Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person — And How to Finally Break the Pattern

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi · Dec 22, 2025 · 26m

You are smart. You are self-aware. You have done enough reflection to know exactly what you do not want. And you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship anyway. That is not bad luck. It is an unconscious pattern — in who you are drawn to, what you overlook early on, and how you show up in the beginning before needs get communicated and reality sets in. Sandra Myers is the founder of Select Date Society and has spent her career working specifically with high-achieving people who are excellent at almost everything and somehow still stuck in the same relational loop. What she shares…