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- 0:22Speaker 2: She's on the Money, She's on the Money.
- 0:45Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 0:48Speaker 3: for millennials who want financial freedom. Welcome back to another
- 0:51Speaker 3: shot back Money Diary Monday, where we get to chat
- 0:53Speaker 3: to one of our Gorge community members, learn about them,
- 0:56Speaker 3: their life, their money, everything that could possibly go in between.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Victoria Jessica. Hello.
- 1:03Speaker 3: People really don't like it when we use names.
- 1:05Speaker 1: For some reason. We don't, so hello. It is the
- 1:08Speaker 1: people you already know.
- 1:09Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of something to say that isn't.
- 1:10Speaker 3: Today's diris is a good one and I am.
- 1:12Speaker 1: You know what? Once again, come to say that we'll
- 1:15Speaker 1: work on the scripts later.
- 1:16Speaker 4: It's being a future episode.
- 1:17Speaker 3: Let me read it to you. It says I'm a
- 1:19Speaker 3: twenty two year old who has come a long way
- 1:21Speaker 3: in regards to money in the past four years. I
- 1:24Speaker 3: went from being freshly eighteen and having to borrow money
- 1:26Speaker 3: from parents, friends, and anyone else who would give it
- 1:29Speaker 3: to me, to having just graduated, owning my own home
- 1:32Speaker 3: with my partner, a six figure hospitality business, a freelancing
- 1:35Speaker 3: copywriting business, and no debt.
- 1:38Speaker 4: Sorry what I know.
- 1:39Speaker 3: I'm so proud of how far I've come from having
- 1:41Speaker 3: only two hundred fifty dollars a week from Centrelink to
- 1:43Speaker 3: now making over one hundred k per year fresh out
- 1:46Speaker 3: of UNI.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Who are you money Diarist? You're already here to join us, Welcome.
- 1:50Speaker 4: To the show.
- 1:51Speaker 5: Thank you so much for having me.
- 1:52Speaker 1: I'm excited about your story. I feel like you have
- 1:55Speaker 1: had an ultimate glow up like what You're so impressive
- 1:59Speaker 1: and I want to learn more. So let's start from
- 2:01Speaker 1: the very beginning. Money dois Can you tell us a
- 2:04Speaker 1: little bit about your money story?
- 2:06Speaker 5: Yes, so, growing up, my parents broke up when I
- 2:09Speaker 5: was very young and they were both single parents for
- 2:13Speaker 5: the first couple of years. So when I was living
- 2:15Speaker 5: with my mom, it was always single working mom doing
- 2:19Speaker 5: her best, and then my dad did remarry and then
- 2:21Speaker 5: he was supporting a family of five on his income.
- 2:25Speaker 5: So it's safe to say that both sort of sides
- 2:29Speaker 5: of my money story were not very rich. We didn't
- 2:33Speaker 5: have a heat. I remember being like six years old
- 2:37Speaker 5: and dad and my stepmom counting out five cent pieces
- 2:40Speaker 5: to go buy milk, and they were super open with
- 2:42Speaker 5: us about that, like they would say, we're broke, which
- 2:46Speaker 5: looking back on now, I think is a pretty poor
- 2:49Speaker 5: attitude to sort of be putting out there, but you know,
- 2:52Speaker 5: they were keeping it real. We learned the value of
- 2:55Speaker 5: money from a young age, but we weren't really taught
- 2:57Speaker 5: how to save it, I guess, and how to handle
- 3:01Speaker 5: money that we had because we never really had any money.
- 3:04Speaker 5: So yeah, I mean, my mum's a super hard work
- 3:07Speaker 5: I've always seen mom work really hard and dad is too.
- 3:10Speaker 5: I guess. It was just circumstances that they weren't really
- 3:13Speaker 5: able to get themselves out of. And so that's really
- 3:17Speaker 5: raised me to look at I mean, especially now, I
- 3:19Speaker 5: just see money as a tool, like it's not about
- 3:22Speaker 5: how much you have, it's about what you're able to
- 3:23Speaker 5: do with it. And that's always sort of been my
- 3:25Speaker 5: goal is to just be able to do the things
- 3:27Speaker 5: I want to do and feel safe doing those things.
- 3:31Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I have so many questions about your
- 3:33Speaker 1: money mindset because I agree with that broke mentality that
- 3:36Speaker 1: you mentioned before, because I really don't like the concept
- 3:40Speaker 1: of broke right Like, I get it if you're literally
- 3:43Speaker 1: you don't have a roof over your head, you're not
- 3:45Speaker 1: able to put food on the table, and you are
- 3:48Speaker 1: genuinely broke. But I feel like so many people will
- 3:51Speaker 1: say things like, oh, I'm so broke this week.
- 3:53Speaker 4: And it's like, well, you're not.
- 3:55Speaker 1: Your money's allocated towards other things, or you've spent it
- 3:57Speaker 1: on things that you value, or you haven't managed it properly,
- 4:00Speaker 1: but that doesn't make you broke. I feel like that
- 4:03Speaker 1: mentality can be quite limiting and it's not really a
- 4:07Speaker 1: growth mindset in a way, Like and we want to
- 4:09Speaker 1: have these growth mindsets where we're like, oh, we just
- 4:12Speaker 1: don't have the money for that right now. But like
- 4:14Speaker 1: the term broke makes it sound like it's a I
- 4:18Speaker 1: don't know something that's placed upon you instead of a
- 4:20Speaker 1: situation you can get out of yourself. So moving on,
- 4:24Speaker 1: we already know you're a bit impressive money diarist, because
- 4:28Speaker 1: we got your email and just spread it out. But
- 4:30Speaker 1: can you tell us what you do for work and
- 4:32Speaker 1: how much money you in?
- 4:33Speaker 5: Yes, so work situation is a lot. So I work
- 4:37Speaker 5: in marketing. I'm a marketing executive for a charity, which
- 4:41Speaker 5: is a fairly new role. Yeah, it's very excite. I
- 4:44Speaker 5: love it. I'm really happy there, and it's honestly, I
- 4:47Speaker 5: had a bit of a nightmare trying to get my
- 4:49Speaker 5: dream graduate position out of Uni. But you know, if
- 4:53Speaker 5: it's meant to be, it'll be. And this job, like, oh,
- 4:55Speaker 5: it's just my dream. So I work their part time,
- 4:58Speaker 5: which will hopefully turn into full time later in the year.
- 5:01Speaker 5: And then I also it was almost exactly a year
- 5:05Speaker 5: ago actually I opened a cafe.
- 5:07Speaker 4: Oh my god, you're a child. You can't have a cafe.
- 5:12Speaker 5: Yeah, So I did that while I was studying full
- 5:14Speaker 5: time as well and working and working another job to
- 5:18Speaker 5: pay my bills. So I opened that and now I
- 5:21Speaker 5: just work there from a sort of managerial perspective, like
- 5:24Speaker 5: I'm not making coffees anymore. And then on top of that,
- 5:27Speaker 5: I'm also freelancing. So my partner and I have started
- 5:30Speaker 5: a copywriting business social media copywriting, and I have about
- 5:35Speaker 5: ten clients through that, which, yeah, it's pretty great. So
- 5:40Speaker 5: all up. I added it up the other day. It
- 5:41Speaker 5: was just over one hundred and ten thousand annually. And
- 5:45Speaker 5: then I do some babysitting, some nunning on the side
- 5:47Speaker 5: when I have time as well, So yeah.
- 5:48Speaker 1: When do you have time for that? I was just
- 5:51Speaker 1: trying to have time, like, okay, you don't though.
- 5:55Speaker 5: It's definitely a case of me doing freelancing work on
- 5:58Speaker 5: my laptop while I'm looking after the kids. Kids.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that makes a little bit more sense because
- 6:03Speaker 1: I'm like this woman, there's no way, there's no way
- 6:06Speaker 1: she has free time. Money diarist, I want to know
- 6:09Speaker 1: what is currently your big money goal? What are you
- 6:11Speaker 1: working towards with this one hundred and ten thousand dollar income.
- 6:15Speaker 5: So my big goals at say, I want to fill
- 6:17Speaker 5: all my savings accounts I use up and I have
- 6:21Speaker 5: like twelve.
- 6:21Speaker 4: Savers in there, Oh my gosh, so good, and.
- 6:24Speaker 5: So I want to meet the savings goals for all
- 6:25Speaker 5: of those, which excluding the car account, will come to
- 6:28Speaker 5: just over twenty thousand dollars. So I'm getting there. I'm
- 6:32Speaker 5: working towards it. But then longer term, my partner and
- 6:36Speaker 5: I want to invest in some more property. So we
- 6:38Speaker 5: currently own our home and we're hoping to move from
- 6:41Speaker 5: here and then turn this into an investment property.
- 6:45Speaker 3: How just how I can't even get one house, you're
- 6:49Speaker 3: going for number two.
- 6:50Speaker 1: And she's wady too and owns her own business and
- 6:52Speaker 1: has this marketing executive job, Like what are you a wizard? Harry?
- 6:56Speaker 5: But I just want to say, before we invest in
- 6:59Speaker 5: more property, our shared goal is to get a pool.
- 7:02Speaker 5: We live in Queensland and it is very hot, so
- 7:05Speaker 5: love that.
- 7:05Speaker 4: That's sort of lifestyle.
- 7:07Speaker 5: That's sort of the goal. Yeah, at the moment.
- 7:10Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, let us know when it's done, because
- 7:12Speaker 1: Jess and I will be up there. We'll come, we'll
- 7:14Speaker 1: come visit. It won't be because you have cool house
- 7:16Speaker 1: or anything, and it will definitely be to see you.
- 7:20Speaker 1: All right, money, dires, Can you tell us about the
- 7:22Speaker 1: investments you might already have? Yes, so I've you're going
- 7:27Speaker 1: to be unimpressed or maybe not, why because you've got
- 7:29Speaker 1: a business and a house. Well yes, so I mean
- 7:32Speaker 1: on a more broad description of investment, I've obviously invested
- 7:37Speaker 1: a lot of money into the business, which is definitely
- 7:39Speaker 1: paying off. But apart from that, I've got eight grand
- 7:43Speaker 1: in crypto.
- 7:45Speaker 5: Most of that was purchased for me by my father
- 7:47Speaker 5: and gifted to me.
- 7:49Speaker 4: Interesting choice dead.
- 7:51Speaker 5: Yes, yep, that's how he's got himself out of his pickle,
- 7:53Speaker 5: is investing in crypto. He's super passionate about it and
- 7:57Speaker 5: gifted all of his children thousands of dollars worth. And
- 8:00Speaker 5: my uncle's on the same train, so he's also given
- 8:02Speaker 5: me some cryptocurrency. And then I've got two thousand dollars
- 8:06Speaker 5: in an ETF through Vanguard, I think, one thousand dollars
- 8:09Speaker 5: in Spaceship and a couple of hundred in rays as well.
- 8:13Speaker 4: Check you out.
- 8:15Speaker 5: Yeah, so I would like to do more investing, but
- 8:19Speaker 5: it's just not my priority right now. I also pay
- 8:21Speaker 5: extra into my super.
- 8:22Speaker 4: Of course she does, just of course she does.
- 8:25Speaker 5: Just because there was a couple of years there where
- 8:27Speaker 5: I wasn't working a PAYG job for a little while,
- 8:30Speaker 5: so I wasn't paying it. So now I'm just prioritizing
- 8:33Speaker 5: getting that up to where i'd like it to be.
- 8:34Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm obsessed with you. You're like literally
- 8:37Speaker 4: a wizard.
- 8:38Speaker 1: I'm convinced, like there's no way, you're actually twenty two.
- 8:42Speaker 1: Do people sometimes say to you that you're an old soul?
- 8:44Speaker 5: Yeah, I have heard that.
- 8:46Speaker 1: I feel like I'm getting that vibe from you. No
- 8:48Speaker 1: one can see that, but I'm just getting that vibe.
- 8:50Speaker 1: I want to know it. Next, you said you have
- 8:53Speaker 1: a house, Can you talk to us about what debts
- 8:55Speaker 1: you have?
- 8:56Speaker 5: Yes, So obviously I do have the mortgage that's three
- 8:59Speaker 5: hundred thousand dollars ish I believe. And also I have
- 9:05Speaker 5: obviously my hex debt, which is twenty grand the last
- 9:08Speaker 5: time I checked. So when I said on my email
- 9:11Speaker 5: that I had no debt, I was lying.
- 9:13Speaker 1: But I know you work those Those both are okay debts.
- 9:16Speaker 1: They're not bad consumer debt.
- 9:18Speaker 5: Well, on the subject of consumer debt, today is Tuesday,
- 9:21Speaker 5: which means my shop's credit card probably has six or
- 9:24Speaker 5: seven hundred dollars on it because we do all the
- 9:26Speaker 5: ordering at the start of the week and then I
- 9:28Speaker 5: pay off the balance at the end of the week.
- 9:30Speaker 4: So that's a cash flow tool.
- 9:32Speaker 1: When you said to the shop, I was like, it
- 9:34Speaker 1: makes sense when you have a business. And this is
- 9:36Speaker 1: something I literally said to you the other day, jes
- 9:38Speaker 1: So I was like, I think it's time that I
- 9:40Speaker 1: get a business credit card because as a business, you
- 9:43Speaker 1: incur so many expenses and it kind of makes sense
- 9:46Speaker 1: to one give yourself the financial security of having a
- 9:49Speaker 1: credit card because you can cancel it and it's not
- 9:52Speaker 1: directly linked to your bank account. But then two, you
- 9:56Speaker 1: get some points.
- 9:57Speaker 4: Are you doing?
- 9:57Speaker 1: Are you getting some pretty good points with the amount
- 9:59Speaker 1: of money that you spend.
- 10:01Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, I have enough points to go on
- 10:03Speaker 5: around the world trip.
- 10:05Speaker 3: What wow?
- 10:06Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's amazing. We have so much money going
- 10:09Speaker 5: through the business, and the card has all sorts of
- 10:11Speaker 5: like bonuses and stuff you can do. So I'm just
- 10:13Speaker 5: trying to use that as a tool, and I pay
- 10:15Speaker 5: it off at the end of every week, so I'm
- 10:17Speaker 5: really trying to be very responsible. And also my accountant
- 10:20Speaker 5: will get very angry at me if I use it
- 10:22Speaker 5: for personal expenses as well, because it always I get
- 10:25Speaker 5: stuff it up for him. So yeah, I.
- 10:27Speaker 1: Mess up the bookkeeping. Our bookkeeper, Nicole. If you're listening fast.
- 10:30Speaker 3: She's clenching her face.
- 10:32Speaker 1: If you're listening Nicole, like she's chasing us for all
- 10:35Speaker 1: of our reconciliations for our bass.
- 10:37Speaker 4: And I'm busy. I'm sorry, I love you still, please
- 10:40Speaker 4: keep my books clean.
- 10:42Speaker 1: So next question, I feel like it's a good question
- 10:45Speaker 1: for someone who does a lot of online shopping and
- 10:48Speaker 1: does a lot of things for their business.
- 10:50Speaker 4: He's shot back.
- 10:51Speaker 5: Yes I do. I'm a big fan of shot back.
- 10:54Speaker 5: I just have it on my browser. I didn't know
- 10:55Speaker 5: there was an app, but yeah, I use it on
- 10:57Speaker 5: my browser. I see if it'll work for what I'm buying.
- 11:00Speaker 5: I do a lot of personal online shopping too, but
- 11:04Speaker 5: there are a heap of things I order for the business,
- 11:06Speaker 5: like you know, new coffee, drugs and signs and stuff.
- 11:09Speaker 5: So always make sure that you shot back. And if
- 11:10Speaker 5: there's a website that sells something similar, I'll always swap
- 11:14Speaker 5: over to the one that uses shot back, just because
- 11:16Speaker 5: it's like free money.
- 11:17Speaker 4: I want cash back exactly.
- 11:19Speaker 5: Although last night I did make her Princess Polly order
- 11:22Speaker 5: while I was sitting on the couch watching TV, and
- 11:24Speaker 5: I did it on my phone on the app.
- 11:26Speaker 4: And I just didn't get your cash back.
- 11:28Speaker 5: It was like five hundred dollars as well.
- 11:31Speaker 1: I kind of want to be there. You're going to
- 11:33Speaker 1: do a hall on your Insta or something, I'll be
- 11:35Speaker 1: there for that. Oh I feel like I love perving
- 11:37Speaker 1: on other people's shopping online. I'm like, what you get
- 11:39Speaker 1: show me girl?
- 11:41Speaker 5: Yes, I know. So that was really disappointing and I
- 11:42Speaker 5: realized as soon as I checked out, I was like.
- 11:44Speaker 1: No, ohally, but that is okay. Next question is what
- 11:49Speaker 1: is your best money habit? I feel like, having learned
- 11:53Speaker 1: a little bit about you in the last few minutes,
- 11:55Speaker 1: I feel like she's got a few Jess.
- 11:58Speaker 5: Well, look, I actually struggle to think about this one
- 12:00Speaker 5: because I don't know if it's like imposter syndrome or
- 12:04Speaker 5: if it's true. But I feel like I don't necessarily
- 12:07Speaker 5: have good habits. I'm just a really really hard worker.
- 12:10Speaker 5: So like, if I want something, I will find a
- 12:13Speaker 5: way to make that money so I can have what
- 12:15Speaker 5: I want, as opposed to like me being a really
- 12:17Speaker 5: good saver or something like I just I will find
- 12:21Speaker 5: the work. I will find the time to babysit or
- 12:23Speaker 5: find another client, or I'll go and clean someone's house,
- 12:26Speaker 5: like I can always find a way to get the
- 12:28Speaker 5: money that I want.
- 12:29Speaker 3: Being a hard worker is a good habit. Like that
- 12:31Speaker 3: is You've literally just described a good habit, and it's
- 12:34Speaker 3: a very good one to have. Being willing to do
- 12:36Speaker 3: what you've got to do to like get what you want,
- 12:39Speaker 3: in saying, oh, I want it, but I don't have
- 12:41Speaker 3: it that same after pay or go and.
- 12:44Speaker 1: Get a credit card, or I'll borrow money for it,
- 12:46Speaker 1: like that mentality of like, no, if I want something,
- 12:50Speaker 1: I'm going to go work really hard to make it happen.
- 12:52Speaker 1: That's the best money. That's it, That is the best Okay,
- 12:56Speaker 1: Stent corrected in saying that if you can't think of
- 13:00Speaker 1: a good money habit, can you think of your worst
- 13:03Speaker 1: money habit?
- 13:04Speaker 5: Oh, a list as long as my arm Ah. Definitely,
- 13:08Speaker 5: I'm a bit chaotic.
- 13:09Speaker 1: Same girl.
- 13:10Speaker 5: I've never been able to stick to a budget, Like
- 13:12Speaker 5: I've tried so many budgeting tools. I don't seem to
- 13:15Speaker 5: have the discipline to be able to stick to it.
- 13:18Speaker 5: Like I'm always transferring out of my savings account, even
- 13:21Speaker 5: if I have enough money in my spending account for
- 13:23Speaker 5: my usual expenses, I'll just transfer out and make an
- 13:26Speaker 5: online order or go out for dinner or shout my friends,
- 13:30Speaker 5: which is another bad habit, which I think is a
- 13:34Speaker 5: good habit in terms of me being a nice person.
- 13:36Speaker 5: But I'm very, very generous, always spending on other people,
- 13:39Speaker 5: always offering to pay for dinner, buying gifts to people,
- 13:42Speaker 5: Like I think my love language is giving.
- 13:44Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I'm just.
- 13:45Speaker 3: Going to say his gifts your love language. UND like it.
- 13:48Speaker 5: Yeah, And I'm just like I can't stop myself.
- 13:50Speaker 1: I'm resonated with that. I don't all the time. I
- 13:53Speaker 1: think everyone in my team would be like, ah, yeah,
- 13:55Speaker 1: that's Victoria. But I don't want to change that. Like,
- 13:58Speaker 1: I love that about me and I love being in
- 14:00Speaker 1: the position where I can do that for my team,
- 14:02Speaker 1: and like, it's one thousand percent my love language. Like
- 14:06Speaker 1: I get so excited if I think of a present
- 14:08Speaker 1: that I'm like, oh my god, Jess is gonna love this.
- 14:11Speaker 1: And then I get ridiculously excited and I'm like, oh
- 14:14Speaker 1: my old it's not even a birthday. Maybe I'll just
- 14:15Speaker 1: give it to her and then just just like what
- 14:17Speaker 1: is this for?
- 14:18Speaker 4: I just got really excited.
- 14:20Speaker 5: That's me, that's me.
- 14:22Speaker 1: So fun. But if you've got a good budget and
- 14:24Speaker 1: cash flow system that's built into it, and I've worked
- 14:28Speaker 1: out over the last few years how much on average
- 14:31Speaker 1: I spend on that, and I make sure it's part
- 14:33Speaker 1: of my budget, and I think one thing you said
- 14:36Speaker 1: during that, and I'm going to talk to you after
- 14:38Speaker 1: this episode about the budgeting cash Flow masterclass that I do.
- 14:41Speaker 1: It's not necessarily about creating a budget that.
- 14:43Speaker 4: You have to quote stick to.
- 14:45Speaker 1: It's actually about tracking every dollar that goes into your
- 14:49Speaker 1: account and every dollar.
- 14:50Speaker 4: That goes out.
- 14:51Speaker 1: So it's not saying, oh, my gosh, money diarist, this month,
- 14:53Speaker 1: you have an extra one hundred dollars to spend on
- 14:56Speaker 1: your friends and your family. It's actually about going, how
- 14:59Speaker 1: much do you spend?
- 15:00Speaker 4: Do you actually know?
- 15:01Speaker 1: Because more often than not, when your love language is
- 15:04Speaker 1: gift giving, you don't really know because it's so variable.
- 15:07Speaker 1: So it's nice to have in the back of your
- 15:09Speaker 1: head that you're like, all right, well, on average, I
- 15:10Speaker 1: spend about one hundred dollars a month on that, or
- 15:12Speaker 1: two hundred dollars a month on that, or whatever it
- 15:14Speaker 1: might be. So it's not necessarily about budgeting in the
- 15:18Speaker 1: traditional sense where people feel really restricted, but rather just
- 15:22Speaker 1: being super aware of everything going in and out of
- 15:25Speaker 1: your bank accounts so that you can make decisions that
- 15:27Speaker 1: are in line with your values, so that you can go, oh, like,
- 15:31Speaker 1: maybe I shouldn't do that, and I would go maybe
- 15:34Speaker 1: you should you love that, but like that gym membership,
- 15:37Speaker 1: you're not using it? Should we get rid of it?
- 15:39Speaker 1: Because you're so aware of everything else that's going out.
- 15:42Speaker 1: So I think that it's really important to see the
- 15:44Speaker 1: difference between a cash flow plan and what traditionally was
- 15:48Speaker 1: a budget, because traditionally people would be like, oh, my
- 15:51Speaker 1: grocery budget's fifty dollars this week, and you're like, okay,
- 15:54Speaker 1: but like, what is it actually going to be? Because
- 15:57Speaker 1: that's different than what you're trying to restrict yourself to me.
- 16:00Speaker 5: Yes, yes to all of that, absolutely.
- 16:04Speaker 1: But yeah no, I would like to be better friends
- 16:06Speaker 1: with you. So next question, before we get to have
- 16:10Speaker 1: a deep dive into a few more pervy questions, is money, Darrist,
- 16:14Speaker 1: what grade would you give yourself if we forced you
- 16:16Speaker 1: to give your money?
- 16:17Speaker 4: Habits a grade.
- 16:18Speaker 5: I think I would give myself. I want to say
- 16:21Speaker 5: it'd be minus, but I'm being realistic and I think
- 16:24Speaker 5: it's probably a bee. I feel like there's so much
- 16:26Speaker 5: I want to work on in terms of like I
- 16:29Speaker 5: have the world at my feet, I have a good income,
- 16:31Speaker 5: I have the opportunity to make so much more money.
- 16:34Speaker 5: I you know, have a stable place to live, my
- 16:37Speaker 5: income is stable. I have so many tools to do
- 16:39Speaker 5: amazing things with my money for my future, but I'm
- 16:43Speaker 5: just not doing them. So I would say I have
- 16:46Speaker 5: a fair bit of a way to go, but I
- 16:49Speaker 5: think I'm definitely on the right track.
- 16:51Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I want to break down all of
- 16:53Speaker 1: that straight after this quick break.
- 17:00Speaker 4: Or at money dirist. We are back.
- 17:02Speaker 1: And one of the first things we learned about you
- 17:05Speaker 1: from when we asked you the question tell us a
- 17:08Speaker 1: little bit about your money story was that your family's
- 17:12Speaker 1: money I guess mentality and their money mindset seems to
- 17:15Speaker 1: be very different to the money mindset you have today.
- 17:18Speaker 1: How did you get there? How did you change that? Like,
- 17:22Speaker 1: how do we change that?
- 17:23Speaker 5: I met my partner, So sorry, everybody, you can't have He's.
- 17:28Speaker 1: Mine, all right, Well, Chris podcast over we had done.
- 17:33Speaker 5: I met him at UNI when I was nineteen, and
- 17:37Speaker 5: he was just so responsible, like he had his savings account,
- 17:41Speaker 5: he had his emergency fund investments.
- 17:44Speaker 1: Like what and he's he nineteen as well.
- 17:46Speaker 5: He was twenty one, so he was just a little
- 17:48Speaker 5: bit older. But I met him and I realized, like,
- 17:51Speaker 5: oh wow, you know people my age can do that.
- 17:55Speaker 5: I didn't realize people my age could do that. And
- 17:58Speaker 5: so you know, he got me to read The Barefoot Investor, which.
- 18:02Speaker 1: Such a good start, such a good start.
- 18:04Speaker 5: I didn't finish it, but I read the bit about
- 18:07Speaker 5: the buckets, and that gave me. I don't know, it
- 18:10Speaker 5: just started the shift. And I can't say I stuck
- 18:12Speaker 5: to it, but it definitely got me thinking more about
- 18:15Speaker 5: money and it started me saving towards having an emergency fund,
- 18:19Speaker 5: which I think is like the first big step. Yeah.
- 18:22Speaker 4: To me, that's the key.
- 18:23Speaker 1: That's like the biggest step anybody can make, regardless of
- 18:26Speaker 1: their financial situation, is to have an emergency fund off
- 18:30Speaker 1: to the side, so that if any expense pops up,
- 18:33Speaker 1: you can pay for it, or if any situation you
- 18:36Speaker 1: find yourself in is not a situation you want to be,
- 18:38Speaker 1: and you can actually pay to get out of it.
- 18:40Speaker 1: And I feel like that's a freedom that not everybody has.
- 18:43Speaker 1: There was a stat that came out recently that said
- 18:46Speaker 1: sixty percent of Australians don't have cash on hand if
- 18:49Speaker 1: an unexpected five hundred dollar bill came up, and I
- 18:52Speaker 1: was just like, oh, like, I don't mean to be entitled.
- 18:56Speaker 1: I mean the very very privileged position of that, would
- 19:00Speaker 1: you know it'd be a bump in the road for
- 19:02Speaker 1: me financially, But the fact that more than sixty percent
- 19:05Speaker 1: of Australians don't have access to that type of cash,
- 19:08Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, like.
- 19:09Speaker 4: That she's on the money community.
- 19:11Speaker 1: Like I feel like so many people talk about emergency
- 19:13Speaker 1: funds now and having access to cash and now it's
- 19:16Speaker 1: just I didn't feel like that was representative of our community.
- 19:20Speaker 1: But I mean, we're a money community, so that kind
- 19:23Speaker 1: of makes sense, but it just feels so limiting. And
- 19:26Speaker 1: I just want more people to have more access to
- 19:30Speaker 1: this level of financial freedom because I think that too
- 19:32Speaker 1: many times we talk about financial freedom in this superficial
- 19:35Speaker 1: kind of aspirational way that's like, oh, it's when you
- 19:38Speaker 1: reach a point in life where you can afford anything
- 19:41Speaker 1: without going to work, and you.
- 19:42Speaker 4: Go, yep, that's absolutely it.
- 19:44Speaker 1: But like, what about short term financial freedom and the
- 19:46Speaker 1: financial freedom to make the decision that is in line
- 19:48Speaker 1: with my values and my goals in the life. I'm
- 19:50Speaker 1: trying to lead like that, your emergency fund is your
- 19:54Speaker 1: first ticket to financial freedom. You hit the nail on
- 19:56Speaker 1: the head money, Darrest.
- 19:57Speaker 3: I want to know about your cafe, because yes, why
- 20:01Speaker 3: didn't I ask this? I got the good one. You
- 20:03Speaker 3: were studying, obviously, and then you got your dream job.
- 20:07Speaker 3: But I think for a lot of people, when you're
- 20:09Speaker 3: studying marketing, opening a cafe doesn't necessarily seem like a
- 20:13Speaker 3: linear jump. So I want to know what made you
- 20:16Speaker 3: choose to do it, and I guess.
- 20:18Speaker 4: We do it?
- 20:19Speaker 1: Yeah and a Yeah, we could open a cafe. It
- 20:21Speaker 1: could be peach and we only serve oak laugh taste.
- 20:24Speaker 5: That's that's me. That's what we do. That's exactly it.
- 20:26Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, do you actually oat milk.
- 20:28Speaker 5: Is our best selling alternative milk?
- 20:30Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, yes.
- 20:32Speaker 5: Yeah. So it was a bit of a situation. I
- 20:33Speaker 5: was working in hospitality at the time and we had
- 20:39Speaker 5: moved to where we live currently, and I was driving
- 20:42Speaker 5: forty minutes to do six am opens in hospitality at
- 20:46Speaker 5: my old job. Rough and I loved it there. It
- 20:48Speaker 5: was great. I loved my team, but you know, it
- 20:51Speaker 5: was a bit wrong. It's a lot, yeah, And I
- 20:54Speaker 5: was so tired. And then my mum and stepdad decided
- 20:59Speaker 5: they wanted to open a business. They wanted to open
- 21:01Speaker 5: a record store, so they were looking for a venue
- 21:05Speaker 5: to do that in and they found this amazing venue
- 21:08Speaker 5: where we live, and it had a little cafe space
- 21:12Speaker 5: already set up inside, not a space, it had the
- 21:15Speaker 5: plumbing and the electricity for a cafe. It was empty.
- 21:18Speaker 5: And they said, would you want to open up a
- 21:21Speaker 5: business in here or would you want to manage a
- 21:23Speaker 5: business if we opened it? And at first I was like, no,
- 21:26Speaker 5: I absolutely do not want to do that. I'm studying
- 21:29Speaker 5: full time, I have a job, I have a mortgage.
- 21:31Speaker 5: I'm not going to open a business like go Away.
- 21:33Speaker 5: And then I thought about it more and I just
- 21:36Speaker 5: sort of thought, like, I do only live once, why not,
- 21:40Speaker 5: Like I have an amazing partner who would support me
- 21:43Speaker 5: through anything, I have the ability to work another job.
- 21:47Speaker 5: Why not just do it? So I just did it.
- 21:49Speaker 5: I think it cost me about ten thousand dollars and
- 21:52Speaker 5: a million hours to open it up. I sourced everything
- 21:57Speaker 5: from marketplace or second hand and from op shops, even
- 22:01Speaker 5: like the counter and everything, so got everything secondhand.
- 22:05Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, how good.
- 22:06Speaker 5: Yeah, And I really wanted to do that from a
- 22:08Speaker 5: sustainability point of view, and obviously from a monetary point
- 22:12Speaker 5: of view as well. And then for the first seven
- 22:16Speaker 5: months of operating. It was just me there every single day.
- 22:20Speaker 5: I was exhausted. I was still studying full time, but
- 22:24Speaker 5: obviously it was during COVID, so it was online, so
- 22:26Speaker 5: I was like I'd have my laptop there with a
- 22:30Speaker 5: lecture on while I was like making coffees. And it
- 22:33Speaker 5: was really hard. It was really hard work. But then
- 22:36Speaker 5: I got to the point where I could hire one
- 22:37Speaker 5: staff member and then another and then another and now
- 22:40Speaker 5: you're thriving. Yeah, So it was a really amazing journey
- 22:45Speaker 5: and I'm really grateful. It's definitely the best thing I've
- 22:47Speaker 5: ever done in my life. And at the moment, it like,
- 22:50Speaker 5: obviously I still do work for it. There's a lot
- 22:53Speaker 5: of behind the scenes work, but I would almost say
- 22:56Speaker 5: like it's passive income. I get about seven hundred dollars
- 22:59Speaker 5: a week just coming in from that without me having
- 23:02Speaker 5: to work there, which is the best feeling.
- 23:05Speaker 4: It is so lovely, who are you?
- 23:07Speaker 3: And that's a business that you can build up and
- 23:09Speaker 3: nurture and potentially one day if you wanted to, you
- 23:11Speaker 3: could sell it on. Like you're building up something really
- 23:14Speaker 3: valuable there. I feel like, how do you go juggling
- 23:17Speaker 3: all of that back end admin? Because Anyone who has
- 23:20Speaker 3: ever run a small business would know that admin is
- 23:22Speaker 3: where your time just disappears down a hole. How do
- 23:26Speaker 3: you go with that? And then your current full time
- 23:28Speaker 3: marketing role plus your freelance work as well.
- 23:31Speaker 5: It's definitely a lot of it is done on the
- 23:33Speaker 5: couch at night or I give plasma every two weeks
- 23:38Speaker 5: to the blood bank, and that is my time.
- 23:40Speaker 1: So she's just like an all round, really wholesome person.
- 23:43Speaker 4: I'm obsessed with you.
- 23:45Speaker 5: Well, that process takes about two hours, so that is
- 23:47Speaker 5: my time where like there's no one there to distract me.
- 23:49Speaker 5: I just knuckle down. I do the pays, I do
- 23:52Speaker 5: the rostering, I do any ordering, I need to pay
- 23:55Speaker 5: any invoices, Like I really try and just use that
- 23:57Speaker 5: time to like smash it up the Fortnite cure?
- 24:01Speaker 1: Are you Like you're just like this awesome human. But
- 24:04Speaker 1: that's also a really good point. Giving plasma does take time,
- 24:08Speaker 1: but you're using it effectively and it's something that the
- 24:10Speaker 1: blood bank needs more of, right, I.
- 24:12Speaker 3: Heard on the radio this morning they're really in need
- 24:14Speaker 3: of I think own negative.
- 24:16Speaker 1: Or something there, because that's the most useful time blood.
- 24:19Speaker 3: Don't know, just sliding that in there if you can
- 24:22Speaker 3: give blood, doo like, it's a really easy thing to
- 24:24Speaker 3: do that, and they have free snacks, they give you
- 24:26Speaker 3: free snacks. They're really kind and you literally can change
- 24:29Speaker 3: somebody's life. So if anyone's been thinking about it, you
- 24:30Speaker 3: can book online, take a leaf out of our money
- 24:32Speaker 3: Direst's book. You can donate plasma, or you can donate blood.
- 24:36Speaker 3: Blood is a lot less frequent I think. I don't
- 24:38Speaker 3: think it's every.
- 24:38Speaker 5: Two weeks, but it's every three months.
- 24:40Speaker 3: They go, she's an expert.
- 24:42Speaker 4: So it's not even that bigger commitment.
- 24:44Speaker 1: If you're just donating blood, it's just once every three months,
- 24:46Speaker 1: and then you can tell people how good you are.
- 24:48Speaker 4: I love that.
- 24:49Speaker 3: But what a clever way to use that time to
- 24:50Speaker 3: be doing something that's obviously important to you and you
- 24:53Speaker 3: know you obviously want to give back or support in
- 24:56Speaker 3: that way, but then to also be like, I'm just
- 24:58Speaker 3: going to bring my laptop along with me. I think
- 25:00Speaker 3: that's an incredible testament to your mentality.
- 25:02Speaker 5: It's a matter of like finding time and I could
- 25:06Speaker 5: just be sitting there watching tiktoks because it's like, oh,
- 25:08Speaker 5: I'm already doing something hard. There's a needle in my
- 25:11Speaker 5: arm for doing Yeah, don't you attack me like that.
- 25:15Speaker 5: But instead, I'm just trying to find the time where
- 25:17Speaker 5: I can. So like when I was studying as well,
- 25:20Speaker 5: I would be cooking dinner and I'd have my lectures on. Like,
- 25:22Speaker 5: I'm just trying to find time where I can, and
- 25:25Speaker 5: it's definitely helped me manage myself better.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, not to be too pervy, but how
- 25:31Speaker 1: does your mental health go with all of that. I
- 25:34Speaker 1: know that mine ends up being incredibly overwhelmed, and I
- 25:37Speaker 1: feel like I recently in particular, have just like burnt
- 25:40Speaker 1: myself out. Is that something where you're just in the
- 25:44Speaker 1: I guess in the depths of it and you're like no, nothing,
- 25:47Speaker 1: or is that something that you have to work on regularly.
- 25:49Speaker 5: It definitely comes in goes in waves, like I have
- 25:52Speaker 5: my struggles. We all have our struggles, and sometimes it
- 25:55Speaker 5: all is a bit too much. I'm a bit of
- 25:56Speaker 5: a crier and I'm sad about once a month I
- 26:02Speaker 5: will just like fully just like, oh it's all too much,
- 26:05Speaker 5: Like I'm doing too much. I can't do it. When
- 26:07Speaker 5: I get burnt out and overwhelmed, it's a case of
- 26:10Speaker 5: stepping back from things that I don't need to be doing,
- 26:12Speaker 5: so I'll step back from doing some extra work on
- 26:15Speaker 5: the copywriting business, or I'll stop going to the gym
- 26:18Speaker 5: for a couple of days, or you know, if I've
- 26:21Speaker 5: committed to doing some extra stuff for the cafe, I'll
- 26:23Speaker 5: just step back from that and have a bit of
- 26:26Speaker 5: a reset, watch some TV, like just relax, and then
- 26:29Speaker 5: I can come back refresh. So it's definitely just listening
- 26:32Speaker 5: to my body.
- 26:33Speaker 1: I feel like that's such an important question to ask,
- 26:36Speaker 1: especially when you sound like the bigger I don't want
- 26:38Speaker 1: to use the term girl boss because I hate that
- 26:40Speaker 1: tis so gross, but like, you just sound like the
- 26:43Speaker 1: biggest boss, and I'm obsessed with it. But I also go, oh,
- 26:47Speaker 1: like sometimes when listening to podcasts like this or seeing
- 26:50Speaker 1: social media, you just only see the shiny sides of
- 26:53Speaker 1: it where you're like, wow, she's so impressive if she
- 26:55Speaker 1: has this business, and you know he's doing UNI and
- 26:58Speaker 1: has this epic job and so does all these awesome things,
- 27:01Speaker 1: and it's kind of like, no, let's like normalize the
- 27:03Speaker 1: fact that, like we also break and sometimes we are
- 27:07Speaker 1: really fragile, and it's important to talk about these things
- 27:10Speaker 1: because if we don't how is somebody else going to
- 27:13Speaker 1: go all right, I'm going to give it a crack
- 27:15Speaker 1: when they're like, oh, but you know, I'm not a
- 27:17Speaker 1: thousand percent mentally equipped for this, and it's like, no, no, no,
- 27:20Speaker 1: you do it anyway. And when there is a will,
- 27:22Speaker 1: there is a way.
- 27:23Speaker 5: Obviously, because the cafe's first birthday is coming up in
- 27:26Speaker 5: a couple of weeks, I've been doing a lot of
- 27:27Speaker 5: reflecting and I look back and I find it so
- 27:30Speaker 5: amazing how I was able to do it at the start,
- 27:34Speaker 5: and I think that gives me a lot of strength
- 27:35Speaker 5: as well, is like looking back from where I've come from,
- 27:39Speaker 5: and it really motivates me to keep going. I don't know,
- 27:42Speaker 5: just like finding strength in my past self. It's like
- 27:45Speaker 5: my past self would be so proud of the fact
- 27:48Speaker 5: that I'm not having to get up at five am
- 27:50Speaker 5: every day and work there. So for her, I'm going
- 27:53Speaker 5: to go ahead and plan this event. I'm going to
- 27:55Speaker 5: go ahead and reach out to these new suppliers, Like
- 27:57Speaker 5: it's very much. I'm a big fan of doing things
- 27:59Speaker 5: for my past self to make her proud.
- 28:01Speaker 1: Oh so so she's so wholeome. Blood donating plasma donating
- 28:06Speaker 1: legend I'm obsessed with you. I said that before, but
- 28:09Speaker 1: I genuinely am.
- 28:10Speaker 4: And I think that that's.
- 28:11Speaker 1: Such a good place to position it as well, Like,
- 28:15Speaker 1: can you imagine if we sat you down and said,
- 28:17Speaker 1: all right, money direst Like, in another year, you're going
- 28:20Speaker 1: to have an epic business of your own. You're going
- 28:22Speaker 1: to be doing all these things, Like would you ever
- 28:24Speaker 1: believed that?
- 28:25Speaker 5: No? No, exactly.
- 28:27Speaker 1: So I think it's so cool to look back and
- 28:29Speaker 1: be like, oh my gosh, she was doing it. She
- 28:31Speaker 1: didn't necessarily believe in it, but she was full of
- 28:34Speaker 1: the hustle, and now you do. I just feel like
- 28:37Speaker 1: it's so so kind to look back on past self
- 28:40Speaker 1: with like kind eyes. And we always say that, you know,
- 28:43Speaker 1: past self was just doing the best that they could
- 28:45Speaker 1: and they just don't know how good it can end
- 28:48Speaker 1: up being.
- 28:49Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm very proud. I'm very proud of myself.
- 28:51Speaker 1: Oh I'm glad you should be. We're proud of you.
- 28:54Speaker 3: Speaking of your job, I want to talk about your
- 28:57Speaker 3: marketing role as well, because you're doing this whole other thing.
- 29:00Speaker 3: You know, you've got a business and you've got a
- 29:02Speaker 3: whole other section of your life with your full time
- 29:04Speaker 3: role which is a six year role, which is incredible.
- 29:06Speaker 3: It's not common for someone to graduate, step out of
- 29:09Speaker 3: UNI and then jump straight into a role that pays
- 29:12Speaker 3: so well. Did you negotiate that salary? How did you
- 29:16Speaker 3: come across this job? Because typically anyone who's taken a
- 29:19Speaker 3: position will note that it's usually a little bit of
- 29:22Speaker 3: the hard slog, doing your due diligence, your time in
- 29:25Speaker 3: with the trenches, and generally the pay's not great. So
- 29:29Speaker 3: what did you do differently that maybe other people can
- 29:32Speaker 3: try implement as well.
- 29:33Speaker 5: So the company that I work for I used to
- 29:36Speaker 5: when I was in UNI. I was freelancing for a
- 29:39Speaker 5: copywriting agency who this company was one of their clients,
- 29:44Speaker 5: so I was familiar with the business. I'd already done
- 29:46Speaker 5: some work for them. Unfortunately, I was unable to continue
- 29:50Speaker 5: my job with that marketing agency, and then I saw
- 29:54Speaker 5: this role come up. I saw it on Instagram, I think,
- 29:57Speaker 5: and they were hiring an executive. They were hiring someone
- 29:59Speaker 5: with years experience, they wanted all of these things, and
- 30:02Speaker 5: I was like, I don't have that. But it was
- 30:04Speaker 5: a sort of a like a matter of I'm not
- 30:06Speaker 5: desperate for the job, so why not try? And so
- 30:10Speaker 5: I tried and I had an interview, and then my
- 30:13Speaker 5: boss flew up from Sydney so we could properly meet
- 30:16Speaker 5: up for an interview, and it was just amazing, like
- 30:19Speaker 5: we got along so well, and even though I was
- 30:21Speaker 5: obviously lucky in some areas because I only had about
- 30:24Speaker 5: a year's experience, she just she was happy for me
- 30:27Speaker 5: to come on anyway. So that was a really great
- 30:29Speaker 5: starting point. And when we spoke about salary, I was
- 30:33Speaker 5: absolutely shocked because I assumed that because I wasn't meeting
- 30:36Speaker 5: all of everything they wanted for that role, I wasn't
- 30:39Speaker 5: going to get paid the salary that they'd put aside.
- 30:41Speaker 5: But when she told me, I was just absolutely gobsmacked.
- 30:46Speaker 5: I was super happy with it. But again, I really
- 30:51Speaker 5: wide up. I was like, that's a great role and
- 30:53Speaker 5: a great salary, but considering everything else in my life,
- 30:58Speaker 5: is it enough? So I did negotiate it to be
- 31:00Speaker 5: a little bit higher because I did have to let
- 31:03Speaker 5: a couple of my freelancing clients go, and so I
- 31:06Speaker 5: just wanted to sort of balance that for myself. It
- 31:07Speaker 5: was obviously a bit of a risk, and yeah, they
- 31:10Speaker 5: were happy for me to negotiate, and once I'm off probation,
- 31:14Speaker 5: which will be next month.
- 31:15Speaker 4: Exciting.
- 31:16Speaker 5: We've agreed on a pay rise as well. Then what Yeah,
- 31:20Speaker 5: so it's really great and I'm very happy with it.
- 31:22Speaker 5: I think it was just a matter of like, obviously
- 31:24Speaker 5: I cared, I cared very deeply, but it was not
- 31:26Speaker 5: being scared and just going for it and just giving
- 31:28Speaker 5: it a go, because the worst they can say is no,
- 31:31Speaker 5: and then you can reevaluate and it's like, oh, it's fine,
- 31:35Speaker 5: that's so true.
- 31:35Speaker 3: Research shows that women will only apply for roles if
- 31:39Speaker 3: they feel like they meet I think it was like
- 31:41Speaker 3: ninety percent. Yeah, that delistic criteria, whereas men would apply
- 31:46Speaker 3: if they met like sixty percent or something.
- 31:49Speaker 1: I'm not, no, no, no, that feels really right. Yeah, even
- 31:52Speaker 1: if not the premise of that comment is exactly on point.
- 31:56Speaker 1: Where did you find your audacity? Did you borrow it
- 31:59Speaker 1: from a medio commit age white man, or like just
- 32:02Speaker 1: made yourself.
- 32:03Speaker 5: I was definitely inspired by you guys, like you've said
- 32:06Speaker 5: that statisticians are and I said that to my partner.
- 32:09Speaker 5: I was like, who cares if I don't meet all
- 32:12Speaker 5: of these you know, I meet some of them and
- 32:14Speaker 5: I have things that they're not asking for. I know
- 32:17Speaker 5: the company, I know what they do. I've worked with
- 32:19Speaker 5: them before, so why not Like I can offer other
- 32:22Speaker 5: things that isn't three to five years experience, And yeah,
- 32:26Speaker 5: it just paid off.
- 32:27Speaker 3: The worst I can pay is now. And if you
- 32:28Speaker 3: get a rejection email, it just goes in the trash
- 32:30Speaker 3: with all the other ones. Right's I love that. I
- 32:32Speaker 3: think more people should do that.
- 32:33Speaker 1: Yeah, you love that because you did that.
- 32:35Speaker 4: You did that for your job.
- 32:36Speaker 1: So when Jess applied for her role, she met basically
- 32:39Speaker 1: none of the criteria, but she was some of them.
- 32:41Speaker 1: No no, no, but like for a content creation role,
- 32:44Speaker 1: You're like, I've never done this before, but look at
- 32:46Speaker 1: all my stuff. Look how smart I am, Look how
- 32:48Speaker 1: great I am at this. Jess went above and beyond.
- 32:50Speaker 1: I'm not meaning to embarrass you. I'm just impressed. She
- 32:53Speaker 1: not only did the application, she submitted her resumetion, wrote
- 32:57Speaker 1: a gorgeous cover letter. Jess, she actually filmed an entire
- 33:01Speaker 1: private YouTube video explaining to me exactly why she would
- 33:05Speaker 1: be perfect for the job. And I was like, oh, okay,
- 33:08Speaker 1: sit down, come in. And I knew that I was
- 33:10Speaker 1: going to hire her before i'd even met her, because
- 33:12Speaker 1: I was like, who goes that above and beyond for
- 33:14Speaker 1: a job. But Jess was like, no, if I want it,
- 33:17Speaker 1: I'm going to go for it, and those are the
- 33:19Speaker 1: types of people I want on my team. So I
- 33:21Speaker 1: fully back your mentality and I think more people should
- 33:24Speaker 1: do it because you're right. Money Diarist nearly used your name,
- 33:28Speaker 1: but you are so right. What's the worst I can say? No, Sorry,
- 33:31Speaker 1: we actually need need that five years experience. You're going,
- 33:34Speaker 1: no problems. Thanks for getting back to me.
- 33:35Speaker 5: I'll apply in five years.
- 33:37Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, see them bab bye. No, Oh my gosh,
- 33:41Speaker 1: I love that. I feel like you have been such
- 33:43Speaker 1: an inspirational Money Diarist. But the last question I want
- 33:45Speaker 1: to ask you is, actually, what if we're at UNI
- 33:49Speaker 1: and we're thinking of starting a side hustle but we
- 33:51Speaker 1: are terrified, what do you think we should be doing.
- 33:54Speaker 5: Make sure you're surrounded by people who will support you,
- 33:58Speaker 5: not necessarily financially, but who will you know lift you
- 34:01Speaker 5: up and give you the mental and emotional support that
- 34:04Speaker 5: you need. And if you have someone who you know
- 34:07Speaker 5: will catch you if you fall, that's also really helpful.
- 34:10Speaker 5: What I did was I made sure so I was
- 34:12Speaker 5: freelancing at the time, and I made sure that, like
- 34:15Speaker 5: I was still going to be doing that, I still
- 34:17Speaker 5: had a bit of money coming in. I made sure
- 34:19Speaker 5: that my expenses could be covered, so whether that's sent
- 34:22Speaker 5: Link or another job or parents or whatever, made sure
- 34:26Speaker 5: that my bills would be paid. And then I just
- 34:29Speaker 5: went for it. Like I just went for it because
- 34:31Speaker 5: what's the worst that could happen if the business failed.
- 34:34Speaker 5: I still had experience in hospitality. I could get another
- 34:36Speaker 5: hospitality job so easily, and you know, often if you try,
- 34:41Speaker 5: and if you're passionate and if you you know, really
- 34:43Speaker 5: work hard, it will pay off. So yeah, that's what
- 34:46Speaker 5: I'd say. It's just make sure that you're supported and
- 34:48Speaker 5: you're comfortable, and then just just take the leap and
- 34:51Speaker 5: do it.
- 34:51Speaker 1: I feel like that is really really important advice. And
- 34:54Speaker 1: I think to add to that, you're in the position
- 34:57Speaker 1: that I was in when I started, you know, doing
- 34:59Speaker 1: my own thing. I started what was at Zella. I
- 35:02Speaker 1: was twenty three when I started that, and I think
- 35:05Speaker 1: that people all thought I was crazy, and I was
- 35:07Speaker 1: at the time. It was kind of like, oh, you know,
- 35:11Speaker 1: I didn't have a partner. Then I was in a
- 35:13Speaker 1: position where I was living in a sharehouse. I'd worked
- 35:16Speaker 1: out what my expenses were, and I knew that I
- 35:18Speaker 1: could start a business. If I had like a part
- 35:21Speaker 1: time job on the side, I could still cover my bills.
- 35:24Speaker 1: And I was in the very privileged position of, you know,
- 35:26Speaker 1: being young, educated, not having any financial responsibilities like children
- 35:31Speaker 1: or you know, a partner that wasn't working or something
- 35:33Speaker 1: like that. And I was like, well, if this doesn't
- 35:35Speaker 1: work out, I'll just go find another job and I'll
- 35:37Speaker 1: call it a learning. And I just think so many
- 35:40Speaker 1: more of us need to back ourselves in that way,
- 35:42Speaker 1: because yes, I was very naive and it was much
- 35:45Speaker 1: harder than I thought.
- 35:46Speaker 4: It was going to be.
- 35:47Speaker 1: But it's gotten me to this position that I desperately
- 35:50Speaker 1: wanted to be in and didn't know I wanted to
- 35:52Speaker 1: be in today, And it looks like you're in exactly
- 35:54Speaker 1: that same position, and it just makes me so proud
- 35:56Speaker 1: that you're like, no, I just did it, and I'm like, Okay.
- 35:59Speaker 5: It was really scary because we'd bought a house four
- 36:01Speaker 5: months before, so it was she.
- 36:03Speaker 1: Was very to me.
- 36:04Speaker 4: I didn't have a mortgage.
- 36:06Speaker 5: Yeah, it was terrifying. It was honestly really terrifying. But again,
- 36:10Speaker 5: I made sure that I could pay the mortgage, my
- 36:12Speaker 5: half of the mortgage with the what was it, I
- 36:14Speaker 5: was bringing like two hundred and fifty dollars a week,
- 36:16Speaker 5: and I was like, yeah, that's fine, I can do it.
- 36:19Speaker 5: And then I was really lucky that I didn't operate
- 36:22Speaker 5: a loss for too long and could start paying myself
- 36:24Speaker 5: from the cafe and then the rest of history.
- 36:27Speaker 4: So good.
- 36:28Speaker 1: Well, congratulations on that, and congratulations to one year in
- 36:31Speaker 1: business very soon.
- 36:33Speaker 4: That is so exciting.
- 36:34Speaker 1: And I hope that you're not just celebrating it with
- 36:37Speaker 1: like the event you were talking about with the cafe,
- 36:39Speaker 1: but I hope you go out for dinner with family
- 36:41Speaker 1: and friends and just like actually celebrate it, because that's
- 36:44Speaker 1: one thing that if I look back on it, I
- 36:46Speaker 1: wish I'd celebrated those milestones a bit more. I will
- 36:50Speaker 1: thank you, thank you to do it for me, but
- 36:52Speaker 1: thank you so much. I think that is jess all.
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