EP 656: Decentering Men Without Devaluing Them (+ The Summer House Drama, Explained)

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice · Jun 1, 2026 · 29m

Y'all, we need to talk about decentering men, what it actually means, why it matters for your nervous system, and how to do it from a place of secure attachment instead of anger or bitterness.

Here's the thing: decentering men is NOT devaluing them. I am so tired of the "all men are trash, stay single forever" messaging, that pendulum has swung way too far. Decentering men means taking them off the pedestal, breaking the habit of outsourcing your self-worth to male attention, and finally becoming the main character of your own life, whether you're single, dating, or married.

In this episode…