial candidate.
41:26
SPEAKER_02: She was the first black and Haitian American female commission in her city's history, and she was about to announce her run for Congress.
41:34
SPEAKER_02: She got murdered by her husband.
41:36
SPEAKER_02: So all of these women have got murdered by husbands, boyfriends, partners, or ex-partners in very, very vicious ways.
41:44
SPEAKER_02: And I know, like, I don't think I can relive that talk about it because I cried on air last week.
41:50
SPEAKER_02: But I just obviously with us being a show, talking to my sisters and saying I didn't want to go a week without recognizing, remembering these women in spreading awareness.
41:59
SPEAKER_02: So if there's anything, I wanted to give you the floor to lead the segment to talk about anything you wanted to address when it came to Black Femicine.
42:07
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I first want to, you know, say shout out to you and TJ, um, you know, with the Black Paradigm.
42:14
SPEAKER_00: I listened to the episode.
42:16
SPEAKER_00: Um, it was a very heartfelt.
42:19
SPEAKER_00: Um, it was also extremely, extremely important for women of color to hear you all's message.
42:28
SPEAKER_00: Women of color as well as men of color as well, to hear you all message, um, just bringing awareness to both mental health and domestic violence, all of those things.
42:40
SPEAKER_00: So just shout out to you all.
42:42
SPEAKER_00: Um, it's a really great episode.
42:44
SPEAKER_00: If you all have not heard that episode, please check out um the episode of um The Black Paradigm.
42:53
SPEAKER_00: Um, I have reposted it on our page um the day that I was listening to it.
42:58
SPEAKER_00: But yeah, so it was just amazing.
43:01
SPEAKER_00: Um, I do want to say that I think for me, being of course a mom and also a wife, I cannot, I cannot imagine, you know, experiencing this or that that is something so far away from my everyday reality that something like that would happen in my home.
43:31
SPEAKER_00: Um I do know though, and me and K-Ron, I think the the best, the best thing, one of the greatest things that we have in our relationship is the communication, the openness of our communication, because we are friends first, best friends first.
43:50
SPEAKER_00: And so with all of these things happening in the media, you know, I went to him, it was like, you know, I know with you know, your business because he's a business owner now, um, a black business owner.
44:05
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, you know, days are hard.
44:08
SPEAKER_00: You're trying to do whatever you can to make sure that, you know, we come out on top, trying to make ends meet, and just know that when you do fall short or you feel that you are falling short, know that we are not like blaming you, or like we know that you're doing your best and you're giving your all.
44:30
SPEAKER_00: Um, because I do see him come in, you know, coming in home in the house and he's tired, he's worn out, and he still um helps me with the kids.
44:40
SPEAKER_00: And it's just a lot.
44:42
SPEAKER_00: It's a lot to deal with.
44:44
SPEAKER_00: Um he also is in a position right now, you know, our home life.
44:48
SPEAKER_00: He lives home at home.
44:51
SPEAKER_00: He has his mother and his wife.
44:53
SPEAKER_00: So that's two women that he, you know, loves with all his heart, and he doesn't want to let us down, nor does he want to let his kids down.
45:01
SPEAKER_00: And that's a lot to wear on your shoulders as a black man.
45:07
SPEAKER_00: And so just continuing to tell him that, you know, he does not have to wear that all on his shoulders.
45:15
SPEAKER_00: He can put some of that on me.
45:18
SPEAKER_00: Um, we're partners, I'm here for you.
45:22
SPEAKER_00: And just pouring into him and checking in on him.
45:25
SPEAKER_00: Like I'm always texting him throughout the day.
45:27
SPEAKER_00: How's work going?
45:28
SPEAKER_00: Are you okay?
45:30
SPEAKER_00: I know you left really early this morning.
45:32
SPEAKER_00: Have you eaten?
45:34
SPEAKER_00: And so things like that.
45:36
SPEAKER_00: I just I don't know, you know, I don't know these people's backstories, or was there some type of mental health or, you know, something that was going on?
45:47
SPEAKER_00: But I know for me, when I read those stories and I'm hearing about these women whose lives have been taken, um, I'm just really cognizant of everybody.
46:01
SPEAKER_00: Like we all have bad days, you know, and we all are going through something.
46:07
SPEAKER_00: We all are human.
46:09
SPEAKER_00: And I'm just trying to make sure that I continue to have those conversations with my spouse, with my husband.
46:15
SPEAKER_00: Um, and I just, it's just, it's just mind-blowing to me the amount of black women who have been taken away in just this start of the year alone by senseless violence, lives cut short.
46:35
SPEAKER_00: Um, these are women who were young, who had their whole lives ahead of them, hardworking women, mothers, sisters, daughters.
46:45
SPEAKER_00: Um, and I just cannot, I can't imagine the pain that their families are going through.
46:52
SPEAKER_00: Um, and it's just so, it's just ridiculous.
46:55
SPEAKER_00: It's ridiculous.
46:56
SPEAKER_00: I mean, even to the situation that just happened, um, what was that last week where the guy killed the kids at the what was it like a little smart help?
47:08
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, crazy bathroom.
47:10
SPEAKER_02: Like, what is he shot the two women?
47:15
SPEAKER_02: So his, I think his baby mother and his wife, so maybe ex-wife.
47:21
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
47:22
SPEAKER_00: You know, and then those women tell him.
47:25
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
47:26
SPEAKER_00: And then those women have to get up in the hospital and hear that their kids, or her she has to hear that her kids are not alive.
47:34
SPEAKER_00: Like, that shit is fucking crazy.
47:36
SPEAKER_00: It's crazy.
47:38
SPEAKER_00: Um, and yeah, I just for women out there who are, you know, dealing with any signs or, you know, sign like any emotional abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, sexual abuse, you know, I pray that you find strength and you find someone, someone that you can reach out to and talk to and get out.
48:03
SPEAKER_00: Get out.
48:05
SPEAKER_00: Um, I remember being in a really traumatic relationship.
48:11
SPEAKER_00: The relationship I was in before I was, I got with K Ron.
48:15
SPEAKER_00: Um, it was my junior year of high school, and my ex, he was crazy.
48:20
SPEAKER_00: Um, and I remember one time we were in an argument and we were in the car, and he was like, I'll drive us, you know, I'll drive us off this bridge or whatever.
48:30
SPEAKER_00: I'll kill both of us.
48:32
SPEAKER_00: Um, I remember him coming up to pick me up from school and him smashing my cell phone in front of the school, you know, my classmates outside.
48:45
SPEAKER_00: Um, him showing up and sitting on my grandmother's porch waiting for me to get home.
48:50
SPEAKER_00: Like he would call me 200 times back to bat.
48:54
SPEAKER_00: Just crazy shit, you know?
48:57
SPEAKER_00: Um, and I was only 16, 16, turning 17 at the time.
49:02
SPEAKER_00: Um and he was about 18, um, 18 or 19.
49:06
SPEAKER_00: Just fucking crazy.
49:09
SPEAKER_00: And um, and so yeah, like even though he wasn't like physically abusive, the mental and the emotional stress of that shit um was so, it was just a lot.
49:24
SPEAKER_00: It was so much for me.
49:26
SPEAKER_00: And so yeah, I'm just praying that if there are signs, please talk to somebody and please, please get out.
49:34
SPEAKER_00: Get out, get out, get out.
49:36
SPEAKER_00: But yeah, and um rest in peace, man, to all of our beautiful black queens that, like I said, have been gone too been taken too soon by just senseless acts of fucking violence.
49:49
SPEAKER_00: It's ridiculous.
49:53
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
49:54
SPEAKER_02: Um, like I said, I don't want to put myself in the headspace I was in last week when we filmed.
50:01
SPEAKER_02: So I know if if you're listening, uh-oh, you didn't have much to say on that, Ashley's, because I spent, we spent about an hour talking about this last week.
50:09
SPEAKER_02: So if you want to listen to the latest episode of Black Paradigm to hear more of my thoughts, but yeah, I just wanted Diamond to have a chance to have it for.
50:18
SPEAKER_02: But yeah, I'm I'm just at a point now where, and this is an and I actually had got an email, uh, not an email, a DM when I made this topic on my personal page.
50:31
SPEAKER_02: If you going through whatever issue, because I do feel like a lot of times, especially with men, they weaponize mental health.
50:39
SPEAKER_02: A lot of times these niggas, they know they ain't got shit us going for them, but the women ain't with.
50:45
SPEAKER_02: If you decide you want to kill yourself, kill yourself.
50:50
SPEAKER_02: Why are we killing the women that you're with?
50:52
SPEAKER_02: Why are we killing your fucking children?
50:56
SPEAKER_02: At this point, it's not mental health.
50:57
SPEAKER_02: You niggas are straight demons.
51:00
SPEAKER_02: You niggas are crazy.
51:01
SPEAKER_02: And I know I talk, a lot of the shit I say sometimes is unorthodox, but I just really see it from my point of view and how I perceive things.
51:10
SPEAKER_02: If I look at a nigga and he has a certain look in his eye, certain things that he said, I'm like, oh no, I'm not even gonna play with you like that.
51:17
SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm not even finna go that way with you.
51:19
SPEAKER_02: Because if I tell you no, or if I wanna leave you, or if I decide the situation's not right for me, I'm not dealing with that shit.
51:26
SPEAKER_02: Because what I'm gonna do is put a bullet in your head.
51:29
SPEAKER_02: What I'm gonna do is have your family wearing black.
51:32
SPEAKER_02: I wanna, I wanna see you on a t-shirt.
51:35
SPEAKER_02: Because no, it's either gonna be me or you.
51:37
SPEAKER_02: And I hate, now we've gotten like that as women, but you niggas are pushing us there because again, there's no other demographic of women dying at the rate.
51:45
SPEAKER_02: How are you telling me that black people are 14% of the population?
51:50
SPEAKER_02: But black women, we get killed the most.
51:54
SPEAKER_02: And again, you are you typically when it comes to domestic violence, when it comes to partnered violence, you get killed a lot.
52:02
SPEAKER_02: Well, in general, black women, the leading cause of our death in the United States of America is domestic partner violence.
52:08
SPEAKER_02: You get killed mostly by somebody you fucking know.
52:12
SPEAKER_02: So just be careful.
52:15
SPEAKER_02: I'm more likely to, in my relationship, one down to three, I could be dead too.
52:24
SPEAKER_02: So really think about who you with.
52:26
SPEAKER_02: As a woman, your life depends on it, your womb depends on it, your energy depends on it, and stop giving every nigga that you with kids.
52:34
SPEAKER_02: Because sometimes that makes it hard for you to leave.
52:37
SPEAKER_02: So I wanted diamond, and I was another reason why I wanted Diamond to approach it first, because she approached it from a logic standpoint, from a marriage standpoint.
52:45
SPEAKER_02: I'm the opposite of that.
52:46
SPEAKER_02: Fuck all that shit.
52:48
SPEAKER_02: Cause if we keep if we keep going down this trajectory, then women just need to be by themselves.
52:56
SPEAKER_02: Because why, you know how many times I've been rejected?
52:58
SPEAKER_02: I've never thought to put a bullet in a nigga's head.
53:00
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
53:01
SPEAKER_02: I've never thought to put my hands on the as mad as that fool made me, never once thought I'll put my hands on.
53:10
SPEAKER_02: Well, I thought about, but I never did.
53:11
SPEAKER_02: Because I have emotional intelligence and I don't want to go to jail.
53:14
SPEAKER_02: He's not worth it.
53:17
SPEAKER_02: He's not.
53:19
SPEAKER_02: And I want to be here one more day.
53:22
SPEAKER_02: And if you are oh if you are a woman, especially when you're dealing with men, but that goes for women too, because sometimes, you know, it happens in lesbian relationships.
53:32
SPEAKER_02: If you know you just want to play with people, play with people.
53:35
SPEAKER_02: But be honest about it, be open, be community, be community, communicative, I think that's the word.
53:42
SPEAKER_02: Um, just you can't afford to play people's feelings no more.
53:46
SPEAKER_02: If you are one of people, like, hey, I won I don't want to be monogamous, let that nigga know ahead of time.
53:51
SPEAKER_02: Because some people can't take heartbreak.
53:52
SPEAKER_02: Some people can't.
53:54
SPEAKER_02: And you see how black men act, like, oh, that bitch was meeting me in third grade and I ain't brought a bitch flowers since.
54:01
SPEAKER_02: If that was the case, then you wouldn't have a community.
54:06
SPEAKER_02: So I encourage black men to go to therapy, talk to that lady on that couch.
54:10
SPEAKER_02: But now it's so bad dealing with black men in there.
54:15
SPEAKER_02: You have a lot of therapists that won't take black male clients.
54:21
SPEAKER_02: You niggas need help.
54:24
SPEAKER_02: You need a seance, you need prayers, move something.
54:28
SPEAKER_02: You niggas need emotional intelligence and accountability.
54:32
SPEAKER_02: And I I I get so upset on these apps.
54:37
SPEAKER_02: It's 101 things a black woman do wrong, what we do, what we do for the community, but nigga, without us, you wouldn't have one.
54:51
SPEAKER_02: So I'm just I'm gonna leave with saying, rest in peace to these women.
54:58
SPEAKER_02: Um may your legacies live on.
55:02
SPEAKER_02: Um and to the niggas that killed them, rest in peace and shit.
55:08
SPEAKER_02: Uh yeah, so we're gonna go back to a lighthearted topic.
55:12
SPEAKER_02: So if you took a break from my show, we welcome you back in.
55:15
SPEAKER_02: Diamond has a really loaded, really reality talk corner here.
55:21
SPEAKER_02: So I'm gonna just shut up and just chime in.
55:24
SPEAKER_02: But honey, let's start out with the meat.
55:28
SPEAKER_02: That man, that nigga looks like a meat Lemuel Pump Lemuel Plummer and fucking Jocelyn.
55:33
SPEAKER_02: He literally looks like the fish off of Spongebob that's like, oh brother, this guy stinks.
55:38
SPEAKER_02: So let's get into it.
55:45
SPEAKER_02: But yeah, go ahead.
55:47
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna let you get into it.
55:50
SPEAKER_00: Who child?
55:52
SPEAKER_00: Okay, Lemmy and Jocelyn.
55:55
SPEAKER_00: Um, the Zeus Network.
55:57
SPEAKER_00: So there's been some talks before this situation actually happened.
56:02
SPEAKER_00: There's been a couple of folks who have expressed that there needs to be a tell-all about Zeus Network.
56:12
SPEAKER_00: Um, basically, like a surviving Zeus Network.
56:16
SPEAKER_00: Um, and so I am an avid watcher of Zeus Network.
56:21
SPEAKER_00: I love to watch me some crazy ass television.
56:27
SPEAKER_00: Yes, that is one of my toxic traits.
56:30
SPEAKER_00: It is how I like to unwind coming home from work sometimes after being, you know, all wound up and having to be serious at work.
56:41
SPEAKER_00: I like to come home and watch crazy ass television.
56:45
SPEAKER_00: So, anyways, um this week, this past week, a few days ago, um, Jocelyn took to social media and she is coming forward about a situation that has um turned really nasty and really ugly between her and the CEO of Zeus Network, Lemuel Plummer.
57:13
SPEAKER_00: So recently Jocelyn, Jocelyn stepped away from Zeus and she created her own platform, her own network, her own app.
57:24
SPEAKER_00: And it is titled, let me get the title for you all, because I know there is after this situation, um, I know a lot of people in the comments on TikTok and Instagram are like, you know, we're not fucking with uh Zeus anymore, and we're all going to head on over to Jocelyn's new app.
57:46
SPEAKER_00: So the title of the app is let me see.
57:54
SPEAKER_00: It is called W A Y H T V.
58:00
SPEAKER_00: And I believe that stands for something else.
58:02
SPEAKER_00: I'm trying to get Why Are You Here TV?
58:05
SPEAKER_00: So that's what it's called.
58:06
SPEAKER_00: So Jocelyn's new app, streaming app, is called Why Are You Here TV.
58:12
SPEAKER_00: Um, she has several shows on there already.
58:16
SPEAKER_00: So Ballistic has a show where he is doing some um cooking.
58:22
SPEAKER_00: He's got like a cooking show, and then Jocelyn has a show with her and some women um who are kind of like uh women, like boss bosses type of thing, um, out in Miami.
58:38
SPEAKER_00: So the situation that has kind of unfolded between her and Lemuel Plumber is since she has stepped away from Zeus and created her own platform, her own streaming app, Lemmy feels some type of way.
58:58
SPEAKER_00: And he is taking it as like this is going to be an app that he is going to have to compete with.
59:07
SPEAKER_00: He is saying that he has some leg to stand on um and can now not pay her her per how does it call perpetuity, perpetu perpetuity money for her show.
59:25
SPEAKER_00: Yes, yep.
59:26
SPEAKER_00: So her royalties from Jocelyn's cabaret, he can stop paying her, and he can really sue her um because she has stepped away and created her own platform.
59:38
SPEAKER_00: Now, I'm not a lawyer, I don't know the contracts.
59:42
SPEAKER_00: I do have a feeling, like, of course, all this shit is gonna come out soon if it hasn't already.
59:47
SPEAKER_00: Um, but Jocelyn took to TikTok and Instagram, took to social media, and she has exposed some things um allegedly that Lemuel Plummer has done in the past.
1:00:04
SPEAKER_00: Um, she went on to say that how dare you basically cut off my money, say you're going to, you know, take me to court and all of these things when I basically like helped you start Zeus Network, basically put y'all on the map with my show.
1:00:22
SPEAKER_00: Because we all know if it was not for Jocelyn's cabaret and baddies, there would be no Zeus Network.
1:00:27
SPEAKER_00: Like, come on, that's where they get most, like majority of their streams.
1:00:31
SPEAKER_00: Like, let's be all the way 100.
1:00:34
SPEAKER_00: Zeus Network created by a black man or whatever the hell Lemmy is, because I just heard his family is from overseas, some fucking weird, but that's neither here nor there.
1:00:43
SPEAKER_00: Um, a black man created they're in Israel of all places.
1:00:49
SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
1:00:50
SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
1:00:51
SPEAKER_02: And I'm gonna just be sorry on that.
1:00:54
SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
1:00:55
SPEAKER_00: So a man of color created the network, but he's built it on the backs of black and brown women.
1:01:05
SPEAKER_00: Okay, so let's not forget that.
1:01:08
SPEAKER_00: And Jocelyn, that's what she's saying.
1:01:10
SPEAKER_00: How fucking dare you now that I want to go off and create something that has my name on it that I'm proud of.
1:01:18
SPEAKER_00: You know, I've always rooted for you.
1:01:20
SPEAKER_00: You basically had me in your pocket for seven fucking years, and I'm ready to do my own thing.
1:01:26
SPEAKER_00: But now you are going to bully me.
1:01:29
SPEAKER_00: Allegedly, he's threatening her.
1:01:32
SPEAKER_00: Um, you know, basically saying that she needs to pull her platform down, allegedly, or he will do things to her, allegedly.
1:01:43
SPEAKER_00: Um, she also mentioned that she's been receiving like phone calls from different people, allegedly making threats to her.
1:01:53
SPEAKER_00: And remind you, Jocelyn is also pregnant.
1:01:57
SPEAKER_00: Um, and she said that a few times um while she was on live as well.
1:02:03
SPEAKER_00: Um, we all know that her and ballistic have been trying for some net from for some time now to have a baby, and she's finally pregnant, she's 39 years old, and all of this shit is happening while she's pregnant, and she's in fear of her life and her unborn baby.
1:02:20
SPEAKER_00: Here's the deal.
1:02:23
SPEAKER_00: Lemuel Plummer, I always kind of felt a little iffy about your ass um from the beginning of Zeus, and I always thought you were a little fucking weird and something just was not quite right.
1:02:37
SPEAKER_00: You know, I just always like would look at you and be like, you're a sneaky ass motherfucker, and you make my skin crawl.
1:02:47
SPEAKER_00: And I'm gonna tell you something else.
1:02:49
SPEAKER_00: Him coming to the forefront now and trying to now be a fucking rapper, and him and Scotty having this fucking show rapper.
1:03:00
SPEAKER_00: Yes, yes, I know you fucking lying, singer and rapper.
1:03:05
SPEAKER_00: He has several songs out.
1:03:10
SPEAKER_02: Oh, let me put this on mute.
1:03:12
SPEAKER_02: I gotta hear something.
1:03:13
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
1:03:14
SPEAKER_00: So he has the one song where he's singing about the baby, and then he's featured on two or three songs with Natalie rapping.
1:03:26
SPEAKER_00: And so now I just think it's really interesting that you wanna like break out and like be, now you want to be the face of Zeus.
1:03:34
SPEAKER_00: When at first you were very much playing the background.
1:03:38
SPEAKER_00: So it's giving like uh pick me energy or I'm the baddest bitch at Zeus, like it's just fucking weird, like you're weird, and then the whole situation with Janisha and Scotty, that shit's crazy to me.
1:03:55
SPEAKER_02: The way you talk to Scotty on this show, and Scotty thought you were different though, because you should have taken notes of how he did Janisha.
1:04:06
SPEAKER_02: What made you any fucking different?
1:04:08
SPEAKER_02: I kind of I'm I kinda don't feel bad for Scotty because it's just like at one point Janisha was hosting a she was part you're behost.
1:04:19
SPEAKER_02: I'm just like, girl.
1:04:21
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:04:22
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:04:24
SPEAKER_02: Um I didn't know he was being on Janisha either.
1:04:26
SPEAKER_02: And it's uh I didn't know he was being on Janisha.
1:04:28
SPEAKER_00: She was too cute for him anyway.
1:04:30
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that shit's crazy.
1:04:31
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, finding that out allegedly that he was putting hands on Janisha and has also put hands on Scotty.
1:04:38
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, it be these little men.
1:04:41
SPEAKER_02: The way this nigga look 100 pounds fucking win, the way I would have pushed him up, I would have turned that little nigga every which way but loose.
1:04:47
SPEAKER_00: That's what I'm saying.
1:04:48
SPEAKER_00: It be these little men, it be these little men with these little men comp complexes that want to put their hands on women.
1:04:55
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, what women are these?
1:04:58
SPEAKER_00: Because yes, I would beat the brakes off of your ass.
1:05:03
SPEAKER_00: Beat the shit out of you, sir, ma'am, because you act like what ugh is giving bitch.
1:05:13
SPEAKER_00: And allegedly also, I hear that him and Bobby Lights been fucking around.
1:05:21
SPEAKER_00: You're lying.
1:05:23
SPEAKER_02: Allegedly, we're gonna say allegedly.
1:05:25
SPEAKER_02: What?
1:05:26
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, um Suki on the damn uh bad package.
1:05:34
SPEAKER_00: Oh, oh, I didn't know that.
1:05:37
SPEAKER_02: Allegedly.
1:05:40
SPEAKER_02: I'm a go ahead, friend.
1:05:42
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna share that.
1:05:43
SPEAKER_00: So Suki on the show on the um on the reunion, the first part of the baddie's reunion, you know, Suki's pregnant.
1:05:50
SPEAKER_00: She came out, and Bobby, which was very, very rude and distasteful, goes like, Who's the baby's daddy?
1:05:57
SPEAKER_00: And Suki was like, Why are you worried about who I'm Fucking like it's a man, you know, something, something, a good man in uh wherever the hell she's from.
1:06:08
SPEAKER_00: And she was I didn't know Zeus was pregnant.
1:06:11
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and then Bobby goes, like, it ain't nobody at Zeus, is it?
1:06:15
SPEAKER_00: And she was like, Motherfucker, who are you talking to?
1:06:18
SPEAKER_00: Who are you fucking at Zeus?
1:06:19
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, who are you fucking at Zeus?
1:06:21
SPEAKER_00: And so I get on social media and everybody was like, Suki was trying to out him because supposedly Bobby and Lemmy was fucking around.
1:06:32
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
1:06:34
SPEAKER_00: So Mr.
1:06:36
SPEAKER_00: Pass Around Lemmy, because that's what it's giving.
1:06:40
SPEAKER_00: That you just pass, you just a pass around.
1:06:44
SPEAKER_00: Sir, how dare you, how dare you, if you really are like doing this shit, and I and I believe Jocelyn.
1:06:52
SPEAKER_00: I believe her wholeheartedly.
1:06:54
SPEAKER_00: Um, a hundred percent.
1:06:56
SPEAKER_00: Jocelyn has never been a liar.
1:06:57
SPEAKER_02: Never since she was on love and hip hop and love.
1:07:00
SPEAKER_02: Jocelyn has never lied about Nathan's.
1:07:03
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:07:05
SPEAKER_00: So motherfucker, let me tell you something.
1:07:11
SPEAKER_00: You should have stayed in the background.
1:07:14
SPEAKER_00: You should have stayed your ass in the background, you should have played your little part, had your fucking network, and kept it cute.
1:07:24
SPEAKER_00: Cause now the Puerto Rican princess, you done pissed her the fuck off.
1:07:29
SPEAKER_00: And now she about to spill all your motherfucking tea.
1:07:32
SPEAKER_00: And I really hope they do come out with a surviving Zeus network.
1:07:36
SPEAKER_00: And I hope and pray that if you are who she saying you are, then you do fry that you burn.
1:07:44
SPEAKER_00: And they throw your ass right on up in the clink clink with the rest of the motherfuckers.
1:07:50
SPEAKER_00: Cause that shit is ridiculous.
1:07:52
SPEAKER_00: Um and you still dead ass wrong for having these women basically building your brand on the backs of these women and allegedly you treating them like shit.
1:08:06
SPEAKER_00: And you will pay.
1:08:08
SPEAKER_00: You will pay.
1:08:09
SPEAKER_00: Um to Jocelyn, as I was watching that video, my heart was breaking for her because I think the biggest thing for me was that I just want her to protect herself and her unborn baby.
1:08:22
SPEAKER_00: And she mentioned relapsing, and she's been clean for four years, and I just pray that she focuses on her health and her baby and her family.
1:08:35
SPEAKER_00: And like I said, I do believe her.
1:08:38
SPEAKER_02: She's worked so hard to become sober.
1:08:41
SPEAKER_02: And then to hear in that video, like it was heartbreaking when she was just like, This would make a bitch want to relapse.
1:08:46
SPEAKER_02: I just was like, girl, don't do it.
1:08:48
SPEAKER_02: Like, ooh, I just really hope Lemmy leaves Jocelyn the fuck alone.
1:08:52
SPEAKER_02: Because I love I love some Jocelyn, honey.
1:08:54
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:08:55
SPEAKER_00: And I also don't, I know how much ballistic loves Jocelyn.
1:08:59
SPEAKER_00: And I know right now he probably wants to do whatever he has to do to protect her and stand up for her.
1:09:05
SPEAKER_00: But I also don't need him to go over there and break his ass in half and then he be locked up some fucking wear.
1:09:11
SPEAKER_02: So I just want to say I'm I'm I really feel like she probably got ballistic on the lease because he probably won't go over there and rip Lemmy the fuck apart.
1:09:20
SPEAKER_02: That's what I said too.
1:09:21
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:09:21
SPEAKER_00: So I just hope they do, like she said, I'm about to go to the um, about to go to the station, police station, and file a report.
1:09:30
SPEAKER_00: Like, yeah, do that shit.
1:09:31
SPEAKER_00: Like, he's gonna get what's coming to him.
1:09:34
SPEAKER_00: So I just pray that she focuses on her physical and mental health.
1:09:40
SPEAKER_00: But we are gonna stay tuned to see what more comes out of this.
1:09:43
SPEAKER_00: Cause I just feel like there's a lot of bones that are buried.
1:09:47
SPEAKER_00: And like Jocelyn said, she kept a lot of secrets.
1:09:51
SPEAKER_00: And I tell people all the time, be careful who you have in those circles, and then you do them wrong.
1:10:01
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, she's about to spill all your motherfucking tea and tell where all them damn bones is buried.
1:10:07
SPEAKER_02: Um I'm not the biggest Natalie non-fed, but Natalie has something like this happen to her too, you know?
1:10:13
SPEAKER_02: Correct.
1:10:14
SPEAKER_02: Everybody, everybody's not lying on you.
1:10:16
SPEAKER_00: Correct, correct.
1:10:17
SPEAKER_00: Now, what would be some real ball shit is if Natalie went on over there and got on Jocelyn's network too.
1:10:26
SPEAKER_00: If they did a like a little thing and left his ass in the dust too.
1:10:31
SPEAKER_00: They all need to just leave his motherfucking ass high and dry.
1:10:33
SPEAKER_00: Because really, they are the backbones of it.
1:10:36
SPEAKER_00: Like I said, there would be no Zeus network if there was no um Jocelyn's cabaret and baddies.
1:10:43
SPEAKER_00: That's the only thing that's keeping the lights on right now at Zeus is baddies.
1:10:48
SPEAKER_00: Franchise.
1:10:48
SPEAKER_02: But that's the thing, though.
1:10:51
SPEAKER_02: A nigga like Lemmy is extra dusty, and I'm gonna tell you why.
1:10:55
SPEAKER_02: When you got a nigga like him, he's gonna make sure he has dirt on everybody.
1:10:59
SPEAKER_02: Because here's the thing.
1:11:02
SPEAKER_02: Jocelyn is one thing, but when it comes to Natalie, Scotty, Janisha, everybody else, best believe he got dirt on y'all.
1:11:10
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:11:11
SPEAKER_02: He's gonna take them down with him.
1:11:13
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's true.
1:11:14
SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
1:11:16
SPEAKER_02: So it's just like.
1:11:29
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
1:11:30
SPEAKER_02: Talk about that.
1:11:31
SPEAKER_02: I want to hear what your thoughts are about that.
1:11:33
SPEAKER_00: I didn't see the whole thing, but Simone sent me a clip of it, and it was the To ask him about was he gang?
1:11:40
SPEAKER_00: Yes, with the peanut butter thing.
1:11:41
SPEAKER_02: What the fuck was that?
1:11:42
SPEAKER_02: What the fuck was that?
1:11:45
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, so you are you are you are you telling the because he said he didn't, but I'm just like, are you slick telling us you let a dog lick him between your ass?
1:11:54
SPEAKER_02: Like, it just was the the analogy was not a good one.
1:11:57
SPEAKER_02: And I just feel like at this point, nigga, if you come out in the closet, come out the closet, because here's the thing.
1:12:02
SPEAKER_02: Here's the thing now.
1:12:03
SPEAKER_02: Danny Boy did an interview.
1:12:05
SPEAKER_02: Danny Boy has done a lot of interviews, and honestly, I honestly don't think Danny Boy line either.
1:12:10
SPEAKER_02: Danny Boy did an interview, and he said back in the day, him and Ray J, Ray J would come over, because Danny Boy's gay now.
1:12:17
SPEAKER_02: But I probably was already always gay, but he just came out the closet.
1:12:21
SPEAKER_02: But Danny Boy, he used to go over Danny Boy's house and they used to watch, like, I think like gay porn and shit together.
1:12:28
SPEAKER_02: So, but I don't know.
1:12:31
SPEAKER_02: Ray J is definitely giving Orlando Brown, and I'm like, is it drugs or what?
1:12:36
SPEAKER_02: But I don't know.
1:12:36
SPEAKER_02: It's it's probably some truth to what he's saying because I'm just like, it was just uncomfortable.
1:12:41
SPEAKER_02: But I I I looked at Cam's how it's too because I'm just like, what like what does it matter?
1:12:45
SPEAKER_02: Why do you he asked that the last time Ray J was there?
1:12:47
SPEAKER_00: Because I watched that full episode and I was just like, and if he was so yeah, and I've always I've always looked at Cam, especially lately, like, what is going on with you?
1:13:00
SPEAKER_00: So yeah, the whole thing, that whole little exchange, like I sat and watched the full interview, but just that exchange right there with them two is just really, really sus.
1:13:08
SPEAKER_00: And I'm just like, yo, all of y'all yeah, all y'all just need to come out.
1:13:14
SPEAKER_00: Just come out, be who you are, if you're bisexual, just fucking say that because it's just starting to get like a little strange.
1:13:22
SPEAKER_00: And and and then I feel like that's that goes into we talk about mental health and shit.
1:13:28
SPEAKER_00: I feel like that's what's driving a lot of y'all motherfuckers crazy, black men, is that that's really what y'all want to be.
1:13:36
SPEAKER_00: You want to be bisexual or you want to be gay, but you cannot just come out.
1:13:43
SPEAKER_00: You feel like you can't, or it's gonna be of detriment to you to expose yourself or living your truth.
1:13:50
SPEAKER_00: And that's what's driving a lot of y'all motherfuckers crazy and running y'all to the alcohol and drugs if you really want to keep it all the way 100.
1:13:57
SPEAKER_00: A lot of y'all are very, very, very gay or very, very bisexual, but you do not want to come out.
1:14:06
SPEAKER_00: Instead, you want to live live a lie, drink yourself to death, smoke yourself to death, drug yourself to death, and then eat the shit out of black women.
1:14:19
SPEAKER_00: That's that's what the fuck is going on.
1:14:26
SPEAKER_00: That's how I feel.
1:14:27
SPEAKER_00: I really do.
1:14:33
SPEAKER_00: Moving on is Miss Portia Williams.
1:14:42
SPEAKER_00: So Real Housewives, Real Housewives of Atlanta is back, y'all.
1:14:49
SPEAKER_00: The new season is out.
1:14:51
SPEAKER_00: We have some new women who have joined the cast.
1:14:54
SPEAKER_00: We now have um Pinky, I believe, is that her name?
1:15:00
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, Pinky Cole.
1:15:02
SPEAKER_00: Pinky Cole from Slutty Vegan.
1:15:04
SPEAKER_00: She's now joined, CEO of Slutty Vegan and Creative Slutty Vegan.
1:15:08
SPEAKER_00: She has joined the cast, and then we also have Kay Michelle.
1:15:13
SPEAKER_00: Well, very excited about the return of Real Housewives Atlanta.
1:15:17
SPEAKER_00: I'm a big Real Housewives of Atlanta fan.
1:15:20
SPEAKER_00: Um, there's only been what two or three episodes so far, and it's already fucking crazy.
1:15:29
SPEAKER_00: It's crazy.
1:15:31
SPEAKER_00: Crazy.
1:15:32
SPEAKER_00: When I tell you it is really bringing some wild shit this season.
1:15:39
SPEAKER_00: It really is.
1:15:41
SPEAKER_00: Um, but I wanted to start off with Porsche because of course we know that Porsche is divorced again um from Simon.
1:15:53
SPEAKER_00: What is his name?
1:15:54
SPEAKER_02: Simon S.
1:15:55
SPEAKER_02: Simon Gibaldio.
1:15:57
SPEAKER_02: All I know him is Farron's husband that she stole.
1:16:01
SPEAKER_02: Woo child.
1:16:03
SPEAKER_00: Well, Portia S that won the damn house in the divorce settlement.
1:16:09
SPEAKER_00: So she's got the house, that big ass mansion.
1:16:12
SPEAKER_00: It is all hers to slut herself out wall to wall, um, the way that she wants to.
1:16:20
SPEAKER_00: And she is not plan about getting her some this season.
1:16:25
SPEAKER_00: Now, the first episode, first episode, she had uh this big, big dude, and I can't think of his name, but he's been on a few reality shows.
1:16:36
SPEAKER_00: Big black guy.
1:16:39
SPEAKER_02: Is he like big bald?
1:16:40
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
1:16:41
SPEAKER_02: I think his name's Mike, because he was for Ready to Love and Lancer.
1:16:46
SPEAKER_02: I think that's him.
1:16:47
SPEAKER_02: He's been ever since then, yeah, he's been on reality shows.
1:16:51
SPEAKER_00: I think that's him.
1:16:52
SPEAKER_00: So she had him first up in there, you know, and they were talking and all this shit.
1:16:57
SPEAKER_00: He was on a little date at her house, and the girls were frying her ass because they was like, damn, you move fast.
1:17:04
SPEAKER_00: How you gonna be up in here on a date and shit?
1:17:06
SPEAKER_00: You still in your damn ex-husband's house.
1:17:09
SPEAKER_00: But ain't no shame in Porsche's game, okay?
1:17:12
SPEAKER_00: Never has been.
1:17:14
SPEAKER_00: Um, she done redid that house, put up new furniture, and she got new motherfuckers running all up and through there.
1:17:20
SPEAKER_00: Okay?
1:17:21
SPEAKER_00: She does not give a fuck.
1:17:23
SPEAKER_00: Then, so very fast, we move on to episode two and three, and now she's with her girlfriend.
1:17:33
SPEAKER_00: But at the beginning of this relationship where they were filming, they had not made it official yet.
1:17:39
SPEAKER_00: And I don't remember Ashley.
1:17:41
SPEAKER_00: Do you remember this girl's name?
1:17:42
SPEAKER_00: I do not remember her name.
1:17:44
SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
1:17:45
SPEAKER_00: She plays basketball, she's a basketball player, women's basketball player, I believe.
1:17:51
SPEAKER_00: Um, very handsome woman, handsome young, young manly lady, and um they are having a ball.
1:18:03
SPEAKER_00: Now, Porsche goes on to the Breakfast Club, and Charlemagne asks her, What do you consider yourself?
1:18:11
SPEAKER_00: Do you want to be called bisexual?
1:18:14
SPEAKER_00: Are you a lesbian?
1:18:16
SPEAKER_00: Where do you want to fit in this LGBTQIA conversation?
1:18:22
SPEAKER_00: Porsche responds that she does not want to be labeled and does not want to be put in a box, honey.
1:18:28
SPEAKER_00: She is just Porsche.
1:18:30
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
1:18:32
SPEAKER_00: Here's the thing with this, Porsche.
1:18:35
SPEAKER_00: I used to be a really big Porsche fan.
1:18:38
SPEAKER_00: Matter of fact, I used to low key be like a Porsche stand.
1:18:42
SPEAKER_00: I kind of had like a girl crush on Porsche.
1:18:45
SPEAKER_00: But since recently, I am just very underwhelmed by Porsche and the bullshit that she does.
1:18:54
SPEAKER_00: And I feel like she's a bird.
1:18:56
SPEAKER_00: Very much so.
1:18:56
SPEAKER_00: She's a fucking bird.
1:18:57
SPEAKER_00: Very much so.
1:18:58
SPEAKER_00: And I feel like she wants to continuously do shit for storylines.
1:19:06
SPEAKER_00: And here's the thing, too.
1:19:08
SPEAKER_00: And I'm not a hater.
1:19:10
SPEAKER_00: So if this is a legit, beautiful relationship, you found yourself, and this woman's treating you right, and y'all are in love, blah zé blah, kudos, that's great.
1:19:21
SPEAKER_00: Hey, do all that.
1:19:24
SPEAKER_00: You know, be happy, live in your truth, live your life.
1:19:28
SPEAKER_00: But the whole thing with just like, I'm not gonna be placed in a box.
1:19:33
SPEAKER_00: I'm just Portia.
1:19:34
SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna love, you know, whoever.
1:19:37
SPEAKER_00: I'm just doing me.
1:19:42
SPEAKER_00: At 40 or whatever the fuck age you are, it just gives last resort.
1:19:53
SPEAKER_00: I'm doing anything.
1:19:56
SPEAKER_00: It's just not giving.
1:19:57
SPEAKER_00: You know, we're not talking about someone who in who's like late 20s or whatever, who's like living free and doing her thing.
1:20:06
SPEAKER_00: Bitch you're getting old.
1:20:07
SPEAKER_00: And it's just like, uh many times, like, what are we doing?
1:20:14
SPEAKER_00: Like, what I'm I'm just really, ugh, I'm over it.
1:20:18
SPEAKER_00: And it's giving ran through, and it's just not attractive.
1:20:22
SPEAKER_00: Like, it's just not cute.
1:20:24
SPEAKER_00: And like I said, I used to really think she was fun and had a little girl crush, but like, damn, you just spread it wide and loose for any goddamn body.
1:20:34
SPEAKER_00: That's what it's giving.
1:20:35
SPEAKER_02: I mean, she's still a beautiful woman, but it's just like my biggest I stopped fucking with Portia early on when the bitch said, I thought the underground round was underground.
1:20:44
SPEAKER_02: Oh bitch, please.
1:20:47
SPEAKER_02: You're dumber than a box of rocks.
1:20:49
SPEAKER_02: I'm I I I can't do dumb.
1:20:51
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:20:51
SPEAKER_02: I just can't.
1:20:52
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
1:20:53
SPEAKER_00: Cannot do duh.
1:20:54
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
1:20:55
SPEAKER_00: And she sounded dumb.
1:20:56
SPEAKER_00: She sounded dumb on the Breakfast Club with the whole like, I don't want to do labels and I'm just doing me.
1:21:02
SPEAKER_02: And she probably don't even know what the fucking labels mean.
1:21:06
SPEAKER_02: That's why she don't want to do them.
1:21:07
SPEAKER_00: I'm like, what is so hard about saying that you're bisexual?
1:21:10
SPEAKER_00: Why is that like a horrible thing to say?
1:21:15
SPEAKER_02: Porsche, again, she probably don't even know what the fucking labels or the terms mean.
1:21:20
SPEAKER_02: Ugh, shit.
1:21:21
SPEAKER_00: Jesus help her.
1:21:22
SPEAKER_00: Ugh.
1:21:23
SPEAKER_00: Um, but yeah, so Porsche's back, like I said, back on the show.
1:21:29
SPEAKER_00: And um, yeah, we'll see how this goes with her newfound relationship with her woman friend.
1:21:38
SPEAKER_02: The woman is, and the woman is really beautiful too.
1:21:42
SPEAKER_00: Very much so.
1:21:43
SPEAKER_00: I will say though, them lesbian relationships, um, you know, she might want to be careful.
1:21:50
SPEAKER_00: Um, this is her first that is correct.
1:21:53
SPEAKER_00: And them bitches is crazy.
1:21:55
SPEAKER_00: Them lesbian relationships can get real, real toxic.
1:21:58
SPEAKER_00: And so she better not try to play in that girl face.
1:22:01
SPEAKER_00: I'm just saying.
1:22:02
SPEAKER_02: That's all right.
1:22:03
SPEAKER_02: Cause I'm like, shit, then she gonna that's what I says.
1:22:07
SPEAKER_02: She's gonna care, she's gonna be in her match one day.
1:22:09
SPEAKER_02: Yep.
1:22:10
SPEAKER_02: And this might be it.
1:22:12
SPEAKER_00: Um, moving right along, still staying Real Housewives of Atlanta.
1:22:17
SPEAKER_00: Um, K Michelle.
1:22:19
SPEAKER_00: K Michelle has joined the cast as well.
1:22:22
SPEAKER_00: Um, I was a little torn about this, about Kay Michelle joining the cast.
1:22:28
SPEAKER_00: Um, if why?
1:22:29
SPEAKER_00: I at first I was just like, you know, we've seen Kay, you know, on Love and Hip Hop um Atlanta.
1:22:35
SPEAKER_00: And so I was just like, eh, we couldn't have found somebody else, you know, for the role.
1:22:40
SPEAKER_00: But I will say to a she's a pleasant surprise, and I do like her being on the show so far because I feel like K is you can't play with Kay.
1:22:53
SPEAKER_00: You're not gonna play in her face.
1:22:55
SPEAKER_00: Um never.
1:22:56
SPEAKER_00: I love this game.
1:22:57
SPEAKER_00: Yes, and she's already checking, already checking bitches, especially Drew Sidora, because bitch, who the fuck did you think you were talking to, talking about some dish she sing?
1:23:08
SPEAKER_00: Bitch, we only know you from being fucking Drew or being fucking T-Ba.
1:23:15
SPEAKER_02: First of all, bitch, we know you from being T-Ba acting like somebody else.
1:23:18
SPEAKER_02: We don't know you for your singing.
1:23:20
SPEAKER_02: And then you just lose custody of your kids.
1:23:22
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
1:23:23
SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
1:23:25
SPEAKER_00: Girlby.
1:23:26
SPEAKER_00: Bitch, you do fucking tubi movies and motherfucking goddamn, yeah, fucking tubi movies.
1:23:33
SPEAKER_00: Like, sit your ass down somewhere.
1:23:36
SPEAKER_00: You look amiss, you sound amiss, you're boring, and how dare you!
1:23:41
SPEAKER_01: Ain't you gay now, too?
1:23:42
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
1:23:46
SPEAKER_00: How dare you talking about does she even sing?
1:23:49
SPEAKER_00: Bitch! Ugh, but yeah.
1:23:52
SPEAKER_02: This lady literally went to college for yodeling scholarship.
1:23:56
SPEAKER_02: Like, don't don't actually K Michelle has actually had multiple songs on the charts.
1:24:06
SPEAKER_02: You haven't had one.
1:24:10
SPEAKER_02: So shut up.
1:24:12
SPEAKER_00: Yes, and she even was on um on the episode, this last episode.
1:24:17
SPEAKER_00: She was like, I mean, acting keeps the lights on for me.
1:24:22
SPEAKER_00: That's how I feed my family.
1:24:23
SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, bitch, them tubi movies, that's how you feeding your family.
1:24:27
SPEAKER_00: No fucking wonder you don't have custody of the kids no more.
1:24:30
SPEAKER_00: Them fucking tube movies, that's how you, that's how you keeping the lights on.
1:24:36
SPEAKER_00: Girl, polise.
1:24:38
SPEAKER_00: Okay, how dare you?
1:24:41
SPEAKER_00: But yeah, so K Michelle is on the cast.
1:24:44
SPEAKER_00: Um, very excited about that.
1:24:46
SPEAKER_00: She is not playing.
1:24:47
SPEAKER_00: Um, but this last week's episode uh was a little cringy.
1:24:57
SPEAKER_00: So Kay had a um, she had a performance at the it was in Nashville at the oh, it was like a country awards performance, something like that.
1:25:12
SPEAKER_00: AMA's, oh no, American Music Awards performance.
1:25:16
SPEAKER_00: So she had her American Music Awards performance.
1:25:18
SPEAKER_00: While she was backstage, she said that she got up and noticed that she was completely soaked from the waist down.
1:25:28
SPEAKER_00: It was not blood, but it was a clear liquid.
1:25:33
SPEAKER_00: Come to find out, her one of her um her incisions from where she had gotten her illegal butt implants removed um had become undone and leaked all over her dress.
1:25:53
SPEAKER_00: Um, they had to like literally take a um blow dryer and like blow her dress or whatever because it was soaking wet.
1:26:02
SPEAKER_00: Um she did still perform, and then after that, she went to the hospital.
1:26:09
SPEAKER_00: Um, she did have to have another surgery because there are still remnants of the um whatever that was used for the illegal implants.
1:26:23
SPEAKER_00: There's still just a lot going on um in her behind, like that she will never ever fully recover from.
1:26:34
SPEAKER_00: Um on the show, she was just like crying.
1:26:37
SPEAKER_00: She was like, I could not believe, you know, I did this to myself then.
1:26:41
SPEAKER_00: I was so dumb and stupid, and I'll have to live with this for the rest of my life.
1:26:46
SPEAKER_00: And um, I think it just continues to be a story for a lot of women, young women, especially, like, leave your fucking body alone.
1:26:58
SPEAKER_00: Like, leave your body alone.
1:27:00
SPEAKER_00: Um, and do not put, you know, anything inside of your body, you know, just leave your body alone.
1:27:10
SPEAKER_00: Like, ugh.
1:27:11
SPEAKER_02: Um, but yeah, so but even if that's what you're going to do, and again, I think when she got her to play devil's advocate, I think when she got hers, a lot of girls are doing it the illegal way.
1:27:24
SPEAKER_02: Because if that's what you want to do, that's what you do, that's what you want to do.
1:27:27
SPEAKER_02: But if you don't have money for the upkeep, because again, at least Cam Michelle's fortunate enough to have money for the upkeep or to go into surgery.
1:27:34
SPEAKER_02: The regular woman don't have upkeep for BBLs.
1:27:37
SPEAKER_02: Because what they don't tell you, you don't get one surgery.
1:27:39
SPEAKER_02: You have to stay pay for the massages, stay in shape, have to eat right, because that shit will settle.
1:27:45
SPEAKER_02: You can't go back and get another one.
1:27:46
SPEAKER_02: You can't go back and get another boo job, but at least she's lucky enough to have surgery.
1:27:51
SPEAKER_02: And if that's what you want to do, that's what you want to do.
1:27:54
SPEAKER_02: Have the money, have the patience, and do it the legal way.
1:27:58
SPEAKER_02: Yes.
1:27:58
SPEAKER_02: Don't do it the cheap route.
1:28:00
SPEAKER_02: If you got to do it the cheap route, then you don't need it.
1:28:04
SPEAKER_00: Um, oh my God.
1:28:06
SPEAKER_00: Speaking of that, and we're still in my reality corner.
1:28:10
SPEAKER_00: Um, I also watch the Bell Collective.
1:28:15
SPEAKER_00: Um, so the Bell Collective comes on, I believe, own TV, and I think it's also on Discovery Plus, but I watch it on Amazon Prime.
1:28:24
SPEAKER_00: And so the Bell Collective is not a lot of, you know, women that are really like, they aren't in the spotlight, but it's this group of friends.
1:28:37
SPEAKER_00: Um, I believe it's shot in, it's not is it in Huntsville?
1:28:42
SPEAKER_00: I don't remember.
1:28:42
SPEAKER_00: Anyways, it was one of the women up there, Selena.
1:28:45
SPEAKER_00: Selena went to Columbia and got veneers.
1:28:50
SPEAKER_00: She did not tell the people that she had fucking high blood pressure and almost died from getting fucking veneers.
1:29:00
SPEAKER_00: They asked her if she had any like fucking um medical problems or some shit like that or diseases.
1:29:08
SPEAKER_00: This idiot thought they meant like why wouldn't you even mention that?
1:29:12
SPEAKER_00: This idiot thought they meant like, do you have like HIV or cancer or some shit?
1:29:16
SPEAKER_00: And so she put no.
1:29:18
SPEAKER_00: And the bitch has high blood pressure, and the motherfucker almost died.
1:29:23
SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna tell you that as a person that takes a high blood pressure pill every day that I need to work to get off of, it's certain cold medicines I can't take.
1:29:33
SPEAKER_02: I won't drink espresso often because I get heart palpitations.
1:29:39
SPEAKER_02: I don't drink Vietnamese coffee.
1:29:40
SPEAKER_02: Like, it's certain shit you cannot do.
1:29:46
SPEAKER_00: Oh girl, you're a dummy bitch.
1:29:48
SPEAKER_00: You're a fucking dummy.
1:29:50
SPEAKER_00: Fucking veneers almost took her own up out of here.
1:29:59
SPEAKER_00: So, yes, to Ashley's point, if you want to enhance your body, it is your body, do you boo?
1:30:09
SPEAKER_00: But damn, can we like make smart decisions?
1:30:14
SPEAKER_00: Can we go to legit people?
1:30:17
SPEAKER_00: Like, what the fuck?
1:30:20
SPEAKER_00: Because no ass shot or pearly white fucking false teeth or breast lift is worth you dying for.
1:30:34
SPEAKER_00: Oof, Jesus Christ.
1:30:37
SPEAKER_00: That shit was crazy.
1:30:39
SPEAKER_00: Like, who the fuck, like, oh, getting teeth killed her?
1:30:44
SPEAKER_00: Like, who the fuck wants to like what?
1:30:46
SPEAKER_00: It's crazy.
1:30:48
SPEAKER_00: Insanity.
1:30:50
SPEAKER_00: Insane.
1:30:50
SPEAKER_00: But yeah, so tonight, Sunday night, of course.
1:30:53
SPEAKER_00: Um, you know, I'm staying up late because I gotta watch my shows.
1:30:57
SPEAKER_00: Um, so I will be watching some more crazy ass reality television tonight.
1:31:05
SPEAKER_00: Um, and tomorrow, because Monday, you know, I've still watched unfortunately, don't judge me, but I still watch um fucking Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, which I'm pretty sure that shit's gonna go off TV very, very soon.
1:31:17
SPEAKER_00: I'm pretty sure this is the last season, but I still watch that crazy ass shit too, and that shit's fucking ridiculous.
1:31:25
SPEAKER_00: So, yeah, two nights of crazy television coming up.
1:31:30
SPEAKER_00: So I will have more for y'all next week in Diamond's Reality Corner.
1:31:38
SPEAKER_02: Well, that was amazing.
1:31:41
SPEAKER_02: Like I knew it would be.
1:31:44
SPEAKER_02: But y'all, that is the end of Sisters in Sync.
1:31:48
SPEAKER_02: Um, I don't have anything to add.
1:31:52
SPEAKER_02: Diamond, you have anything to add, boo?
1:31:53
SPEAKER_02: No, just have a great week, y'all.
1:31:56
SPEAKER_02: Have a great week.
1:31:58
SPEAKER_02: Yes, I definitely echo those sentiments.
1:32:01
SPEAKER_02: Have a great week, and I hope y'all don't miss us too much.
1:32:05
SPEAKER_02: Okay.
1:32:06
SPEAKER_02: We love y'all, and we will see y'all next week, sisters.
1:32:10
SPEAKER_02: Bye y'all.