Latest / Faithful Fitness With Coach Alex VanHouten / You Don’t Get Extra Credit for Suffering | Menopause in the Light Part 4
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hey Faithful, welcome to the Faithful Fitness Podcast. In a moment,
- 0:05Speaker 1: my dad, Coach Alex Van Houten, will help you honor
- 0:07Speaker 1: God by making the most out of the body God's
- 0:10Speaker 1: given you. Today you can expect truth from the Bible,
- 0:13Speaker 1: tools from science, and guidance for everyday life. So listen
- 0:17Speaker 1: close and get ready. Let's get 1% better today.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Hey there, Coach Alex here. Grace and peace to you.
- 0:28Speaker 2: And welcome to part four. the final episode of our
- 0:31Speaker 2: Menopause in the Light series. For these four episodes, I've
- 0:35Speaker 2: wanted to talk directly to you about something I've watched
- 0:38Speaker 2: women wrestle with for more than two decades, perimenopause, menopause,
- 0:44Speaker 2: and how to faithfully steward a woman's body through this
- 0:46Speaker 2: enormous season of transition. Before we get into today's conversation,
- 0:51Speaker 2: I want to remind you of something important about this
- 0:53Speaker 2: entire series. My goal has not been to give you
- 0:56Speaker 2: a hundred things to worry about, It's not been to
- 0:59Speaker 2: convince you that every symptom needs a supplement, medication, hormone panel,
- 1:03Speaker 2: new diet, or training program. Actually, quite the opposite. I
- 1:08Speaker 2: want you to become better at identifying what matters. What
- 1:12Speaker 2: doesn't matter? Where am I doing well? Where am I
- 1:16Speaker 2: getting stuck? And what is my next faithful step? Because
- 1:20Speaker 2: information without clarity can become its own kind of overwhelm.
- 1:24Speaker 2: And that's one reason I created the Faithful Fitness Assessment.
- 1:28Speaker 2: If you've been listening to this series and thinking, okay, Alex,
- 1:30Speaker 2: I understand more now, but I don't know what I
- 1:33Speaker 2: personally need to work on first. That's exactly what this
- 1:37Speaker 2: is for. It's a short assessment built around the four
- 1:40Speaker 2: faithful fitness anchors of integrity, grit, growth, and awe. You'll
- 1:46Speaker 2: get a personal report showing you where you're strong, where
- 1:50Speaker 2: there may be gaps, and where I think your attention
- 1:53Speaker 2: belongs next. And your assessment also reserves your place in
- 1:57Speaker 2: the next live Faithful Fitness workshop, where I'll help you
- 2:00Speaker 2: actually interpret what you found and decide what to do
- 2:04Speaker 2: with it. I'll tell you how to get it at
- 2:05Speaker 2: the end of today's episode. But first, let's finish the series.
- 2:10Speaker 2: Because sometimes you can train well, you can eat well,
- 2:13Speaker 2: you can pray, you can work on your stress, you
- 2:16Speaker 2: can create good routines, and you can still need help.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Medical help. And I want to say something right at
- 2:23Speaker 2: the beginning today. that some of you need permission to hear.
- 2:27Speaker 2: You don't get extra credit for suffering more than you
- 2:31Speaker 2: need to. There's a kind of toughness that I respect enormously.
- 2:35Speaker 2: I've built much of my career around grit, doing hard things,
- 2:39Speaker 2: keeping your commitments, learning that discomfort isn't an emergency. But
- 2:44Speaker 2: wisdom means knowing the difference between discomfort that should be
- 2:48Speaker 2: endured and suffering that should be treated. Those are not
- 2:53Speaker 2: the same thing. If you're getting stronger in the gym
- 2:57Speaker 2: and the last three repetitions are hard, good. That's training.
- 3:01Speaker 2: If you're waking up six times every night, drenched in
- 3:04Speaker 2: sweat for two years, and you're barely functioning, you don't
- 3:08Speaker 2: need me to tell you to have more grit. You
- 3:10Speaker 2: need some help. If intimacy has become painful because the
- 3:14Speaker 2: tissues down south have changed, if your mood has changed
- 3:17Speaker 2: so significantly that you don't recognize yourself, it's time to
- 3:21Speaker 2: talk to somebody. If you're bleeding in a way that
- 3:24Speaker 2: seems unusual, Don't assume, well, I guess that's just menopause.
- 3:28Speaker 2: Get evaluated. There's a difference between accepting the realities of
- 3:33Speaker 2: aging and needlessly surrendering your quality of life. And I
- 3:37Speaker 2: don't believe faithful stewardship requires the second. Sometimes stewardship means
- 3:42Speaker 2: lifting the weight. Sometimes stewardship means putting down the fork.
- 3:47Speaker 2: And sometimes stewardship means making the appointment. Now, before we
- 3:51Speaker 2: talk about hormones, I need to clear something up. Today,
- 3:53Speaker 2: we're going to talk about hormone replacement therapy. You'll hear
- 3:56Speaker 2: it called HRT, but you'll also hear menopausal hormone therapy
- 4:02Speaker 2: or MHT. And before I get into it, let me
- 4:07Speaker 2: make my role clear to you. I'm an exercise scientist
- 4:11Speaker 2: and a coach. I'm not your physician. I'm not prescribing
- 4:14Speaker 2: hormones on a podcast. And there are individual factors. Your
- 4:19Speaker 2: medical history, age, symptoms, family history, medications you're currently taking,
- 4:27Speaker 2: cancer history, cardiovascular history, reproductive history. Quite a bit of
- 4:32Speaker 2: data that's specific to you that matters enormously here. So
- 4:36Speaker 2: this part of the conversation is about helping you become
- 4:39Speaker 2: an informed participant in your own health care. Not diagnosing
- 4:43Speaker 2: yourself and not buying hormones on the internet. Definitely not
- 4:47Speaker 2: walking into your doctor's office demanding a prescription because Coach
- 4:50Speaker 2: Alex talked about estrogen. Today we're going to learn to
- 4:53Speaker 2: ask better questions. Hormone therapy is not the devil, and
- 4:57Speaker 2: it's not your savior. For years, hormone replacement therapy has
- 5:01Speaker 2: been discussed in incredibly polarizing ways. One side says, hormones
- 5:06Speaker 2: are dangerous, avoid them. The other side says, every woman
- 5:10Speaker 2: over 40 should be on hormones. I don't think either
- 5:13Speaker 2: position respects the complexity of the evidence. Menopausal hormone therapy
- 5:18Speaker 2: is medicine, and medicine has indications, benefits, risks, contraindications, different formulations,
- 5:29Speaker 2: different routes, different doses, different goals, and different risk-benefit profiles
- 5:35Speaker 2: for different women. Current international menopause guidance identifies menopausal hormone
- 5:40Speaker 2: therapy as the most effective treatment for bothersome hot flashes
- 5:44Speaker 2: and night sweats. For the treatment of those symptoms, it's
- 5:47Speaker 2: typically considered especially appropriate in women younger than 60 and
- 5:51Speaker 2: within about 10 years of menopause onset, after individual risks
- 5:55Speaker 2: and benefits have been evaluated. Now that doesn't mean everyone
- 5:58Speaker 2: should take estrogen. It means the old culture idea that
- 6:03Speaker 2: hormone therapy is inherently reckless medicine is not an accurate
- 6:06Speaker 2: representation of the current evidence. And something major happened very recently.
- 6:11Speaker 2: On February 12, 2026, the FDA approved labeling changes for
- 6:16Speaker 2: six menopausal hormone therapy products that removed references to cardiovascular disease,
- 6:22Speaker 2: breast cancer, and probable dementia from their boxed warnings. That's significant.
- 6:29Speaker 2: But listen carefully. Removing language from a boxed warning doesn't
- 6:34Speaker 2: mean that every risk disappeared. And that's exactly the kind
- 6:37Speaker 2: of bad interpretation I don't want us making. The ACOG
- 6:41Speaker 2: still emphasizes that that risks vary based on the woman,
- 6:46Speaker 2: the formulation, the route of administration, age, timing, and medical history.
- 6:51Speaker 2: Systemic hormone therapy is generally not recommended for women with
- 6:55Speaker 2: histories such as certain breast or endometrial cancers, stroke, heart attack,
- 6:59Speaker 2: blood clots, or liver disease. So your coach's position is this.
- 7:05Speaker 2: Don't fear hormones because of outdated blanket statements. And don't
- 7:10Speaker 2: romanticize hormones because they're having a cultural moment. Evaluate them
- 7:15Speaker 2: intelligently with a medical professional you trust for your specific situation.
- 7:21Speaker 2: But for your information, let's talk about what estrogen actually helps.
- 7:26Speaker 2: The best established role for systemic estrogen therapy is symptom treatment.
- 7:31Speaker 2: Hot flashes, night sweats, and systemic estrogen also helps protect
- 7:36Speaker 2: against the accelerated bone loss that occurs in menopause. For
- 7:39Speaker 2: women who still have a uterus, systemic estrogen typically needs
- 7:43Speaker 2: to be paired with a progesterone because estrogen used alone
- 7:47Speaker 2: can stimulate the uterine lining and increase the risk of
- 7:50Speaker 2: endometrial cancer. That's an important detail because sometimes online hormone
- 7:55Speaker 2: conversations sound like this. Estrogen makes me feel amazing. Okay, well,
- 8:00Speaker 2: do you have a uterus? What else are you taking?
- 8:03Speaker 2: What dose? What route?
- 8:05Speaker 1: Why?
- 8:05Speaker 2: Those details matter. And this is why advice related to
- 8:09Speaker 2: hormone therapy belongs in an actual medical relationship, not in
- 8:14Speaker 2: a TikTok reel. Here's an example. Oral administration versus transdermal
- 8:19Speaker 2: administration matters. Hormone therapy isn't one single thing. Estrogen itself
- 8:25Speaker 2: can be delivered orally, through a patch, through gels or sprays,
- 8:30Speaker 2: and even a local preparation that we can talk about
- 8:32Speaker 2: in a minute. Different routes have different considerations. The ACOG
- 8:37Speaker 2: notes that patches, sprays, and rings are may carry less
- 8:41Speaker 2: risk of blood clots than estrogen taken orally in some women.
- 8:45Speaker 2: And this is exactly why asking, is HRT safe for me,
- 8:48Speaker 2: isn't exactly the right question. A better question is, for me,
- 8:53Speaker 2: given my symptoms and medical history, what are the likely
- 8:56Speaker 2: benefits and the risks of this formulation, this route, and
- 9:01Speaker 2: this dose? That is an adult healthcare question. Now with
- 9:04Speaker 2: that in mind, let me save you some money. you
- 9:07Speaker 2: probably don't need a $ 600 hormone panel. Perimenopause hormones fluctuate.
- 9:13Speaker 2: That's part of the problem. Your estrogen on Tuesday can
- 9:16Speaker 2: look very different from your estrogen in another point in
- 9:19Speaker 2: the transition. So for a woman of typical perimenopausal age,
- 9:23Speaker 2: with characteristic symptoms and menstrual changes, extensive hormone testing often
- 9:28Speaker 2: isn't necessary to establish that she's in perimenopause or to
- 9:33Speaker 2: begin discussing treatment. The ACOG specifically says that hormone testing
- 9:38Speaker 2: generally isn't recommended before beginning hormone therapy for menopausal symptoms,
- 9:44Speaker 2: because levels fluctuate so much during the transition that a
- 9:47Speaker 2: single measurement often doesn't give useful information. Now, there are exceptions.
- 9:53Speaker 2: If symptoms occur, unusually young, or something about the presentation
- 9:57Speaker 2: doesn't fit, testing may be appropriate. But be careful when
- 10:01Speaker 2: someone tells you, we need this expensive proprietary panel of blood, urine,
- 10:06Speaker 2: and saliva tests to perfectly balance out your hormones. The
- 10:10Speaker 2: ACOG notes that there are no FDA-approved salivary or urinary
- 10:15Speaker 2: tests for steroid hormone measurement for this purpose. Your body's
- 10:19Speaker 2: not a dashboard where every hormone needs to sit on
- 10:22Speaker 2: some perfect middle line. Remember, we're treating people, not spreadsheets.
- 10:26Speaker 2: And I've heard from many women that individuals selling various
- 10:29Speaker 2: hormone products and services have told them that they want
- 10:32Speaker 2: to test their hormones so, quote, they can get their
- 10:35Speaker 2: hormones looking a lot more like they were when they
- 10:37Speaker 2: were 30. Not only is that probably not the goal
- 10:39Speaker 2: we're shooting for, but unless you have significant hormone panel
- 10:43Speaker 2: information from when you were 30, there's no way of
- 10:45Speaker 2: using those numbers to figure out what 30 looked like
- 10:48Speaker 2: for you Now with that in mind, let's talk about
- 10:51Speaker 2: one of the most powerful marketing words in menopausal medicine. Bioidentical.
- 10:57Speaker 2: It sounds fantastic, right? Natural. Customized. Designed specifically for your body.
- 11:03Speaker 2: But here's where the language gets slippery. There are FDA-approved
- 11:07Speaker 2: hormones that are chemically identical to hormones produced in the
- 11:12Speaker 2: human body. So bioidentical does not inherently mean compounded. And
- 11:18Speaker 2: compounded does not inherently mean better. The ACOG recommends FDA-approved
- 11:23Speaker 2: menopausal hormone therapies over routinely compounded preparations when approved options exist.
- 11:31Speaker 2: Because compounded productions don't undergo the same FDA review for safety, effectiveness, quality, consistency,
- 11:40Speaker 2: and potency. Could there be legitimate reasons for compounding? Sure.
- 11:44Speaker 2: A patient may need a formulation that isn't commercially available.
- 11:47Speaker 2: And there might be an allergy or another specific medical reason.
- 11:50Speaker 2: But just note that custom is not always synonymous with superior.
- 11:54Speaker 2: And natural is not always synonymous with safe. Boys and
- 11:57Speaker 2: Ivy's natural too. So let's retire that argument. Does that
- 12:01Speaker 2: mean that everybody who uses the word bioidentical doesn't have
- 12:04Speaker 2: your best interest in mind?
- 12:05Speaker 1: No.
- 12:06Speaker 2: But I simply want you to understand when you're being
- 12:08Speaker 2: marketed to as opposed to strategized with. And that brings
- 12:11Speaker 2: me to another increasingly popular conversation. Testosterone. Women have testosterone too.
- 12:18Speaker 2: And there's evidence for testosterone therapy in a very specific area.
- 12:21Speaker 2: And if you've got kids listening, this is your fair
- 12:24Speaker 2: warning that this conversation would be better continued when they're
- 12:27Speaker 2: not around. Certain postmenopausal women wrestle with something called hypoactive
- 12:31Speaker 2: sexual desire disorder. And current International Menopause Society recommendations recognize
- 12:37Speaker 2: that there's evidence of benefit for appropriately selected postmenopausal women
- 12:42Speaker 2: with HSDD. Now that's very different from every tired woman
- 12:46Speaker 2: over 45 needs testosterone. Or your testosterone is low, so
- 12:50Speaker 2: let's insert a pellet. You'll lose some fat, build some muscle,
- 12:53Speaker 2: get your libido back, and have more energy while feeling
- 12:55Speaker 2: 25 again. Let's slow down a bit, huh? As of now,
- 12:59Speaker 2: there's no FDA-approved testosterone formulation specifically for menopausal symptoms in
- 13:06Speaker 2: women in the United States. And the ACOG has specifically
- 13:09Speaker 2: cautioned against testosterone pellet therapy. because of limited safety data
- 13:15Speaker 2: and the inability to simply remove the dose once the
- 13:17Speaker 2: pellet's been implanted. Testosterone truly might have a legitimate role.
- 13:22Speaker 2: That's exactly why it shouldn't be reduced to anti-aging marketing.
- 13:26Speaker 2: And that said, it's time to put our big girl
- 13:28Speaker 2: pants on and talk about sex. This part matters, and
- 13:32Speaker 2: we're not going to hide it. As estrogen declines, tissues
- 13:35Speaker 2: in and around the vaginal wall and the urinary tract
- 13:39Speaker 2: can change, and they might become thinner, drier, less elastic,
- 13:45Speaker 2: and lubrication can decrease. Sex can become uncomfortable or painful,
- 13:51Speaker 2: and urinary urgency might change as well. And some women
- 13:55Speaker 2: will experience more urinary tract infections also. Collectively, these changes
- 14:00Speaker 2: can fall under something called genitourinary syndrome of menopause, or GSM.
- 14:06Speaker 2: And here's the part I really want women to hear.
- 14:09Speaker 2: Painful sex is not simply the price you pay for
- 14:12Speaker 2: getting older. I need you to talk about this with
- 14:14Speaker 2: your medical professional. There are treatments. Lubricants and moisturizers might help,
- 14:19Speaker 2: and for some women, low-dose local vaginal estrogen or other
- 14:23Speaker 2: prescription therapies may be appropriate. Local estrogen is different from
- 14:27Speaker 2: systemic hormone therapy because it's designed primarily to treat tissues
- 14:32Speaker 2: locally rather than produce the same whole body exposure. But
- 14:35Speaker 2: before you can do all that, Somebody has to say something.
- 14:38Speaker 2: And this is one of those things that women can
- 14:40Speaker 2: suffer through for years because they're embarrassed. Please don't be.
- 14:46Speaker 2: I promise, your doctor has heard the word vagina before.
- 14:49Speaker 2: And you're not the first. Your sexual health is still health.
- 14:53Speaker 2: And it's worth what might feel like an awkward conversation. Remember,
- 14:57Speaker 2: there's no extra credit for extra suffering. And if you're
- 14:59Speaker 2: a husband listening, I want you to lean in. If
- 15:02Speaker 2: your wife tells you that sex hurts right now, I
- 15:05Speaker 2: need you to believe her. Don't interpret everything through she
- 15:07Speaker 2: doesn't want me anymore. There may be emotional or relational
- 15:11Speaker 2: issues that deserve attention, but there might be also actual
- 15:15Speaker 2: physical changes that are making intimacy uncomfortable. Compassion means becoming
- 15:21Speaker 2: curious instead of defensive. Be brave enough and patient enough
- 15:24Speaker 2: to ask, what's happening? What hurts? How can I love
- 15:29Speaker 2: you well through this? And wives, don't make him guess, please.
- 15:34Speaker 2: Silence creates stories. If sex hurts, tell him. If desire
- 15:39Speaker 2: has changed, talk about it. If your body feels different,
- 15:44Speaker 2: say that too. Please don't let lack of communication slowly
- 15:48Speaker 2: build a wall in your marriage that could actually be
- 15:51Speaker 2: addressed with honesty, patience, medical care, and understanding. Marriage requires adaptation.
- 15:59Speaker 2: Your bodies will change. Both of them. And love teaches us,
- 16:03Speaker 2: if we're willing, How to love the person standing right
- 16:07Speaker 2: in front of us right now. Not pining for who
- 16:09Speaker 2: they were at 28. You can do this. I believe
- 16:12Speaker 2: in you. Now I want to talk about sleep. Because
- 16:14Speaker 2: this may be one of the most underestimated issues in
- 16:17Speaker 2: this entire series. You're having night sweats. So you wake up.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Then you can't fall back asleep. Now you're exhausted tomorrow.
- 16:25Speaker 2: So training feels terrible and you move less. And you're hungrier.
- 16:29Speaker 2: You crave easier foods. Your patience is lower. Your marriage
- 16:33Speaker 2: feels harder. Your work suffers. And then evening arrives and
- 16:37Speaker 2: maybe you use alcohol or something else to wind down,
- 16:41Speaker 2: which can further disrupt your sleep. And then we repeat
- 16:44Speaker 2: the cycle. Do that occasionally? Yeah, that's pretty human. But
- 16:49Speaker 2: do that for three years? Now we have a serious problem.
- 16:53Speaker 2: Sleep problems become more common during perimenopause and menopause. And
- 16:57Speaker 2: hot flashes aren't the only possible cause. Insomnia. Mood disorders.
- 17:02Speaker 2: Restless legs. Sleep apnea. medications, alcohol, stress, and other health
- 17:09Speaker 2: conditions can all contribute. So don't automatically assume my hormones
- 17:14Speaker 2: are keeping me awake. There's really nothing I can do.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Let's start with the basics here. Maintain consistent sleep-wake times.
- 17:21Speaker 2: Make sure you're going to bed in a cool, dark bedroom.
- 17:24Speaker 2: Reduce your bright light and phone use around bedtime. Cut
- 17:28Speaker 2: off your caffeine intake by lunch. Don't let alcohol become
- 17:31Speaker 2: a habit every night. Train regularly and Get as much
- 17:33Speaker 2: daylight exposure as possible when the sun's up. And have
- 17:36Speaker 2: a wind-down routine. I know, it's all the boring stuff
- 17:39Speaker 2: everybody wants to skip while asking which magnesium formulation is best.
- 17:44Speaker 2: Do the boring stuff. But if you're doing all the
- 17:47Speaker 2: basics and you still can't sleep, it's time to get
- 17:49Speaker 2: some help. One of the things I see is that
- 17:52Speaker 2: some women try to supplement their way out of sleep apnea.
- 17:54Speaker 2: If you're snoring loudly and gasping and your spouse notices
- 17:58Speaker 2: that you're stopping breathing and you're waking with headaches... and
- 18:02Speaker 2: you're excessively sleepy through the day, please talk with a
- 18:06Speaker 2: healthcare professional about sleep apnea. I know a lot of
- 18:08Speaker 2: ladies think it's a guy problem, but women can develop
- 18:11Speaker 2: sleep apnea too. And you won't fix obstructive sleep apnea
- 18:14Speaker 2: with melatonin or lavender oil. Find out what's actually happening. Likewise,
- 18:19Speaker 2: if you have persistent insomnia or extreme difficulty falling asleep,
- 18:23Speaker 2: cognitive behavioral therapy can actually be really helpful with insomnia.
- 18:26Speaker 2: And in some situations, there may be medications that play
- 18:29Speaker 2: a role in helping. The ACOG specifically includes cognitive behavioral
- 18:33Speaker 2: therapy among treatment options for insomnia. Recognize the problem and
- 18:38Speaker 2: treat the problem you actually have. If you haven't noticed,
- 18:41Speaker 2: that's going to be the theme today. And did you
- 18:43Speaker 2: know that sometimes treating the hot flashes will help your sleep?
- 18:46Speaker 2: This is where systems thinking matters. Maybe your primary problem
- 18:49Speaker 2: with sleep isn't sleep hygiene. Maybe you're waking up because
- 18:52Speaker 2: you're having severe night sweats. In that case, treating the
- 18:56Speaker 2: vasomotor symptoms may actually improve sleep downstream. that could involve
- 19:02Speaker 2: hormone therapy. Or there are non-hormonal prescription options as well.
- 19:06Speaker 2: There are actually certain antidepressant medications that can reduce hot flashes.
- 19:10Speaker 2: There are some medical cases where gabapentin has helped women.
- 19:13Speaker 2: And just about every year it seems like there are
- 19:14Speaker 2: newer non-hormonal medications that are specifically targeting brain pathways that
- 19:20Speaker 2: help with temperature regulation. One current example, and I'm probably
- 19:23Speaker 2: going to pronounce this wrong, is Fezolinitin. In the pharmaceutical world,
- 19:26Speaker 2: it's sold as Vioza. It can actually reduce moderate to
- 19:30Speaker 2: severe menopausal hot flashes without estrogen. But, and this is
- 19:34Speaker 2: exactly why non-hormonal doesn't necessarily mean risk-free, the FDA also
- 19:39Speaker 2: added a box warning because of a rare risk of
- 19:43Speaker 2: serious liver injury and recommends liver testing around its use. Again,
- 19:47Speaker 2: there are options. Options have transplants. and that's medicine and
- 19:52Speaker 2: why these treatments need to be navigated with a professional
- 19:55Speaker 2: you trust. But here's a difficult one. Now we've talked
- 19:57Speaker 2: about physical symptoms, but what about mood? Some women describe
- 20:01Speaker 2: in perimenopause as, I just don't feel like myself. More anxious,
- 20:05Speaker 2: more irritable, less resilient, maybe tearful, maybe angry, maybe overwhelmed,
- 20:11Speaker 2: maybe all of them at the same time, or maybe
- 20:14Speaker 2: all of them at different times. Sleep deprivation itself can
- 20:17Speaker 2: contribute tremendously to this, but hormonal changes can contribute too.
- 20:22Speaker 2: And life circumstances matter at the time. Relationships matter, and
- 20:27Speaker 2: mental health conditions matter. So we need to stop doing
- 20:29Speaker 2: two things. First, we can't tell every woman that her
- 20:33Speaker 2: emotions are just, quote, hormones. This is dismissive and oftentimes cruel.
- 20:39Speaker 2: And second, We can't pretend that hormones and sleep could
- 20:42Speaker 2: never influence our emotional health. That's equally silly. If your
- 20:48Speaker 2: mood has substantially changed, especially if it's interfering with your work, relationships,
- 20:55Speaker 2: daily functioning, or your sense of hope, you need to
- 20:58Speaker 2: articulate that to somebody. That's appropriate with a physician, a counselor,
- 21:04Speaker 2: maybe a mental health professional. And whatever the appropriate next
- 21:08Speaker 2: step is, You're not weak because you need help. Satan
- 21:11Speaker 2: operates in the darkness. So our best bet is always
- 21:14Speaker 2: to bring these things to the light. Now I'd be
- 21:16Speaker 2: remiss if we didn't at least talk a bit about peptides.
- 21:19Speaker 2: Because I know somebody's been listening to this whole series
- 21:21Speaker 2: waiting for this one. Coach, what about peptides? Here's my answer.
- 21:26Speaker 2: Which peptide? Because peptide is not a treatment. It's a
- 21:30Speaker 2: chemical category. Saying I take peptides is a little bit
- 21:34Speaker 2: like saying I take chemicals. Okay, which ones? For what?
- 21:39Speaker 2: At what dose? Approved by whom? For what condition? What's
- 21:44Speaker 2: the evidence? What are the risks? Who's manufacturing your peptide?
- 21:48Speaker 2: There are peptide-based medications with very strong evidence for specific
- 21:53Speaker 2: medical uses. But there are also substances being marketed through
- 21:56Speaker 2: wellness clinics and online as anti-aging peptides, fat loss peptides,
- 22:03Speaker 2: healing peptides, growth hormone peptides, menopause peptides. And there the
- 22:07Speaker 2: evidence ranges from preliminary, to poor, to virtually non-existent. And
- 22:14Speaker 2: here's my recommendation. Do not confuse biological plausibility with clinical proof.
- 22:21Speaker 2: Just because we understand a biological pathway and think we
- 22:25Speaker 2: understand how we can manipulate that pathway doesn't mean that
- 22:29Speaker 2: doing so will improve your life safely. We're speaking specifically
- 22:33Speaker 2: to the Instagram crowd just because a mouse regenerated some
- 22:36Speaker 2: tissue after receiving an injection. doesn't mean it's right for
- 22:39Speaker 2: you to inject it into your abdomen after ordering it
- 22:42Speaker 2: from a website. Currently, the FDA continues to take enforcement
- 22:45Speaker 2: action against sellers marketing certain unapproved peptide products. And injectable
- 22:51Speaker 2: unapproved products create additional concerns because sterility, quality, purity, dose,
- 22:57Speaker 2: and safety all matter enormously when you're putting something directly
- 23:01Speaker 2: into your body. It's the Wild West out there. And
- 23:04Speaker 2: many peptide treatments make you a lab rat. So when
- 23:08Speaker 2: someone says, this peptide increases growth hormone, okay, what's the
- 23:13Speaker 2: outcome we're trying to improve? Did it actually improve in
- 23:17Speaker 2: people like you? And at what cost? What were the
- 23:21Speaker 2: adverse events? Do we know any long-term outcomes? And on
- 23:25Speaker 2: the flip side, is there a current FDA-approved treatment with
- 23:28Speaker 2: better evidence? Those are the questions worth asking. And while
- 23:32Speaker 2: we're here, Let's separate another category because people sometimes lump
- 23:36Speaker 2: everything together under peptides. Drugs such as semaglutide and trisepatide
- 23:41Speaker 2: act on peptide hormone pathways and can be extremely effective
- 23:45Speaker 2: medications for appropriately selected people with obesity, diabetes, and other
- 23:51Speaker 2: approved indications. But they're not menopause treatments. That is to say, Ozempic, Wagovi, Manjaro,
- 23:58Speaker 2: a woman might be in menopause and also a candidate
- 24:02Speaker 2: for one of these medications. But those are two different statements.
- 24:05Speaker 2: One of my concerns right now, especially for women in
- 24:08Speaker 2: this season, is preserving muscle while the weight's coming off.
- 24:13Speaker 2: If somebody's using a weight loss medication and rapidly losing
- 24:17Speaker 2: weight while eating very little protein and doing no resistance training,
- 24:22Speaker 2: we need to talk about what else she's losing along
- 24:24Speaker 2: with the fat. Remember the whole series. Keep what matters.
- 24:30Speaker 2: Muscle matters. Strength matters. Bone matters. So if medical weight
- 24:35Speaker 2: management becomes part of your strategy, nutrition and resistance training
- 24:40Speaker 2: become even more important, not less. And please, let's distinguish
- 24:45Speaker 2: FDA-approved medications obtained through legitimate medical care from unapproved or
- 24:51Speaker 2: compounded products marketed as though they're identical but aren't. At
- 24:55Speaker 2: the time of this recording, the FDA has recently intensified
- 24:59Speaker 2: warnings and enforcement around misleading marketing of non-FDA compounded GLP-1 products.
- 25:05Speaker 2: And I don't see that changing anytime soon. So here
- 25:07Speaker 2: are the questions I want you to ask about every
- 25:10Speaker 2: new possible treatment. This is the framework. You see something online,
- 25:16Speaker 2: a hormone pellet, a supplement, a peptide, an injection, an herb,
- 25:20Speaker 2: an IV, a wearable red light device, whatever's coming next.
- 25:26Speaker 2: And you ask, what problem am I actually trying to solve?
- 25:31Speaker 2: Then you can ask, what evidence shows that this intervention
- 25:36Speaker 2: improves that problem? Then, what are the risks? Then, is
- 25:43Speaker 2: there a simple or better established intervention that I haven't
- 25:47Speaker 2: done yet? And then finally, who financially benefits from convincing
- 25:53Speaker 2: me that I need this? Now, that last question doesn't
- 25:56Speaker 2: automatically invalidate something. Doctors get paid. Coaches get paid. Pharmaceutical
- 26:02Speaker 2: companies get paid. Supplement companies can get paid. Everyone has incentives.
- 26:08Speaker 2: The existence of money doesn't prove deception. But the incentives
- 26:12Speaker 2: really matter. I need you to know who's selling you what.
- 26:15Speaker 2: Whenever someone tells you that they've discovered the secret that
- 26:17Speaker 2: mainstream medicine, every major professional medical organization, and thousands of
- 26:22Speaker 2: researchers somehow missed, that's a sign to slow down. I
- 26:25Speaker 2: don't want you to be cynical. I just want you
- 26:27Speaker 2: to be really difficult to fool. That said, this brings
- 26:30Speaker 2: me to another trend that I need to talk about.
- 26:33Speaker 2: Stop optimizing things that aren't broken. This is one of
- 26:37Speaker 2: my broader concerns with the entire longevity and optimization movement.
- 26:40Speaker 2: You can become so obsessed with optimizing your biology that
- 26:44Speaker 2: you actually stop living. Blood tests every month. 20 supplements.
- 26:49Speaker 2: 5 injections. Every bite tracked. Every heartbeat monitored. Your sleep score,
- 26:55Speaker 2: your recovery score, your glucose score, your hormone score. And suddenly,
- 27:00Speaker 2: you're supposedly doing all this to live better. But your
- 27:02Speaker 2: entire life is spent monitoring whether or not you're living correctly.
- 27:05Speaker 2: There's a place for data. It can teach us things.
- 27:08Speaker 2: I love data. You know that about me. I measure things,
- 27:11Speaker 2: I learn, I adjust. But I don't become a slave
- 27:15Speaker 2: to measurements. And I don't want you to either. Sometimes
- 27:19Speaker 2: the goal is just to go hiking with your husband.
- 27:22Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just play with your grandchildren or serve at church.
- 27:25Speaker 2: Lift something heavy, eat dinner with friends, laugh, sleep, wake up,
- 27:30Speaker 2: and then thank God for another day. I know a
- 27:32Speaker 2: lady whose sleep score was making her life intolerable. She
- 27:35Speaker 2: had actually significantly improved her sleep, but her stupid Garmin
- 27:38Speaker 2: was telling her that her sleep score was still garbage.
- 27:40Speaker 2: And it was really messing with her head. She had
- 27:42Speaker 2: gone from getting four and six hours of sleep to
- 27:44Speaker 2: getting a regular 7 and 8, and waking up feeling
- 27:47Speaker 2: refreshed until she checked her watch, which for some reason
- 27:50Speaker 2: was telling her that her sleep score had only improved
- 27:53Speaker 2: from a 48 to a 58, and all she saw
- 27:55Speaker 2: was that she was still failing. I had her take
- 27:57Speaker 2: a break from her watch for about a week, and
- 27:59Speaker 2: it was crazy how much more energy she reported having
- 28:02Speaker 2: in the morning. After the week was over, she was
- 28:04Speaker 2: so excited to put her watch back on and see
- 28:06Speaker 2: that she had improved her sleep, but what she found,
- 28:08Speaker 2: for whatever reason, is that her sleep score was still
- 28:11Speaker 2: very low, despite sleeping a long time, feeling really good
- 28:14Speaker 2: about it, and having great energy in the morning. And
- 28:17Speaker 2: while it was a hard decision, we ultimately decided to
- 28:20Speaker 2: stop wearing the stupid garment altogether. Because while it served
- 28:22Speaker 2: its purpose in helping her focus on improving her sleep,
- 28:25Speaker 2: she had begun to put too much worth in a
- 28:28Speaker 2: number that actually didn't reflect the improvements she'd already made
- 28:31Speaker 2: and how she actually felt about it. Ultimately, what do
- 28:34Speaker 2: we want to see? A change in the data or
- 28:36Speaker 2: a change in our body? Don't become a slave to measurements.
- 28:40Speaker 2: Health is supposed to increase your capacity to live. It's
- 28:43Speaker 2: not supposed to become your life. Now, I know we've
- 28:46Speaker 2: said a lot so far, so let's make this really practical.
- 28:49Speaker 2: When should a woman stop saying, I'll just manage this myself,
- 28:53Speaker 2: and start the conversation with a healthcare professional? Certainly, if
- 28:56Speaker 2: symptoms are significantly affecting your quality of life, and if
- 29:00Speaker 2: you're having severe or frequent hot flashes, if sleep disruption
- 29:04Speaker 2: is persistent, if mood changes are concerning, if sexual pain
- 29:09Speaker 2: or urinary tract symptoms are interfering with your life, if
- 29:12Speaker 2: you're concerned about bone health or experiencing regular injuries, or
- 29:15Speaker 2: if you're experiencing any of these paramenopausal or menopausal symptoms
- 29:19Speaker 2: unusually young, and definitely if you're experiencing excessive or abnormal bleeding.
- 29:24Speaker 2: Don't hide these things. Don't wait because you're embarrassed. Don't
- 29:27Speaker 2: diagnose yourself from a podcast. Make the appointment. And while
- 29:31Speaker 2: I'm at it, I'm going to say something else here.
- 29:33Speaker 2: Sometimes women tell me, I brought this up to my
- 29:36Speaker 2: doctor and they basically told me it was normal. Okay,
- 29:39Speaker 2: it may be normal, but that doesn't answer the question.
- 29:42Speaker 2: Can anything be done about it? Normal things can still
- 29:45Speaker 2: be miserable. Childbirth's normal. Kidney stones happen naturally. I don't
- 29:51Speaker 2: think anybody says, well, that's just part of the human experience.
- 29:54Speaker 2: Good luck. You're allowed to ask questions. What are my options?
- 29:59Speaker 2: What are the benefits? What are the risks? Are there
- 30:01Speaker 2: non-hormonal options? Would local treatment make sense? Do I have
- 30:06Speaker 2: any contraindications to hormone therapy? Can something else be causing this?
- 30:13Speaker 2: Should I be screened for osteoporosis? Is it possible I
- 30:16Speaker 2: have sleep apnea? Is this bleeding pattern concerning? These are
- 30:20Speaker 2: all reasonable questions. And if you have a clinician, who
- 30:24Speaker 2: won't engage you with reasonable questions, then it's appropriate to
- 30:27Speaker 2: seek another qualified opinion. Now, I'm not asking you to
- 30:30Speaker 2: find somebody who simply tells you whatever you want to hear.
- 30:32Speaker 2: That's not good medicine either. But you need a partner
- 30:35Speaker 2: in this process. Someone competent enough to tell you yes, no, maybe,
- 30:41Speaker 2: and here's why. And guys, I got one final section
- 30:43Speaker 2: for you. We've talked throughout this series about compassion. Now
- 30:47Speaker 2: I want to add action. Sometimes your wife is going
- 30:51Speaker 2: to be so tired of dealing with something She stops
- 30:54Speaker 2: trying to solve it. Maybe she's embarrassed. Maybe she's convinced
- 30:59Speaker 2: that nobody listens. Maybe she's spent years taking care of
- 31:03Speaker 2: everybody else and simply keeps putting herself last. I need
- 31:06Speaker 2: you to encourage her. Not, what's wrong with you? How
- 31:09Speaker 2: about we try, you've been dealing with this for a while.
- 31:13Speaker 2: I think you deserve some help with it. Offer to
- 31:16Speaker 2: go to the appointment if she's willing. Help her to
- 31:19Speaker 2: write down questions beforehand. Take care of whatever needs taking
- 31:23Speaker 2: care of so that she can prioritize her health. And
- 31:26Speaker 2: when she starts treatment, whether that's changing her training or nutrition,
- 31:30Speaker 2: or beginning a new medication, or starting hormone therapy, or
- 31:34Speaker 2: seeing a counselor, or treating sleep apnea, don't expect everything
- 31:38Speaker 2: to change overnight. Walk with her through it. That's marriage.
- 31:44Speaker 2: Sometimes you're the strong one. Sometimes she's the strong one.
- 31:49Speaker 2: And sometimes you just carry each other. But this isn't
- 31:51Speaker 2: just her problem. This is something you can walk with
- 31:54Speaker 2: her through. Again, I believe in you. And now ladies,
- 31:58Speaker 2: some of you are very good at taking care of everybody.
- 32:01Speaker 2: You can organize the entire household and lead the team
- 32:04Speaker 2: and feed the family and care for your parents and
- 32:06Speaker 2: serve at church. Show up for your friends. Quietly fall
- 32:10Speaker 2: apart yourself. There's no medal for that. Let somebody help you.
- 32:16Speaker 2: Tell your husband what's happening. Tell your friend. Tell your doctor.
- 32:19Speaker 2: Tell your coach. Tell somebody. You don't have to turn
- 32:22Speaker 2: menopause into your identity. But you also don't have to
- 32:25Speaker 2: pretend that it isn't affecting you. Bring it into the light.
- 32:30Speaker 2: That's what this entire series has been all about. When
- 32:33Speaker 2: I started this series, my goal was to inform you.
- 32:38Speaker 2: But not only to inform you. I also wanted to
- 32:41Speaker 2: inspire you and empower you to take action. Because knowledge
- 32:45Speaker 2: without action is just trivia. So after four episodes, here's
- 32:49Speaker 2: what I hope you understand. From part one, your body's changing,
- 32:55Speaker 2: but you're not broken. From part two, train it, get strong,
- 33:01Speaker 2: preserve muscle, load your bones, and keep your cardiovascular system capable.
- 33:08Speaker 2: From part three, you gotta nourish yourself. Feed the best
- 33:13Speaker 2: in you, protein, plants, enough food, appropriate energy balance and
- 33:18Speaker 2: stop punishing yourself. And today in part four, get help
- 33:23Speaker 2: when help is warranted. Use medicine intelligently and in partnership
- 33:29Speaker 2: with a practitioner you trust. Treat your sleep seriously. Talk
- 33:35Speaker 2: about sexual health. Be discerning about hormones and supplements and
- 33:40Speaker 2: peptides and every other promise that somebody's trying to sell you.
- 33:44Speaker 2: And through all four parts, Remember that your value has
- 33:48Speaker 2: never depended on you staying young. We started this series
- 33:51Speaker 2: in Proverbs 31. And I want to end there too.
- 33:56Speaker 2: Strength and dignity are her clothing. And she laughs at
- 34:01Speaker 2: the time to come. Think about that picture. Not denial,
- 34:06Speaker 2: not fear, not desperation. Not somebody chasing youth because she
- 34:11Speaker 2: believes her best years are disappearing behind her. And that
- 34:14Speaker 2: means her value is disappearing with them. Strength. Dignity. And
- 34:21Speaker 2: a confidence toward the future. That doesn't mean the future
- 34:25Speaker 2: is easy. She can laugh at the days to come
- 34:29Speaker 2: because she knows who holds them. There are things about
- 34:33Speaker 2: aging that we will not control. There are losses that
- 34:36Speaker 2: we will not prevent. Eventually, all of us are going
- 34:40Speaker 2: to discover the limits of what exercise, nutrition, and hormones, medicine,
- 34:45Speaker 2: and every other health intervention can accomplish. This body is temporary.
- 34:51Speaker 2: That's Christian theology too. We don't worship physical health. We
- 34:56Speaker 2: steward it. And there's an enormous difference. My goal for
- 35:01Speaker 2: you is not immortality. My goal isn't that somehow you
- 35:05Speaker 2: hack your biology well enough to avoid every evidence of age.
- 35:10Speaker 2: My goal is that you take whatever years God entrusts
- 35:13Speaker 2: to you, and you show up for him. Strong when
- 35:19Speaker 2: you can be strong, wise when circumstances change, humble enough
- 35:23Speaker 2: to ask for help, and grateful for what your body
- 35:27Speaker 2: can still do. Faithful in the season that you're actually
- 35:31Speaker 2: in right now. And maybe that's the final thing I
- 35:33Speaker 2: want to leave you with. We tend to talk about
- 35:36Speaker 2: menopause in the language of endings. The end of fertility,
- 35:39Speaker 2: the end of menstruation. the end of a particular reproductive chapter,
- 35:44Speaker 2: when those things are true. But I wonder how many
- 35:47Speaker 2: women need somebody to remind them. The ending of something
- 35:52Speaker 2: is not the same thing as the end. God willing,
- 35:56Speaker 2: you might have another 30 years, 40 years, maybe more.
- 36:01Speaker 2: Think about that. Only God knows the decades of life
- 36:03Speaker 2: you still have. Decades of serving, leading, mentoring, traveling. building, teaching, loving,
- 36:16Speaker 2: training and praying, giving and becoming. There may be women
- 36:20Speaker 2: younger than you who desperately need the wisdom that you
- 36:24Speaker 2: haven't even finished developing yet. There may be grandchildren that
- 36:28Speaker 2: you haven't met. There may be ministries that you haven't started.
- 36:33Speaker 2: There may be adventures you still have yet to take.
- 36:37Speaker 2: There might be work that God has for you that
- 36:40Speaker 2: he hasn't even shown you yet. So no, we're not
- 36:43Speaker 2: going quietly into some second half. We're going intentionally. God's
- 36:48Speaker 2: not done with you yet. Well, now we've spent four
- 36:50Speaker 2: episodes together. And maybe you learned something about menopause. Maybe
- 36:54Speaker 2: you learned something about training. Maybe your nutrition suddenly makes
- 36:58Speaker 2: a little more sense. Or maybe something I said about
- 37:01Speaker 2: sleep hit really close to home. It's also possible that
- 37:04Speaker 2: you realized that there's a conversation you need to have
- 37:07Speaker 2: with your doctor. Or maybe your biggest realization was simply this.
- 37:11Speaker 2: that you haven't been stewarding yourself very well lately. And
- 37:13Speaker 2: if that's you, I don't want your response to this
- 37:15Speaker 2: series to be, oh, well, I guess I need to
- 37:17Speaker 2: fix everything. You don't. You need to figure out what
- 37:22Speaker 2: deserves your attention first. That's why my invitation right now,
- 37:26Speaker 2: at the end of this series, is very simple. Take
- 37:28Speaker 2: the Faithful Fitness Assessment. I built it to help you
- 37:31Speaker 2: step back and look at your health through four lenses. Integrity.
- 37:36Speaker 2: Are your actions actually aligned with what you say you value?
- 37:40Speaker 1: Grit.
- 37:41Speaker 2: How well are you continuing when things become difficult? Growth.
- 37:47Speaker 2: Are you appropriately challenging your body and building greater capacity?
- 37:52Speaker 2: And awe. Is your pursuit of health still rooted in gratitude, worship,
- 37:57Speaker 2: and stewardship? Or has fear, shame, and vanity, or even control,
- 38:03Speaker 2: started to drive the process? You'll answer a series of
- 38:07Speaker 2: questions and receive a personal report. And instead of leaving
- 38:10Speaker 2: you with a score and saying, hey, good luck, your
- 38:13Speaker 2: assessment also includes your seat in our next live Faithful
- 38:17Speaker 2: Fitness workshop. That's where we'll take the information and turn
- 38:22Speaker 2: it into action. We'll talk through what your results mean.
- 38:26Speaker 2: We'll identify what actually deserves your attention. And you'll have
- 38:30Speaker 2: the opportunity to ask your personal questions. Most importantly, you'll
- 38:34Speaker 2: leave with a greater clarity about your next faithful step.
- 38:38Speaker 2: The assessment, the report, And the seat in our seminar, $ 7. 99.
- 38:43Speaker 2: Not because I believe $ 7. 99 is going to solve your health.
- 38:47Speaker 2: It can't. It's because I want the barrier to getting
- 38:51Speaker 2: clarity to be incredibly low here. So if you've listened
- 38:55Speaker 2: to four episodes about menopause and you're thinking, Alex, I
- 38:58Speaker 2: do understand more, but I don't know where I need
- 39:01Speaker 2: to begin. Begin there. Go to faithfulfitness.co slash assessment. Take
- 39:08Speaker 2: the assessment. read your report, and come join me live
- 39:12Speaker 2: for the next workshop because you probably don't need more
- 39:14Speaker 2: random information. You need to understand your situation well enough
- 39:19Speaker 2: to make a wise decision about what comes next. Again,
- 39:22Speaker 2: the links in the show notes, faithfulfitness.co slash assessment. So
- 39:26Speaker 2: if you're in the season right now, bring it into
- 39:29Speaker 2: the light. Train the body you have. Nourish it well. Sleep.
- 39:35Speaker 2: Ask questions. Seek treatment when you need it. Be skeptical
- 39:40Speaker 2: of magic. Stay open to good medicine. Let people love you.
- 39:46Speaker 2: Keep getting stronger. And stop measuring the potential of the
- 39:50Speaker 2: years ahead by the body you had in the years behind.
- 39:55Speaker 2: May strength and dignity be your clothing. And may you
- 39:59Speaker 2: laugh at the years to come. There's still work to do.
- 40:03Speaker 2: There's still people to love. There's still a kingdom to serve.
- 40:08Speaker 2: And by the grace of God, there's so much life
- 40:11Speaker 2: still left for you to live. Thanks for walking through
- 40:14Speaker 2: menopause in the light with me. I hope to see
- 40:15Speaker 2: you at our next workshop. Until then, This has been
- 40:19Speaker 2: Coach Alex Van Houten on the Faithful Fitness Podcast. Train hard,
- 40:25Speaker 2: but pray harder.
- 40:29Speaker 1: What's up, Faithful? This episode helped you. Share it with
- 40:32Speaker 1: someone who needs to hear it. And don't forget to
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- 40:39Speaker 1: Faithful Fitness. My dad's devotional, Faithful Fitness, is available now.
- 40:46Speaker 1: And you can join our faithful fitness community by clicking
- 40:50Speaker 1: the links in the show notes. We all have a
- 40:52Speaker 1: cross to carry, but it's lighter when we do it together.
- 40:57Speaker 1: See you later, alligator. But until then, train hard and
- 41:02Speaker 1: pray even harder.