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24 - How Objectification Was Destroying My Relationship with Aaron Bartell
A lot of men think the problem in their relationship is sex.
That's what Aaron thought too.
For almost a decade, he lived in the same cycle most men never escape. Pressure. Frustration. Insecurity. Distance. Temporary connection followed by another rupture.
And underneath all of it was one thing he couldn't see:
Objectification.
Not just porn. Not just looking at other women. But the constant leaking of masculine energy that makes a woman feel unseen, unsafe, and emotionally disconnected.
In this conversation, Aaron shares how hearing the words "I don't feel seen, heard, or safe" completely…
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