How Emotional Intelligence Breaks The Blame Cycle In Relationships
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The most toxic sentence in an argument might be only four words: “Well, you do.” When we answer a complaint with a counter-complaint, the conflict stops being about dishes, tone, schedules, or parenting and turns into a contest to prove who’s worse. I’m Doc David, and I break down why that reflex is a sign of low emotional intelligence, not as an insult, but as a clear map of what’s happening in real time when couples get stuck.
We start with the common pattern I see in therapy: one partner raises a concern, the other partner fires back with a “you too,” and…
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